goblinkate Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told.		goblinkate	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 09:19 AM
16	Fake flowers vs real flowers	LIFESTYLE	goblinkate	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:40 AM

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2	Recurring guilt Ah you're welcomed :D glad I could help. I overshare sometimes still, we all do. It is a learning curve but I wish you a lot of success. Kudos for wanting to overcome this and reflecting! You go girl!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/22 11:30 AM
5	Recurring guilt Okay. I struggled with worry with oversharing a lot as well, because I did generally overshare a lot in past. So here's my two cents. First of all the situation, you described - trust goes both ways, remember that. You trusted someone with something you needed insight on and that person betrayed your trust by sharing that something with someone uninvolved. She was your and your SO's good friend and therefore you had no reason NOT to trust her, look at it from this point of a view. This was not y…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/22 06:57 AM
2	Fake flowers vs real flowers oooh haven't heard that one. I'll try it next time I'm getting roses.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 04:56 PM
5	Fake flowers vs real flowers We don't have more space, sadly. In the future, I will, but since the future is unsure at the moment (I'm Europe based)... anyways, there's only space for our good old hydrangea bush. My grandfather planted them decades ago, they are blue and purple naturally, which is rare.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/22 09:51 AM
5	Would you be interested in an online magazine/blog that focuses of femininity, girly-girl, old Hollywood, elegance tips, beauty, etc? I figured that this would be a good place to ask. If so…what topics would you like to see in it? Thanks! Yes! If you'd need any help, too, I'd be gladly on your team! I graduated in Fashion design so I could pull a few articles off, in my spare time. I had some blogs in past in my first language (English being my second...) so I'm not new to writing articles and having deadlines, but I'm too busy these days to be a blogger on my own. It'd be amazing to have a magazine/blog that focuses on modern beauty and lifestyle for young generations of classy sorta substance. It's unclaimed territory, I think!…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/21 09:23 AM
2	Bullet journaling Extremely! However much I need analog and love paper, Digital journal is really practical to copy and paste media into. I'm planning on making sort of a mood board for my developing fashion style. You can also add links to websites and stuff, which is cool as well.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/21 01:05 PM
2	Bullet journaling I bullet journal in a digital ring-binder (google "digital planner goodnotes") - it keeps me on top of my time, using the classical bullet journal system. The square box is a to-do, like a task, a rounded one is a reminder, for me. I've got vertical weekly spread in use the most, with hours on a side, so I colour code my schedule and put work task down next to the "at work" line and after work task either before or after to differentiate between the two. I used to bullet journal in a regular A5 …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/21 12:32 PM
2	How different it feels to dress feminine I wore mine with a milk tea-coloured sweater at home so far, but I'm planning on wearing them with collar shirts and dresses in summer. I thought of buying some good fakes cheep off china first to try the outfits at home and then order real ones, but then I stumbled upon river set with a reasonable price and thought, you know, what the hell. Couldn't be happier.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/21 12:33 PM
2	How different it feels to dress feminine Get pearls! I hesitated for a long time because I thought I wouldn't wear them as often as I'd like but the first week I bought them I wore them every day just around the house because they are so amazing.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/21 12:24 PM
12	How different it feels to dress feminine I've always been a tomboy and never owned a "girl's purse" in my entire life until a few years back when I began dealing with my problems and began feeling comfortable in doing girly things and dressing up more feminine. I got myself my first set of pearls last month (river pearls, uneven and really beautiful) and I'm really excited about dressing feminine and elegant these days. I can still change a car tire and replace a battery in my motorbike if no-one is going to do that for me, but (/and?)…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/21 10:47 AM
2	Has anybody been banned in other subs for participating in this one? Yep, and I didn't even try to post or comment on anything, they just found me and blocked me. I wrote the mods a respectful message about how I think what they're doing is important but that the decision is unfair and never got a reply.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/21 10:16 AM
2	What happened to this sub? It used to be about improvment Please don't get me wrong - what I mean is that there's a robotic and augmented undertone to "waiting at the doors". If you're excited to see your husband when he comes home, then, by all means, show that by going to wait at the doors when you see him pull over to the house. Surely, I would if the timing was right, but should you do that every day? Wouldn't it make you feel a little bit like a maid? The thing I'm concerned about is balance. Welcoming gesture can be less staged than waiting at th…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/21 08:19 AM
5	What happened to this sub? It used to be about improvment I noticed this as well and I'm the new member who is still somewhat unsure and building the full picture in my head of what RDW means exactly, so I got alarmed over a few posts thinking I might have had made quite the mistake when joining in on discussion and such. Mostly because I was recently blocked from another sub that I like and think is important because of my participation in RDW - and I thought, you know, what for? This? Honestly, I'm glad that this is something pointed out here as not …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/21 07:41 PM
4	My post was deleted from r/offmychest because I post on r/redpillwomen What, who or what are we supposed to hate through, was there like... a newsletter I missed? (Satire)	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/21 09:25 PM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Oh I see. Well - been there, done that and I'm not looking for another. As for my personal life being mixed with professional, it's a bit harder, because my family has a long history within the field that I'm working in, so... I was basically born into it? Work is what we talk about at home, always have, always will. But - I do maintain some personal life outside that too, completely separate. That's why I disagreed with the other person in the comments here. I'm not confusing my coworkers with …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/21 01:31 PM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Right, thanks :) And... I think I don't understand - like I get the meaning of the saying but I don't see the connection with my situation...	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/21 06:16 AM
2	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. I should have had written -late 20'- and not just -20'-, now that I think about my post :D but to tell the truth, people usually type me younger than I am so it doesn't matter. Yes, you're right, boys do mature later (I know why, too) - and the good thing is that the humor doesn't leave them even when they actually grow up. They just get a little wiser, I guess. Also, collective stupidity is a thing mostly attributed to men - if four bros go out to eat, they sure as hell will choose the spiciest…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/21 07:28 AM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. I got told that men my age are intimidated, I don't get it either. I can tell art those who are put off by something about me and I'm okay with that but as I said - I don't understand that either and I guess it comes from dressing better and taking care of myself. Hence the post. thank you for your imput.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/01/21 05:58 PM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Right? Dress the way you want to be treated.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/21 12:37 PM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. I didn't take offense, in my experience we all tend to glorify our good side and ignore the dark one.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 03:48 PM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. However, if you are intentionally standing out from the crowd to be above them (not saying you’re doing this but it’s possible), others will notice and think you’re alienating them. I did think about this particular thing A LOT, mostly because I've always been the outsider wherever I was and it always bothered me. The safest place is in the middle, I can vouch for that. Only recently, like a few years back, I began not caring where I stand and whether I actually fit and I stopped doing things ju…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 06:08 AM
2	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Yeah! Use the good stuff! Dress for the occasion, obviously, but do it well. I'm also strongly against the idea of wearing rags around the house or sleeping in old falling apart t-shirts.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 05:53 AM
1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Journaling about it is a good idea, thanks for the prompt - I think I'll do that just to write what I concluded already down. Perhaps I'll find something more, who knows? Good advice. The idea that I am a bit of a bitch already crossed my mind, I did worry about it too. Nobody wants to be the villain of the story, even though we sometimes are.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 05:49 AM
-1	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. I disagree with both of your statements.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/21 05:45 AM
3	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. That was like my.. maybe second thought :D but I don't want to fall into the "They're just jealous" mentality in case there is something I should be paying attention to, IDK. Thank, through. I know I do take care of myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 04:05 PM
7	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. Yeah well that's my thoughts exactly - I don't want to dress and dumb myself down to attract a man, my age or not, in order to have my persona or relationship socially acceptable or consented. I do believe myself somewhat traditional, but for my own sake, not society. Important to mention, I guess, is that I'm not looking for a relationship, or I'm not actively pursuing a romantic relationship within either of the groups, this is purely a concern of friendship and standing.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 03:29 PM
2	man my age (20') are scared of me, I was told. I value the input, don't worry about sounding unkind. Honestly, I try to fit in with my age group and coworkers of same /similar status, and I do, with some - but I feel more like their behaviour towards me caused me to take myself out of the general group, but it can go hand in hand I guess. I'm not sure I understand your last sentence (English is my second language, so that's my fault entirely), but if you're saying that I shouldn't be convinced that the crowd believes I'm above them then that…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/21 03:18 PM
7	How to stand up for myself in a feminine manner? (From random rude strangers) If a person is rude to you without any prior conversation, you can ignore them, like don't even show that you hear them, that whatever they are saying is affecting you in any way, don't raise your head, don't change your manner, nothing: if they continue then and draw the attention of others, remember they are drawing attention to their rudeness, not you yourself. You can also walk out and that's okay - at this point, they made a fool of themselves so you are leaving the situation as the strong …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/20 06:13 AM