gollyned Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	My fiance watches red pill content and it makes me sad Yes, and they have little to be angry at women about, whereas redpill men have a history of rejection (real or perceived) they’re trying to get past.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/06/26 01:59 AM
7	Feeling an indescribable grief for never going to be a homemaker (F25 with M31 fiancé) I (33M) am with a woman who doesn’t work, and likely wont work a regular job (at least not for long). I’m allowing her to pursue her passion of being a writer, and taking care of 100% of the bills, and totally fine with it. She wishes she could contribute more, but it would be a drop in the bucket. We’re planning on having 1 kid. I don’t want her to be overwhelmed with being a SAHM — it’s not just the workload, but the repetitiveness, lack of recognition, etc. I’m onboard with hiring a nanny so …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/25 10:30 PM
17	Being 6'1+ is a cheat code, everyone else saying otherwise is cope Wow, that’s a really awful personality that comes through in your dating profile then! /s	/r/BlackPillScience	26/07/25 05:51 PM
1	Not being "that" special girl There was a study I recently read on marriage rates/divorce rates based on numbers of previous sexual partners. As you might expect, 0 previous partners has a way, way reduced rate of divorce.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/25 05:31 AM
3	Should i give up on the relationship.. News flash, his hoe phase hasn’t ended, and you’re soon gonna be just another Instagram girl just like the ones you worry about. He wouldn’t tell you you were overreacting and controlling if he cared about how you feel.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/25 12:33 AM
2	My boyfriend’s femininity turns me off How so with that guy, the bitch?	/r/RedPillWomen	04/07/25 12:27 AM
6	My bf (25) broke up with me (23) and im having a hard time accepting things even though I know it’s for the best What a loser. You’re going to be embarrassed you stayed with him for as long as you did.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/25 05:00 AM
1	Am I overreacting or is this messed up? You’re in for a lifetime of him being an uncaring dick. And what for?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/25 05:28 AM
1	Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed? How much of this feeling of wanting to nest instead has to do with aversion to the career path in real estate and stress about preparing for it as opposed to a genuine change in values? That is, how much of this is a pull towards the nesting life vs a push from the real estate career? Are there other career paths that when you imagine them would be interesting to you?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/25 08:43 AM
2	Unsatisfied with a “good” man. She said she’s already in therapy and therapy isn’t some kind of cure-all for any kind of personal problem.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/12/24 01:08 AM
42	How to vet guys who are just interested because of sexual attraction? Ideas instead of or in addition to time: He has to introduce you to his friends. He has to have social media pictures of just the two of you in a relationship. His aim should be marriage and/or kids, not just a girlfriend. Set a minimum number of dates. In particular, those he planned. And don’t do that thing where you become embittered and take it out on other men. It’s apparent in ways you may not realize. You’ll drive the right ones away, guaranteed.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/24 02:08 AM
3	How to deal with low self esteem and my generation? They aren’t judging you for not sleeping around. They’re judging themselves for and want to feel better by making it seem normal. It’s common now to sleep around — but never in human history has it been normal.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/24 01:30 AM
7	AITA for not voluntarily closing my side of the marriage until my husband has had an equal amount of encounters? You’d see other sides of those same men when they’re no longer on their best behavior. Edit: oh… I got banned from r/offmychest for this comment since it’s in this subreddit :/	/r/RedPillWomen	22/10/24 06:20 PM
1	For the men who have tried the common dating advice of joing hobby groups, expanding your social circle, taking a class, join a co-ed sports league, join a book club, etc... how long did it take until it actually bore fruit? This didn't work for me. Online dating eventually did. After about two years. You're still competing against the infinite stream of men who are more attractive than you she can swipe through endlessly on apps, who give her instant attention and gratification. Women don't go out and do these things as often as men in my city. They stay inside and swipe on instagram and tinder and watch netflix.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 04:15 AM
1	Embracing the Redpill is like stepping out of a sunlit dream into the cold light of day Did you really believe that women were "perfect, angelic beings who could do no wrong"? Or are you letting the RP narrative overwrite your personal history?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 04:06 AM
–	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar Within a crowd, it's always the same guys getting the attention. Men are made more attractive to women by women being attracted to them. Men go after women they think they might be able to get. Women want the best, period. These are the right strategies given their sexual functions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 04:01 AM
–	The dating market does not suck for women This is deranged. Most women are so uncomfortable with rejecting people or confrontation of any sort that they avoid it at all costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/24 03:47 AM
–	Women's intuition is the most dangerous thing a woman can believe in. I can't believe how many otherwise intelligent women seriously believe in astrology. I get so disappointed when I meet a dateable woman who takes this seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:38 AM
2	Being Traditional is impossible for men and expecting of them is flat out gaslighting. It's stupid to expect men to be "traditional" in these ways while they're multi-dating. I do it anyway because I'm assertive and high-income and it works. Still a stupid expectation. And like most silly ideas, this one comes from instagram and tiktok. Most women in my demographic do little in their free time but use these apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:35 AM
0	The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying it I am completely indifferent to being alone. A reasonably attractive childless woman in her twenties is never really alone, relationship or no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:32 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Doesn't what you said "it depends on the person" qualifies, doesn't it? That you yourself would fuck some people you would not be in a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 05:36 PM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Are you expecting a peer-reviewed study on the difference between fuckable and wifeable? :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 05:12 PM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. Would you be in a relationship with everyone you would have sex with, or are there people you would have sex with that you would not be in a relationship with? If the former, I'm dubious. If the latter, that's evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 05:28 AM
3	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy That’s different and weird. Previous boyfriends, previous things you’ve done sexually — did it in public? did it in a car? did this or that thing? — experiences on dating apps, etc. — all very different than those questions, which aren’t as relevant to one’s own sexual identity. It would seem way weirder to me for a couple to pretend like they’re each sexual blank slates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:55 AM
3	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy If you don’t care about her sexual history why would you rather not hear about it? I would be interested in all of my partner’s history. Sexual history is important part of anyone’s development into who they are and where they’ve come from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:46 AM
1	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy Yes — I have found this too. Women have very different reactions to cumming than men. For men it’s mostly dopamine. For women it’s much more serotonin and oxytocin too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:44 AM
3	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy Yes. I think about the faces and noises she makes when she has an intense orgasm. It’s so private and intimate. She would never do that with someone else, right? Actually — would she would do that with near strangers? Then I'd be a fool for thinking this is a special, intimate moment, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:26 AM
5	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy It usually comes up eventually if things get serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:19 AM
6	Men Admit: This Is Why herPast Drives you Crazy It’s much simpler. It’s viscerally revolting to imagine another man’s cock in your beloved woman’s mouth. Women don’t feel this same sense of disgust and gut-level revulsion. Women I’ve dated instead were disappointed we couldn’t explore kinky things for the first time together. That’s another catch-22.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:10 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. There’s a difference in leagues between fucking and an exclusive relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:01 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. No. Proportionally there are way more lonely men than redpillers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:58 AM
–	Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league. The bar for men swiping right is: at least average attractiveness and no obvious red flags. Where red flag is being too annoying to tolerate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:57 AM
4	How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections? And knowing she was dating and fucking men the entire time, comparing them favorably to you, since this is somehow the norm now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/24 02:19 AM
25	what experiences with women have shaped your view of them? Orgasm is the surest and maybe the only way for a woman to become truly attracted to you. If you can make her come, she is yours. If you can’t, she is gone. Nothing else matters. Everything else is ultimately optional and forgivable. She will look past everything else as long as you can make her come. In a long term relationship, you need to make her come every week at a minimum. If you do, she will treat you like a king. If you don’t, she will be dissatisfied with everything about you and every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 05:20 AM
1	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. Same. That statistic is about distributions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 04:51 PM
5	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. It’s lookin like undiagnosed autism so far son	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 02:24 AM
3	Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s. There’s a statistic from a paper that concluded that short men’s partners are less attractive and less educated than tall men’s partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 02:23 AM
2	Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards? To some extent, both men and women derive self-worth from sexual validation. Men mostly put down the women who don’t sleep with them but are sleeping with other men, rather than putting down the women who do sleep with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 06:57 PM
4	Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards? It’s not even just to brag about it to other men. It’s to get sexual validation and esteem. A woman having sex with a man is giving him the ultimate compliment and approval to his attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:34 AM
1	Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards? Men have much lower standards on all marks as long as the woman is attractive, and have preferences for certain things depending on taste. But men largely agree on the attractiveness of women, and mostly want the most attractive woman they can who meets their tastes. Men have a second threshold that women don’t have. That’s for attractive enough to sleep with, but not to be in a relationship with. That depends both on attractiveness and taste. Men entirely ignore women who don’t meet a level of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/24 04:30 AM
27	Do men not care about having female friends? Most of my close friends are women. They fun to talk to and hang out with, and are willing to talk about riskier and more intimate topics. I would have sex with most of them at any place or time, but so would I with lots of women in near my demographic, so that doesn’t mean much. I especially don’t pine for a relationship with them. That would feel very weird to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 06:05 AM