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goldenshoelace8/r/askTRP10/08/19 08:47 AM
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goldenshoelace8/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:06 AM
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Get lean it will change your life
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:20 PM
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Only once
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:28 AM
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Sometimes I’m not in the right head space to talk and others I do start conversations but 1 out of 20 is interested
/r/seduction14/01/25 10:55 PM
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1 and a half + years off of porn, going for 2 years in May 2025 I am slowly getting into the dating scene, already had my first date, I didn’t even liked the girl physically too much but I just wanted to prove to myself that I can date and I did! It was a good day and we talked about different things and felt very happy after the date ended because I proved to my brain that I can have a date with a girl lol
/r/seduction07/11/24 06:45 PM
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If you keep doing it over and over with the true belief that you are improving the only way is up, a lot of times you’ll get a couple no’s before you get the yes and that yes might be perfect
/r/seduction27/09/24 09:13 PM
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24 also never had a girlfriend, I’m 1 year and a half off of porn but it definitely hijacked my brain, the images are still there, they do get blurrier but it got so deep it still needs healing, I would say focus on yourself for now and if you can get a girlfriend just to see how it feels
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:48 PM
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Raw action leads to solutions, caution breeds fear. With that being said, keep taking action and don’t get stuck in your thoughts, control them.
/r/seduction01/09/24 09:05 PM
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I do think that “filling the void” is done by yourself and yourself only, nobody will fill it other than yourself, you gotta love your alone time and learn how to fill that void. BUT, did you ever felt like fucking hot chicks filled that void? what did fucking hot chicks without needing to seduce them felt like? did you felt satisfied with your life when you made that happen or was it a temporal feeling of happiness? I also dislike the hassle that dating takes, you go on dates trying to convince…
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:10 AM
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i would say that red pill has a lot of good information for self-improvement, i used to be like you, misogynist and always with a resting bitch face and then i left red pill and started being friendlier to everyone, right now i’m listening to AMS and took a notebook out and started filtering the good Self-improvement information and getting rid of the “be a fucking asshole” philosophy because red pill is so useful when you filter 70% of the general information that’s in there overall i feel happ…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/20 05:41 PM
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Awesome, I get it now
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:20 AM
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So you are saying it’s okay to fake stuff as long as you make people feel good?
/r/askTRP22/01/20 12:37 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to make this
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 10:11 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation, i’m about to google him
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:51 PM
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This is a great comment
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:36 PM
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This is the answer i was looking for thanks dude i'm gonna look for weak points next time, and even if i don't know their weak points i will still say something equally hurtful without overreacting EDIT: Grammar
/r/askTRP02/11/19 07:30 PM
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Witty answer? Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:35 PM
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This was explained perfectly
/r/askTRP05/10/19 04:02 AM
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I think this comment is assertive
/r/askTRP30/09/19 06:27 AM
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Yeah, finally came to the conclusion that i should really dismiss her, it's not worth my time
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:50 PM
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i approached her like a normal person, isn't it going to a person and saying hello with a smile isn't normal? what is normal then?
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:26 PM
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nah, i don't think so, i really have no idea but yeah, i'm not worrying about it anymore imma let her do her cause in reality i don't care, it just was the thing the she didn't even said nothing and just gave me attitude but i think thats how some insecure girls are
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:28 PM
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yes, that's true, i just say it because of the fact that she's always with an attitude towards people. is not my personal opinion, other people at uni think the same thing about her
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:14 PM
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fair enough, i don't see her as high value either
/r/askTRP13/09/19 09:12 PM
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This is exactly my situation, my mom just told me (19) and my brother (21) that it’s time for us to find a job and bring money to the table to take care for ourselves, tomorrow i’m going for a job interview and i’m planning on sticking with it and it’s my time to manage money on different stuff like food for myself, hygiene and all the other needs and i gotta say that i feel better after that happened, most of my free time i am sitting around in my house until i got nothing else to do, i mean i’…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:53 AM
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Thank you Looking into it right now
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:22 AM
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I think if it fits you and you feel confident and good using them, use them, theres a lot of rappers who look cool as fuck using them
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:27 PM
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Thank you bro, very good explanation of the chi force, i know what i gotta do, for now i’m looking to fulfill my sex needs and after that i’m gone into doing my hobbies and personal goals
/r/askTRP04/08/19 06:16 PM
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She will start to lean closer, laugh way more, grab her hair while talking to you, and then start grabbing her arm as you say something, that way you’ll know if shes good with you touching her, you can sense it
/r/seduction04/08/19 03:00 PM
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Don’t do physical escalation right away, let her give you signals, just be cool and just talk to her to get her more comfortable with you
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:55 PM
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Also social programming, like the typical scene of a dude putting his nice jacket over a puddle of water so the women can step on the jacket and pass by without getting her feet wet Those type of things that they put in movies
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:35 PM
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“They’re comfortable in their own skin and don’t care what others think and they don’t have to be a complete douche” This is gold, confident real men are comfortable in their own skin and genuinely don’t care about what others think and they don’t need to be a douche cause they genuinely don’t care
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:49 PM
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Dude this is a message for me, i’ve been like this a couple weeks now, i have become such a jerk, i mean i stay always in my lane and on my business and by that i tend to isolate, i need to practice being more approachable and talkative
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:30 PM
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Dude you are right, i should stop being mysterious at first and start doing it later on in the relationship, as soon as i read that my brain clicked I should appear more social and talkative then when the other person get’s comfortable, bring the mystery in
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:27 PM
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So you recommend to be talkative straight up with the girl and tell her all about your life? I wouldn’t do the right away, gotta keep a mystery at first
/r/askTRP23/07/19 03:42 PM
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Yes, when you remain a mystery and they don’t know much about you, her brain needs to fill the blank spots with information so she creates storys in her head about you She will always want to get you to talk, don’t give a lot of info about yourself, remain a mystery and answer it with vague answers because if you tell her everything about you right away she will lose the emotion, her blank spots got filled with info about your average life and now she is thinking she just met the same type of du…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:37 AM
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Ohhhh i get you, kinda like in a sarcastic way
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:25 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies is a really good channel
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:00 PM
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You gotta leave, your choices aren’t the same you gotta experience life by yourself away from your toxic family and build something
/r/askTRP07/07/19 05:26 AM
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Good way to put it!!
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:51 AM
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YES, this was exactly the same for me
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:27 PM
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I just saved your comment, awesome insight and solid reply, didn’t thought of validation as currency, gonna start applying it
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:09 PM
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Yeah she has, she told me but it was when she was younger, but she always says she hates it
/r/askTRP30/05/19 02:58 AM
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She kissed a dude who she always hangs out with at school, i think she likes men but hates dick
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:44 AM
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Why do i sound beta to you? What is push&pull? Please don’t tell me to read the sidebar i’ve done it
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:23 PM
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Why do you think it would be a good idea to express my feelings to her since she’s a lesbian? How would she react?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:16 PM
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Your words are what i was looking for when i was typing this post Failure is part of success and always will i agree! You made me think I’m actually doing pretty awesome
/r/askTRP26/05/19 06:43 AM
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Solid advice
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:40 PM
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Maaan the thing with me is that all my life i grew up being a people pleaser, when i turned 18 i developed the mentality of “first is me then me and theeen me” i became so egoistical and it helped me gain respect from people, i fell in love too much with living this way and being respected that i always get very defensive when someone does stuff to me
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:39 PM
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Man you are 100% right and i gotta say my ego just got hurt So what should be the best move here? Should i approach and tell her i forgive her or should i wait for her to say something first?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:19 PM
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So should i approach first and tell her the i forgive her?? Or wait for her to say something?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:15 PM
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Nope
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:47 PM
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But If i forgive her i will basically be telling her “hey there’s no problem you filled me with foam you can do it again i won’t get mad”
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:44 PM
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I mean yeah i will survive but forgiving her for doing that isn’t it telling her that there’s no problem in doing that type of stuff whenever she wants
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:43 PM
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Dude she got it in my mouth, i really got bothered cause she didn’t even gave a warning or nothing
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:41 PM
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No, i don’t think it’s bait it is legit, this girl is always legit with her partys i know it will be eveyone on pjs, but is it beta to do that type of stuff?
/r/askTRP07/05/19 01:36 PM
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No, i really have no idea what i’m gonna use i don’t think i have a decent looking PJ
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:42 AM
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Should i? Yeah i think i should
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:14 AM
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AMS (alpha male mindset) he is solid with what he says and gives a true advice every video, it’s incredible how this man changed my brain beta chip
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:36 AM
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If i a had gold i would give it to you, this comment is on point
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:40 PM
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I disagree, the simple fact of putting an external opinion above you makes you feel less The best you can do is to not care about bad comments and even good comments, only go about by your own judgment and perception, yes! Good comments are good but you don’t need them to feel good, you only need your own internal validation
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:32 AM
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Really dude? I think you are the only one who didn’t got it because that speech changed some wire in my brain, everything that speech says is fucking true, just by reading it you can give yourself an idea of how to do it, learn how to not give a fuck by going out to the real world and experience this stuff
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:17 AM
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Audiobooks and making hip hop and trap beats, also excercise :)
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:42 PM
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Awesome well explained
/r/askTRP08/04/19 02:58 AM
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I will see her tomorrow, i will be teasing her here and there
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:26 AM
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So a womans biological nature is to seek validation from the alpha So the woman will always choose an orbiter for validation and will choose an alpha on the side to fuck So the thing here is to never give woman validation and that will make them seek your validation and your company more Correct me if i’m wrong
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:24 PM
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Whats a good pullback technique? I’m always looking to building up game
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:33 AM
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This. Great solid adivce. 👍🏼
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:03 AM
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Such a positive comment
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:41 PM
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Getting out of your comfort zone is so important for the growth of your life Kanye West once said: “criticism can bother you, but you should be more bothered if there’s no criticism, that means you’re too safe” I couldn’t agree more with that, being too safe is more dangerous
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:07 AM
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Thinking about it.. yeah it could be.. what’s the best move here?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:13 AM
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Why is it not worth it? I just want her to suck me that’s it
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:08 AM
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This is a good one
/r/askTRP07/03/19 06:29 PM
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Okay i read the sidebar and i know the meaning of AWALT, so what you are saying is i should keep my cool on like i’m doing, and not give her a lot of attention because she has a beta for that, and if i give her a lot of attention i could become her beta right? So for me to not become her beta orbiter is to keep doing what i’m doing and she’ll keep gravitating towards me, and take those opportunity’s when we are talking to escalate and try to fuck This is it right?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:58 PM
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I’m about to read the sidebar and ill get back to you
/r/askTRP23/02/19 10:53 PM
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Yeah this mindset is the one, he doesn’t own her fuck that
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:22 PM
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Bro this response is so spot on, i was thinking too about the beta classmate trying to ruin my image, i’m sure it will happen.. the thing is, what can i do if he starts talking shit to make me look bad on the girls eyes? My thought is, the moment he starts talking shit or trying to ruin my image i will confront him about it and tell him to stop fucking around with my name Also what do you mean by awalt?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:39 PM
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I would say don’t even respond, she may be trying to get you to beg her and shit i think if you don’t answer you’ll look more like you have a better life outside of her and that would keep her thinking if she made the right decision or not
/r/askTRP23/02/19 06:59 PM
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She just decided to ask yesterday at school, girls are sexual she started the convo
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:05 PM
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So it’s basically follow up to what she says joking about it in a sarcastic way?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:47 AM
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What do you mean by amplify?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:30 AM
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I agree, they’re tools
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:40 PM
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Wow need to read that thank
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:53 AM
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You heard it what you think? Try listening to clinic by big l, he talk about women there too but pay atention to how he refers to them, he talks like he the man and the bitch just comes by to fuck
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:46 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:38 PM
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I’d recommend a real good one Big L - No Endz No Skinz It’s the perfect song for this question
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:44 PM
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It’s so hard, i heard is harder than meth, but i wasted all my teen life watching porn, i’m 18 now and i don’t watch it nor masturbate, but i would say the thing that made me quit successfully was all the stuff that i learned porn made to your brain, that it fucks up your reward system and that makes you feel like a zombie with big brain fog One day i said, this is it. It’s been like 3 months, i’m not counting days.. i just don’t do it anymore because of what it does to your psyche, it really fu…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 07:31 PM
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What are the results of daddy issues? I still see my dad but he was terrible at parenting in My childhood
/r/askTRP10/02/19 05:53 PM
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Me too, i catch myself on autopilot too
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:43 AM
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Dude i used to be the same, not talk to girls and try to impress them by making music It doesn’t work, you really need to conversate and be part of it
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:56 PM
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Good one
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:06 AM
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“Statements not questions” This changed my whole head nice tip
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:54 PM
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Thank you bro, you one of the few that didn’t throw shit at me for mistaking the sub Appreciate it!!
/r/MGTOW26/01/19 05:25 PM
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