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Find a girl you really, really like. And what was wrong with your mood that you didn't want to be funny?
/r/seduction23/02/18 07:28 AM
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She steered the convo towards cars and asked me what I drive, which is a Suzuki Swift. She started laughing and called it a girls car You can use this an opportunity to say something funny like "Would a girl's car be able to do SIXTY FIVE ON THE HIGHWAY?!" or maybe "It's the manliest car when I'm inside it." Anyway, do you even like this girl? Or are you just going after her because you're "in the mood"? You don't sound like you like her a lot.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:46 AM
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My strategy would be to say something like "Hey Girlsname, can I get your phone number?"
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:38 AM
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Wear a "protection" and look up how to put it on correctly beforehand. I don't think there is any good or bad way to lose your virginity. Good or bad is very subjective, it can only be measured by what subjective beliefs you attach to it. Personally, if I was you I wouldn't be ashamed to admit I'm a virgin. But you do whatever you want.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:36 AM
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To be honest, I don't think it has changed it in any way, except maybe for a positive. You can be a great pickup artist without ever resorting to being pushy, overly aggressive, or relentless in a way that would ever get you accused of sexual assault or harassment or rape. Seduction is about building attraction, not doing stuff with women that don't want to do that stuff with you.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:33 AM
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Why is she trying to avoid you? What caused her to lose interest and how do you know that is what caused her to lose interest? You told her ahead of time that you couldn't stay long because you had other plans, right? You didn't leave it as a surprise? Because if I told a girl "Hey, yeah I can go out with you but I already have some plans so it will have to be brief.", I can't imagine her getting angry at me over that. Did anything else happen on the date?
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:23 AM
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I mean, like anything else, it's up to your own personal preference. If it was me, I wouldn't be interested in dating someone far away UNLESS I had already been dating them for a while previously (so that I know it's worth it to have a long-distance relationship with them).
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:20 AM
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Why is your self-esteem low? That's what your post should really be about, IMO.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:18 AM
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Well, I hope you find great happiness in love and dating and I hope she does too. Also, I hope you find great happiness and success after finishing college.
/r/seduction23/02/18 03:17 AM
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Here's the thing though: dating apps have a target market. And their target market is women. Why? Because women tend to be pickier when it comes to starting a new relationship. And men tend to be pickier when it comes to marriage. If there was a marriage app, the target market would be men. Try this: Make a fake profile with a really attractive guy as the photos. I bet you will be amazed at how many matches you get. If you want, you can message me our profile photos and I could critique them. Yo…
/r/seduction22/02/18 05:41 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding "don't be insecure". A guy who is secure is happy when he gets a girl that matches what he is looking for. And he is unhappy when he finds a girl that is not what he is looking for. In insecure is unhappy in a relationship that is not the type of relationship he is looking for. A guy who is insecure is happy even when a girl is not what he is looking for. So if a girl says "Hey, is it OK if I date other guys?" and you say "I was hoping for an exclusive relationshi…
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:38 AM
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Depends a lot on how attractive your profile is and how many single women are within ten miles of you. Results will vary.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:28 AM
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I wouldn't say that dating apps are killing your game. You still need to be a great date when your date shows up. But it adds an extra layer to the dating world. Many girls use these apps to try to increase the number of first dates they go on. So demand is high for guys with a great app profile (and good at setting up a first date over app). Which means if you have an attractive profile, you can get a lot more dates than if you didn't use online dating.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:26 AM
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You just reminded me of this guy I knew in college. He was incredibly good looking but also incredibly shy (no experience dating, either). Unless you hung out with him a lot, you didn't realize how incredibly shy he was. So girls would crush on him and get confused as to why he didn't ask them out. Now, years later, he's doing fine and is much less shy around women and has a wonderful girlfriend
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:21 AM
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If you're feeling bold, you can talk to him and say "Hey, can I get your number?" Then ask him out over text or in person.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:19 AM
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All of the things you're saying are fine and good... but you say it as though that isn't what seduction and "the game" are already all about
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:17 AM
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Not sure why this is downvoted, that was my first thought too. Definitely sounds like some kind of communication breakdown.
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:13 AM
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How is your self-confidence? From your post, it sounds like you're trying to trick her into thinking you're a good enough boyfriend for her rather than just showing her that you're a good enough boyfriend for her. Or maybe you're worried that she isn't good enough for you? Or that she's not enough of your type? It might be like that for lots of women, but here I often find myself embarrassed, realizing I don't even know how to use all the psychology techniques I usually master... it doesn't seem…
/r/seduction22/02/18 08:12 AM
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Well, if she said she won't know how busy she is, you might want to ask her when she'll know if she's busy or not so you can make plans. Sometimes work does get in the way of having the energy to go on a date, even if she really does want to go out with you. I wouldn't use the phrase "cautiously optimistic", I would say be "realistically pessimistic, but not unreasonably hopeless". And it doesn't hurt to come up with some ideas for good places to take her anyway. Even if she isn't interested or …
/r/seduction22/02/18 07:59 AM
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To me, it sounds like you need to find more and better friends. That way when you want to go out, you'll have a wider pool of friends to choose from to go out with. You'll also just have a ton of more opportunities for things to do with a wider pool of friends. Just go find ways to meet new friends (guys and girls) and then invite them to do something. Eventually you'll develop lots of new friendships. You can easily go from having five people who think you're a great guy and invite you to do st…
/r/seduction22/02/18 07:51 AM
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Communicate openly, honestly, and early. You probably are better off in the long run if you tell her you want an open relationship and ask if that's OK. Worst case scenario: she's breaks up with you. Better to be completely truthful and single than to feel like you are manipulating someone. While it's painful to break up with someone, the less time you spend with someone who isn't what you want, the more time you have to find someone who wants what you want at that moment.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:38 AM
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So when you were kissing at the venue, did you invite her to sleep with you? From your description it sounds like you were waiting for her to invite you rather than inviting her yourself.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:22 AM
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I think it depends. Some girls will really want to see you again and explore the possibility of having a relationship with you.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:20 AM
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If you're on a college campus, even if it's a male dominated college, there are probably lots of cute single girls. Start asking out more of them on dates Recognize why being afraid of women is silly Take good care of yourself and who you are so that you are confident that you are a great "catch"
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:16 AM
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Long distance monogamous relationships can be a lot of fun if you: Don't mind that you can't be physically romantic with one another Don't mind that you can't date anyone else If a long distance monogamous relationship, that's fine. But you should at least be able to see how it makes sense for other people
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:14 AM
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Take really good care of yourself. Look at how you're spending your time and make sure that a lot of it is dedicated to taking great care of yourself.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:10 AM
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What's the difference between night game and day game? What's going on through your head? It sounds like a "in your head" issue. You mentioned you feel very sketchy. Should you feel sketchy? She's a cute girl, you're single. You know what you're looking for (serious relationship, hookup) and you're confident that you'd be wonderful at what you're looking for. What's sketchy about trying to get her number? Now, I wouldn't hit on her if she looks like she's in a hurry. But if you're polite, courte…
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:07 AM
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Let's do a practice one, right now. Imagine I'm a girl. I look to be about your age. I'm walking alone in the afternoon in the park. I might be single, I might be in a relationship. You don't know. You've never seen me before. What do you say and do?
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:01 AM
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