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Yes please do share it with her! It’s wonderful to write something people relate to, and I hope she enjoys the wanderings of a fellow traveler 🥰 I hope you enjoy the others, not all of them are as good, but feel free to share around, it’s why they’re there lol Thank you for telling me about your grandma, I teared up a little reading that. I still have hope everything will work out, but a lot of the time these days I figure that’s my own inner bias lol No rush responding to my essay of a response…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:18 PM
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...Actually I wrote a little thing on this topic I’m kinda proud of, if you have a few minutes I’d love your thoughts http://www.brazenshe.com/2020/11/21/hand-me-down-liberalism-taught-me-some-expensive-lessons/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:24 AM
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Your perspective from working retail is very interesting. Staying home, you might not get to raise them as you want to, per se, but at least you're the one who's there, you know? I have not been able to do most of what I had wanted to do as a parent, but it's turned out I was just the thin edge of the wedge and so many others in my generation are realizing that we don't get to Have It All, we have to choose - Work or family. My family makes it work bc his mother lives with us and throws in on th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:35 AM
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Thank you, I think you’re following me just fine. Sorry if I was obtuse, it’s a lot to fit into a comment and I was trying to keep it short lol Financial independence is obviously desirable, personally my skills and talents are not the kind of thing that make big money, and when I tried to branch out I hit a wall of unsustainably long hours for low pay, even with certification. We’re talking everything entry-level, from nursing to IT to shipping to industrial. I was handicapped by having my son …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:45 PM
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And in order to contribute your 50%, you have to sign your kids away to someone else to raise. I know this isn’t the most popular angle here, but childcare is more than a chore, they’re saying thousands of infant deaths have been prevented bc moms are staying home due to COVID. It’s very difficult to maintain a family with one income these days, so they’re not the only ones putting pressure on us to work. But if we put the band-aid on that problem, who raises the kids? And what if you actually w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:08 AM
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Hey, he can’t have my yard work, it’s the only time I can get people to leave me alone! Lol And mine is a better cook than I am, he enjoys it more and I love it when he jumps in. It’s all about division of labor. To me, a HVM is there to work with you to get things done. He’s gonna throw down whatever he’s got, whether it’s typical macho stuff or not. He also works his butt off to support us, and it’s actually hard to watch him dumping buckets out of the sinking boat of this economy :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:52 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:04 AM
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Haha is it that obvious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:11 PM
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I tried that! Lol Seriously tho, ringlets, freckles and dimples make it difficult to look scary. Enjoying slipping into middle age tho, invisible is better anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:57 PM
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Of course not, but it’s funny how putting them down makes them want you more. They’re so susceptible to the same effects they use to manipulate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:50 PM
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So, negging works both ways! Lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:39 AM
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Not even kidding, how did you manage to get that much time to yourself?? I have always assumed it was because of my bright red hair, but I have never gone so much as a few days without being chatted up, propositioned, leered at, groped or otherwise bothered. A couple of them have actually just opened with, “So, you’re a nympho, right?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:38 AM
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No way, because then it would be their fault. And everyone knows the dick is never wrong 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:33 AM
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You know, “different life goals” might be the most diplomatic description of why incels and feminists often disagree lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:31 AM
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Yep, just another double standard. I’m loving how it’s getting picked apart and the solutions codified and shared. This is power, we have strength in numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:29 AM
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Please don’t ban me, I know this is an unpopular opinion but, looking back at my 20s, I was so clearly looking for someone to pair bond with. It’s close relatives of the urge to reproduce, but also about acceptance, homecoming, all that fuzzy stuff. Now watching my teenage daughter fight it in her turn, it’s easy to write it off as just a Disney complex but boys do it, too. Pair bonding (whether you believe absolute monogamy is the goal or not) is a very powerful urge al through life, but especi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:55 AM
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💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:51 AM
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Came to this same conclusion a while ago lol It feels like failure to not be able to snark on your feet sometimes, but I ended up deciding I’m okay with being bad at hurting people, even if they deserve it. I’m not in charge of judging people, or policing the world. I can just move on about my business. It’s actually a pretty big relief!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:36 PM
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With so many of TV me running around, we’d have to lease a continent to fit them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:52 AM
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👆👆👆THIS!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:49 AM
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It’s projection, he’s feeling something so big he wants to smash it into those who triggered it. And if he could, he very well might. Because he’s already practiced rationalizing it to himself. Projection isn’t always strictly psychological. The really unbearable mental pain causes us to strike physical pain in others to push it away from ourselves. This fellow is the most boring, garden-variety narcissist, and I bet most people who know him have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:46 AM
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Roflmfao omg did you make that up?? Either way, I’m totally stealing it 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:30 AM
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I think the question that needs answered is, what do we want them for? Because, of course we can do all this stuff! Who do you think kept everything going while the men were off fighting and dying in whatever that generation’s war was? If stuff broke, we couldn’t wait for The Men to maybe come home. We had to fix it! Time after time, we set up shop for ourselves (literally and figuratively) and then they’d burn it all down (or steal it!) when they got back. Which is why there are so few books or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:56 PM
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That’s what that show is about?? I stayed away from it as more girly garbage from the beginning, because I’m an awful hipster like that. I had no real understanding of this plotline, and now I’m wondering if the whole show isn’t satire along the lines of American Psycho. Lots of people mistake that one for glorification, too....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:20 PM
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