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14

Therapy... so much therapy needed lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:55 PM
10

Tiddy twisting!? Really?? I hadn’t heard of this one happening, but doing some bully shit during sex is so sad. Wtf is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:48 PM
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Thanks so much for taking your time to post this video and breakdown explaining the concept! I had no idea and I’m training a puppy currently, this was awesome of you! Buying a real leash tomorrow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:15 AM
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Totally agreed! Even just the title is huge, and I feel like that can make it easy to even gaslight ourselves. Like if there’s an iffy situation or uneasy feeling but isn’t obvious. I would obviously be more sure if this wasn’t right, wouldn’t I? It creates such a bad mindset that can have us doubting our intuition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:15 AM
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Pretty please make sure to block and delete 💕 a mindset shift is important but it’s so easy to fall back into comfort after so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:02 PM
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So many posts here just make me wanna ask the guy “are you not embarrassed?” Like they don’t feel any fulfillment because they don’t even go for what they want, they don’t try to be better, there’s no genuine satisfaction to that life. Immediate gratification just keeps the mind in a sense of lack. And... like... all by choice... they actively choose to be the worst version of themselves? Bro that’s embarrassing as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:07 AM
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Also, practice detachment. Never emotionally invest in a man, they’re a side course to life to be enjoyed as such if they better your life. It’s far too easy to give them power over our well being and that’s no good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:54 PM
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That sounds so so lovely!! I’d LOVE to see this when you accomplish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:42 PM
2

What!! How cool! Do they keep their scents when you dry them? I now picture your room as a fairy paradise! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:12 PM
2

Yes on tulips too!! My top is probably lilies but tulips right behind, they’re so vibrant and ughh! I hope you post each time you get flowers, this aesthetic and knowing you’re treating yourself made me so happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:32 PM
9

Ahhhh the yellow roses with the complementary lavender is making my heart soar. Great choice!! So pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:52 AM
3

Fuck that guy, and sorry for your loss ❤️ I hope you’re well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:16 AM
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Oh duh silly, it’s because we only exist in some sort of men pleasure scale. If we’re not in a relationship we’re fucking randos. We don’t exist outside of men, dontcha know??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:41 PM
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But like the gas station papery tissue paper. Useless 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:25 PM
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Thank you! 😭 this is one of two safe places on Reddit and I couldn’t handle losing it, I love you all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:53 AM
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I’m not OP but your light and soul are so beautiful. Your words are kind and warm, thank you. Sending love to you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:28 AM
2

Aw!! I love this! Thank you for this. That is what I feel is the ultimate answer and key to FDS as a romantic. It’s beautiful. All we can hope for is to love in the moment and enjoy the now, working to continue growing. And enjoying that process as well!! But the most liberating piece of being at this point in time is no longer needing or forcing anything to be anchored permanently so we can’t be robbed of those beautiful things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:04 AM
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Thank you so much 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:02 AM
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Yes!! Following FDS with BPD genuinely feels like a war in my head at a times. At times I’m the best I’ve ever been, but the lows are horrifying to work with. I keep regressing in some ways as I level up just because more shit is uncovered that I have to work through. It’s so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:23 PM
6

That’s a beautiful response. Thanks buddy. Love you. Thanks for hearing me out and sending some light my way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:01 AM
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Ok I’m sad and I’m gonna go on a small rant, bear with me please. This is disgusting. I’m losing faith in goodness, genuinely. It breaks my heart that so many men are so twisted, but not just one way. It’s so snarled and tangled and they’ve convinced themselves that they’re a victim who deserves understanding and patience while they pretend they’re going to work through shit but don’t put in the effort. So they stay in this endless cycle of victimhood and depravity, but not just that! They learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:18 PM
7

Oh fuck. I never thought of it that way, that’s enlightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:18 AM
21

HAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:42 PM
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Yup just found his tiktok and the most recent was “My boy... if she can’t cook and you cheat with a girl who can, it low key ain’t cheating, it’s survival” TO THE TRASH WITH HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:13 PM
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Yes!! Exactly! I love the quote from F Scott Fitzgerald, “For what it’s worth... it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit. Start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you’ve never felt before. I hope you meet people who have a different point of view. I hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:12 PM
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Happy New Years!! Love to all of you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:59 AM
6

The only lengths these ones avoid are actually becoming introspective and growing as a person 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:16 PM
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Yes!! Intuition is real and has deep meaning. You don’t have to understand it yet, that’s perfectly fine. I was dating a HVM and couldn’t figure out why I wanted to break up with him, he seemed great but it just didn’t feel right. I brought it up a few times to break up and he didn’t agree with it so I held off. But still felt something wasn’t right. Finally, I just ended it and asked that he stop talking to me. He respected my wishes. I spent some time alone and realized I was only HV on the ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:27 PM
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It is @yoleendadong on TikTok, highly recommend! She’s one of very few people I follow, it’s pretty wholesome giggles she gives :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:53 PM
15

The universe knew you needed it in your life! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:59 PM
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Her videos are so great I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:38 AM
7

Lmaoooo amazing. I’d kill for a full skit of David Attenborough to observing the scrote species
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:09 PM
5

The first step is acknowledging so you can level up! We are always improving too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:18 AM
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I love you all so much lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:40 PM
5

Gahhh the concept of this post is lovely!! Yes! For me, I had to become single to start cherishing the things that make me happy again. I wake up super early so I can have peaceful, slow mornings. I work out, I make coffee, then read. Extra time goes to painting before I get ready for work. I’m constantly learning, from reading, I’m in school, and I’m getting better and better at my job. Those keep me in flow and so so happy. I hated spending money on pampering me, but now I make it a point to g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:54 PM
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ex demon 😂😂 so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:07 PM
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It’s a trauma bond, he emotionally abused you and it creates a strong attachment. It kind of creates a need for validation from that person and allows them to get their way. Now is a bigger time than ever to show kindness and love to yourself, showing the universe what you’re willing to accept. This is that station where level ups happen, and you’re sweating at the lever. We all believe in you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:12 PM
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I love her so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:05 PM
6

I feel this so much! Once COVID settles down, I plan on coercing myself with treats to start doing some of these social activities though, hopefully it’ll help me grow in that aspect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:24 AM
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Lmaooooo I’m so proud of her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:43 AM
2

I’m so sorry you’re hurting and feel like you’re losing this relationship! To start, you already sound like a lovely friend because you’re putting in so much effort to keep things going. I’ve been in kind of the same situation before on the other side, so I think I can give what I wish would have happened! For some of us romantics pre-FDS, when we get enamored with a dude it’s hard to see anything else. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you or has lost interest in the friendship. She’s learning t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:06 PM
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Maybe not alone, but apart. Remember that your kids frame of reference for love, communication, and respect will be the two of you. We’re not just raising our standards for ourselves here, but our future lineage. You deserve to be truly happy, your kid deserves to see and understand true happiness as well. Sending love and hope to you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:31 PM
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YES PLEASE 🥺 I just found this place at the perfect time for it to help me grow. I’d love to keep this kind of community available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:17 AM
2

Wow this is the perfect analysis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:28 PM
10

I mean I love it but the weird idea of it being some sort of trophy guys aim for creeps me out. I don’t even talk about it until I’m with a partner who is HV and very obviously cares about my needs so it’s not uncomfortable. I do agree this sounds like a guys writing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:59 PM
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For real, I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:10 PM
1

YOURE incredible! What a lovely idea for a post. Thank you so so much for this boost of kindness and excitement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:56 PM
2

Ahh how exciting!! What industry are you getting into now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:55 PM
2

Hell yeah! Good on you for powering through. Congratulations!! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:54 PM
1

It sounds like it was worth starting over! Cheers to a great boss and exciting opportunities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:53 PM
2

Ahhh yes!!! Hope you find the perfect school for your PhD! Look at you, bettering the future of education and the world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:52 PM
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That’s so exciting, I love that you’re showing your company what you’re worth and capable of! I hope the negotiations go smoothly and exactly how you want! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:51 PM
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