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False Accusationgoblitovfiyah/r/MensRights02/04/20 03:19 AM
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Woman here Body count over 300 Been trying to get with this guy for last 2 months and finally did 2 weeks ago, I was sucking his dick thinking omg I could so do this for the rest of my life. Never found someone I'm so compatible with I hope I do get to fuck him for the rest of my life 🤭 from my body count, most of it was terrible or mediocre sex. If anything I can really really appreciate good sex when I come across it. So hard to find someone that ticks all your boxes.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 02:09 AM
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If it helps, I'm a woman lurker and I've never had a thing for white guys, all my exes were some sort of mixed or other race. It's just personal preference, I can embrace that caucasian men are gorgeous without feeling any sort of attraction on my end. Although my latest crush is white-passing so who knows, race isn't everything.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 11:21 AM
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I'll have to politely disagree with you, Noone is perfect, however Amber has been shown to be the aggressor in all of their arguments and altercations. Like Johnny said, he was in love with the idea of her and not her real personality. She has serious mental issues and has committed multiple instances of perjury and hopefully will now be held accountable for that. I myself am a victim of someone just like Amber- , she charmed everyone around us so they didn't believe I was getting abused by her.…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 07:56 AM
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My boyfriend is in no way a red piller, But I left my job making NZD$3000 a week to get back with him on the condition he helps me a bit with finances for a few months until I free up to work a normal job, which he was fine with. We had an argument a few weeks ago and he implied I was using him for his money. I don't understand, I was making 3000 a week, and went to nothing to be with him. I lost money more than anything by dating him yet somehow there's still that sexist notion that because I'm…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/22 07:01 AM
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I'm a woman so I hope I'm allowed to comment my experience here, But i used tinder to look for friends/potential relationship and my anecdotal experience was this: I was very picky with who I liked. They had to have a bio stating something interesting about them. I also noticed that when I had a normal photo of me without makeup and just chillin i had less matches compared to when i was done up with makeup. If I did like them, maybe around half matched with me, and of those half I'd say most mes…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 04:44 PM
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I agree with all except the false rape allegation one. I feel this is a serious issue and it often goes unreported. I am a woman myself but the amount of times my friends have told me they experienced a partner threatening them with a false rape allegation is too much. And it's a terrifying thought - doing nothing wrong and having your life, career, and relationships stolen from you because a crazy person decided to accuse you of rape. Personally I believe this is an issue that seriously needs t…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 10:33 AM
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I been with my bf for about 18 months now. He is definitely one of the most sensitive people I know to the point where i kind of have to watch what i say but that's fine I don't mind. He told me he has watched twilight 50 times, he cries during movies, he is such a softie when it comes to our pet cat and just in general really. But it's fine I don't feel any less attracted to him, I love it cause to me it means he feels like he can open up and be himself around me because he definitely puts on a…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 09:04 PM
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Yes that's what I meant in my comment c:
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 11:39 PM
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Might want to edit the pronouns in the beginning because I was confused as heck But you're right. I'm a woman, and atm my bf is unemployed while I'm self employed. I keep telling him it's fine I can pay the bills while he studies but he won't. Let. Me. I'm assuming because some internalized misandry where he thinks he has to "provide" or some bs. I look forward to the day where we can freely depend on one another whether it be emotionally, physically, financially regardless of gender. It's nice …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/20 11:52 AM
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Some women do look for that but I'm referring to good women that you would want to build a relationship with. Why on earth would you want to date a shallow gold digger
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 10:16 PM
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Most good women I know tend to be very picky with who they date, mainly looking for things like genuineness, loyalty, humor, and simply having things in common. When I met my now boyfriend/fiancee I was attracted to the way he talked to everyone equally. He talked to me not because I'm a girl, but because I was a coworker and he wanted to be friendly. He helped me not because I was a girl, but because he likes helping people. I felt very safe around him and watching the way he moves and the way …
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 02:05 PM
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Oh I should have specified, I am 22 and most of my friends are 20-24
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 09:40 AM
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Most men in my age group are the opposite, I have come across a few here and there but it is very rare. Unless my friends are hiding it very well ofc
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 05:00 AM
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I know right! For me, one of the main tells is that the man in question is nice to attractive and unattractive/old women. It's a huge red flag if a guy is rolling out the red carpet for you but treats every woman that they aren't attracted to like they are invisible/lower class citizens. Have had this happen with every "nice guy" I dated and my current boyfriend treats everyone equally with respect regardless of their looks, haven't had a single problem with him!
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 11:42 PM
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Depends on context. Strangers are difficult because she might see you as a danger to her if it's not in the right environment. Let's say you see her walking her dog every day. Break the ice by asking her about her dog, how long she's had the dog/breed etc, the important part is you talk to her like you would anyone else. And build up over time to get to know her so she doesn't immediately go on the defensive when she sees you. A friend/coworker - again build up some basic knowledge between the b…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 12:24 PM
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Yes I take that back, at the time of writing that comment 9/10 negative comments I was reading were from women but have seen a lot more of those from men since then
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:07 AM
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I just did and I'm mixed angry/depressed. I believe we should have a class in school to define what sexism actually is for these people and what being oppressed actually is. Men wanting to be treated like a human being is not being oppressive or sexist at all these women need to get a grip. Keep fighting the good fight. God I'm so disappointed in women right now.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 01:58 AM
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For context, I'm female. I've noticed in the last few years with the rise of social media, there seems to be a lot of demeaning memes and new slang regarding men and it's misandry disguised as humor. Unlike mysogyny, people who are sexist towards men tend to be very open about it and it is somewhat normalized. This pisses me the fuck off because A: it's a shitty thing to do B: why demand gender equality and proceed to be a sexist? Isn't that counterproductive? C: this contributes to the cycle of…
/r/MensRights20/07/20 01:28 AM
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That's so twisted where is the common sense in that country. First you have this, then police brutality, complete lack of free healthcare that most first world countries have, and the whole tipping thing. Murica wild y'all
/r/MensRights20/07/20 01:12 AM
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Which country is it that makes men pay child support for a child that is not his? God if that was my country i would be grabbing my friends and protesting that shit hard. What the fuck. Also I do agree worldwide that we need to revisit the custody agreements and how they favour women more. I spent a majority of my childhood with my abusive mother, she had 3 x DUI, had the cops called on her multiple times by neighbours when they heard her abusing me, and was clearly not right in the head and whi…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:47 PM
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Ikr. You can see clearly in this thread which ones are in happy relationships (also getting laid) and which ones are involuntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:57 AM
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Hmm you have a good point. I would agree with everyone else and say that women do want to be seen as sexy but only by the person she is trying to attract. For example I tend to dress more provocatively when I know my boyfriend will be around. If he is not around then what's the fkn point I'll just wear jeans and a tee. It's not so much about being objectified, but more like being sexy or attractive. When I was single I definitely wanted to be seen as attractive and it's easier to do that when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:50 PM
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Assuming these guys are not exactly attractive, I'm assuming they would also be a not-so-attractive woman. Try getting a rich husband then..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:03 AM
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I was originally neutral towards marriage, it just adds an empty wallet to your heartbreak when the time comes. However as I am now in a very serious relationship with someone I actually don't think will leave me, the vision I resigned myself to of being a single mother is probably not going to happen. I think it would be appropriate for my child if it just had one last name and we could all be a family with the same name, so I'll take my boyfriends name. My boyfriend is also the one who brought…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:57 AM
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I humbly disagree. I used to bartend in a strip club and there were many many beautiful women (8/9/10 on average) and most of them were very kind, I still hang out with a few of them to this day. Many of them were also very intelligent compared to women I meet elsewhere. I used to get bullied by the "pretty" popular girls in high school but in hindsight they were just average. One thing I noticed about the strippers is they always had troubled love lives, as the people who they ended up with wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:42 AM
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Before I met my now-boyfriend I didn't find any men attractive because I know that sure a guy could look nice but I have high/specific standards when it comes to personality and the chances of the average Joe meeting those are not very high so I didn't even bother. Thought my current bf looked scary when I first met him. Actually got to know him a bit and turns out he was a really nice guy, ended up falling for him so I asked him out. My other friends have boyfriends who they think are Soo hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:34 AM
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The BARE minimum (before I met my current so) Was: Personality - Loyal Caring Has things in common with me Either watches anime or would be willing to watch anime/movies with me Not abusive/not a cheater Is aware of my insecurities and wouldn't make me feel even worse about my body/looks. ... Physical - Not obese. Used to not be an issue with me but after dating an obese man for a year this is now a deal breaker for me, mainly because sex is difficult and hygiene goes south once someone gets to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:11 AM
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Yes there's definitely a double standard I noticed, especially in the redpill community. A lot of these people don't seem to realize that it's very unlikely the kind of person who has a low number (ie, is very selective about their partner) would consider dating someone who is all about getting laid or is potentially sexist. I remember I went on tinder for a brief time in my life and I would immediately swipe left on any dude that didn't seem they would take my feelings seriously or be a good pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:31 AM
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I agree. I have only have sex with people I loved/were in relationships with personally, because honestly I don't think I would like to have a boyfriend that's slept with heaps of people, no judgement on that lifestyle its just I want some of their firsts to be with me, plus it's nice knowing I don't have hordes of women who I have to compete with. So knowing that, I decided to keep my number low as possible because it's only fair and I would be a hypocrite if I had slept with a fair amount of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:11 AM
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You're very passionate about this, but I refuse to argue with you on this further, as you complain about me arguing with you yet you are doing the exact same back to me. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:38 AM
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When on earth did I educate you on male anatomy? And my god there is many men that would definitely disagree with you here. There is definitely both men and women who have varying levels of sex drive, I have a voluntarily celibate male friend who told me he's not too bothered about sex and sexuality when I asked him why he was still a virgin. Same with a female friend, when I asked her she said the exact same thing he did. You're telling me my anecdotal evidence isn't enough and then you proceed…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:11 AM
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Doesn't that just mean you have a high sex drive? I know women with high sex drives as well, and I know men with low sex drives. I actually held that belief that men have higher "needs" as opposed to women but after I met my boyfriend i now realize it's all shit. I've been rejected by my boyfriend cause he's tired or just not in the mood, and we have gone long periods without sex for whatever reason (staying with family, periods, no birth control etc etc) and he never gave me the impression he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:32 AM
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If I believed every article I saw on the internet I would be an idiot. And considering you're basing all your opinions off an article, instead of real women, I consider you an idiot. What's laughable is you go online, see some articles that could be written by anyone and decide that is what every woman is like. Yet here I am, someone who has met hundreds of women, and I agree there's probably about 5 for each hundred that think the way you describe but to describe all women like that is plain st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:38 AM
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That woman is an immature/selfish woman and honestly don't waste your time with those people. Go for a mature one who understands that not everyone is constantly in the mood for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:24 AM
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Again, have never seen a woman in real life act that way.. Stop basing your opinions of woman on articles. The vast majority of women don't care about attention from men they have other things in life to stress about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:23 AM
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"men act like they're going to die without a spare crumb of pussy" Preach. I have never seen women act this way or get mad if they aren't getting laid (I have plenty of female friends who either are still virgins or don't really have sex, yet they don't curse the world for it)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:42 PM
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Immediately knew this was America when I glanced at the payslip. I am so sorry this is what you are dealing with right now. My dad paid $400 a month... NZD. I find more and more reasons to be grateful I don't live in america
/r/MensRights05/07/20 03:15 AM
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I agree. Even if he is not sleeping with them, I would be VERY wary of a guy I was seeing that I knew was seeing other women. Hell I wouldn't even stick around let alone let him touch me. She's probably thinking "to him I'm just going to be vagina #76" I bet if she was seeing multiple guys right now OP wouldn't be very happy. OP is aware this girl doesn't like that he sees other women yet he still does it then gets upset that she doesn't want to be with him what a jerk. I hope for her sake she f…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 12:49 PM
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I agree. I've seen countless posts on here about how talking to women and building relationships is too troublesome and porn is a much easier solution. If these people just got out there, was a cool person to talk to, they would get laid in no time. And looks don't even contribute that much as long as you can make a girl laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:28 PM
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I'm not being sexist, I'm the same where a body count higher than 5-10 is probably a deal breaker for me. If I've saved myself for my partner I feel it's not unreasonable to want the same. Of course if men/women want to be promiscuous that's fine as long as they are being honest and upfront with who they sleep with, but I personally would not want to date a promiscuous person. I'm just explaining to OP that people who follow a certain mindset are in fact more likely to cheat. Same with men talki…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 02:19 AM
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I know right! I've been surrounded with virgins most of my adult life so when my boyfriend told me about the girls in his high school I was floored. His ex and her mates were all up in the "OMG I'm such a savage hoe yaaaas queen" culture and surprise surprise they were serial cheaters.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:33 PM
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Not sure if this will help but I'm female, currently dating my 4th partner and very happy. Only slept with 4 people who I was in relationships with. My best friend (well ex best friend now I guess) is pregnant with her first child, the father is the only man she has slept with. Same thing with my 2 other friends. My other friend is 23 and still hasn't had a boyfriend, she just told me simply that the right one hasn't come along yet. Don't worry! There's someone out there for you. They'll come al…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 08:19 PM
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22 y/o woman here. I did have a year or two dabbling on tinder and yeah, I actually didn't find a guy I genuinely liked even though I must have matched with at least 40. Never went on dates, just chatted because I was really lonely at the time (and I didn't want to meet up with anyone because Im ugly as fuck and didn't want to get called a catfish) I met my current boyfriend through work last year. He ticks all my boxes. And honestly the kind of woman who pulls the "I have a whole smorgasbord of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 07:09 PM
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Uhh I am a woman so I'm not sure if my opinion is wanted here, but its 5am and I'm lurking so I'll add my 2 cents if you want it. I met my boyfriend when I was 20 and he was 18. He told me I actually help motivate him, and without me he would probably not be where he was now. And the same actually goes for me! We live in New Zealand and the housing market isn't exactly friendly but together we are saving up for a deposit so we can get our first house in a couple years. He's decided to open up a …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/20 05:26 PM
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As a woman, I have had 1 issue with a guy not wanting to commit and when he made that clear we simply went our separate ways but I never held it against him. I just showed my boyfriend this post wondering what his take on it was and he told me that since we have been together he enjoys spending time with me more than anyone so it's not a burden for him at all. The average woman usually has what the average man has to offer, it doesn't differ depending on gender. I assume you are referring to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:11 PM
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I don't know my bfs body count and I don't want to. Any more than 10 is an issue for me because personally I wouldn't feel as special anymore, I would just feel like #x to him. And when it comes to sex I want to explore things together with my partner, I want to have some "firsts" with me. It may be insecure or whatnot but it is how I feel and unfortunately I can't change that. Thankfully my bf hasn't done everything so we both did things together for the first time which was really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:22 AM
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I'm an average looking woman i havent been hit on in a year 😂 And most women i do know use tinder for hookups mainly instead of dating. Most women who want a relationship don't look to apps like tinder because they believe that the majority of guys are on there for sex. I don't mean to be insulting but the good partners aren't usually on tinder
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 09:08 AM
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I always have the hugest respect for men who don't mind, obviously most people men and women want their partner to themself for a while and then have children of their own later down the line. My father adopted my older half brother and even though my parents divorced 16 years ago, my dad still treats my brother as if he is his own. It's not for everyone, not everyone wants to be a step parent. And most relationships don't really last these days due to a lot of factors, so it's inevitable unfort…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 09:06 AM
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Im female myself, and i had never heard of that sub until now and just went to take a sneak peek. Y i k e s It's so embarrassing.
/r/MensRights16/04/20 12:58 AM
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"they're worth saving" The Fk Of course they're worth saving they're more than worth saving. I understand the point behind the words but it comes off as if people don't already know men are worth saving and need to be taught that, i don't know just rubs off on me weird. It's nice to have the word being put out there though about prostate cancer.
/r/MensRights11/09/19 04:09 AM
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I get treated the same and I'm a relatively big (not exactly fat or anything just big build) woman, I'm 5 foot 6 and 180lbs Even guys smaller than me freak out as soon as I go to pick up a 20kg box/bag at work and won't let me lift it until they come to help me. It's a very nice gesture and I appreciate it but it just makes it harder on both genders for the future
/r/MensRights26/08/19 12:09 AM
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That's only for pretty women however, Take your average man and average woman and both will be limited due to their gender. Men will be flat out refused jobs in childcare, mocked for doing any sort of arts (dancing singing Bla Bla) Whereas women will be flat out refused work that involves heavy lifting, find it hard working in white collar jobs due to being seen as stupid and incapable, and are seen as too weak to do any sort of hard labour. It's pretty shit either way. Everyone regardless of ge…
/r/MensRights25/08/19 12:36 PM
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