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| 16 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my story | gogo_bogo | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 10:16 PM |
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| 5 | The story of an orbiter, aka, what you should NOT do with a girl.Great response. Channel the anger and do something productive with it but never forget how it makes you feel. I have been broken up with an ex of mine for over 6 years now and I still think about her at the gym when I'm working out. I'm not thinking about wanting to get back with her, I'm thinking about all the blue pill things I did for her and how I never want to be that person again. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to shake the feeling of inadequacy.The biggest difference between a fuckboy and someone who has his head on straight is the ability to change your rule up due to the situation. Since you guys had sex, if you don't want anything to do with her anymore because the sex stopped then you are a fuckboy. If that's what you want, there is no problem with that and happy hunting onto the next one. If you are there for her when she actually needs you and not a 'yes' man on call anytime she needs someone, then it might grow into something sp… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 05:56 PM |
| 24 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?From my experience, it's not the sex itself, its the moments afterwards that determines everything. After you are done, cuddle and play with her hair, run your hand all over her body, give her kisses on her forehead. Make her feel safe around you. That seems to work for me. | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 09:57 PM |
| 2 | "What's wrong with the Seattle dating scene" - one woman's journey from rugged Alaska to the sensitive feminist utopia of SeattleHere's a little insight from a 28-year-old male who is single in Seattle with a lot of single female friends. It's not you, it's us. Imagine this. You're a 26-year-old attractive female (6-8 depending on the male) and have lived in Seattle your entire life. Not only have you grew up in a feminist society, but you've also been around for the tech boom where thousands of single people are moving into the city. Imagine this, you're an attractive woman so when you turned 21 you enter your bar/club s… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyThats a great question about women our age. I think the name of the game now is to be straight forward. I read the book, "Modern Romance" by Aziz Ansari and it was a great read about modern dating as well as comedic. He said something in the book that I completely agreed with. He said that at our age, we're too tired of playing the game that the moment someone express disinterest in us, we just move on. I have that happen to me so many times so the point where I tell the girl that I think she's … | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyWhat I usually do to make a girl comfortable is by using a combination of fun and kino. I play the slaps game with the girls, I give them high fives if they say something I like, I neg them and then give them a push on the shoulder if they act upset. Little stuff like that goes a long way. Figure out what works for you. My favorite is the fortune teller game and it goes like this. Me "So i'm really good at knowing if a person is lying just by their change of body heat." [Pause for any response] … | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 11:26 PM |
| 8 | 30 year old in collegeI understand your situation. I was 28 and just graduated college. Those younger girls are extremely attractive and I had no problem eyeing them and opening; the problem came when they opened their mouth and I could hear their age in their speech. The comments are right, if you just want to smash then smash, smash, smash. However, if you want a relationship I advice you look elsewhere or look for other students your age. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 2 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyBefore I begin I want you to know that I always against trying to pick up a girl with a boyfriend. With that said, if she has a boyfriend just make her your wingwoman. If youre always around girls it gives you higher value. Have a lot of women around you and guys will respect you more; have a lot of women around you and girls will pay more attention to you. Practice your game on her if you want but don't get too attached and understand that she's taken. It sucks to be cheated on, dont do it. You… | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Did I Mess Up?I agree he did something ballsy but she won't be thinking about it all day if she gets compliments all the time. The best way to gage the situation is to go about your usual life and if you see her make eye contact. If she gives you an IOI then that should be affirmation that she remembers you, nothing else. Talk to her then and you'll figure out how she felt after the compliment. Until then its too soon to assume anything. You're on the right path, keep it up and you'll see plenty of results so… | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 4 | How do you pick up girls at a clubI've done a lot of nightclub game and I understand your frustration because its such a cut throat environment. What works the best for me is instead of talking to the girl, instantly flirt with them by assuming they want you. My game is simple, see a girl dancing that you want to dance with, go up to said girl, stand in front of her make eye contact and say these lines. "I want to dance with you but dont be creepy. Dont put your hands here (puts hands over my chest/breast), here (put hands over … | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | I smile too much, like a giddy school girl.You are in an interesting situation. I always tell people to smile because smiling is attractive but in your case you smile too much and laugh at nothing. I say practice smirking first and work from there to eventually showing less and less on your face. BUT DO SMILE when what that person says is funny. Definitely, validate good behavior. I hope that makes sense and good luck! Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 04:06 PM |
| 11 | How should I respond to suggestive snapchats?She is sending those pictures because she wants to feel sexy. Make her feel sexy. Tell her she has seductive lips, or tell her she's being naughty. The WORSE thing you can do is send an unflattering picture and turns her off. She wants attention and be to naughty. Add gas to the flame. Make her feel sexy. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 8 | How should i make things more flirty and less friendly?Build tension. Longer eye contact Stand closer when you talk to her (leave less of a gap) Make sexual remarks (when the opportunity arises) Kino, but dont be creepy text her funny dirty pictures (emphasis on the funny part) Tell her she's a bad girl if she does something naughty Those examples and a lot more. If you build tension and she doesnt engage then you havent built enough attract. Gage the situation and work from there. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyCompletely agree with recyclablebanthas. Look for more than one field of study and find out which one works best for you. Don't change for girls, make a change for yourself. Ladies will come once that happens. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyThanks for all the insight, I really appreciate it. You are absolutely right when you say that I need a new model to build off of. The "Mystery Method," that I've been using for years has gotten me the same type of girl over the past few years. I'll take a look at the other guys you mentioned in the last paragraph. Old habits die hard ya know, and what you said about changing myself in certain situation to be the right person for the girl is spot on. Thanks again. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyI'm a genuinely nice person. I ask every girl I hooked up with what made me stand out and 9 times out of 10 it was my initial smile. I wasn't threatening, they felt safe, and they knew what I was saying was genuine. I do believe in what Mark Manson said that being genuine is the key. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyThanks man really appreciate it. I still get that butterfly when I see a HB9 but no one is going to stop me from having a conversation with her in a quiet packed bus. Hope things are good with you also. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyThanks man, I wrote down what I did to the user right above read it and let me know if you have any more question. But long story short, I used my weakness to my advantage. We are short people. We will never be the americanize version of what a perfect man should be, instead focus on what we are. We are fun sized adults and once you realize that and play with it your'll attract way more girls. But with that said, dont put yourself down. If they say you are short reply back with, "i'm fun sized" … | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:17 PM |
| 2 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyThanks for the compliment man. You are absolutely right about growing as a person and figuring out whom I am attracted to and what I am actually looking for, thats what makes thing difficult. I'm 28 years old and finding single ladies that fits that type is becoming more difficult to find because they are usually taken. At least thats the case for me. As for tips for other short fellows, this is what i've realized. The shorter you are the more obstacles you have to hurdle through to get what you… | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get back into the single world after a 10 year relationship?Sorry to hear about your situation, just remember one door closes and a million other opens. My best advice for you is to do what makes you happy. Do what you enjoy with people you enjoy doing those things with. You will eventually meet a lot of people that you are compatible with. When you meet them however, dont turn into an AFC and be needy. I honestly believe that you can't fully love another person until you love yourself; your strengths and all your flaws. But, if you want advice on how to… | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I've used PUA theory for the past 7 years, this is my storyI would but honestly I was nothing in comparison to the Gods of PUA like Style, Mystery, or David Deangello. Just a normal Joe that thought some of the newer cats in the game would appreciate a story of a person who has been in the game for a while. Gogo Bogo | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 10:23 PM |
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