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Strong women with strong boundaries have never been welcome anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 06:24 PM
34

It's not a joke, it's grooming. It other-izes normal sexuality so girls think there's something wrong or different with them if they want to get to know people. It makes being undiscriminating the default.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:24 AM
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It's worth going into a small amount of debt for a good divorce lawyer imo. Take out a new credit card, borrow from parents, whatever. Buying real estate or lawyering up are the only good debt moves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:52 PM
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"that guy played with my kids for gods sake" So many acquaintances from my marriage let my abusive ex around their children, despite knowing full well he was repeatedly physically abusive. It's chilling. Took away a lot of my faith in humanity tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:13 AM
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Yeah this is a weird one for me. Nobody's ever heard of this "rule", and I can't imagine he'd often get an apologetic or deferent response to this message. So what's he tryna do here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:05 PM
31

the electric lighters - they work well as a small taser. 👀 Hot tip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:02 PM
45

I was not generally against the concept of women proposing. But last night I was watching Bling Empire and Cherie proposing to her baby daddy made me sad. Settling so hard. It's literally all she wanted from him, it's so important to her, and he just completely dropped the ball. So she was like okay I guess I can't have my fairytale but I can make people stop nagging me about a ring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:25 PM
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Covert dogwhistle abuse Straight up this is a warning sign for abuse. He violated a seemingly small, but firm boundary. That's a perfect way to test for an abuser, they'll push little ones first to see how far they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:25 AM
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Sorry but I'm extremely skeptical of this. Alimony laws were literally designed to prevent exactly this. Like yes of course don't be financially dependent on a man!! Financial freedom is absolutely fucking key! And yeah of course his lawyers are fighting it. And of course she fears she won't be able to retire. But half of his houses and retirement accounts are hers. She'll be okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:55 AM
15

Yep. I found FDS while healing from domestic abuse, and it is the antidote. I wish so hard I had anything like this as a young woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:34 AM
23

Yes, please, other parents, teach your kids this! My parents were great to me and taught me to value myself but not really how not to settle or what's acceptable from a partner. Self esteem doesn't save you from abusive relationships but boundaries and standards can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:51 PM
25

I've got five job interviews, all would be a 30% raise or better! Here I go, wish me luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:16 PM
7

Divorce is the best level up! 📈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:15 PM
19

Yes! My covert narcissist ex remains once of the "nicest" men I've ever met. This is how narcs operate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:26 PM
90

Why Does He Do That should be required reading for teenage girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:33 PM
9

Amazing question ✍️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:33 PM
25

And they don't have fulfilling relationships with other men because they're afraid of being "gay". Or they just lack the social skills and emotional intelligence. Probably usually both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 07:32 PM
13

"good girl" is ten times worse than just girl. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:43 PM
3

This seems accurate from Minneapolis. It's obviously centered around Floyd but Taylor's image and name was very much present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:56 PM
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And you wouldn't be allowed to fuck a maid you paid to clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:24 PM
76

Less stressful, too. I love being a single mom, so much better than being around that NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:37 PM
242

Jesus Christ. It getting onto popular is the worst part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:28 PM
17

Not approach it, walk away from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:09 PM
20

Yeah, exactly, I'm questioning OP's. Because Emily is saying that FDS is intervening into men's pick-up artistry, not accusing FDS of pick-up artistry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:20 AM
9

Yeah this would be pretty acceptable in middle school I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:35 AM
114

yeah and '1st anniversary'? seems fake but i love it anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:06 AM
15

She tweeted about being at a party Ghislane was at and knowing the shit she was up to. Reddit took this as an admission of guilt/complicity, apparently she should have risked her livelihood to be the only one calling out Ghislane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:24 AM
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We stopped putting shit like this on the front of the box. That's about all we stopped, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:07 PM
19

for real. propose at a MALL?! tacky af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:29 AM
13

a man tweeted this. Hence the generous numbers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:24 AM
11

lol this pic is extremely not real but they defffinitely do come that small, they can be inverted even 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:42 AM
33

this is perfect. hoist that fuck on his own petard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:56 PM
20

everyone should. they just said your relationship is worth less than $10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:12 AM
33

if a female stranger asked nicely I'd buy her the shampoo no biggie. and I'm kinda poor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:08 AM
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Am I reading this right? He didn't trust his gf to reimburse him $10? Jesus fucking crust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:10 PM
8

Wtf??? On what grounds? misandry 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:42 AM
1

I can't see what you're replying to, but, Maya Forstater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:41 AM
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No I can't appreciate the sentiment for what you think it is, I'm analyzing it for what it's saying. It's giving privileged women a real alternative to marriage: idealize travel and college. Things to dream about and aspire to. What about the people for who those things aren't accessible, but marriage is? Give us something accessible to idealize instead of marriage. Idealize independence and female friendship. Cat ownership maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:07 AM
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I hate how privileged this is. Having the money to travel and get an education isn't anywhere close to a universally available alternative to marriage. We need to show what that looks like for poor and middle class women too. I'm not even poor but University education and world travel aren't accessible to my part of the middle class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:11 PM
8

My parents did tell me this but I couldn't figure out how to afford college or travel so I got married instead 🤷‍♀️😬😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:10 PM
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Same! I wear bralettes to work to hide my nips but fuck that whole underwire nonsense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:24 PM
5

narcissists are rarely clinically diagnosed anyway, they're way easier to spot in a relationship than when they're putting on their best face for their shrink one hour a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:41 AM
12

Seriously, I just keep thinking how glad I am I'm not quarantined with that garbage man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:18 PM
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I do too but this quote isn't Plath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:44 PM
19

they also ban anyone who posts on GenderCritical and PinkPillFeminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:42 AM
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and a maximum age, but no minimum. he wants a child prostitute to impregnate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:36 PM
10

I think you mean pandemic, OP, this shit is everywhere 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:06 AM
39

That's the detail that makes me think it's real 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:38 AM
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And he wants to cut her off from them! So unhealthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 06:36 AM
8

I'm not lucky enough to know women like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:15 PM
4

I'm saying they go hand in hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:11 PM
21

Most FDS members have seen these principles working for friends, acquaintances, mentors, and aunts. We've definitely seen the opposite: modern dating culture failing us and the women we know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:09 PM
8

big beautiful women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:57 PM
3

A thousand eyes will smolder with jealousy, as you are just flying past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:23 AM
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Of course they know there's a middle ground. They're gaslighting you to believe your expectations are unreasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:31 AM
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No, not in my culture, in my reality. In my culture, anyone who thinks they feel like a woman is one. I think for myself and use words for what they mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:57 PM
3

Woman: adult human female Man: adult human male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:44 PM
9

Uhh you're still absolving them of personal responsibility and blaming the women (and men) around them. I'm not wrong. ETA: I find "they're not men" particularly egregious. Yes the fuck they are. Low. Value. Men. Acting like men can't be childish losers is incredibly strange in this forum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:32 PM
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Stop coddling these boys. stop blaming women for LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:20 PM
14

You're totally right, but I really don't understand how this happened. I swear my brother and I were raised exactly the same. Is it just the testosterone and the porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:19 PM
9

Tooootally. My boss seems like a really good guy, but it's impossible for me to know for sure. He already has power and control in the workplace, I wouldn't want to know what he does to get that in his private relationships. OTOH, I definitely know that my dad, brother, and a few other guys in my life are definitely LVM without having to date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:03 AM
3

No. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:57 AM
10

Projection again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:46 AM
28

Yeah. in the US, for the most part, companies can fire you at any time for no reason. Some people have a career outside of that particular job but a lot of us don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:40 PM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:45 AM
35

narcissists too. familiarize yourself with the warning signs of personality disorders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:10 AM
2

I feel this a lot. Advice always seems to be to spend money on yourself. Journaling is one low-cost thing that has helped me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:44 AM
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they think we're horny and not trying at our jobs and have low standards and will dirty talk with anyone on facebook chat at the drop of a hat .... because they are, and will, and are trying to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:48 AM
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She is definitely not fully clothed this time. Not even like more clothed. She just looks like she dressed herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:09 PM
10

It's definitely great to see after a breakup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:08 PM
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Yeah OP like didn't even react imo, let alone over react. She just removed herself feel the situation. That's never wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:27 PM
15

I just dumped a pickme bisexual woman with a fuckton of internalized misogyny who sounded just like OP and called herself gay. I totally agree with you that lesbians like that don't really exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:49 PM
16

Thank you. First thing I spotted and it turned my stomach. Unhand her, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:59 AM
13

JESUS I missed the bit about birth control and family planning method. he chose orgasms over his wife's LIFE. shoot him into the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:27 PM
5

that's when the sunk cost fallacy kicks in and this becomes especially useful. once you see the circus for what it is, you can't stay just because you spent so much time there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:58 PM
13

wat? religion had nothing to do with my marriage or divorce. and I didn't marry young. 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce because our society glamorizes marriage and brainwashes girls to want it, but the reality fucking sucks and we want out as soon as our eyes are open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:21 PM
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