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NO, it’s about CONFIDENCE. I dont give a FUCK about what a bunch of NPCs I’ve never met think about me or fake internet points. Lmao of course you would read it wrong because you don’t have any experience living like this. If he is who he says he is, then he should be BURSTING with confidence….and if he isn’t, something isn’t adding up.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:57 PM
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Lmao dude if you are who you say you are, then you should be getting hot chicks non-stop, not fixating on one hot chick you lost a long time ago. I’m 6’4, make $150+, not white, and I dated popular fitness/yoga influencers and broke up with them and the next one was always right around the corner. I was juggling 5-6 smoking hot chicks at a time. These chicks didn’t know I was well off and I didn’t spend an exorbitant amount of money on them. They weren’t dating me for my money. They were with me…
/r/seduction22/07/24 10:53 PM
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My girlfriend and I have a 20 year age gap.and most of my other girlfriends have been firmly in the middle of that range. Am I in this 5%? 😭😭😭 Sorry fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:07 AM
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50 is high? I’ve got a few hundred and if I had to do it all over again, I probably wouldn’t go as hard as I did in terms of numbers. It’s a waste of time and energy. Sometimes when I see a beautiful woman, it’s a competitive thing for me. And as I got older and better looking and better at seducing, the women just got hotter and hotter. I felt like I couldn’t stop pursuing women, regardless whether I was in a relationship or not. What I was looking for all along was love and intimacy.
/r/seduction10/06/23 09:38 PM
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I’m expected to fix everyone’s problems. Most of the women in my life that I date romantically expect me to fix them personally, emotionally, professionally, financially, sexually. And I usually do. But it becomes a burden after a while, and so normalized that they fail to appreciate it…until I’m gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:55 AM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:21 PM
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😂😂😂 Red pill theory didn’t fuck shit up, you did. I don’t know much about red pill shit, because it’s goofy, but I don’t think you’re actually supposed to cheat on your mate, which is what you were doing. You’re supposed to play the field when you’re single, not when you have someone loyal and good to you at home.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 07:09 PM
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Talk about her. Dig into her. Show a *genuine* interest in her. If you're struggling to show a genuine interest in her, then find common interests you share with her, and explore talking about those things. Women lose interest in men who are selfish and only want to objectify them. You would too.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:09 PM
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Campuses are huge and filled with people who aren’t just students. There are often many open, public places where you can set up a laptop and do work or whatever. I’m not telling him to go into a class or show up at a frat party.
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:56 AM
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Find a college campus near you and there are usually places students go to hang out and/or study. Other than that, try a local gym. Tons of young people working out doing HIIT or CrossFit.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:59 PM
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Good luck out there
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:55 PM
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I’d say I’m a good looking guy who knows the market. I’m a MASCULINE guy and that’s what women want. And my masculinity isn’t forced or contrived or fake and women know exactly what they’re going to get when they swipe right on me. I also treat women like they are HUMANS, because they are. I respect them and don’t have to trick them into sleeping with me or use some kind of goofy system.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:52 PM
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I meet most women through OLD. Though I started off meeting women IRL. I would approach a woman I found attractive pretty much anywhere. My IRL experience helped prepare me for OLD, which really is the easiest shit ever. Yes, I’m in SoCal. I decide what I’m going to do by profiling the woman I’m interested in. Either way, I’m never in a hurry and really don’t care about her response because there are so many hot women who want to fuck me available through OLD I never feel pressure to do anything…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:45 PM
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I answer questions and try to be helpful but I am not a dating coach and don’t get paid for it, and am not interested in expending lots of time telling guys shit they should already know. I post my experiences because I’ve got a huge fucking ego and live an amazing life. I occasionally like to document my experiences. I earned everything I have without asking anybody for help or advice and by having BALLS.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:35 PM
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Lol I mean you can check my post history. Why would I lie? What would I have to gain by making shit up for a bunch of people I don’t know or care about? 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:27 PM
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I’ve slept with hundreds of women and I’m not a dating coach. Different rules apply to different men. Just like everything else in life. I would say that 75% of the women I slept with either didn’t ask me to wear a condom or encouraged me not to use one.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:14 PM
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It’s funny AF
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 12:37 AM
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As someone who has slept with a lot of women and had a lot of casual sex in my life, it’s not what you think it is. It’s like eating at McDonald’s or Burger King. It will never be special. It will never have depth. It’s nothing compared to love and having a positive, functional, loving relationship where there is intimacy and empathy. The life you talk about, if it’s for you, go for it. But take it from someone who’s had it. It ultimately made me feel empty and despondent. You want a real connec…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 04:41 AM
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A bad boy/asshole is someone like me. Sleeping with lots of women while drugging it up and loving every minute of it. Flaunting wealth and success while flaunting the rules and always getting away with it. Having multiple hot girlfriends who each get one day of the week from me and who are happy with it. Sleeping with married women and texting their husbands hints that their wife is getting banged. You don’t sound like an ex-redpiller you sound like a guy who has BPD and is histrionic and dramat…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 11:14 AM
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LOL as if any woman would have sex with you! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:57 AM
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If men feel that way it’s because they are weak. If they can’t find a woman to mate with, or they don’t want to have children, it’s actually great for society because it means they’ll be removed from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:42 PM
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I think women should stop letting society brainwash and pressure them into doing shit they don’t want to - whether it’s fucking or not fucking. You are your own fucking person. Make up your own mind and do what you feel is right for you. What a woman does with her body is none of my business. I also don’t necessarily judge women I date on how many people they’ve slept with. I will judge them on the quality of people they’ve slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:59 PM
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LOL “maladapted to Western society”? Violence and badness are essential elements of Western society. If me bashing his face had resulted in a more serious injury, well that’s life. He provoked me. I was minding my own business. There’s always some little guy who gets drunk and wants to talk shit to the biggest guy they can find. He wanted to fuck around and he found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:35 AM
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😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:24 AM
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No. That’s battery. Assault is the apprehension of an unwanted touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:20 AM
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This is goofy shit for people with too much time on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:19 AM
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I didn’t go wrong with her. She is still way into me. I’m not into her. I don’t have a connection with her for a number of reasons. She has never withheld sex from me, and in fact is the one who always initiates now. I don’t want it. We have kids and I do not want to split up our home and be a part-time parent. So I’ll fake it until my kids leave for uni. I would be fine with an open marriage (I really do not care if she were fucking someone else, in fact, I wish that she would) but she would ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:46 AM
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Agree 100% I’m married and had a single girlfriend who found out that I was fucking a lot of other women and she was very hurt about it, but stuck with me. Then she got a couple of roommates who she started sharing our personal business with and over time they worked on her to break up with me. That was about six months ago. After about 3 months of being back in the market, she wanted to get back together with me because she actually got to experience what’s out there, and realized her friends j…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:34 PM
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LOL bro, you need to seek professional help. 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:19 PM
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This is very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 06:06 PM
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I have experience living on both sides of this dichotomy, and women definitely will lean toward the bad boy if they have to choose between the two. Yes there is a big difference between how I talk to a woman and how an average square talks to a woman. That comes with experience. Girls have been chasing me since I was five years old. I’ve been engaging with them in a romantic way nearly my entire life. I know what they like to hear and how to say it. Talking to women is an art form and really sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:35 PM
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LOL who comes up with this shit??? 😂😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:26 PM
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Women like to fuck just as much as men do. I don’t know where men get the idea that women don’t like to fuck all the time or are shy. I have never met these any of these shy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:38 PM
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lol I’m sorry you can’t find anyone who wants to fuck you. You’ll never have to worry about an STI though! Keep playing your video games champ!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:22 PM
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Yes women ask me about my body count and I’ve learned the hard way it’s not something that should be divulged. There’s no reason to ask that question unless they want to judge you. I have never had an STI, and body count has nothing to do with STI. A high body count suggests to some women that you are either untrustworthy, a “player”, or not selective (i.e. you’ll sleep with anyone).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:45 PM
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Yes I am familiar with that show. A recruiter asked me to interview for it after seeing my profile on a dating app. If social media and television have such a powerful influence on appearance why are obesity rates climbing? I haven’t seen any cultural shifts in appearance based on social media and TV. Can you please articulate how you think things have changed? Is there any evidence that can substantiate your argument? Ideals from television have existed since tv was invented. Attractive people …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:45 PM
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You clearly don’t understand what the black pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:19 PM
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It’s tv. You understand that right? Reality TV often utilizes at least two elements to create a compelling drama, one is called “conflict”, and the other “editing”. You can create conflict through editing. If you have a tv show, like “married at first sight”, they need to create conflict, to make the audience interested. What better way than to make it seem like the women are not attracted to the men they are marrying? They could probably reverse it through editing and make it seem like the men …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 11:17 PM
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Not really when you look at what they end up with. Slobs. Narcissists. Unemployed gamers. Cheap losers with poor hygiene expecting to fuck. It’s perfectly reasonable for women to have boundaries and standards when it comes to who they trust with their bodies and emotions. They’d be foolish not to. If you don’t like it, date a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:16 PM
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Most men are fucking lazy. It doesn’t take much to stand out and be attractive to women. Just put in some effort for Christ’s sakes. Women settle for a lot of horrific shit and it sounds like you want men to lower the bar even further. Lol WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:06 AM
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I am in a relationship right now with an ugly rich guy’s hot trophy wife. She’s very physically attracted to me, and I am giving her, by far, the best sex of her life. From the moment we met, over a year ago, the passion has been incredible. Whenever we see each other we fuck for 4-7 hours…more if we spend the night together. We’ve probably fucked more in one afternoon than they have in the last 10 years. Besides not having the best face, he’s very overweight and doesn’t take care of himself. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:05 AM
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I’ve had all professional office jobs since I graduated uni and fucked female coworkers all along the way. It was lots of fun, but it usually turned out to be a bad idea because I always ended up looking like an asshole when it was over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:02 AM
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Please provide sources that validate your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:33 PM
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Where do you people come up with this shit? Seriously. There are plenty of average men out there fucking. But if you come to PPD and other subs you’d think 90% of the male population can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:46 PM
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Casual sex is overrated. I’ve done the club thing and dating app thing - sleeping with women within hours of meeting them - and it’s exhilarating initially and then it becomes depressing over time. I dropped everything and was having tons of casual sex and it led me to a cycle of depression and unhappiness. Feeling used and disposable is not an exclusively female thing. Sex is expression. If you have sex with someone who cares about you, it can be really amazing and fulfilling - physically and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:25 PM
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I think this is a really thoughtful and mostly accurate reply, but I have to disagree with the both sides inclination you’re going with. The red pill is open and blatant misogyny based largely on perception. TRP demands that you treat women in a really shitty way, no matter how a woman treats you. Whereas FDS discourages women from being treated poorly, being devalued, or as an expendable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 01:33 PM
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LOL you think I’m reading all this shit? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:51 PM
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You went from saying something really smart to saying something extraordinarily goofy. Why? Do you not understand and appreciate the danger women genuinely perceive from men? Look up statistics on violence against women. Turn on the ID Channel or watch a few Dateline episodes. It’s a nonstop marathon of how women are terrorized and murdered at the hands of men. Women that did nothing but simply let the wrong man into their respective lives. Women don’t present the same threats to men, which is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:48 PM
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This is a very intelligent and accurate analysis. Moreover, it’s dangerous for women to show men this positive attention because that misinterpretation could lead to them being stalked, harassed, and/or sexually assaulted. I’ve personally witnessed men coming on to a woman just because she did something simple like made eye contact, smiled, or otherwise acknowledged a man’s presence, politely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:40 PM
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Lol dude, you’re an unemployed incel. Why would I or anyone care what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:48 AM
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I have found this true...but mostly because I'm so busy dating, and really prefer to be in the company of women I find attractive and stimulating, so I don't really have a lot of time for my male friends. When I do see my male friends we usually spend a lot of time talking about women or in places where we look to attract women. Otherwise it's about sports, work, or politics. All shit I'm only marginally interested in talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:48 AM
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LOL first in getting their asses kicked? Murdered? Assaulted? https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/violence-against-women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:52 AM
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Because we live in a culture that puts women first. LMFAOOOOOOO what kind of bizarro backwards world do you live in? Do you actually know how much bullshit and misogyny the average woman has to put up with on a daily basis? The women on FDS do not hate men. They hate misogynists and low effort, entitled, cheap, selfish losers. And as far as I can tell, they aren't advocating gold-digging or any other imbalanced, exploitive relationship. I read the shit on that sub constantly and laugh because 99…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:18 AM
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I don’t think women are as attracted to money as much as some men think or looks as much as some men think. I think charisma, charm, sense of humor, intelligence, and respect go a lot further than a lot of guys understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:46 PM
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😂😂😂😭😭😭😭 Lol your wife aint attractive bro, I promise. I don’t want her. Lol and in no way did I read even 25% of this war and peace length shit you wrote, but I did catch you put some (fake)shit about your dick size??? LOL WTF bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:10 PM
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LOL bro, don’t you have some video games and some fake internet cool points to earn? Of course you don’t understand. You’re a loser. You don’t date. Women aren’t attracted to you - whether they’re very attractive or mediocre, it doesn’t matter. You spend all your time deconstructing posts from guys like me in order to convince yourself that it’s not really that bad for you,and guys like me really don’t have it this good. But I assure you, it’s really that bad for you and really that amazing for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:20 PM
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LOL I’ve had plenty LTRs and women are still enthusiastic about fucking me throughout. Maybe you can’t fuck or are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:45 PM
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How can you say this is what most men get? How would you know? If a woman isn’t enthusiastic about having sex with me, then I’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:33 PM
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LOL WHUT? It’s literally exactly the opposite. I don’t want to have sex with women who aren’t enthusiastically attracted to me. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:41 PM
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LOL WHUT
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:36 AM
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Would I marry her? It depends. If we were supposed to be exclusive and she was dating other men, no I wouldn’t. If she’s not satisfied with me and was seeing other men while dating me exclusively, I wouldn’t marry her. But if we were casually dating and were honest with each other and things progressed I would not hold her dating other men against her. How would that be fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:29 PM
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Lol I’m with you brother! Can someone come take my wife? I won’t be mad!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:23 PM
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Write a check? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:48 PM
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Whenever I read these corny TRP villain origin stories a few things always come to mind: 1) They always inflate their material wealth/earnings right off the bat. They want to be Bruce Wayne, or Tony Stark, or Elon Musk. The brooding billionaire playboy: rich, sophisticated, loved by women, admired by men, and can’t or won’t settle down because they’re too busy saving the world. It’s fucking HILARIOUS. 2) The post reeks of small dick energy. Each line screams out “I HAVE A SMALL DICK AND I HATE L…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:11 PM
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Sorry, I should’ve included “romantic” - so I made those edits
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:16 AM
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This is 100% accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:59 AM
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This is an excellent, accurate answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:35 AM
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Marriage is the best opportunity for women to find stable, long-term romantic companionship and provides a greater quality of life in their old age. Marriage benefits women because women have fewer romantic options the older they get. First, I reject the premise that men will eventually want someone younger "no matter what you do". People have more control over their relationships than they want to admit. They get lazy individually and they get lazy as a couple. They get entitled. They let thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:28 AM
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LOL you’ve never been successful with women, and you’ve never been around men who are successful with women, so how would you know? 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:18 AM
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I'm not saying they didn't demonstrate competence in difficult subjects, they absolutely did. The three most recent and memorable flexed on me all the time and I fucking loved it. Two of them were engineers from top US engineering programs and one was a Phd student/grad from one of the top STEM grad programs in the world. What I'm saying is that I don’t expect women I date to talk to me like I’m one of their academic or work colleagues or for them to want to have engaging high-level intellectual…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:03 AM
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You’re asking too many questions. This character he’s created isn’t fully fleshed out yet. Come back for the answer later after he’s done more research.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:48 AM
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Is this Bruce Wayne? Tony Stark? Jkjk So, I’m in my 40s, and using your definition of a HVM, me and most of my social network are HVM, and very few of us are single and most have been married since our 30s. The ones that aren’t married currently are divorced. I know very few HVM in their mid-30s and older who have never been married - in or out of my social circle. All of the HVM I’ve known value marriage, family, and the structure, stability, and positive emotional benefits they bring. Frankly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:34 PM
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Agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:19 PM
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A majority of women use online dating to find relationships. Im sure Reddit women probably use online dating more than the average woman. Your shit post is trying to suggest these women are undesirable. Is this some redpill negging shit? Or are you just obtuse? I can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:03 PM
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The posts on this sub keep getting goofier and goofier. I know people here want to be provocative and nasty, but this makes zero rational sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:49 PM
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Please cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:37 PM
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😂😂😂 do you think I care what you think about me? Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:31 PM
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I have a daughter that’s a pre-teen that identifies as non-binary and seems to be interested in girls and not so interested in boys. Honestly, it’s kind of a relief for me. If she’s a lesbian she’s going to be much likelier to be safer and happier in her relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:17 PM
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I would want my daughters to date a man who respects them and loves them and treats them as equals, works hard to make them happy, and who agree with them on whatever roles they think are appropriate and work in their relationship. I think r/femaledatingstrategy (FDS) is fucking brilliant. I would absolutely want my daughters to utilize that community and those community principles to evaluate the men they are interested in. FDS almost always gets it right and the women in that sub are funny as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:11 PM
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It’s not an assumption. I have worked hard to get better at sex, just like I work hard to get better at anything I care about. Getting better at sex doesn’t just include the physical act of practicing sex. A lot of it includes listening, learning how to help your partner relax, and finding ways to increase intimacy. There’s always an excuse for failure. My hard work means I don’t have to fear failing or make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:51 PM
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Getting good in bed is easy. Mostly because being good is a fairly low threshold, but most guys still can’t get there. I’m going to be honest, I’ve slept with a lot of women, and the thing that has always surprised me the most is how LOW their sexual expectations are. They have high hopes, but low expectations. A lot of women would be fine working with a man who was not good in bed or had a small dick if he just put in a decent effort to satisfy her. A lot of men put in minimal to no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:02 PM
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I’ve been having sex since I was a teenager. I wasn’t having much casual sex then, it was relationship sex, and that’s how I learned. I wanted to keep having sex so I always made sure I was pleasing my partners. It starts with something as simple as kissing or touching and goes from there. Pay attention to body language and the response you’re getting. Ask questions and be curious about what makes your partner happy. I’m going to be frank - your posts and replies just seem like a bunch of excuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:18 PM
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OP isn’t talking exclusively about casual sex, he just uses casual sex as an example. But just for fun, I’ll respond to your argument. Being great at fucking has gotten me tons of casual sex opportunities. How? Because I am extraordinarily confident from my previous experiences and relationships. That genuine confidence means I’m not anxious, I’m not desperate or needy, I’m not outwardly, obviously, or explicitly angling for sex. Having repeated success and positive experiences with women for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:07 PM
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I love feminine energy and how it connects with my energy. The women I date and spend time with are super smart and have a great sense of humor and it’s a sense of humor that’s informed by different experiences and inhabiting a different world, that I as a man, don’t inhabit. I love women also because they are so fucking talented. The women in my life aren’t just smart or good in their careers, they also have all these other talents - many of them are super artistic. They are good at art and cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:34 AM
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Honestly, sex is really not that hard to be good at, you just have to not be lazy and not be selfish and want to give your partner a great experience. Sure you can take the attitude that your partners orgasm is not your responsibility, but ultimately a woman is going to decide she doesn’t need you for sex because your participation is not providing any added value to the event. I’m great at sex. I’ve been great at sex for a long time…so you know what that means? I’m always having a lot of it. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:59 AM
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I'm in my 40s and I've had mostly Age Gap relationships over the last 6+ years. My biggest age gap was about 20 years, and I'm currently dating someone who is more than 15 years younger than I am. The younger women I have dated are energetic. They like going out and doing shit. They like going to concerts and festivals and when we travel, they like doing exciting shit. They are adventurous. Women my age and older always seem tired, and they don't want to try new things. The older women I have da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 01:05 AM
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