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Nice guys finish last. Keep the smile on your face and hire the best lawyer you can. I'm in the exact same boat. Sounds like it might even be the same guy! Four months till our 20 year mark.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/25 03:26 PM
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Same boat, same time frame. For me once a party girl always a party girl. She actually got mad that I assumed once I put a ring on her finger she would stop flirting with other dudes. I was to dumb to leave after the first major violation. Stuck it out for another 14 years with violations every few years.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 04:36 AM
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My shit was toxic as hell. You get to the point short of your partner blowing 10 dudes in front of you that you don't care. She can't force me to eat anymore shit then I already have. So deal with it for good sex or leave for peace of mind. I left when i realized I can still get the sex even though we are divorced. Being a ex is a promotion.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 04:14 AM
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No idea. I'd be better off but as far as my boys they didn't even care when we told them we are divorcing. Probably would have been better younger since I wouldn't be so damaged. 7-8 years of being miserable and a few more years to get my shit together.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/25 04:08 AM
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Doing it right now, sill live with her. 20th anniversary in December. This story reads like I wrote it. Plan on filling after the first of the year. I'm in a different boat financially. Lost my job a few years ago and went back to school. 3 kids, 12, 14 ,16 all boys. I am very close to all 3 and the mom wants to be a party girl again so I am assuming they will be with me. Fear of the unknown is real. For me I've been reading every self help book I can trying to get my bearings back. Honestly sta…
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 02:23 AM
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Best of luck. Following. About to file papers in WA as well and would like to hear your outcome.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 09:53 PM
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