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| 1 | "Be authentic" is terrible adviceYeah if you adopt a hedonistic world view, which is what many people do (contrary a more grounded spiritual focus people have had for thousands of years) and can lead to situations like this. | /r/seduction | 09/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | "Be authentic" is terrible adviceMy wing used to open with "salad!" or saying nothing at all for the first minute. And it made no difference, same success rate. It's because openers generally don't really matter that much imo. The other 95% of the battle is your vibe and what you say after. | /r/seduction | 08/10/23 11:37 PM |
| 3 | "Be authentic" is terrible advicenever feel good enough. Fuck feeling good. Conquer the world. You're going to die one day. Think about it often and fight to the death. Do something interesting other than trying to pleasure yourself, then girls will become easier. | /r/seduction | 08/10/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Paying for girl's drinks on the date after fucking her?So I can just invite her straight to my place to fuck after the first fuck? | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Looking for wingman man in Scottsdale/ Phoenix (Arizona)There's a local Telegram game group in Phoenix. Check the sidebar or the link here /u/nikhilpinnam | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate a two set with you on one girl and your wing on the other?isolate like you would do any other case I think this is what I should've done. It seems like I just never pulled the trigger when I had the opportunity to split off if perhaps I asked for "fresh air" or "getting a drink", etc. When time comes pull them together. How would that go down? I'm just trying to imagine the logistics of having 3 people back at my place and what to do from there. I only have experience with pulling 1 girl back. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to isolate a two set with you on one girl and your wing on the other?No, it wasn't a consideration, esp bc I didn't want 3 other people in my place if I can avoid it. But I am trying to imagine the details atm if I choose to go this route in the future. How would a double pull to my 1 bedroom apartment go down? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid getting a girl pregnant and being on the hook for child support (short of not having sex) ?I do actually want to have kids someday with the right girl once I'm financially well off and I know vasectomies are sometimes hard to reverse. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid getting a girl pregnant and being on the hook for child support (short of not having sex) ?"Girl I just met at a nightclub 40 minutes ago, please put this sponge up your pussy before I fuck you with a condom" doesn't seem like the best route to go. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Hooked up with a girl on a Saturday night. How do I make her a regular fuckbuddy?She lives 30 minutes away, so idk if that complicates things. Also, given I met her on a Saturday, what day should I even text this on? | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Hooked up with a girl on a Saturday night. How do I make her a regular fuckbuddy?I'm just confused on specifics of how to get there. What day should I text her on? And what should I say? What day should I aim for the date? (gonna be coffee if anything since I hate drinking) | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Thank you, this was the best answer. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Interesting, seems like you've thought along similar lines as I am now. Question: When she keeps incessantly texting you, why not just tell her "hey, do not text me during the week/more than X times per week" or "stop sending me annoying/vapid texts"? It seems easy to set up boundaries like this is she's needy and you have the upper hand. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?insecurity also makes intimacy threatening, since being honest and known risks rejection or dissolution of their fragile self. The logic behind passing comfort tests in a nutshell. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 04:56 AM |
| 8 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?I can only assume an insecure man would highly desire an insecure women to feel better about to himself. It could be this. But it seems even more likely that opposites attract here. (Low self-esteem women yearning for a dominant confident/powerful man since they're basically useless on their own but highly effective when submitting; this was the bread and butter of 1950s marriages) | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 04:06 AM |
| -4 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?let you do your own shit. You already can do your own stuff, regardless of who the girl is. You're totally free. Boundaries and frame control man. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Then she was probably didn't pass the boner test if she cuts herself. Only girls who do that are chubby/ugly below 6s, with maybe 10% being 6/10 or higher imho. Sounds callous but I'd love to be proven wrong here. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:43 AM |
| 13 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Because insecure and clingy girls are in constant need of validation. As a high value male, you don’t have time to spend constantly chatting with her or being with her. Yes, but you have boundaries and control the frame. I'm not chatting constantly with any girl (insecure/clingy or not) just because that's a boundary. A girl like this is more likely to cheat or have tons of orbiters, This is probably the worst potentiality. But then again, boundaries. And if crossed... next And it cuts both ways… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?if you give too little comfort eventually they’ll move away Yes, I think this is the trouble. Even on one night stands sometimes. They need at least some emotional connection/feeling that they "have you" or else the sex stops flowing. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:28 AM |
| 24 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?But if she's hot enough, why does that matter? How much did the women in the harem of Genghis Khan have going for them in their own life? I think it's incredibly sexy for her to be thinking of new ways to pleasure you and make you happy all day long. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 7 | College Junior needs help hooking up at college barsMusic festivals and concerts are extremely underrated in the seduction community, but mainly because bars are 24/7/365 (which makes more sense for practicing), whereas music festivals/concerts are occasional. But extremely fucking potent. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 5 | College Junior needs help hooking up at college barsAlso 21 here. It depends. But you should be considering whether it's best to to do cold approach or social circle, or a mix of both. The degree to which you should do classic cold approach game versus social circle depends on what town you're in and how many chances you can take without you becoming known as "the pickup guy". There's a difference between a large city with a college in it vs a small college town with a handful of bars the kids go to and you will see again and again. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedGives her comfort that its not a pump and dump How important do you think it is giving her this comfort it's not a pump and dump? The second one even verbally expressed concerns over that. Im always in this buyer's frame of "I like you, but I'm not so sure." But I'm not sure if perhaps I'm pushing it too hard and giving too much of a playerish vibe that causes LMR | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedthe TRP guide to STDs I'm looking all over for this but can't find this. Link? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedThe moment I tried to fuck her she would keep giving me shit. "not now", " I'm not ready". Stuff like that while taking my hand away. My reaction, I said. Ok cool, I feel kinda tired now. Did she blow you before this point? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedShouldn't the ideal goal be to figure out how to break past the LMR in such situations? I don't think settling for a blowjob is maximally executed game, no? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedWell the verbal rebuffs were coupled with her moving my hand or maneuvering out of it. Usually I'd just keep going if it was just verbal but it was sorta physically impossible. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedI believe it. It's just a matter of getting that emotional investment quickly on a one night stand scenario. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedBro you gotta have something going for ya if shes getting sexual with you 8 times, but not all the way. I met the second girl 10 hours ago at the time of writing this post. I just mean I went to finger her about 8 times to warm up to sex. But each time, it was rebuffed (phyiscally moving hands away or manuevering out of it). She said shit like "not yet" or "I'm sensitive", etc as reasons not to have sex. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedI hear about it a lot online, but I've never once encountered it I actually haven't been able to find anything about this online at all. Which is kinda why I made this thread. If you have any further discussions/resources on this, I'd be interested. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedI don't think I was actually butthurt because I always know I can get more and hotter girls. What would butthurt manifest as like in a "freezeout" situation? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 03:41 PM |
| 15 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedNo I mean the 8th time (estimate) in a hookup session. I met her the same night. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 03:34 PM |
| 13 | What to say when a girl asks why you don't have social mediaBravo for being no social media too. Fuck that shit. Regarding the question, it usually doesn't come up because I'm the one leading and I'm asking for the number. But in case she asks me for my Instagram/Snapchat first, I just say "I don't do that shit" and then give my number. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedMaybe. I'm not sure about this though, just because I've had girls (even less extroverted than these) tell me before they're on their periods. Not sure there's need for embarrassment there. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedBrilliant. I will definitely test this out more next time. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 01:04 PM |
| 31 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedshe could be on her period but just doesn't want to tell you. I did stick some fingers in with both girls (briefly, a few inches deep). Is that enough to get period blood on your hands? In the past, I've had girls just tell me they were on their periods, and it doesn't seem like there's a reason to hide it. She could think of a BJ as nothing and sex as a bigger deal. This is a large part of it I believe. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedThe second girl and I made out and did tit play for like a fucking hour. I was getting semi-bored. But I actually really like this idea of teasing around the proximity of the pussy. Inner thighs, belly, etc. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:55 PM |
| 14 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedYeah, but usually girls would say that they're on their period. Esp if they actually are. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:48 PM |
| 65 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedWhile in bed just get your phone out when she says no to sex. If done right she'll be all over you. This is similar to what RSDMax talked about this "freezeout" where you just go from 100 to 0 to break past LMR. I actually tried this with the second girl. After like the 8th time (in the same night) she was weird about not having sex, I jumped out of bed. 100 to 0. Just went to my computer in the other room. Started working. Didn't say a word to her. She got her clothes on, called her friend, got… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:44 PM |
| 8 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bedYeah, but they block access to the pussy (hold their legs together tight and/or physically move my hands away while fingering, esp the second pull did this). | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | How to create a lifestyle where I can just travel and do PUA?the artificial separation between practicing pick up and the rest of life. My creative energy, for it to be effective, must either focused on PUA or business/making money. If you have a routine/repetitive job, I'd assume PUA can just take focus and then you can do approaches during the day and taking random social interactions more seriously. But I'm not in that situation right now, making money is taking some highly creative demands and mulling over, hence my strict partition between PUA and wo… | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How to create a lifestyle where I can just travel and do PUA?Having a life where you only do PUA, is not balanced, and risks slipping into neediness I agree with you on this. I agree. I think 7 days a week is sorta an over-correction to my current state of 1 day a week due to financial concerns of spending too much thinking about PUA and not enough time thinking about income. I'd assume when I actually get into it, it'd be more like 4 days a week. Is the point that you just don't want to work or that you want to develop your core skills here? It's a bit… | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to create a lifestyle where I can just travel and do PUA?I'm able to study full-time. Any advice on how to go from zero knowledge to a remote coding job in 3-6 months? (I'm just confused in terms of whether or not I should be taking random udemy courses or doing a full on coding bootcamp) | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How to create a lifestyle where I can just travel and do PUA?Programming and/or design offer good opportunities to do this, I’m sure there are many others. Design is out for me, since I'm pretty bad at that. Programming is interesting but seems intensive and I have no prior experience/degrees in it. But it does seem favorable to digital nomadism. It's just a matter how long it will take to get a job after a bootcamp/self-teaching | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?La Marca Prosecco Dope, I'll check this out | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 09:05 PM |
| 0 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?Yep. Ideally, I wouldn't need to involve alcohol at all, it's just a better reason to pull if needed than "Come back to my place for sex" | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?Captain Morgan , Smirnoff Vodka Is it common to drink those straight after pouring or do you need something to mix with them as well? I'd think for Vodka, but I'm not sure about the rum, whisky, and other categories of liquor. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What cost-effective bottle of alcohol is good to own for an excuse to bring girls back for drinks?The cranberry juice would be good for a situation with more forethought (since I'd have to get cranberry juice on hand). I'm looking for something I can whip out as a last resort excuse for the pull during nightgame (or if that just seems like the best route to go). Something I can have on hand and just sorta bury in my kitchen cabinet and if I need it like once every 2-4 months since I promised drinks during the pull, whatever, I'll bring it out. Any thoughts on what that bottle could be? | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Girl obsessed with not ditching her friend? (Friend texting her to come back while I'm pulling)I just knew if I don't get her to stop taking those messages and calls, I'm going to lose the pull. So I wasn't worried about doing something drastic, because if I did nothing, I was gonna lose it anyways. How worried did your girl seem about wanting to go back the friend on your scenario 1? (pre-shutting off phone) Did you try to get the friend on your side in person before leaving her and having your girl's phone barraged by calls/texts? | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl obsessed with not ditching her friend? (Friend texting her to come back while I'm pulling)So the first one is the girl won't stop getting texts and calls from the friend as I'm pulling. So told her very strongly...turn off your phone. Like it wasn't a conversational thing. Because I knew if she kept it on, it wasn't gonna happen. So this was a do or die moment. I put a lot of commitment into that sentence. And the girl turned it off, and the pull was successful. Interesting, I actually really like this on some levels. I think it also sorta depends whether the girl is okay with gettin… | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 02:59 PM |
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