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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Dating app opener tip Need the people settling for this garbage to stop, it’s setting us back yearsssss	/r/seduction	13/06/24 11:57 PM
129	Dating app opener tip This is awful advice hahahaha	/r/seduction	13/06/24 03:17 PM
1	Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you? if it’s someone OP has just met i doubt she cares about his emotional reaction… if she’s engaging in convo with the new person more than she was with OP, just move on. it’s not meant to be, he’ll meet someone else	/r/seduction	04/04/24 12:57 PM
1	By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever had As I said, I’ve met and been around many with BPD, as well as their loved ones. I do agree with you to an extent about accountability and actions but generalising doesn’t help when people with BPD or the community. DBT is often group therapy so you meet and hear others experiences with it and their loved ones. Not all of us are monsters, is what I’m trying to explain. Every group of people has people with ill intent whether you’re speaking about mental health, political groups, gender etc. the n…	/r/seduction	28/08/22 12:49 PM
1	By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever had I live with it and have dated others with it. I have friends and family members with it that I love very much. I’ve read many books and journals on BPD and relationships and have learnt a lot from my therapist over the years, I don’t need to read a subreddit on it lmao. Using black and white logic and saying they’re literal monsters shows your own lack of reflection and critical thinking	/r/seduction	28/08/22 11:34 AM
1	By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever had You sound like you’re bitter about a relationship ending and now generalising. It’s clear you don’t know a lot about BPD	/r/seduction	27/08/22 11:07 AM
1	How can I show my interest if I am naturally reserved and don’t know how to express how I feel. it’s kinda hard in the beginning but you’re going to have to just start putting it effort, regardless of how unnatural it may feel. it’ll start to feel natural after a while, like forming any new habit. try messaging ppl on hinge with something in relation to their bio/prompts that sparks a convo that you know they’ll be interested and engaged in. if they mention books, ask them about the last book they read etc etc you just have to make it a habit to be engaged and it’ll get easier.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 04:23 PM

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