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I remember seeing this one blind date on a tv show where a dating coach was set up with this hot blonde girl. He made her laugh all thru the date. The sad part was that she was laughing at how pathetic he was and even pointed it out, in private alone infront of the cameras. Later on afterwards after the date she said a fast “no” for a second date while laughing besides him. The dating coach didn’t quite understand her “no” because she really looked like she was enjoying his company. So, yeah loo…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:12 PM
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Are you serious or are you really bad at joking? Men liked 61.9% of women on Tinder and women liked a mere 4.5% of men on Tinder. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0272775719301104 The more attractive a man was judged to be, the less likely women were to intend to use a condom during sex (r = -0.552, df = 478, p = .007), finds a survey study of women, age 18–32 years old (n=480) (Eleftheriou et al., 2019) https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0217152 …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:48 PM
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Definitely worth it. Put my braces on at 23, now I’m 25 and soon to be taken out. I said no as an idiot when I was young🤦 I have a gape between my front teeth’s, but that’s fixed now.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:16 PM
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😂😂
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:56 AM
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Your thinking straight man. Don’t become like my buddy. He had sex like Casanova without protection and a girl he had unprotected sex with decided to keep the baby. Now he’s taking care of a girl’s baby and they aren’t even together. It was a ONS. Always use protection bro. The look of regret in his eyes I see now is not worth it bro.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 02:53 AM
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Blue Valentine. That movie showcases alpha fucks, beta buxx side very good. Even Rollo Tomassi recommended it. For tv-series, I’ll recommend “You” from Netflix. This series is truly red-pilled. Specially the first season. You’ll get to witness how an beta is in love with a blonde girl but gets to know that she sleeps around while dating him and waiting for him to have sex with her. It’s brutal but it’s quite entertaining. Wont spoil more but this is definitely highly recommended.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 03:17 PM
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Stop watching porn. It drains you physically and mentally. I had the same experience as you when I lost my virginity. Got hard and soft. Stopped fapping to porn and the problem was solved.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:50 AM
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You don’t lose any muscles during a water fast. You’ll lose fat only, because muscles will burn off when your on the line of having no fat left to cut off your body. Check out water fast groups on Facebook. Plenty of groups will thousands of followers. I saw an obese women get in shape just in a few months. I got my abs thru water fasting. Did two 7 days ones 2 months between eachother.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 02:54 PM
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To 70-75 KG minimum. You can go the long route and cut slowly, or do a fast one(water fasting) if I were you I’d do a 7 day water fast, and then gradually cut down to 75 kg. You can take the slow route too by counting your calories via fitness apps(fitness pal) which will take a few months. Depends on your circumstances.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:13 AM
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Was the same as you years ago. Same height, and weight. Thought it was muscles underneath my fat bulk, but damn I was wrong. I had to lose 17 KGS(70KG currently), making me see signs of muscles even after years of training naturally. I would suggest you cut immediately.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:27 AM
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Read Rollo Tomassi essay on “Medium is the message”. I’m sure that will help you.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:36 AM
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Oh man. Isn’t this hypergamy 101 then I don’t know what. She has or wants to fuck her way up. Soft next her.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:07 AM
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Looks like Brian Whittaker but more on the white side. 6’4ft, body of a fitness model.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 04:57 AM
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I agree with black pillers a lot on a lot of topics. The primary one is looks of course, but status and money is also interesting topics. I distance my self from the black pill because it’s very nihilistic. The black pillers have it right when they say that chads get by easier in life in terms of dating and hook-up when it’s a lot harder for the average guy with solid game. My buddy is a typical chad. Doesn’t have to do much, he just stands in a corner and brings home a new girl every week. One …
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:01 PM
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Been there, done that. I don’t necessarily show my wealth on tinder but I’m dressed expensively in my pics, so girls just assume right of the bait that I’m some rich dude. It’s a bad idea. You’ll attract a lot of gold-diggers who want free-meals and will mostly likely use you as a doormat while they fuck around with other guys. Girls have literally confirmed this on femaledatingstrategy/r they’ll fuck the hot guys on the side, while they’ll date the rich guy and expect him to marry her in the ne…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:07 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:47 PM
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People have killed themselves our the sexual side-effects. This is serious. I don’t know why you have a problem accepting that I got post-finasteride syndrome when there has literally been many others that have testified for getting it the first week too on that site. Everyone responds differently. I thought it wound go away after I went cold-turkey but it didn’t like thousands of others have testified on that site. Your suffering from severe confirmation bias. If your on it, you will get the si…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 11:37 PM
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Have a look you ignorant fuck. https://forum.propeciahelp.com/
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:49 PM
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Did I hit a nerve or is the truth hard for you to swallow?
/r/askTRP08/01/21 01:11 AM
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How old is she?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:23 PM
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No, I don’t think so. I certainly don’t. Most of my friends don’t even know what the red pill is and they operate like red pillers because they’ve learned it thru experience. Some are grown into it and some need to learn it. It sounds funny and cringe, but at the end of the day there is a lot of truth to it.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:33 AM
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Bit of cringy. I also have a friend that’s a player and has no idea what the red pill is. I brought it up one time and he just looked at me with a cringe face and laughed it off. Edit: he spins like 4-5 plates right now. He has come to the conclusion that hook-ups will only leave you empty and you’ll seek for a relationship eventually. He says he regrets breaking up with his girlfriend because other girls were throwing themselves at him. He’s quite a shy guy. I guess you can afford to be that if…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:27 AM
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Don’t do it. I did it and I regret it every single day by now. By the time I fucked her, the whole company knew of it weeks afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 12:41 AM
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Being an asshole in general means that you don’t care regardless if it’s a man or a women. Being a nice asshole is being rude but in a joking way and acting accordingly to how the girl respond to it. It’s push-pull game.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 09:19 PM
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I got laid more when I just randomly decided to be more of an asshole. It works wonders.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:32 PM
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I got better treatment from girls when I behaved like a “nice” asshole.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:42 PM
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Found out by asking that my best friend and long time gym-buddy was actually fucking the girl I had oneties for in high-school. He was twice as bigger then me and much more muscle size. We didn’t know each-other back then in high-school so it was all cool when we discussed it years later. It was quite hard to swallow because I just heard about some red pill truths online and this popped up.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:40 PM
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Yeah, it seems like a lot of red pillars here simply ignored the whole text messages they had. It’s very clear even for blue pillers that height is Very important for girls, and this is not only for hook-up but for marriage too. To simply say you didn’t pass her shit test is totally bs. I myself I’m 6ft tall and girls ask me for my height sometimes too before meet up. This is no joke. Height matters sadly, but there are other areas that he can improve on to get laid. Money and status is the way …
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:54 AM
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I heard about a similar story about a girl that made her boyfriend wait for marriage. She was 19 at that time. She was highly religious Christian from talking to her in classes and etc. brought up scriptures every conversation we had😅It just so happened that my alpha buddy who didn’t know the couple, fucked her behind the boyfriends back. My alpha friend went to her local church for a bit of peace after he lost his grandfather. They talked over there and one thing lead to another and bam, she re…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:21 PM
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Lmao 😂
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:18 PM
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Time to dig and research why she isn’t having sex with you. My first advice would be to leave her for the obvious sex reasons. Haven’t you even checked if she might me checking or something? Maybe follow where she goes with your own car? Desperate times takes desperate measures.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 03:56 AM
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You don’t have the be a scientist to know that females love attractive guys. You can’t simply out game genuine desire. A female use their own form of game to reject low value men. Saying they have a boyfriend, or is seeing someone now is a clear sign from them that they don’t find you attractive. Many red pillers simply straight out deny this and say it’s a shit test😂🤦 I once has sex with this girl at my place and it turned out she had a boyfriend. I wonder why she didn’t bring that up when I ga…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 10:00 PM
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That’s a big lie. Try tinder as an ugly guy with game. I dare you. The outcome isn’t the same. Females would rather break rules for the hot chad that has rape-predator counts in his bio. Plenty of tinder experiments on this. There’s also tinder experiments of old ladies hooking up with good looking young men. The sexual inflation of today’s dating market is by all means in the hands of females. Game can only help you get to sex quicker and smoother. It has by no means any importance in weather s…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:52 PM
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In the beginning yea, in the long-term no. This is because females are aware that they have to love-bomb the ugly rich men a few times with sex & love to get them hooked and potentially marry them. The problem is that rich ugly men have to exchange money & luxuries lifestyle to get sex in the long run. This is where the term star-fish sex was invented in the first place. You can’t negotiate genuine desire, but you can pay for it.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:45 PM
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Hair transplant is your best option. Don’t try finasteride or other meds. Fin fucked my life over. Got permeant severe brainfog after 4 days. Went cold turkey after the 4 day and didn’t look back. That was in January. Now we are in December. I can’t work or study either because I have an hard time thinking clearly. Don’t take the poison. Don’t risk ending up like me. Please, I advice you.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 02:02 PM
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Is that why 18 years olds are mostly bald? Or are you just speaking out of your ass?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:59 PM
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The red pill has literally opened my third eye, I’m not joking. Everywhere I go, I see the red pill. It’s not like it’s in the back of my mind but sceneries during a night out or watching a movie instantly sets my red pill lenses on. I quickly notice why certain things happens now which I’m thank the red pill & Rollo Tomassi for. A night out where me and my friend was heading towards a night snack after clubbing was quite red pilling. He was about to bring home a girl with him so she followed al…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:21 PM
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Your only option sadly is to become as rich as possible. That will take your height out of the picture if you want ONS. Add social status to it and your good to go. There isn’t really anything else do besides that, which I know sucks, but that’s life dude.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:48 PM
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Is it a problem for you if she stayed till morning? What’s the issue here? It’s 4 in the morning dude.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:08 AM
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Beard transplant might help.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:27 AM
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I question a lot of red pill knowledge which doesn’t connect with what I’ve experienced and from what I know. This subreddit brings forth a lot of good arguments on why certain red pill knowledge will leave you empty, but that does not mean everything in the red pill is false. I read the ex-red pill starting kit or what it was called, and I found a lot of it to be true. Does that mean that everything else about the red pill is also false. No. See, this is the breaking point where you guys simply…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 12:18 AM
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I would gladly throw away red pill thinking, but the problem you guys don’t want to accept here is that we live in a new age, not the 1960s. Old way of thinking is highly dangerous in terms knowing red flags and long term dating/getting married etc. Do you find it good that the rich man on these popular tv shows like New York housewife’s get divorced and married over and over again without understanding what’s going on? If you do, please continue to stay here. Obviously his issues doesn’t seem t…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 09:48 PM
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Because I got very curious to why you guys became ex-redpillers. I didn’t even knew this subreddit existed. I got it thru some site and it directed me to a post here on this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 02:19 PM
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I believe their interpretation of the red pill is quite misinterpreted. I didn’t believe in the red pill either when I started to read Rollos work, but I suddenly became curious the more I read his books. A few points on why The red pill teachings and knowledge you learn about is precisely what i saw and experience with girls and people with relationships issues. It was not just a few, but the majority of the people i know today. This lead down the “red pill rage”. This is the stage most men her…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 04:40 AM
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No, I do not advocate for nihilism. The red pill has hit you hard & I believe you made the right decision for moving on. As for me, i live under a different life circumstance so i don’t have the same experience as you. I suggest you to look into water fasting since your weight seems to be the problem here. I did 2 7 day water-fasts and lost about 7kgs. For each week. I now am in the best condition in my life. Keep your head up.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 01:24 AM
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So much hate, lol. How typical. Why do literary take everything Rollo says as truth? I never did that. I take what I believe to be true.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 08:57 PM
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The alpha & beta analogy in the red pill is also half false and half truth. From my experience you have to have the “look” to pull of the alpha fucks lifestyle. I don’t advocate for hedonism lifestyle since that will leave you empty. Pua is obviously something I don’t believe in. I approach when the time is right and during friend gatherings and social events. I don’t walk up to 100 girls randomly and expect that it will succeed just because a guy online is trying to make money of it.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 07:15 PM
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The red pill can be toxic if you view it as these guys here view it. You don’t have “spin plates” or do pua as a red piller. Being red pill aware is that your are aware of what methods females “might use”, not all females use these methods like Fds. Did you know that you can be in a monogamous relationship while being red pilled? Does this mean you have to be a narcissist asshole to maintain it? No, but that’s what most men here in this subreddit believe, and of course it’s viewed as toxic and i…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 07:00 PM
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The sad reality is that most men that fail in PUA after 1000 approaches simply aren’t desired. That’s one of the harsh reality of hook-up culture nowadays. Does this mean you should give up? No, only losers do. You don’t have to walk around with guys and approach mutiple girls down the street like some sort of circle jerk every day either. Approach girls that show IOIS, talk to friends in your social circle etc. Find different ways to counter your problems. And no, you don’t have to be a fucking…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 06:17 PM
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I only listen to Rollo Tomassi. He’s been married for 25 years. I don’t listen to old bitter red pillers. I avoid those since it’s obviously toxic and useless information they give out. They mostly just hate, but Rollo is quite different. He walks the talk.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 06:02 PM
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The red pill by itself sounds cringe but it’s what associated with knowing female nature. Does this mean female nature all around the world? No. The red pill is true in most areas in the world, but not all. In different middle eastern countries I believe being a woke guy and promoting hedonistic lifestyle would be a sin by itself. Men can afford to be blue pilled in certain middle eastern countries because these areas still value traditionalism. In the west it’s quite different, and you have to …
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 05:44 PM
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Not every man, but those that have suffered for being a nice guy their whole life and getting divorce-raped. I know plenty of guys that are red pilled simply by being high value and they’ve never heard of the red pill. Nice guys are in desperate need for the red pill. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to act like a complete jackass and be “alpha” to get laid. That’s false indoctrination or wrongly interpretation of the red pill. Being in your own mental point of origin is what I believ…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 05:18 PM
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Just curious. I agree with a lot of the points you guys mention here. The women-hating side of the red pill is true & don’t follow such people. That doesn’t necessarily mean the red pill by itself is toxic, it’s more how you react to it. I believe most men here didn’t like the truth and were stuck the “red pill rage” moment and decided it was more comfortable to be an ignorant nice guy again.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 05:00 PM
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What’s this subreddit problem with the red pill? The red pill has helped me in tremendously ways. Don’t see any toxicity in it.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 04:45 PM
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Is it myth or is it a fact your blissfully ignorant? Should I take a females advice on face value or look at what they do instead what their actually recommending? My sister got outrageous when i confronted her once about red pill truths once about female nature. The day after this happened, she wondered where i got these ideas from. It was from the rational male book series. She didn’t hesitate to buy the book to know more. A week after this she came back to me for advice on her friends ex brea…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/20 03:59 PM
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Your understanding of the red pill is the same as Christian fundamentalists have for the theory of evolution. I don’t think you quite understand red pill knowledge. I agree that some of it is toxic and wrong, but to point out that you have to be “an aggressive alpha” to get laid is hilariously wrong.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 10:31 PM
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From my experience the black pill is more accurately inline with today hook-up culture. More then the red pill, but I agree the black pill is incredibly toxic. I remember a few years ago when I entered a few incel discord servers and it was truly wild the things I saw there. I was there for a while since I wanted to they to the bottom of their thinking pattern the black pill knowledge. After I rated about 15-20 guys since I was curious on how they looked it shook my head. Most of the guys were a…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/20 10:21 PM
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Translation- I love god, but I also love sin. This is why I falsely believe I will end up in heaven rather then in hell. Spinning plate is a sin. That is if you look at your plates with lust, which you probably do. I’m an agnostic but I can smell fake Christians from a mile away.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:10 PM
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You got this whole subreddit to read thru then I guess. Plenty of evidence. Since your still blue pilled I’ll spare you the pain you’ll receive by living the blue pill life. “Na-zi” 😂😂 classic anti-fascist replay. I’m a secular Muslim.
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/20 02:02 PM
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What really is hard for you to understand? Females naturally like attractive men. Anecdotal evidence or scientific evidence isn’t really needed. I just smell from your past comments that your an angry incel denying basic human knowledge. I’m sure you’ll probably need a scientific evidence too for hunter-gather times showing weather alphas got the females or the betas. No amount of evidence will ever convince you, because your suffering from double minded cognitive dissonance. Your also an Anti-f…
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/20 12:07 PM
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Anecdotal?😂😂 before the pandemic started, I went out each week for 5 years straight seeing the black pill night after night. I spectated the black pill every night without knowing what the hell it was.
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/20 10:03 AM
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It’s a combination of both, but yes face is definitely more important. I recently saw short chad(5’8) I would say with his hot girlfriend kissing in the gym. They were the same height too. I’ve also seen tall ugly looking virgins. It’s all about face to height ratio.
/r/BlackPillScience03/12/20 07:54 AM
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She has already rejected you. Move on. This response of her hints greatly that she sees you as a nice guy and a friend.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:56 PM
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Yup😂 A year ago when I looked at that subreddit, one posted about how it was okey to sleep with fwbs while they were searching for Mr.Right. Some even mentioned how they still fucked with their fwbs until marriage😂
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:12 AM
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My friend got laid by his high-school teacher. I saw all of this play out in class and outside the classroom.How they talked and flirted covertly The teacher was also very hot and 27-29 old, newly married. I remember how she took her ring of every time my friend appeared in class. Funny thing is, my friend was rarely at school. The teacher wanted to help him with his courses which he all failed. She even gave him her personal phone-number after class one time, which I personally saw with my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:32 PM
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Do you feel the need to tell your husband what you discuss with your friends?😂 Your implying that you and your friends don’t discuss it, but that’s just one big lie after a another. I would believe you tho if you and your friends combined stayed virgins till you got married which is highly impossible in this age of promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 03:21 PM
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That would be true if you lived on an island with no other humans on it. In the meantime, your lying like most females. I caught my mum and sister take about dick sizes one time when I was about 13 years old. My sister was 15 at that time. My mother is also highly religious Muslim, so don’t come here with lies. Every women discuss dick sizes in private with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:55 PM
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LoL, just like me when I was young. I worked with only girls at Burger King when I was 17. Worst experience ever. They complained and talked about every little thing. They also had a habit of calling hot girls in the drive thru “bitch” or “that hoe” 😂 I’ll never work with only females again.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:00 PM
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“Epiphany phase” is a phase where females know deep down that they can’t continue their current lifestyle anymore, since their looks and eggs are fading away at the same time. They therefore have an “epiphany phase” and starts to take dating more seriously and consider marriage an option in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:14 PM
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Females innate hindbrain does. You’ll get it once you hit your epiphany phase. It’s not like your gonna marry hot guys that have endless options and are more likely to cheat right? You can go down that path, but I think your smarter then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:37 AM
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Yup. It’s called being blue pilled conditioning. Low value men suffer from that mostly, but hey they suddenly become attractive when females hit their “epiphany phase”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:25 AM
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I also agree on you on the part about men. High value men can afford to cheat because they simply have options. The mistake females make, is that they mostly go for these guys time after time, not reflecting over how the last relationship ended. You also got to hold females accountable, not only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:23 AM
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It’s not really the doctor that’s doing the work here. The female is because she is aware her eggs are dying off. She will choose the best mate accordingly then, which is not necessarily based on looks. “The age’s between 27 and 30 are subliminally the most stressful for women as the realization sinks in that they must trade their ‘party years’ short term mating protocol for a long term provisioning strategy.” - Rational Male Here Rollo talks about how this comes about “It’s during this stage th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:21 AM
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I agree with you on some points.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:17 AM
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Nearly all western women of today will hit a wall weather they like it or not. They will act accordingly too it when the wall hits. This means that females will date what they can get based upon the level of attractiveness they have pre-wall or post-wall. This is why we see so many mismatched couples. The husband is usually the one that’s less attractive then the wife because that’s the female strategy during their “epiphany phase”. She will not necessarily marry the hot guy, because hot guys ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 01:41 AM
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Im the same. As soon as i started to talk friendly or be more chatty at work, one of the girls presumed i was intrested and she suddenly added me on snapchat out of nowhere. I talk to females i want to fuck and or "forced" to talk to them at work or at an event.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 09:06 PM
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I’ve meet some of the most disgusting men in my life from work. I tend to see how low value men tend to take care of their looks more, while good looking men don’t because they don’t have too. A friend of mine that has cum-stains in his home regularly brings home new girls from all different parts of life. One was a lawyer, the other one was a teacher, and another one was a student. This has lead me to believe that it doesn’t really matter how clean you are, it’s all down to looks if females wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:14 PM
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They do once they hit their own epiphany phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:44 PM
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Yes, they do. Females feel a high sense of attraction to high value men to the point where they can’t hide it anymore. I’ve experienced this many times just by first encounters and so has my friend too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 03:38 PM
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Why don’t you just take new pics with your shaved head? Blaming lockdown for not taking new pics? What?! Your setting yourself up for failure and girls will most likely see you as a catfish. This will even make you more insecure once she isn’t feeling the date.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:11 PM
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Black pill? I’m trying to discuss the flaws in the “genuine desire can’t be negotiated” and “game”
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:26 PM
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I lost my insecurities once girls made it easy for me and approached me. They gave me confidence. That’s been my experience growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:25 AM
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I succeeded with sleeping with girls effortlessly when I was beta & very nice. Does beta game work on girls? Or was it my face or height that made them orgasm? Why is game being pushed a lot in these communities? Looksmaxxing and facial surgery should be the primary focus for low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:22 AM
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This is so true. I know a guy at my local gym that’s 5’4 feet, and he is very strong on the big 3. He is in very good shape too. Once i got to know him more, he opened up to me that he has it hard with girls. Not a shocker there. I feel bad for him tho, because he also has a lot of female friends at the gym that learn from him over the years, yet no one showed interest..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:13 AM
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How would you explain blue pill alphas then? Do these men hold frame and lose it all of a sudden once they enter a relationship? Why are men that have it good with the girls totally unaware of the red pill community?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:00 AM
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I was broke, insecure and lived with my parents a few years ago. That didn’t stop girls fucking me. I was also very beta. This is why I have problems with some red pill knowledge. I noticed that it doesn’t really matter how I talk of behave, they still come.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:57 AM
1

But that comes back to why game is pushed around so much. Blue pill men around the world get laid without red pill knowledge and that primarily comes down to how much genuine desire she has for you the moment she sees you. A female has already made up her mind if she wants to sleep with you. I had a girl buy me a drink and fuck me later on a night out. I basically did nothing. She fucked me in the female restroom.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:53 AM
1

Why is game pushed around that much then? Shouldn’t it be very obvious when we men approach girls, that they line us up and rate us instantly before moving things forth? Why would using push & pull game matter if she didn’t like how you look the first second she saw you?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:48 AM
0

Why is “game” so heavily promoted here when it’s all done to your looks & height? “Genuine desire can’t be negotiated as it is said by the god father Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:44 AM
3

“Genuine desire is not negotiable” - Rollo Tomassi Why is that red pill community in general advocating for “game” when genuine desire can’t be negotiated? In my experience, looks and height determine genuine desire. Back when I was beta, i didn’t have problems attracting girls by just being myself(being very nice) and I get a sense that genuine desire can’t be negotiated. For me, it was not about how i talked to girl, it was more about how much genuine desire they have for me. Why do men in the…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 04:16 AM
2

And people wonder why the black pill exists😂😂😂 this guy is 6’2 and I presume is in good shape since he has been training for 7 years. I have only 1 pic of myself without no bio & I have no problems getting 5-10 matches a day. People forget to realize that facial attraction is put at a higher standard for short term alpha sex. A nice looking body won’t help a shrek looking face succeed on the dating market. Looks is all that matters to girls when it comes to ONS or getting FWB. No game will make …
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:55 PM
2

Could you explain things a bit further? What did you mean by “things happened”? did you start to finger her and then things happened? You are aware that girls that get raped tend to go own with the act in fear of repercussions? Heard this from many girls. Anyway, why would you finger a girl you see as friend in the first place? All sounds strange.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:43 PM
3

Blue valentine. I’m watching it now. It’s very red pilled
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:04 PM
4

“You” season 1 is the biggest red pill series. That is if your well aware of red pill knowledge. Alpha fucks, beta buxx is the mainly shown in this series in good lengths. Won’t spoil much but you won’t get disappointed. It’s quite brutal ending if your red pill aware... the soulmate myth is shown in this series too. It’s on Netflix
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:34 AM
4

Ignore. She saw you as a side dude, that’s why she contacted you again because her main choice rejected her or moved on.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:50 PM
1

Females put men into two categories Beta-buxx Alpha Fucks The vast majority of females also experience the epiphany phase around the time their looks fade away. Usually around 27 ish. So to answer your question, yes men do get attractive with age but it’s mostly attraction related to what the man can provide for her offspring. Not necessarily physical attraction as that becomes less of a priority during the epiphany phase. What’s “attractive” for females in their early 20s is something completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:48 AM
2

Hes digging his own grave. He’s a blue pill advocate😁
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:52 AM
32

This is basically me. I’m ethnic and live in Sweden, and I compete by having beard. Without beard - zero matches after 2 weeks. With beard - 30-40 matches first week. Having beard has been life saving for me. People tell me I look completely different with a beard. I don’t like having a beard, but that’s just something I have to live with. Even my mother and sisters say I should never shave...
/r/BlackPillScience07/09/20 12:53 AM
97

Brutal. I always knew this to be true but I didn’t have anything to back it up like this study. A buddy of mine had sex with 3 different girls the first week of uni, while my other buddies didn’t get nothing despite trying. This goes to show us the brutal reality we live in. Even my other mates didn’t believe me when I told them about my chad buddy because they are so blue pilled conditioned believing a girl will wait for them once they’ve got their degree in the field there in. Off topic - The …
/r/BlackPillScience07/09/20 12:06 AM
2

It will be a bad experience if your already jerking off to porn. If that isn’t the case with you, then you’ll come very quickly. It’s either cum quickly or having a hard time getting hard or cumming. Either way, it will be an experience, it sure was for me. I fucked her for 45 minutes straight, didn’t cum. Ended it with porn.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:38 PM
88

You have no self respect. That’s why they are using you for laugher because, they know deep down that your a beta simp they can easliy spend some time with. You should have blocked her years ago man. Wtf are you doing? Read the rational male to get your head in the right place and ditch her now!
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:34 PM
0

The part you wrote about men being less attractive then their partners usually happens around the epiphany phase where they are open to settle down with men less attractive then them. Specially when the wall is near. This is due to swift priorities in what they deem attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 10:15 PM
13

Ah, another rule making girl that has to feel “comfortable” with you in order to have full on sex. That’s a huge red flag. She is looking to know you better before she indulge in any rule breaking sex. She doesn’t have genuine desire towards you. She is either setting you up for a relationship where she makes the rules. Signs that she sees you as beta Or She is with you now till a better option hits her up ending in her ghosting you.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:03 PM
2

He’s closed minded. I’ve been on his livestream stream. I regret it now.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:42 PM
1

I cringed hard. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 04:01 AM
1

Exactly. There no such thing as flaking when chad calls her up.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:29 PM
7

Dread game will solve that.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:57 PM
1

Hahahaha, my short friend tried that to a girl we meet one time. She was being nice to him on Snapchat so he decided to ghost her for a few days to spark her interest in him more. What happened do you think? She fucked my good looking friend who told him about it after the days he ghosted her. If you don’t give the homeless man down the street money, will the homeless man chase you down? You got your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 03:47 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:36 PM
1

I had the same experience as you when losing my V card. Didn’t feel anything. Felt more like a never ending cardio session. Only time I felt something was when she deep throated my d. Guess what. I was also a porn addict so that was the problem. I believe you have the same problem. Try nofap.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:12 AM
4

The main reasons i decided to research lookism/BP/RP was not due to my own failures with females, it was because of the success of my good looking friend had every single time we went out. And I mean every single night. I didn’t struggle with females, but I noticed how he stood out in the crowd. So, when I discuss the topic attraction I’m simply called an “incel” here which is kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 03:57 AM
5

When I was at work trip with a bunch of colleagues & other coworkers of the same company we were celebrating 10 years anniversary, so we all meet up at a ski resort with expanses paid by the company. As we meet the other co-workers in celebration we got to know the other coworkers of the different regions. One girl from another region was specifically interested in me and showed IOIS the day of the party. As we were dancing at this small town nightclub she throwed herself at me. She asked me to …
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:51 AM
2

She’s sees you as a long term potential partner. She doesn’t want to have sex with you because she sees you as relationship material. That’s why she stopped you from having sex with her. I’ve heard these stories & posts so many times. She is looking to “settle down” with you before she has sex with you. She is applying rule making because she sees you as a faithful beta. Alphas are spared for rule breaking sex. In other words - short term breeding where there is no rules of excuses to not have s…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 09:32 PM
1

Dread game short explains “When you think about it dread, as proposed, is really a sense of conceptualizing the potential outcome of a losing the intimacy of a partner and the resulting fallout (emotional, financial, familial, personal, etc.) from that loss. Such an overt declaration for promoting a sense of dread conjures melodramatic images of fiendish men blackmailing their women into emotional enslavement to their insecure whims.” - Rollo Tomassi. You’re right, it’s something else. She found…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:19 AM
0

“I’ll have to try you out myself first” Shit test here. You fell for it and failed. You lost your frame when you answered her back. Answer back with dread game instead next time. Or it might just be that she just found a better option on tinder. That’s one way of flaking. This is more likely since the conversation ended with a flake/ghosted. First of all don’t be needy, seconded to that, have options. Make her question why you don’t have time meeting her that day or hour. Girls don’t want to pla…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 03:56 AM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:27 PM
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What a female is attractive to doesn’t change once she’s going to marry. That’s why the 80/20 rule clearly states that a small majority of men are seen are attractive by females. Do these men marry? Yes, but it’s 20%. What about the unattractive 80%? They marry too but I would say about 50% - 80% of them marry someone who aren’t attracted to them. These females are attractive to them, not genuinely attractive to them. It’s completely different Looks is not important when marring a man, money is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:27 AM
2

Females priorities changes as they age. It’s called the epiphany. When a female goes thru the epiphany phase, her priorities changes. This usually begins between the age of 27-34. Physical attractiveness is not a priority anymore, it’s a bonus. So in this case we can turn to the 80/20 rule which states that females find only 20% of men attractive, while the 80% is seen as unattractive. So, yes a lot of females marry men they aren’t attracted too, but it’s natural in a way since the epiphany arri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:11 AM
1

Thanks for that rare honest comment of yours. I’m over average looking(according to tinder) and I have to say that am actually more black pilled then red pilled. There are a lot of lies mixed in with the red pill, while the black pill keeps its raw. The black pill never made me mad or nihilistic. It was like “oh, people are attractive to eachother” did know that😁
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:24 PM
4

He doesn’t realize this because he’s too deep into his own success. Ugly men won’t get the same responds as this guy but this guy probably believes that by picking out good pictures they can succeed too. LoL. My two pictures as shitty & no bio and I still get tons of matching on tinder. It’s all in the face, not the behavior.
/r/seduction05/08/20 03:19 PM
3

Majority of red pillers ignore this. That’s why I’m slightly more black pilled. Back when I was beta, I didn’t have a problem with girls, so why would other betas have problems with girls? Looks. It’s all about looks & the red pillers totally ignore this. I remember one time this girl I had sex with told me I’m soft and cute. Basically saying I was a beta bitch boy. Didn’t bother her at all. Fucked her & she kept seeing me after that. Being beta is not attractive, but it also won’t matter to a l…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 12:19 PM
4

Why do you use the same openers when it previously lead no where? Try something new. Keep it short & exiting. Girls don’t want you to figure them out, they expect you to figure them out without questioning them like “ are you good or bad?” That’s cringy af, and they are well aware of what your doing. They flake on two occasions, one be the texting game is too bad & boring, or they get hit up by a hotter guy & automatically flake. Try pull or push game.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:58 PM
8

What? You were shocked girls juggle dicks between dates? Unicorns don’t exist. They are all whores in some way. Some less, some more.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:47 PM
2

Why the the hell did stop talking to the other girls? Were the 3 girls you talked to even options? She kept texting you and wanted you’re attention, and down the line sex at the end. Is that something new to you? You should have seen her as a plate. Girls that love bomb you isn’t nothing out of the ordinary.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:57 PM
-1

If you look into looks maxxing website or search for before and after incel pics, a guy that went viral shows up there. You’ll have to do a bit of digging but according to his jaw surgery & other facial surgeries, he completely changed compared to his former face. It might come up on google pics if you search lookmaxxing before and after but he did post there. He literally turned into a chad, no joking.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 03:19 AM
1

I agree with you. Coffee to check each other out is good. What am saying is that if a girl has genuine desire for you, she won’t waste time waiting for sex. You might not know this, but this is how females see highly sort after men. Chads in other words. A female breaks rules for high value men. We know this thru how females respond to certain guys on tinder. Some girls will want to a date or have a coffee with a guy they deem potential high value before sex, but those they deem genuinely attrac…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:51 AM
0

If a female doesn’t agree to meet up at your or her place, it signals that she wants to make rules for you. Go on date or take a coffee is rule making unless she sees you as a chad. Tinder is chad territory. It might sound nihilistic, but it’s reality.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:14 PM
5

You should have moved on after her first excuse for not going on the date. Medium is the message - Rollo Tomassi. Whatever the medium is, is whatever she subconsciously signals to you to say she is not really interested.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:55 PM
3

He makes a lot of good claims which is true if your ever read Rollo Tomassi work. As we all know you can’t negotiate genuine desire from girls. It’s there or it’s not. If she adds guys to her roster of beta orbiters, she is basically seeking approval and attention. If a girl makes rules for you, then she doesn’t have genuine desire for you. A girl that breaks rules for a guy simply shows that she is willing to be in his frame due to his high value. Being in you’re own frame automatically removes…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:00 AM
1

Nothing went wrong. You asked her out and she was forced to make up her mind and show you her real desire towards you. Sometimes girls seek out attention by sending nudes to guys even tho they aren’t interested in them. Happened to a buddy of mine. Attention is like sex for girls. Don’t overthink it. You can choose to move on or talk to her further more. You’re life, your choice.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:32 AM
1

“Any visible peeling will be light and fluffy and easily controlled with moisturizer. “ Not only can she hide her peeling but she can also put a bit make up upon that. It could also be that she just finds herself ugly with the peeling but you were down to meet up despite that right? she is making you wait for sex. That’s called rule making in the red pill community. Females don’t make rules for men they deem high value/attractive. They break them, which is something she didn’t despite her horny …
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:50 AM
3

Girls reschedule meet ups all the time. Good sex is never worth the wait, and she knows that. It could also be that she took a few more looks at you’re pics and was unsure if she really were attracted to you. I would say keep contact with her but at the minimum. Let her know that you’re the prize. Most likely scenario in these cases is that she will say that she’s busy on the reschedule date and flake on you or she will just block you on that day & move on. Conflicting answers is just excuses fo…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:36 AM
1

Let me get this right before I answer. You wrote that she looked fine to you despite her telling you she had facial peeling? Just found this on google about facial peeling. “Recovery times will vary based on the type and strength of the peel. Immediately after the peel, your skin will feel tight and may be red. Any visible peeling will be light and fluffy and easily controlled with moisturizer. Peeling usually lasts 3-5 days, depending on the actual peel treatment.”
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:25 AM
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When a woman cancels a date/hookup, she's telling you that she has zero interest in you. If a woman is interested in you & is excited by you, there's no flaking, cancelling plans or forgetting to text back. “Medium is the message” What I mean by this is that when a girl gives off contradictory answers to previously “I’m into you” texts it means that the medium is the message. You can’t negotiate genuine desire. If she has genuine desire, then her words would match her actions towards your texts.…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:17 AM
2

I love the ignorance of people that say that tinder isn’t reality but this guy proves it all alone by posting these daliy reports.
/r/seduction26/06/20 08:25 PM
0

Don’t forget to wash you’re hands BrO!
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:10 PM
-12

That photo is so accurate. This sub is filled with incels in denial. Some people here just won’t accept that they aren’t attractive to girls period. I’ve talked in the most creepiest way to girls with little to no social skills and I still get their phone number and add another one to my lay-count. People really forget to realize that looks is everything. I even had a girl drag me to the female restroom once so we could fuck. I didn’t even say hi to her or knew her name.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:08 PM
1

I don’t have any social life or friends. I still manage to do well on tinder. Girls simply don’t care when you’re attractive.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:01 PM
2

Have you tried tinder?
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:57 PM
3

Yes, they do. Women’s unlimited pool of options have lead to the rise of incels. I like how every guy on the comments says that they took their life together and worked on their confidence and they suddenly got girls after that. It’s not that you were ugly, it was just that you started approaching more girls. Black pill science tells us over and over again that personality and behavior does not matter one bit when it comes to mutual attraction. That’s probably why so many hot girls are in toxic …
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:10 PM
2

What would you say is the main reason girls reject you? Just curious since you’ve approached a lot.
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:51 PM
2

Some girls show interest in so many ways it’s impossible to know what’s what. A girl & me in where alone class in high school. She closed the classroom door and started walking towards me. There was just her and me in the classroom and the door was shut from the inside by her. She started coming face to face to me while I dropped my pen. She didn’t say anything. She just looked at me. She then started to like my right ear like a lizard which made me horny. After that she shoved my head into her …
/r/askTRP19/06/20 03:28 PM
1

So if genuine desire can’t be negotiable, then why do you game?
/r/seduction15/06/20 02:54 PM
1

It sure got me angry. The thing was that it was in an Barcelona nightclub so I didn’t understand her well and I didn’t know what they were talking about. I saw that she talked to him but she said to me that he was a friend. Later on when they drank together with the drink I bought her, I saw her laugh and make out with him...
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:27 PM
1

When I was blue pilled to death 5-6 years ago I bought a girl a drink thinking she was interested in me. I later on found out that that drink I bought her was for the chad she spoke to besides her.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 03:15 PM
1

Move on. Medium is the message.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:48 PM
3

That’s what most females do to seem polite. Look at her body language, not what she says. If she was interested, she would have stopped right away, but she obviously wasn’t if she kept walking. Don’t approach a girl from behind either. That’s creep as hell unless you’re a chad.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:42 PM
5

Her behavior is a sign that she thinks your a creep. If you get that reaction, don’t waste your time. Move on to the next. Pointless to talk to someone who isn’t even looking at you smiling or heavily engaging in the conversation.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:29 PM
2

I like how your girlfriend is virtue signaling. Would you mind filming a private tinder session with her girl friends? That would be more accurate. There’s is no need for bio on tinder. I never had one and I still match with hot girls. That alone puts your whole video to waste.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:25 PM
1

No offense, but don’t act like a chad if you aren’t one. Being cocky and rude only works for top tier looking chads. If your not that, then it’s actually seen as bad behavior by most girls. Those rules are broken for chads. Girls sometimes make some rules for guys and sometimes absolutely fucks the rules if the guy is one of a kind(chad)
/r/seduction22/05/20 04:50 AM
1

You’re not being honest to yourself. Start by fixing that. You say that you have good game, good looking and confident but somehow struggle to open? Makes no sense what so ever. Confident doesn’t come out of thin air. It comes thru having options and knowing that you can generate more in the future based on past experience. Do never buy into seduction material. It’s a waste of money and a ripoff. All of them are. Just approach and talk normally and if she rejects you, move on to the next girl. D…
/r/seduction22/05/20 04:45 AM
4

This if half reality. The other half isn’t showed.
/r/seduction22/05/20 04:22 AM
0

This is the dangers of the blue pill. The last part was cringeworthy af.
/r/seduction22/05/20 04:08 AM
2

Is that why David Beckham sounds like a girl? Bullshit study.
/r/BlackPillScience15/05/20 11:26 PM
3

You’re wrong. Females put effort into their makeup to manipulate men into thinking they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:52 PM
1

I’m not an incel but I get why there are incels and the black pill. The black pill is backed up with 1000 studies so there is really no point of you trying to “understand” incels because incels are incels because their looks. And looks is backed up by scientific evidence. And if a girl wants an incel, he’s not really an incel. More like volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:46 PM
4

That’s not necessarily true. Post wall women with or without kids will either fuck younger glow smv guys or chadlite if they are pretty enough. My short friend fucked an single mother once that was 36 years old. He was 24 years. Being young for post wall women is a value by itself for old hags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:52 AM
2

Those that ignore the black pill are; females and blue pill men. As for myself, I don’t have an hard time with girls. Well, that’s according to tinder. I actually have 2 half ass pics of myself without no bio, yet I match with plenty of hot young girls. On the other side my short friend has to sprinkle his bio and take amazing pics to even get a few matches which ghost him anyway. I really feel bad for him since he’s my friend... Those that ignore the black pill should be ashamed of themselves. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:50 PM
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Gotta give it to you man. You’re one of a kind. Most less attractive guys would have given up after 100 approaches but you kept going.
/r/seduction02/05/20 05:19 PM
16

Brutal bro.
/r/BlackPillScience25/04/20 07:41 PM
2

Yeah, it’s called “Chris Hemsworth”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:15 AM
3

You do realize that men can see thru your bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:33 AM
6

I’m that guy. I’ve lost friends because this. I have approach anxiety and fear rejection. I also have a porn addiction. Every now and then when I go out with my friends I always have a girl that approaches me. I simply let the conversation die out even tho I’m attracted to her. I’ve had countless of men telling how is going with girls because I guess they see me as some sort of chad. They all get shocked when I say I don’t talk to any girl. I’ve even been sexually harassed by girls. The thing is…
/r/seduction17/12/19 03:41 AM
1

Not generally good looking, but good looking for her. My chad friend had to install tinder because it gave him an headache from all the girls that wanted him. He is currently talking to 6 girls now. This is a good looking guy, not a guy that’s only had this experience as this girl had.
/r/seduction14/12/19 06:16 PM
3

Put her in a cage
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