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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Michigan: found out spouse is having sexual relations with a man during our pendency period Nah. She could have sex with a man in your house, in front of your eyeballs and it won’t make a difference. It sucks, but it changes nothing unfortunately.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/21 04:48 PM
2	Does anyone else read r/divorce and see a ton of toxic women? Oh I’m sure it goes both ways, but yes. Definitely yes.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/20 10:02 PM
5	How will this all look to a judge for custody? Get a lawyer. Yesterday.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/20 05:52 PM
3	Should I be petty af!? You’re dissolving a corporation now. Yeah she did you wrong, but be the bigger person. Let her friends think whatever they want. Don’t let your emotions get in the way of you making calculated decisions that will benefit you in the long run. The longer you can play it close to the vest, the better it will be for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/20 03:09 PM
5	50/50 Fathers out there You got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/20 06:22 PM
6	50/50 Fathers out there Talk to a lawyer. Clean up your social media and litter it with pictures of your son. Keep a log of everything. Pick up and drop off times. Use it to show a detailed record of how stable you actually are. Have taxes and paystubs ready. Create a budget and show how you stick to it with bank records. Also, be a good dad.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/20 06:16 PM
10	I learned to fold a fitted sheet this weekend Liar. No one knows how to fold a fitted sheet. Otherwise, great job my man. You’re gonna kill it as a single dad.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/20 10:05 PM
9	Wife left and.... Lawyer. Now.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 07:19 AM
3	She is rooting for you Yep. Changed my life. Not just in dating.	/r/seduction	28/10/19 06:32 PM
5	Does it really get better? It can get better but it’s up to you. The great part is, that you can be and do whatever you want right now. Dress how you want, eat what you want, watch what you want. During the first six months I wallowed. But then I started hiking, going to the gym, going out. Things got better. For me, one of the best things I did was go to the Library. It’s free, comfortable, all the books you could want and most of all, it’s not weird to be there alone. The best books I read were: “The subtle art of not g…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/19 05:31 PM
4	I can't unsee what I saw. Agree here!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/19 07:17 PM
2	I can't unsee what I saw. It’ll get easier. Take the pain. Drink the booze. Do all the divorce things. Then get your ass up and do the stuff you want to. It gets better.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/19 06:37 PM
1	Wife confessed to cheating Agree with this. But a few one night stands to get your confidence back is worth it. Just be safe.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/19 08:36 PM
3	Wife confessed to cheating Lawyer. Gym. Tinder. Lawyer some more. Get a counselor. Get back on tinder. Don’t drink or smoke too much. Lawyer some more. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/19 08:12 PM
1	Evil is what comes to mind It’s disgusting that someone can do an about face like that with little or no explanation. I’m so sorry you have to go through this!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/19 08:26 PM
3	The fight is long, hard, and ridiculous at times... but it does end. It doesn’t end there. Sorry😕	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/19 05:27 PM
8	STBX took $6k out of savings — why? Lawyer. Now. Don’t move out. Don’t do anything until you get a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/19 08:30 PM
1	Any advice for a brand-new soon-to-be divorced guy? Relax. You’re a different person now than you were 7 years ago. Focus on yourself in a self-care kind of way. Focus on passions and real service. You’ll be more confident as you go into a new phase of life and likely find someone naturally as a result. I’m excited for you. Thailand sounds like a hell of an adventure. You’re 38 not 98. You’ve got a lot of life left to enjoy.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/19 04:29 AM
1	Any advice for a brand-new soon-to-be divorced guy? Yeah I think a change of environment is a great idea. I have kids so I’m pretty limited in how far I can go but I did move. I got a new wardrobe over the course of a year. I got really lean about stuff and I think getting rid of clothes and getting a new place helped me a lot. I just wanted a fresh start and I think Thailand sounds like that for you. Don’t stress about finding someone. There’s some awesome woman out there that’s in a similar situation to you. You’ll grow and change a lot in the …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/19 05:25 PM
3	Any advice for a brand-new soon-to-be divorced guy? Hobbies. Cut ties. Gym. Tinder. Read or listen to two books by Mark Manson: ‘The Subtle art of not giving a fuck’ And ‘Models’ It’s been a long time since you were single. Don’t jump into a relationship but don’t sit around and mope either. The best advice I got was to look at like business now that it’s really over. Dissolve the corporation and move on. Best of luck my friend. It gets better.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/19 04:36 PM