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Ah thank you for the advice, that all makes sense. Yeah I have a tendency to overshare / blurt things out (but I'm working on that) and am typically a bad liar but yeah I guess steering the conversation away is the best bet. There have been several times where people have directly asked me (not dates nescesarily) 'oh do you rent?' And I usually just say yeah, but that can be tricky if I get closer to them and they realise I don't or if they find out. I don't want to seem untrustworthy but I also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:35 AM
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Kinda like how when female celebrity nudes get leaked, men (and pickmes) will spread them desperately but when for example chris evans posted a dick pic by accident, everyone rushed to protect him and stop the pictures from being leaked as much... I mean I dont think they should have been shown either but its just another fucked up thing about society / the internet... not to mention usually the womens nudes are hacked but his was posted (albeit unintentionally)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:31 AM
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Yep, love how posts like that always jump to the men's mental health like 'oh he might be StRuGgLiNg' but wtf what about the gf who has to put up and shut up 99% of the time, is probably depressed and feels worthless? Why is mental health only an 'excuse' for men?? Probably cause when a woman's struggling mentally she's just q 'crazy woman' or 'over emotional'. But when a man's an asshole its all 'WHAT ABOUT HIS MENTAL HEALLLTHHH'. No one ever questions the woman's mental health and its disgusti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:51 PM
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I wouldn't use that word :/ unless you also call men bitches, but bitch as a word or any other woman specific slur should just not be used by women towards each other, or at all. Men love that and it gives them more power tbh and more of a superiority complex. Please try not to say female slurs, there aren't really any male equivalents. Pickmes are bad obviously but calling them bitches doesn't help. They have issues and can be taught self respect with time, they're usually victims of abuse or b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:45 PM
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She seems to forget all the 'dark humour' men throw at anything that's not a white male. 'Chill it's just a joke' 'haha domestic abuse/rape funny' 'haha sexist/homophobic/racist joke' or straight up insults defended by saying 'its dark humour, snowflake' Gonna start saying 'men are trash' is just a joke and that they need to get over themselves. Countless insults to women over the years, the fact that in at least just the english language there's over 100 words directed as derogatory to women an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:40 PM
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r/antipornography and r/banfemalehatesubs are being hugely targeted too, coomers whining and defending their precious porn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:21 AM
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I know what you mean but posts like this are just looking for advice and people calling out the women in bad situations just doesn't help. Yeah she needs to level up but she can only do it herself, strangers calling her out on the internet are only gonna make her feel worse... She's not blaming everyone else, you're saying she can't stand up for herself and is asking if her bfs behaviour is bad but at the same time saying she can't blame others for their actions? It's not blaming men when it's l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:22 AM
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Because she may genuinely be questioning herself due to his abusive/gaslighting actions... When people are brought up around abuse, or used to it, they genuinely feel this way. They don't realise how bad it is, obviously not everyone has the priveledge of being raised appropriately or having most of their life abuse free. This makes them easy targets to men, then comments going against the women in these situations appear!! From other women who need to support each other!! Some comments here rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:11 AM
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Exactly, defeats the whole point of what this sub or other subs like this are trying to achieve. We've got to support each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:05 AM
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You need to try to understand her more. It's concerning to me people hating on her in these comments. You all know better we all have to support each other, you're tearing her down. The NVM needs all that outrage from you, not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:56 AM
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Wow, why be so hateful to her? Direct that anger to the LVM boyfriend instead. She hasn't done anything wrong. No need for the harshness in that comment. She's not a fucking 'doormat' she's an abuse victim. She's most likely constantly questioning herself through no fault of her own. Stop being so hateful are you for real? As someone who's been in these kinds of situations I find you really insensitive and not understanding of abuse trauma. Why not just fucking support her and wish her well inst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:54 AM
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One of the best explanations as to why porn is so bad I've ever read. Well put and clear exact points, I can never seem to word it all well enough but you've explained it so so well, I will be showing people who are 'on the fence' about porn this comment. Truly well written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:39 PM
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Unfortunately I've had so many bad experiences in relationships that I realised something had to change within me, in that I had to stop putting up with things that actually made my life a misery, that I'd accepted as 'being part of being a woman' or 'looking after my man'. Nah not anymore. I hate how society normalises that a woman has to 'mommy' their bf or literally be their therapist/life coach, but if a woman has issues the man can't be bothered with 'emotional women stuff' or calls her cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:13 PM
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Don't be sorry! I hope the post helped you! And thank you I really didn't want to call him out cause I was like that literally my whole life. As in not wanting to upset men or wanting to stay polite and a non confrontational person... But now in my early twenties I'm starting to wake up to the fact that we do not have to take bullshit. I just WISH I'd realised all this sooner. But we can learn new things all the time. I'm SO glad I did call him out cause ik I've said it loads but its SO satisfyi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:59 AM
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It's sometimes so hard to see it happening, they do this on purpose or blow it off as a joke. I'm sorry you felt like shit... A new guy in your life should never ever make you feel bad, they literally should be trying hard for everything to be lovely if they really care or want to be with you. You took the time to send him that pic, he was weird about it. Idk maybe when you mention it imply you wouldn't send anymore to someone like him and I bet he'd backtrack and start to compliment you... I gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:48 AM
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Hmm I think even anything which makes you consider it might be negging probably is negging. As in if you feel doubtful about it, it hasn't made you feel good as a comment, and a real HVM would compliment something like that, not just make a comment on your wine and a weird line about kids toys... Hmm Considering he just sent that, no other reply, I would personally see it as negging, guys deliberately do it subtly, and it gets more and more obvious as time goes on. Remember there are literally s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:22 AM
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It's just so funny to me when they panic when you call them out. Like they aren't used to women standing up for themselves. They realise they're being an absolute POS and can't stand by it, they know its wrong but just are able to get away with it. Hopefully they start to learn that it's not ok or cool to do. Lmao imagine if on first dates and the like, us women negged men, they'd be so pissed off or offended, but nah cause we're woman we gotta be ok with getting pretty much picked on cause 'the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:14 AM
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Thank you, yeah it's shocking and even worse when you realise that most men do it when getting to know a woman... Anyone who negs has such a low opinion of the person they're negging... I didn't even know it was a thing or there was a name for it before I joined this sub, I just thought it was normal... For example one of my exs openly drooled over this waitress in his area but would go 'she's too pretty for me' and I remember being like wtf what am I then? Lol he ended up cheating tf on me afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:10 AM
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Best thing to do sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:26 PM
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'Take care' You sound violent... LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:41 PM
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Imagine being that much of a shit human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:43 AM
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I know exactly which post you mean...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:00 PM
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Probably treats female patients shockingly, I bet he's a right sleazeball if he finds them attractive, but a total dickhead if he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:11 PM
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Holy actual shit that's terrifying... fucking ew wtf. I've also seen my fair share of male doctors treating all female staff like shit tbh... Also not taking womens' problems seriously, I saw a post a while ago about a woman reporting extreme pain during her period and her (male) doctor was like whatever, didn't take it seriously and apparently after that she (unrelated to that) died, and in the autopsy they found MASSIVE scarring on her womb and stuff, like extremely bad and they were like shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:10 PM
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I'm not afraid to be honest about my opinions - or - I won't apologise if you don't agree with my (usually utterly shitty) views = complete asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:06 PM
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Also, an ex and I were in a club and I lost him, then saw him talking to two random girls at the bar, trying to make them laugh and touching one of their arms repeatedly. I was drunk and also pissed off so went over and started talking to all 3, he quickly stopped flirting and the girls kinda realised he was my boyfriend so chatted between themselves. In the same bar, later, I was dancing next to a guy like literally we were about a foot apart. I wasn't really engaging with him, just doing my ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:57 PM
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I had an ex sorta like that... I had to meet his friends and make an effort in his eyes but anything with my friends? 'Aw I just don't like them, they're horrible people' or he'd say he felt ill at anything I invited him to but the one time I was throwing up and passing out and said I couldn't see his mother with him one time, he got all pissed off and accused me of hating her (I actually loved her and we still speak so lmao).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:49 PM
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One of my exs was a 'car guy' who never stfu about how good a driver he was and constantly called my car shit (it's my deceased mothers car I inherited too). At the time I was learning to drive, and he asked me genuinely to fail my first test on purpose because 'well I failed my first one because the examiner didn't like me and it was raining (or some other shitty excuse I cant remember) so cause I'm such a good driver it wouldn't be fair if you passed first time.' When I was like 'wtf no' he KI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:46 PM
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Sounds like a grade A piece of shit. Does this actually work? Like, why do men think having boring ass miserable and demanding bios will make us women flock to them, it actually makes me laugh hahaha. He'll definitely be the same type to whine 'I have no matches' too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:25 PM
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Any way you could message her a link to this post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:19 PM
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He sounds like a bundle of laughs, bet he's fun at parties... Why do people think having whiney, miserable bios will get them anywhere hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:04 AM
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Being a pickme can easily develop into being a woman who's easily manipulated and can lead to abuse. It happened to me, I can say from my past experience, I fell in with really bad crowds, got with men who just used me when I offered them everything I had. I was a TOTAL pickme used to joke about other women and I was a major 'cool girl'. It ended up with men coaxing me into taking drugs and I lost over 2000 pounds paying for a deadbeat to live with me. He was my boyfriend and was left homeless s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:49 AM
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Same, plus I once had a date where he wouldn't stop trying to touch me, i.e. stroking my hands or rubbing his foot on my legs?? It made me super uncomfortable. Definite creepy thing to do and I sincerely hope no one takes this websites advice. It's literally a gateway to becoming a sex offender!! Point number 3 is literally the worst thing you can say to a woman looking for a serious relationship on the 1st date! Seriously ew wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:01 PM
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Exactly, it saddens me so much seeing girls fight over a boy. The guy's just gonna get off on it anyway probably. We need more acts where we have each others back. Too often the woman gets the blame if the man's cheated with her, even if she didn't know he was seeing someone else. Men can just deflect the blame and blame the girl they cheated with. Half of them do this on purpose but its sad to see girls fighting over absolutely horrible guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:57 PM
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I agree, I hate when we call each other misogynistic words. It's really harmful. When I was much younger I used to call other girls whatever but I never ever do now, there is no need and it just makes men feel more superior. I do think that the girl replying is worse though, just reinforcing the 'cool girl' thing and that we should all be man pleasers... We girls all over have to stop shaming each other. Gotta support one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:48 PM
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Thank you so much 😊 I'll send you a message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:38 PM
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Hey, I know I'm writing this a bit late but your guide is handy and well written, thanks for writing it up it for us. I was just wondering, do you have any tips on writing a bio on OLD which weeds out LVM? I struggle most with writing my own bio but I feel at times I should be outlining what I expect from a man, however I don't want to come across as pushy? Or should I not care and assume if anyone takes me as being pushy that they're NV/LV? Like is listing my deal - breakers on my bio too harsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:43 PM
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Yep exactly, it's extremely damaging stuff...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:25 AM
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He's just trying to be edgy and is clearly looking for attention or to give this sub a bad name. What an idiot lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:23 AM
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I 100% agree. Yeah it's not well known cause nobody took him seriously when he said that (lol they were all male reporters who brushed it over) some even said it was a ridiculous claim for him to make... No he realised he was first addicted to pornographic magazines showing extreme BDSM and the like, so after years he proceeds to emulate these scenes and kidnap women and murder them etc but 'nahhh porn totally had nothing to do with it...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:49 AM
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Exactly. He needs to stfu. I love when men mansplain how we should feel after rape!! Funny how they're all mind readers. Of course we're all just attention seekers sowie men omg /s Damn they don't even have the emotional capacity to understand us half the time, or they simply don't care or don't try to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:28 AM
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Even Ted Bundy blamed pornography for a lot of his actions right before he was gonna be killed. Its like towards the end he became self aware. Porn only leads to bad its just not natural or healthy and now sex isn't even real anymore, people just try to emulate their 'favourite videos'...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:25 AM
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He's a 100% real deal POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:19 AM
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Exactly lol they act as if it actually ruins their lives when in actuality even when a man is a known rapist it does so little damage to him nevermind the damage compared with the effects on whoever is raped. Men get away with rape all the time. Also false accusations are so amazingly uncommon I can't believe they go on like it happens all the time. Looking at how many women are raped or sexually harassed... Also I hate this 'attention seeking' mentality I am fuming at this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:54 PM
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They know its wrong with how much they try and hide it, its almost funny tbh. Why would they be so obsessed with deleting history and making sure no one saw if they knew it was wrong. Half of them know exactly what they're doing, not as bad as the ones who brag about it though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:07 PM
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Thank you... its true, we aren't the fucking problem - porn is, and the addicts who watch it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:03 PM
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We need to scream this from the rooftops!!! I was always made fun of my ex's for not liking it, to the point I did start to think I was the problem. No, PORN IS THE PROBLEM. That shit needs to be destroyed, all of it, imagine how much better the world would be without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:01 PM
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Everyone's beautiful tho - what point are they tryna make hahaha Go queens I'm proud of you all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:59 PM
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This 100% I'm also a gamer, so it's fun to play together but also seprately when in a relationship. However I could see if only one partner gamed how it may negatively impact the relationship. I suppose as long as gaming doesn't consume their life and it's a light hobby that's ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:02 PM
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Oh I know that's such a good point omg... I've even had former boyfriends who'd practically force me to watch it with them, talking about how sexy the girls are, but when I make a comment on the men? Oh My fEeLiNgS poor men's insecurities when 90% of the fucking time porn is a perfect female body/face with makeup and cosmetic surgery and oh no god forbid if a man gets insecure by like a tiny bit of screen time for a good looking man... poor them it must be sooooo hard... Lol not like women are l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:00 PM
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Oh my god 'while I am entitled to half of it'... Did I really just read that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:15 AM
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When most OLD lads ask for snap, they just want nudes. 100% foolproof in my experience, it has ALWAYS been the case for me. Definitely wait. I don't even use snap anymore cause of getting hounded for nudes. Now early on I establish - I don't send em. That sends a lot of them heading for the hills - and I'm glad. A good one is to tell them when they ask for it that you don't have snap, or say you don't send nudes (or even if you don't send them until 'x' amount of time or 'x' amount of dates, any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:30 PM
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I just wanna add - people who think I'm being harsh - yes it may be her kink but it does seem that she's really objectifying herself and putting herself down. This sub is a relationship sub (edit: the sub this is from), most posts are extremely wholesome bios, posts like this are rare, even from men tbh. What man will look at this and think 'oh yes I will treat this woman very well'? She also clarifies that she's 'sane' when really who should feel the need to clarify they're sane, I used to act …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:52 PM
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I also loves that she has to clarify that she's sane, cause she knows men think 'all women are crazy'... its sad, she shouldn't pander to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:19 PM
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Yep, 'lets describe myself like a product and encourage men to objectify me' jesus man she's on a one way ticket to getting countless STIs. I actually feel sorry for the girl, and lusting after 40 year olds at 20 odd?? I'm so glad I'm no longer like this. She clearly feels worthless and wants her 'sexy/kinkiness' to be her personality and she wants to seek validatation by creepy sex obsessed men. I hope she realises how bad this is soon. I did used to be like this so I remember what it was like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:02 PM
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I agree with you, most men don't date women with kids because they're pedos... that's a long stretch. I do agree don't let random men you don't know well near your kids, but that should go for anyone. Some men can be genuinely very good with kids and have a genuine care for them. People who think this is true and all men who like kids are pedos - please don't assume this about all men please that's too much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:55 PM
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What gets me is when they go 'oh my god you're like a porn star' instant turn off and really makes me re evaluate their values. Ugh most of my exs have said this to me... I do not wanna be compared to that thanks bye. Unfortunately I was a pickme a lot of these times... But now it just disgusts me. I find when they say hot and stuff like that, it can be linked to the mentality of 'hot like a model or pornstar'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:50 AM
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He's abusive, and none of this is your fault. Dom't make excuses for him or convince yourself he needs another chance. The best thing you can do is leave him asap. I can almost guarantee you that he will then try and get back with you - he'll realise what he's missing (someone who cares, tries hard for him, dotes on him) also living with you he'll miss. Hes not worth your time at all. This isnt your fault do not let this guy convince you or emotionally abuse and manipulate you any more. Also don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:08 PM
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So so true just can't win...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:40 AM
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Their loss sis, just remember you'll have saved yourself time and effort. I know it can be disappointing when they seemed really nice, but better you find out they're no good earlier than later, their loss. You've seen the true colours of them now and can move on so it's a blessing really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:36 AM
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We can 💕 I was the same, its a cycle but we're breaking it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:32 PM
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This was also what I was like before some of the advice on this sub. I'm still trying to stop it, people realise when people are nice and feel bad hurting others - then they take advantage of that fact. People have walked all over me in the past simply because I've been nice to them / nonconfrontational. I guess we have to learn that in any relationship - even friends, setting boundaries and speaking up when someone does/ says something we don't like is extremely important, especially in the beg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:31 PM
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Same for me, thinking I just had to put up with terrible behaviour from numerous emotionally and even physically abusive exs and that that was just the way relationships had to be when you're a woman. Like all my exs have been porn addicts, misogynistic, users, manipulative and selfish af. I didn't even used to split bills 50/50, I was a massive pickme who'd literally buy them stuff all the time and pay for most if not all dates. Like gotta be a therapist and a metaphorical punching bag and revo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:18 PM
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I look back at stuff like this too and get so annoyed at myself for putting up with it. And its worse when they make you feel inadequate for not wanting to do it. Why can't a lot of men just accept when we don't want to do it. It's insane how many men are like this. Hah 'just the tip lets try it out' or 'i promise it will feel good' then proceeding to ram it in. Yeah sure. Or as mentioned on this post before, 'accidentally slipping it in'. Sure. I wish I'd realised earlier in my life how out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:22 PM
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Literally all men I've ever fucking dated have done this. Wish I was kidding. Then I was the bad guy for not doing it lol. Funny thing is I actually would have done it and don't mind it, but pestering me for it just makes me less likely to bother. Its not something I partucularly enjoy, and being guilted into it (or attempting to guilt me into it) is disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:45 PM
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