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No. That wasn’t me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:35 PM
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Not helping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:19 PM
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Also I personally don’t agree with cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:14 PM
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Like I said. Not all my stories occurred at the same time. I’m just seeing what ppd would’ve said or would say .Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:14 PM
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Focus
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:11 PM
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Great people of PPD! If you can help me with this issue you would have put me head and shoulders above most men. So I have oneitis for this girl. The reason I have oneitis for her is that she has arguably one of if not he greatest ass I’ve ever seen accompanied with a banging body. The way she dresses doesn’t help either (she has these nice dresses that show off her body). Even the Instagram models and pornstars I’ve seen don’t compare. She’s also short so I can only imagine how big my sick woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:56 AM
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That’s the weird part. They’re all borderline Chadlites/Chads and are good with women. They still obsess over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:22 AM
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I’m 31. They’re 23-25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:16 AM
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I’ve realized the people who put most emphasis on validation from women are other men. I was once free from the desire for female validation but then my immature friends pulled me back into it. It’s like a race to the bottom. Who can seduce and fuck the most women. Even if they have gf’s. Nothing matters. Party after party with nothing to show for it except the occasional ONS or woman grinding on you. They do it all for the ego boost. You can’t even reason with these types then they wonder why I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:06 AM
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I’m not a cuck but I think it’s an adaptation to not feeling good enough (sexually). You accept your position and then get turned on by it. It’s a way of reconciling the negative emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:02 AM
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It’s not like we pretended that we wouldn’t. We actually emphasize the importance of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:58 AM
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They like sex but de-emphasize the importance of it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:57 AM
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It’s not about the person not liking sex. It’s the person stating that emotional is worse than physical cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:02 AM
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Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:02 AM
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This is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:01 AM
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It’s not that they don’t want sex. It’s that they state that it isn’t the most important thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:01 AM
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Hehe that ‘welcome to America apollo’ theme song from the Rocky movie is playing in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:28 AM
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Some women believe that sex isn’t that important. If that’s the case then why can’t I scratch my itch elsewhere? I wouldn’t get in that much trouble for being close to (see emotionally cheating) with a female friend but simply intimately cuddling with her would be a possible relationship ender. To a great degree you could probably get away with talking to another woman the same way you talk to your gf or ltr minus the flirting or innuendo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:23 AM
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This is the part where I escalate the situation but I’ve been banned one too many times. Enjoy your day good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:19 AM
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If only you knew how people from my country were kicking ass in the US you’d shut up. You’re lucky I don’t find you and cuss you out. I’m ready for my warning u/Mrs_Degree. He had it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:05 AM
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American arrogance at its finest. A lot of your successful startups and discoveries came from immigrants or children of immigrants. The US is successful because it attracts the best talent from around the world. That however says nothing about the average individual idiotic American (like yourself). Your education system is even easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:59 AM
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Did you study chemistry or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:55 AM
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It’s not the highest you can get but it’s near impossible to get 100. You’d have to be perfect. Americans are dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:41 PM
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Such an American thing to say. Some girl asked me why our academic system is rated out of 100 if the highest the professor is going to give out is 85
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:37 PM
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Thin girls? Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:34 PM
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She’ll dump you once she starts getting more attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:15 PM
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You know how it feels wet and warm when having raw sex? I’d like to ask my fellow men if they’ve felt a big difference in temperature depending on the woman. What informed it? We it body type? Also with regards to tightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:13 PM
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Not really. A lot of men don’t get to taste Stacey so they never become as addicted as they could’ve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:48 PM
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Damn near every woman I’ve met has been cheated on including the ones with phat asses and pretty faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:34 PM
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This…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:33 PM
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The redpill guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:54 AM
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The ultimate cuck. Educating or giving Chad’s children scholarships so they can succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:52 AM
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The threads are becoming quite repetitive and boring. I already know from reading the question what the top answer will be. Except for those rare quality posts the daily thread is where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:51 AM
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How did you figure out that she’s not fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:10 AM
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It depends. If you are genuinely thick then that’s very attractive to any race (although black men tend to like a bit more meat on their women than other races). If you are just fat then be careful that some black guys don’t just like you because of your skin color. Some would see you as some sort of trophy and hate black women. Send me a pm and I’ll give you an honest opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:01 AM
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A someone who’s had more than a few women jump from a relationship to me I’ll have to say yes they do. If they’re interested in you. They’ll recover quickly (assuming they don’t still have lingering feelings for their bf). The recent breakup is just an excuse they use to keep you at arms length. By the time women break up with a man they’ve usually had enough they’ve had enough. In fact even in cases where the bf is the one who broke her heart she will move on quick enough if she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:45 AM
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Wow…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:40 AM
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That Illuminati scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:59 AM
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It’s boring to people who don’t know how to fuck properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:19 AM
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A lot of the generic white female celebrities. They’re attractive but bland.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:18 AM
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That awkward moment when I’m Liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:20 PM
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Yes. I got rid of my approach anxiety that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:37 PM
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Livs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:29 PM
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It will be subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:15 PM
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So get this. I approached and charmed this very attractive girl. Unfortunately I’m taken (I approached for my ego in the first place). She’s single and keen to hang out. I don’t want this opportunity to go to waste. I’ve decided to set up an acquaintance of mine. I will introduce him to the girl and then make an excuse to leave them alone for a few hours. His job is just to seduce her in the mean time. He’s very young compared to me (lil bro vibes) and she’s also around his age (they’re both leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:54 AM
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I understand the blackpill but people who believe in it tend to be incels. I believe in the blackpill but not to the extent of being completely helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:32 AM
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I honestly thought that you were an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:08 PM
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I’ve been all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:07 PM
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So the update. It was anti-climatic. We arrived at the place before him. He eventually arrived. They didn’t talk or interact at all. It was just the signing of documents and waiting for stuff to get processed (which took just over an hour). The guy looked athletic although I think my body is better. He was my height or slightly shorter. I didn’t see his face properly but maybe a look that some women might like. She occasionally came to me to sit by me. We talked and laughed in-between waiting. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:10 PM
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So the update. It was anti-climatic. We arrived at the place before him. He eventually arrived. They didn’t talk or interact at all. It was just the signing of documents and waiting for stuff to get processed (which took just over an hour). The guy looked athletic although I think my body is better. He was my height or slightly shorter. I didn’t see his face properly but maybe a look that some women might like. She occasionally came to me to sit by me. We talked and laughed in-between waiting. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:05 PM
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It’s about to happen people. I’m about to meet her ex. Read my comment history for reference. Wish me luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:41 AM
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She’s had chances to go back to him and she hasn’t. That’s an easy cop out. Even if we’re still together 2 years from now you’ll still claim that “it’s only a matter of time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:22 AM
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Nah. I’ve assessed her as thoroughly as I can. She won’t be going back to him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 07:47 AM
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😂 when I want her to. No rush
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:01 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:56 AM
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I’m starring and even I have the popcorn out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:31 AM
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Lol. Life is exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:31 AM
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Not this gf. Those were other women. Not everything I post is happening now. Some stuff already happened. This is actually happening now and she’s already rejected, ignored or isn’t interested in my Chaddish friends even though she met them first. He probably will be taller. She thought that she was taller than me but that wasn’t the case and since women tend to date taller he most likely will be. I’m short side of average and she’s above average for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:31 AM
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Read my previous comment on the daily thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:29 AM
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6 hours left until I meet/see my gf’s ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:56 AM
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Fit and fresh podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:41 AM
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Either way he better not try that with me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:24 AM
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No. She denied me doggy and hasn’t given me head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:22 AM
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There definitely was no waiting time. She even initiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:16 AM
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I don’t know about violent and abusive because she said he didn’t touch her. Just smashed the tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:05 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:00 AM
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What do you think will happen? If I could avoid it I would but I’m going to support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:53 PM
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I think she told me out of trust. She thinks he should be logically over it and have moved on because she has .I then pointed out that based on his past actions and me knowing how men (jealous) that he might potentially act illogically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:51 PM
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Boy PPD do I have one for you today. So I’ve been seeing this woman for like 2 months. She was into me apparently from like 3 months prior to that but was in a relationship. According to her the relationship was long over by the time she started liking me but she doesn’t believe in cheating so waited until it was officially over and she was sure that she could move on emotionally. The relationship lasted 6 years and the guy cheated on her constantly. She said her self esteem was quite low throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:32 PM
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Boy why you so obsessed with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:39 PM
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Lol. Ya’ll are going down on hookups. Nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:22 PM
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Find women who have never done NSA
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:27 AM
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I see a small part of where she’s coming from. It takes a lot to lose your woman’s interest. It doesn’t take much for men to have a wondering eye. Both are still cheats though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:56 AM
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because those are largely two different groups. There are a lot of relationship oriented women. Once they find you they will be all over you. Don’t stress. Just build yourself up and wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:34 AM
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Either way someone will like you. Just chill bro. It’s not that hard. Someone will get into a relationship with you. Just work out, dress well, groom, treat everyone normally, work on your career and shower
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:21 AM
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Lol. Chill. Being in a relationship isn’t that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:15 AM
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Dating for marriage isn’t that hard. Someone will eventually like you .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:15 AM
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She deserves it! She supported you through all those years. It’s the least you can do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:35 PM
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Congrats bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:05 PM
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I was just curious tbh. You must be attractive if you’re from Jamaica
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:04 PM
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Where are you from and how old are you? I’m assuming you’re a black female
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:45 PM
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For some reason this sounds sad but I’m happy for you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:28 PM
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I’ve always had the women willing to hear me out (I look non threatening). It didn’t help though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:09 PM
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They have women coming to them yes but if they had to approach those numbers would go down as a proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:57 PM
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We’re definitely not young. She’s very conservative if that counts for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:56 PM
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2 months but known each other for 7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:51 PM
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Why do aggressive? Maybe I was a late bloomer and now there are no good available women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah but I like hearing your opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:19 PM
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A ppd regular. Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:19 PM
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She just wouldn’t get into the position. Hence why I had to explicitly ask for it. She’s okay with prone bone though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:18 PM
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Lol. She’s never watched porn. We watched a very sexual movie together and she didn’t react to the doggy scene
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:11 PM
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Oh that was a different issue. I’m not going through all of this at once. I’m just running these scenarios through ppd if that makes sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:10 PM
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She’s never watched porn (sex scenes in movies yes) and we never even got to try it. She got offended at the mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:10 PM
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Without breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:06 PM
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Lol’d
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:06 PM
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Lol. You’ve been following me? Nah the relationship is great. Just some hiccups. Most of this isn’t a major issue to me but I enjoy being on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:04 PM
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How would you remedy this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:02 PM
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Lol. Probably not divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:02 PM
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I’m actually a man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:02 PM
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Gf doesn’t want to do doggy because it’s ‘degrading’. I want to hear your guys’ thoughts on this. She got offended the first time I suggested it in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:57 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:56 PM
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Lol. Stop being thirsty and the universe will send someone. Whether or not you want them is an entirely different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:45 PM
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Don’t do it in a social group. Do it elsewhere. In the social group just sit and wait
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:44 PM
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Just improve and wait. It works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:38 PM
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Lol. Reduce those numbers. It’s 10-20% for very attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:33 AM
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Lol. Then self improve and wait. Don’t even look for or want a relationship. Relish being single. The universe will then send someone your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:32 AM
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Fuck how miserable women are. Get your own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:21 AM
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Lol. It does but someone eventually says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:20 AM
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A 10% success rate? You overestimate who eats it is for a man unless he’s carefully selecting for who he approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:16 AM
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Lol it depends where and how you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:15 AM
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Don’t approach. Improve and wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:10 PM
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They are but it’s up to you to find that woman who finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:26 PM
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Lol. I wasn’t talking about myself. I was talking in general. I used to be like this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:03 PM
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you’re black? No wonder you’re blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:02 PM
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Fair enough. A healthy view I can say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:24 PM
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What if the school sports star went after her whilst you were her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:24 PM
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Lol. Ok we can agree on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:23 PM
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Lol. You’re seriously messed up dude. Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:22 PM
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Isn’t she only loyal because you are her best option? Her loyalty can only be tested when someone with more than you comes along
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:21 PM
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So if something better came along she’d cheat or leave you? How does that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:45 PM
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What are your thoughts on cheating? Do you cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:44 PM
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Lol. You’re too blackpilled. That’s assuming the woman sees the man as a Billy Beta. Is it really being beta if she has sex with him constantly and is in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:43 PM
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Getting the woman. I’ve seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:29 PM
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Relatively healthy outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:28 PM
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Yeah and there’s lots of men out there better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:28 PM
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Lol not necessarily. Some men beat out Chad but I appreciate the stamp of approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:27 PM
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Interesting. What about the case where a woman falls for another guy whilst still with Chad (who’s continuously cheating on her). She really likes the second guy but still has principles (won’t cheat) so eventually works up to leaving Chad because his behaviour won’t change. She eventually leaves Chad and treats the other guy very well (sex on demand and wants to see him everyday). Would the latter guy still have a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:26 PM
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How does that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:21 PM
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Aren’t you super red-pilled? You should know that she would trade up in an instant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:20 PM
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It’s sad for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:30 PM
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Men with gfs or wives. How do you think it would have gone if you met your potential/current gf round the same time as Chad did. Do you think you would have won out against a taller and more handsome man assuming everything else about him was average (like personality).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:25 PM
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Isn’t it funny that even once you get a gf you start worrying about other things like: her ex who was bigger and better in bed in than you (retroactive jealousy) risk of dead bedroom her cheating on you her losing interest for one or more reasons etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:22 PM
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Damn. My chigga even did pause reps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:11 AM
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Lol that’s what happens when you settle with someone who’s not really into you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:58 AM
1

You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:32 PM
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Lol. That’s what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:28 PM
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Those were her descriptions. Even now her flair says that she’s horny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:28 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:28 PM
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Lol. Maybe but she sure does treat me like an alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:42 PM
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Not the same because sex is something we both enjoy and forms the basis of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:42 PM
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I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:41 PM
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She’s a big booty wap woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:40 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:26 PM
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Out and about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:26 PM
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I genuinely want to stop regardless of her. We just discuss a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:25 PM
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Body types I guess. She’s the tall model type. I look more stocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:12 PM
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What’s wrong with the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:12 PM
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I brought it to her. She didn’t even know that I watch porn or that it’s such a major issue for men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:51 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:50 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:49 PM
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He kept cheating on her. She then lost interest because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:47 PM
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Not that I know of. I don’t think she’d hesitate to wear them though just based of what she’s said. She initially thought I was shorter than her. She expressed and had a crush on me despite this. Why would she do this if the height was that big a factor ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:46 PM
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She has experience with being in a long term relationship (6+ years). It only ended because the other guy was continuously messing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:34 PM
1

We would have just started dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:33 PM
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She’s known me for a year. Had a crush on me for most of it and only started dating recently. She’s said that she wants marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:33 PM
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I will have that conversation with her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:20 PM
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Explain both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:17 PM
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She should notice if our sex life is non existent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:10 PM
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I can’t help that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:08 PM
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I don’t know because we’ve only been dating for 2 months. We might have more sex if our living conditions were more ideal. She’s initiated sex twice at the beginning and we’ve had sex 6/7 times we’ve been in the same bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:07 PM
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31 and she’s 28
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:06 PM
1

You can twerk though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:06 PM
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Explain the last part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:05 PM
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She didn’t insist on the quitting of porn and masturbation. That was self inflicted. I could go back to it if I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:04 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:02 PM
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She’s open to conversation. I just want to see if she’ll notice without me bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:02 PM
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She doesn’t. I’m just wondering if she will notice if I don’t initiate for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:01 PM
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Women keep falling for my friends every time I introduce them. What do I do? My friends are taller and better looking than me. Every time I introduce a bee woman to them she’s visibly interested in them. Luckily most of them have not capitalised on this (2 did). I honestly don’t know what to do. We are all in shape and good conversationalists but the main differentiators are our looks. In fact I put more into my skincare regime than them and they actually come to me for advice regarding fitness …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:59 PM
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My gf says most of her friends and other women are looking for an alpha male. I asked to describe one and she said tall, muscular etc. I asked her if she wanted an alpha and she said no. She’s always been under the impression that she’s taller than me when I am actually slightly taller. She still claims to be extremely attracted to me and seems to be very much in love. Should I be worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:58 PM
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I don’t want to watch porn at all or masturbate with or without it. They’re both unfulfilling to me. I’m just wondering if she would notice that “hey I haven’t had sex with my man in a while. I wonder how he’s holding up?” I’m wondering if that thought will even cross her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:53 PM
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She’s not even low libido. She initiated the very first time and got mad when I wanted to wait. I get what you’re saying though. Side note: I’d imagine you’re very attractive in real life. Can you twerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:52 PM
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I think it’s the porn but I don’t want to masturbate either. It would be very unfulfilling. I’m just wondering if she’d notice if I didn’t initiate anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:50 PM
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I don’t want to masturbate at all. She said an ideal sex frequency would be 3 times a week or maybe even everyday but we don’t have ideal living conditions so it’s been rarer. I’m wondering if she’ll take note if I don’t initiate for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:49 PM
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So I recently got into a relationship and quit porn. My gf knows about this. She’s against porn and was even worried I’d relapse. She enjoys the sex with me and we’ve even discussed frequency in passing. My question now is if I stop initiating sex with her will she notice? She initiated our very first time but has also claimed that she can go a long time without it if she doesn’t think about it. Where does she think I’ll be getting my sexual satisfaction. I’m not masturbating, being faithful (un…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:35 PM
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Nope but sometimes I lie/joke that I am. It actually makes the women more eager to ‘take it away’ from me or to be my first. I can’t relate to whatever’s said on this sub. Just don’t announce it fresh out the gate. Actually talk to the lady and get her to like you first. By the time she’s asking you about your past relationships she’s already interested. Answer with confidence even if you’ve never had one. It would only be bad if you imply that it’s simply because no one wanted you. I usually ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:26 PM
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Just tell the truth. It works out for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:06 AM
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It was meant to be a backhanded compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:29 AM
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I can barely attract women to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:11 PM
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No. I was their only connection to them. I should let the next one continue just so I can prove to you just how thirsty they are for my friends. I’m practically being cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:49 PM
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They don’t do anything because I force the interaction to end. I can see them reluctant to leave though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:41 PM
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Then she doesn’t truly desire me. I just happened to ask her out first but she’s more attracted to my friends. I’ll just be a beta bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:34 PM
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They’re dripping wet. I think one even lost interest in after meeting my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:33 PM
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No. The one tried to yank the door open just to join us after refusing. They also seem to flirt a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:26 PM
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No. They just show so much interest that I drop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:25 PM
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I will spend lest say 3 one on one sessions with them. They meet my friends for 2min (literally) and display visible signs of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:57 PM
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The women I’m dating keep falling for my friends. They’re all slightly more taller and more handsome than me. We all take of ourselves and they even take fitness and grooming advice from me. The only thing separating us are our looks. The women think they’re subtle but I can practically see them drooling. A girl once a aid she didn’t want to join me and my friend on our trip after I begged her but then tried to yank my door open and invite herself after she’d met him. Even when I took her away f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:31 PM
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A good girl needs proper protection and not a pushover
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:50 PM
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but I get horny…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:46 PM
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His friend is the real alpha. How can you let your friend just suggestively massage your gf. That’s weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:43 PM
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beta bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:38 PM
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What did your bf do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:25 PM
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Very…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:21 PM
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There’s a 3rd one I already got rid of. She has the phattest ass I’ve ever seen. I’m even comparing to Instagram models, pornstars etc. It’s that phat. Show me someone with a batter ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:12 AM
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They have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:53 AM
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Neither of them will from the looks of it and it would seem like cheating because they’re both taking me seriously. It would be better if they were any old random women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:39 AM
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It sucks. I went from no women to 2 lovely women and now I must let go of one. Life sucks :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:52 AM
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