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Is it normal for girls to ask for a condom before a BJ? A girl recently told me she doesn't give BJs without a condom. She might think I'm some kind of a playboy but little does she know I'm technically a virgin. Is it worth it telling her the truth?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 12:23 AM
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I don't know why you're getting downvoted. This shit could easily have been written by a woman. Matter of fact, it sounds like something Whitney Cummings or her likes would say.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:14 PM
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Same situation here. She's shy and quiet and they also live together. Only difference is I don't know the guy. She already came to my place a few times and even stayed overnight once without having sex. Blocked me on fb when I ghosted her then contacted me again saying she did it by accident. She's just broken up with him recently. Who knows what's going on in their heads, man?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:58 PM
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Sometimes just because you have the power to do something doesn't mean you should do it.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 03:28 PM
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Approached a shy young girl once (wasn't entirely cold though; I had a contextual opener). I thought I blew it because she didn't seem very interested during the interaction and she was kind of reluctant to give me her contact info. Then, she was all over me after initial contact to the point that she almost cheated on her boyfriend of 3 years. I had to actively push her away since she was making every excuse to come to my place. Based on this single case I'd say they're submissive if you know h…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:59 PM
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It was her first time couch surfing but otherwise good points. Come to think about it, I was flirty from the get go which made her blush at one point. She was playing with her hair, adjusting her top and leaning against me revealing some cleavage. Those were the signs that made me think she was in for business. The only mistake you made was that you tried to fuck her. Maybe if you hadn't, she would have turned around and started it with you but this is highly unlikely. I gave her long enough tim…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 09:50 PM
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Aw man! Now I feel like a dick because I totally misread the situation. I suspected as much but thought since she was attracted/comfortable enough to sleep on same bed as me in her underwear, I should at least give it a try. Anyway, live and learn.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:26 PM
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Any idea as to why? She seemed receptive enough, or at least non resistant.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 02:12 PM
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That's exactly the point of the post.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:35 PM
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My situation was a bit different because she was the one instigating. That being said, even then it was still my fault/responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:15 AM
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Dude, I feel you so much on this! Just had a similar thing happen. I know I should stay away from taken chicks because it's bad karma but they don't stay away from me. It takes two to tango, ya know? These hoes ain't loyal!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 09:54 AM
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Is this the male version of "impossible beauty standards for women"?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 09:31 AM
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She's not American but solid points. it gives her the "it just happened" anti-slut defense later on. If she still comes to bang after me telling her, won't that destroy the 'it just happened' excuse and make her come off as a slut?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:33 PM
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I'm living abroad as a student. According to her, my room is bigger than her whole place. I always keep my bedroom military spotless. She already knew the setting by the way, so I think she was just being silly/hamstering. Like, oh it's not my fault we're sleeping on the same pillow under the same cover.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:28 PM
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Exactly my thoughts. I always keep a sexual undertone but she's either too young/inexperienced to get it through her head or she's just playing me.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:57 PM
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What you need to do is dread game, dread game and pre selection. She knows I'm killing it socially and has seen it herself. I was going to meet another girl at noon that day and I told her so. I did end up kicking her out in the morning because I was going for a jog but I guess that was too late anyway. I was just wondering if kicking her out would make me come off more butthurt than just telling her she was being ridiculous saying she was uncomfortable. I mean how comfortable do you have to be?…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:47 PM
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But do you think I should've done something differently that would have made her more receptive or was it a lost case anyway?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:22 PM
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Could you point out exactly what I did wrong though?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 02:10 PM
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You're right! Shoud've kicked her out. I'm too soft!
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:52 PM
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I am at the top of the male dominance hierarchy. Have you even embodied the hero archetype and rescued your father from the belly of the whale yet, bucko?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:25 PM
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She's eager as fuck to hang out even though I never give her the time of day. She's much younger, acts submissive/sweet and agrees to all my plans no matter how outrageous. Some plates and female friends got hilariously jealous of her when they accidentally saw us together out and about. She speaks and teaches language I'm trying to learn, so I get free practice/lessons. She cooks for me and buys me drinks. I'm not trying to paint myself as a player or anything. Maybe it's not much for you guys …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:28 PM
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The only frame in your place of residence would be a picture frame. I don't even have that. I'm a frameless S.O.B. :(
/r/askTRP10/07/17 07:20 PM
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Fair enough. Even though it seems like she's one orbiting me. I'm getting way more out of this than she is- but you're right.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 04:13 PM
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She is the one who buys me drinks actually.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:59 PM
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Unfortunately, roommate is a Plain Jane and not really my type since we have little in common. Plus, she already has an idea of my SMV/social proof (took her out to meet another female friend of mine, she knows I lead an active social life, etc). It's the other girl that I'm interested in, although can see potential problems arising from future interactions between them.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:56 PM
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I run a bit of a social circle game and I've done this sort of thing before thinking it would kill attraction from other girls I'm not interested in but it only managed to increase it. Why does it seem stupid to you though? I kind of established myself as a man with many options that way.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:47 PM
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Trying to plate a youngish chick who cancelled our last meeting saying she was busy, but wants to make it up to me by setting up another one. Would inviting another girl (new roommate, same nationality as plate) to come along be a good idea to show preselection, demonstrate abundance, inspire dread, etc? Or would it kill attraction and hinder chances of further escalation? Maybe it's worth mentioning that potential plate is in a relationship, so maybe she won't do anything to make her seem like …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:30 PM
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Fair enough. I'm rarely that selfless but it was just for one night and I was in his shoes a few months back. SMV is currently skyrocketing; gaming her almost seems too easy. I was just asking if I should go for the low hanging fruit anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 06:21 PM
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I'm sorry but do you know what Couchsurfing is?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:54 PM
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I only couchsurfed twice; once alone and another time with a plate and had a good time on both occasions. Wanting to return the favor, I started accepting guests even though I'm currently living in a shared flat. I've received and accepted a number of hosting requests but people mostly cancel when I remind them to read my home description to check if they're OK with a shared room/one bed sleeping arrangements. Up till now, it's been all guys, and only one who just needed to crash for one night e…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:48 PM
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Not to blow my own horn or anything but my first couchsurfing host flirted heavily with me, and I know how much it sucks trying to tread the fine line between being polite toward your host and letting them know you're not interested without offending them. Wouldn't do that to people, especially when they just arrived in a new city and could be feeling vulnerable.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:31 PM
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Oh yeah! Thanks for reminding of the drinks, I always forget that part.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:42 PM
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I call it ZZ; that's Zazen meditation in the evening and Zhang Zhuang in the morning. I treat it like brushing my teeth, so 10-20 minutes after waking up and another right before bed. Started Zhang Zhuang after reading a book called Chi Kung the Way of Power a few years back. It's technically Qigong but I do it for the meditation part. I start by warming up and then do at least 10 minutes of Wuji before transitioning into other stances. In the evening, I do basic seated Zazen meditation, which c…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:37 PM
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Not Asian but Tadanobu Asano.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 01:06 PM
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Don't let media + distractions keep you from sitting down and having a committed session of clearly listing out your dream. I have found this to be true. Although I'm not the best planner by any stretch of the imagination, I have somehow managed to achieve every goal/dream I wrote down or spent a lot of time thinking about. Down to the most ridiculously specific or vague type of stuff that I had no idea how to attain at the time. I don't know why the universe works that way but good intuition al…
/r/MGTOW12/05/17 12:21 PM
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Been living in a new country as a student for a while now. Things are good and I'm doing well on many fronts. I've always been self-focused and not much of a sexual guy- little to no experience with women, etc. However, girls have been showing great interest in me for some reason and my social proof is currently through the roof as a result. With the exception of sex (I can get it easily should I want to), one classmate has been giving me the whole 'girlfriend experience'. I even stayed with her…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:48 PM
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RIP old Opeth! :( New stuff doesn't do it for me unfortunately.
/r/MGTOW24/08/16 12:21 AM
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You're very welcome. I'm glad someone found my ramblings to be of use.
/r/MGTOW15/08/16 08:16 AM
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It saddens me to see a man I really admire in such state because of a woman.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 09:21 PM
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Same here.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 08:49 PM
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so can you give me some examples of what else actually is there It's different for everyone; that's why others here are saying it's limitless. Personally, I'm pretty damn happy learning languages and having adventures around the world on the side for now.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 08:32 PM
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Not when he made that particular comment, no.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 07:00 PM
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Unfortunately it was a man who made the 'what else is there in life' comment.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 06:27 PM
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Yes! It sounded really either/or for them; no alternatives, no middle way.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 05:14 PM
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I know adults who'd freak out if left alone in the house/apartment, are afraid of the dark, can't sleep without noise/TV/laptop/internet.
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 04:54 PM
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This coming from a guy who I can never trust to keep his word, and is the laziest, immature and helpless individual I know. It's always those types! It's like they're trying to compensate for their incompetence and dependency by shaming everybody else in order to feel superior about themselves. It's not my fault that you think the only way for you to experience adulthood is through marriage. The laziest, least responsible of our group of college roommates, who couldn't even take care of a cat by…
/r/MGTOW14/08/16 02:22 PM
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Finishing up Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, making homemade pizza from scratch, and looking for a few good movies to watch over the next week while I'm waiting for my visa.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 08:51 AM
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Have you ever experienced or seen anything like this? I'm extremely thankful for my father who never took shit from anyone and for my mother who actually pretty much agrees with me on most things. I truly believe that if you have a strong character, you can influence your parents or at least make them see your point. Not that you need to or anything.
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 08:41 AM
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I read this as 'praying' and was confused for a second!
/r/MGTOW13/08/16 08:34 AM
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It was glorious when a college professor (older woman) of mine called them out on it. I see it as a trend that some men tend to follow it as well. I know some sad excuse of a guy who started doing it just because a chick he was into was doing it. Poor guy was from a lower middle class and thought it was some sort of a trendy status symbol.
/r/MGTOW12/08/16 05:11 PM
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Did you ever meet a woman that put effort into you and was like romantic and lovely? They'll go to great lengths if they believe they love you or even are simply attracted. And they keep making themselves believe they love you until they stop feeling that way. It's only when you're invested emotionally that this any of this stuff will work.
/r/MGTOW11/08/16 08:37 AM
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It's relative. I'm not American, so foreign girls (including Americans in my case) usually put on a nice enough front when dealing with me. Never been romantically involved though, to be honest.
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 05:48 PM
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There are millions of other men who will happily take your place. Be my fucking guest! I don't tell anybody what to do with their lives and I expect the same from them.
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 01:25 AM
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Nope. Having a horrible younger sister and/or a childhood female friend helps you figure this shit out early on.
/r/MGTOW09/08/16 01:23 AM
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She recently told him that he can't keep living his life like that (her exact words) for chilling out after a long day of work!
/r/MGTOW08/08/16 03:10 PM
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I hear you but I'd imagine even if I were to go with a gf, they'd still ask me to put a ring on it. You have to show the same level of commitment/misery. If you're married with no kids, then it's 'when are you guys gonna have kids?', etc. Shit never ends!
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 10:48 PM
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I live near a touristy area, so I do the hotel/resort thing once a year for a few days. It's my reward for working hard all year. Usually it's one of those all-inclusive packages, and more often than not I can get it for way cheaper than it usually is. Plus, I rarely pay for anything extra when I'm over there. I go with friends that I don't get to meet that often; it's our little annual get-together. No women, no photos, no shopping! I live extremely frugally and it's one of the few luxuries I a…
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 07:54 PM
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He masks it as a joke but I actually told him once that I travel to meet girls, so in order to do that, I need to stay single! I don't travel to meet girls exclusively of course but I just told him that because I knew it would drive the point home by making him think about his situation.
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 04:45 PM
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Definitely! They still go nuts when I go talk to girls and shit. I mean I'm not even your boyfriend, he is!
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 03:54 PM
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I told him what I thought and still think of this marriage. We all did. Whatever the outcome, it'll be entirely on him.
/r/MGTOW07/08/16 03:45 PM
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Minimal interaction with girls during and after puberty due to living in a conservative society led me to focus on studying and more serious pursuits. I had to find other pass-time activities, so I read a lot. My favorite childhood author was a rampant misogynist. As a result, I started intentionally keeping away from women and alienating them more and more. Only a handful got intrigued and tried to 'figure me out'. I shut them off politely by showing no romantic interest. I saw how friends chan…
/r/MGTOW26/07/16 01:29 PM
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Just last week I saw 2 kids fighting at the beach and one of them was taking it too far. I'm talking body punches, headbutts; little fucker was a natural and the other kid was crying and bleeding from the mouth. I normally wouldn't give a fuck but I saw that nobody else was going to do jack shit. So I almost instinctively stepped in and they stopped immediately. I grabbed the little bully's arm very lightly and calmly asked him why he was hitting the other kid. Little guy just froze but the othe…
/r/MGTOW19/07/16 07:36 PM
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this LAYDEE Is this a Billy Burr's reference? Haha!
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 11:29 PM
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Haven't always known it by the name of MGTOW but I've been living the lifestyle more or less for most of my life (mid 20s). As you said, most people come here after one or more negative encounter with women. My reasons for going MGTOW are entirely personal and aren't about women. I have a BS in a medical field and will be studying for an MD at a prestigious uni overseas in the near future. Since my father's death I've been taking care of my family of 4 and I believe we're not doing too bad consi…
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 08:55 AM
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Yeah, exactly. My father was relentless about the fact that he wanted me to become a doctor. I rebelled and became a dentist though. Viva la revolution!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:37 AM
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I don't understand. I specifically said I wasn't gay and that I wasn't confused about my sexuality. Or were answering other people who said I might be?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:33 AM
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I'm not trolling. My user name was inspired an old-ish Japanese graphic novel called Golden Boy whose main character was a huge pervert actually. kick back out of it, after the first girl you fuck you will want more, i might even fear it might become an addiction. It's weird but that's exactly what I'm concerned about.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:28 AM
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it was overrated. Not the greatest pleasure nor something that is missing from my life and I don't really need it. That's basically my thought process all the time but I haven't had sex to confirm or deny this. That's why I was wondering if it was even worth it to try and change my ways.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 05:23 AM
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Also, try to listen to a more aggressive and darker music I listen to death metal primarily!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 08:43 PM
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Glad to hear I'm not the only one. I do have many passions to keep me going, which works great for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:50 PM
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Will she fuck the prude out of me?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:48 PM
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I watched Nymphomaniac Pt. I by the way. Funny you should mention that movie. Although I have a thing for Charlotte Gainsbourg (yes, I've been told that I have a fucked up taste in women as well), I basically hated everything about sex even more after watching it. I suppose you're talking about part II though because I never knew what was up with the old dude.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:46 PM
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Your looks, intelligence, education, money, worth, your being a virgin, means nothing if you can't reproduce. Well, that's fucking depressing!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:24 PM
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I might do it just to be sure but I have to say that I feel healthy. I eat clean, lift weights, exercise and don't masturbate on top of that. If everything is in order, my testosterone levels should naturally be through the roof. I can't help but think of monks and the like, who are physically healthy but don't seem to be needing to fuck everything that moves. Can discipline control sexual desire?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:59 PM
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Maybe not strictly asexual but I have acquired some sort of learned asexuality over the years for sure. I'm pretty sure I'm not into guys. I don't need to be intimate with a guy just to make sure. Books weren't an alternative for sexuality. I read because it was the only acceptable pass-time I was allowed if I wasn't studying. I found out that I liked it though. I get what you're saying about trying it once or twice just not to feel like I'm missing out. I just can't get this idea that it's so g…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:49 PM
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I used to, occasionally, in my late teens. Now I don't. It's when I watch porn that my sexual drive is at its peak.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:30 PM
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I do. I just taught myself to tame the beast somehow, you know? I talk/think myself out of any possible initial attraction. It's a habit by now.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:05 PM
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