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–	The only way to successfully flirt is to be physically attractive In fact yes, i understand your frustration. I think indeed having autistic traits is similar to being blind - people who can see have problems coveying the obvious difference between green and red to a blind person. Similiar when someone is socially "blind" - the "vibe" cant be explained. Luckily, i think most people are not blind but maybe need active training of their underdeveloped social recognition apparatus. exposure, mentoring, self-reflection....which will improve their "social" viewing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 12:56 AM
–	The only way to successfully flirt is to be physically attractive They are highly situational and specific to the person. What about reading a body language book ? Or taking a trainer here for becoming here more sensitive? Ps: ah, maybe the easiest is , taking actually a dancing course, literally	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 09:28 PM
–	The only way to successfully flirt is to be physically attractive But she is right. It is often a dance. Understanding the subtile signs and respond to them, synchronizing slowly ... And here autistic people fail, not noticing these subtle signs and not responding appropriate	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 08:55 PM
1	Why do you think men are more right wing than women? disagree. People bring children in this world and society as they believe and work for that there is a good future. Raising a family and experiencing family live is the most natural way of becoming and positively experiencing and learning being social and selfless - as it works out better in the end for all. I guess the current rising of narcistic people who don't want to take the personal compromises and steps is also due to that many of them are single childs with helicopter parents - they nev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 06:46 PM
-1	Why do you think men are more right wing than women? It's because people become less empathetic and more selfish after they have children. Quite the opposite. If you bring children to the world you will care MORE about the state of world and society for a good future of them - investing in their future instead of your good life now. I'm quite sure current rampant & world destroying consumerism is also partly due to people having less children and therefore consuming more (they can). More holiday flights, more avocado lattes etc. instead of a eco-f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 06:33 PM
36	Amber Heard admits to hitting ex-husband Johnny Depp and pelting him with pots, pans and vases in audio confession. bored old people my experience was that these were sad, bored young people on a power trip - the old one were more interested in finding a compromise and dialogue	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/02/20 02:17 PM
8	'Shy and awkward’ student, 19, who googled 'how to make a friend' then touched a schoolgirl, 17, on her arm and waist while trying to chat to her faces JAIL after sex assault conviction this shit is normal societal learning of boundaries - women were always strong enough to enforce their borders against such harmless contact tries of unexperienced men. both need the experience of contact approaches to handle them more appropriate in future. avoiding this learning process is harmful for both young men and women.	/r/MensRights	11/10/19 12:17 AM
2	Woman sexually harassing her male neighbor I agree. (native too...but on the other hand, maybe these people have seen too much cheap TV shows) PS: Austrian accent?	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/10/18 08:59 PM
1	Woman sexually harassing her male neighbor sounds like a bad German TV show (I have seen German TV the voice accentuation is like TV and not like normal persons) PS: Austrian accent not German	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/10/18 08:57 PM
17	300,000 Subscribers. The Reddit Administration Tacitly Endorses Male Abuse and Denies its Victims If path is easy you are on wrong one. I think you touch some deep truth.	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/18 08:48 PM
2	The end of TRP if they want to change, they will. If they have guidance and know how and which direction to change. Mentoring IS crucial.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/18 04:15 PM
2	The end of TRP Without anyone guiding them, without a decent male role model, But the mentoring part is TRP's role, the legal/society change part is MRA's part	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/18 04:03 PM
4	Let's quarantine r/TheRedPill then link to a site that perpetuates how "toxic" men are and how they should behave in ways that best serve feminist ideals. It is a really interesting subreddit in content and tone, especially if contrasted to TRP. Also, while RPW comes from the same origin and acknowledges the validity of men's RedPill subreddit and their strategies, RPW is well aware that the strategies and goals of both are NOT overlapping very much.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/09/18 03:47 PM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. Well, i would say these are just inpolite, not well socialized people. I'm not quite sure this would be even toxic masculinity or to blame, e.g. shaming tactics of outsiders are more prevalent in female circles. And I think men bantering is a resilience test and training, if they would mock you for waering makeup and you keep your cool, you would earn their respect and would be gifted a beer afterward. Toxic masculinity is for me more excessive focus on power over others: gang culture, warlords,…	/r/MensRights	27/09/18 05:49 AM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. Nah. Men have no desire to oppress their own mothers and daughters. They'd have to be a race of psychopaths. Another strong argument against that is: we humans swap our gender position roughly every generation. Too strong bias in one direction would be purged from the gene pool fast. I believe our roles as men and women in societies are different for good reasons (specialization) and balanced in power (while having different leverage & power sources): in the end it is about being as successful a…	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 07:12 PM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. well, I would argue the qualities which lead in excess to machoisms ARE the qualities needed for men taking their part in society. A little bit "macho" is required to be a successful, contributing man; it just should no became excessive but moderated. And moderation happens with education/feedback by other men e.g. fathers, mentors, superiors etc (PS: I didn't downvote you)	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 07:06 PM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. Human beings choose their own purposes I don't agree, at least not 100%. I believe we have also responsibilty for society , family, future, nature etc. Not only for ourselves. Society serves us but we also have to serve for society, or the society will break down.	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 10:16 AM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. none of my business and it's not my place or my responsibility to tell him he's doing it wrong. It could be argued he does not live up to his potential and is not fulfiling his duty and purpose for society. We live not only for ourselves but also for our family and society.	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 08:24 AM
1	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. Besides, how many times has "Come on, bro, you got this!" been more helpful than "Stop being a pussy!"? sure, the tone makes a difference. But I think men need to be challenged to be capable to endure hardship and resistance, to learn to stand up for themselves - a capability highly valuable for them later in life and their social group, e.g. also the women in their life, who than can rely on them	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 06:13 AM
9	"Toxic" masculinity? Kids say otherwise. punish each other for not being manly enough But here is the thing, the playful version, challenging version, in the youth among young men seems to be required to develop masculine qualities, like resilience, strength etc	/r/MensRights	26/09/18 05:01 AM
22	Conclusion: Banout 2018 has been shutdown after they were told to wind their fucking necks in by the Admins some of nature’s instinctive behaviors with our intellect. I agree, but not being capable or allowed discussing these topics weakens the capability of a society to respond and prevent such tendencies.	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/09/18 09:48 AM
3	3 Desirable Qualities Of Masculinity, According To My Female Therapist proceed to make shitty decisions in the moment that bite us all in the ass down the line. Oh fucking yes. My boss loves to do decisions as fast as possible, to take credit & prevent that someoneelse takes it. Then this crappy decisions are forced on everyone as "we decided so we (engineers) have to make it work". I hate it.	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/18 07:02 AM
11	Australian public broadcaster publishes Fake News, claims men are "overwhelmingly" responsible for violence against children. Statistics show women are. These organizations should be defunded. well, the intend is legit. The idea is to have a counter balance against private organized media which act as propaganda machines for the interest of media oligarchs. I think they refer to the 1920s in Europe where this happened.	/r/MensRights	21/06/18 08:13 AM
4	TRP is an ace up your sleeve that is not to be shared with others. I'm a huge fan or Jordan peterson though. Yes, I believe too Peterson is the gateway drug for mainstreamers who have the feeling something is not quite right about current social reality but can't put the finger.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/18 08:43 AM
1	Why isn't "fat acceptance" simply dismissed with "nobody owes you sex"? Starving and poisoning is not the same. in this case it is both: you starve from missing enough energy from a proper source (fat) and you poison yourself by trying to extract energy from proteins only which results in too much harmful metabolic products	/r/MensRights	13/04/18 10:25 PM
1	How to stop being so egocentric? The other comment about being on guard is on point too. I'd imagine you oscillate between an extreme guard and anxiety, and extreme emotions. (I could be wrong, just my experiences speaking). If that's the case, as a guy its really shitty. I cant lead, or guide, i cant take any control, and im getting all the flak and instability. It's like being a fly on the wall to your own relationship. And, its kinda a massive irony. Your constant desire for stability and security and intimacy become the ver…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/18 10:35 PM