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FDS SUCCESS!golden_sunflowers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:17 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEgolden_sunflowers/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:03 PM
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I absolutely loved Attached! No more avoidant men for me, after dating a secure man for nearly half a year thus far I have felt that I have become secure as well. I absolutely loved the section on avoidant-anxious relationships and how awful they are in contextualizing my previous relationship with my LV ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:24 PM
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The sex with my LV ex wasn’t even good in hindsight. I just assumed because he slept with more people whereas I was a virgin prior he knew what he was doing and that the “female body was weird and complex.” Nope he was just bad at sex. God the amount of times I comforted him telling him that he was good even though I never finished 🤦🏻‍♀️ Not sure if I should be happy or furious that I came more the first time I had sex with my current boyfriend than over a year with my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:37 AM
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Yes! (Well generally ofc with some tweeks) In fact I had an FDS like mindset with my friendships but not in dating and it confused me why I had such a solid group of friends but was stuck with my LV ex. In accordance with FDS because I have a high standard for the people in my life I think that the best way to maximize meeting people who fit these standards are through meeting a lot of people and vetting those who don't fit. Of course this is a lot easier pre-covid but I generally try to be extr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:45 PM
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I’m so sorry that you had to deal with him tearing apart your self esteem. It’s hard as hell for women to be confident in our bodies from outside forces alone like the media let alone having someone who is supposed to love us, someone who is supposed to adore us only adding fuel to that fire. I struggled and still do struggle with disordered eating, I met my ex when I was at my thinnest actually. I felt that I was never going to be good enough for him because he was so tall and worked out and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:00 AM
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To all ladies who are curious and want to find the exact post, don’t bother. It’s absolutely repulsive that it appears that half of the comments are defending this pathetic excuse for a human being. It’s very telling that as soon as feminism and equality is mentioned the first thing on many men’s mind are whether or not it’s okay for them to assault women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:48 PM
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Hello! Extroverted woman here, I prefer dating extroverts and in all honesty tend to prefer befriending extroverts as well. However I’m not a fan of the stereotype of extroverts wherein they’re super into large crowds and partying whereas I’m more into picnics, museums, and cafes like my current boyfriend. I love socializing for long periods of time and meeting new people, but just in ways that “introverts tend to prefer.” Perhaps that may be more appealing to you? Or maybe someone who leans ext…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:48 PM
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I’m so proud of you 💕 We either will wait until we get the men that we deserve or stay happy and single 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:37 AM
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💕 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:36 AM
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It’s so ridiculous, I also enjoy calling my platonic friends which he thought was kinda weird 🙄. You absolutely deserve the best, build yourself to be the best version of you and never settle for a man that doesn’t meet your high standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:02 PM
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Awww thank you sis 💕From one asian feminist to another!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:01 PM
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Absolutely, thinking back to my old pickmeisha behaviours make me cringe in disgust. My ex was soooo bad for my mental health, despite us being in a somewhat long distance relationship he still rarely called and when he did he seemed so disinterested 🤢. I feel so much more free and like myself now that he is no longer a part of my life. To think that when he dumped me I was devastated and thought I couldn't do any better 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:10 AM
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He has been such a wonderful support and breath of fresh air and reminder that I shouldn't settle. 💕💕And now I know that as a Queen if his true colours end up being low value then he's gonna be removed from my life. Being happy and single is ALWAYS preferable to settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:01 AM
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Exactly! It's so upsetting that so many women have to settle for men that add nothing to their life. As well now I know, if he no longer makes me happy then I will cut him out of my life rather than focusing on "potential" ✂️✂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:57 AM
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Thank you so much :') Sometimes I think about the excuses I gave for my ex and I want to shake the old me by the shoulders. In typical LVM fashion he also expressed that his love language was physical touch, which of course translates to mediocre sex 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:55 AM
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Reminds me of that study that shows that some men don’t engage in eco friendly activities as much out of fear of “looking gay.” I guess killing other people, yourself and the environment is totally okay as long as your fragile masculinity is still intact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:55 PM
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Congrats 🥳 every amount of growth is growth no matter how small
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:16 PM
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