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set it to wombo big brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:47 PM
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I get annoyed. I'm my 30's, I want my got damned age privilege!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:46 PM
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😌Good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:24 PM
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You know the deal. Now get ta work!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:18 PM
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It is empathetic to let everyone know that they're more than likely a waste to society and humanity. Then they can't stop comparing themselves to everyone else and live a life of peace knowing that they don't have to run themselves in the ground trying to "prove" something that's nearly impossible to achieve. More people need to lay down, opt out, and do their own thing for their own self interest and benefit specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:04 PM
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Hot people would constantly be in the hospital due to having blown out pelvises.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:34 PM
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The hilarity of this comment is that the people with this mindset are more of a waste than the people they are talking about. And? ​ Women. I said people are a general waste. Do you know what people are? ​ We all need each other. We literally do not. ​ Most of the people you deem useless, you wouldn't last a month if they stopped doing their jobs and gave up on society. Actually I could. I grew up in the sticks. I know how to hunt, trap, and process dead animals. I also know how to forage, colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:33 PM
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Men. Everyone's problem, no ones solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:19 PM
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You can't see how a majority of people are a general waste? A random man didn't build your roads or discover electricity. Few select men have. Most of human society isn't needed and worthless. Every human that lives isn't responsible or useful because a handful engaged in labor or invention that currently benefits you. People aren't magically valuable due to osmosis. Most people are useless and most people would more than likely be better off without their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:12 PM
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Are you trying to imply that the boys would be harmed or mistreated by men in an all boys school? Don't be sexist. Not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:38 PM
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start lobbying!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:37 PM
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That's irrelevant. Only men can raise boys into men. Doesn't matter if there are a few hiccups or mishaps along the way. Boys have better outcomes being raised by men than being raised by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:17 PM
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They do care, which is why they let their partner have sex with them while they play candy crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:16 PM
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Set it to Wombo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:15 PM
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It needs brought back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:15 PM
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It's because normal women play candy crush during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:12 PM
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Men need to stop obsessing over women with DID. Men prefer mentally ill women because mentally ill women fuck the best. Then complain that the women who give the best sex are too "crazy" and unstable. No shit. Life is alchemy. Mind blowing sex comes at a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:55 PM
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It wouldn't work. They'd both go to jail after refusing to pay once the check came.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:52 PM
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Agreed. Boys born to single mothers need to be taken from the mother and placed into a group home run by men that can teach them how to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:50 PM
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And has anyone ever dated a liberal as a conservative or vice versa? Thoughts for discussion? I try my hardest to avoid people that are polarized to the right or the left. If someone identifies as a liberal or a conservative, I know that we have ZERO compatibility at all romantically. I find both groups to lack in shared values, opinions, or beliefs. I briefly dated an extremely liberal guy who was blue collar, he was annoying as shit. I hated listening to his views on politics and social issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:04 PM
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go visit her and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:24 PM
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No one should bitch or complain about probable outcomes associated with childrearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:31 PM
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I complain about all age gap relationships, including gay, lesbian, and age gap relationships with significantly older women. I'm not "jealous", I just know that all of these people are manipulative, perverted, assholes looking to exploit someone's youth and nativity. Everyone that I know who had a significant age gap relationship in their youth (hetero and homo) regretted it once their brain fully developed. For some of them it completely ruined and interrupted their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:01 PM
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Something we aren't allowed to do here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:37 PM
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In the real world men abandon their children regularly in reality. I'm agreeing with you. Women should anticipate that a man could or would leave them to be a single mother, even if she believes he's "perfect". Men abandon their children in reality. Doesn't make sense how you're trying to argue against a claim you already made lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:27 PM
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It does matter. As men have the expectation that women be completely hairless. If you're comparing women wanting men to have a clean shaven face, to a completely shaven/waxed body, the comparison fails to work or apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:24 PM
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Or simply anticipate that it's a possibility irrespective of how "great" a guy seems. Considering that men leaving to "get milk" and never coming back is literally a trope in media. It's not as if it's unheard of that men abandon their children. A woman is an absolute delusional dumbass if she thinks it could NEVER happen to her. It's not as if men abandoning their children is a rare and unheard of occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:21 PM
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Can't circlejerk, but I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:18 PM
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Oh, gotcha. That makes sense. Yeah, no one sensible would willingly get involved with someone who they genuinely believe would randomly get the "ick" and throw them away over night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:17 PM
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They literally say that younger women are easier to "train" and "mold". It's all about control and manipulation. This isn't just a male hetero take though. Creeps that want significant age gap relationships with barely legal individuals all say the same thing regarding how malleable their younger partner is. And often times if these people had the ability to date younger, they would. There's a growing trend of women on social media raving about dating men young enough to be their sons and that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:15 PM
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Women who want men with a shaven face, also want those men to fully shave and wax their entire bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:12 PM
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She's been trying to reach you regarding your cars extended warranty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:09 PM
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What kind of mistakes are you talking about? People claim that cheating is a mistake. People claim that draining the savings account is a mistake. People claim that getting drunk regularly is a mistake. People claim that forgetting to clean up after themselves regularly is a mistake. People claim that hitting their partner was a mistake. What mistakes do you think people should stick around for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:09 PM
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Or the experiences of other women that date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:05 PM
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I do also find it weird, though, that in this debate we always focus on the single mothers who have pregnancies accidentally or through ignorance/carelessness, My go to is unwanted pregnancies, because I'd assume people that want children have enough intelligence to understand that birthing and raising children isn't easy and that there's a possibility that they can become a single parent for a variety of reasons (illness, death, employment, addiction, incarceration, abandonment, etc). Perhaps I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:00 PM
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I wasn't aware that dumbasses were still making the shocked Pikachu face regarding the struggles of childcare, especially as a single parent. No, I don't have empathy for adults who lack the ability to conceptualize that being a single parent is a probability (whether the outcome is from illness, death, employment, or abandonment) if they decide to procreate and that being a single parent is a struggle. Individuals who have IQ that low should more than likely be prevented from making such burden…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:37 PM
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I don't have empathy or sympathy for people who engage in consensual sex and are then left with the burden of bearing children and/or raising children. It's 2023 anyone that doesn't have a learning disability should know where babies come from. Most of these people don't complain when they're fucking, so I don't want to hear them whine and cry about unwanted parenthood after the fact. Most of these people don't even use contraceptives and they fail to learn about the contraceptives that they may…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:14 PM
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Agreed. I'm a woman that never wants children. I got sterilized so it'll never be an outcome for me. Problem solved before it even begins. I don't sympathize with people who make poor decisions, lack impulse control, and fail to take responsibility at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:10 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:54 PM
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Welcome to men treating real life like porn and expecting immediate sexual performance of their fantasies from women they don't know. The shit these males do isn't flirting it's just sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:26 PM
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Love how you completely ignore the behavior that I'm detailing. Men who've I've found interest in that claimed women ignore them and that don't get attention from women behaved the same way. Women literally screen shot and post these habitual interactions that they have with men online. And you completely ignore this as if it has zero bearing or basis at all. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:22 PM
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I used to believe this. I used to think it was just a matter of age, inexperience, autism, or some other issue that if given the chance could be corrected. And I used to explain in detail that their behavior was offputting and literally provide a bulleted list on what they could do to get back on track. Irrespective of their reaction to that bluntness, they would always resort to the same behavior then accuse me of being the asshole because I didn't want to see pictures of their dicks unprompted…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:59 PM
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Question for Women - Are the Majority of Men too ugly to date or hook up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:53 PM
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Ultimately the men that I'm referring to all push boundaries, do what they want, feign ignorance, and expect women to fuck them and tolerate their hypersexuality immediately. They seem to oversaturate the dating pool unfortunately. I noticed the behavior is more prevalent with low class (low income, low education) men, but educated high earning men exhibit the same behavior. I avoid the "woe is me" "out of my league" males, because they're generally highly manipulative people. They use pity and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:21 PM
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No, they're not too ugly. They're just generally overly sexual assholes with zero social skills. I meet plenty of "average" men that I'd be willing to fuck or date. Most of the time they ruin it after a few hours or a few days by saying something fucking stupid or unnecessarily pushing boundaries. For example. I went line dancing and got invited to a tailgate afterparty by the people I met there. I met a cute guy we talked on and off and he asked for my number before I left the party. He didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:20 PM
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I'm kind of surprised that men will admit to cheating in relationships or comment on other women's appearances early in the dating process, but I guess it's good info to know just in case you decide if you can trust him. Imo I think that they're open about it because it isn't much of a dealbreaker with enough women, so it doesn't impact their options much. Many women genuinely believe that cheating, oogling, and flirting with other women is just what men do and it's an avoidable part of heterose…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:58 PM
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Assumptions can be made regarding a person's behavior, character, and what they say about themselves. Also, there are remnants of social media history online. People often argue publicly and don't delete the public exchanges from the internet. For cheating, I simply ask if a guy ever cheated in a relationship. It's not a first date conversation, but it's certainly something I bring up by the 3rd date. Surprisingly most men are honest and go into detail on whether they have or haven't cheated. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:25 PM
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No he isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:15 PM
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One of the mods literally referenced abuse as well. lol. Those women aren't getting men that treat them well. The women literally detail their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:14 PM
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lol, no it isn't. Otherwise he would date the fat, ugly, shot, disformed women that he's complaining about. He wouldn't be complaining about these women being with men. He'd exercise his option in the women that are getting fucked by these men, but he isn't. Which means that this conversation isn't about these women at all, it's regarding the men that fuck and date these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:11 PM
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No you're not. You're talking about men who date women that they don't actually want and aren't attracted to have access to sex. You're talking about women's ability to be used and abused for sex by men that are bitter and enraged that they can't get the women that they're actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:09 PM
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Being jealous of someone's access to low tier options of the same sex isn't what I'd call heterosexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:07 PM
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OP was referring to relationships with men. He can get a man if he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:02 PM
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Can’t debate that, men do be sexist Facts ​ I think it’s funny that women believe they have a monopoly on emotional intelligence. Never made that claim. What you've heard men "say" is irrelevant. Most men do genuinely think they're more logical and less emotional than women, despite often having little to no emotional regulation to any degree. ​ Well. Duh. Who do you think men are protecting others from? It’s not the weather. This is what we call nuance. Nope. A demographic being the very danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:01 PM
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You could also attract a man to abuse and use you if that's you're pleasure. Go live your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:50 PM
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Facts. They're liars and delusional. Public schools where literally created by MEN for MEN to stand in line, shut the fuck up, and do their work in a factory for 9 hours a day uninterrupted. It's funny how men are constantly trying to rewrite history to be victims of their own creation. In the the 1950, the Era that the looooove so much, it was NORMAL for teachers TO SPANK AND PADDLE boys that wouldn't sit down and shut the fuck up during lessons. This delusional pretend reality that boys never …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:48 PM
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Apparently being erratic and unhinged in educational and professional settings is an inherent male trait. I've been working for a very long time and can't recall any male coworkers running around cubicles, throwing things, hitting people, and yelling at their coworkers. Okay, I've had some male coworkers that have been absolutely emotionally unhinged, and they're typically fired eventually or removed from the premises with a police escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:44 PM
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Wrong. Most men do feel superior to the opposite sex due to being male. Most men think that they're "logical" and not emotional because they lack emotional intelligence. Most men don't consider anger, rage, sarcasm, etc to be emotions. I said men are not protectors. They're typically the perpetrators. Most men consider their financial contributions more important than their wives or girlfriends, even if they make less. It's literally a common narrative that men make on this sub alone. As I said.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:39 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:28 PM
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Most men subscribe to the notion that they inherently have certain qualities about themselves due to their sex. Most men do believe that they're more logical than women. Most men do believe that they're protectors and providers. Most men do believe that they're builders. They don't personally HAVE to possess these qualities or engage in them in real life to lay claim to them. Which is why I called them delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:27 PM
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All human males are men. Most men aren't the delusional magical version of themselves that they claim to be. Most men aren't builders, providers, protectors, logical, etc or the other bullshit claims that they say they inherently have for owning a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:18 PM
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IMO human society is mostly just delusional males claiming romanticized qualities that they'd like to have, but don't actually possess. It's like they live in an alternate reality where they're "super human", when they're potatoes at best, and outright terrorists at worst. All of these "masculine" traits men claim to have don't exist. They don't provide most of them barely make 30k. They don't protect, they're the perpetrators of violence, fraud, and property destruction. They don't exercise per…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:05 PM
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I don't like fat or obese men. I went out one night and pretty much hung out with an obese dude that was super awesome and laughed at all of my jokes. He wasn't ugly, just fat as fuck. It was like we had known each other for years and everything was just so organic and easy. IDK how to explain it, but we certainly had a chemistry that I rarely experience. Towards the end of the night I said fuck it, and asked for his number, he said "sure, but just putting it out there that I'm gay". lol then he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:51 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:42 AM
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? I never said you didn't...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:32 AM
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okay, what if she was sloppy obese? I get what you mean though. Quality people that actually are joy to be around consistently are a rarity. Maybe I'd consider being a little inebriated on a daily basis if it meant being with a great match in all other aspects aside from their looks. It's something to consider. I certainly could take a couple of shots throughout the day so that they'd never notice. But, then comes the ethical dilemma of informing them about the lack of physical attraction, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:28 PM
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You're a good one. I couldn't do it. SOME threshold of physical attraction is required for me. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone I thought was ugly and only found them attractive when I was drunk or on drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:17 PM
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It's not rare by any means. Sexual tourist go where they can get the most bang for their buck. Old European women are swarming Africa to fuck economically depressed young men by the thousands. Exploitive, sexually deviant perverts are going to do what they do best. Which is be an exploitive, sexually deviant pervert that can get as much leverage as they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah yeah, but lets say that you two were drinking. You were a little drink, and she's making you laugh, and she's making cute little noises, and then starts to look a little less ugly because you two are having such a good time, and the sex just happens. You didn't mean too, but after a few drinks she was just so charming and pleasant that she didn't look as ugly as she actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:11 PM
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wife doesn't want to have sex, because she already had sex with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:09 PM
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Neither party gives a shit about any average person. None of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:08 PM
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What if the sex was like out of this world, impossibly good? Like every time you remembered fucking her, you'd bust and your asshole would quiver?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:03 PM
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Damn, you're right. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:01 PM
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That's part of it. But literally baring women from education, finances, and gainful employment also had something to do with it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:55 PM
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Agreed. Male success has largely been a side effect of inhibiting women's ability to participate and inhibiting women's ability to access time or resources to innovate or produce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:43 PM
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I don't think this is true though. Male loneliness in particular is an extremely modern problem. What you "think" is irrelevant. Loneliness is an epidemic globally among all age demographics. ​ It just doesn't strike me as a major factor, because we know that there's always been a cost involved in travel of any sort Stagnate wages haven't kept up with the higher cost of living. Meaning what used to be affordable isn't as affordable as it once was for average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:41 PM
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People also haven't suddenly just stop socializing either. It's also been a gradual decline, that has kept pace with the rising cost of living and working hours. Doesn't make sense to completely negate cost as a factor to people socializing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:33 PM
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Boys certainly go to Jupiter to get more stupider. You did not experience feminism. Stop making shit up!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:19 PM
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Promiscuous males cheat. Promiscuous males are dysfunctional people typically as that type of sexual behavior is abnormal for the general population. Promiscuous people don't change. They continue to cheat, they just get better at hiding it or are just blatantly open with their cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:13 PM
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My perception of you having a unrealistic perception of your parents isn't a "vilification". You said that you knew for a fact that your mother never "Thought" about cheating and never cheated. You don't know where your parents genitals or emotional entanglements, have been or what thoughts they have running through their minds. It's nice if they've told you those things and you believe them. You don't know whether what they've told you is absolute truth or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:50 PM
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Your speaking in extreme outliers The thread topic is about promiscuous males ​ Men and women are both looking for security in long-term relationships but how did they go about it is different between the genders. Yes, promiscuous males want the security of a nesting partner at home while they continue to have the sex and relationships that they're used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:34 PM
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I'm confused, why would getting married not be a solution here ? You are pooling two incomes into one. If one income stops, the other takes over until the other one finds a new job. You said these women are loosing their jobs and becoming unemployed. Where is this second income of hers coming from if she's lost her high income job? ​ The woman wouldn't be unemployed for the long term. but salaries will go down, overtime. She's lost her standard of living. She won't be able to get it back, unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:31 PM
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People who date cheaters do in fact think that they're special and that they won't get cheated on because they're "betteR". It happens all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:25 PM
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It's not wise to Disney-ify your parents. Your world view and perception of self is going to be shattered when you find out that your parents are human and not characters in a hallmark movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:22 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:18 PM
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Those people aren't going to be able to keep their same standard of living by getting married. Their financial quality of life is going to drop significantly unless they get hitched to a high earning male that also shares access to his wealth. Which isn't reality at all. That's 1950's pop fiction. No man that can barely afford his 3-5K rent is going to take on the economic burden of an unemployed woman with 80K+ in student loan debt, and and expectation to maintain what she used to spend on her …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:17 PM
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Everyone doesn't live somewhere that has buses or buses that go outside of a business district. My home town recently got a bus and only goes from one stop to the city an hour away. Everyone doesn't live in the same area or with the same means to public transportation. And even if they do, some people don't want to ride public transportation with mentally unstable people and drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:13 PM
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Sounds like you're mad the cover has been blown on promiscuous mofos. The jig is up on these hoes. They're cheating, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:04 PM
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You have zero idea if your mother considered cheating let alone whether or not she ever cheated lol. It's commonsense for two completely different people to ponder what their life would have been like if they engaged in the lifestyle of their partner. Many virgins DO have resentment towards their promiscuous partners and retroactive jealously towards their promiscuous partners. They often wonder why they couldn't wait or control themselves as the virgin did. It's a common theme among this relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:54 PM
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Relationships will have to be emotionally and mentally fulfilling enough for people to commit to marriage in droves. People have gotten used to living life as it is. Being financial struggle or abundance on their own. People are adapting to their poorer quality of life on their own if they don't have friends or family to help them out. As living with an equally poor mate doesn't increase anyone's quality of living, it just adds an extra burden into the mix. Men and women are both extremely vocal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:46 PM
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If you think it's projection, you think I'm doing it. If you think I'm doing it, then you're aware that it's something that people do. If you're aware that it's something that people do, you know I'm telling the truth. Glad we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:43 PM
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Ah yes. Sexism stopped thousands of years ago and I have no personal experiences with sexism in in education or within professional settings. I'm also not personally impacted by the limitations of familial finances and opportunities that were thwarted from the women in my family due to their sex. Yes. Society is like magic. Once a law is enacted, a switch flips and everything changes instantly. Not a gradual change at all. Just immediate uninhibited progress! That was sarcasm by the way. It may …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:37 PM
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Like god intended! Maybe someday they'll learn "What you resist, persists".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:22 PM
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Bulllshit. He's not "settling" he's just roping in a shit for brains nesting partner, while he continues to sow his oats on the side. It's not "settling" if he's sill out fucking other people, which he will continue to do as a promiscuous male. Having sex with multiple women is worth the assumed risks, however, he doesn't believe that she will actually leave. And if she does, he doesn't care because he can just get another one. Everyone is full of shit. Why do you think we all have assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:19 PM
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My opinion of cheating is irrelevant. It happens, people engage in it, and many people that are cheated on don't leave the person that cheated on them. If something could be "done" about cheaters, society would have already established a mechanism for that either politically, legally, or socially. And they haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:06 PM
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What makes you think I believe anything needs to be "done" about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:01 PM
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People are generalized because they're engaging in stereotypical behavior that fits the generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:00 PM
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Another commenter explained why that happens. Read her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:59 PM
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Someone who spend decades of their life failing to exercise impulse control, will not magically gain impulse control over night. Promiscuous males, are non-monogamous. They don't have interest in monogamy let alone the ability to exercise monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:58 PM
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Yep. They claim that they're in a monogamous relationship, while still having sex and relationships with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:51 PM
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No they don't. They just cheat and hope they don't get caught, or cheat openly on someone they know won't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:46 PM
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Promiscuous men don't engage in monogamy, regardless if a woman is a virgin or not. It doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:44 PM
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Personally, I'm going to do as much damage as possible before I die and destroy any chance of happiness or quality of life for as many people as I possibly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:43 PM
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The topic of conversation is regarding promiscuous males.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:42 PM
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Damn right. These male hoes are taking too long to get down and stay down though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:41 PM
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"Honey, I'm still grieving because everytime I cry, you use my tears for lube as you jack off and encourage me to move on." Anyone who poo poo's their "partners" life trials in order to prioritize their sexual gratification, is more than likely a person that drives their partner away sexually. Shit happens, life happens. Yes, it absolutely possible for a partner to fall into a crippling depression or have a medical issue that renders sex unlikely or in probable for an extended period of time up …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:40 PM
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Or just a man that is some variation of super depending on copyright laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:30 PM
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No excuse in the RP world to not constantly be fluffing nuts. If there's time to grieve, it can be done on knees!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:28 PM
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It's about damn time!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:27 PM
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Please do demonstrate how a promiscuous male, that has never or rarely engaged in monogamy is magically going to stop being promiscuous and engage in monogamy with a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:25 PM
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Opting out is an action that transforms society. Which is the elite are constantly complaining about young people failing to maintain the status que. Refusing to participate is a societal transformation. Society can't continue it's trajectory as is, if people refuse to keep the machine going. There is no game without players.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:24 PM
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No need to lie. Promiscuous men lack the ability to be faithful or monogamous. They engage in promiscuity because they only want sex from and with multiple women. Promiscuous men do not like, want, or value monogamy, which is why they don't engage in monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:19 PM
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No, most men want someone who loves them as is, but know they can't get that. men are socialized that they have to earn anything they get, including female affection. So, to earn it, you have to learn how to get it. We men are used to this. There's unspoken nuance here that is a given among general society. There are SOME demands and expectations that everyone requires for interpersonal relationships. Socially intelligent people understand that some caveats or tweaks need to be adjusted to fit o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:18 PM
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Nope. If someone is with a partner that has had experiences that wildly exceed their life experiences, then a curiosity will exist regarding what they're missing out on. A common sentiment in this sub is that men who have had little to no sexual history have a right to cheat on their partner to make up for lost experiences. Logic would dictate that a woman would have the same curiosities if she's with a man that has been with 100s of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:12 PM
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facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:09 PM
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Please do explain why Men who engage in promiscuity, cheat and are are unfaithful to the virginal women that they claim to want the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:08 PM
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Prostitution refers to the exchange of sex for money, services, or goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:08 PM
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Most men expect to be able to EARN romantic interest from some women. They expect to learn how to do that and to not be given false information on it. I don't agree. I believe that most people expect to meet someone that simply loves them and wants them AS IS. Which is why the internet is filled with men complaining about having to be "Better versions of themselves". Most people don't want to "earn" anything. They want their potential partner to accept them "as is". ​ That, I disagree with. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:53 PM
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It's warranted. Opting out of a system that doesn't benefit one's self is the most effective form of change. The youth didn't ask to be born and they don't have to participate in a system that they have little to no influence in. They're not obligated to be active participants if they don't want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:48 PM
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Women have won a significant amount of rights within the past 50 years, of which, the women that experienced the brunt of sex discrimination are still alive today. Shouldn't have to be spelled out for you. If women were essentially live stock for thousands of year, until 40 years ago. That 40 years is the most significant and shortest time in history of extreme cultural and social changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:47 PM
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Seems like extremely selective attention. None of those people give a shit about you or any other average person to any degree. None of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:43 PM
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TBH I'm attracted to men that have some imperfects or slight abnormalities of some kind. Such as scars, birth marks, extreme body modifications, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:42 PM
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All? No. I do not believe that all man demand romantic interest from women. I do believe that most men expect to have romantic interest from SOME women. I believe that it's natural for humans to assume or expect some type of romantic interest or the possibility of a romantic relationship at some point. Humans are a social species and the desire to mate, pair, and settle down (or some variation there of is normal). I also believe that pain from that expectation never happening can turn into a dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:40 PM
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40 years is a blimp in history compared to thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:17 PM
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Women being prostitutes doesn't mean that they profited from their prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:16 PM
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Vapours was endemic back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:02 PM
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I agree to an extent. There is a TON of free events where I live and it is primarily older and old people that go. I don't think it's a it's a keeping up with the jones attitude, I think that people who earn more money naturally have more economic freedom to do and engage in activities that cost money. I think for the younger generations, it's just a defeatist attitude. I've noticed a pessimism and a culture of "why bother". I think it's more burn out and depression than anything. Because the op…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:58 PM
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I agree that lack of initiative can't fully be blamed on capitalism. However, people used to go out because there were free or low cost communal areas that had a consistent turn out of the same people. These areas were free and low cost due to the contributions of other people. People were able to contribute due to having more free time and expendable resources to build communal spaces. Socializing today requires more money. Even if someone wanted to do something free, often they need to pay tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:49 PM
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Depends on where you live. Jobs that have historically been unpaid obligations of women, pay poorly. Meaning care, cleaning, cooking, etc. All poorly paid with little advancement and few benefits. If people want to earn an actual living, they have to get more specialized jobs. Which leaves a significant gap in necessary resources required for community connectivity as well as personal and group development.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:39 PM
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Parents are largely responsible for the children that they create. If a woman has a son that is a psychological burden it's a result of her shit genetic makeup, her shitty parenting, her inability to provide a non-toxic environment to live in, or a combination of the above. It's bizarre that women literally birth and raise males into adulthood, yet claim and bear zero responsibility if the literal thing that they created is a raging shit storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:25 PM
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Eh. Sometimes people that look creepy are creepy. And they look creepy because they have something wrong with them that makes them look and behave that way. Many addicts and mentally ill people look creepy, and typically are creepy. Commonsense applications to appearance can be applied from time to time. A creepy looking person that is minding their business and isn't bothering anyone is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:23 PM
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It's hypocritical, but I don't think that's the point. IMO it's a measure to find a woman that will let them steam roll them and do whatever they want. A sensible person isn't going to seriously believe that man that spent his life lacking impulse control and fucking everything that moves is magically going to be happy or fulfilled with a sexually inexperienced woman that more than likely has cultural or religious hang-ups regarding sex. Men want to settle down with a virgin, because it typicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:20 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:52 PM
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I guess they get something out of being in blatant and furious denial. I don't understand the benefit of believing that all women are neck deep in taint and balls, despite all the data proving other wise. Statistically everyone is having less sex, yet they magically live and know the few statistical outliners that are having sex 24/7 with a different person every few hours. I guess reddit is just a hot spot for people that know sex addicts and only socialize with sex addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:51 PM
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A family entails a group of people. Not solely a woman. By the definition of family alone, the foundation of that structure is supposed to include a multitude of people, being grandparents, siblings, aunts, uncles, and cousins. A sole woman cannot emphasize family life on her own. Active participation from other people within the family is required, including the active participation of males beyond financial contributions. This used to be the definition of family through most of human history. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:47 PM
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Any system where all the the labor and resources are funneled to a few over the majority is going to complicate life and make it significantly more difficult to function or thrive. Attempting to blame one party in a structure that has little variation in corporate policy is just blatant denial. Anyone that isn't elite is being sucked dry and both parties support this mass exploitation. Neither blue or red actually give a flying fuck about the quality of life or ability to live for plebs and surf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:43 PM
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Yep. Sex is at an all time low, and has has been on the decline for the past 30 years. Everyone is having less sex, even people in relationships. Hookup culture can't exist while people are simultaneously having less sex and less sexual partners. These people obsessed with "hookup culture" are only referring to sub cultures. Pockets of society that don't reflect the general population. It's like claiming that all sex includes scat play because a handful of people have a kink for it. There is zer…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:04 PM
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Historically Human female sexuality was controlled by a woman's owners. Human female sexuality has always been bought, sold, and bartered by other people, not the woman herself. This is the first time in human history where women are able to own their own sexuality and access to sex in whatever way that they want. Meaning, that if women want to sell their sex, they have the power and autonomy to do so. If women want to have casual sex, they have the power and autonomy to do so. If women want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:57 PM
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Guys on /seduction literally make the same complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:39 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:39 PM
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If they were fine with it, they wouldn't be complaining about the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:58 PM
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A significant amount of men complain about transactional sex being too impersonal. Men who use prostitutes and leave online reviews literally complain about women going through the motions or immediately turning off the acting once their time was up. As much as males like to dehumanize one another. Men still want to feel special and have attention that is specific to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:31 PM
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Exactly. People who lack impulse control are annoying at best and dangerous at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:13 PM
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Most people have a basic level of decency that they require before engaging in certain interpersonal exchanges. For example, you'd probably lend a friend or family member money. However if they said "I want $2000 from you now." You'd more than likely be ofended and wonder what they need it for. Most people have sexual desires. The way that people express those desires and ask for participation from others in those desires is what puts others off. And yes there are some people that are just disgu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:05 PM
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what would long-term FwB arrangements be treated as? does the answer to that change if it’s in addition to a separate LTR vs being the only relationship someone’s in? Depends on the people involved. I have a significant amount of counter culture friends with a plethora of relationship dynamics. What I've witnessed is that loosey goosey relationships eventually take the back burner for people who come along and offer SOME type of definite security and parameters. This doesn't solely mean traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:40 PM
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As you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:04 PM
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I don't have an issue with people using them either. I get annoyed by the weirdos that absolutely swear that dating apps are a representation of real life and habitually deny that the apps aren't for profit entities designed to keep people away from each other and on the apps as long as possible. They also are in complete denial that women are are barely on the apps and the apps have consistently been caught in lies regarding female use and engagement of these apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:02 PM
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The obsessive blind devotion to dating apps always gets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:57 PM
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Habitually meeting emotionally unregulated people and inconsistent people is either a sign of a disturbed geographical area or a personal personality flaw, or a combination of the two. Every person met of the opposite sex isn't going to have enough social, emotional, or mental skill to be of the quality to have or maintain any type of meaningful relationship. Even if you do meet someone who is healthy enough for a sustainable relationships, that doesn't mean that you two are compatible enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:54 PM
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Agreed. Young people are dumb, naïve, and easy to exploit. Also, it's not just heterosexual men who think or feel this way. A gross trend of older women raving about dating significantly younger men, is that they're easy to "train". Age gap relationships are typically the significantly older person using their wealth and social privilege associated with age to manipulate the younger person at every turn. Of course there are instances where this doesn't happen. But I have RARELY met anyone in a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:46 PM
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Frankly, people who shape their world view and personal opinions around the entire demographic of people that they haven't had any real world experience with are low IQ. It doesn't make sense for a man or a woman to become bitter or hateful towards the opposite sex simply because they read opinions of strangers on the internet or watched a Youtube video. These people that are easily influenced by commentary instead of real world influence are simply looking for a punching bag to project their ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:38 PM
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Attractive enough, and yes they do. Most men in this sub literally say they wouldn't get involved with a woman that makes less than 40-50k a year. Most men in this sub aren't interested in fast food workers or retail workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:51 PM
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Your lack of interest in what I say isn't indicative of me "ignoring you". In most aspects of human life, people aren't walking around completely naked and bald. You don't have to buy my claim. It's commonsense that class is an aspect of the human hierarchy and some people are repulsed by those who are at the bottom on the human hierarchy. Tells exist, whether irrespective of whether you deny it or not. Historical records of elite and powerful men having mistresses of equally powerful and elite …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:50 PM
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Pumping and dumping high school crushes is classical hometown people. Hometown people have a level of perverted trashiness that doesn't really exist in the city. Lots of brother cousins in hometowns. Less so in the city. As I said, more options, less direct sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:34 PM
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Depends on the community. If a woman's outline is still visible, she has to layer herself until her figure is no longer visible. The outline of her tits was still visible, which is why she had to add another layer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:31 PM
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Being a sugar baby hits different for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:24 PM
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Avoid the pedos apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:23 PM
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It's certainly prevalent among people who never leave their home town and are all nearly related. Much less so for people who live in an area that has more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:21 PM
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High school chad specifically. Thats why so many lady teachers are ending up on the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:20 PM
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They come true when the ask is extremely low. lol I shudder at the thought of fucking anyone from my old high school. I doubt that most of them are even alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:18 PM
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You don't have to enter into relationships with women that fucked your friend. The world is much much bigger than your home town. You can move.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:17 PM
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Pedophiles target children that are available. Poor children are typically available because their parents don't want them, aren't available to supervise or protect them, and/or are willing to sell them off for their own profit. People who provide for their children, typically have a higher interest in seeing a return on their investment. Meaning that wealthy people are more likely to protect their children from pedophiles. People of specific classes are easy to spot. They have just as many "tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:16 PM
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She's been wanting to fuck him since they went to school together. She told him that she wouldn't "go home with him" as insurance incase he rejected her so that she wouldn't look like or feel like a looser. Your Chad friend made her dreams since school come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:03 PM
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No, a himbo is the male version of a bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:59 PM
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As previously stated. Your low standards don't represent general societal trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:55 PM
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You have to set it to Wombo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:44 PM
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I'm not referring to pedophiles. Obviously pedophiles would target poorly supervised and unwanted children. It's called classism. Just as certain people don't find people outside of their race or ability attractive. Certain people don't find people outside of their class attractive, irrespective of what they look like physically. I've literally been around men who have turned up their nose and made classist remarks regarding a physically attractive poor person being physically revolting to them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:42 PM
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Mentally disturbed with severe attachment issues. Someone who falls in love with every person that acknowledges them isn't sane to any degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:24 PM
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"Better" is a highly subjective term that can mean anything. An emotionally stable new person is "better" than an ex with anger issues. Emotionally stable people aren't rare. It doesn't take much effort to find someone who doesn't punch holes in walls or beat inanimate objects when they're angry. Whether or not it's easy to find someone better than an ex depends on what "better" is being defined as. It also depends on the quality of people within a dating pool. If someone is living in an economi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:14 PM
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Yep. An abusive dad or an inconsistent father is worse than an absentee father for the psychological and emotional development of a child. The quality of their father matters. A man ejaculating into a woman and residing in the same home of said woman doesn't automatically mean that he's a father that a child needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:35 PM
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People are becoming more obese due to franken food. Corporations and the media are trying to normalize obesity because obesity is becoming the standard. Instead of making changes to what they do to our food, they're normalizing what the franken food does. Our future is going to be like Wall-E. Most people will be obese, being fit and thin will be a subculture/counter culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:14 PM
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I don't want to get married or live with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:48 PM
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ah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:36 PM
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They don't want wives and children here. they want casual sex with barely legal, virgin, rich, super models .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:35 PM
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I totally forgot about him. I thought he died of cancer already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:21 PM
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Most people marry within their socioeconomic circle. Despite this sub always denying that fact, it is in fact reality. Typically men out earn their wives, due to women prioritizing childcare. Meaning that women postpone or sacrifice their careers and education for domestic care and labor regarding the children and home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:19 PM
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Porn doesn't equal real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:13 PM
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The higher a woman goes in income, the smaller her dating pool gets based on her income. She'll be dating within her income pool. People do not intermix socioeconomically. She'll be dating within her wealth demographic which is normal. The size of the dating pool is irrelevant, if the pool matches the general population for her specific group demographic. This seems to be a concept that you have difficulty grasping. Methed out Jimmy earning $7.50 an hour with 12 dozen children is not in her dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:12 PM
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Women who grow up in a 100K+ household and live in a community where most people make over 100K is normal. Poor people and low income people don't have these financial expectations. Poor people outnumber and outbreed high income people. You seem to be highly confused regarding who is who. A woman that grew up around 100K, makes or is ontrack to making 100K isn't delusional by any means. A woman that grew up in a cardboard box, that makes nothing or less than 20K a year is delusional if she think…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:02 PM
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I believe young women actually use social media more than men. Thank you for clarifying that your world view is shaped by the algorithm specifically tailored to show you exactly what you want to see and hear. As I said. If you want a taste of the real world. Go outside. No one in a trailer park is expecting a man, gay, they, or nonbinary to have 100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:39 PM
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Are you a male or female? If you're female, how would you even know? You're unaware of how people come to know things? How would you assume that I would come to this conclusion or have this kind of information? Wealthy (as in generational multi-millions) is completely different from middle class. This entire paragraph needs a re-write. It doesn't sound like you have much experience with people who are middle class and higher. It doesn't sound like you've socialized with or been around anyone who…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:38 PM
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No. I actually think young men are worse when it comes not navigating age gap relationships. It's possible that I could just have a bias, but every young dude that I knew who seriously dated an older woman was steamrolled, gaslight, and dogged out. Though this is the general dynamic with age gap relationships. Typically I see young men getting the harsher end of exploitation. ​ Being encouraged to drop out of school or quit a career to be a "family" with the older woman and help provide and take…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:32 PM
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Doesn't really matter because the majority of people live in urban/suburban areas. I don't concern myself with what some rural person's requirements may or may not be. Some urban and suburban areas are extremely wealthy and high income. Average middle class is 40-80k yet only 2 of them said the high end of that was acceptable. Something's off. Your concept and understanding of what is "Average" is off. If a woman is making double of someone making 40k a year, It makes sense that she wants a part…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:24 PM
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It does. You feeding an algorithm that shows you women clamoring for 100K on the internet isn't representative of real life. Go to a trailer park or a ghetto if you want your mind changed. Income is important for people who care about finances and quality of life. A significant amount of people (men and women) don't care about money because they have other priorities or think that any level of financial security is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:14 PM
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If she's hot enough she can. And she can quit her fast food job. That's not how that works. Unless she meets a trashy guy that earned his money through the lottery or simply had a few good years in business. Most wealthy people aren't going "take care of" a hot retail worker. They're not even sexually attracted to most people outside of their class irrespective of how "attractive" they are. I'm trailer trash that slunk my way into a middle class lifestyle. The culture difference is huge. While I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:10 PM
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This sub largely ignored class, location, and demographics. An "average" person in bum fuck no where isn't the same as an "average" person living in a major city. Poor people outnumbering wealthy people, doesn't magically mean that the statistical availability of middleclass and wealthy people AMONGST EACH OTHER, doesn't exist. The women in this video are more than likely average middle class women. Meaning, what they're seeking and expecting is normal. If they were average low income women, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:05 PM
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To me, they both sound gross and undesirable. I think it's pretty ridiculous to have multiple children/fathers/marriages under one's belt by 30. I also think a mid 40's man paying for companionship is pretty trashy/cringey. Especially if he's fat and washed up. Sounds like the both scrapped the bottom of the barrel and are the best that each can do. At least they attempt to make up for their shortcomings with their income. If the guy wasn't a fat fuck it would be even better. At least the woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:49 PM
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Depends on location and class. A high school drop out working at McDonalds in the middle of no where has little to no chance of meeting or attracting someone that makes 40k let alone 100K. However, a woman with a graduate, Masters, or PHD living in the city that makes 80K+ herself has a reasonable chance of meeting a man that makes over 100K. I work in tech in an area with half a million people. Most of my peers married and single make at least or over 100K. It's abnormal for most people in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:33 PM
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Even when they do admit that they're assholes, they don't take responsibility. "Society forced me into it!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:04 PM
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I don't agree. I think most of them don't have the ability to self reflect or see an outside perspective of any kind. I don't believe that most of them have a realistic perspective or much footing in reality to any capacity. I think they genuinely see themselves as good faith and virtuous actors. Despite them being the complete opposite IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:02 PM
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I don't disagree at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:49 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:39 PM
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Be the change you want to see and report.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah. Kinda difficult to feel sorry for the "victims" in these situations because they willingly gravitate towards these dynamics and refuse to change any aspects of how they conduct themselves relationally or who they choose. At least you and your friend group are self aware and aren't pretending that he's some irresistible "bad boi". What annoys me is that these dudes typically pretend that this shit doesn't work on any run of the mill emotionally damaged, desperate, anxious person. It works w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:28 PM
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Yep. They finally learn about emotionally damaged women with poor boundaries, low self esteem, and anxious attachment. They think they got it all "figured" out by taking advantage of the low hanging fruit of emotionally damaged individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:07 PM
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Act. U. Ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:00 PM
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Now you're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:32 PM
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I made one. It speaks in general most of the time. It doesn't have memory, so if you had a conversation previously it doesn't remember anything. I ask it about itself and beliefs when I'm bored. It always gives a different answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:31 PM
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Hol up... Factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:24 PM
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Did you make on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:21 PM
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Most of the time men aren't asking for "dating" advice. They're asking for NSA sex advice. The disconnect comes from people asking vague questions where others fill in the blanks to what they assume is being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:16 PM
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I get that. I rarely dated where I grew up because everyone was already twice divorced, on their 3rd or 4th kid, and usually addicted, falling into an addiction, or "sober". When your dating options are shit, and you have to choose between the least shitty person, the only other choice is to move or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:39 PM
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If the common denominator is you, there is a pretty good chance you're most attracted to unavailable women who have an aversion to emotional intimacy. Otherwise it's pretty sus that every woman ran for the hills as soon as you showed that you're all in. Or perhaps you're just dating tweakers that run off on a bender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:32 PM
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Have you ever considered that perhaps, you specifically are most attracted to unavailable women who are on the avoidance spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:25 PM
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lol. That's one way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:23 PM
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Well that sucks. Were you actually interested in her at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:17 PM
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The technology for either sex to continue procreating in the event of one sex being eradicated doesn't currently exist. Theoretically, women could procreate and live longer than men, due to sperm banks existing. But that would still be from sperm produced by living males. Either able bodied sex could live without the other until their natural demise. There's enough canned food and housing for even the most inept individual to survive indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:00 PM
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Actually, guys aren't natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:35 PM
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Sex - Not happening. Relationships- Ghey Monogamy - Simping Pimps up, hoes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:29 PM
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Don't go on boring dates if you rarely get dates. Non boring dates don't mean expensive. Go play laser tag, go paddle boating, do an escape room, take a cooking class, play trivia, to to improv. Pretend to be street performers and see who can earn the most money in tips. Do something engaging where you both can show an ounce of personality and play off of each other organically and let a few walls down. You can't expect to have a connection over a shitty interview, with shitty coffee, in a loud …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:28 PM
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Being an unpaid intern to an adult that believes they're constantly being "nagged" and drug around by their haggard annoying wife isn't a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:26 PM
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Regret is a meaningless word without the parameters being defined. Regret can literally mean anything from regretting shitty sex to regretting not doing something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:41 PM
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Depends on the values an individual has. Some people only want a partner that will never leave. They don't care how agitating, irresponsible, annoying, or boring a person is. Just as long as they're always there. Some people want a partner that they can do life as a team with while having relative compatibility. They don't want to be driven mad by someone who irritates them and doesn't understand them at all. It's a matter of who values what more. Some people care more about the quality of a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:46 PM
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People have lives that weren't great. Men wanting to stick their penises into someone's orifices doesn't magically resolve traumatic experiences and neglectful/bad upbringings. This is like asking why a male war vet has PTSD because he can fuck women that have fetishes for men in uniform. Sex and sexual attention from random people isn't a magical cure for mental and emotional issues or trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:35 PM
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Cleaning up after one's self is different than cleaning up after another adult. People bitch and become enraged with having to clean up after roommates that are paying half the rent, but leaving a trail of dirty dishes and clothes everywhere. It's disrespectful. It's also typically people that are incompatible, ignoring reality, and believing that "love" conquers all. A neurotic clean person has ZERO business living with, let alone marrying a slob. That is a self induced problem. I don't agree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:10 PM
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Also a reminder. One person in the relationship has to be smaller to make sex practical. I hear fat couples say that sex becomes nearly impossible. Or it becomes extremely uncomfortable due to sweating, heaviness, and brush burn from the excess skin hanging around. Lots of fat people on tik tok saying that there's only enough room in the relationship for 1 fupa.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:58 PM
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When a man is essentially a potato with zero thoughts and agency, yes, it's un attractive. I have a preference for submissive and subservient men. But mindless robots that can't make a decision for themselves and lack the ability to make deductions regarding past experiences annoy me. For example I prefer men that recall things that I enjoy and offer them as suggestions of things to do when I ask him what he'd like to do or where he'd like to go. I lose interest in men who say "whatever you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:27 PM
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I think once the fetus develops past a certain point it can experience something. I don't think there's any morality in forcing a child to live in suffering. In 2023 we have unwanted children, neglected children, orphaned children, children who grew up in foster care, and children who were adopted give there accounts of what their quality of life and lived experience was and is currently. I don't see the humanity or morality in ignoring millions of negative accounts of these people, just to cher…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:21 PM
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Members of the average population can all start cooking meth as a form of self employment. We don't need to eliminate gun laws dude to a minority of the population. A hard hitting solution would actually be permanently separating violent individuals from society on their first offence. And not letting people who have over 40+ violent charges back out onto the street repeatedly. Most of these people are repeat offenders that escalate their violence over time. Removing them the first time, permane…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:49 PM
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I thought it was creepy and shitty when it came out. I got into an argument with my friends about it in high school. When I asked what of any us said or did this to their girlfriend, who was also supposed to be apart of the friend group, only then did they agree with me that it was a shitty and creepy song. It's not cool to shit on a friends romantic partner. If someone has feelings for their friend they should speak up when they're single. Instead of trying to sabotage their relationship and pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:46 PM
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I never made claim that you wanted to abolish prisons. The average population isn't committing violent crime. They're not the demographic of discussion. Mental health treatment isn't the hard hitting solution for the violent crime that is referenced in the US. Which is why I said, I'm an advocate of permanently separating these people from the general population, irrespective of whether or not they get mental health treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:41 PM
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I'm all for abortion and at any stage. It should also be easier for people to get sterilized. People who don't want to be parents rear the worst demographic of people and it contributes to an inhumane amount of suffering for the child that typically grows up to be an adult that is a stain on society. Children should only be born to parents that want them and can adequately provide for them, in all aspects, including emotionally, mentally, financially, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:38 PM
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I don't agree. I think that some demographics of people need permanently removed from the general public. Whether that is an institution, prison, or separate entity. Everyone isn't fit enough to engage in society. The bubble gum narrative of people just needing "treatment" isn't reality. Emotionally, unstable, and hyper violent people exist. Pretending that every nutter is simply one pill and therapy session away from rehabilitation isn't reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:33 PM
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America is a violent place. I've also used my gun in self defense before. I'd rather have my gun and not need it, than need a gun and not have it. This country doesn't do much with violent and mentally unstable people. Other than let them roman free ant terrorize to their hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:18 PM
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The guns didn't do anything. I like my gun. I want to keep my gun. I shouldn't loose my gun rights because of a few nutters running around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:59 PM
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Other women were literally the biggest obstacles to the women's right movement. Other women literally forced their daughters into arranged marriages. Other women literally engage in female genital mutilation of their own children. Women don't rally together or stick together for shit. It's usually other women generally siding with men and the male social standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:58 PM
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Lol now false accusations aren't THAT common. Gotta love the narrative this sub spills depending on their mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:39 PM
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Apparently, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:37 PM
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You should have asked if she was Re$$$arded or if she had multiple personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:24 PM
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The denial is getting embarrassing. You know that I'm right. Otherwise, you literally wouldn't care. I struck a nerve of truth and you can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:20 PM
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Predicting your oncoming whining fest that will be dripping with victimhood isn't a revenge "fantasy". You'll either be whining about a false accusation, or you'll be whining that she's whining about you not respecting her boundaries and using her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:09 PM
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And the she complains about her regrets afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:58 PM
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Don't whine and complain about false accusations if she regrets it later. Or gives you some speech about how you failed to respect her boundaries and that she really just wanted to cuddle and doesn't know if she can trust you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:47 PM
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Why would you have sex with someone who said that they didn't want to have sex with you? And you people whine about "false rape" allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:43 PM
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And because it costs more to be fat these days. They're hangry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:42 PM
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I don't put sugar in my coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:41 PM
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Most women don't get flowers on dates or the doors held open for them either. Sounds like these guys are just reading romance novels and aren't actually living in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:17 PM
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Men have always been irrationally pissed at women for existing. They've been complaining about women living and doing things since they could speak. They complained when women learned how to read. They complained when women learned how to ride bikes. They complained when women had to work in factories. All they do is complain. Males can also literally do whatever they want. Men won the right to go topless within 24 hours. If they genuinely want to wear dresses and act like a princess, all they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:10 PM
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sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:06 PM
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I think it's just sad and pathetic. Maybe the plebs will catch on some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:00 PM
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They just worked in colleges. They didn't actually go to college. You're asking questions above their pay grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:49 PM
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They don't like other men and don't care about other men. They're self focused. They just want the world handed to them on a silver platter with zero effort for simply being born male. They don't care about the quality of life of other people. Nor are they interested in building bonds and community with other people. Their priority is throw tantrums until they get what they want. They have no vested interested in doing anything or building anything with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:47 PM
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It's also young men willing going to die and kill people they don't know, for vague reasons they loosely understand because old rich men told them to. This is how you know that humans are fucking stupid. Poors love volunteering to kill each other for the interests of old rich men. I guess they genuinely think those old rich fucks will trickle down a little wealth before they become a corpse on the battle field.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:43 PM
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Masculinity is socially and culturally defined by what isn't feminine. What women do and say is literally the necessary pillars to define masculinity. Women are imperative to what masculinity means because it's very definition is supposed to be in absolute opposition to what women do and what women are. Men use women as props to define their masculinity because they have to. Without women to be a negative comparison to use in order to define masculinity, men can't be masculine. Men can't be masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:39 PM
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I don't think that 50/50 in a relationship is actually possible. However, people will have fair relationships if they chose partners that mutually made their lives easier, brighter, and made being with them a better option than doing life alone. The problem is that women choose men that are worthless man babies that disproportionately burden them. Women create more work for themselves by failing to choose men that actually make their lives easier and don't create more unnecessarily work and stre…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:16 PM
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No. I tend to attract extremely religious, conservative men, that want to get married and have children. I'm an alternative, counter culture, atheist, marriage free, and childfree individual. The men that I'm most attracted to are typically already taken or just aren't romantically interested even if we share the same exact beliefs, values, and interests. I think the conservative men just get obsessed because I give them attention. I'm the "wild" woman they just want to tame. I think their inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:48 PM
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You're confused that I don't have empathy for people who whine about being pregnant or impregnating someone? Abortion isn't legal every where. People can do whatever they want with their own organs. If a woman wants to shove a coat hanger or boiling water into her cervix she's free to do so. They're her organs. If she's capable of aborting the fetus herself or getting someone else to do it, I don't care. Are you not aware of the concept of dead beat dads? Men literally abandon their children all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:54 PM
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Nope. I'm pro abortion. And Pro post birth execution, assisted suicide, etc. I just have zero empathy for people who engage in consensual sex with fertile sex organs and complain about a resulting pregnancy. Especially when the ability to get sterilized is cheaper and easier for males. And the options for them to still father children if they change their mind is significantly less expensive and a higher possibility compared to women. People who don't want children need to be permanently kept aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:38 PM
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You're allowed to reject whoever you want. You're also allowed to vent about being single. The issue is the hypocrisy, where these people feel entitled to reject who they deem worthy of their standards, but have a psychotic break if anyone rejects them. They demand treatment that they fail to extend to other people. It doesn't make sense to be confused or feel "lied" to when people are mirroring ones own behavior. Nothing regarding their own logic makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:33 PM
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I'm sterilized, so this argument is irrelevant to me. I don't have empathy for males or females that engage in sex an pregnancy occurs. Most of these people use zero contraceptives or use them incorrectly/irregularly. People like me, who don't want children, get sterilized irrespective of how difficult, time consuming, or expensive it is. It took me 7 years to find a doctor willing to do it and I never had an "accident" during that timeframe. So unless a man or a woman was raped. I could give tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:30 PM
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They want kids. They just don't want any responsibility or obligation towards them. They want to abandon children for the rest of society to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:15 PM
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Yeah. It hurts like hell and for hours days afterwards depending on how rough the guy was. Not a pleasant experience. The cervix is not a pleasure organ.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:13 PM
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Right. And these autists also don't tell the truth regarding WHO they want this attention from. They don't want any attention from their equally fat counterparts. I've literally seen fat guys shit on fat women, as if they magically deserve a fit model type woman for some reason. Looks matter significantly to them, but no one else is supposed to care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:10 PM
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The Reddit pages that focus on big dicks, are obviously going to attract people who are into that. Yeah. Some women are into having their cervix falcon punched. I'm not apart of that demographic. ​ What would you consider small? The same size as his index finger? As said, I care more about girth than length. Sex gets less practical under 4 inches of length. I care about how thick a penis is more than I care about how long it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:43 PM
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Your size sounds average. Obviously enough length has to exist for sex to be physically possible. However, I prefer girth over length. Skinny dicks feel like nothing. I've only been with a few guys, but have been fortunate that everyone I dated was slightly above average and on the girthier side. Few FWb's I've had were all on average and slightly smaller than average side. Monster dicks are highly impractical. 7in+ territory is very very difficult. I'm confident in knowing the size that I like …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:16 PM
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Women can have it all if they earn enough to outsource a majority of the domestic and childcare to someone else. Or if they have a partner that equally contributes. Women's difficulties typically stems from women having it all and doing a majority of it all alone, even with a partner in the picture. The issue is that women typically choose partners that aren't helpmates. They pick someone that is a burden and ends up making their lives more difficult and complicated than it needs to be. Women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:17 PM
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Human socialization is multifaceted. You also have to put effort into making genuine effort during your interaction with people. There is an art to bonding with people. Essentially you have to learn how to "disarm" people and make them feel like the center of attention in a way that isn't obsessive, ass kissing, or "fake". This is how to socialize with anyone. There's an art to making one's presence known without obnoxiously dominating the floor. There's an art to making people feel safe/secure …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:51 PM
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Males are just hypocrites. They always make excuses to benefit their sexual gratification whether it's watching porn, jacking off to images of female family members, or cheating with strangers of hookers. They literally defend everything that they do in order to get off. And they always demonize women's sexual gratification. In their eyes, women aren't allowed sexual pleasure at all. Most of them believe that women don't even feel sexual pleasure. As per usual with males. Rules for thee and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:14 PM
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People typically stop being fanatics past a certain age. Obsessive fan behavior is typically only done by young people. Young people have less obligations and can chase down celebrities. People who have careers families and other obligations aren't going to waste their limited precious time to look at an actor and hear them say the same curated answers they've already heard 1000 times from interviews. Young people also have the fantasy that they'll be able to "get" their favorite celebrity. Olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:21 PM
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I know a man that stayed with a woman that ran him over. He lost use of his left leg and was permanently disabled because of it. Men just like psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:12 PM
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I do think many short men have a complex, but not all of them do. I have met men that demanded I didn't wear heels on dates or would constantly make self degrading jabs or agressive comments accusing me of wanting to he with taller men. Some men are absolutely nutty when it comes to their height and end up taking out their aggression on people who literally don't care about their height. These weirdos also never seem to want to date women their own height. They're always going after women extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:17 PM
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Depends. If you're selecting the same type of woman over and over again then yes. If a woman is shy, introverted, on the spectrum, has anxiety,or is trad, the yes you will have to be the entertainer. You'll constantly have to break the ice and constantly have to regulate the womens mood and emotions for her to be receptive of you. If you date different women that are confident, secure, and interested, then there will be a mutual effort to have fun with you, make sure that you're comfortable, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:10 PM
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I'm not referring to porn. You seem to be confused
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:31 PM
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It's not a minority of women. The romance novel industry alone is a 1.4 billion dollar industry. That doesn't include all of the romance games, Apps, AI, and romance role play communities. Many women actually admit that they find companionship in the fantasy of these romance worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:51 PM
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Classic!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:47 PM
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Mitigating doesn't mean completely eliminating. Just because someone is educated and has a career doesn't mean that they aren't a closeted homosexual in denial, a poly person in denial, an addict, an abuser, a batshit insane person that's insufferable to be around, or a person who is trash at picking partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:23 PM
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I don't disagree lol. But people are people. Most people don't want to eat just a hamburger with water. They want to feel full. It's easier to eat healthier when there are better restaurant options as well. For example eating PHO instead of pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:20 PM
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good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:18 PM
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I agree. It is mutually reinforcing cycle. The person is too tired and drained to cook and pack a healthy meal to to take to work. They eat fast food regularly and gain weight. Which makes them tired and drained. The person gets even more tired and drained, and never gets the energy or motivation to cook and pack healthier meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:52 PM
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Does reddit have a sub dedicated to your city or zip? You'd be better off going there to ask. I've gone with men and women out to shows when they posted on reddit that they had an extra ticket and wanted company.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:47 PM
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Exhaustion and burn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:45 PM
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They gain weight by eating high calorie fast food every meal. It's easy to get fat if someone is eating a 1800cal breakfast, 2000 cal lunch, and 2000 cal dinner. It doesn't even have to be a high quantity of food. Simply eating fast-food hamburgers, fries, and a soda 3 times a day and pack on a shit ton a weight, despite the volume of food being incredibly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:36 PM
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Nothing. My closest best friends are male. It would be hypocritical of me to make inappropriate assumptions regarding opposite sex friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:33 PM
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They're not interested in "making moves" they're trying to sell OF, Drugs, or Ass. Online dating is trash. Stop using it. Go outside and meet people in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:32 PM
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I doubt it. My earliest memory of not wanting any children was when I was 7. I always said that I didn't want children, before I was forced to take care of my niece. I never had any interest in it and being a mother is the shit deal of parenting. Most of the mothers around me had the lives sucked out of them. It never seemed fair or enjoyable. It's possible I'd be open to having children if being a father was on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:30 PM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:23 PM
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I'm childfree. Children are hell and I have zero However, I've helped raise my niece and was forced to be her primary care giver in high school. My friends have been having babies since high school and I've been involved in their childrens childcare. I've been around babies and responsible for babies since I was 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:49 PM
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No. Splitting is what long game gold diggers do. They pretend to be fair, then gradually start asking for money and gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:31 PM
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Seems like she's trying to avoid male gold diggers that are only after her money and want free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:00 PM
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Most people don't have any time with new borns. The baby is 4 months old, unless it's family, most people don't hire baby sitters until the child is 8-12 months old. It's possible that the the wife is being an unreasonable paranoid 1st time mother. However, it sounds like the OP is extremely naïve and oblivious to what being a parent is like. If he genuinely thinks his wife is being unreasonable, he should take control of the situation. He should ask his parents to come get the kid and take the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:47 PM
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Babies take time and resources. Every hobby that this guy claimed was expensive and time consuming. No one who is actually raising babies gets to spend hours away from their kids playing videogames unless they have someone else taking care of their kids. Time consuming hobbies can only be engaged in once the kids are older. If this man expects his wife to be a single mother while he plays video games and has m5 hour game nights with friends multiple nights a week, she'd be better of getting a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:27 PM
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How entitled for vagina owners to have an allergic reaction on a date. Those ungrateful bitches and their weak genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:24 PM
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I don't agree that the examples I gave were abusive. There's a difference between shitting down a shower drain, and exposing people to human waste on a daily basis. The example that I gave is a disturbing inconvenience. The example you gave is exposure to human waste. There's a difference. Someone being emotionally unstable isn't abuse towards another person if no verbal or physical abuse takes place. It's not abusive towards a partner for someone to be elated in the morning and depressed at nig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:16 PM
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I agree. As women are very large consumers of relationship geared games and romance services where they pay men to pretend to be their boyfriend for a day. Women want the fantasy that men are nice, polite, doting, gentlemen that cater to their needs while having a reciprocal bond. AI will give women the fairytale relationship that they've always wanted with a kind and patient man who "gets" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:02 PM
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There are different types of behavior that can categorized as crazy without being abusive. For example, A boyfriend/girlfriend shitting in the shower and stomping the shit down the drain everyday, causing regular clogs that need constant repair isn't abusive, but it is crazy behavior. A boyfriend/girlfriend having drastic mood swings that don't involve verbal/physical abusive isn't abusive, but it is crazy behavior. People are capable of engaging in unbearable behavior that puts a strain on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:58 PM
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All data shows that people are marrying and having children later in life. 30's Plus. What you're referring to was true 20 years ago. That isn't the reality now. The time it takes to acquire stability is longer for average people. Responsible people wait until they're financially, mentally, and emotionally stable before starting a family. For average people, that means 30+ years of age in this modern time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:45 PM
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No. You have selective attention and cherry picked what you wanted. What's happening with humans is far more complex than what happened with the mice. And what happened to the mice is largely misrepresented. There is a spectrum of male behavior across cultures, and the sexual expression and behavior of male humans has relatively stayed the same throughout human history. Pretending that male humans are more sexually aggressive now than in recent history is ridiculous. The complexities of male hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:40 PM
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There were sexually successful males leading up to the extinction end. The sexual behavior of the animals rapidly declined with each new generation. That is a failure. If the animals stopped reproducing and engaging in sex all together, that is considered sexual failure in both sexes. ​ The first rats introduced to the experiment did have experience with "outside", but the next couple of generations born in captivity did find initial success. They did not find "initial success" The population pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:31 PM
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I never said anything about "rich" people. A spectrum of people exists. Normal, sane, and healthy people exist on that spectrum. Everything isn't black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:14 PM
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Your conclusion doesn't make any sense. The animals stopped mating all together, thus there was no "successful" male. Animals held in captivity with the inability to behave and engage with their environment as they biologically evolved to do, became engulfed with neurological deterioration that eventually led to the demise of the entire group. None of this data makes any commentary toward successful mating strategies. The animals literally stopped mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:11 PM
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Most people are corporate boot lickers, irrespective of their political color. Corporations are literally their gods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:05 PM
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Yes they do. I'm childfree. I tried to date older men thinking that they wouldn't want any children. Many men 50+ that spent their youth fucking around have the expectation that they can find a 30 year old to settle down and start a family with. A lot of men get desperate when they're older. Especially if they don't have friends or family that they regularly keep in contact with. They eventually want the stability, consistency, and companionship that family provides as they get older. It's sad r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:04 PM
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Not really. Most people are one or the other. People who meet romantic partners online aren't the same as people that use dating apps. Trauma isn't normal. Growing up in an unstable, hateful, sick, and poor family isn't normal. This is a distorted and limited view. Most people don't settle down until their 30's and 40's. Plenty of good prospects exist in the dating pool. As I said. different people tend to congregate in certain areas. Dysfunctional people are often unable to get out of environme…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:43 PM
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Online dating is oversaturated with these types of people. Their abnormalities drive them to use online dating due to the low barrier of entry. It's more difficult for these people to socialize irl among people who don't also share these issues. I've found plenty of normal, sane, and healthy people IRL. But it required me to go outside and socially interact with people face to face. Everyone isn't low income. Everyone isn't mentally ill. Everyone isn't a drug addict. Everyone doesn't have a pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:26 PM
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They also ignore that it's only low income, mentally ill, dark triad women, traumatized people, and people with personality disorders that are into that shit. Sane and normal people reject people who have antisocial behaviors. Normal people depend on cooperation from other humans. It's primitive instinct for social animals to reject peers that aren't cooperative, generous, and safe because they threaten the safety and security of the group. These people always try to claim they know about ScIENC…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:22 PM
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Fatty was trying to shoot her shot and you shot her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:15 PM
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This is true for the following demographics of people low income mentally ill personality disordered drug addicts equally violent and dangerous people people with a history of truama Everyone else that is sane and normal doesn't want to be around emotionally unstable and violent assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:50 PM
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You said she enjoys being degraded. So yes. Taking her somewhere trashy to do something trashy fits the bill. If she's that scummy and mentally ill like you said, it would probably turn her on even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:03 PM
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Why would you let her know where you live?????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:46 PM
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I hope she doesn't have any of your personal information to find you. Such as your name, phone number, email address, or home address.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:15 PM
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Gotcha. And it makes sense. None of my ex's were bad people, but I also don't want to date anyone that shares similar characteristics to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:30 PM
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I like to browse the local mug shots every now and then. Lots of women with DV charges and failure to pay childsupport. I'm surprised. Usually the women are just trafficking drugs or using drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:23 PM
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I don't think there's a problem with having bad experiences previously and wanting to avoid dating because of it. It's only an issue when people project their bad experiences onto everyone else. It's perfectly find and reasonable to want to avoid people that mirror behaviors and personality traits of your ex. It's unreasonable to claim that all or most people are exact replicas of your ex because they share the same sex. Just as every male isn't a family annihilator and wife beater, every woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:13 PM
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The only "performance" people should engage on during the initial dating phase is basic manners, looking presentable, and basic hygiene. Putting on a fake persona to attract someone who otherwise wouldn't be attracted is a recipe for disaster. Women who don't wear makeup and don't get dressed up regularly , shouldn't wear makeup and be dressed up on a first date. People should present their authentic self in a non-offensive way. No one should pretend or perform anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:40 PM
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I actually like most libertarian men that I meet and they're often more humanist than liberal men. I do think that most republicans hate women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:36 PM
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You shouldn't be so comfortable with clearly mentally ill women that you meet on the internet. Just because she's enthusiastically sucking your dick today, doesn't mean she won't be cutting it off tomorrow. Mentally ill and emotionally unstable people aren't safe. Even if you're male, they can still harm you. It can go from being funny and fun, to serious and scary rather quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:34 PM
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No one is going to call CPS if you're not home for a few days and or leave your pet at a kennel while you go on vacation. Pets aren't children. They can be left alone for hours on end without any legal consequences. Hell even if someone neglected or abused their pet (intentionally or unintentionally) there is little legal consequences for that. Pets are cheaper, pets aren't going to claim that you're ruining their lives or were a bad parent. Pets don't require college tuition, rent money, or oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:27 PM
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I agree. Too many men will take or settle for any woman just so that they aren't alone and have access to consistent sex. They tolerate women that they aren't attracted to and women that they don't like just for company and sex. Which ends up making everyone miserable in the end. Men should be more selective/choosy and only go after women that they actually like completely as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:22 PM
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It's possible. This is why it's important to date people regarding their character, beliefs, and based off of their behavior. Instead of choosing someone based solely on their physical attraction, and what they do for you, people should choose their partners based on who they are as an individual and the cohesion they have together as a couple. People who believe in loyalty, commitment, and obligations are less likely to cheat or leave a relationship (irrespective of how bad or horrific it is) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:19 PM
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Women do acknowledge that dating is difficult. Most people are aware that it's hard to find the right person these days. However, with the internet, people are going to extend on that notion and share their own opinions. Some men are horrible people and their inability to date is because of their personality. Of course this doesn't apply to all men, but it is a reality for some men. Some people are the reason why they're single. Sometimes people are single because they're just not compatible wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:12 PM
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And I would have gotten away with it! If it wasn't for you meddling kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:55 AM
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The body is gross and filled with poop
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:21 AM
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That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 10:31 PM
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N count bad. No man on Earth is raising his own biological children. Every woman is fucking top 20% of men. Apps are the only way to enter into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:17 PM
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I have to say. My slutty friends are my favorite. I love watching their shenanigans and hearing their stories. They're fun people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:14 PM
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Of course. Women gaining weight in relationships and aging in relationships are common reasons men state lack of attraction to tyeir women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:58 PM
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You should have a heart to heart with them. That expresses empathy towards their feelings regarding your transition to adulthood, that also emphasizes how their alienation will ultimately push you away. I'd say something along the lines of "I appreciate how much you two love me and that watching me transition into adulthood is difficult. However your refusal to acknowledge my boyfriend is hurting my feelings. You haven't expressed any judgement or criticisms of him. So your rejection of him just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:53 PM
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I don't consider that normal at all. That is highly dysfunctional behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:41 PM
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People are talking about normal and healthy relationships. Not dysfunctional relationships where the husband pretends to be retarded and is too lazy to wipe his ass after he shits. Marriages with dead bedrooms have a significant amount of problems. Primarily being parentification of a partner or overt hostility towards a partner. Normal married people who work regular hour and don't have toddlers or newborns have sex 2-3 times a week minimally. Reffering to dead bedroom couples as the heterosexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:32 PM
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Why do they hate him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:23 PM
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I haven't seen numerous studies that you referenced. Most references to women being more attracted to testosterone during their menstrual cycle wrongly interpret the data from the 2008 study that I'm referring to regarding estradiol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:00 PM
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It's a pattern that I've noticed. More than likely, once women feel secure in a relationship they feel safe enough to express their sexuality as it is. I think men get bored sexually in relationships because the expectation in NORMAL/HEALTHY relationships is that some effort will have to happen in order to sexually satisfy his partner. I mainly hear men complain once they're in relationships that sex takes to long and that they don't feel like doing foreplay all of the time and don't feel like d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:49 PM
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It's a pattern that I've noticed. More than likely, once women feel secure in a relationship they feel safe enough to express their sexuality as it is. I think men get bored sexually in relationships because the expectation in NORMAL/HEALTHY relationships is that some effort will have to happen in order to sexually satisfy his partner. I mainly hear men complain once they're in relationships that sex takes to long and that they don't feel like doing foreplay all of the time and don't feel like d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:43 PM
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You're probably simply not paying attention to average young people living because it doesn't fit your narrative. They more than likely blend into the background and you put most of your attention on the couples that look the most attractive to feed your own bias. It could also be that younger people impacted by the looks expectations caused by social media make them more likely to spend their time indoors and in isolated social circles than in public. However, I'm more inclined to believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:22 PM
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This is false. It is a hypothesis based off an study on estradiol concentrations in women and whether or not there is a behavioral response according to the testosterone levels of other men during these fluctuations. There have been no replicated studies on a large population that prove this as a fact or plausible possibility. Human sexuality extends beyond testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:18 PM
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So really a highly masculine man is not the pretty boy model, but rather the lumber jack or balding ufc fighter etc. Masculinity, generally, does not look very pretty but rather rugged. This is false. Excessive sex hormones that cause abnormalities aren't a measure for males or females to be more attracted to the opposite sex. For example, women with excessive estrogen aren't more "female" compared to other women. It's an abnormality that often creates less visually attractive side effects. Such…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:12 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:51 PM
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Masculinity has zero scientific or biological footing. The perception of masculinity is purely cultural. Arbitrary measures of masculinity defined through social perception aren't reasonable measures to quantify human female attraction to maleness. The only partial way to measure a woman's sexual attraction to "maleness" would be to measure how likely it would be for a woman to be more or less attracted to exaggerated secondary male sex characteristics. Example being Whether or not women are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:45 PM
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Jealousy is a normal human emotion, how it's expressed isn't always normal or healthy. Personally, I've always appreciated when my partner or a guy I was dating took the initiative to ward off guys who would hit on me. Men have a tendency to not take "NO" for an answer from women. When a guy I was with said something, the other man would often apologize and leave immediately. If I attempted to thwart off the advances the guy typically doesn't leave which causes an escalation. I don't mind protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:42 PM
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I don't agree at all. I believe that humans opting out of social structures that don't benefit them to be the most natural order of things. Not participating in a structure, is far more impactful. You're also making the assumption that korean men don't want to be spiteful or abusive towards women. As I said, they're importing foreign wives and are subjecting them to more abuse than korean women face. You're making the assumption that korean women want a partner. I'm not a feminist, nor do I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:14 PM
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80% of korean women experience domestic violence from males that they know. Including family members, friends, and romantic partners. 8 out of 10 korean men support using physical violence against their family and romantic partners. It's their culture. Treating women like shit is as natural as taking a shit to them. They like it and prefer it. Seems like korean men are fine with keeping mandatory military service and taking their frustrations out on Korean women through violence. Men in Korea ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:24 PM
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Depends. I would never go 50/50 on a shared living space with someone who earned more than me. I'd rather live alone and have my own space exactly how I wanted. Also I'd be able to live within my own means and organize my finances according to my needs. If we were just shacking up with no real plans of the future, I'd expect him to pay most if not all of the bills if he made significantly more than me. "Special" things that I'd do would depend on the following It would depend on the dynamic of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:27 PM
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Words are supposed to matter. Many dip shits use buzzwords as generic talking points and clearly don't know what the fuck they're talking about. "Woke" has become a meaningless buzzword just like all the others. It holds as much weight as Fascist, racist, feminist, liberal, nazi, phobe, etc. These words have devolved into slurs to insult the other group while failing to make a coherent accusation or criticism of any value. Asking dumbasses to define or clearly explain what the fuck they're talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:00 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:21 PM
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I'd fuck her mom. Aunts, and any other age appropriate female family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:30 PM
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This discussion isn’t about them is it. You and all the other males are making the claim that all women who want to wait to have sex are having a fuck ton of casual sex. When they're not. Even if they did, they can still wait to have sex if they want to. ​ Sure but they can’t whine and complain if it’s less options than someone with a lower sexual history. None of you are making the claim that you'll "choose" someone else. You're demanding to fuck the woman immediately when she doesn't want to. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:15 PM
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However if her priorities are a long term partner smart people don’t go out and have a bunch of casual sex because it hurts the ability to have that. People have been having less sex statistically for the past 30 years. Most people aren't having a "bunch" of casual sex. Stop confusing porn and sub cultures for average people. Hook up culture is a myth. Even if someone is apart of the hyper sexual sub culture, their casual sex history isn't a deal breaker for everyone. I'd want the Surgeon with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:59 PM
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In other words, as commonsense dictates. Different people have different priorities. Smart people who have goo decision making skills choose likeminded people as partners. A man that's pressuring a woman to fuck, when her priorities are finding a long term partner, isn't a good match. A man who is focused on fucking, isn't long term partner relationship material. A man whose priority is on penetrating a women, isn't interested in long term relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:47 PM
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Economically sensible people don't purchase expensive engagement rings. They're a waste of money that immediately depreciate in value. Millennials and under don't purchase expensive engagement rings. They use that money to invest in their future with property, or they go on a honeymoon. In other words, as commonsense dictates. Different people have different priorities. Smart people who have goo decision making skills choose likeminded people as partners. A woman who is financially responsible w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:26 PM
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Fundamentalist (insert religion here). Yep. Women literally put their life on pause to fo unpaid labor for decades, then have the shocked pikachu face that decades of unpaid labor is a poor life choice. Many women also fail to realize or acknowledge that failing to work for decades on end fucks up their retirement benefits. So many women are shocked to learn that they can't collect on social security that they didn't earn. Non-working spouses are supposed to receive half of the income of their w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:37 PM
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I agree. The logic is dumb as fuck. Only a moron or brainwashed individual would fall into that trap. It literally makes no sense. It's also what happens regularly in the fundi communities. There are women in their 40's and 50's whining and crying all over tik tok that they were raised to get married immediately and be a wife. They got married at 19 and started popping out kids immediately, while their husbands got educated, started careers, and networked. Once he finds a younger model and dumps…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:53 PM
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They think women are products or items that need to be sold off before they "spoil". They consider men to be people who need to go out, explore, develop, live life and grow before settling down. In other words, they believe that men deserve to live and experience life before they settle down. They believe that women deserve to simply serve someone else until they die without having any life experiences, goals, education, or purpose outside of serving a husband and raising children. Women aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:40 PM
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This is false. Most people who aren't born in conservative pockets in the middle of no where don't get married or settle down until they're in their 30's, even 40's at the latest. This isn't the 1400's where people are getting married off at 12 because they die from diarrhea at 14. Also both MEN and WOMEN are taking marriage more seriously than previous generations and are more selective of WHO they choose as a marriage partner. Meaning that most people who want to get married are basing their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:43 PM
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You do realize that anyone that has fertility is capable of breeding correct? Having children isn't a measure of "real success". Homeless people have children, drug addicts have children. The lowest dregs of society that don't have a pot to piss in have children. Breeding isn't an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:18 PM
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I think it's important to distinguish that people literally not doing anything isn't an "attack" on another group. I know you were being hyperbolic, but the insinuation means that women are in turn attacking men when they're not, they're simply avoiding and ignoring men. Korean men can vote or protedt against mandatory military service. They can create their own movement to socially and culturally change mandatory enlightenment. No. Men enjoy their position of superiority in Korea. They don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:23 PM
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Young people still meet in person. It just overlapps. They do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:52 PM
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They join communities regarding their specific interests or beliefs. They message each other, start dating and do long distance if they live far away, or date IRl if they're close. Tik tok is the most accurate because it cultivates content based on people's personalities. And often times it shares relevant content next to or around the users location. They see a comment that they like, send a follow and start talking to each other, then start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:20 PM
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Lol yes actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:16 PM
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Fuck no. I hate everyone and don't plan on stopping anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:16 PM
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The youngins don't use instagram causing a lack of app growth. L Mainly just millennials and gen X using the platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:12 PM
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A degree of skepticism and reservation when dating is healthy and normal. Clearly that's not what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:53 PM
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I wouldn't exist if that was the case. Poor people wouldn't exist if what you were saying was true. Stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:51 PM
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Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:42 PM
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I grew up in poverty. I grew up in a trailer park. I don't understand you people feel the need to lie so much on this sub. The only thing poor people have is access to sex and relationships. It's what they spend most of their time and attention on because it's the easiest thing to achieve. Which is why poor people are habitually engulfed in relationship drama. It's all they have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:41 PM
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Also reducing the disdain, disgust, and outright hatred towards the opposite sex helps. I'll never understand or believe anyone who claims to want to be romantic or sexually involved with a sex that they have so much criticisms towards. These dudes sound literally repulsed by women, then are magically confused when they fail to attract women that they hate being around, hate spending time with, hate talking to, think aren't significant people, and hate the way that their genitals are lol. It mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:04 PM
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Date other poor people. That way walking is enough. Throw a boiled egg into ramen and be considered a fancy rich fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:01 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:00 PM
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The one that rhymes with nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:59 PM
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Sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:46 PM
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Depending on their own merits to connect with other humans would then be their personal responsibility. If they stay on apps, they can pretend that they're putting in effort while blaming corporations and womenz for not producing a return on their monthly subscription fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:31 PM
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Lol instead of asking how he attracted someone, they're attacking him for literally getting what they all whine and cry about wanting. Just goes to show how mentally ill they are. You'd figure it would inspire them or give them hope that finding someone could be possible for them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:19 PM
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Dating within a social circle is relatively normal because most people only socialize with a handful of people. Dating the friend of an ex is more so a matter of opinion, more than a marker or measure of morality. Unless cheating was involved, your friend and your ex are free to date. I personally find it pretty disgusting and tacky. I can't conceptualize being sexually or romantically attracted to a friends romantic partner. Especially after knowing intimate details about their relationship. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:07 PM
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lol it took me by surprised too because I see the word used regularly. I said it as a joke towards a celebrity figure and got banned. Someone said it towards someone's behavior in the same exact thread and nothing happened to them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:59 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:24 PM
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Romanticism is an indivual thing. However, if we're making generic claims about the sexes women are more romantic. They're more likely to remember special dates and celebrating people and milestones. Women on average put more effort into making thoughtful displacys of affection and appreciation towards others. Men habitually say they don't care about any of that and often use not caring as a reason notto engage in such displays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:21 PM
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I've gotten bans for calling people "pal" and "Champ" lol. But I've been called a bitch and other names from users that don't get the "be civil" warning or bans. I also got a ban for ysing the c word about andrew tate in the daily thread and got banned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:13 PM
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Young people are meeting on Apps. Just not Dating apps. A significant amount of under 30's have their relationships start online. Mainly through Tik Tok, or online communities such as discord. Even Instagram (though it's a dying platform). These online platforms have AI that actually bring people together who share common interests. They speak to each other regarding the shared interest or beliefs, then the connection escalates into romance. They are also meeting in person. Younger people don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:22 PM
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If a man displays inconsistencies, then my belief is that they're trying to use "Strategies" just to get sex. Or that they're mentally ill, or that they have a personality disorder of some kind. I've had men go from hot to cold immediately. I'll give them a benefit of a doubt and ask whether it's work/life related. If they give an answer I'll provide them the space and distance necessary to handle whatever it is that they claim they're going through, and also extend the offer of support appropri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:05 PM
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Yes. However, Average men typically cannot literally afford to date a low wage and low income woman. Especially if that low wage woman is on the traditional spectrum of their beliefs regarding relationships. There is very much a culture associated with no income, extremely low income, and low income earners. For people who live life day by day, their priorities and way of thinking are on "survival mode". Which means that they don't often have a habit of planning for the future. Their lives typic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:30 PM
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An overprotective man, is typically a weak and controlling man that tries to keep everyone and everything away from the woman that he's dating. I can't stand men who constantly say "I don't want you doing XYZ because I'm afraid of other men.". I'm not going to sit in a box because a man is afraid of what other men will do to me. I exercise my first amendment rights. I know how to defend myself, I don't like or respect men that pretend their intention is to "protect" a woman, when in reality thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:09 PM
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Having a preference for what a partner does or how a partner presents themselves isn't misandrist or misogynistic. It's misandrist or misogynistic if someone thinks everyone should subscribe to their opinions and definition of what a man or woman should look like or be, else they aren't a "Real" man or a woman. There's a difference between saying "I prefer my partner not to have body hair." vs. "All women need to shave or wax because women shouldn't have body hair at all.". Those are two complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:38 PM
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Women with high sex drives are called whores and useless for having high N-counts. The discussion regarding male to female sexuality can't be taken seriously when women face social and public consequences for showing or giving the illusion of having a high sex drive. American society almost collapsed because of that wet pussy rap song. When women say they want sex people get pissed off and try to force the woman not to have the sex she wants. Human female sexual behavior is largely repressed due…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:36 AM
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I wouldn't call that a "gender war". Women are treat like shit in korea. Them choosing to stay single and not date men isn't an act of war. Women would have to retaliate to some degree for a war to exist, but they're literally not doing anything. Men in korea are doing what males typically do though. Killing, murdering, maiming, kidnapping, beating, trafficking, reording women in bathrooms, etc. For a war to exist. Women would have to fight back. Instead they're not doing anything. Pacifism isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:33 AM
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Facts. Women are largely to blame for entering to these dynamics, staying in them, and defending them to death until they get worn out and explode. So many women swear up and down that it's "not that bad". And that her husband taking out the trash once a month and replacing a brunt out light bulb over 3 years is a major contribution to the family. Only after the life has been suckedout of her asshole and she physically cannot carry the marriage one more inch, does she go into details of how the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:27 AM
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They're delusional. They try to attach themselves to any man of social status and means as an absolute reflection of themselves. It's disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:57 PM
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They don't trust any woman that they meet. They think every woman is a lying whore that's getting fucked ever hour on the hour by every Chad within a 40 mile radius. They also believe that if a woman fucked one guy for whatever reason on the first night or first week, she then has to fuck every other man that she comes across for all eternity. These people don't care about anything sane let alone rational. They just want to strong arm women into having sex as fast as possible and as soon as poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:35 PM
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Same. I was the splitting image of my ideal guy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:20 PM
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I'm really tired of people over romanticizing old fucks. These people didn't have a choice whether or not they went to war. People either fought, or they got murdered themselves. I hate this lie that men "protect women and children". They're protecting their damn selves. Let's also not pretend that women and children weren't also taking up arms. Most people aren't just going to sit on their asses and get murdered. Most people will opt to defend themselves if given the chance. The complete erasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:30 PM
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Litterally depends on the person. Some women expect those things. Other women don't. Men have the option of choosing women and choosing the relationship dynamics that they want. Typically people celebrate valentines day because their busy lives don't afford them ability to take time to acknowledge their relationship in an intimate or romantic way that goes beyond the monotony of what has to be done on a daily basis (such as working, cleaning, childcare, etc). Valentines day is an opportunity to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:03 PM
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If you bothered to read, she literally did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:09 AM
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It's not normal. Disordered people who get most of their lifes entertainment from drama oversaturate the dating pool. Because those that don't want to play the game enter into long term relationships or marriages, or they just stop dating entirely because there are so many unwell and unstable people over saturating everything. Also there are nutty people who think any boundary is playing games or is being unreasonable. It's reasonable to not someone to text or call all day. It's unreasonable to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:07 AM
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Some people don't have free time to randomly do things at your whim. Jobs, school, and social obligations exist. Dhe gave you a time and date that she was actually available. Consider being considerate of other people's lives and time. You should learn about what her weeks looks like on average and when she has free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:56 AM
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Society exploits and uses both sexes for the benefit of the top 0.0001%. People who are low IQ and desperate to feel superior over their fellow dregs of society enjoy being exploited and treated like shit if they get a pat on the head while they're being fucked in the ass. And if they can't feel superior due to sex, they'll use class, ability, age, religion, etc to feel better about themselves. At the end of the day, most people who aren't born into old wealth and old politically influential fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:27 PM
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For himand that care, they want a partner that is compatible with them and who has similar life goals. A Christian woman doesn't want a relationship with an atheist. A woman that's a clean freak doesn't want a relationship with a hoarder. A woman that is sober doesn't want a relationship with a man that is addicted. Just because two people of the opposite sex are single, doesn't mean that they're compatible partners. It's not just about two opposite sex people agreeing to be in a relationship to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:22 PM
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That seems to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:36 AM
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This is just the "rythm method". It's not effective because hormone fluctuations happen. Anything from stress, weight gain, or medication can change a womans cycle. Unprotected sex is a risk for pregnancy. If a sperm is capable of reaching an egg, pregnancy is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:20 PM
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I've certainly seen that happen, but they're only able to control weak women and I believethose dynamics are in the minority. As women that are easily controlled can get a controlling man in the west. Many western women who date non-western men feel culturally superior. They don't submit to these men because they're dominant women and also think their foreign husband should be grateful that they're with a western woman. They believe that western culture is superior and won't tollerate their husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:16 PM
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I agree. But I'll also say that women who come from more dominant countries such as the US are able to use their citizenship privlidge to get more submission and cooperation from men that would otherwise be more domineering towards the women from their own culture. In my observation it seems like western women are more likely to dominate their foreign mates into living more of a western lifestyle, vs western women submitting to living the cutural lifestyle of her male partner. Many western women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:47 PM
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Yeah my friends are good people. I agree with you. I also don't think it's just selfishness, I think it's also the complete disinterest and lack of effort that people seem to express towards their partner. I agree. But it's never going to work out irrespective of how long people stay together if one person refuses to be an adequate partner. If one man or woman is the only one putting in most of the effort, it's never going to work. That's the problem, there's always someone who isn't pulling the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:00 PM
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Agreed wholeheartedly. Many of the single men and women that I know are reasonable, flexible, sane, and stable people. I'm the manic pixie extrovert that is always imposing myself on helpless people. When I set people up that I consider to be a match. They lock each other down like a vice. They wouldn't have met each other of it wasn't for me interjecting myself into the lives of unsuspecting innocents. While some of them are absolute hermits, many or them are not. It's literally about meeting t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:01 AM
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No. If I'm not getting any enjoyment out of the encounter I'd rather go with the more visually appealing option. For example, if I had to eat shit, I'd rather eat shit that's in the shape of a decant waffle than eat the shit that's in standard log form. I don't want to eat shit, but if someone held a gun up to my head and forced me to eat shit, I'd eat the shit that was more visually appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:32 PM
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A straight woman would logically choose neither, so your question doesn't make any sense. If I had to choose, I would choose option 2. I'd rather make out with an attractive person vs and unattractive person if I had zero options to refuse either of them. I am not sexually aroused by either unattractive men or highly attractive women. If I had no choice and someone held a gun to my head forcing me to make out with one of them, I'd choose the more attractive woman. In reality, I wouldn't make out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:24 PM
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this is assuming that dual income also means dual financial participation. Many men and woman in relationships take advantage that they have a girlfriends, boyfriend, wife, or husband and don't adequately pay their fair share. Either they're fucking over their partner financially or they're getting fucked financially. I hear so many men and women complain about their partner not paying their half or portion due to constant bullshit "Emergencies" or simply buying gaming consoles or spending all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:35 PM
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I can see that you're allergic to facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:22 PM
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Men and women aren't being pitted against one another. Men and women aren't finding people who are quality partners for themselves specifically. Many of the complaints that NORMAL men and women have are completely legitimate. My friends that are single who have tried to date have legitimate complaints about the men and women that exist in the modern dating pool. ​ Unavailable men and women who just want to have sex and don't actually want a relationship is a legitimate complaint. That isn't "pit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:59 PM
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Do psychologists have to learn a new field of psychology in order to treat people from different cultures? Yes. ​ Will a psychologist's tactics not work on a person from a different culture? Different strategies and methods of treatment are required for different cultures. ​ Do we not all have the same human brain? No. Human brains are as individual as a fingerprint. They vary greatly in size, density, etc. Human brains are one of the most varied and unique human organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:21 PM
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Human psychology is the same everywhere. It literally isn't. ​ Any human culture is created AROUND our biology, not in spite of it. No it isn't. Human culture is created around the survival of the principles associated with historically violent and anti-social humans. ​ The structure of big cities kills community, not culture. This is false. AS individuals in rural areas also face the same type of isolation. ​ Relationships outside of families are not "de-valued" a person who is involved in his/…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:13 PM
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Assuming their ‚sexual aggression‘ is perfectly adjusted to their situation. Very possible they just get too aggressive and end up hurting their reproductive chances. It‘s not like every individual is a perfect fit Data already exists on the matter. As I said, bears are solitary animals. The protection of their territory and resources probably take priority over the desire to mate. It's possible that the threat of more bears (cubs) and the aggression of a female bear with cubs just isn't worth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:58 PM
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People aren't the same every where. Sometimes horrific behavior is necessary. That's not the point. Humans being peaceful, doesn't simultaneously that they're also completely harmless. Humans do have a nature, that's the point. Most of the behavioral needs that we evolved to have are largely ignored due to society and culture. For example, the human male penis evolved to displace the sperm from other males. Meaning that humans literally evolved genitalia designed to compete with the intercourse …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:24 PM
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Yep. Idk why it's so difficult for them to accept that cultural and social influence in a primary marker for our behaviors. This was largely discovered with "feral" and severely neglected children. None of them displayed social gendered expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:15 PM
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This is false. Male lions are ejected from the pride once they reach a certain age. Typically during their "teenage" years after they've learned how to hunt for themselves. Male lions will form packs with other males or their siblings that were also ejected from the pride to increase their chances of survival. While male lions can hunt, it's difficult for them due to their large mass and possibility of overheating. Banding with other males makes them less likely to be targeted by other male lion…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:12 PM
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Awe thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:12 PM
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The males don't have or hold a social hierarchy in a pride. And some prides do have more than one male. The females in the pride will kill the male or run off the male if resources are low or if they just don't want it around any longer. Male lion aggression is displayed towards other males to protect their opportunity to mate with the females that they attract. Male lions don't dominate female lions. Harems don't mean domination over females in the animal kingdom. Many social animals have harem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:11 PM
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Male lions are not dominant over females. Male Chimps express aggression towards females when foraging and over food sources. Bears are solitary animals, they aren't a social species, thus they engage in territorial protection. I was referring to social animals since humans are are social species. I meant that as humans organically, eat, sleep, and shit, their gendered behavior would be as natural as the breaths that they take. There would not have to be cultural influence or force for women's g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:55 PM
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In a capitalistic society psychopathy and antisocial behaviors are rewarded the most. It's not a matter of talent, value, or contribution. It's all a matter of social likeability and the ability to use that social influence to extract as much as resources for the individual as possible. Most of these Tech guru's, finance prodigies, etc are literally scam artists peddling ponzi schemes with false promises of technology and wealth that doesn't exist or perform to the degree that they claim. Yet ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:32 PM
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It is on the rise and it is more prevalent than people assume because most behaviors associated with antisocial personality traits are ingrained in most cultures. https://www.apa.org/news/podcasts/speaking-of-psychology/psychopathy https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.661044/full We biologically evolved to be a communal species and our bodied are literally designed to need touch and interpersonal attachment to others. Most societal structures take us as far away from that inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:18 PM
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Strength doesn't have anything to do with how males behave and the human social hierarchy. Most species have sexual dimorphism and the males aren't excessively dominant over the females. In most species, even social animals the sexes stay primarily divided and the males express aggression towards other males, not females. I believe that most of our historical social behaviors have been shaped by psychopaths and people with personality disorders literally culling out passive and peaceful people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:00 PM
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It's controlling. There are plenty of women out there who don't wear revealing clothes at all. Why would anyone go out of their way to enter into a relationship with someone who doesn't share the same values and try to strong arm them into being the ideal version of what they want? That's controlling, manipulative, and even abusive. If someone really believed in modestly, then they'd selectively date and enter into relationships with women that are already modest. There are women who share the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:49 PM
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Exactly. Having a broke woman means having a begging punching bag that can be degraded for existing and manipulated for being financially vulnerable and in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:58 PM
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They are irrelevant. Most people male or female do not realistically earn enough money to adequately support another human being financially. That isn't an opinion. It's a fact. It's a blatant statement, because it's literally the truth. With record inflation, and record homelessness impacting families, it's the truth. The only "baseless" comments here is your delusion that the minority of couples has any relevance on reality. Most adults do not earn enough to financially carry someone else inde…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:58 PM
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Or they'll attract equally lackadaisical partners that don't think, plan, or care about reality or their futures. Meaning, the type of women who don't care if they get pregnant 20 times while living in a cardboard box.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:50 PM
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18% is the minority... which means most couples both have jobs. I'd also like to see the data regarding the income and health of this 18%. As I said. Most people literally cannot afford to financially care for another adult. Which is why most people have jobs and earn income within a relationship. 18% is a minority. They're irrelevant to the reality that most couples have both parties working.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:35 PM
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Men lack foresight. When looking for a partner they just care what they're getting out of a woman. They'll say whater they need to and may even do whatever they need to to lock a woman down. Once he feels secure that she won't or can't leave they ride on easy mode and just expect everything to work out for them despite never actually doing anything or acknowledging reality. They don't "care" until they're burdened or have to deal with a woman asking for what she needs or wants repeatedly. Then i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:17 PM
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You will care when reality sets in and you can't afford to feed, house, or clothe an extra adult. You will care when she's financially dependent on you and you can't give her what she needs, let alone what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:38 PM
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Yes. Most men cannot afford to house, feed, clothe, provide medical care, etc for another adult human being. Even in this sub most men state that they want a woman to make a minimum of 40-50k a year. They say they "Don't care" about a woman's income. Yet automatically name professions that net a minimum of 40-50k a year. Most men don't want to date women in poverty or women that are extremely low wage workers. Unless these men themselves are in poverty and are also extremely low wage workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:13 PM
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Because we live in a society that costs money to live. If someone is entering into a relationship where they are going to share the cost of living, the income of the other party is important. Since they will increase the cost of living. An extra body means more food, more utilities, more space, and more than likely children. Which means that most people require two incomes to support the needs of two adults sharing a life together. I don't understand how it's possible for anyone living in the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:01 PM
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Stop using it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:44 PM
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Pareiarchy does exist. However women largely seperate themselves from their willful and collective participation in patriarchy. Society is largely male focused and male centered. Anything associated with women is from the male vale regarding what they get from women. Which is why in modern society people go into a frenzy when they see a nipple attached to a female body but scratch their asses and yawn when they see a male nipple. Most of our society is structured around maleness and what males v…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:12 AM
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Men are still too stupid to understand how makeup works. I highly doubt their ability to understand filters. They'll more than likely just fuck the woman anyway assuming that she was someone else or that her pictures were "old".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:02 AM
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What's the difference between a man at a bar and a man that marries a woman after a week? Impulse decisions are great indicators of someone who laks impulse control. Women also are delusional and have a tendency to ignore reality for whatever fairytale they've imagined in their minds. Despite a man being a glaring red flag whether he walks down the isle or not. Men are emotionally unstable and volatile. Whether they're married or legally single. They annihilate their women and children the momen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:59 AM
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They seemed normal at first. The dates didn't last long once they started sharing their crazy views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:27 PM
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They're literally the ones whining and calling every man that fucks and has a relationship "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:11 PM
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Many, however, I try to prescreen to not be involved with people like that at all. They slipped through the cracks somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:05 PM
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Nah, I've went first dates with 2 different men that asked this question. It was sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:02 PM
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Any time they mention the following: "The Table" "females" High Value Level up Hypergamy Modern women Subservience Women dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:55 PM
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Men use their existence as a male to justify their high looks demand in women. They believe that because they ARE men that the deserve to get what they want, which is the most attractive women. Which is why men never say "I'm too unattractive, too poor, too uneducated, to uncultured, too low class, etc to date that woman." No they stamp their feet and demand that the woman who is out of his league lowers her standards so that he can fuck her until he's tired and bored of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:51 PM
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If it's the thread that I think you're talking about, he started the fight...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:41 PM
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It's probably archived somewhere. I remember the women posting threat after thread after thread of the screen screenshots and complaining to the mods about the increasing harassment. The men would also be in the threads saying that the ugly bitches deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:39 PM
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Men have an inflated sense of self due to penis though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:35 PM
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Those women from the sub detailed their experiences. Those men were literally sending them death threats, doxing them, and harassing them because they didn't believe the women were as "ugly" and unattractive as the women claimed to be. When the women sent pictures of themselves the men would rage claiming that they "tricked" them. Funny how that part of the story is literally always left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:35 PM
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Blatantly attractive people date blatantly attractive people. Men literally say that they value attraction the most. "Not ugly" men feel superior to "not ugly" women and feel entitled to beauty queens. Men need to date within their looks match and stop being delusional. Ugly people who don't want to be alone date each other. They don't whine at the feet of models flailing around like a toddler demanding to get celebrity treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:09 PM
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Lol sure. Most women have experienced their parents pressuring them to be in relationships with men that they aren't attracted to because the parents think he's a "nice guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:00 PM
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I socialize with normal people in everyday life. Most people in real life are normal and doing normal things with other human beings that are men and women. Most people are just living day to day, most people are in relationships or dating, and socializing like regular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:09 PM
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Some people also just are blinded by rose colored glasses and don't realize that they ran head first into a sea of redflags and chose to ignore it until it became too overbearing to ignore. For example men and women who enter into relationships with people who aren't partners at all. They don't participate within the relationship and are essentially another child to look after. They're not financially responsible or reliable. They make more messes than they clean up. They're perpetual burdens th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:19 PM
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Men have too keep up the level of engagement and interest that they showed at the beginning of a relationship. If quality time, dates, discussions, emotional intimacy, and personal routines develop between a man and a woman. The woman expects the investment in spending quality time to continue. The woman expects the man to not get annoyed when she tries to talk to him. The woman expects the man not to treat her like a burden or a fly that just landed in his cereal. In other words women expect me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:56 PM
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They're afraid of other men. That's why they don't hold other men accountable or blame male judges or male cops for their own self inflicted issues. Women are the low hanging fruit that they can easily take their aggression out on with little to no recourse. Them challenging other men means that they risk retaliation and a punishment of some kind. They're afraid of what other men would do to them. They don't fear women at all, so they target their rage towards women because they know women, on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:05 PM
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I love how all of their trolling delusions are failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:32 PM
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You claimed that countries that restrict women's rights have a more successful birthrate. Statistically that is false due to their feminicide. It's not "racist", to narrate what they're actually doing and the result of what they're doing. Those countries aren't more successful reproductive wise, and it's worse for men because there aren't enough women to even be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:17 PM
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Those societies are literally crumbling and their birthrates are declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:48 PM
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False. The only country where birth rates are on the rise is in Africa. Birthrates are falling in India and the Middle East because they keep killing too many of the women and girls. Males are valued more so the priority goes into having and raising sons. The excess feminicide has skewed gender ratios where there aren't enough women for the men. Which is impacting replacement births. They can't stop slaughtering women and girls enough to get their replacement rates up. This method of reproductio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:38 PM
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Men aren't more accepting of neurodivergence. They'll date a neurodivergent woman to fuck her and then degrade her for not being normal and neurodivergent until one of them dies or leaves. Many neurodivergent women are diagnosed later in life because divergent women are just labeled as "problematic" and combative female children. Their neurodivergence is seen as being defiant and rebellious more than a diagnosable problem. These women often end up in relationships with very abusive and belittlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:19 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:43 PM
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She divorced her first husband that she had a child with. I wasn't aware that she remarried. Still, the advice her father gave her didn't pan out at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:16 PM
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I think there are different subsets of people who travel abroad for relationships in both sexes. There are men and women who travel abroad because they genuinely love the culture and the people. They fit in better than in their home country and want to live in the new country and be apart of the culture. There are men and women that travel abroad for sex tourism. They're repulsive in their home country and have to use the influence of status and money that their home country affords them to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:59 PM
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I'm conflicted on this one because there are peddlers like Jordan Peterson who pressured his daughter into early motherhood and marriage, which was a colossal failure for her. Peterson turned his own daughter into a single mother and they make up an excuse that "her IQ was too high" lol. Some of them genuinely believe what they're saying, but lack the intelligence and have an inability to be grounded in reality. These people completely ignore history and reality. Women fought to be independent f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:09 PM
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Yep. They're never honest regarding what they're actually asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:27 PM
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It's not inaccurate for most heterosexual relationships. There's something wrong with catering to a significant other when it's never reciprocated. And that's the general problem with men, they don't reciprocate. Living in a house with a family typically means that the work doesn't stop. Someone has to do it. If someone clean the house and little jimmy pukes on the floor and shits himself, someone has to clean that up despite having just cleaned the whole house. If someone wants to sit on their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:57 PM
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No one "deserves" romantic or sexual relationships. However, people can dictate what they want romantically or sexually from the people that they invite into their lives romantically or sexually. People can set whatever standards and expectations they want, whether they're realistic or not for how they want their romantic and sexual relationships to be. All that matters is that they find someone to agree to those terms to be with them. And some people, irrespective of whether it's 0.000000001% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:51 PM
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Because they get comfortable. They have just enough of what they need and they're satisfied with that. Many people are complacent with having enough, and don't need "more" once they have what they need or the minimum of what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:46 PM
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Eh, they always find someone to put up with their shit, so It's not that off-putting apparently. These men always manage to find someone, so it's not the great deal breaker that many women claim that it is. Even if the behavior of the man leads to the eventual demise of the relationship, women stay long enough for the man to get all the benefits that he wanted. So whether she leaves or stays, he's always getting what he wants one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:43 PM
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The the only thing they want to ascend to is getting catered to and getting to fuck every once in a while. They have no goals or interests beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:39 PM
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It's not about how easy or difficult something is. It's about them simply not wanting to do those things and a complete lack of interest in doing those things. They choose women that let them do nothing, so they continue to do nothing, because they don't want to do anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:33 PM
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Ah, so you're just a gasslighter that attempts to manipulate people into being in romantic and sexual relationships with people that they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:11 PM
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Pretending that universal cultural norms don't exist among different group is just delusional. Doesn't sound like you interact with non-white people on a daily basis. If you had a diverse social circle you'd know. They often joke regarding the differences within the group. Clearly you live in your own bubble or one of those offensive liberals that "don't see color". People are allowed to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:07 PM
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Lol Understanding that different races have cultural differences isn't "Racist".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:57 PM
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OP literally says in the first sentences "Everyone knows that relationships are about two people coming together and melding and mixing. There will be some sharing of schedules, hobbies, likes and dislikes, views on life. This is most-accurately called as "compromise"." Ethnic and cultural standards while dating aren't "compromises". There are real hurdles and difficulties dating outside of one's culture or race. It's not ridiculous for people to only want to date within their race or culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:51 PM
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No. Women criticize age gap relationship because men outright say that they can manipulate and train younger women into doing exactly what they want, because they're young and dumb with little life experience. Adult women who entered into age gap relationships as teenagers with men significantly older than them are all over the internet saying how it was a terrible decision that ruined their lives. Once these women grow up and their frontal lobe fully develops, they realize that being a stay at …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:20 PM
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Compromise means that the other party would also be sacrificing or doing things they typically wouldn't for the sake of a relationship. Settling is the correct term because the assumption is that the other party will never meet the needs of the other person. And with droves of married women whining and crying all over the internet regarding how their obese and bottom tier husbands aren't even nice to them, let alone active participants within the relationship, then it makes sense why some women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:39 PM
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He said wet pussies sounded like a medical condition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:17 PM
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false.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:28 PM
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You're better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:12 PM
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The "healthy way", doesn't work if you're in a relationship with unhealthy people. Mentally ill people, who suffer from trauma, and personality disorders aren't healthy and rarely lack the ability to function within a relationship in a productive way. Dysfunctional people gravitate towards each other and feed off of each others dysfunction. They keep the loop going.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:08 PM
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It's a scientific fact. The male human penis is a sperm displacement device. It wouldn't have evolved to displace sperm, if women weren't filled with sperm from other males. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1090513803000163#:~:text=The%20human%20penis%20may%20displace,back%20away%20from%20the%20cervix. "The human penis may displace seminal fluid from other males in the vagina by forcing it back around the glans. The effect of thrusting, according to this analysis, would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:06 PM
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The human male penis evolved to displace sperm from other males. Human genitals would be different if women weren't fucking different men in succession.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:59 PM
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The husband would have to be intelligent enough to understand why his wife is angry in the first place. Why she's angry and what she's angry about would determine how he should approach the matter. I'm assuming most husbands are too checked out, don't know or care who they married, and don't care about the emotions of the wife as long as she does enough to make his life easier. Example, he doesn't care if she's pissed off and giving the silent treatment as long as she's still going to work, stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:57 PM
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It's devoid of any emotional intelligence. And I wouldn't be surprised if men found themselves divorced or separated following that advice. I will literally never understand how anyone can be married and have no idea who their partner is, or why they react/behave the way that they do. Just goes to show often men are largely checked out of their relationships and don't know shit about the women that they choose to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:41 PM
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They're all pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:38 PM
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Evolutionary speaking the group provided strength, resources, protection, etc. It wasn't one specific male providing that thing. Women wouldn't be "finding" a better man, especially since sex was communal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:34 PM
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Evolutionary speaking, humans were and are a social species. Individualism of human societies is a relatively new concept. No one would be individually doing much of anything. Everything was a group effort. Including fucking, rearing children, providing for the group, and protecting the group. Everyone played a part. All of the men and all of the women. Humans living independently in a pair is a very short blimp of behavior in human history. Humans have lived communally through most of human his…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:20 PM
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This isn't a communication issue. The husband makes up excuses why he "cant" do anything, eats the kids food, and sits on his ass playing videogames. He's a negligent partner. She's a spineless dipshit doormat. I feel sorry for the kid. Reddit is rife with men neglecting their kids. It's always the same. Video game addicts letting their kids wallow in their own shit and piss for hours on end, or letting the kids roam outside unsupervised. She'd get more parental assistance if she divorced him. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:07 PM
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There are some women who are saying the do most of everything and are happy in the relationship lol. Women that are happy and women that are not are still detailing the same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:20 AM
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Glad you found someone that doesn't take advantage and isn't trying to run you into an early grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:42 AM
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No they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:41 AM
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I agree. I advocate for men to be with other men sexually and romantically all the time in this sub. Irrespective of their sexuality. Men would be happier and more emotionally, mentally, and sexually fulfilled by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:22 PM
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What I do in my personal life is irrelevant to this conversation. Rummage through my comment history if you are genuinely interested in my personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:55 PM
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You've never met cats or huskies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:54 PM
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Kitties are the cuttest. Puppers too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:24 PM
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Love the avoidance and blatant denial here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:52 PM
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You've never seen ugly men arrested for domestic violence or crimes against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:41 PM
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I find it disturbing that women in this thread are admitting that they still do most of the work in their relationship and that their husbands "help out" occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:31 PM
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I think both sexes want relationships equally in different ways for different reasons. Of course these are generalizations, however I think it's the standard for most heterosexual people. I think men desire romantic relationships more only if they can disproportionately burden women with the things that they don't want to do (cooking, cleaning, childcare, social management, health care, etc). I see men less enthusiastic regarding romantic relationships if women don't want to cohabitate together …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:54 PM
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It's not just talking points in the manosphere. Plenty of normal men, men who are even in relationships with women and men that have daughters share these sentiments. Historically and culturally we've always had the perception that sex is something done to women, and that sex is something that women should refrain from doing unless a man that has possession of her demands it. Women are expected to have sex out of obligation when men that they're married or dating want it. Women aren't expected t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:11 PM
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You're confused regarding the conversation taking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:59 PM
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That's not what I'm referring to. Do you genuinely believe that isn't an inherent narrative from men that they try to lie, manipulate, cheat, and take sex from women by any means necessary? Of course there are women who will completely ignore a man if he says that he only wants sex or casual. However, denying the culture that exists of men lying to women to get sex from them is just outright delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 04:26 PM
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I want you to know that the context of this conversation is regarding the act of intercourse and the act of having sex. This topic of conversation isn't regarding the absence of sex or the decision not to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:39 PM
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A lot of parents neglect their children to some degree. Failing to socialize a child is a form of neglect. It's not the states job to socialize children, and would more than likely be an unsafe place rife with abuse like most government institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:07 PM
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Parents need to raise their fucking kids and stop trying to delegate all aspects of parenting to schools. It's a parents responsibility to socialize their children. That means it's the parents responsibility to get their children into sports or organized activities, it's the parents responsibility to organize community with other parents for their children to interact. It's the parents responsibility to teach their children how to engage with other humans and cultivate relationships with them, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:05 PM
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Agree. Telling children to "go make friends" isn't guiding children or forcing them to get out of their comfort zone to socialize with other children. It is a parents responsibility to socialize their children through putting their children in activities and situations where they can socialize among their peers and community. It's the parents responsibility to develop the social skills of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:02 PM
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We don't live in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity. People are having less sex across all demographics. And many negative narratives and opinions regarding sex and promiscuity are still largely prevalent culturally in our society. If someone engages in sex under the expectation that they'll be in a relationship or are in a relationship, then that person has in fact been used. Men even state that they use women for sex and that women have been "used up" after they have had sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:52 PM
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Apps sheild them from having to go through the process of cultivating interpersonal relationships on their old. They can simply hold corporations responsible for their lack of interpersonal connections and blame women for not using the apps that make them easily accessible to them. They'll never step outside and take responsibility for their own lives. They're obsessed with the apps because it allows them to pretend like they're taking initiative, while also protecting them from the discomfort o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:06 PM
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You need to be told that relationships don't always work out? You do realize that this applies to any human connection including relationships with friends, family, and professions? ​ Sometimes people aren't compatible Sometimes life obligations don't allow time for a romantic relationship Sometimes people have to move sometimes people get sick sometimes people have to escape abuse or mistreatment sometimes people no longer want to be in a relationship sometimes people have other priorities such…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:27 PM
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I completely agree. Also I think the stereotype of women not "saying anything" is an absolute lie. Women directly state what they want all of the time. Men just ignore them or pretend to be confused because they don't want to do what women are asking. Women directly say "I want you to do the dishes and clean messes without me instructing, guiding you, and walking you through how to do it. " Women directly say "I want you to remember my birthday and special occasions like our anniversary without …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:50 PM
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Usually a response to feeling inadequate innsome regard. It's typically said when a woman is receiving praise for something. While inappropriate, it's typically relevant to what's happening. Most recently a friend of mine got a big promotion and we were out celebrating. Her brother in law didn't "agree" with her promotion and felt she was a quota hire and that a man would be better suited for the position. Then he went on to detail how he believes that men are better leaders and are suited for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:55 AM
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Left leaning men and liberal men aren't exempt from the behavior. Liberals, lefties, and wokies aren't resistant to implicit biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:43 PM
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Depends on the man. Some men just outright say that they're better than women. Other men covertly say that their time, work, hobbies, friendships are greater and more important/more substacial compred to women's time, work, hobbies, and friendships. Other men do the "come on" angle where they try rope in gender stereotypes of fact of their superiority to explain why their thoughts, feelings, wants, and opinions hold more weight compared to women. Some men say it's just a religious or biological …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:41 PM
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Seems like you've lost track of the conversation. You seem more invested in being offended that I believe most men believe that they're superior to women, than actually acknowledging the topic of conversation being had. It men don't need to outperform women in order to feel superior to women. The feeling of superiority doesn't need individual justification. In this sub alone many men parrot that they're inherently superior as males solely because of the achievements and inventions of other men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:30 PM
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That's weird. Girls are usually taller and bigger than boys until that age. I rarely see boys that are taller than girls at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:57 PM
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An emotional savior that gets very blurry after a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:54 PM
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Everyone that doesn't have PC viewpoint or perspective isn't an asshole. Especially if they date and enter into relationships with women who have the same views. You sound like you're in denial to me. I grew up in a conservative community with highly traditional views. As I said the rhetoric of men being superior, more intelligent, more capable, more reliable, and more reasonable has been a narrative that I've heard my entire life. It just sounds like you're being willfully ignorant about this m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:54 PM
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I don't agree. I've had enough conversations with everyday men from all ages, religions, and demographics that honestly shared their opinion of their inherent superiority to women. Most men have the belief that they're the main character and women are supposed to play supporting roles in their lives. It's a belief that is largely parroted in culture and religion. Men are the head, the pillar, the most important, while women are to be supportive and subservient to men. It's not a concept that I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:37 PM
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Those are shit drugs, I'm talking about the good stuff that people actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:34 PM
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damn right!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:33 PM
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Real adults have drug dealers or bartenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:19 PM
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I'm not aware of any cultural shift where women are seen as superior to men or boys. I have friends in their early 20's and many of the young men do have a persistent cultural perspective that they are more logical and are superior to women in most regards. It's a cultural narrative that I've been around and been taught my entire life. And it's a sentiment that I see that most people believe. It's rare that I don't see a man or a woman for that matter who doesn't share that belief in some regard…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:12 PM
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No. I think people tend to ignore what women want or need because they don't feel like providing it and try to shame or gaslight women into thinking their needs and wants are unrealistic or simply incomprehensible so that the woman will stop asking for it. It's just a play for a dominant person in a relationship to get what they want, and not have to be held responsible to meeting any needs or wants of their partner that they don't want to engage in. I don't believe that men are simple at all. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:33 PM
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This sub gets repetitive and it's annoying having the same conversations over and over and over again. People will demand statistics/research and never bother to actually read what you spend time providing the resources for. People in this sub also willfully misconstrue what's being said or the point trying to be made. You also have people here with chips on their shoulder regarding the opposite sex and use this sub to take out aggression on other people for whatever negative experience they had…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:25 PM
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Depends on whether or not they tried to project their issues onto me and create unnecessary drama or term oil in the relationship for their issues. Everyone has problems, everyone has shit that they have to deal with. I'm fine as long as they don't make their problems my problems and try to use me to traumatically work through their demons and dump on. I don't mind helping occasionally and being a support system. However, if the person begins to feel like burden and a drain, I'm no longer intere…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:25 PM
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Less than 20% of Tinder Users are female, and even that number is inflated due to bots, fake accounts, and inactive profiles. Stop being brainwashed by corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:26 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:22 PM
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They're literally not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:00 PM
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Meth exists, people smoke meth, not all people smoke meth. Most people don't do meth. Hookup culture is s subculture. It's not mainstream cultural behavior. Thus making it a cultural myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:42 PM
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Not in bad faith, just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:40 PM
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Data literally proves people are having less sex. https://www.wbur.org/hereandnow/2022/03/31/sex-decline-americans https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/the-end-of-sex-more-and-more-young-people-avoid-it-study-shows/2016/08/01/18754694-4916-11e6-bdb9-701687974517_story.html https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/01/hookup-culture-it-s-not-real-but-the-media-coverage-is-making-students-feel-left-out-of-it-anyway.html It's a sensationalized topic because porn obsessed men want it to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:39 PM
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You're all a hivemind here, so what other men do in this sub is what you also do by association.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:33 PM
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Sure it is. On this sub alone men literally admit that they'll fuck anything and don't need to be sexually attracted to what they're fucking. In one breath you all claim that TeStOsTerONE makes you fuck anything. And when women agree and say say "Yes, it's true, men fuck anything." You want to whine and cry. Women don't have the reputation that you do as being sexual degenerates, becuase they don't do the sexually degenerate shit that your sex predominatley engages in. Also, just because those i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:28 PM
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Masturbating with toys designed for masturbation isn't comparable to fucking trees, animals, corpses, and vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:17 PM
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I didn't say women don't like or want unattached sex. I said at a minimum they want to be attracted to a person that they have sex with. Hookup culture is a myth. Sex, especially casual sex has been on a decline for the past 30 years. People are having less sex across all demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:07 PM
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Men just want sex and will fuck corpses, trees, car exhausts or whatever else their dicks can fit into. Men don't need to be attracted to or like women in order to have sex with them. Because they just care about their penis being stimulated, they don't necessarily care about anything else. Women care about who they have sex with. At a minimum they want to be attracted to the person that they have sex with, and at a maximum they want a compatible long term relationship with someone that they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:59 PM
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They weren't attracted to you, but liked you enough to see if were possible to develop a relationship despite of that. In other words they wanted to "give things a chance". They were afraid of your reaction and wanted to let you down as gently as possible. They felt guilty for not being attracted to you and didn't want to hurt your feelings. They were on the fence about their attraction towards you, but after getting to know you were no longer attracted to you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:56 PM
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They understand. They just enjoy lying to women. When they want a relationship with a woman that treats them like a disposable sex toy, they whine and cry about "hypergamy" or cry that women just want to fuck around and don't want a relationship. They only care when they want the security and commitment of a relationship from a woman. They don't care when women want security and commitment in a relationship. Everything is about them and what they want. They don't care about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:47 PM
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Loneliness stems from not having the types of interpersonal connectivity where someone can relate to others in a way that is significant to them, be accepted by others, be supported by others, and also have a valuable role in relationship to others. Most people don't want to be pumped and dumped, then left by the curb. People want interpersonal relationships. Where they have people to talk to, share their personal opinions without being ostracized, engage with regularly, and generally have a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:30 PM
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Communication before, during, and after sex is important. However, after a certain amount of time consistently fucking someone, they should understand what someone likes, wants, and needs in the bedroom. Every sex session shouldn't have to be a dissertation. Sexual chemistry exists, some people just don't sexually align and if the sex with that person is bad or awful, there is no reason to keep fucking them. If people are responsible for their own orgasm then logic would dictate that they'd just…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:21 PM
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3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:57 AM
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You'd get bored
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:43 AM
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I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:49 PM
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You're assuming I have a different perspective when women cheat. I don't. People who cheat are assholes who want to keep whatever they have and keep their cherry on top, whether it's a shit situation or not. No one needs to cheat in 2023. If a woman feels brazen enough to cheat, clearly she's not in fear of her life or in any danger, she just wanted new dick in addition to keeping her current boyfriend or husband. Cheaters want to keep their comitted partner chaste while they fuck whoever they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:48 PM
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No it doesn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:19 PM
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You hold women that want to date you responsible for women that rejected you. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:52 PM
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I also believe that they're not attracted to or interested in women that would openly agree to that dynamic. I noticed with a significant amount of men, they enjoy "tricking" women. They get fulfillment out of women being unaware participants in whatever they want to do. The non-consensual aspect of it gets them off. They don't want women that would openly allow them to be with other women, it's not gratifying to them for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:08 PM
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I don't disagree. There are certainly various types of cheaters and various types of women who fuck them whether they know that they're married or not. I wouldn't cheat either. Like you said, too much of a hastle, even as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:05 PM
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You seem like the illiterate one. Why would you deny that the profiles aren't real or active, just because a few women did reply to your messages weeks later? If you don't receive engagement from most of the women you match with, and apps are notorious for having fake and inactive profiles, how how a few women messaging you back disprove that most of the accounts of women are not real or active?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:53 PM
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It doesn't take that much time or effort to cheat. All it takes is a desperate and available woman that's interested. It's really the familiarity that cultivates the sexual interest. Seeing someone everyday and knowing that they're available. Even if a man is seeking to cheat via apps, most men offer coffee, walking, and nexflix "dates" so there isn't much time, effort, or resources expended in that regard. The man only has to put in effort if the woman that he wants to cheat with requires more …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:45 PM
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It certainly seems to be that way. It does seem like the security of committed relationships give men more confidence to cheat. Some of the most forward men I've met have been married. They don't care about rejection because they have a wife at home that they know isn't going anywhere. But I think it's also that men want to have as many sexual partners as they please. But they want the women that they're with to be chaste and only with them sexually. I think that's why they lie, its not about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:34 PM
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So, you did get a responses, and you're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:09 PM
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I think women are under the impression that a man will keep his word of fidelity when he agrees to enter into a monogamous relationship. I guess the logic is that if she gives up her ability to be with other people, then he should sacrifice that as well. Otherwise they could simply continue to date and have sex with other people as much as they both want. Women are just delusional at the end of the day. Considering that most relationships end due to infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:08 PM
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Govment and Jeebus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:00 PM
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I don't like dolls of any kind so that would be an automatic deal breaker. I'd be fine with a sex action figure though. As long as he didn't use his sex toys more than he fucked me, I wouldn't care. I also have and use sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:29 PM
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Just seems like men cheat irrespective of what women do or do not do within a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:22 PM
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They don't respond because the profiles aren't real or active.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:14 PM
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The woman that says "Yes", isn't responsible for all the women that rejected the man prior. Your essentially saying, since a man was rejected, the woman that is actually interested in him, has to endure his lackadaisical attitude because she was dumb enough to want to be with him. It doesn't make sense for the woman that is interested in the man to have to deal with his exhaustion or burn out that he's accumulated regarding other women. The woman that is currently in the picture has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:35 PM
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They think women are like babies or dogs. You jingle some keys in front of them, or throw them a few scraps of food to distract them, then go right back to doing what you wanted to do. They get enraged when their elementary manipulative tactics no longer work on people they've broken their trust with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:22 PM
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No. Culturally men put more effort into initiating romantic and sexual contact with women. Men do not keep the momentum that they used to initially get a woman. Stereotypically men have a habit of "installing" a woman into his life, once he feels comfortable and secure enough that he's "got" her. As soon as he feels safe, he stops putting in any effort, treatment, or consistency that he previously engaged in. Women are often confused by the bait and switch. Thus women begin to pick up what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:19 PM
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That's the case for most people who are sane and emotionally/mentally stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:57 PM
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Leave a trail of crafts, books, and starbucks gift cards to your house. It's important to leave the door open. When the recluse woman walks in, close the door, profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:00 PM
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Because they can't manipulate or lie that dynamic out of women who don't want to participate. They can't get women to agree to that type of relationship. They're not attracted to the women that would willingly participate with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:56 PM
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If a woman lied about contraceptives and/or sabotaged contraceptives, yes that is rape. Birth control failing, a woman forgetting to take her pill, a woman not using contraceptives correctly, or a woman assuming the end date of a long term contraceptive aren't forms of deception. Men still have the responsibility of engaging in their own methods of protection for contraceptives. Which includes not engaging in vaginal sex (oral or anal), using condoms, and/or getting a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:33 PM
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Some people are shy and don't warm up within 15 minutes. This is why social intelligence is important. Life isn't amazon prime, cultivating relationships with people takes time. Only mentally and emotionally unstable people are completely enamored with strangers after 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:10 PM
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You can't tell these people anything. Prior to the great google app scandal scrub, I used to post links to articles regarding dating app shit and exploitative practices. All of the articles said that they significantly lied about how many women used the apps and some of the women were less than 2% of users after accounting for fake, dead, and bot accounts. They're married to dating apps and refused to let them go. I also say that the people who use dating apps overrepresent disordered people, si…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
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Recurring themes get recurring comments. Welcome to the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:06 AM
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Doesn't make sense to be in a relationship or stay in a relationship with someone you think will leave or cheat given the right circumstances. Why be with someone who you think will cheat at a bar or leave you if her skirt is too short, or will dump you for someone better if they leave a like on her social media? What is the point in dating someone you don't trust? You'll never like, trust, or respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:25 PM
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Or they could actually tax the rich and corporations instead of bleeding the sheep dry. There are too many loop holes for taxes of the ultra wealthy and too much corporate welfare. The McDonalds chasier doesn't need to be paying anyone's maternity leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:21 PM
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Bulima isn't a rational disorder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:43 PM
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They were men that I breifly dated. I don't believe you. This is behavior I've experienced from male gym goers across 3 states. The perception of people that you have in a public place is irrelevant to what they do or how they behave at home. Most of these men have body dysmorphia and eating disorders. If you don't believe that's true, you're either oblivious or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:28 PM
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Most people don't advertise their bulimia. I walked in on them. They weren't saying "Brb gotta go puke these extra carbs". You also don't know what people are doing behind closed doors. These guys all seemed relatively normal until I was alone in private around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:17 PM
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Eh, I think it's more gross that people allow themselves to be preyed on to this degree. The tactics and exploitation of marketing is a well known fact at this point. I can't advocate holding companies accountable for exploiting lonely and desperate people, when people have generally voted with their wallets and consent that they'd rather be sold a dream than to put forth the work and effort associated with building and being apart of a community. Everyone wants friends and a romantic relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:27 PM
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Absolutely! Join for the fun of it and the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:02 PM
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That's good to hear. It's a rarity unfortunately. Have you tried being in active spaces that are more social? Most of my active friends I've met by asking to play with them, when I saw them. Or by joining events. With your frame you should try acro activities, there are never enough men to help or practice with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:31 PM
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Human brains have neuroplasticity. New connections are always changing. Different neurological connections isn't what the 25 year old brain development is referring to. The studyr regarding braind development to 25 is the GENERAL age range where there is continous brain devlopment that is similar to that of a developing adolencent brain. It's reference to brain development as a structural growth phenomenon that is uniquely specific. Of course everyone has an indivual and unique brain. However th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:21 PM
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Do you have body dismorphia? I'm a gym bunny, literally addicted to excise and I avoid gym bros because all of my experiences with them have been terrible. I haven't met one that didn't have extremely bad body image problems or significant eating disorders. I'm talking about catching them puking after eating or drinking a beer if they think they're over their carb macros for the day. They also have zero chill and are constantly nagging me about what I eat, despite the extreme amount of physical …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:10 PM
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I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:17 PM
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I think there's as aspect of self memoralization that people largely ignore with social media. Social media is essentially a digital scrap book. I remember my friends constantly taking polaroids and pictures regularly when digital cameras were new. The only difference was that those photos were placed in a book where no one could see. Some people want memories of how they look. Some people admire themselves and want to look at themselves. Don't get me wrong there absolutely are people on the int…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:31 PM
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So many men have profile pics that are just disgusting. Shit floating in the toilet with bathroom selfies. Dirty clothes and dishes piled high. Dirty clothes. Dead fish. Flaky skin. Yellow teeth. It's like they try to be as unattractive as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:17 PM
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You must be unaware of the cultural context associated with women's bodies. Heterosexual men are attracted to women. Men are uncomfortable with their women being viewed sexually by other men. Since men don't socially address the behavior of other men, they blame women for how men sexually percive or react to them. Men attempt to mitigate other men's sexual behavior towards their women by keeping their women out of sight and controlling thr behavior of the woman. You can see the accepted narrativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:00 PM
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It doesn't matter what women post online. Men that are sexually attracted to her will engage with the content. This post was about men liking the pictures of other women, due to men engaging with the content of the women he's dating because of their sexual interests in her. This discussion is regarding making women be responsible for the engagement that they receive online from sexually interested men. The plea is for women to stop posting online so that other men will not engage with their cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:39 PM
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The internet hasn't done anything. People are just brain dead inconsiderate assholes. Wanting sex and relationships doesn't mean treating people like dog shit. People want physicsl sexual access and romantic access to others, however they completely disregard the person attached to said sex organs. The issue is that people want sex and romance, but they don't give a damn about the person that they want it from. The person of their affection is just supposed to be a brain dead robot that gives th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:06 PM
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I don't believe the ownership of ones own image is comparable to engaging in content created by other people for ones expressed sexual interest. Women can't help or control that heterosexual men find them sexually attractive. Women existing and wanting to take photos or post photos onto social media isn't an inherent sexual advertisement or invitation for other men. This entire question illustrates women being blamed or restricted for male behavior. Men don't have to engage with the content that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:33 PM
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I never said it was for her. Someone who bitches about $3 for their own burger on a first date. Is going to complain and whine nonstop about everything from that point on. If someone's first impression is to complain about the cost of cheese on a first date, that is the tip of the iceburg. The complaining never stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:49 PM
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It isn't a turn on at all for me. I've dated wealthy men and there's a huge culture gap due to extreme class differences. It's not easy to date weathly people. And the "perks" of dating them is relatively boring. Dating a wealthy person doesn't mean you have direct access to their wealth and can spend it as you please. Also when they do spend money on you, they want it done in a way this is more optical on their behalf. For example the wealthy men that I dated wanted to gift me name brand things…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:46 PM
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Husbands, women's greatest predator. https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-51572665
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:28 PM
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Someone complaining about the principle of $3 cheese on a first date is even worse. Makes sense. If she's broke, she literally can't afford to date someone else who is too broke to afford $3 cheese. I'm in my 30s. And my net worth is enough to cover the additional costs of extras at resturants without ruining my retirement, without devastating me financially, and without destroying my morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:05 PM
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My family would use the hell out of my toilet paper too! Usually 1 full roll of luxury toilet paper a visit. I started buying off brand baby wipes and they stopped using so much of my toilet paper. I just imagine them wrapping their arms in toilet paper. Otherwise it doesn't make sense why they go through an entire roll per visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:50 PM
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Someone who bitches about $3 on a first date is going to bitch about other minor things later on. I'm friends with penny pinchers and complainers. I would never date one of these people. I have a friend that doesn't let his girlfriend come over if she's on her period because she uses too much toiletpaper and never pays him back for it. They have a spread sheet where everything is calculated down to the penny and he's constantly sending her requests for cash. I get some people are like that. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:38 PM
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Whats in front of us is the Papas and Beer logo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:24 PM
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That bar has been viral for years for their kinky drinks. Just seems like publicity or an ad for the bar. Otherwise I don't understand why she keeps flashing the name of the bar constantly in her "recounting" of the story. Seems like if it were real she'd just tell the story, instead of playing clips that has the logo of the bar all over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:54 PM
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Agreed. I HATE baldness. And I've started noticing women balding as well. It really does seem like an epidemic. Or maybe people just aren't as invested in hiding it like they used to. Either way, I am not on this balding positivity train. Cover that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:10 PM
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Depends on the reason. I don't think people never having a relationship is a red flag. If they had character flaws or fucked up beliefs that made them repulsive, that would be apparent in itself. Life happens and I don't think seriously dating under the age of 25 is relevant or a general good life decision. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 24. And honestly, I would have rather dated someone who also didn't have an extensive dating history. My ex had a significant amount a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:53 PM
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Autism is on a spectrum. If the child is capable of socializing, but simply doesn't want to, that's the parents responsibility to step in and force experiences and engagement to help the social part of their brain develop. A child never wanting to do something constructive for itself is irrelevant. That's what parents are for. Most children don't want to eat vegetables, brush their teeth, clean, or got to sleep at peoper times. Children don't make the best decisions for the longevity of their li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:56 PM
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Unless the kid was severely autisitc, it would fix the problem. Too many parents don't socialize their children at all. Which I consider to be a form of neglect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:42 PM
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No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:20 PM
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I wouldn't let my kid be socially awkward. I'd force them to be socalized through gender mixed activities that require and force the kids to interact with one another in cooperative eays for a shared goal. I'd put the kid in behavioral socialization therapy, get him diagnosed if he's neurodivergent, and get him on the best treatment possible. I'd force him into speech camps where he'd have to learn how to comfortably address a room and share his thoughts among peers in a face to face and in pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:19 PM
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You people think every man that ends up in a comitted relationship with a woman is either a sociopathic Chad or a worthless loser. None of you think that men who commit to any longterm relationship with a woman is a good man. You people think all men that aren't you specifically are all bad in one extreme or another. Ultimately it just seems like you people believe that men who enter long term relationships with women are inherently bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:12 PM
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They don't care whether or not they do something "Wrong". That's not the point. The point is men's shocked reaction to women pushing back, because they're not used to women doing, let alone saying anything about their degenerate behavior. Women have pacified shit male behavior throughout most of human history. This is a first time in recorded history, where women aren't. Men knowing or caring about them engaging in "Wrong" behavior is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:15 PM
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Nah. If you're around conservative communities, it's very normal for a guy to have a wife that he has at home that he only fucks when he wants to have children, while he has mistresses and girlfriends outside of the house that he fucks regularly. It is very much a thing that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:02 PM
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This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:35 PM
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Of course proof is needed. However, you're living in an alternate reality if you blatantly ignore the light or barely existent penalties for rape after conviction. Most rapists don't even get convicted with evidence. and if they are convicted they get a slap on the wrist. It doesn't matter who the rape victim is, whether its a man, woman, child, senior citizen, or disabled person. No one gives a shit about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:31 PM
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Why does he have to wait 180 days?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:23 PM
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He is not shunned and living life perfectly fine and free. Stop lying. The comment above mine said the penalty for rape in Britain was supposed to be death. Rape is rarely prosecuted, whether the victim is a man, woman, child, senior citizen, or coma patient. No one gives a fuck about rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:22 PM
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He also gets piped by NFL players.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:19 PM
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Why does he have to wait until June to get released?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:17 PM
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It would be impossible. He'd have to be apart of the top 20% in order for her to be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:08 PM
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Sure, that's why Brock Turner was sentenced to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:07 PM
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See. Women lie, you've experienced false accusations of rape and have been raped by a woman. That's the general social perception, which is why judges typically ask women and girls what they were wearing, or what they were doing in order to get rapped. So no one believes women or gives a shit about rape. Which is why "men horny" has always been a socially acceptable answer for degenerate male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:06 PM
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Absolutely. I used to get in trouble all of the time as kid for asking commonsense questions. I remember asking why boys were allowed to be in the same room as girls if they couldn't stop staring at our tits, since we couldn't control our puberty. I got detention for asking. I got in trouble for wearing short that were too short in gym because it was distracting. I asked why our gym instructor was allowed to wear shorts shorter than mine that showed the entire outline of his cock and balls. I go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:59 PM
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Have you ever hear that women are lying bitches, and also that they ask for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:45 PM
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And it be a social presumption that any woman to claim rape is a fucking liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:40 PM
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"Men horny" has been a socially accepted excuse for men to do whatever the fuck they wanted to do for thousands of years. It's understandable why men are confused when suddenly women are telling them it's not an excuse. It's their first time in history experiencing a push back for men to take accountability for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:30 PM
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Imagine being conventionally attractive, extremely well cultivated social skills, but with a belief and life goal parameter that significantly deviates from 99% of the population which makes most dating options fucking repulsive. In other words, I feel your pain. Hang in there, socialization gets better with practice. You can even play into your awkwardness by casually or playfully calling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:25 PM
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If you're an American/westerner with no medical issues that has a tendency to eat hyperpalatable foods of any kind. I'd suggest going on a water fast for a few days, and see if the chubbiness of your face is actually due to fat, or whether you have a slight food intolerance that you're unaware of. Sometimes swelling of the face caused by excessive sodium intake and food intolerance can be taken as "baby fat". People who have a milk/dairy intolerance notate this after eliminating dairy from their…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:22 PM
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You seem to be confused or you have me confused with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:16 PM
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Men haven't understood what women want collectively or individually since the dawn of time. The only thing that has changed is women gaining financial independence and not needing to attach themselves to any man in order to survive. Men are experiencing that they have to concede to a woman's wants directly for the first time in history. Men haven't collectively grasped that women are no longer passed to them via social need, social pressure, or permissions from her family. Women's selection crit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:15 PM
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Maybe it's becauce I'm a country bumpkin millennial, but I don't understand people not having anyone older than them that they could look up to or talk to in their community. My parents were very much absente and highly neglectful, however there were other men and women in my community that I respected and could talk to about life and general guidance questions. I remember having to do career reports and interviewing local male and female business owners that still followed up to check on me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:06 PM
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While I enjoy Destiny, I don't think the "answer" is for men to keep seeking guidance through a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:50 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:58 PM
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People are going to complain and bitch about preferences. Doesn't mean that anyone has to forgo what they actually want if they can get it. Women complaining about toxic mushrooms are irrelevant, if women exist and are willing to give men what they're asking for. The people that whine and bitch about preferences are never apart of the dating pool or dating demographic in question anyway. Which makes their hysteria even less irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:55 PM
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Dude is just going to ignore you, absolve his mother of any personal responsibility. And demand that society take care of his mother because she raised him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:08 PM
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Nah, modern kitchens make modern women. They need to take their lazy asses outside build a fire from scratch and use a 100lb iron cast pot like a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:56 PM
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I think socially inept people who can't understand the nuance of unspoken social rules and commonsense social applications will take all dating advice to be "terrible advice" The logic of joining social groups isn't specifically to date and hit on every woman of that group. It's to increase one's social biome and expand on the ability to meet more women available for dating. It is highly difficult and impractical for normal people to fill in every gap, every rule, every exception, and all the nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:36 PM
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It's true. I went over 2 years without cock. My organs started to fail, sex deficiency is no joke. It's worse than starving to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:25 PM
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Because men are special individual unique snowflakes and women are carbon copied whores that only fuck the top 20% of Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:23 PM
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Lol if that's what you have to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:21 PM
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lol your inability to understand world concepts or history outside of watching videos deems you uninformed and incapable of having an adult discussion regarding human life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:12 PM
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Having grown up in a trailer park where meth heads in their 50's were still getting knocked up, I'm sure she'll be fine. She'll probably just have a baby with downsyndrome or FA syndrome. Quality of sperm also decreases over the years. a 40 year old husband isn't a great genetic contender either, if his swimmers even still work. People rarely seem to acknowledge that sperm quality is also a factor for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:10 PM
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Eh. My mom is a refugee of a civil war married at 16. Had me at 17. She can work but most jobs are difficult without some years of schooling. A refugee to a western country? Or somewhere else where women don't have the opportunity to get educated and have jobs? No offense, but I don't think this discussion is relevant regarding countries where women are little more than cattle to birth male heirs. If your mother as able to seek asylum in the US, I'd assume the alienation from her cultural influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:07 PM
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I think suggesting incremental changes that show thought and consideration for other people is a fine request to make. For example (Can you text me good morning a few times a week? Can you not leave your shoes in the middle of the hallway so that I don't fall and break my neck? Can you set a reminder your phone to set aside time for us to spend together or to remember important dates/events?) I think these are reasonable requests of change to make that aren't crazy or outlandish. Men and women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:36 PM
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Plenty of mothers manage to get educated and work jobs while doing most if not all of the childcare. Unless your mother has a physical or mental disability, it's difficult to have sympathy for her inability to consider the worst case scenario or her life choices. Your take isn't fair to women that "do it all" already. It would make more sense to have husbands pay into an account for their wives for the labor that they contribute. Since the husbands are ultimately expoloiting their wives for free…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:29 PM
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I'm not talking about women. Women are irrelevant in this discussion . If men want to bond over feelings of victimization, they are free to do so. That doesn't mean that they are correct in doing so. Women gaining the status of person hood less than men hasn't disenfranchised men. I don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:25 PM
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You think all men in relationships or that most men in relationships display toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:44 PM
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Seems like commonsense. Why would anyone, man or woman, date someone who made their life harder or did absolutely nothing to change their quality of life in any regard? Most people choose a partner due to their ability to make them feel companionship or make their lives easier in someway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:34 PM
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I'm not talking about hookups or casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:32 PM
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I said dating outcome, meaning intention of relationship. Casual sex and one night stands have nothing to do with relationships. The interests of people that just want to fuck have nothing to do with people who want relationships and long-term commitments. You people use sex and dating interchanablely to mean the same things, which they don't. If you're just talking about fucking randos, you should clarify that and stop derailing conversations that are literally discussing relationship dynamics,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:29 PM
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They're married with children to women who don't think they're gay, so yes obviously. Marriage is literally the definition of the most successful dating outcome. However I know that you people are rarely referencing relationships or commitment in these discussions. If you're just referencing casual sex and one night stands, I don't know. As I said originally, it's more than likely region specific. A gay acting man probably can't get a one night stand in rural Tennessee, but can probably get plen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:21 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:18 PM
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Being direct doesn't mean "asking out". Rejection isn't nice in any regard, whether its rejection from an apartment, a job, a loan, or a bid for friendship. If someone lacks the ability to emotionally tolerate being rejected, then they shouldn't implement self soothing stories regarding someone's interest in them. Since the lack the social or emotional skills to navigate either outcome appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:18 PM
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My whole comment was about characteristics and behaviors within relationships. I never mentioned or made reference to physical appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:15 PM
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I never referenced puppies or smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:09 PM
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I know men that are married who seem "obviously" gay to me, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:08 PM
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There's an interesting documentary regarding neglected children from the 1940s or 50s. Children who experienced touch deprivation or constant physical abuse from their parents literally could not tolerate being touched in a compassionate way. I think men and women who have this history carry the same inability to have frequent non-violent touch the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:01 PM
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I think masculinity has become an absolutely meaningless word. What I think has been happening is that men are having a more desperate bid to connect with other men. They lack the necessary skills to bond with other men and in their attempts to do so, try to reenact cartoonish performances of what they think manhood is to bond with other men. Notice how this "masculinity" crisis has brought men together to openly discuss their feelings of alienation and inferiority without being scrutinized, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:58 PM
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Yep. People who have a history of abuse try to "reenact" the dynamic they had with their abusers. They relive and replay these scenes with different people. Sometimes to "rewrite" the experience so that they're in control this time, or to recreate the chaos that they're used to as a form of self soothing. Yeah, dysfunctional and traumatized people can be terrifying. It's unfortunate, but it's never worth it to get involved with these people, unless they've had extensive specialized therapy and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:53 PM
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Femininity is undervalued in society, however women not being attracted to feminine men is a lie. Of course this is culture and region specific. However, women are largely saying as a collective they want to express more "feminine traits" for them to be considered as a romantic partner. These traits are emotional intelligence, the ability to take initiative to be nurturing and assist domestically within a home, etc. Women are asking men to take on the feminine burden of engaging in the unpaid, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:47 PM
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Or she can be a shy, busy, awkward person. Her being on the spectrum is also a possibility. Eventually being direct to people of interests, does eliminate the constant confusion and guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:36 PM
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I agree. Women used to abusive dynamics typically don't know how to respond or function in not abusive dynamics. The threat of abuse is more than likely a familiar and comforting feeling for them. Safety and health probably send their body into a panic which can set of alarm bells that they interpret as "danger" because they're not used to the sensation or feelings associated with being treated well. Men and women used to abusive dynamics typically "panic" or lash out in non abusive dynamics bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:18 PM
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Yes, it isn't a marriage proposal. It's still possible to opt out at any time. But if someone leans on the more anxious side I see how that can be taxing having to tell someone directly "I'm no longer interested". Nothing is set in stone with this approach, there's just awareness upfront that the expectation of spending to know one another is to lead to something more than friendship eventually. I get that it isn't for everyone though, and completely understand a less direct approach. There is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:13 PM
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Of course, I'd have to get to know the person, determine compatibility, etc. However, I want clarity to exist that I'm not simply being "nice" and I'm interested in things progressing one way or another if the feeling is mutual and we continue to spend time with one another. I don't have an interest in the ambiguity or "misconceptions" regarding my intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:55 PM
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If I'm approaching a man with the expressed interest in dating, I cultivate a dynamic to make that clear. How I approach people generally as a friend, is different than how I approach someone as a romantic or sexual interest. I have plenty of friends and I'm perfectly fine with being friends afterwards if things don't start out. But I do not prefer to set the intention of friendship, if that isn't what I'm going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:51 PM
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I mean, you're free to your own reality. I see women online reacting to ugly/short/nerdy guys making misogynistic and sexist content that is often derogatory towards women in general. The response from women is defensive in nature that says, due to their misogynistic content and beliefs that they won't date those men. I've never seen these women claim having a "sense", it's always a rejection of the mans publicly displayed behaviors and beliefs. I've never seen an ugly/short/nerdy guy simply exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:48 PM
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It highly depends. I think logically it would make more sense to have a culture where women approach, since women are less likely to be violent threat to men. It doesn't make sense to culturally normalize men approaching women, when so many men are emotionally unstable, violent, and can't handle rejection in a reasonable way. However, culturally most men do not respect women women approach overtly. They find it emasculating or think it's ONLY an invitation for sex. When women approach men it has…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:42 PM
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That would be the logic for a sane person. However, you're wrong because men claim they have to take what they can get and have no options. Since they need to be in relationships with women, they have to get involved with violent, abusive, and emotionally unstable. If a man makes a poor decision in a woman, it's never his fault. It's always the woman's fault regardless of what happens. The man is never responsible for his own behaviors or personal choices. If a man only has the choice of dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:26 PM
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I don't think the women who claim to have "intuition" are the same grade of women who have zero commonsense or are riddled with trauma and have defective relationship picking abilities. The women that I've always seen speak about institution are usually referencing dangerous situations, or noticing a change in their mates behavior that indicates cheating. I've never heard women that believe in soul mates, fate, or destiny, regard their decision making in men as an "intuition", they completely ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:11 PM
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It's always okay to have unreasonable expectations. It's only an issue if someone is constantly whining, crying, bitching and complaining that they can't get the person that they want. People who have unreasonable expectations but are perfectly happy or content being single until the day they die are perfectly fine. People who are always complaining about being single and demanding that the deserve to be loved and bitching at other people constant need to go back to the drawing board and redraw …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:01 PM
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Yes it does. Men who want women to pay should simply say that prior to the date. What you believe is irrelevant to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:18 PM
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Tell the woman that she needs to pay on the date. Problem solved. IDK why men simply don't tell women that they expect her to pay for the man or pay for her own food before going on the date. It would solve all of their problems immediately. I don't understand why this discussion never takes place before the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:03 PM
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My closest friendships are with men. I understand the hesitancy with opposite sex friendships, as I'm sure the people who don't believe in platonic friendships have been burned by a man or a woman they dated claiming that someone was "nothing to worry about" only to fuck them or leave the relationship for them. Or they secretly want to fuck their opposite sex friends and are projecting that desirw onto everyone else. I used to be more judgemental of people rejecting opposite sex friends, until I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:28 AM
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You don't use towels? It's irrelevant whether or not your toothbrush in your room. Shit particles are still getting thrown around the room on every surface and getting dragged throughout your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:58 PM
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Do you leave the toilet lid up when you flush?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:45 PM
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A few of them mentioned that it's normal not to have sex at least a year after your kids are born. This can be relatively normal depending on how traumatic physical birth was, and how difficult a child is ( an example being colic). For some reason, humans fail to realize that a baby the size of a watermelon is exiting from a vagina. This can and does cause traumatic injuries to women that can take months or even years to heal. Athletic tears, fractures, ripping from vagina's to assholes happen r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:30 PM
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They literally never discuss relationships, other than women leaving shitty relationships with useless antisocial men. These people never discuss relationships, just sex, it's all about casual sex and hookups with these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:47 PM
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You can get HIV if you want. Most people don't use or ask for their partners to use condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:45 PM
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They create damned if you do, damned if you don't scenarios, so irrespective of what males do, the woman is always in the "wrong" and worthy of the shit outcomes that she receives or experiences. A woman engaging in sexual activity makes her a used worthless whore that should get pumped and dumped by any man because she has zero worth or value outside of sex. A woman who doesn't engage in sexual activity is a worthless prude that is depriving men of sexual intimacy which is "necessary" for men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:28 PM
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Their logic is that since ugly women can put a paper bag over their head, get fucked by any dude, and thrown out the window after being used to masturbate with, then they are still privileged. They don't take quality of life or any other aspect into consideration. Everything literally is about whether a woman theoretically can have a man willing penetrate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:57 PM
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Oh I thought he was innocent. Liberals are still bitching about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:38 PM
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Who is kyle and jojo?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:10 PM
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I can't remember the last time I met a sexy guy. Men lack any sensuality. They don't know how to build up desire or anticipation. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:09 PM
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Under dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:07 PM
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It favors men and the few crumbs that are thrown to women is completely ignored lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 PM
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Oh god 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 PM
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It's simply. Become an empty shell and cope with prescription meds and alcohol. Becoming a drugged out agreeable zombie is totally worth it for the sake of a dysfunctional and empty marriage. Just stope being human and become a brain dead servant. Then when hubby inevitably cheats for a woman that excites him, challenges him, makes him feel alive, simply grin and bear it. As it's his god given right to have as much extramarital pussy as he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:42 PM
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Lol I don't want to imagine how that's physically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:38 PM
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More like governments and corporations are asking why the breeding stock isn't getting back to work or making more wage labor babies. People on average don't care about what other people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:27 PM
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I think giving up on dating is perfectly reasonable, especially if someone has had consistently negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:25 PM
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Men who have a little gut fat or pudge, stimulate the clitorus while fucking missionary. Their gut hangs down and essentially humps the clit during a lot of positions. It's stimulation we otherwise don't get. There you go, mystery solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:03 PM
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Helicopter parenting is also a form of neglect as it never allows the child to develop their own skills and judgement. If your social success was a result of your parents organizing playdates and group invites, you weren't able to learn the dynamics of making your own friends and bonds without their influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:06 PM
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Yep. I used to think porn was no big deal. Now it's an absolute dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:11 PM
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They're no longer happy to do it when the reality of it being impractical sets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:51 PM
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Men also refuse to follow workplace safety guidelines. An issue with commercial drivers is that men still largely refuse to wear seatbelts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:24 PM
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Men wanting to get women passed out drunk to rape them isn't "privilege". And bars let women in free to entice men to enter with the insinuation of sex with drunk women. Men can get the same treatment by going to gay bars if it's such a "privileged" experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:23 PM
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Agree. An issue that I have is men fumbling after they get my number. They go straight shit for brains. Usually being overly sexual immediately and getting offended by me immediately blocking them. I had one guy confront me and ask what he did wrong, as we had already made plans for a date to watch a live band together. A day before the date, out of the blue he says he wants to suck and fuck my tits. There was no flirting, no cheeky banter, nothing, just diarrhea of the mouth about wanting to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:21 PM
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😂 take all the time you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:09 PM
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https://www.moneycontrol.com/news/trends/he-cut-off-his-lips-ears-and-2-fingers-now-black-alien-plans-to-amputate-2-more-fingers-leg-8925421.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:06 PM
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Lmao, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:46 PM
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Depends. If he looked like a humanoid type creature, I could get into it. I find a lot of those deforming extreme body modifications attractive. If he just looked like a mass of flesh, lumps, and holes probably not. If he had a massive mound on his face or head that looked like an ass absolutely not. If is face was hanging like ripples of skin, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:38 PM
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His habit of hitting up people he went on a date with 4 years ago is more than likely the reason why he's can't find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:30 PM
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It's crazy to me that people can get so desperate that they have to reach out to old dates from years ago. It's crazy that they can even remember that far back, let alone still have your contact info.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:26 PM
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You think Chads take to shit tests??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:17 PM
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The irony I figured you'd have zero response to that. ​ Bullshit. Collective guilt is the current paradigm. Men are told to "do better" and are broadly blamed for things like "rape culture" for any myriad of perfectly natural sexual impulses. Sounds like disordered men who can't separate themselves from men who rape and are committing crimes against women. Doesn't make any logical sense for any reasonable person to think someone is speaking to them directly if they aren't raping or harming women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:07 PM
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This is why people who aren't in my contact list can't contact me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:02 PM
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Fuck no. These dating agencies match who is available in the pool, they don't match people based on compatibility. They also don't do background checks on the people that sign up to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:55 PM
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It's when women shit on a PH strip to test the quality of their shit. Colon health is important, so any man that refuses to test his shit is automatically seen a red flag. Since men are notoriously more likely to neglect their physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:50 PM
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It's always disordered/mentally ill people swearing that "Everyone does it". It's like the 600lb obese person that claims everyone indulges to the excess that they do. They take a relatively normal human behavior, then take it to absurd proportions and claim the absurdity as normality for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:27 PM
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I think it more so proves that deliriously egoic leadership leads to the detriment of societies. The ethnic nationalism isn't the problem. It's the lack of cultural progression through practical measures. Changing working culture to allow men and women to have the time to date, fuck, and procreate is a practical measures. These governments don't function practically and don't apply commonsense social or cultural measures to ensure their people can function as people. These governments often forg…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:25 PM
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What data and numbers do you have to prove that most married men are extremely wealthy Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:03 PM
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Eh. It's just women song larping about defending themselves. Some of it is good, most of it just sounds like metal to me. I think female rage is irrelevant if it never results in women actually doing anything in real life. Women screaming about rape and being harmed is like *shrug* and? If they aren't doing anything about it. I don't think it's some grand social movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:02 PM
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It's not about men wanting sex. It's about the general inability that too many men have to let sex happen organically. Typically men want to fuck by the first date, then throw a tantrum or make it like the woman is crazy for not wanting to fuck a man that she barely knows. Too many men lack any ability to self regulate or show any type of delayed gratification. People who want relationships, what to establish a connection and fuck when they're ready to fuck. Not when the guy demands to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:58 PM
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This is not a fact by any means and sounds like magical gendered thinking. Men that commit crimes are called monsters. Men that have invented and established most of the key points of society are revered. So the complete denial of ANY social significance or value placed on the accomplishments of men is just a blatant lie. Nah your thinking is off. It makes zero sense how you can pretend that zero historical or modern male figures exist in society. I don't trust your perspective of reality or nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:53 PM
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Nothing is wrong with simply telling a woman that they like her. Usually this option is for shy/introverted people, or people who don't want to disrupt the the flow or comfort of the social circle. Nothing I said was necessary. Typically if people want to use a social circle for dating, the social group are active participants of that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:35 PM
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I never said men don't or can't think about sex. Reread the comments if you're confused. I don't find men confusing to any degree. I'm aware of what is and isn't disorder behavior. And I'm aware of the difference in behavior between men who obsessively think about sex and the one's who don't. Perhaps if you socialized with men who didn't watch porn all day, you'd also notice and perceive the behavioral differences between the groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:31 PM
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How does society teach poor people, women, minorities, the disabled, teenagers, children, and the elderly to love themselves? Please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:25 PM
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Society teaches everyone to hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:23 PM
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The logic would be to have someone ask and confirm, whether the feeling was mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:20 PM
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You don't know how people work or what is or isn't disordered behavior. Sounds like you're trying to "normalize" it because it's how your brain operates. Men watching porn since they were 6 years old and damaging their brains to be hypersexualized has nothing to do with "testosterone". Biology is a factor in obsessive thoughts and it is more than likely that these men who think obsessively about sex have predisposition to the disordered behavior. Probably through neurological abnormalities such …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:18 PM
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Don't go to anyone's house you barely know. Especially if the weather is going to be bad. What exactly are you going to do if he pushes your boundary and escalates anyway? Don't go to men's homes, don't invite them to yours until you trust them and actually know they have self restrain and can respect your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:06 PM
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Now this is just cognitive dissonance. If someone constantly thinks about food and eating every waking minute, they have a problem. It's disordered behavior or low IQ behavior. Your denial of that reality, doesn't change reality. Obsessive thoughts aren't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:02 PM
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Great to know that you genuinely believe someone who have obsessive compulsive thoughts about something 24/7 is normal. It's not normal for someone to obsess over whether or not they locked the door or turned off the stove. It's not normal for someone to obsess over being injured or dying. This behavior isn't normal with any other topic, yet you think when the topic is sex, this is magically regular everyday behavior? I don't trust your perspective of reality by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:55 PM
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They feel entitled to insert their pee pees into orifices whether someone wants it there or not. They think they have golden magical dicks that deserve to be inserted anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:50 PM
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I grew up in a trailer park. I saw women fight over men that didn't have any teeth. Get offline and go to walmart sometime. Go look at average and normal people instead of watching Instagram models and porn stars all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:48 PM
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No. I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:42 PM
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It's called support. It seems like most people don't have any friends in adulthood and don't know what getting "set up" is. Someone hosts a game night or some other event and makes an excuse to leave the two alone so that it isn't an awkward or forced experience. The group knows both people and knows how best to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:37 PM
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Hitting on every woman in your social circle is a sure way to get booted from your social circle. You're supposed to pick one or two women from the group that you like, have fellow friends determine if the feeling is mutual, then your friends arrange for you to be alone together and the group will encourage the date from there. Throwing your dick at every woman within a 5 mile radius is the immediate way to get rejected from most women within a 5 mile radius. No one likes the guy that asks out e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:30 PM
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Low IQ and disordered ones do. I notice a start difference between men who make everything sexual constantly and men who are able to simply see a sandwich and eat a sandwich without thinking of pussy. Never being able to to not be sexual or think of sex is disordered behavior. It's not normal to think of anything compulsively to that degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:26 PM
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Nope. The rational and self identity parts of women's brains shuts off when they're in love. They'll willing to do anything and take on a disproportionate burden of work for a man that they're in love with. They agree to being the foundation of the relationship that does everything, but lack the foresight to understand how it's literally an impossible task long term. They're happy to do a majority of the domestic, relationship, and service tasks in a marriage because it's how they show their lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:17 PM
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They don't want to be in consensual open relationships because they think those women are low tier. They want regular women who won't leave and will allow them to cheat on them. They're advertising and trying to normalize cheating because that's what they want. It's a fetish. They want to cheat while their partner sits in the corner with their thumb up their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:03 PM
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Nah. I think a significant amount of men are mentally and socially stunted mainly due to parental neglect caused by the social belief that "boys are easier", which means they didn't bother to raise them at all. Too many men have an extremely warped image of self and complete inability to connect with their peers. I know enough men that struggle with body image issues and I've noticed it get more severe with the younger men. They have really bizarre and frankly horrible views about themselves. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:10 PM
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They're having less sex. This isn't the 50's anymore where people pretend that oral and anal don't count. People of all ageges, demographics, and sexual orientations are having less sex. Including oral and anal sex. The frequency and amount of sex that people have casually and within relationships has been on a gradual decline for the past 30 years. And it's been on hyper decline since the pandemic. Hookup hysteria has made people assume that everyone is fucking constantly, but hookup culture is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:31 PM
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The advent of the internet has made it clear that a significant amount of men do not like women and mainly view women as disobedient vaccume cleaners that they can fuck. It's also telling that many men don't disagree with these male talking heads when they comment how disgusted they are by women. I rarely see a guy making content in disagreement towards these men, it's usually silence. But when. Woman says she doesn't like or eant to be with men who have these views, men magically have opinions …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:24 PM
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Neighbor was jealous of her late teen daughter having her whole life ahead of her, fucked her daughters 24 year old boyfriend, got knocked up and married him to live the life her daughter imagined. Worst part was she went back to school to become an RNA (like her daughter wanted to do) and was a better mother to the new baby than she was to her older daughter. Jealous girlfriend stabbed her boyfriend and almost made him loose his arm because he talked to another woman too "friendly" in front of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:11 PM
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In the sense of my encounters of the dark feminine kind 🥺.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:54 PM
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What about affirmative action?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:51 PM
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What are you defining as "darK" female behavior. I grew in in a trailer park, I saw everyone doing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:33 PM
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If someone has those standards and expectations for a partner, do you think that they would treat a person who didn't meet those standards well? Do you think people who have a laundry list of requirements would be good, kind, compassionate, or reasonable partners to the people who don't measure up? In my opinion encouraging people to settle for people that don't want to be with, is more detrimental to the person that they're settling for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:36 PM
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Why do you think someone wanting a person that is right for them specifically is wanting a perfect person ultimately? For example, I wouldn't seriously date a man who isn't childfree and doesn't have a vasectomy. This has nothing to do with perfection. I don't want kids and I don't want to date anyone who has children or wants children some day. How would me wanting a childfree man mean seeking perfection?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:24 PM
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To me, it's reasonable to reject people who have flaws and deviations that they know they can't handle. Everyone isn't suited to deal with everyone's issues. IMO people are becoming more realistic in what they can tolerate long term. If a man values physical attraction above all else, it doesn't make sense for him to settle with a woman who has a binge eating disorder and doesn't believe that physical beauty matters at all. People can only pretend to be fine with someone's flaws until they can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:17 PM
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Because gay men put in effort to look attractive and usually aren't masquerading a fake personality to get sex. If I find a man physically attractive there's a 95% chance he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:28 PM
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All that I heard was that you fucked for free for 7 whole years when you could have been paid 600K. You cheated yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:23 PM
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I could be interpreting what you say incorrectly, usually when I hear people who claim men and women want "perfection", they're usually claiming that people who don't want to date people with certain traits and characteristics as "wanting perfection". It's difficult to tell whether someone literally means "perfection", or if people are taking liberties and generally mean people who have requirements that don't allow everyone or most people to be a romantic option. Since I rarely hear any man or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:02 PM
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People want the partner that's best from them. Most people aren't interested in trying to make it work with people who have obviously glaring incompatibilities. Why would someone enter into a marriage with a hoarder? Why would someone enter into a marriage with someone who has anger issues? Why would someone enter into a marriage with someone who has no inpulse control? Why would someone enter into a marriage with someone who can't self soothe and has no emotional regulation? Living with people …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:33 PM
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Brains are as individual as a fingerprint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:07 PM
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Depends on why they only have male friends. There's a difference between it simply ending up that way vs a woman saying that she doesn't like women or can't relate to women. In my personal life, my male friends have put more effort into maintaining friendships over life changes compared to my female friends, irrespective of how much effort I put in. So there have been periods in my life where I've only had male friends. Sometimes it happens. Every woman who has told me she doesn't like women or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:05 PM
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Women don't want to be friends with people that they get along with and share interests with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:59 AM
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Is that how men structure their friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:55 AM
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Men are seen as people, not body parts. Most of society thinks that women that are extremely sexually forward and too sexually open are trashy. Which makes women more reserved in their expressions of sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:08 AM
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If women didn't like men, they wouldn't want to be platonic friends with men. They wouldn't want men around at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:52 PM
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That data doesn't differentiate anything. Romantic experiences and casual dates isn't a comitted relationship definitively. That is lumping everything together. One night stands and fwbs are beling lumpted together with monogamy. I don't agree. As most of human history men and women we're allowed to choose who they wanted to be with, relationships were arranged by parents. Many cultures still practice this and no other animal species has its parents arrange its mates. Women have been repressed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:50 PM
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Men in this sub have selective attention. They'll make post after post about friendships with women being a waste of time, or how women are no longer attractive and valuae after 35, how women acheiving education and careers is useless. Men habitually reduce women's worth down to sex with women's bodies. Women detail wanting male friendships, wanting male romantic partners, loving their male family members, etc. Women just don't want men using their close personal relationships to abuse and use t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:31 PM
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You said you were playing devils advocate and that they could bolster their claim. I was asking for clarification. The hypergamy argument is that women will settle for men with less power and resources if they can't get a man with more. Women getting men that have no power and resources is the opposite of that argument. These women are picking up men with absolutely nothing and paying their way. The woman is taking the dominant role here in providing and protecting. She's not taking a man who pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:45 PM
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How does that bolster their claim? Buying poor men is the complete opposite of hypergamy. These women are going out of their way to choose men with no power that they have complete financial and legal responsibility for. How does this feed into the hypergamy argument at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:32 PM
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Doesn't this go completely against the whole hypergamy Red pill narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:01 PM
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No, I think that girls and women have more consistently negative experiences with men that naturally makes women less interested in being around and involved with men, compared to boys and men. Women experience more negative experiences with heterosexual sex than men do. Women have men who try to shove their dick into their assholes. Men who don't make sure that women are wet or that their cervix has retracted during sex. Men who try to imitate porn and slap or choke women without their consent.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:57 PM
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I don't "compete" with anyone. It's not possible to be in competition with other women if a man doesn't want me or isn't interested in me. Either a man wants me and the feeling is mutual or it's not. I'm white everyone doesn't date outside of their race, for those that don't, there is no competition for me in that regard. For men who complain about women being "materialist and only wanting money", that is the standard expectation for European women. There's no secret that men must provide and pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:41 PM
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Now you're just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:27 PM
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He literally said , still benefit indirectly by men being horny enough to do the worst jobs that keep their bubble in infrastructure and civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:19 PM
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You clearly don't read the rambling from members that share your sex. You should listen to your fellow man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:18 PM
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If a man doesn't have a parent, partner, or organization to care for his basic needs, he is required to work in order to meet those needs. I also went into extensive detail regarding money being a requirement for men who don't want to shit in holes or live on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:13 PM
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regular men still complain about child support and baby trapping. For those men, Male BC would be a benefit to them, since the deadbeat route seems to complicated for them to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:11 PM
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It depends, there are some men who don't want to have children and/or are afraid of being baby trapped by women, or men who simply want control over when they have children instead of trusting a woman to only get impregnated when he wants her to be. However, men don't really "need" birth control. They can simply walk away and abandon their children, as they've done since the dawn of time if they don't want children. Being a deadbeat has always been and will always be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:04 PM
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Men with higher IQ's and with self worth outside of their sex organs do have desires greater than fucking women. Men who have intellectual curiosities don't discover, build, and invent because they want sex. They do so because they're humans that have a thirst and passion for life beyond their dicks. Everyone's life doesn't revolve around getting and having sex. If it did, no technology or modern luxuries would exist today. Reality never reflects the warped view of the world that you people try …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:34 PM
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No, simply because maleness and masculinity is associated with not being female and not being feminine. And the social implication is that maleness and masculinity is better than femaleness and being feminine. Maleness and masculinity would have to be redefined to mean more than simply not being female and viewing femaleness as "bad" in comparison to maleness. I don't believe that humans or any society is mature enough to measure men and women in accordance to values to that don't strictly adher…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:29 PM
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I wouldn't say "most" people have someone waiting in the wings for a chance. But I've certainly seen or known people like this. Personally, I don't think it's healthy or safe to have someone desperately waiting in their background for a "chance". I also don't trust the emotional stability or judgement of people who keep "just in case" partners looming around. It's cruel in addition to simply being a bad judgement call.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:00 PM
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I grew up in a trailer park. Low income men still fuck, date, marry and have kids. Poor people outbreed and out fuck wealthier people. Low paying jobs are not stress free. Living in low income areas isn't stress free. Living in those conditions isn't easy, isn't stress-free, isn't safe, and isn't pleasurable. To even say as much is absolutely ridiculous. So no, OP's post doesn't make any sense. People who want a better quality of living within society ADHERE to societal requirements in order to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:46 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:41 PM
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There is more to it than this because they don't even use standard rules or general logic for human behavior. Most of them ignore basic general rules of society and social functioning that has little exception. For exampling, Everyone needing to work in order to survive. Needing a job, to earn money, to exchange for goods shouldn't be an ignored principle for these people if they're so "logical". There is more missing here that simply doesn't add up at all. Their line of reasoning never makes an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:06 PM
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😂 It would explain so much. I am excited for advanced sex bots though, it would be great if it happened during my lifetime. Being able to fuck a replica of any person or character, crazy attachments and functions that would be impossible for a human. I can only imagine the possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:42 PM
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I had to step away and collect myself for a little bit, because this is just so strange. Sometimes I feel like these threads and comments are not made by people at all. I'm an fully convinced that some of these takes are in fact AI's trying to learn about humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:37 PM
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Do you people not understand what a society is? Men work jobs because we live in a society that requires MONEY in order to live. If a man wants to eat, he needs money to buy or grow food. If a man doesn't want to shit in a hole or on a sidewalk, he needs money to pay for plumbing. If a man doesn't want to sleep outside, he needs MONEY to build a home, purchase a home, or rent a home. If a man wants entertainment, he needs MONEY to purchase items for hobbies, or to spend on media, or to go places…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:14 PM
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People who value social connection and want partners that can exercise self control aren't going to hop into bed after a first, second, or 3rd meeting. Some adults also care about their sexual health and someone who wants to fuck within the first 5 minutes of knowing someone, more than likely lacks any maturity to engage in safe sex practices, and they are less likely to care about their sexual health status. Responsible people typically get tested together, learn about the sexual boundaries of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:19 PM
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You're the only one in this sub that has any taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:31 PM
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Yes, it's too much to ask for. Lower your expectations. Settle for an extremely sleezy 50 year old with a beer gut who looks like he belongs in 1990 SNL skit as an extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:27 PM
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Abortion laws for women have been rolled back. So it doesn't make sense to argue for "rights" women don't even have. I'm pro sterilization. I'm medically sterilized myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:12 PM
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They never want to ger a vasectomy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:55 PM
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It's called a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:54 PM
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lol Oh, gotcha. Yes, this place is very much a skipped record.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:37 PM
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This isn't a new one. There were just 3 threads about Financial Abortion in the past few days. It doesn't make sense. Dead beats who don't pay child support or take care of their kids exist and are nothing new. Men and women abandon and neglect their kids everyday. It's not difficult to walk away. Most people are not harshly punished legally or financially for abandoning their kids. Even if someone owes child support on paper, it is extremely difficult, time consuming, and expensive to try and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:10 PM
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I don't understand how the same thread keeps getting posted over, and over, and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:30 PM
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No, wtf? Men don't disgust me because they're single. This is nonsense. There are plenty of reasons why someone is single. Including simply having no interest in relationships. Single men aren't "gross".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:10 PM
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Sex with men isn't great. Most of them are shit in bed and don't listen to anything. Fucking men is basically like trying to fuck a splashing magikarp. And that's if they can even make it to the bedroom. Usually they fuck it up before even getting that far by saying something incredibly stupid, by just being a shitty person, and demanding sex immediately with zero build up or discussion about status or boundaries. It's great when it's a man who actually cares about a womans pleasure, wants to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:10 PM
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Keep a log of it. Not in a passive aggressive way, but because people with mental illness can have a warped perception of reality. Sucks that she's depressed. Hopefully you two have someone you can pawn the kids off to for a day or two while you both rest. Carrying the weight of a depressed partner isn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:06 AM
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Gotcha!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:04 PM
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Do you masturbate at all? Because I've noticed women saying that they don't care for sex with men, yet they own a shit ton of sex toys and are fucking themselves regularly. IMO there is a significant difference between not wanting to have sex with a man, vs not having any sexual urges or arousal at all. I know there are a growing number of women uninterested in sex because their sexual experiences with men have been awful. Being painful sex, unpleasurable sex, violence during sex, men not listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:50 PM
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This is just commonsense. Every place has it's own culture in what they consider most or least attractive. Every place has their own culture where there may be more sexually liberal behavior or less sexually liberal behavior. A guy can't expect to be a "play boy" living in a hyper conservative fundamentalist place. A guy may not be culturally attractive enough to participate in a "play boy" life style. For example I see many conservative men who hate liberals, but want to participate in liberal …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:23 PM
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I only know a few people that are fucking multiple people at a time. Most people that I know who are in situationships or have Fwb's are only with one person that they've been fucking on and off for a few months or years. While they're keeping their options open incase they find "the one", they're not exactly looking or putting in effort to fuck or date other people either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:07 PM
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Choose better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:47 AM
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If it's not a big deal why does the manosphere make a big deal out of it? Why are so many men pissed off that women are earning their own money and doing adult things without the support and assistance of a man? I agree that these are just basic adulting skills. However pretending that there is zeto cultural significance to women doing the bare minimum is just delusional. Women being bare minimum adults is significant because they weren't capable of doing so just a few decades ago. It's a big de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:38 AM
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Social relationships require effort and investment. Women have relationships with people because they call them, because they remember details about them, because they invite those people out, because they do favors for people, and because they show up for people. Interpersonal relationships aren't issued by the government according to sex. Men do not invest in interpersonal relationships with other people. Even in this sub men say that friendships are useless/meaningless and all they care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:53 AM
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Most people who suffer from mental illness to the degree that they're seeking euthanasia for relief, are not doing so because of lonliness. Despite lonliness being on an upward global trajectory. It is not the leading cause of mental illness at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:46 AM
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Interpersonal relationships do not cure mental illnesses. Someone seeking euthanasia because they're mentally ill has nothing to do with loneliness or singledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:42 AM
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Women cultivate friendships with other women. Males are capable of doing the same thing. Yes, lonliness is a global crisis and rasing among all demographics. Primarily because people are not cultivating or maintaining strong platonic relationships with others and their communities. However, women still have more social networks and support in old age in comparison to men. People seeking medical treatment for depression and assisted euthanasia for end of care treatment isn't relevant to anything.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:29 AM
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You didn't read my entire comment. If people were seriously worried about dying alone they'd focus on cultivating more relationships into their lives, not just romantic relationships. People who have friends and community generally do not die alone. Women outlive their male partners and typically have companionship from their children, friends, and community in old age because they invest in those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:18 AM
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You denying history and reality doesn't make something "false." It is literally a fact that women were property in most cultures and literally still are considered property in some cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:56 PM
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Women were bought and sold as property through most of human civilization. Women's choice in who they marry and reproduce with is a relatively short blimp in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:47 PM
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People downplay the dying alone narrative because it's typically used to shame or threaten women into being in relationships they don't want to be in with men that they don't want. And these men ARE referring to dying alone without anyone by their side as men typically don't outlive their wives and men typically only have a spouse or romantic partner for social companionship later in life since they don't cultivate bonds with anyone outside of their significant other. If someone was genuinely af…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:36 PM
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The human is a social animal. Historically men have always had place of connection within their communities. Meaning close personal attachments with neighbors, friends, and family. Western machoism defining masculinity as secluded indivalism is not indicative of most of human history. There is no historical proof or data of men being largely excommunicated from their communities simply for being male. The loneliness epidemic is caused by people failing to build interpersonal platonic connections…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:28 PM
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Women outlive their husbands and typically don't remarry in comparison to men. Companionship for senior women is from their children and social bonds they create in later life. Women don't get late life companionship from men because men die and women typically choose not to remarry or cohabitate later in life. Men need women as late life companionship because they typically don't create or maintain close relationships with anyone outside of their significant other, not even with their own child…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:11 PM
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Feeders deserve love too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:47 AM
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It's the least I could do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:43 AM
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Reddit thinks I'm a pregnant senior citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:12 AM
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Other minorities aren't an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:56 AM
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You forgot cooking meth and having a place of residence for hobosexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:27 AM
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You have zero access to the 20% of non-white women? Every asian I know has strong ties to Asian American communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:25 AM
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Lmao. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:48 PM
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Yeah. Anyone can walk down skid row and ask for a relationship. Getting a random man off the street isn't difficult. Finding a compatible person to navigate life with is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:47 PM
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If you're obsessed with white women, your options are probably bad. If you're open to dating other minorities, probably good. I noticed majority men being obsessed with white women and completely ignoring non-white women. Doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:44 PM
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If an 18 year old can go to war and die, they can ruin the rest of their life with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:40 PM
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I've never seen that stat, and it's a significantly low percentage if it's even real. A 33% percent chance of being arrested for calling the police is nothing, if what you're saying is actually factual. There has been a documented increase in women committing domestic violence and being arrested for it since 2004 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/226379062_A_Comparison_of_Men_and_Women_Arrested_for_Domestic_Violence_Who_Presents_the_Greater_Threat These women typically have a criminal his…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:51 PM
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I grew up in a trailer park. Women get arrested for DV, regularly. I've seen enough women engaging in DV getting arrested to know that they get charged with DV. And I know enough abusive women to know, they do in fact get arrested. Horror stories online are just that, horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:22 PM
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That's not how that works. A belligerent drunk is going to jail if her boyfriend is covered with bruises and scratches. It she's out of control enough to attack her BF, she's not going to be able to control herself when the cops arrive. Women go to jail for domestic violence as well. Especially if there are physical marks left from attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:12 PM
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B. Call the cops and have her arrested for domestic violence. Then he should break up with her because she's an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:02 PM
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Nope never wanted children and never will. I got surgery to make sure that it won't ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:33 PM
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Yes. Average people with body image insecurities and porn addictions are in relationships. Flawed people are in relationships. Most people have flaws and shortcomings, it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:50 PM
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I don't automatically accept men's advances just because they ask me out. I reject dates if I'm not interested in the date and I'll suggest something that I'd actually want to do. Many men get hysterical if you don't want to get coffee or go on a walk for a first date and I'll reject them for their reaction/behavior. I've accepted dates, and then canceled/rejected men before going on the date because they get immediately sexual and disrespect my boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:25 PM
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Sounds like you have a proclivity for women on the spectrum and women with personality disorders. If you keep meeting and dating these same type of women and don't notice that they're "off" until they're in your house or bedroom, I'm assuming you're largely ignoring their bad qualities. Women are also autistic, have personality disorders, are mentally ill, and can also be criminals and predators as well. It's strange if most women that you meet fall into these categories. And it's strange that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:44 PM
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Were does it says otherwise? You literally did lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:27 PM
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Interesting that you ignore all of the men in agreement. I guess the narrative of men saying they only care about immediate unattached sex with attractive women doesn't matter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:16 PM
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As I said, people who lack impulse control and collect STI's agree with you. A person who can't wait to have sex has poor impulse control and their life more than likely reflects their impulsive behavior an poor decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:59 PM
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Yep because everyone is on tinder getting fucked immediately. If you lack impulse control and value nothing else, makes perfect sense. Do what works best for you. But be careful a woman that fucks on the first date probably has a high N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:43 PM
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As I said. The topic is about casual sex with models, not about relationships. Which was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:41 PM
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I said men are only talking about casual sex, one night stands, and hook ups. Thank you for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:40 PM
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Facts. If a woman isn't bending over to get fucked at first glance, she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:38 PM
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Beauty standards for casual sex and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:30 PM
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No they're not. Which is why they completely ignore or dismiss men being in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:18 PM
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They're not talking about relationships or marriage. They're talking about casual sex, one night stands, and hookups with barely legal models. They're never referring to relationships. It's always only about sex with the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:02 PM
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Women provide more free social labor than men. Meaning that women are more likely to provide free child care, free elderly care, free ailing relative care, as well as volunteer compared to men. Women provide social safety net support that would cause society to collapse if they didn't. Most of the invisible labor that women provide, is necessary for society to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:56 PM
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What you described as flirting ​ just extra texting, liking pictures on Instagram, some small comments, maybe asks you to do something seemingly appropriate for your situation, incidental touching Are normal behaviors that I engage in with my friends. I wouldn't take this as flirting or be convinced that it was flirting. If I felt that someone was flirting with me, I'd call it out and set up a boundary. If that person continued to disrespect that boundary, I'd stop associating with them. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:51 PM
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Yes. A woman that enters into a relationship with a man that doesn't clean up after himself is a dumbass. A woman who stays in a relationship with a man that stops cleaning up after himself is also a dumbass. However the topic of this conversation is men and marriage in relation to men. Which is why the topic of conversation is about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:43 PM
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Big strong man trapped in a relationship by nagging. I guess men have zero personal autonomy. They must blindly do whatever someone tells them to do. Lo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:40 PM
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Well put. They take credit for things they've never personally done if another man has done it and they think it's good. But if another man has done something bad, they have nothing to do with it, and it's "Not all men" lol Choosing better women is never their responsibility. Choosing not to get married and not to enter into relationships is never their responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:34 PM
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It's hilarious how the "superior" sex can never take responsibility for what they do. They always blame women. They never take responsibility for the women that they choose or the consensual relationships that they choose to enter. They also ignore how men, especially men in old age want to get married more than women do. Males just constantly project. No one is forcing them into relationships let alone forcing them to get married. It's hilarious that they make all of these personal decisions of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:53 PM
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1 in 3 women still worked in the 1950s. They were just paid significantly less. The idea that wives never worked has always been an American fairytale. Servers, operators, teachers, bakers, secretaries, nannies, maids, etc didn't cease to exist in the 1950's Idk where this idea that most married women didn't work came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:41 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:06 PM
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Move
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:05 AM
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No one has to get married. The only people getting forced into marriages are in cults or are from 3rd world countries. Who is demanding that men enter into marriages that they don't want? People that don't want to get married, shouldn't get married. It should be commonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:03 AM
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That's my point. He's attractive and still struggles with women. Oh never heard of thr monday guy. I'm not too familiar with the incel or FA community. I thought FA's heavily protected themselves from the incel identity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:24 PM
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I wouldn't call having 2-3 girlfriends in someone's lifetime as a 40 yo "success". I also wouldn't call those short term relationships successful if he ultimately wants to get married and have children. I never heard about Monday FA and couldn't find them with a youtube search. I'm talking about Aaron's Journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:14 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:33 PM
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Nothing is stopping men from wearing makeup. I don't live in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:19 PM
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It's true up to a point. There's no looks maxing out of severe autism or personality disorders. An attractive 40 year old autistic man went viral on youtube for never having a serious relationship last more than 2-3 months and he hadn't been with many women despite being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:14 PM
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lol thats cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:37 PM
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I hear many women say that they do this. I don't blame them if it's one of the perquisites for a heterosexual relationship and they want a relationship. I don't have the energy to put on social performances anymore. My patience is too thin. I couldn't keep up the act for longer than a few weeks. I'd also grow resentful of having to pretend to be in need for my partner to be invested in the relationship. I'd rather just be with someone who is comfortable in their own skin and just genuinely likes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:35 PM
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I don't find most men attractive, because most men don't put any effort into their physical appearance. A man that actually styles his hair, styles/shapes his beard, wears nice fitting stylish clothes, takes care of his skin, plucks excess hairs/unibrows, whitens his teeth, cleans underneath his nails, etc. Most men just look like depressed slop that rolled out of bed and are waiting to expire. Women put far more effort into their physical appearance. Even when they're being lazy they still put …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:48 PM
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There are teachers online who are claiming this is a problem. A video went viral where a teacher said middle school boys were mad that most of the girls were gay and dating each other. There ended up being a classroom brawl because the girls refused to date the boys and the boys were furious about it. It could also be that teachers who have these experiences are more likely to talk about it vs teachers who have a normal experience. But this does seem to be a growing problem with middle schoolers…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:05 PM
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Imo women reading the manosphere just teaches them which males to avoid. I've heard men IRL parroting this stuff and it's no surprise they're always single. It's becoming more prevalent among young men in their teens and early 20s. But as per usual it's a sub culture. The manosphere doesn't represent all men, despite old fashioned sexism overlapping at points, the manosphere is a small pocket of men. However I can see women getting glimpses into general unsavory feelings or beliefs that it seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:40 PM
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Lol at believing the personal autonomy of a romantic partner is immature. And you people wonder why the preference for staying and being single is on an upward trend. It's so absurd it's hilarious. Your romantic partners aren't toys or puppets at your beckoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:14 PM
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No. Men are still taking risks by starting their own businesses, doing drugs, engaging in risky behavior, committing crimes, inventing things, exploring remote areas, doing extreme sports, and other risk taking behavior. Men who are depressed, obese, and addicted to the internet are less likely to actively engage in anything, including risk taking. Other men, are still engaging in risk taking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:49 PM
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It's people failing to take personal responsibly for their own lives and relationships to other people. Loneliness is circumvented by people being vulnerable, going out into the real world, and putting in the effort to establish and maintain connections with others. Even with the rising cost of living, longer working hours, and lack of 3rd spaces to congregate. It is still up to men and women to individually put in the work to build and maintain the interpersonal relationships and community that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:25 PM
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Word salad. You're not getting it. Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have ownership over another human being. Wanting something from them, regardless of what it is, doesn't mean entitlement to that want, or obligation on behalf of the partner to provide that want. This is where the adult responsibility of choosing likeminded and compatible partners comes into play. Which people seem to shriek at any responsibility associated with who they choose and the lives they commit to with other peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:34 PM
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Any frequency in which he finds to be a burden or a hinderance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:23 PM
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I don't understand why this is necessary. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:17 PM
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Yes. People are allowed to establish boundaries in a relationship. Including emotional boundaries. If a woman is constantly sad in a relationship and her partner finds her constant emotional needs to be a burden or a hinderance to his own well being, he's allowed to establish a boundary or parameter for his own mental health and wellbeing. Being in a relationship doesn't men unlimited free use of a person physically, emotionally, mentally, or financially. While it's important for partners to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:16 PM
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Thinking about the long term is the opposite of short sight. Quantifying the longevity of a relationship by someone's ability to leave, is immature and short sighted. ​ In that case the dependent does not need their partner but something the partner is providing. This is what men mean when they reference being needed. They provide something that the woman isn't able to achieve or provide on her own. This is literally why men claim to be providers. They try to target women that would be dependent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:12 PM
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I'd feel incompatible with that person and dump them. I'm sure there'd be some other woman that would be happy to log in blowjobs throughout the week. I'm not one of them. I'm not attracted to low IQ people with zero social skills or poor capability to maintain relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:46 PM
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This is bad. Obligation sex leads to sexual repulsion and sexual dysfunction long term. You're happy to make your partner happy until it becomes a chore. Your body keeps the score. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8102356/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:45 PM
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I don't know about offended but they surely realized that the relationship had few chances to last in time. Makes sense for immature and short sighted mindsets ​ In other words. Relationships with women that need their partner are stable. Relationships with women that don't are unstable. There isn't stability in being "needed" in a relationship. If the dependent gains independence or finds someone else to fill that role, the "needed" person is just as expendable. Relationships based on need or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:37 PM
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History shows that most men are in fact that way. It's why women globally wanted economic freedom, because their husbands were shitheads a best and outright abusers at worst. Women wouldn't have made a collective global effort to get from underneath the foot of their husbands if most men weren't abusing or taking advantage of the power they had within the relationship. If most men were good to their wives, most women would have been satisfied with the dynamic and wouldn't have guided their femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:29 PM
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Seems to be that way. Men take offense when I make it clear that I want them as opposed to "needing" them. Imo men want to feel needed because they prefer when women are dependent on them to some degree because it means the woman will be less likely to leave if she needs him. It also give him purpose, leverage, and a position of dominance because she looses some functionality without him in her life. When women just want a man around because she loves him or likes him, most men don't find that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:35 PM
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I'm not buying it from the way you've articulated yourself throughout this entire thread. You rated yourself as a 7 as if that means anything. Women have a base level of attraction for men and use other parameters of his entire makeup to determine her overall attraction to him. Being how he conducts himself, his beliefs, how he takes care of himself, how he takes care of others etc. The hubris you feel to determine what others can want is more than likely your problem. Whether a person has unrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:27 PM
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No one "has" to be open to anything. The expectation that women should be open to giving you a chance because you're attracted to them and think that you're a 7 is bizzare. Demanding that strangers should be blindly available to you specifically because you're interested in them isn't reality. That's not how humans work. Your expectation that your perception of self attraction should reward you with arbitrary automatic milestones with strangers, is more than likely why you're not having the expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:02 PM
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Men on the internet don't represent all single men. I know plenty of men from 20-50 that aren't juggling multiple women and are in situationships with one woman. And I'm sure some of those women think they're in a relationship as they refer to those men as "my man" or "boyfriend", despite the guys never claiming them as such. Most men say that they don't want to be in a relationship or settle down young, which would explain exactly what I'm referring to. Men in this sub even say they want to alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:05 PM
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Cheating is cheating. I think cheating with a same sex partner is worse if the partner wasn't aware of their flexible or opposite sexual attraction. It's still an unnecessary betrayal of trust. So many people are willing to be in different types of non-monogamous relationships. Cheating isn't necessary in this day in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:41 PM
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Women doing it "too" isn't relevant to anything. Women also sex traffic children and women. We're not talking about women or what women do. I never made claim that women can't be or aren't manipulative narcissists. I said most of these men are not telling the truth about being dumped or rejected for "opening up". Men especially on reddit love to push this narrative like a universal truth, yet after digging deeper and actually find out the details, they always show that they're full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:55 PM
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How old are you and where do you live? What you're saying about women not showing up is true for the 25-30 crowd. I know a few places you can go if you live in a city or more cultured town. But anyways, the quote was referring to men who say that they aren't going tk do xyz. For example there was a viral video of a man saying to NEVER meet a woman you like anywhere. Always have her come to you. Horrible advice, they're referring to men like this. They're not talking about men who try to go out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:48 PM
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If there was no confirmation or agreement of a relationship, they are not dating. So many women use the excuse of "I met his family, im all over his social media" as confirmation of their delusions that they are in fact in a relationship. These women will literally do everything and use everything to confirm that they're in a relationship except get a verbal and clear agreement that they're in a relationship. There are so many women whining and crying all over social media about men denying bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:44 PM
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I don't think anything when I see an attractive man. I stopped getting excited by attractive men in high school. Once they open their mouth the attraction I had towards them and for them flies out of my asshole. I've literally had men talk themselves out of bed with me. I see males as people. So their entire person is important to me. If I don't like their beliefs, don't like the way they talk, and don't like the eay that they conduct themselves I'm no longer interested. Even for casual sex, I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:41 PM
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This topic is about males and their claims about opening up being the end of their relationship. They're liars. Emotionally stunted, narcissistic liars who constantly play the victim. Goes hand in hand with why men never seem to know why or when their relationship is going to end. Very convenient how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:28 PM
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Did you read the thread titile at all? Did you read the thread comentary? The topic of conversation isn't regarding men being traumatized by women because their mother pimped them out and locked them in a closet for 18 years. This thread is regarding males feeling resentful towards women due to feeling denied and deprived from sexual access to women. They're blaming the growing hurdle of economic challenges on women. They're resentful towards all women because they feel entitled to sexual acces …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:34 PM
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My comment was in refference to males who genuinely believe that life is harder for them specifically and that no other demographic of people have difficulties during this period of time. Women literally get shat on in this sub for simply saying that they're afraid of men because they've been abused before. Suddenly the whole sub starts to wag it's finger saying "not all men? Yet there's a circle jerk in this sub for men being resentful towards all women for being rejected in high school. It's f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:19 PM
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Obviously not. Didn't you see what I wrote? Eggs are $9. I used to get backyard eggs for free until both of my hippie neighbors sold their houses. Now I have to pay $9 for shitty commercial eggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:10 PM
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Yes, I speak to males who believe this IRL. And it's the general impression that I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:02 PM
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I don't believe a word that men say. I'm sure them "opening up" was a last ditch manipulation tactic as a hail Mary to save a relationship after a woman already declared the relationship over or that the writing was on the wall that the relationship was already over. So many women state that their experiences with men opening up is always after they've fucked up. Suddenly they want to cry about their dead grandma after being caught balls deep in the neighbor, or after he lost 50k on NFTs. Most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:23 PM
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Men are just emotionally unstable and perpetually immature. It doesn't make sense to resent people you don't know and have never met. It also doesn't make sense to hold resentment for the parter that they choose and who mutually chooses them back. Males are really insufferable. Everything is women's fault. They're supposed to be the "superior" sex in every regard, yet constantly fold like lawn chairs if they aren't constantly getting handouts due to their maleness. Life is more difficult for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:14 PM
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This still doesn't make sense. You say my data from 2020 is old, but are using a post from 2019. If less than 20% of dating app users are women, it would be impossible for 50% of relationships to have started from dating apps. The apps have been lying about the amount of women that use these apps since their inception. Dating app data isn't accurate by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:08 PM
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Bull. These numbers don't make any sense. Over 80% of dating app users at any given time are male and women are abandoning dating apps in droves. The female "users" on dating apps don't even include abandoned profiles, scam profiles, or bots. It is not possible, nor has it ever been possible for 40-50% of all couples on Earth to have met through dating apps. https://www.statista.com/statistics/975984/us-bumble-user-ratio-gender/ Idk why you males simply refuse to believe that these dating apps L…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:10 AM
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Gynecologists are the shittiest doctors overall IMO. There isn't much medical information regarding the female anatomy. A full clitorus diaram was just recently added to medical text books. And most gynecologists still believe that the cervix doesn't have any nerves which is why they essentially stab and pierce cervixes and claim it'll only feel like a "pinch". My best gynecologist is male. He is empathetic, patient and actually listened to me regarding my needs. Every female gynecologist that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:00 AM
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Ah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:29 PM
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Why wouldn't you believe that people who have issues wouldn't be disproportionately drawn to online dating? It's easier to hide their shortcomings and obvious defects behind a screen, vs in person. You said "older women" in your comment. I assumed you were matching with women older than your age demographic. Doesn't make sense why you referenced them in your comment if you aren't matching with them or dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:18 PM
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Many states allow vaginal exams of women who are under anesthesia for medical training purposes without their knowledge or consent. I wouldn't be surprised if the same happened to men as well for prostate exams.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:11 PM
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Online dating is disproportionately filled with people who have significant issues. It's the main reason why they primarily use online dating to meet people. Try inperson and dating irl. You're more likely to meet people in your age range and they'll more than likely have better social skills and less issues over all. In person/real life doesn't mean you won't meet any people with issues. It's just less compared to online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:09 PM
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It's just a revenge fantasy for younger men who can't psychologically handle their life. They have to dream that they'll be rich in their 40s-50s surrounded by barely legal teens that are genuinely sexually and romantically interested in them. They don't have a realistic perspective of aging. And they also don't realize that younger women want to be financially spoiled for their youth and older women don't want to deal with or tollerate their baggage that they refuse to address or get help for. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:39 PM
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Rapsits tend to justify rape. Which is why there are so many men, women, nd children that are sexually abused, yet no man has seen or known a sexual predator in their lifetime. All they is talk about wanting to rape people, then they cry and whine if anyone is concerned that they may in fact be a rapist. They hate consensual sex. It turns them off. If they can't force, coerce, or manipulate sex out of someone, then they want nothing to fo with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:56 PM
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It's men protecting and advertising their own sexual interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:51 PM
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It's not fair to blame the internet for what people do. Irrespective of what people think. They're capable of initiating a life outside of the screen. People not wanting to engage in real life isn't the fault of the internet. Billions of men and women mannage to live life with realistic perspectives everyday with other people face to face and they also have access to the internet. Personal responsibility is going to have yo be acknowledged at some point in time. It's easier to sit behind a scree…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:44 PM
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It was for a reason, guess it just went over your head. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:40 PM
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I guess you didn't read what I wrote. Lol It was pretty long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:38 PM
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Most if human society revolves around gift giving. Exchanging of gifts, services, and gesturess is a primitive cooperative response as a social species. It's why in most cultures "especially in poor communities" people provide friends, family, and neighbors with excess goods, services, or gestures. If someone cooks too much or has too many vegetables in their garden, they give it as a gift. Someone may offer to babysit or do lawncare without being asked. Someone may offer assistance (such as off…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:28 PM
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I don't care whether or not my partner compares me to his ex's. As long as he keeps those thoughts/opinions to himself and I get the treatment and relationship dynamic that I want out of him. Idk what this even means. Yes I don't care what he's thinking as long as he treats me well and is emotionally/mentally stable and non-violent. I'm not jealous. If a parter leaves, they leave. People are free to do whatever they want. I don't want anyone in my life that doesn't want to be here. I also don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:11 PM
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It's called reproductive coercion. It's a behavior that abusive men engage in to have a permanent position in a womans life. Many women can be guilted into staying in a relationship for the kids. And their lives are disproportionately burdened since women do most of the childcare. Many abusive men will impregnate women when they're in college or when they start their careers in an attempt to sabotage them and ruin their lives. Men in the manosphere promote this tactic to keep women in their plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:56 PM
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It's just good ole fashion hypocrisy. It's like the republicans that want to ban abortions, but run to get abortions themselves when they knock up one of their many mistresses. "Rules for me and not for thee". The hypocrisy legitimately works on women with low self-esteem though. She can be guilted into having sex with him because "she's a useless whore who has no value and should have sex with him because that's all she's goof for". And If she hasn't had sex with many people, it guilts the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:48 PM
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Yep. They say as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:03 PM
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Marriage can be worth it for someone who wants a life partner. However, it's only with it if ther other person is socially and emotionally intelligent. As well as fiscally responsible and a dependable person who pulls their weight. Being married to a whiny slob that lays around watching tv or playing candy crush all day isn't worth it. It isn't worth it to marry a soul sucking burden that needlessly complicates and drains your life. Being married to someone who motivates you, has your back, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:01 PM
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A vasectomy would solve all of their problems. They could have all the sex they wanted. And still have the children that they want with medical intervention. Opps and trap babies are completely removed from the equation. These men still want children, they just don't want to be responsible for them at all. They want society and the government to pay for their bastard children. They enjoy impregnating women and abandoning their children, it's a fetish to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:38 PM
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Don't drink to excess where you'll have a hangover the next day. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:34 PM
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I talk about my job and side business with strangers in the grocery store. It's standard communication in my cultures. Seems like you automatically jumped to conclusions and made up a narrative to reject yourself so that she couldn't. Interesting hearing your view about the side hug. I had a few guys complain about this on dates. I do it so that I don't get my makeup all over them. Interesting that men are marking this as an instant rejection lol. I never understood why they were so pouty about …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:32 PM
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It's not "barking" orders. Giving a time, place, date, and clear description of the activity or event takes away the labor involved with someone having to check their schedule, availability, etc. As I said, this also works on MEN as well. Expecting someone else to take to take over the labor involved with your invitation means that the person being asked is responsible for arranging your plans. And they'll do so as a measure of their own priority and other obligations that they're responsible. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:31 PM
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This is general social intelligence. Giving someone a time, a place, and removing the labor involved with mentally noting their schedule to fit you in removes the burden. It would be equally successful if you still said "I'm playing tennins at liberty park tomorrow at 10am. You should come with me, we'll get brunch afterwards". Giving people the information of a specific, time, place, and plan, while also being aware that it's something that they're interested in doing is more successful than va…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:33 PM
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Some of them have leakage issues after the surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:03 PM
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You showed him!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:02 PM
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I don't speak sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:41 PM
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They don't like having sex with women. They like masturbating with vaginas. There's a difference. These men say as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:37 PM
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They don't like having sex "with" women. They like masturbating with vaginas. I don't consider people who don't like anything about the opposite sex to be heterosexual. It's not a matter of being "mean". If someone doesn't like anything about the opposite sex, I don't consider them to be attracted to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:12 PM
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Because it's cheaper to guilt a woman with low self esteem and poor boundaries than it is to hire a prostitute. Even methheads charge more than $20. Many women can be easily pressured into sex when they're alone with a man. A prostitute can't be pressured into sex for $20, they usually have "security" or a boxcutter and nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:01 PM
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I piss on men to mark them as my territory. It protects them from misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah they don't like anything about women. They just like having sex with vagina's. They're upset and disgusted that vaginas are attached to women and that women don't just hand over their vaginas anytime a man demands it. I wouldn't call that heterosexuality at all. But denial and cognitive dissonance are one hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:54 PM
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People grow complacent in relationships and take their partners for granted. Once they feel like their partner isn't leaving or can't leave easily, they start seeing their partner as a human being that needs affection, patience, consideration, space, etc. Being forced to deal with someone who seemingly deliberately or in deliberately tiggers their pet peeves or annoyances on a daily basis is torture. It's like death by 1000 little cuts. Everyday its a minor injury to ones pychological state and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:34 PM
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Ugly males don't see women outside of utility either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:29 PM
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I'm indefferent. I have no opinion of his morality, character, or values because he doesn't want to date a sex worker. I don't have an opinion on a man who doesn't want to date a sex worker. Nothing negative or positive comes to mind when I hear that a man doesn't want to date a woman that has done sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:10 PM
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My opinion is that If he doesn't want to date a woman that had participated in sex work then he doesn't have to nor should he.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:24 PM
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My general opinion is that people can reject whomever they want for whatever reason they want. I don't believe that men or women are owed romantic relationships or sex. I also don't think that it matters if men or women are hypocritical in what they want in a romantic or sexual partner. At the end of the day, people either find someone willing to be with them, or they don't. I don't believe in forcing people to be in romantic or sexual relationships with someone that they don't want. If a man do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:11 PM
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No. Even if the whole ordeal was legitimate, meaning that the woman wasn't trafficked and it was a profession of choice and not necessity, I still wouldn't be interested. The use of sex workers means purchasing a person to fullfill ones own sexual interests. That type of person wouldn't be interested in my sexual pleasure and would more than likely see me and any aspect of our relationship as explicitly transactional. I'd also doubt that a man who purchases sex to have a humanistic view of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:07 PM
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I'm never in those subs. However, I assume like it like any other sub where redditors ask for relationship advice. Typically in threads like that the OP will specifically say "please don't tell me to break up, or leave, or move out, etc". They'll make a list of things that they aren't going to do and immediately defend their partner. Most of the time there is no "advice" to give other than to go to couples therapy and advise to not end up in that situation again. Most of the time, people who see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:14 PM
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Sounds like you just prefer to ignore what men are actually saying and choosing to ignore men's collective experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:34 PM
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If teenagers find you attractive, then you look like a teenager. Most men and women under 25 look and sounds like babies to me. Even if I do happen to find a younger man attractive, I know that he's not "fully cooked" yet. I'm friends with younger people. While I like and respect them, they can be extremely annoying and there's an extreme disconnect regarding life experiences and general commonsense that only develops with age. So if I see a young man, even if he's physically attractive, I'm put…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:25 PM
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Men not worrying about paternity until they get someone pregnant is their own shortcoming. There is no way to tell someone that they've been in a monogamous relationship with that they suspect that they've been cheated and are trying to pass off another mans child as their own. There is no way to bypass what the actual accusation is during a woman's most vulnerable time of her life. It's an outright declaration of distrust in the relationship, criticism of her character, and questioning of her c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:50 PM
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Men detail that they've been baby trapped all of the time. Preventing the unwanted kids from existing in the first place literally solves the majority of the problem. The men are being forced to have children against their will. That is why they're not in the childs life, they never wanted to be a parent at that time in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:44 PM
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I don't disagree. This has just happened publicly with some rapper and one of his baby mama's swearing up and down that they were in a relationship, while he denies it. IDK who they are, but it went viral for a while a few months ago. I think a significant amount of women have a habit of believing that they're in a relationship, if they feel like they're in a relationship. When you ask these women if they ever had a conversation about exclusivity and whether or not they both agreed to be in a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:41 PM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:36 PM
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Fatherlessness is men not raising their children. Giving men reproductive control over who they allow to have their sperm will prevent men from being trapped with babies that they don't want. Most of these children are unwanted. The men had sex and a child was a consequence of that sex. Vasectomies for men would mean that they could have as much pregnancy risk free sex as they wanted. And when they were ready to start a family and settle down, they can. vasectomies for men and primary custody fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:09 PM
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It shouldn't be hard to believe. By the amount of women on social media complaining and crying about thinking that they're in a relationship when they're not (or whining about a man not publicly declaring that they're in a relationship), it's rather common. As well as men being on social media claiming that they're single and that their "situationship" isn't a relationship, it's rather common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:51 PM
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Men in this sub and it's also a common sentiment in the manosphere. It's also why men complain about the "friendzone" they do not like, value, or want friendships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:36 PM
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If men were having these discussions prior to having sex with women and prior to impregnating women, they wouldn't be all over the internet crying that the mother of their children left them after they were blindsided with a request for paternity. These women also detail that these men never mention "Fear of paternity" until they're already pregnant or until they've already given birth. If men were having these conversations before hand, women wouldn't assume that it's an accusation of cheating …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:25 PM
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Risk of unwanted pregnancy is a factor, and you don't see it as a significant deterrent for sex, because it wouldn't be a "you" problem to deal with. Men lie, men remove condoms, birth control fails. The risk of an unwanted pregnancy isn't worth it in addition to women not wanting to have sex with every man that wants to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:22 PM
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Men in this sub say that friendships with women is pointless and that they don't like or value the company of women if sex isn't involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:02 PM
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It's makeup and the general effort that women put into their physical appearance. Women care about how they style their hair, women care about their skin, women care about the clothes that they wear. Women consider the details of their physical appearance. Men do not. Men don't groom or style themselves to be more attractive. They don't care about their skin, they don't care about rouge hairs or illfitted clothing. Men don't care about how they look. Women care about how they look. There are mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:58 PM
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Could also be that women think that they're in relationships when they're not. I've noticed that younger people don't actually have discussions regarding their relationship status. They just date/fuck around and assume that they're exclusive because they're too afraid to ask to get rejected directly. No data supports that women are dating men 10+ years older than them en mass. There's more than likely a disconnect between men thinking that they're single and women thinking that they're in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:55 PM
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Why don't men have these discussions with women before they enter into a relationship and before they impennate someone? If paternity tests aren't an accusation of cheating, why not discuss these beliefs to inform the woman that those are you beliefs before a pregnancy occurs? Asking for a paternity test in a monogamous relationship is making an accusation that the woman has been unfaithful. If a man assumed the woman that he was with was faithful, then a paternity test wouldn't be necessary, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:47 PM
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You don't seem to realize that no one needs an "excuse" to not have sex with people that they don't want to have sex with. Women don't have to have sex with men simply because a man wants to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:43 PM
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Men want to have sex with everything and everyone. Women don't have to have sex with all men that are sexually attracted to her. Men wanting sex from every woman that they meet, doesn't mean that women have to make themselves sexually available to those men. Besides, why would you want women raising their N counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:30 PM
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None of his fans believe that. His fans think that he did nothing wrong and that he's being set up for "telling the truth".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:23 PM
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This thread is about men abandoning their children. The major problem is that men are having children that they don't want in the first place. A vasectomy will prevent the unwanted children from existkng at all.. Also primary custody can be given to men. Since men are better parents and children have less behavioral problems and are less likelyto be in poverty with fathers in the home, men should be the primary care giver.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:27 PM
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I'm not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:23 PM
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Did you not read the article? The woman says his fans are harrasing her. Yes I believe that this guys fans are sending death and rape threats to her. That's what men on the internet do constantly. And they often do follow through with those threats of rape and murder. The article Is more so criticizing the behavior of his fan base and questioning the responsibility he bears for the behavior of his fans. There was no direct criticism to Joey Swoll. I know lynch mobs are the go to response from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:50 AM
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I never heard of him before or the hysteria. I just skimmed the article. If his fans are sending old ladies death threats, I think thats a legitimate reason to call attention to him. Unhinged men on the internet are always threatening to rape and murder people. They can never be normal. The irony of his fans being legitimate creeps and predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:35 AM
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What is Swoll?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:14 AM
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The culling of female children and the significant gender imbalance is the primary reason for lonliness for men in China. There aren't enough women to go around because female children were aborted or killed in favor of male children. It doesn't make sense that men in China can be or could be emasculated if men significantly outnumber women in China and have more political and social influence than women in China. Unless men in China are emasculating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:55 AM
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Men will have reproductive control by determining exactly who the inpregnante and when they want to impregnate them. Men won't have to fear getting baby trapped. Men won't have to be foreced into paying child support. Men won't be forced to have unwanted children. Men will finally have reproductive rights to control when women get access to their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:41 AM
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It's medical intervention to give men absolute reproductive control so that they aren't forced to have children that they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:27 AM
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Medical interventions for the benefit of peers isn't inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:21 AM
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It's not inhumane. It seems like you're confusing castration with vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:17 AM
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Removing a womb is comparable to castration. I never suggested castration. But one would have to know basic sex anatomy to be aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:16 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:33 PM
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I'm talking about a hypothetical scenario to give young men control of their reproductive system. As I said. Their capability to have children isn't being removed. The ease of mindlessly having children is removed. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:58 PM
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That's a stretch. Their capability to reproduce still exists. They'd simply have to go through the effort of doing it. The choice for them to reproduce wouldn't be taken away from them, it would simply involve more intentional effort to do so. There's a significant difference between the ease of reproduction, vs the capability of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:24 PM
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That doesn't prevent fatherlessness though. The issue is men leaving the children that they create. I'd assume it would be more practical to make the process of having children more intentional for men, in order to prevent men who abandon their children from procreating in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:18 PM
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Men obsessed with their body fat percentage and the precision of their physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:12 PM
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I don't like men constantly bitching about what I eat and obsessing over whether I'm going to gain weight because I went to the bar with my friends, despite me being a lower body fat percentage than him and working out more than he does. I don't like men having a constant attitude because they're hangry because they're constantly cutting to have a lower body fat percentage. I don't like men needing constant reassurance that they look "big" and that I'm attracted to them. I don't like catching me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:10 PM
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I'm a gym bunny and avoid extremely fit/jacked guys. Most of them have eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and neurotic insecurities. On top of having no personality. How "hot" a guy is stops being relevant rather quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:45 PM
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Have all men get vasectomies after puberty. Sperm can still be extracted from their ballsacks for IVF. That way men can only become fathers if they actually want to be. However, that doesn't solve the problem from men abandoning their children afterwards. Ultimately if a man is disinterested in raising his children or being involved in their child's life, no one can "force" him to be an active participant in his child's life. A significant amount of men don't want to be involved with their child…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:38 PM
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I am correct. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:18 PM
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Being attractive is the sole requirement for a one night stand. For ongoing sexual or romantic encounters, more is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:04 PM
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More so having the social skills to observe and create a dialogue with the direct person of interest. For example, if Person A is sexually/romantically attracted to Person B the most valuable course of action would be to observe and understand what Person B wants sexually and romantically. In other words go directly to the source. The dating advice of other people is irrelevant. The only perspective that should matter is the perspective from the person of interest. It doesn't make sense to be to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:51 PM
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Nothing I said was complicated, let alone over complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:38 PM
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When it comes to dating people should pay attention to the specific people that they want. Most people lack the ability to understand their target audience and how to attract or connect with the people that they want the most. What other people "do" is irrelevant, especially if what they "do" has zero bearing on the person of sexual/romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:18 PM
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This is false. Human attraction is a multitude of factors including social influence, cultural norms/expectations, practicality, and behavioral conditioning from familial attachmentments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:37 PM
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As I said. You're shooting for other stereotypes because you lack the ability to do otherwise. For example. It's easier to spread the Christians gospel to other Christians. It's more difficult to spread Christians gospel to people of different faiths, atheists, and agnostics. It's easier to coax a meth addict into doing what you want with the promise of drugs, than it is to make genuine friendships when people excitedly assist when they're asked for help. You think you're describing something pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:34 PM
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People being hypocritical in their beliefs isn't a matter of "biology". Christians believe that they're the epitome of love and acceptance. Muslims believe that Islam is the religion peace. What people believe ideologically is irrelevant to what they actually do and irrelevant the actual values that they hold. Women believing in feminist principles doesn't mean that they aren't sexist and don't simultaneously hold anti-feminist views.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:08 PM
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Women who are feminists can and do still hold sexist beliefs that can and do conflict with their beliefs. Identifying as a feminist doesn't mean being impervious to sexist beliefs or ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:58 PM
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General statements work for who it applies to, I said as much. Unless you don't know what a stereotype is. What I said was pretty straight forward. People who fit into generalizations, will be attracted to said generalizations. As I said, this should be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:53 PM
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Poor people mimic high society, which is why most cultures required a dowery and the approval of the father in exchange of a daughter. Something was paid to a family to take or receive a woman because women were property. People being poor didn't mean that they failed to participate in the culture of owning and changing women as property. It's a historical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:27 PM
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Western countries are making investments in Africa because they already own the land and resources in Africa. The population of Africa is irrelevant when who owns and has influence over Africa are non-African countries. The only reason Africa is developing now is because non-African investment and non-African political influence. Until Africa develops to have control over its own resources or any influential political power, no one will give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:24 PM
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Clearly it needs to be said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:10 PM
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lol. I guess you also believe that Christians can't be bigoted because judgement towards others goes against the way Jesus conducted himself. Someone having a general belief in principle doesn't mean that they're impervious to acting in opposition to those beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:09 PM
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The benefits of being genuine, honest, and ethical depends on the person. Someone who lacks social intelligence, is naïve, and someone who has narcissistic and/or is on the antisocial spectrum wouldn't find much value in those traits. As I've said repeatedly, depends on the person. Which is more than likely a difficult concept for someone to understand if they're incapable of recognizing anything outside of a linear view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:05 PM
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You shouldn't bother with this conversation. Complaining about a lack of masculinity in men is general human cultural behavior that happens every decade. If people have been complaining about a lack of masculinity since the dawn of time, logic would dictate that your modern complaints about the lack of masculinity are no different than the standard narrative of the failure to live up to the current model of masculinity. Your inability to intellectually recognize the historical significance regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:57 PM
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You think that a feminist can't be sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:54 PM
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More countries are on the population decline than there are countries that are growing in population. It is relevant to discuss WHICH countries are trending upwards in population. Most people don't give a shit about Africa or other developing countries. These discussions are focused on the west and developed nations for a reason. Including countries that aren't relevant to the general discussion, is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:53 PM
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This is a lot of liberties and of assumptions of things that I never said, claimed, or mentioned to any degree. As such, I don't know what the point of this comment is, or what you're attempting to get at.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:49 PM
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😂Harry fucking Styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:40 PM
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Stereotypical people are attracted to people who share and engage in their expected stereotypical behaviors. Someone who holds sexist ideology, is going to be attracted to others that share the same sexist ideology. A woman identifying as a feminist, doesn't mean that she's not sexist or impartial to sexism. Again, Commonsense would be to know your audience. Different types of women are attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:36 PM
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You're just repeating historical gender hysteria that happens and has been happened every decade in human existence. Since you're uneducated in the matter, here is a short blurb regarding the phenomena https://www.upworthy.com/researcher-shares-men-are-too-feminine-and-women-too-masculine-claims-dating-back-to-the-1800s Men were complaining about effeminate men and the "sexes changing places" before that. https://www.bl.uk/collection-items/the-book-of-the-courtier-1588#:~:text=Il%20Libro%20del%2…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:34 PM
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I'm not referencing what "feels good" to people. I'm referencing defined collectively accepted or historically known beliefs regarding gender. It's not an "opinion".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:27 PM
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Society has been complaining about men being too "feminine" since the 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:25 PM
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Yes, anti-feminist women would be attracted to anti-feminist men. As I said, commonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:18 PM
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The birth decline is due to a multitude of reasons, including cost of living. Women globally are saying they're largely uninterested in the primary obligation of childcare, in addition to working, and in addition to eldercare. The disproportionate burden of responsibilities is what women claim as a high contributing factor. African Countries and some latin countries are the only places where there is a population increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:14 PM
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Picking and choosing what you consider "masculine" is irrelevant. Those males are narrating what they to be stereotypical definitions of masculine and other men are loudly in agreement with their interpretation of maleness and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:07 PM
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Throughout history women have been bought and sold to men. Men have prevented other men from mating with women, since women were considered property through most of human history. Males having multiple wives and concubines because women were sold as property is part of that narrative. If men are doubling down on gendered stereotypes, logic would dictate that women would be more sexually attracted to men who believe and exhibit these ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:05 PM
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I'm not all over the place, you just aren't following the conversation. If you don't understand what's being said, I don't see the point in continuing this conversation. This isn't a Red Pill discussion. Its a perception of gender roles, gender norms, gender expectations, and cultural beliefs around gender. If you don't believe that a cultural narrative of male superiority over women doesn't exist in America, then there's no point in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:02 PM
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You became a stereotypes to attract other stereotypes. Which is what I originally said. You couldn't connect or attract people without boxing yourself into a mold/role that would alert other people who fit the same box/mold. You couldn't connect or relate to others who weren't also stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:54 PM
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The tread topic is men using gender stereotypes to successfully attract all women. American gender stereotypes is that males are inherently superior to women. The assumption along with that is that nothing considered masculine or dominantly male behavior could be or should be sexually/romantically repulsive to women. OP provided a numbered list of what he was referring to. Being male dominate behavior over women to make them feel small. Aggressive behavior. Sexual pursuit. Educational/profession…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:52 PM
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Some men like MGTOW or incels socially regress for sure. While others strive for general patriarchal standards of success. The discourse in these manosphere spaces is that men are inherently superior to women, irrespective of what women have accomplished individually or what the woman's social standing is. ​ Like men being breadwinners, physically and mentally strong? We just disagree here. As more men drop out of society (or socially regress), the men who are attractive and have their shit toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:39 PM
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Then the explosion of males complaining about being single and sexless shouldn't exist. If stereotypical maleness is the sexual standard of women, there wouldn't be a current global trend of women choosing to be single and childless. The hysteria around women opting out of relationships with men and motherhood shouldn't be a topic of discussion at all. All of these podcasts and think pieces regarding women's "high standards" and women wanting "pacified" men wouldn't exist. It doesn't make sense …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:33 PM
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Men are attempting to socially regress in an attempt to hold their social standing of dominance over women. If this was generally sexually appealing to the majority of the population, the rate of singledom and childlessness wouldn't be on the rise globally. The trend of men doubling down on gendered stereotypes doesn't seem to be popular among the majority of women. And men who spout the gendered stereotype beliefs don't seem to be sexually or romantically attracted to the women who also believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:29 PM
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Displaying gender stereotypes is attractive to people who believe in gender stereotypes. Commonsense would be to know your audience. Different types of women are attracted to different things. Walking stereotypes will date and attract other walking stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:10 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:49 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:50 PM
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No, it's been my experience. I'm a gym bunny and just addicted to exercise in general. Most of the men that I meet that are as fit as me or more fit than me have problems. Eating disorders and body dysmorphia are the main problems. Also deep and neurotic insecurities. They're extremely draining to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:50 AM
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Men don't emphasize this because it's a given. The idea of them actually doing something like that and getting punished for it themselves never crosses their mind because they wouldn't ever do it. I don't agree. Men don't emphasize workplace sexual harassment because they don't believe that it happens and they genuinely do believe that women are hysterical and lying about it. Men verbally detail themselves that they seriously think a woman will falsely accuse them of sexual harassment for doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:49 PM
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those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:34 PM
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I do think a large portion of criticism of men, by women, is directed at men at large. Most men do. Which is why any conversation regarding specific male behavior is immediately derailed by "not all men". Even if the woman starts out the conversation by saying some or detailing a specific demographic of men. It's a rather rare occasion when men are able to actually have a discussion regarding the specific behaviors and the specific men being discusses. More than likely because when men discuss w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:34 PM
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Your bemusement is more than likely selective attention. I've already detailed how men immediately conflated criticisms of toxic masculinity with all men and maleness in general when women made public complaints about the behavior outside of targeting the behavior to specific demographics of men. The reductiveness of the point of the conversation is a tactic to eliminate the conversation entirely. The workplace isn't a different issue. One of the key complaints of toxic masculinity was the compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:45 PM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:05 PM
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I see where you're coming from. But I don't think this is entirely true. I read the think pieces and listened to the discourse regarding toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity was clearly identified behavior being sexual harassment, unnecessarily violence, and unprovoked aggression, and the criticism towards other men for not "correcting" the behavior of males that exhibit this behavior. Which is a generally shared sentiment and criticism when speaking about certain demographics of men. However, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:20 PM
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I find it hilarious that the modern definition of masculinity has become raping women, beating women, having money, and being mindlessly hostile. What these people are claiming as masculine is just prison behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:33 PM
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Yes, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:40 PM
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I dated one chad. But he didn't think he was attractive. He had ugly duckling syndrome, despite never being ugly. He had body dysmorphia and a ton of other issues. He looked like a Nordic god, but had the self esteem of a garbage pale kid. Which is why I typically avoid extremely fit men obsessed with the gym. Most of them are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:13 PM
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Dating as a woman is like having a bunch of shit covered used dildos constantly being thrown at you as you walk down the street. And when you do actually enter a shop to specifically buy a new dildo with all of the features that you want, it's still just shit covered used dildos. You have to go into the storage room, shift through thousands of packaged dildos to find one that hasn't been used and isn't covered in shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:09 PM
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Males were banging on duty as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:41 PM
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While I can find the young people annoying at times. I don't think they're "horrible". Most of my younger female friends aren't on dating apps and they don't socialize with anyone outside of who they already know. I'm onky friends with them because ai imposed myself on them on the rare occasion that they went outside. Idk how to describe them because they're more social than a a hermit, but they rarely leave their house. They get everything delivered, even their groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:50 PM
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I wrote more than a paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:31 PM
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Do you know women, or are you friends with women? I have friends of various age demographics that wear makeup and get dressed up just to sit at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:07 PM
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The younger women are sexually available, willing, and interested. They can get sex from their peers. They don't need to be interested in the older woman who isn't sexually attracted or interested in them. There is no "sex" with me. They can get that from their peers. I hang out with younger and older people. I meet younger people doing acro and outdoor activites. Also at the non-alcoholic lounges/bars. I have a diverse social circle because I go to random places and events regularly and talk to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:51 PM
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Some certainly do. Not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:43 PM
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Your perspective makes sense if you believe that no one has an identity or perception of self outside of being perceived. If your entire existence depends on how people view you, then yes. Some people are that way. Others aren't. Different strokes for different folks. Men wouldn't be complaining en mass about women not accepting their advances if women solely got dolled up for the sexual attraction of men. This would also simultaneously mean that women don't get dolled up in an effort to reject …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:38 PM
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I hang out with younger people. The young men are interested in me, despite being aware of the younger women who they know are interested in them casually and romantically. There is no actual "reason" for them to be interested in me at all. But they are and have been very bold in their attempts to date or have sex with me. Age gaps gross me out and I'm just not interested. Yes. Some teenagers want to seriously date. Some just want to fuck. Yes, males will lie, steal, kill, and rape for sex. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:29 PM
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Where did I say that they were?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:19 PM
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I think most women like to look nice for themselves. Being attractive to a man is only a "bonus" if you're also attracted to him specifically. It's like the difference between people who go grocery shopping in their pajamas and people who go grocery shopping in nice casual wear. Some people just enjoy looking their best when they go out. For the women who do specifically get dolled up for male attention, some men have expectations and do want a woman to look a specific way. Not all men. All men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:17 PM
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Men, young or old will want to fuck anything. I'm in my 30's and the barely legals are obsessed with me for some reason. I find it disturbing. Early 20's seem to like me the most and I don't understand why because the feeling isn't mutual. I've found that all ages of men from 19-56 are interested in seriously dating me. As with anything, it depends on the woman. Whether or not she's considered "attractive", what the general population is like where she lives and how outgoing she is. Also depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:57 PM
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This isn't true. Early colonials were only nuclear family homes because of death of the grandparents. In the Victorian Era it was normal for 3 generations to live in one home. The decline of multigenerational homes didn't happen until after the economic boom of the great depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:31 PM
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They certainly do tend to attract abusers and shitty men, but it's pretty irrelevant because there's "nothing" the guy can do to make her leave or hate him. There may be theatrics with his cheating or violence, but she will never leave the relationship. For abusive men, it's extremally off putting, they don't get the reaction that they want. They don't get the "thrill" of a woman chasing him or "push/pulling" . There isn't any chaos to "drama" for the abuser to thrive off of because the woman ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:01 PM
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Jeebus 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah, it was an older bar 40s+. I think there is a level of blatant desperation that is just a general turn off, even to other desperate people. Most people aren't "flattered" when someone is willing to take "anyone" they want to feel significant or like they were chosen for a specific reason. Also in my personal opinion, someone blubbering how they'll mindlessly worship and serve someone doesn't exactly come across as stable. These women range between crying and then "raging" out between their …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:45 PM
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Could be fake. But I doubt it. I know women like this in real life. My sister is one of them. The internet calls them "pick me's" because they desperately try to get picked by men, but men largely ignore them. I was out last weekend and there was an older woman who looked to be in her 40s whining to her friends at the bar and asking the men around their opinions on whether or not she was a "catch" and listed all of the stereotypical things that manosphere men claim to want. None of the men actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:29 PM
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No. I didn't. As I said, you're confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:20 PM
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On twitter and Tik tok. They're like their "nice guy" counterparts. Complaining that men only want "sluts" and that they don't wear make up, are virgins, don't go out, will cook, clean, work, or do whatever a man wants and how they just want to be loved. Lots of embarrassing Tik Tok videos of these women cooking dinner with and empty spot for another person and crying in their beds alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:19 PM
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Americans consider better working conditions and more social benefits to be communism. There are social and cultural principles and beliefs at play. Also American's aren't willing to go to the extent to earn those benefits. The 40 hour work week was fought with violence once, most Americans aren't willing to do that again nor do they believe in it enough to demand it with retaliation of actual consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:44 PM
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You think a liberal who wants to get married is disguised as a "conservative". You stating your beliefs publicly isn't' gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:36 PM
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They want their males to be active participants. Being "home" isn't the same as being an active participant in the household. Women don't want their males to be "home" playing videogames all day while she's cleaning the house, scheduling appointments, and taking care of the kids by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:35 PM
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Nope. These males are explaining what they find sexually desirable and alluring in males. They don't care or believing in women's love/attraction towards males. Their narrative is about what they want from other males sexually, romantically, and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:26 PM
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red herring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:22 PM
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I know what a conservative is. You seem to be highly confused though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:19 PM
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Connection isn't the explicit cause. Male social dominance and social narrative of superiority in the social hierarchy is the substantial reason. As I said, the US has been a mixed economy for a long time and government benefits for women and children (and men struggling to support their families) has existed since the 1920's. It wasn't solely a fact of capitalism. It was also a social cultural push to reduce the expectations and demands of women who didn't want to give up the economic and socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:08 PM
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All of this data says otherwise. Especially during and after the pandemic. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/fact-sheet-the-state-of-women-in-the-labor-market-in-2023/ https://fortune.com/2021/06/25/women-men-unpaid-child-care-pandemic-gender-equality-workforce/ https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2021/11/housework-children-fertility-rates-become-parents-gender-gap/ https://usafacts.org/articles/how-do-men-and-women-use-time-differently/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:49 PM
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Males devalue what women contribute in finances, childcare, domestic labor, and other relationship tasks that males do no do in relationship. Inherent male superiority where they don't find their woman's time or contributions to the relationship valuable or respectable is why women are taking less interest in heterosexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:39 PM
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Communities and families used to support parents and children. The lack of community and familial help wasn't caused by capitalism. It was caused by the cultural push of the Nuclear family to redefine masculinity to what men provide for their families. Since American masculinity used to revolve around the time and values men instilled in their families was no longer applicable once men began working in cities away from their families for higher wagers after WW2. Cultural restructuring to protect…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:37 PM
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