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I don't know about asking them not to use one, but most women aren't going to tell you to put it on. Women prefer to fuck raw in my experience. Even if they don't know you that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:06 PM
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People ghost because rejecting is uncomfortable. That's literally it. Any other reason stated is just a cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:27 PM
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This is delusional. Your algorithm is brainrotting you lol. I'm also not either of those things. It's just a fact that virgin men are shit on way more for complaining at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:29 AM
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For either gender not having a kid is going to make you more desirable in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:00 PM
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Honestly if the older male virgin wants to be upfront about being a virgin, he may not have a choice but to go after another virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:54 PM
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Even with the height and body, I still have to put in a good amount of effort. I'll get easy hookups sometimes, but while dating I can go 1-2 months with no coochie. Most dating for straight men with options is still a lot of first date rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:43 PM
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I didn't mean "gotcha" as in it was a bad argument in this context, just that it's framed in a silly way. "Why don't you just download grinder and have sex with gay men if you have no options?" is constructed as a gotcha. Your last two sentences frames it in a more constructive/direct manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:13 PM
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It's way more mainstream to invalidate men's experiences with dating than the other way around. A femcel ranting is going to get way more support in normie spaces than a man doing the same. Especially if either call themselves ugly. Inkwells are all extremely bitter, so of course they're going to get upset at a bunch of mentalcels (no offense) who just need to download an app to get a date whenever they want. But yes in general, men are way too mean to fat women online. Although women are catchi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:04 PM
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The arguments to this are terrible as usual. You could deny pretty privilege or really any privilege with this logic. Most privileges come with some cons. Having more sexual and romantic options is a privilege, full stop. Most women don't have to fuck/date unnattractive men, they have plenty of attractive options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:42 PM
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Women who have casual sex are doing it with men they find attractive though. You could make the argument that it's actually a privilege to be left alone and not have so many people attracted to you (because of the attention), but attractive people are usually way more confident/mentally healthy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:30 PM
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Taking a shot is probably better for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:19 PM
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Most of the white knights here are older and probably homophobic to some degree. "Women don't like attention from unnattractive men, therefore you should go on grinder to fuck men" doesn't make sense as an argument no matter how many times they say it lol. On the apps you're only receiving attention from people you find attractive initially. Having options is a privilege no matter your gender. Gay men are not viable options for straight men lol. It only makes sense as a response to "women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:07 PM
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Molly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:28 PM
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You gotta hug him before the reaper does, more like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:27 PM
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Would make me head turn for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:23 PM
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Yeah I'd say so. Both men and women seem to prefer male comedians overall. I think men have the advantage where they are more comfortable being authentic with their delivery, and they don't care about coming off too offensive. The truly funny women I've met were effortless with it. So much of it is mannerisms/delivery and less about actual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:02 PM
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I've dated about 50+ women on the apps over the years and the OPs opener is way better than what you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:23 PM
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Every women I've met irl thinks he's hot. Reddit is the only place where women say he's unnattractive. But yes, men on reddit have a hard on for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:15 PM
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It's more like a desert vs a place where people are dating and finding compatibility. Women start at the latter, some men start in the desert. If they ever improve enough to get some options, they end up with the same dating woes as anyone else who can actually date. People who call it a "swamp" tend to just be super picky and can't find anyone that they like that also wants to date them long-term. Basically, struggling men aren't even in the race. It's not really comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:18 PM
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A lot of these people got married to the first person they ever dated too. Like bruh a virgin who gets dates on an app unironically has more dating experience than you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:51 AM
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He literally says it in the song, "All this coke like I'm nino" Every single bar in that song is some hood shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:34 AM
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Dexter. His inventions actually worked. In that one episode he was making jetpacks and shit as a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:28 AM
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God what a fucking loser you'd have to be lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:44 PM
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They most likely interpreted their argument in the most bad faith way possible, like everyone on the debate side does. That or they were arguing with a man larping as a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:37 PM
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To be mogged is to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:05 PM
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I've honestly never dated a woman like this. I'm not the type to chase super hard but the times I have, it was a complete turn off for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:44 PM
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I honestly just don't think "do you find this group attractive?" questions are useful, especially on reddit. It's mostly an issue with people not being self-aware enough to answer these question accurately, and how often both genders will just completely ignore a certain side of their partner if they check enough boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:23 AM
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Yeah, when you are super bitter the last thing you want to do is date yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:20 AM
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I don't care enough to look through post histories, but I'm going to guess that's not how the argument actually went.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:13 AM
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I don't care about a dance pole, but women should 100% get shit on for this mid-life crisis type shit the same way men do. Especially the nipple piercings lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 04:09 AM
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Considering how many women had boyfriends and husbands who supported Trump without realizing it, I think these types of questions in the OP are pointless to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:48 AM
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Those "natural" female bodybuilding competitions are all full of women on anavar at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:48 PM
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Or they just don't believe it because they got rejected once by some dude way out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:40 PM
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You can catch them like 30 mins later lol. The number of times I've heard "we really only want the guy to be taller" then I'm like "oh what about that 5'6 guy, he's taller than you" they will respond "oh no that's too short!" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:35 PM
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I thought the other two were hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:32 PM
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Yeah it's super important for LTR. I just took "SMV" in your post to mean the ability to date/fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:05 AM
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A very small part of it that you can easily fake, sure. When you're dating you're going to be fucking way before they even know 10% of your true personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:34 AM
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Queen shit 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:30 AM
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I hit em with the "don't care didn't ask + I mog you".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:21 AM
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95% of the time when people call a guy "feminine", he's just a masculine looking dude who has a good hairline, pretty eyes, and naturally thick eyebrows/lashes. Feminine looking men typically have round features on their face and look below average/ugly because of it. It doesn't translate that well on a man, while women can get away more with having sharper features. It's the same reason women think female models are so beautiful and men don't care, because they're more masculine. Women aren't g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:49 PM
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This tracks in my experience. All the ugly dudes at my high-school who got the most pussy were the bullies and drug dealers. Hot dudes could be whatever genre they wanted, obviously. Although I feel like this dynamic is mostly with very young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:33 PM
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Yeah, or an argument she had somewhere else that she completely misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:35 AM
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Yeah true. Last year I was "single" the entire time but going through another slut phase. All those women I was dating were also telling others they were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:28 AM
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If it's a small town where "nothing ever happens", get ready to be absolutely railroaded by two dumb rednecks if you're the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:16 AM
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Personally for me, wide hips >> any other aspect of the female physique. Butt is a close second.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:09 AM
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Her giant puffy eyes hold her back. I find her attractive, but a dude with an equivalent face would be called ugly by men and women tbh. Mostly because he wouldn't be able to draw contrast with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:04 AM
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I don't think so. His examples are just showing affection in a non shallow way. Both should be chasing each other in this way imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:48 PM
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Okay I saw your other thread with her name. I'd say he's like 5.5 with beard. She's 6.5.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:12 PM
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Mine gets distorted going to the gym so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:10 PM
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Honestly don't know who they are. But yeah this is an unflattering pic because her eyes are so puffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:51 PM
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Hmm idk most of my female friends are just bros. There are a few that I find attractive enough to have sex with, but I don't have any romantic feelings for them, so it's whatever. I'd understand why a woman I'm seeing would be concerned about it, but it's just not something I'd ever bother doing unless I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:01 PM
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Looksmatched based on this pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:56 PM
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I'm saying I don't think the body positivity movement did a good job of making people love their bodies. No need to get personal, I find big girls attractive. I've dated and known enough big girls to say that the majority are still deeply insecure about their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:54 PM
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In my experience women don't touch your arm like this unless they are flirting, at least if you're around the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:17 PM
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Snow bunny central
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:16 PM
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Women definitely still hate themselves for being fat. The movement failed the second it got hijacked by people 200+ pounds overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:55 PM
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Dad bod is a misnomer. 90% of the time what's being referred to is a muscular guy with higher than 20% bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:53 PM
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Honestly I do too when I'm bulking lol. BMI guy is either morbidly obese or jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:41 PM
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That and voice is pretty big. Like you'd personally do well irl in America because of your aussie accent (I'm assuming you have one). Women here love aussie and British accents. Hinge adding voice clips to profiles probably helped a lot of dudes get matches they normally wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:36 PM
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I'd say the 20% thing is true for the most part. But it's easier to charm a woman irl that would never swipe on you. The 20% is also different for every woman, with some overlap obviously. On the apps there is the 5% they would swipe on, while the other 15% is a "maybe" that actually have a chance to talk to her if it's irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:22 PM
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You don't really need it, the dating apps have already shown their swiping statistics. They've only gotten worse since then lol. The question is how much does it translate to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:07 PM
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Just depends on how much you were actually trying in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:43 PM
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The second guy, but only because he's actually shooting his shot. Even an introverted gym rat is going to dwarf the success of the second guy if he starts to actually ask women out. A lot of the time "confidence" is just a misnomer for traits someone likes about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:24 PM
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They pick and choose for that rule more than any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:50 PM
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Tutorial mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:40 PM
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Yeah it's like telling a man to go find a woman who isn't a neurosis monster. Most men are twirling their mustaches as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:38 PM
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The height just opens the door to talk to them tbh. I notice this a new thing people do where they'll carry your corpse for weeks when they aren't interested. I usually just stop talking to them or throw out a "so we hanging out or nah?" If they're actually interested, they'll make time to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:29 PM
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Hmm when you consider the biological differences, this isn't too bad honestly. This is why I try to make them cum before I do. I feel like after men cum they lose the horniness quite quickly (they also get tired), which is a big part of why they might not finish off their partner. I know people like to cite gay couples and do the "straight man bad" thing, but I genuinely think if women orgasmd as fast as men, or if men could easily stay horny/hard after an orgasm, this gap wouldn't really exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:34 PM
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I meant you are underestimating how many women are having casual sex, not that you are doing it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:25 PM
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You definitely are. Casual sex is just sex before commitment, mostly everyone does it when they are dating. For some reason people think casual sex = hookups and FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:19 PM
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"The majority of misandrist are men" women in the comments calling men rapists I love this place lmao. But yes, red pillers are misandrist similar to rad fems and FDS types. That's not the majority of men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:10 PM
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God damn is there any contraceptives that actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:41 AM
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Some fakecel alt girl with the tizzy is a dream gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:38 AM
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It all comes down to confirmation bias basically. Attractive dude dates women who hookup with him, it turns out badly = don't trust these hoes, find a wholesome girl Dude who always has to wait has bad dating experiences = always filter for raw attraction I'm in the second camp because I don't encounter these turbo hoes that fuck you on the first date then make your life miserable. Most women who wanted to fuck early on were completely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:23 AM
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Depends on bodyweight. A really skinny middle school kid can probably do as many as a jacked dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:18 AM
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Most people would say for the green card, but like Leos said, it's the novelty. Foreign women love me even though we have nothing in common. Being a big white boy with blonde hair and blue eyes supercedes any compatibility issues. To American women you're just any other dude they've seen a thousand times, even if you are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:16 AM
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If you're not saying what they want to hear, no amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:00 AM
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Gun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:58 PM
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It is actually because of France's legal system though. If you're old as fuck and serve enough time during pre trial, they may release you. It was 6 of them and they were probably in poor health. They should rot in jail, but that's just the western court system now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:55 PM
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Don't worry, as the people who spam refresh on this thread would say, n count doesn't matter!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:32 PM
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By this logic there's barely any misogyny on reddit either. It's all just critiquing each other's behavior in a generalized way. Also the comments on that thread are way beyond just critiquing behavior lol. It's peak brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:53 PM
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I just avoid barbell overhead completely now. Great way to fuck your shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:50 PM
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I'm pheromonemaxxing at the moment, so only once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:24 AM
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You're geekin too much, you need to lock in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:16 AM
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There's probably more pedos on reddit tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:08 AM
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Yeah she's like 16-18% flexing hard after a pump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:05 AM
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The posters who think she's more than 20% BF are actually r worded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:05 AM
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The Midwestern emo bands should be in the sad category.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:32 PM
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They'd have to be extremely low libido, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:53 PM
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Most likely comes from people making excuses for women when they do something wrong (I see this on reddit a lot but it's reddit), and for the universal experience of women never apologizing when they do something wrong (especially to a man/their partner). The latter is definitely something I've experienced hundreds of times personally. It's like the "men never do house chores" thing, it's just an amalgamation of people's personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:08 PM
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Pretty close, chadlite definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:26 AM
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Lily is just baiting. She's almost too good at it. I know it's bait and I still want to tell her she's objectively wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:02 AM
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Until you walk into a Walmart in America 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:00 AM
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That is true, if a woman doesn't conduct the first date like a formal interview, she will die 😞.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:57 AM
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Never with you. In fact I'll become unemployed to help you in your crusade.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:51 AM
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If it isn't a LARP, it's weapons-grade you know what at the very least. Edit: you can't even warn people that it's a report farm without getting modded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:50 AM
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Sorry babe, you're right. I'm being abusive right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:45 AM
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That account is just to bait and farm reports like half of the "female" characters that post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:41 AM
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I see it frequently. Spreading their brainrot in more normie subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:00 AM
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This place is the spiderman meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:13 AM
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Eh, most people don't make others wait nowadays, you guys are the minority (in the west anyway). It's just confirmation bias that making them wait = guaranteed relationship. Both of my LTRs were from having sex on the 2nd-3rd date. Making a guy wait 6 months typically works on men who were already in love with you, are low libido, or really want an LTR and don't have many options. But after 2-3 months of nothing, a lot of men will assume you do not find them physically attractive and dip out. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:11 AM
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Not gonna lie, filters are making OLD unusable for me. Every single picture. You have to try and imagine what they look like without it. Never let a woman accuse you of being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:35 PM
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I got sad when a chubby woman tripped in front of me. I'm basically an empath.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:22 PM
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Hot dudes started negging at some point and told average/ugly dudes that it works, I think. There is no other explanation for how that became PUA advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:11 PM
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I feel that neanderthalmaxxing is underrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:01 PM
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This place is on a "only trashy/poor people make poor dating decisions" kick and it's genuinely hilarious. You can tell how sheltered these people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:59 PM
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Never said it did. That's just the stock response people throw out. They deny it and then say women aren't shallow like men. I think men and women are equally shallow and your pickiness is just dependent on your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:18 PM
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Eehh it's not a secret here, but if you tell anyone irl "women only find 10-20% of men attractive" you're going to get a lot of shit. And probably a "no, women aren't as shallow as men."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:18 PM
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Not surprised some of the women here used to be on FDS lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:08 PM
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It does, but just because you're jaded doesn't mean you'd want to date someone jaded. Fat people go for fit people. Broke people go for rich people, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:04 PM
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I haven't found older women to be more "difficult". You typically have to be more of a dancing monkey for younger women. In general I've never found the whole "older women won't put up with your bullshit" thing to be true. They really want a relationship and will give you a lot of grace usually (which isn't a bad thing for online dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:34 PM
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Got an 85.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:05 AM
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The average dude isn't fucking an average woman on the apps lol. That's where I come in playboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:34 AM
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Yeah I feel like this is one of those things where most women would be proud if nothing bad happens to their husband. But it's so easy for your man to turn into worm food if he doesn't know what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:24 AM
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Modern. I don't make enough money to be the sole provider. I also like chronically online shitposting type gals (aka women who are funny).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:18 AM
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Just lie homie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:04 AM
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How did you get rejected, they said no to meeting? I've converted those before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:29 AM
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Same. My guess is "casual sex" means instant hookup to people here. People aren't having casual sex all the time, but definitely when they are dating, especially in the 18-35 range. Shit my cousin dates in the 45 range and he says it's crazy up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:23 AM
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On reddit there's definitely more men defending women than women defending men. Like by a country mile lmao. Not really sure about irl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:07 AM
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I've been on reddit for a while and there's always been popular female oriented subs where they are just shitting on men 24/7, before the manosphere ever really got popular. Even the dating and AITH subs are a lot of "men bad". Reddit has always been a gender war honestly, but they've only really cracked down on the mysgonist subs in recent years. It should only feel biased on reddit because it leans heavily liberal. Like if you go on IG/FB, mysgonist run that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:42 AM
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Not really sure what the point of these threads are. Everyone arguing against it is going to be a rad fem who just says "doesn't exist" as their argument lol. The gender war brainrot flows both ways, that's obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:33 AM
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Yeah, relationship experience is vastly different than dating experience. Which I think a lot of married couples here don't understand when they are giving their dating takes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:25 AM
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Yes, shave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:05 AM
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Those experiences are pretty important I think. Dating really early on shapes your expectations and preferences. Going out and having a blast in your 20s reduces the feeling that you missed out. It's never too late to do those things though (unless you have kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:02 AM
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I gave you an updoot to combat this hateful campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:00 AM
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I don't think it does. That "good enough" attraction builds over time, which is the cornerstone to most LTRs. But the kind of attraction where she's doing porn shit on your first hookup is something that is more monkey brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:14 AM
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We're either operating under a different definition of casual sex (like those survey studies) or we just have insanely different life experiences. I think out of all of the women I've dated, maybe 2 didn't want to have casual sex? Most people have sex before commitment. I can only think of 2-3 people I know past the age of 25 that haven't, and one is a virgin. When the women here claim that most women don't have casual sex, I once again start to question if people on reddit live in a different r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:05 AM
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She was objectively wrong, but yeah some age gaps don't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:55 AM
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They don't hide the body dysmorphia at all. But yes once you're past the point of somewhat low body fat and a bit of muscle, it's either about aesthetics or becoming as strong as possible, not health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:51 AM
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Coulda fooled me!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:46 AM
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It also doesn't help that every argument these people don't agree with is boiled down to "complaining". The OP would be this subs biggest complainer if we applied the same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:40 AM
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So I tried the we aren't compatible thing and she asked why. I said the cultural barrier made deep conversations difficult (she's Latina). Then I did a massive cop out saying I wasn't in a good mental space for this. But it's done 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:29 PM
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"Our conversations are boring and you're way too vanilla in bed" just seems too brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:50 PM
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God I hate breaking it off with people after 2-3 months of dating because they always ask you why. AAHHHH.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:30 PM
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Holy shit, you can't be serious lol. No, it was a textbook strawman. His argument was: "If men did A, the effect would be B". You interpreted it as "Men do A because B would happen if they didn't", then made a snarky retort. I don't even agree with his argument, but you didn't argue what he actually said. It's genuinely funny that you are implying we throw the word around "strawman" incorrectly when you quite literally did it, then came up with the "concern trolling" as to why. He's clearly not …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:53 PM
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Yeah if you're tall, women will just tell you they don't date short dudes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:24 PM
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So you read his comment correctly and then strawmanned him? That's not much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:18 PM
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He said that would be the effect, not the reason men have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:14 PM
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I guess it depends on what he's ranting about. If the dude is getting rejected for being short, and then complaining about it, that's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:09 PM
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He's a genuine fucking nut job. I'm a libtard but I'm begging Republicans to bring back Bush/McCain type 🥷 s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:02 PM
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All the women I've dated from 20-34 loved my muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:35 PM
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MeToo had a bigger effect on neurotic men than women in general tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:26 PM
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Lmao you may be the goat of this place tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:05 PM
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6'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:23 PM
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And I'm saying it could make sense for a young woman for a lot of reasons. Just depends on the individual. Sometimes I feel like I'm the blue pill one around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:37 PM
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Then she just rejects him? The point of the post you responded to is that it makes sense that a 30 year old virgin would also be with someone inexperienced (older female virgins are extremely rare), not if he could pull them or not. Also with this logic, no women should date any virgin unless they are the same age and have a good excuse for being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:30 PM
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Because she finds him attractive/likes him? Lol. Could be like a thousand reasons honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:15 PM
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There's definitely just people spamming refresh with the sole purpose of reporting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:44 AM
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Do you only swipe on the hottest men? Feel like they should at least be messaging you to try to get some nookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:49 AM
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Does it cease being sugar dating if the two end up liking each other romantical? Like what would be the difference between that and a boyfriend just paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:44 AM
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My dad doesn't have a single iota of twink DNA in him, I would have never looked like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:32 AM
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She's above average even with the slight lazy eye tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:26 AM
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It's not really a contradiction. They are saying you are choosy for the wrong things and end up in shitty relationship. Whether or not that's true is a different thing. You don't really have to lower your standards, just change them for a better chance at a healthy LTR (their argument). Now telling women that when they do this, they're just settling, is the contradiction lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:10 AM
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Shoe lifts are fine tbh. You can just say you are "taking care of yourself" and improving your attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:01 AM
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All women are angels, nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:57 PM
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Funny loser, little bit of the tism, introverted, lower than average neurosis, hot, high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:41 PM
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True. Even though these types of people are way more likely to do the job well. I told my manager to stop hiring loud charming people if he wants a functional department.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:35 PM
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God this is so fucking accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:26 PM
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It's less unrealistic than 6ft+ only tbh, from a statistical standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:44 PM
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It's a pretty dumb rule in general, ethnicity is a huge factor in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:58 PM
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You're like the BMI guy but with hot twinks, the most rare subset of men that don't exist after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:18 AM
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Honestly if she groomed an ugly dude, no one would care lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:46 AM
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Hmm not sure I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:43 AM
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You can honestly just message him anything and he will probably go for it. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:42 AM
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Women here will typically not argue with other women I've noticed, even if their take is more pro man or just deranged in general. It happens but it's rare. That one mod is the only one who does it consistently. The simp dudes here will NEVER disagree with a woman, though. I've been lurking here forever and maybe seen them do it once or twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:00 AM
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Jesus christ it's not even fair. Test really is the magic juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:34 AM
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I'd be ugly as shit as a woman despite what FaceApp thinks, so probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:30 AM
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No hot women are evil they need to swipe on me NOW if they want to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:22 AM
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Is his job to stay alive in a nightmare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:20 AM
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No bro they are going to force you to fight at 45 and you're going to get chewed up with 0 chance (me too).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:11 AM
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Wrist is mostly genetic but bro didn't really work his forearms at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:46 PM
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That and I do like 6-7 hours of cardio a week when cutting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:43 PM
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Yeah there's no fucking way lol. Most bi men have told me they can't even date straight women while being honest about their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:12 PM
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I can lose 10 pounds a month consistently when I'm cutting and at a higher body fat. Anything more than that and you're risking a gallstone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:00 PM
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Yeah I've said "subhuman" in a way less inflammatory way and gotten modded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:55 PM
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Attractive man good, unnattractive man bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:58 PM
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Correct. This is another aspect of why it's so difficult, on top of trying to find a woman that finds you physically attractive. For a dude with unfortunate genetics where these strict gender roles don't come naturally, he's on nightmare mode basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:06 PM
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Yeah her response to me implies that everyone is self-aware enough to know that their standards are hurting their chances of ever finding someone. I feel like a lot of the posters here don't actually interact with normal humans outside lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:15 AM
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One of my best friends is a woman and I still can't treat her like one of the boys, not 100% anyway. I'd hurt her feelings too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:15 AM
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It is easier for men to burn fat, but for us to stay in that "fit and shredded" range requires a lot more work than what people consider the ideal body fat % for women. Women don't really need to build that much muscle to look good. While men typically need about 20-25 pounds of it to have a mid physique, that takes a while being natty. There's pros and cons obviously. Men have an easier calorie range to work with, but their "ideal" look requires a lot of dedication and hours. Women get fat easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:47 AM
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The takes here are always in an alternate reality, it's hilarious. Men mass swipe because reading the bios of 100+ profiles is typically a waste of time for them. You can sit there and read bios when your first 10 swipes are enough matches to last you a month, but if you're match rate is like 2%, you're turning dating apps into a part time job (with no pay) carefully looking at every profile. Also, descriptive bios will hurt you as a man. You are better off having one or two funny lines and leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:32 AM
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I mean never encountering any drug dealers is just sheltered if anything. I grew up in one of the richest counties in America and knew plenty of drug dealers lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:53 AM
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This place is getting strangely classist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:43 AM
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Incorrect. She needs to be barking at me by the end of the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:36 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:19 AM
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2nd one is a bigger ego boost for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:16 AM
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That sounds really expensive, but I guess we did just cut a bunch of federal fat for this great use of taxpayers' money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:11 AM
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To be fair, it can be good advice if her standards are things not really related to physical attraction. Like needing a guy making 150k+ or something. But I'd only give that advice if they are actively complaining about not being able to find a "good man". If she's completely content on remaining single forever, then throwing out that blanket advice can be pretty obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:31 AM
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Yeah it's understandable, who knows what's going to happen to abortions and contraceptives in the next 4 years honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:14 AM
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A good chunk of them on the debate side are radfems. I don't mind arguing with radfems, but it seems like you can't check them on their crazy takes without being called a virgin or red pill instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:11 AM
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Were you never planning on having kids, or were you planning on having them but are genuinely afraid of JD Vance sponsored breeding camps?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:53 PM
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I've noticed this when I say straight male dating is harder than other group's dating. You'd think I just said we need to create breeding camps or something. Women on reddit (specifically) do not like it when you say an aspect of life is harder for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:42 PM
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Not sure about perma'd but he has been suspended a couple of times, with his daily reminder stuff getting deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:16 PM
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You also seem to get banned for spamming the same subjects, like the raw physical attractiveness guy. Basically a mod gets tired of it and declares it a "looks" topic. But the gay dude can post the same looks related threads over and over. So it just comes down to if the mods tolerate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:02 PM
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Cryptic retorts that don't really address the argument is a good strategy for getting the last word I guess. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:36 PM
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Other people being wrong is unrelated to me and this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:59 PM
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Chadlite and Stacylite, it's beautiful to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:48 PM
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Mostly because straight women's dating is black pill, which is technically blue pill when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:41 PM
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It's genuinely painful to watch him debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:38 PM
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This is why lying about your height on a dating app is fine. You are technically 6 foot in those platform shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:36 PM
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Yes, in other words, unnattractive men have to put in more effort because women are pickier than men. Because men have testosterone, which makes them hornier. I'm glad we reached this conclusion together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:00 PM
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"A lot" doesn't mean all. Yes, and those guys aren't complaining about not being able to get dates. The OP is implying that men wouldn't struggle in dating if they put in as much effort as women. A man who struggles with getting a date is going to have to put in a lot more effort than a woman in general. It's a silly point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:52 PM
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An average women does not need to do any of this to be attractive, which is my point. Light makeup and a sundress and you will have 500+ dudes who want to be your boyfriend. Shit, my fat female friend with a bald spot can get a boyfriend whenever she wants lol. It's not comparable to the fat or short dudes who needed to spend 3-5 years in the gym to get a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:35 PM
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For a lot of men getting a top 1-5% physique is literally their only way of becoming more attractive. Women don't need to have a top % anything to be attractive. A lot of the "effort" you guys put in is just to impress each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:22 PM
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You can't seriously think these things are the same as building some top 1% physique as a man (half of these are the same thing too). Women can put on 20 minutes of light makeup and a sundress and they're fine. It's not really comparable. The only women who really know how much effort you have to put in to be attractive are the ones who started out fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:46 PM
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He's half right. It may not mean anything. Obviously them messaging you is a better indicator. But I've swiped on women I found attractive but for whatever reason never messaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:10 PM
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We definitely find more women attractive than vice versa. I think most studies on the topic back this up. Apparently I'm very picky for a dude on the apps, my right swipe rate is like 20%. But the average women's swipe rate is like 3-8% or something. But yes, you are right that someone matching with you doesn't mean they find you physically attractive, but that's also true with women swiping on men. Honestly most people on these apps are not looking at bios before swiping, especially Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:16 PM
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The milk truck has arrived 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:12 AM
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It's very sexy. And if you are in a dead bedroom, give her a request for sex form.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:50 AM
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Well let's start with short or fat dudes with okay jobs, baby steps. Then we can work our way down to ugly and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:39 AM
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He's not anywhere else on her page, you may have gotten baited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:36 AM
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The amount of c word going on right now is crazy. Especially over the Russia/Ukraine thing. Like bro has only been president for a month and he's already helping one of our biggest enemies conquer land lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:30 AM
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You said you're from MD, me too. How is using dating apps for you? I feel like I see a lot of black women, but they never swipe on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:24 AM
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They're top 3 funniest group on reddit for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:16 AM
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Are you applying this to only women? I feel like all the best looking male physiques put you in the overweight category.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:05 AM
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Your baby definitely looked like an old balding man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:54 AM
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Tfw women who like bald dudes want to date babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:42 AM
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If she had a compatible personality and wasn't ugly in the face, I'd commit. She's overweight but it looks nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:39 AM
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But to answer your question and add some sanity to this place, yes women have average boyfriends. I'd imagine the women here have decent looking boyfriends though. Most of the face reveals have been attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 AM
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I don't think this guy is average tbh. Good looking kid, just a little too skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:19 AM
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Raw. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:17 AM
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How the fuck was this upvoted lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:16 AM
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Probably gay men just because most of dating is casual sex while finding out if you are compatible, and two men are going to have a good time doing that. For finding a relationship? Women, especially organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:55 PM
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If I lower my standards too much my pp won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:43 AM
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Tru that's a bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:36 AM
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Name one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:31 AM
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It's great at isolating the glutes though 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:30 AM
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I honestly assumed you were much older because of the name. Not to say I haven't dated women from the apps who didn't put in effort, but from like 22 to 30 I've probably dated about 60ish+ from the apps (one was my ex) and I think I put in more effort for a large majority of them. I don't mind it, but that's just been my experience. The funny thing is some of the most fun to date were incredibly difficult to initially get off the app, like pulling teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:56 AM
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You mean like their profile? Most female profiles are just 6 selfies and a one-liner. After you match, it's basically the man doing 95% of the courting. No offense but have ever used dating apps, and when? This comment feels out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:41 AM
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How do the pink pillers explain this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:20 AM
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I'm more making fun of the way it's always framed. No one tells women to be terrified of their husband and brothers, just random men. It's a very hard sell, even though statistically, that's who is going to kill you. People in close proximity are always the ones you should worry about killing you. They have more of a reason to do it and the access, strangers don't. So the logic doesn't really follow. Like it's genuinely ironic that we tell people to be afraid of strangers killing them but at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:19 AM
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I was horny and in my "personality is king" phase, but it was actually my butterface phase. I don't want to come off as a complete asshole here because I know this place has a lot of genetically unlucky posters, but it's true that above average dudes will go after an ugly/below average girl because it's an easy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:14 AM
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And when good things happen to good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:07 AM
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He definitely backed off this one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:05 AM
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New psyop idea just dropped: make this a horror movie and women need to collectively agree to call it the scariest movie of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:04 AM
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husband kills their wife = "any random man may kill you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:52 AM
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This is actually a smart move by him. If he gets enough status as the ultimate incel, he may get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:41 AM
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Elon is the most shit on person in the country right now and it's not even close lol. It's actually a herculean feat to get shit on more than Trump when he's currently president.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:37 AM
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I actually dated a woman who was the white version of this (face wise, she had a much better body). It's actually weird how close it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:32 AM
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Women on tiktok love that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:24 AM
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I think overall women are like 2% more obese, but it depends on age group, ethnicity, location, etc. They may be more obese where you live. In America it's about equal with women out in front.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:20 AM
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Men with average penises are programmed to think this way for their own mental wellbeing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:16 AM
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Yeah same, I've only seen that with older couples. And they're usually both obese. I can't remember the last time I've seen a young obese dude out with a skinny girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:10 AM
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Men are more "overweight" according to BMI, which doesn't really mean anything tbh. Looking at obesity rates is more meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:06 AM
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Yeah it was him. The other one was Paul Dano.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:56 PM
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I don't think that's the intention. It's just hyperbolic and gets the sentiment across. "I was raped in court." It's like teenagers saying they got raped in that Call of Duty match. It's over the top/crude on purpose. Divorce robbery would make more sense to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:17 AM
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The meta changes every couple of months here I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:04 AM
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I am assuming smash means a hookup or easy casual sex. Hot guy is getting a lot of all 4. Easy mode. Decent looking guy is getting all 4 with less frequency, especially matches and random smashing. Has to put in effort. Average guy is probably getting substantially less matches than the two above, but he can maybe smash every once in a while. Probably gets flirted with at work or when he's out if he his really social. Slightly ugly isn't getting any matches or much attention irl. If he is charmi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:37 AM
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One time, these two young girls jumped a bigger woman in the bathroom and she ran a fade on both. The two girls were all fucked up, was wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:10 AM
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You're narrowly defining "getting annoyed easily". I've worked with both men and women long enough to know women have outbursts way more than men (getting upset, crying, whatever). It's just scarier when men do it. Although my first office job was pretty equal between men and women losing their minds. Funny enough, when I worked in a warehouse 70%ish of the fights were between two women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:02 AM
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I'm good friends with the women in my department. They tell me everything. One of them has a boyfriend and has been trying to sleep with some of the married men in the company. The married IT guy was having an affair with one of the girls in marketing before getting fired. One of the sales reps has fucked multiple women in the company and has pics/videos of it. I don't know why this is so unbelievable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:53 AM
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If either are really hot, their lives are going to be piss easy anyway. But yeah when it comes to dating specifically, Chad has it easier imo. I don't think really hot people need to be sugar babies, they can just find someone they genuinely like that will take care of them regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:44 AM
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Just buzz cut it bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:37 AM
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I guess it depends if we are talking about truly ugly women or just mid/below average woman. I feel like actual ugly women don't get this benefit, but they're pretty rare as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:31 AM
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This is just my office, but most of the single women are having affairs with the married men. That or the douchey salesmen. Like my office would just further red/black pill these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:05 AM
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Well it's a debate sub and you have like a billion comments here trying to debate. Trees and fruit, gotcha lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:50 PM
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No wonder everyone wants your seed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:54 PM
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The issue is more he's terrible at debating and only does it to get the last word. Like he could be objectively correct, but if you debate your view that poorly, then it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:38 PM
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Yeah a "bad boy" can be anything from a guy just looking the part or guy who is a raging asshole to their girlfriend. There's so much in between. I think women tend to find the one you are describing attractive, he's sweet to her but isn't afraid to fight another man, maybe he commands other people, isn't super polite, does a rugged/dangerous job, etc. I figured this out pretty young when I won a fist fight in high-school and got a surge of female attention. A lot of the unsuccessful dudes at my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:22 PM
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There are rare times when it definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:07 PM
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Yeah I have too much life experience to see perfectly normal, middle-class women going for the "bad boy" to just hand-wave it. I don't think every woman that goes for assholes is trashy, they might be, but it doesn't mean that. Romance novels wouldn't all be the same and so popular if that was the case. It probably more has to do with low inhibition and being anti authority. It screams "confidence" to younger women. Although the women dating drug dealers are probably trashy. Or they're just into…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:43 PM
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I'm not quite that hot, I need some text game unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:36 PM
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None of the responses (who are arguing with the OP) explained why this advice is given to dudes who can't get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:19 PM
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Yeah which doesn't even make sense in the context of when this "advice" is given 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:03 PM
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I still can't decide what sleeve I want to get after like 2 years of thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:42 PM
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I just think it was way more badass than what Luigi did. That dude didn't give a fuck. Too bad he didn't practice shooting a little more. He was planning to bomb the democrats if he couldn't get near Trump. Bro said anybody can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:51 AM
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They tend to heavily pick and choose what "looks" threads mean anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:47 AM
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No you're definitely a gay man, you're too funny to be a woman (I'm joking ladies don't come at me). It's not someone who posts on the daily, just the debate side. It's also possible they're just the ultimate male "pick me". Honestly most of the LARPers are on the debate side. "I'm bi so I've dated both genders and this gender is the worst" type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:31 AM
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I'd put this in the "silly" category then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:30 AM
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To be fair, Trump is a much harder target and a more impactful one. That dude had way, way bigger balls than Luigi. It was a suicide mission. Luigi just sorta ran up on a dude. Literally cannot fail that unless the gun jams.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:14 AM
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Yeah it sounds made up, but I've been accused of something similar for accidentally cumming in a girl I was dating. She jumped on my morning wood, and I was half asleep. I kinda just laughed it off. Not sure how bad it would have gotten if she called the cops though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:12 AM
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There's one where I know 100% they are a woman LARPing. But no "witch hunting" sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:04 AM
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Did the comments agree? I feel like calling Hechinger ugly is pretty wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:00 AM
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I was responding to the OP who was comparing the two like they were equal. Yes I agree it sucks when your partner puts your looks down, regardless of what it is. I just don't think women are as insecure about their vaginal aesthetics as a lot of other things, like their nose for example. It's pretty low on the totem pole. A weird/unfortunate body shape when the clothes come off would probably be a better comparison. But yes your last paragraph is a good example why it's a bad comparison, it chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:50 PM
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Luke warm take, but people have more control over their weight than if they feel lonely/depressed. But we call it the "obesity epidemic." I do agree that it's not a male only issue, it's probably just worse for men with how we are socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:36 PM
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This is why it's hard to take the "other side" here seriously in comparison to the red pillers. They're just as silly and bad faith, maybe even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:31 PM
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That's already the popular opinion though (which isn't really true). Men definitely will select based on looks, but personality is pretty important for an LTR. I've had like 6-7 women who wanted to be my girlfriend when we were not compatible AT ALL. I genuinely have no idea why they would want an LTR with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:03 PM
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I honestly think zoomer/younger millennial women are more keen on bigger dicks than older generations. Most likely because you can use the internet to order dick like it's door dash. Back in the day it was just luck of the draw. I'm like 6 inches when I'm low bodyfat, and I've been rejected for it once (she was a size queen). And had two other times where they implied it was small. I think most men just don't have a high enough body count to experience this stuff. It is what it is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:54 PM
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It's just one of those things where people on reddit underestimate how important it is, while dickpill people overestimate it. If you're 5-7 inches, you're probably good unless you come across a size queen. But yes, the smaller your penis is, the more difficult it will be to find a woman who finds it acceptable. It changes the functionality of sex after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:43 PM
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She might be, depends on her height. Typically when people look good at a high BMI it's because they have a lot of muscles in their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:34 PM
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I think the only reason women look "more similar" is because they all put on the same 3 makeup styles. Which once again is not what you really look like lol. Not to mention, women come in all different body types, probably more so than men. Men also care less about dating different ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:25 PM
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I'm not saying women don't get shit for it, I just don't think it's very comparable to dick size shaming. In scale or consequences for having it. Having a micro penis is 1000x worse than having a "roast beef" vagina or whatever edgy dudes online are calling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:43 PM
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Ugly people are rare, but the worst luck is to lose a bunch of weight just to be below average. But yes, if you are fat, you don't really know how attractive you are until you lose weight. In your case, you need to start with diet. I know that's easier said than done when you are depressed (I've botched cuts while depressed), but it really is an issue of locking in or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:18 PM
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The number of times a woman has been rejected for the way her vagina looks can probably be counted on one hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:20 PM
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Even when you agree with them they report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:49 AM
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My guess is they think it's going really well, find him attractive, want to have sex, so she goes ahead with it. But once the guy ghosts are becomes uninterested, they feel betrayed and act like they were tricked or used. For the guy, it could be a lot of things. Maybe he just wanted to have sex, something embarrassing happened, sex was bad, or just felt like a LTR wouldn't work for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:42 PM
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I don't know. But women complain about it all the time. They even complain about it here when they claiming that men are bad. Guy has "LTR" in his profile. They fuck on the 3rd date. Guy ghosts. Girl complains. That's typically what the people here are referring to. Not instant hookups where both agree to just fuck, although I'm sure people catch feelings in that situation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:17 PM
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It's probably the biggest complaint from women about dating in general (at least online). The dude who just had sex with them then ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:13 PM
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Nah I find women over 30 attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:37 PM
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It's whatever. I kinda get it, she wants to get her nut with a hot guy who actually knows what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:09 AM
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A lot of these women are just looking for a fuck honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:04 AM
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I'm surprised the older women here who say they get a lot of male attention don't ever argue with this account. Well I'm not surprised, I just think it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:01 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/itanq5jcfeke1.jpeg?width=931&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0158aef60a4a39e931ccfda134814bdcfac3447 He said "nice attractive rating you fucking dipshit now check this out"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:55 AM
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A girl tripping being an ick is so funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:34 AM
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Then she goes off to sell platinum rap records. It pays to be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:15 PM
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Trashy women are kinda good in bed though. I can understand why a virgin would be jealous that a bad person is getting that super soaker 9000.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:35 PM
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Honestly normies still say that shit on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:57 PM
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Wrong messenger for this. But idk, society is actually pretty hostile to older male virgins for simply existing. They have to hide it a lot of the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:48 PM
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I've been excluded from "girls only trips" my entire life. Literally no one would give a fuck if I complained about it, in fact I would have probably got made fun of. The "reverse the genders" here thing doesn't really work imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:44 PM
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Most people would have 0 issue excluding a son in a "girls only" trip lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:40 PM
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People are learning not to engage with "nothing exists" man, smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:30 PM
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Hmm maybe 30%, most of your comments aren't shitting on someone from my memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:16 PM
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Nah there's definitely groups you can do it freely to, especially on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:56 PM
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Not surprised, he's mean as shit in like 95% of his comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:59 AM
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6'5. Funny enough the most interest I get is from 5'0 or 5'7 gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:55 AM
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Clearly his standards are too high with that 70% right swipe rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:42 AM
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The only good advice from these cliches are put yourself out there, go to bars/clubs, and maybe have more female friends. The rest is either dogshit boomer advice or not actionable. From someone who has actually dated a lot in this century
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:18 AM
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Debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:05 AM
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Probably in some cases when there's a guy acting creepy and the only one who noticed is another woman. When someone (person, animal, whatever) is in actual immediate danger? It's usually going to be a man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:56 PM
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Why wouldn't he in this situation. He's not ranting about how he'd never fuck a married woman lol. He's not making fun of her for cheating, he's making fun of her for being delusional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:48 PM
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Happens a lot when alcohol is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:00 AM
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You're not diapermaxxed? 🤦‍♂️ You have much to learn, my young friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:23 AM
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We're already doing that apparently. Not showering, shitting our pants, not putting effort into our appearance, making monkey noises in conversation, etc. Let's keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:14 AM
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He's blackpill after that interaction lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:21 AM
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Most women aren't really that upfront or honest when dating either. Especially if they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:45 PM
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Yeah what can I say, we rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:40 PM
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I'm not sure if my opinion of them is positive, but they work for me personally. But I'm completely aware they only work for me due to my height and physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:54 PM
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He looks like a young Eggman. Bro is definitely below average, he's gonna have a bad time. Warm approaches are probably his best bet assuming he has a good enough social life. He could also get jacked and lean into the whole LOTR Dwarf look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:28 PM
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Sorry babe not economically feasible. Get to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:19 PM
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This is pretty common in general for the 27-40 age group. People here cope hard about it. I always try to filter for this when dating on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:16 PM
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This is me on jah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:57 AM
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No I was just making a suggestion to a mod lmao. Your argument was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:31 AM
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The red pill/centrist/"pick me" women here all seem attractive. Or at least they're the only ones brave enough to post themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:17 AM
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Starting to notice a pattern here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:15 AM
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You got dead bedroomed by a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:15 AM
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Is he flexing or about to punch her lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:07 AM
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Yeah it's basically "going full retard" in an attempt at a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:37 AM
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It's kinda easy to claim you aren't a racist country when your population is almost completely homogeneous. America and other Western countries are the only ones trying not to be racist (even if they fail at it).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:16 AM
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25-30 has been my prime so far. I'm not really seeing a decline in interest as I get into the 30s either. It may be due to the beard, more muscles, who knows. I did date in my early 20s, but it was definitely more difficult to find women that were interested. And no I don't have a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:03 AM
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I wasn't really talking about kids specifically, I am guessing they fucked when they were living with each other. Either way that's a hilarious sentence. Apparently Musks first baby was conceived normally, but he died at 10 months, so that's why he uses IVF and surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:47 PM
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Except Grimes apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:42 PM
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I agree with you when it comes to money, but not status. I don't think having status automatically means the women you are attracting are bad people. It's easily the biggest multiplier to attraction there is, and it's mostly because women love competency. High status implies this competency by default. It doesn't need to be a famous actor or athlete either. It could be a dude at a small club playing guitar really well. Although I can't relate to finding someone hot because of their status, femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:37 PM
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Can we start banning people who just say doesn't exist/ragebait/algorithm to these types of threads? It's so fucking lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:52 PM
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In the east, yeah. In the West are problems are pretty similar for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:22 PM
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I'm not afraid to approach. I just can't go out every single weekend. The last time I had a fling with a coworker I got a lot of heat for it, while our salespeople can harass and fuck whoever they want. Not really worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:13 PM
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She also made a post glorifying baby momma culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:11 PM
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Everyone defending this post is either bad faith or has 0 reading comprehension. How can anyone defend the logic of "good people aren't jealous of what bad people have". It genuinely boggles the mind. Literally no one would be a good person under this condition. Also we have no idea if women who are with bad men are bad themselves. I'm surprised so many of the feminists and blue pill are going along with this. This would mean any women that's with an abuser is a bad person/bad partner/too mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:09 PM
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This is usually a green flag. Women who put how nice and sweet they are in their bios are the ones you gotta watch out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:35 PM
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Damn got his ASS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:32 PM
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Both genders are too afraid to approach nowadays, so it seems like the only avenue to a lot of people. The friend/social group strategy is too slow/luck based. I'm just thankful I do well on the apps. Otherwise it would be fishing for dates at work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:20 PM
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They tend to sound more deranged than this one somehow. Might just be that this place isn't an echochamber though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:15 PM
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I think the nose is the one thing women tend to obsesses about themselves that men don't care about. Cute nose either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:05 PM
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No one who posts here is normal, that's all I've learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:58 PM
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Yes, I am a blonde man (not dark roots with blonde highlights) and it's definitely a handicap. Most women like brunettes (brunes?). I think it mostly has to with the contrast. Dark eyebrows shape your face a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah I always thought that was a weird thing to state. No shit a guy with a small dick would be the most insecure about his dick size lol. It's the same thing with short men. They become insecure about it for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:39 PM
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I don't bother if they are longer than an hour away usually. You can meet in the middle at first, but at some point you're going to be going to her house/apartment frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:13 PM
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I'm actually dating a doctor right now. Doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:58 PM
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"In touch with your feelings" and "emotionally intelligent" are pretty subjective anyway. It will look different to each person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:34 AM
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Didn't say you don't exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:15 AM
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I'm a chronically online shitposter, being "myself" with women I just met is insane. I've always had success just sitting there barely speaking, big arm pump, listening to her yap all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:07 AM
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There has to be a middle ground between "it doesn't exist" and "a majority of women are not marrying men they find physically attractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:44 AM
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It's so ironic that the comments sound almost red pill lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:30 AM
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Giiiiirrrlll exactly. Maybe if they worked on their personality a bit they could get some of dat 😺.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:23 AM
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Millennials even started the whole idpol brain rot era shit too, which is unfairly blamed on Gen Z. I can't think of anything that is uniquely Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:00 AM
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Post face and physique or delete account...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:25 PM
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There's millions of 30+ year olds that mog you, it sucks but that's just genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:24 PM
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That's pretty much how all the debates here work. Like it's fair to assume the big burly dude with a tattoo sleeve and a crotch rocket probably isn't the most sensitive person. I've never encountered one of these types that wasn't performatively masculine. Not that I agree with the OP, but these responses are low hanging fruit basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:08 PM
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I think they did a study on it. Basically both genders are sorta delusional about their stated preferences, but women greatly underestimated how important looks are to them. Men were honest about looks but overestimated shit like hobbies and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:00 PM
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They just find the idea of it disgusting because they are picturing some old wrinkly dude with a young woman (I think a lot of the time, the maturity/manipulation argument is a way to hide this disgust). Both sides of this place don't seem to understand that there's still physically attractive people over age 30-40 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:50 PM
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When they had a whole ass house and family at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:31 PM
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Constantly demonizing male sexuality because it's sometimes predatory doesn't really stop that though. It just makes more neurotic men not even try out of fear that they will come off creepy. The low inhib dudes who don't give a fuck about the risk of that end up winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:19 PM
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Reddit is the only place where people will try to make you feel bad for wanting to dip out of a sexless relationship lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:13 PM
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Looks like daughter and mom lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:50 PM
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Yeah me too. I guess my friend groups are full of chads. All the women I know were doing hookups too before finding their boyfriends. I have a hard time believing the average body count stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:28 PM
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He'd be a chadlite if he reduced his body fat a bit and got a fade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:22 PM
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In those topics, sure, but we rarely talk about that here. Most of the topics here are about dating as young people, why incels are the way they are, what matters the most for attracting a woman, etc. A lot of the topics discussed here are mostly based on anecdotal experience clashing with other anecdotal experiences. 45 year old man or woman who married their high-school sweetheart knows shit about what the current dating landscape is, the internet changed things. They have no skin in this game…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:01 PM
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Well its also a debate sub. Half the people here haven't actually dated or don't have to worry about dating anymore because they're married, but they make arguments and get heated about it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:46 PM
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Eh not really. I think on average a chad who dates a lot is more likely to pump and dump than a normal guy who doesn't have a lot of options. Now if that normal guy starts getting as many options as the hot guy, he may turn into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:01 PM
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Between filters, angles to hide body fat, lying about age and height, using 5 year old pictures, etc. It feels like EVERYONE is catfishing on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:58 PM
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Listen, I'm not saying dating is easy for anyone, but men also deal with the same shit once they start to get the dates. I've been used quite a bit myself. Being able to get dates at all means you have a chance at a relationship, being able to fuck someone means other people find you physically attractive. If you can't find anyone who wants to fuck or date you, that's clearly just a more difficult situation to be in. But yes, a woman who does not like casual sex or situationships may have a roug…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:37 PM
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It's appreciated. Around my area, 99% of the profiles have filters in every picture. You can literally not tell what these gals look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:29 PM
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It can be a huge weight off their shoulders. But most likely what they actually want is that feeling of being in love and having that reciprocated. Which is what everyone is looking for. They don't know that because they have no dating experience, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:23 PM
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Everyone does this lol. "I just want this!" "Okay I got it, but I actually just want this!" Literally human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:15 PM
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They'll move the goal post to a relationship or having a lot more sex. Which makes sense. Having sex one time is not going to make you super confident with women. This is why young romantic relationships are important for people to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:11 PM
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It would most likely get taken over by the older married people, like it did here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:00 PM
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I literally said to "to fuck or date", which is true. My obese female friend with a bald spot can get a date on an app in a day. I never claimed she'd be able to get a relationship or be flown out to Dubai. Men also shower and get their hair cut, this is just maintenance lol. Hobbies do not matter for fucking or dating, you're just kinda throwing random shit out to make your point seem more robust that it is. Focus on what I actually said: "starting point". Women try to dress nicer, take care of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:11 PM
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They don't really have to do any of that to get dates or fuck though. It allows them to attract more attractive people but the barrier to entry doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:06 AM
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Go to the boyfriend store then 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:54 AM
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When I see the same manosphere guy bring up the same topic every 24 hours on repeat, I will. Maybe JohnnyAutism will come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:10 AM
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I agree with this from my experience. I'm personally in the 80-95% group.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:52 PM
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An average dude can probably do better in a good location. But typically something about you needs to be above average to be getting more 2 matches a week. Good location: maybe 1 or 2 a week Bad location: maybe 1 or 2 a month I'm personally in a good location and could get 3-4 matches a day. Usually with average or above average women. It's definitely more of a sliding scale and not "zero matches or you're a chad fucking models." You really only need like 5-10 matches a week to make the apps fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:50 PM
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Yes if you make the same topic every 24 hours on repeat the subreddit will end up talking about it a lot. I don't think this place would be an echochamber without you lol. But I was just making an observation, I find the topic spamming entertaining. So carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:35 PM
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Nice guys and critiquing the "women need to pick better" idea. At least you mixed it up with a post about fat people. I remember like 1-2 years ago you would constantly post about single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:38 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:01 PM
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The OP really does ruminate with these same 2 topics. Reminds me of JohnnyAutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:57 PM
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I think if any other group had to improve themselves at the severity that straight men do just to be able to date and fuck, they would be complaining just as much. I mean, straight women and gay people complain about dating quite a bit as it is. So I'm not sure it's because that straight men have a more external locus of control mindset, it's that we are horny and some of us have to put in 2 years of self improvement just to get to the starting line. Most other groups are at the starting line fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:43 PM
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Almost all of her debate threads are due to an argument she recently had, where she completely misunderstood the person's position.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:15 AM
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That's another thing. The bootys are getting bigger, but my dick isn't getting any longer. There's gotta be a better way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:32 AM
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Someone can be picky about food and be told they need to eat better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:57 AM
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They have pics of their boyfriends dicks, or dudes they have hooked up with. So far every single one of them has shown me some absolute monster. I'm guessing you're gonna ask why, basically if a woman doesn't want to fuck me or date me, she treats me like I'm one of the girls. There's no in-between.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:34 AM
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I used to think this was girl math until all of my zoomer coworkers started showing me the dicks they have taken on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:30 AM
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To be fair women in the west will marry men who are terrible in bed because he's so great in other aspects of romance/life. Or maybe he gives good head. I'd imagine that in the Middle East, this dynamic is amplified quite a bit. So I wouldn't use marriage as a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:26 AM
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Less than 5 inches, probably much worse if you're below average in girth. I think women who prefer small dicks are more rare than size queens. I'm around average (5.5-6) and have been with every kind of woman under the sun, I have never gotten the impression that I was too big for any of them lol. With that said, most dudes are fine and worry about it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:22 AM
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Unless you're below average*.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:12 AM
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No one is mad, you're just getting dogwalked. I understand why women fear men, but your logic just doesn't make sense here. To claim that fearing a group for their immutable traits is fine as long as negative experiences with them are universal is arbitrary. If you live in an area where an ethnic group commits 95% of violent crime, or you have constant negative experiences with them, by the logic in your OP you can justify fearing them as a whole. I'm not sure why people from Romania would need …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:48 AM
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Men love curly hair..baka..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:39 AM
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For young couples definitely. If they're older they're typically both fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:29 AM
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Most of the women I've dated had tattoos and thought I'd be hotter with a sleeve. So it would personally help me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:44 AM
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Free gear for every American should be his first project.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:03 AM
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People were only calling him an ugly incel because he missed...I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:35 PM
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This would be impossible not to do, which is further proof that poster is a LARPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:32 PM
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4k a month? Holy shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:28 PM
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In my experience they find you attractive and want to know if they should instantly lose that attraction or be even more attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:32 AM
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Sometimes I wonder how he pulled prime Grimes. Like there's no way his status mattered that much to an indie singer. He had to have some level of aurizzum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:29 AM
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I've learned to never do this. If you have 0 options, lie and say you do well. If you do have a lot of options, be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:20 AM
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"The men here don't see ugly women as people" will be posted somewhere right after the daily version of this post lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:16 AM
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No being an older virgin as a man is really bad. Men need experience, both in dating and sex, so they can be confident in that regard. Honestly, the actual virginity part doesn't matter. A guy will still feel like an inexperienced virgin after having sex for the first time. This is why young relationships are so important, it let's the two discover sex and what they like in a person. This is why I think it's important for women too. You'll be 30 and won't know what you like in a partner, so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:31 AM
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To be fair having a gun is caring about your safety lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:20 AM
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Yeah same. I don't think I even feel anything when I'm insulted at this point. Being chubby in your middle school years will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:08 AM
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I think this is true of reddit in general. People tend to respond with the obligatory "correct" answer. When there isn't a correct answer is when this app has some of the meanest interactions I've ever seen outside of 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:04 AM
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Not even sure why people use razors anymore. Those body shavers get pretty close and there's 0 chance of injury.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:01 AM
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Yes ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:00 AM
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I don't disagree, a bad husband/father can cause a dead bedroom. But the way you worded your responses heavily implied you were saying this is actually how dead bed rooms start. I may have implied that unequal attractiveness is the only thing that causes them with my comment, just a miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:29 AM
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Yes you understood his premise, I even stated why he feels this way in my second sentence. Men are just less fearful despite all reason. Why do you keep playing the pain Olympics so much? What does it matter if you are raped, or beaten up, or shot, in whatever order, a group of people are trying to kill/hurt you. The thought of it should be scary regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:20 AM
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Do you know what it's like to be millions of people in a dead bedroom? What would my anecdotal experience matter? I'd say kids strain the relationship and she lost attraction because she's low libido or settled on me. Then you wouldn't believe me lol. The take "both people have to at least be equally in love or attracted to each other" is a pretty reasonable take. I didn't even say it was the cause of every dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:15 AM
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So getting beaten half to death or being shot is so much less scary than rape, that it would be reasonable to not be scared at all walking alone at night as a man. While women should be terrified in the same scenario because of the statistically similar chance that a stranger would rape them. Am I on TwoX right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:10 AM
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Do you think a group of men can't overpower a 6'2 man? Or just shoot him? The only logic I'm getting from this is that rape is much scarier than anything else that can happen, so his premise makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:57 AM
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Yeah I'm sure that's what causes dead bedrooms 99% of the time, you don't seem like a bias poster at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:52 AM
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Okay, I'm not really sure what the point your replies are. I wasn't saying men are women shouldn't be scared when they are walking alone in the dark, just that his premise doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:52 AM
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Yes that's true, but they may beat him half to death about at the same rate. Most rapes happen by someone you know, friend of a friend, guy who've you been dating for a bit. Stranger & alley way rapes are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:46 AM
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Statistically you have a much higher chance of dying in this scenario than a woman. Testosterone/male hormones just makes you not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:39 AM
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I was going to, but I got sick this week. I'm not too sure if we are compatible, so I probably shouldn't have asked her. But that's bedroom talk for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:30 AM
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They are. I've never dated a reptile gal but my friend's girlfriend has snakes. Every reptile guy I've ever met looked like a school shooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:27 AM
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I think I've been asked that by every single woman I've dated. "Cat or dog person?" "I like cats, but prefer dogs more" is the safest answer. Which actually describes me. Cat girls just want to know you don't hate cats, while dog girls who hate cats want to know you prefer dogs. And good luck trying to find a reptile girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:11 AM
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Yeah black women are super loyal to black men. Most of the black women I've dated were the mixed, suburban types who like Deftones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:04 AM
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The woman definitely has to like him more or equally. Or at least find him just as physically attractive. Or it's a guaranteed dead bedroom after kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:54 AM
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It's funny but women either see a man who really loves cats as a red flag or green flag, there's no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:50 AM
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In my experience they are extremely picky and when they do like you, they lovebomb and get way too intense way too early.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:10 AM
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This dude gets 0 attention irl and on dating apps without a popular IG page.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:00 AM
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It doesn't help that every single guy a woman has dated in the past becomes "ugly". So the "I gave ugly guys a chance and even they mistreated me" means fuck all, the dude could have been beautiful. If you looked at dating subreddits, you'd assume that 90% of the dudes walking around are ugly. Like seeing an "ugly man" is apparently very common when it should be rare lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:26 PM
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I think if they are younger, like before 25, the pretty boy does slightly better. Then as they get older the masculine chad does better. But neither will struggle at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:19 PM
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There was a couple but they're gone for whatever reason. Most of the "pick mes" right now are just women with more centrist takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:16 PM
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https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1A4DyouTC9/ Hope your doggo is okay 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:14 AM
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This is what I notice first, true. I'll typically have 0 attraction to a woman if she's box shaped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:34 AM
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Big boobs are mostly a bonus to young men nowadays, work on your glutes. Although I'm not sure what straight twinks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:17 AM
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I feel like you could apply this to any insult, "creepy" isn't any different. If you did nothing to deserve the insult, humble them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:11 AM
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Same I want to be like "teehee" when some broad is trying to spit game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:20 AM
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It's also a different set of skills. You could easily make friends with the opposite sex but be terrible at flirting. Going out and making friends is great for meeting potential romantic interests, but that's all it does. If you are unattractive or can't flirt, then it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:15 AM
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I feel like most people knew what people meant by that before the gender war internet brainrot started.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:04 AM
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On reddit yeah, at least red pill accepts negative generalizations about men along with women. Even outside of female dating strategy, look at the advice women give each other and the strategies they come up with, it sounds pretty red/black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:55 AM
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I'm liking all your sarcastic replies to the LARPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:51 AM
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Reddit is the perfect place to farm compliments from simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:48 AM
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At this point the bitter men here just look more reasonable than a lot of you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:37 AM
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Zhang dominated every round.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:36 AM
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Lean for me is visible abs, around 15% body fat or lower. I'll still date when I'm bulking, but I tend to only use the apps and call it being "bf shaped".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:54 AM
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I agree with the general concept of "go outside and interact with women" for neurotic men, although I don't think your hobbies matter much. Video games can be a problem if it's the reason you won't leave the house, but most NA women don't care if you play video games or watch anime (maybe it's different in kangaroo land). For most of my hookups, we were watching anime right before things got silly. But the issue with this advice for ND men is that their brains literally work differently, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:00 AM
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True, irl blue pill is less sexist towards men. Although it's still pretty delusional. I still hear "women don't care much about looks" a lot. One of my coworkers told an obese dude that he should just be himself on the apps and he will be fine. I was like 🤨. Even my dates will tell me they don't care about height, but all they can talk about is how I tower over them. Younger Gen Z seems to be a bit more honest about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:34 AM
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I don't think blackpill claims that only looks matter in general, just that only looks matter to getting dates. Which isn't necessarily true, but it's the most important thing. It'll either make your dating life extremely easy or a nightmare. Redpill is men are brainless sex monkeys, and women are money chasing whores who only feel real attraction to the top 5% of men, so act like a complete sociopath to get what you want. Red pill sorta treats both genders as a monolith with their negative gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:21 AM
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Kino
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:08 AM
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It's like the makeup thing for men, most don't realize that "naturally beautiful" women are actually using 40 mins worth of makeup. A lot of women (and men who don't go to the gym) don't understand that most of the physiques they drool over are years' worth of dieting and gym dedication. Those skinny dudes who have decent musculature also had to go to the gym, and to stay lean with visible abs is a lot of discipline in the kitchen. You don't become huge by accident, it's genetics and enough juic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:05 AM
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Forgot to respond. I'm not sure when there was an easiest time, but it's definitely much harder ever since the monetization of dating apps and social media brainrot. I have been dating on and off from 16 to 30 and it's staggering how much it has changed, at least in the US. It got much worse after covid too. If you're not above average in some way, you better be in close contact with a lot of single women in your day to day, because apps will be unusable for you (location dependent too).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:51 PM
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Forgot to respond. I'm not sure when there was an easiest time, but it's definitely much harder ever since the monetization of dating apps and social media brainrot. I have been dating on and off from 16 to 30 and it's staggering how much it has changed, at least in the US. It got much worse after covid too. If you're not above average in some way, you better be in close contact with a lot of single women in your day to day, because apps will be unusable for you (location dependent too).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:51 PM
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Most women on reddit just aren't the type to like dudes flexing in the mirror (nothing wrong with that), but I definitely get the most hookups when I'm lean and using my "casual only" Tinder account. I don't even bother approaching women if I'm not lean lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:46 PM
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That's testosterone for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:56 AM
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Most of them would struggle if they had to date again. They haven't dated in 15+ years. Game is on a different difficulty now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:18 AM
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"Men who partake in casual sex are bad people, but women who do are not, because women do not benefit from casual sex at all" Also "raw physical attraction does not exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:01 AM
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So many dog shit, bad faith arguments from the usual suspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:57 PM
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Honestly size queens are not as rare as reddit claims but they are the minority. Most women cumming from PIV has to do with how sensitive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:01 AM
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Yeah this is one of those opinions redditors have that is the opposite reality in my experience. Most women I've been with just saw oral as the appetizer. Good PIV was really important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:00 AM
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It doesn't mean they'll cheat or fall out of love, they don't know that person at all. But recognizing hot people is pure monkey brain shit. It reminds me when people on reddit say "they don't rate people", like brah yes you do, you make snap judgments about people in your head all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:54 AM
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All humans look at hot people while they are in a relationship and compare. Anyone here saying they don't is full of shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:48 AM
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Least favorite PPD woman, they may be hot for all I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:45 AM
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A lot of dudes who look natty are on PEDs. A low or moderate amount gets you to your natty max faster, it's basically male birth control, and very little side effects. It's great. The insanely big dudes are injecting 5 times a week with crazy stacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:39 AM
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Any dating advice from someone over 40 or who has been married a long time is probably going to be useless nowadays. We are playing a different ball game now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:18 AM
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Redpill, like most of the other pills, wants virgin men to remain virgins forever (for some reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:52 AM
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I feel like you just described fat women online way more than ugly people lol (maybe young women on Tik Tok specifically, incels are a fringe group in comparison). Most of the people in these incel/femcel spaces aren't even ugly, they're just mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:32 AM
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Nah I've dated "to river to the sea" type leftists and they could never detect that I'm pro Israel, heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:16 AM
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This is a weird argument. You're trying to use the red popping balloon video to prove that the men here would be as disrespectful to some random ugly woman who approaches them. Did this dude in the video ever claim to be a polite person, or post here? Also isn't the whole point of that show for people to be disrespectful for content. With this logic, if you've ever made fun of fat people, it means you'd be disgusted if a fat person tried to interact with you. Half the women on Tiktok would be di…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:47 AM
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I mean they could be lying online, but I don't see a reason the men here would lie about that given how honest they are about their hate for women lol. Either way, we can't observe what the men here do for obvious reasons, and they may never be approached in their entire lives. So all I can go off is what they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:30 AM
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Maybe going after 18 year olds. The 24 year old child thing is definitely internet brainrot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:27 AM
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Do we have a poll? Most of the posts I've seen here about this exact topic said they wouldn't care or be mean about it. Finding someone unattractive and being disgusted that they would shoot their shot are very different. Like I've seen way more women here talk about feeling disgusted that an ugly dude approached them than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:18 AM
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Most men irl or on reddit would be neutral to that at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:08 AM
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I'm pretty sure that poster is the alt account of someone who got banned here a bit ago. She was a femcel trying to find a husband, pink piller type. Now she's larping as a married woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:34 PM
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Assuming this was posted by an actual woman, it's weird how women on reddit will post this thinking it makes them sound good. A husband saying this about his wife is crazy. You're just calling your partner physically unattractive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:17 PM
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Well yeah the poster is trying to do a silly gotcha. I'd say the overwhelming majority of men are fine with women approaching, even the unattractive ones. Working with a bunch of young women in my department has proven to me that the bitter men are 100% correct, it's only bad to approach a woman (warm or cold) if they find you unattractive. The approach does not matter if they find you unattractive, you're a delusional piece of shit for trying. The cognitive dissonance I've seen in the last 10 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:42 PM
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Wouldn't they just say it makes sense that you're staying with a bad boy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:33 PM
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It would just be wild if it was her, she seems to genuinely hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:24 AM
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Wait, you're sexting that super bitter woman who spams the debate side (I know that's not super specific)? The one I'm thinking of, her name rhymes with Fart_Cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:20 AM
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I always thought this saying was dumb as shit. It's comparing a common fear that has a pretty high chance of happening to a man multiple times vs something that is most likely not going to happen. This is not a man's biggest fear in dating and women's most common fear is probably similar to men's, getting ghosted/rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:02 AM
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This is actually a brutal mog.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:26 AM
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Yeah that's the best way to describe the way he types. I have a hard time believing an older gym bro genuinely types like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:22 AM
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Sometimes. All the women I know are much happier on average than the men I know. It could just be that they're all on SSRIs, I don't know. Any time I tried to get help with my mental health, my doctors would give me this glazed over look. Maybe I just look like a caveman with no emotions, but I'm never taken seriously in that regard. I realized while dating the last year that every single woman I went out with had some cushy, full remote office job where they basically fill out spreadsheets or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:10 AM
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I don't think anyone is entitled to a partner, but with this logic you could argue children aren't entitled to love from a parent. Or you could just lock people in solitary confinement permanently, since they technically won't die from it. I think a better argument is that you'd be infringing on the rights of someone else giving these lonely people what they are "entitled" to. Young men may be entitled to government sponsored third spaces, for example. Going off all of the government programs we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:44 AM
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They should address "slay queen" culture in the workplace because the women in my department are genuinely screaming nonsense 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:39 AM
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We don't really "deserve" anything, but that doesn't stop people from feeling entitled to everything under the sun. Honestly entitlement is powerful, at least for me. Feeling like I deserve something is one of the best motivators to go out and get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:13 AM
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I've heard this from every tallish woman I've dated lol. I believe there's more to the story, but I typically take their word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:55 PM
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If we had compatible personalities, sure. She's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:52 PM
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I'm 100% convinced that if it was physically impossible for women to get fat, there would be no "obesity epidemic." People would just be telling men to bootstrap it, not a societal problem, no solutions, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:40 PM
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Yeah I've noticed that. I personally like bright brown or greenish eyes on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:17 PM
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Over 30 BMI is typically when women start to look bad even with great genetics. But it kinda depends on how they distribute the weight up to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:16 PM
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I've been searching for a genuinely funny woman to date for like 2 years at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:12 PM
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I have high standards for a man, they don't. It's like taking the "6'5, blue eye, trust fund" thing seriously from a woman who has never dated. The men here get weak in the knees the second they see a mid woman caked in makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:44 AM
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Honestly the "I want virgin" thing here is mostly dudes who have never even dated, they're also virgins a lot of the time. It's like the "I'm only looking for a dude who makes 6 figures" standards, they all "settle" eventually. Once some mid girl with 6 bodies throws it back on their dick, they'll stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:40 AM
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Lmao the men here's standards are actually insanely low.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:02 AM
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I feel like my height compensates for most of my negative traits that women find with their insane neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:35 AM
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Most dudes on reddit reporting success on dating apps are probably above average, yeah. Or they're at least in an area where you have better chances while being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:27 AM
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Maybe for quality LTR. Not for dating or fucking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:08 AM
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That it's a big deal to them, but they're just short.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:58 PM
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George Foreman at 55 would have killed Jake. Tyson just has 99 year old knees. But most of Jake's fighters lose because they aren't boxers. If they ran it back in MMA he'd get annihilated by any of those 40 year olds. Jon Jones is 40 and would beat the fuck out of anyone on the planet. You're not making much sense. Typically a fighter's prime is 30 because of how important fight IQ is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:42 PM
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The weirdest one is the coupled people here who don't seem to know the difference between friendship and a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:09 AM
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I actually do look for cute mousey girls that have nerdy hobbies personally. They're more likely to be shitposter types. If I'm looking for a gf anyway. Stock staceylites are kinda boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:25 AM
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Yeah cute with a nice profile (tall with big biceps)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:02 AM
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Adrien is a mogger for the ladies who like big honkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:18 AM
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Brah you made a whole post in defense of another user who the mods let post the same topic 50 times in a single week. You can't be serious lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:48 PM
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This is why I tell tall dudes to use bumble/hinge, it's where all the women who pay for filters go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:39 PM
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Nowadays I think it's considered an insult, especially to women. Personally I wouldn't consider it an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:20 PM
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Damn you're like the Batwoman of this sub. But instead of trying to save Gotham, you try to save Lillith from all the mean men. She made her 750606849606059th post, light the bat signal!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:15 PM
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I wouldn't mind debating Lillith if she ever did it in good faith, I'm guessing most people here feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:10 PM
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Are you Lillith's number 1 simp or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:05 PM
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It's nice to look at, but men don't want to walk around bricked up 24/7. We'd all have to wear gray sweatpants to counter this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:31 AM
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Bruh she's a mid girl caked in makeup. Not that he should cheat on her, but you're acting like you saw a goddess lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:24 AM
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Poor guy, he wasn't getting his needs met 😢. He was being neglected by his autistic girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:19 AM
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Honestly you guys should make it against the rules to imply your debate opponent is a virgin or has no experience. It's the slimiest thing they do and I see it nonstop. It'll be a top comment "argument" a lot of the time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:04 AM
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I'd say in general half of the "blue pill" (or whatever you want to call them) are just bad at debating in general. They bad faith and strawman the shit out of you, or they do what you just said. I don't agree with the red pill/(redacted) pill a lot, but I have to say they are much better at debating their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:01 AM
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It's revealing but woof
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:39 PM
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It builds good juju. If you build it up enough, maybe your straight neighbor will want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:55 PM
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For the bias to exist, there needs to be some kind of plausible deniability on the woman's part. There isn't any in this case, she's just hitting him. It's typically when the man or woman isn't clearly wrong in these stories is when reddit will interpret the woman's actions in the best light possible while not giving the same grace to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:13 PM
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I got the jab once. And now I'm r worded. But on a serious note. The first time I got it, I randomly passed out while walking and slammed my head into my very wood dresser drawer. I destroyed the drawer with my giant head, head was bleeding like crazy. So in a way, the jab did try to kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:16 AM
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Not yet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:36 AM
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Always saying the right thing has worked for me, saying whatever I want would be quite detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:51 AM
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There's a reason why all of her arguments go like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:35 AM
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For last the 8 months I've dated the range from 22 to 38, didn't really get the impression that the younger ones were more immature. The only really immature one was 29. I find when you're dealing with adult age people, them being immature is more of a personality/character thing. One of the most immature adults I've ever met was a 55 year old dude who worked at a restaurant with me. So I don't think an age gap is indicative of who is mature/immature on its face. But also a big issue is that eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:13 AM
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You're a goliath of debate, thanks for your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:54 PM
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Interesting enough I'm 6'5" 230 lean and get 0 interest when out and about. I do extremely well on dating apps though. No idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:47 PM
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Yeah I'd try to get up to at least 190 lean if I were you. Regardless of what people on reddit say, women love big burly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:42 PM
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Not necessarily a red flag but I'm not trying to compete with a bunch a dudes she may be already having sex with. But it's sometimes I've personally done so I can't judge them too harshly for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:23 PM
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I found bumble and hinge with one good candid pic had me swimming in dates as a tall dude. I'd say I have a mid face too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:18 PM
1

Do you use apps at all or is your location bad for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:10 PM
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Well I don't know the dating dynamics of lesbians and bi women, or if you're just larping (like most of the Bi people here). But you're in competition with the same gender at all times with straight dating on apps. And no, I don't think men with a lot of options feel the need to be partnered up until it's someone special. That's just one of the mental benefits of having a lot of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:00 PM
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Yes you are, have you ever dated a woman on a dating app? Most of them are talking to 2-3 men at once. It's the same for men with options. If you met a man on an app, dated for 2 months, and he randomly ghosts, he most likely picked another woman. Dating apps are a completely different ball game. You have to be hotter or more charismatic than the other guy she's talking to. What you're saying is just meaningless reddit speak. Most women aren't turning down every single guy they dated because he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:27 PM
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No you are quite literally in competition with other men if you found her on a dating app lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:04 PM
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The only person who disagreed with you in a serious way was the mod, and he was correct in that sense that this only happens in small pockets of poor patriarchal countries. Typically in small villages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:08 PM
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About 230 lean, and at the height of my bulk I get up to like 260.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:04 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's the same person lol. I miss Johnny's unhinged rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:23 PM
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Women on reddit not wanting to fuck a guy isn't really representive tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:19 PM
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I genuinely have no idea what she's referring to lol. Maybe she means the anime subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:50 AM
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I was used to it already since my first gf was 5'2. You do have to bend down or pick them up. Honestly shorter women give me "chad" treatment, as the dudes here say. I've never had much luck with tall women on the apps (over 5'8").
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:28 AM
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Sometimes I wonder how many short dudes I'm pissing off when I'm out in public with a 5ft Latina. Sorry bros I'm just dating ones that want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:11 AM
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We need more jacked people in office.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:48 AM
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Story wise you don't have to play the first one. A lot of people consider it the best game in the series though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:24 PM
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It will and it'll be due to Ninja Gaiden 4 (we're so back)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:09 PM
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8 is crazy. Maybe a 6.5. Her spaced out droopy eyes is what kills her (it's over). So a 5 and a 6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:24 PM
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Looks are the most important, but yes you can still find a gf as an oofy doofy average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:20 PM
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Most people are illogical, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:33 PM
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The blue pill version of the harem argument lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:04 PM
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Yeah there's like 2-3 users here who are genuine white knights. I think I've seen one agree with a woman when he actually disagreed with her. It was bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:22 PM
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There's like 10 more I could mention lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:08 PM
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I'm the same way. And the very rare times I do catch some feelings, it ends pretty quickly for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:21 PM
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You didn't call anything out in this context though. You called out random redditors saying mean things about billionaires wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:13 PM
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To be fair I've seen one of the mods use the n word a couple of times so I'm not sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:58 PM
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I think she's referring to her friendzone post. Basically she's mature because she can be rejected and still stay friends with the person or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:54 PM
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She doesn't seem that red pilled to me, her takes are reasonable usually. She's typically one of the few female posters who will argue with other women here when they give insane takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:51 PM
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Yeah I think women are just more likely to scour threads and report everything they see (if a man is breaking the rules anyway).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:47 PM
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That's fine, but she clearly likes having her titties sucked. I was just questioning his logic. Sexual reciprocation having to be 1:1 to the original act just doesn't make sense due to people liking different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:15 PM
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I mean if she wants her tits sucked only, it probably brings her a lot of pleasure. Otherwise why would she be on tinder asking for that lol. Once again, as someone who actually dates straight women, there are women who are so sensitive that they can orgasm from just having their titties sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:21 PM
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Nah, people need to learn to keep their hands to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:07 AM
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It doesn't have to be a body autonomy issue to be addressed lol. It's not 1:1 to an actual abortion but it doesn't have to be. The rhetoric is still the same though. "You fucked up so you gotta pay the price, sorry". It's just bad right wing arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:43 PM
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Let's just apply that to anyone who wants porn banned in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:03 AM
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It's funny how defensive everyone is getting when this is what we tell men who are dealing with women that give one word responses on dates or the apps. If it keeps happening to you, man or woman, it's a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:59 PM
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0 if you don't go outside or use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:41 PM
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I'd say they can except for fear and sadness, yeah. If I started crying at work for nothing like my female coworkers do all the time, I'd probably be sent home. It would make everyone uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:40 PM
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I've built a cross for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:33 PM
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You don't, sure. This tendency for the posters here to project their preferences on everyone else is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:12 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:46 PM
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Yeah basically, it's human nature when someone has a lot of options. Women just seem pickier because they have more options on average than men do. If a lot of the dudes here ended up having the amount of options that some men and women have, they'd find that their standards are much higher than they thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:37 PM
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Well I just want to point out that dudes with a lot of options aren't necessarily trying to fuck as many women as possible (some are), they just have high standards for a relationship like women do. So they are going to date around a lot. They could be looking for love just like the women are. I can date 4 women at once and genuinely feel like none of them would be compatible with me in an LTR. Or I lost the one that was, and the 3 others are just too boring, so we either continue casually or mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:18 PM
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I think you're right, but I swear everyone on 600 pound life has a gf/bf lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:49 AM
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Yeah the women here (save a few) and the white knights will never argue with other women, even if the take is clearly unreasonable. Everyone else is at each other's throats. And I know damn well the conservative women don't agree with the liberal women, the radfems don't agree with the libfems, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:46 AM
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This is such an ironic comment chain to someone who basically just said "I prefer to have sex early on, and it has worked for me". This place really is the pointing spiderman meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:32 AM
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For me personally, "the spark" is typically the feeling of butterflies, as if I'm in a trance. I don't think it particularly means anything other than I find them very attractive (I'm enjoying the conversation, I like their voice, and they are pretty). It's definitely different than just enjoying the date though. It's more animalistic, like you just want to take them home right there. These are all telltale signs that apply to most women from my experience: She tries to touch you She wants to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:07 AM
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I kinda wish I had this hair even if I'd look fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:31 AM
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I think it's mostly because you get a lot of engagement. For example, the BMI guy is clearly trying to bait the bigger women from rage posting but it doesn't really work anymore. So it's more of a meme at this point. But yes the "LVMs" and redpillers bait sometimes and don't get as much flak, I agree. I'm in the "more bait, more shitposting the better" camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:27 AM
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They are bait accounts because all you do is post bait lol. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that your takes aren't actually this bad, and you're just trying to piss off the virgin men. I mean don't get me wrong, I think you're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:11 AM
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Yeah, "men". This place has more LARPers than a Renaissance Festival. So who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:05 AM
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Those two bait accounts. The gay dude from the middle east who hates straight men and that one self hating simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:58 AM
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This has been my experience too. They don't necessarily need to jump on me, but some kind of intimacy. If they don't want to at least kiss on the first date, they most likely don't find you that attractive. Although with that said, some women are genuinely different and need some time before they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:32 AM
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The comments are exactly why the dudes here talk about "women are wonderful effect" on reddit. It's genuinely on steroids when it comes to this app. It's so fucking weird how hard people push vasectomies on this app when there's so many other options for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:07 AM
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I've been called an incel for saying a lot of liberal women still want the guy to foot the bill. It's just become a slimey way to call someone a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:16 PM
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Willingly subjecting your son to be a ginger is nasty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:01 PM
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Men are worse at detecting it because they don't typically take selfies and try to manipulate them with software as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:57 PM
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Trump is a hero like Luigi now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:58 PM
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I'd say the average dude on dating apps doesn't get much from the data Tinder has put out. Some of it depends on location too. Not to say that average men aren't getting into relationships, but it's mostly from work, school, and social circles. If you're not in school anymore and your work/social circle isn't good for facilitating romance, you're most likely cooked since the only avenue is dating apps or cold approaching. Which are pretty (redacted) pill to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:53 PM
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I mean worse than that, he never really dated. So many people who post here haven't actually dated as a straight man in this century lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:47 PM
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Not going to lie, it's bringing me some enjoyment that she's baiting a mod into one of her bad-faith forever arguments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:28 PM
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You can tell how her dating is going because she will be stuck on a topic for weeks lol. A lot of it is projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:18 PM
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It's bait because it's a morbidly obese woman claiming she's fit. If some obese dude did the same thing he would also be shit on relentlessly. I feel like you already know this though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:16 AM
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You may get flair banned, the mods hate that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:06 AM
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It would only scare dudes away who want casual, even then they probably wouldn't reject you. Which is funny because an older woman being a virgin is a bigger red flag than when a man is imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:51 AM
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If you're willing to give head, just gonna warn you that stank pussy is pretty common. They all kinda stink if it's not right after a shower lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:42 AM
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I can't view any of these tiktok links. It's over for amerifats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:45 AM
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Me personally, I just find men funnier (on average) and you don't have to filter yourself. I feel like you can even open up a bit more without making people feel uncomfortable. Don't get me wrong, my closest female friends are pretty funny, but even with them, there are lines I can't cross. Men show each other love by being brutally mean, then saying some homoerotic shit right after lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:38 AM
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Possum would be so disappointed in you right now 😔. On a serious note, the dude in the video is lucky his dating pool is full of young women who don't care as much about their men being fat. I can't elaborate without getting modded because the rules here are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:57 AM
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True location matters a lot. I think half of my dating app success is due to living in the DMV area.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:36 AM
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I think cholomaxxing unironically works for getting Latinas. Every Latina I've dated for a period of time has told me that one of their types is the cholo archetype lol. Getting a tatoo sleeve and crotch rocket can work pretty well too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:29 AM
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I'd say he's slightly above average with a better haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:17 AM
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Shit I can do that. A giga Chad should be getting a hookup every night with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:11 AM
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Give him some leeway, it's fight night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:50 AM
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Post face, I'll be the decider. $20 that you're actually cute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:41 PM
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She's okay. She'd probably go up a point for me if her hair was down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:39 PM
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It's not simping but I typically show no mercy in anything competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:43 AM
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I've seen that, where bro has a permanent square mowed into the back of his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:55 AM
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Easiest ones to fix with a trip to Turkey at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:25 AM
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If something suddenly came up, then it's whatever. You should let them know ASAP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:57 PM
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They really do just pick and choose which "looks" threads to ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:50 PM
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Yeah imagine not being able to attract a person with x20 your testosterone. Are you even trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:47 PM
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I'm east coast in NA. There isn't a shit ton of real blondes with blue eyes here, but I think we're just considered less attractive and there's enough of us where we don't get the exotic bonus. Most of the women interested in me weren't born here. And even the ones that are born here are typically Latinas or Asian. I think it mostly has to do with the fact that real blonde men have light hair and eyebrows, and lack contrast. Most men aren't going to dye their eyebrows or draw the contrast with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:22 PM
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The easiest person to manipulate is the one desperate for love/a relationship. It doesn't have much to do with age in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:29 PM
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It's never really stopped me from getting dates, but I would probably have more options as a brunette.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:50 PM
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Yeah I'm blonde and it's all Asians and Latinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:40 PM
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I do for an LTR anyway. I'd be super bored spending time with her if the conversations were bland or if she never made me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:45 PM
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Nah you gotta have a lot of muscle mass to 1 arm press an adult like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:22 PM
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I always liked the mousey girls with dorky glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:59 PM
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I'm sleeping over a girl's apartment tonight, then we are getting brunch in the city tomorrow morning. I'm watching UFC 311 with the boys later that night. On Sunday, I'm going to a basketball game with another girl I'm seeing, then we are hanging out the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:53 PM
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Paper abortion isn't a body autonomy issue, but not all examples of equitable laws are about body autonomy. So I'm not sure how this logic makes any sense. We could just take abortion out of the name if that's what you guys are hung up on. If you can give your already born child up to the state with no financial consequences, people should be able to put on paper that they will not pay for a potential child when it's a zygote.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:13 PM
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How bad faith do you have to be to get called out by a mod for it, HERE of all places. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:30 AM
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That "man" has been trolling here for like 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:26 AM
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If Count Orlok can get laid I feel like any vampcel can. Are they practicing the dark arts every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:48 AM
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I say we let the incels and femcels schizopost as much as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:39 AM
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I'd say I'm flattered, but I have a girlfriend (I don't).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:28 AM
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Ah yes, a fat woman putting on a clown face is "taking care of herself better" than an ugly guy who can't put on 5% of that without being labeled gay or insecure (by straight women). This argument will never not be insanely goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:18 AM
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I think my favorite thing about her posts is she always gets those 3 "blue pill" simp posters to agree with her silly takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:37 PM
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This sounds way too subjective to mean anything. You can just define "privilege" any way you want to get the desired result.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:07 AM
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posts emoji to distract from the fat L I just took
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:59 AM
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The people commenting on it seemed pretty glad he did it. Either way, you're all kinda being purposely daft. The point the OP was making is you would not see these comments if some mom who got caught masturbating in public killed herself. I doubt most people would even be calling her a sex offender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:43 AM
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Damn the comments here are brutal. Couldn't imagine giving a fuck about a guy masturbating in his car to the point where I'm glad he killed himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:10 AM
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A) I'd be in love with her in 1 to 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:38 AM
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Air brushed blonde isn't really my type, but roast beef wouldn't change the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:10 AM
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There's enough plausible deniability there where you can't really say anything tbh. Other than going "oh really, what were you thinking about?" to get it out of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:09 AM
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D. Drink all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:12 PM
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I've only dated two women who didn't like getting head. One of my coworkers also doesn't like it. One was super sensitive and just didn't like the feeling of it. She could cum from literally anything so that was cool at least. The other one really only enjoyed either being fingered or PIV. I never assume my dick is enough by itself, but she never complained. Overall not a bad experience. I think it's a problem when they only want PIV and you gotta be Dr. Dicker for her to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:12 PM
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To be fair the backwards hat rizz is powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:57 AM
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Some of them are women LARPing as men I'm fairly sure. It's one thing to disagree with red/black pill but when all of your posts sound like something a middle age woman would type out, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:39 AM
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At least x1.5
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:33 AM
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Threatening political violence on reddit with 0 intentions of ever leaving your house seems to be the meta currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:38 AM
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Honestly women nowadays don't really mind anime and video games. It's the gym/fitness thing that bothers them. In my experience that's zoomer women's number #1 most hated hobby unless they're a gym bunny themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:02 AM
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On opposite day, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:45 PM
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I've talked about my nerdy hobbies and never had any issues. It's almost like there's something else going on 🤔.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:42 PM
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Yeah I think that's where the disconnect comes in. It's hard to explain unless you're a man just starting out, but you realize that to even look half as good as Hemsworth requires years of natty training or shortcutting with gear. There's so many men out there who are smaller than that on juice because doing it naturally can take 10+ years and needing the genetics for it. Not to say women mostly like that level of muscle (some do) but most men will never hit that much anyway. Brad Pitt in fight …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:58 PM
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I could be wrong but I think he just looks for indicators of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:04 PM
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Nah he's 100% correct, you have to do all of that for like 3-5 bulk/cut cycles just to have a mid physique. It's literally the only way to put on muscle unless you naturally did it as an athlete or worked a hard labor job while eating a lot. Men lie a lot about how much work/time they put in at the gym (to women). It scares them off being honest. You don't start getting into gross amounts of muscle until you're abusing hard gear after training for a long time. Obviously this discussion is pointl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:33 PM
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I agree, but in comparison to normal dudes I've always heard the stereotype that hot guys get their nut and dip out. Obviously this is confirmation bias since the hot guys are the ones getting most of the hookups. But I don't know how you'd even know below average men are selfish lovers without having sex with a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:13 PM
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Yes it's a LARPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:51 PM
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Probably. I'm guessing most people still have some grudges from high school. If there's anyone from high school you think about and still don't like them, that's a grudge. Even the woman in the video was holding a grudge on the "predatory older men" from high school she made bad decisions with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:27 PM
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Weird, I've always heard the exact opposite. That hot men are the most selfish in bed usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:11 PM
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Every single woman I dated from the apps assumed I had a lot of options or that I was dating multiple women (sometimes true). I think to some degree women like the idea that a dude with a lot of options picked her over everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:37 PM
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I'm also an "oofy doofy nice guy" with a high n count. The dudes here really underestimate oofy doofy rizz. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:13 PM
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Yeah the mods here have a clear bias against the "incel" posters. I've noticed that female posters can make topics ranting about looks all day "men don't like fat women they hate ugly woman blah blah" and it never gets touched. Their interpretation of what "low effort rant", "contentless rhetoric", "lookism thread" is has always been funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:41 PM
1

I'd be out of the game for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:06 AM
1

They're pretty funny over there imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:33 PM
5

They're both personal struggles. We just choose to help certain struggles with taxpayer money. There's so many insignificant things that the government puts money toward. If they made some government funded dating app that isn't predatory one day, I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:04 PM
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I've seen every variation of the sentence thousands of times. I just don't think it's true at all. Women care about a wider range of things than men, but both genders care about looks and personality about the same. I'd say women care about looks more, but I think it's debatable. They are pickier, but the 10% of men they do like may have some uglies in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:19 PM
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She's kinda ugly and fat. OP is right tbh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:07 PM
4

It's repeated ad nauseam in normie subreddits and by older generations irl in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:57 PM
3

Musk would be funnier because that means 80% of reddits userbase gets banned. Almost all content on popular is shitting on him or Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:03 AM
1

Yeah no idea, wasn't me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:11 AM
3

This was a terrible gotcha question to what he said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:08 AM
2

I remember that poster. My guess is they still have a couple of alt accounts LARPing as a man on the debate side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:52 PM
2

Dude he was in love with her!!! He was just super dry bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:30 PM
1

I'd need like 3 of those to start feeling a buzz. So expensive for me to have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:58 PM
2

Yes correct, I wouldn't find general erotica to be weird. The last 5 times a woman has talked to me about the smut she was reading, it was always something insane so that's where my head was at with my original comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:02 PM
2

The mark of the beast 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:43 PM
1

It feels like most of it is rape fantasy, half man/half monster, or sadism type stuff. I wouldn't have a problem with it, but the themes are weirder to get off to than just two people having sex imo. Like an amateur couple video vs hentai tentacle monster. It's whatever, but the latter is definitely weirder in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:33 PM
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It was a pathetic attempt at coup + riot that would have never worked in a million years. Everyone who died was on Trump's side, and most of it was just people too fat/old to be rioting. The idea behind it is way worse than what actually happened. Comparing it to Pearl Harbor is crazy. Although one cop died of injuries later I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:32 AM
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This has to be one of the toughest hypotheticals I've seen on here. I feel like 7/10 at 5'6 is doable. 4 inch dick is honestly too small. Gonna have to risk it with the 2nd option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:53 PM
5

20 more years of brainrot, hip hip hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:30 PM
3

Depends on the women saying it tbh. I've heard female friends irl say verbatim "he's husband material, but I wouldn't hook up with him." Basically he's not hot enough for a one night romp, but he has a lot of relationship qualities. For some women "husband material" would be the whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:11 PM
2

There's absolutely no way he's ever done this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:25 PM
4

Honestly you both give off a slightly bitter vibe to the other gender but I wouldn't say hate. It's like that with most people here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:34 PM
2

I'd be dating a hobbit, which would be pretty badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:20 PM
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Probably a mix of the "25 fully developed brain" myth, infantilizing young adults even more, online gender wars, and less focus on finding a provider. Although in my experience, it's mostly online. I date women who are 10-13 years younger with no issue. No one cares. As long as you're not salivating at the mouth for fresh 18 year olds, you're probably fine. I just wish they'd admit they only care if it's older man - younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:48 PM
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As someone who hasn't had a lot of options at some points in their life, to having a lot, I genuinely don't understand how anyone can think the latter is just as difficult as the former. The way women and some men will put themselves on the cross because "I have a lot of options, they're just all bad because of my high standards" is so funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:33 PM
1

I'm starting to see that both sides here will use the "it's just tiktok/online brainrot" when convenient for their argument lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:35 AM
2

Y'all be fartin AND shittin?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:13 AM
1

I haven't seen your face, but I haven't seen anyone under a 4 post here. Unless you're 500 pounds or have a bad facial deformity. Honestly it's rough on dating apps even with an average face. You really gotta abuse angles, lighting, and look happy while outside. I'm guessing you're black/nerdy? All of my struggling friends were black nerdy dudes. Pushing for more of a bad boy look helped them quite a bit. That or just nonstop rejection irl until they happened to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:09 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:02 AM
2

About 27
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:08 AM
2

Above average face but looks very fruity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:47 AM
0

Any of the funny ones, even if they are a raging femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:33 AM
0

Wouldn't bother me personally. I'd see watching porn as more normal than her reading that weird smut shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:16 AM
1

How tall are you and how would you rate your own face? Just curious because sometimes on apps you can nichemaxx for better results but sometimes it's not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:03 PM
1

I used to run late at night and would wear a lot of black. I'd scare the shit out of women and some men just running by them. But I was locked in, skill issue on their part idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:50 PM
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Never. I do well on dating apps and my cold/warm approaches have worked a few times though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:01 PM
5

They kept dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:22 PM
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They do condemn them, but only after they are personally pumped and dumped. Then the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:54 PM
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It did for me. Women who do like muscle are pretty feral about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:21 PM
2

Yeah not really, you'll look good while depressed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:19 PM
2

I feel like the only people who shit on femcels are incels. Like you'd get way more support by the general population than an incel would if you started to complain how lonely you were. Incels/virgin men's experiences and feelings are constantly invalidated all over the internet. Mostly because people automatically see it as mysgonist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:04 PM
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Are you being ironic? She's really pretty and everyone's just letting her know that. Also the majority of the comments are from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:52 PM
2

Honestly every person I know that is in therapy or completed it is still mentally ill. I think most men try to get help before killing themselves. Talk therapy just doesn't work for a lot of people. It's also expensive if insurance doesn't cover it. Not to say that people shouldn't try it, but it's not as simple as "go to therapy".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:47 PM
1

It's over (but not really)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:00 AM
1

You give 5'2" energy. I'm calling 🧢, family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:16 AM
1

Lobotomymaxxing? We're so fucking back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:12 AM
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I think it's cute when there's obivious effort put into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:34 AM
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The daily chat people are cool. Don't be so hard on yourselves ❤️. Yes I'm a little drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:40 AM
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Honestly unless it’s a micro penis most women aren't going to care too much since they like you by the time they see it. I can't promise anything if it's a hookup though. They may assume you have a big one. I also can't promise they aren't going to call it small when they break up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:27 PM
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Interesting. When I think about why my mom is so emotionally cold towards me expressing feelings, it probably was due to her father too. And now I'm super hesitant about being vulnerable with women. Thanks grandpa...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:24 PM
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There's even something for that lmao. It's called HCG. But I just want to say for anyone reading this. Gear lowers your sperm count, it does NOT make you infertile. Do not fuck raw on gear thinking it's a contraceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:37 AM
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A woman's bull crap detector would spot a bad guy a mile away...nice try. Edit: sorry bull crud*...didn't mean to curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:43 AM
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Typically that happens if you have really low test, like sub 250. I sit at 700-800 usually and can have a mental block when it comes to staying hard. A lot of ED for men below 45 is psychological. Doesn't hurt to get it checked though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:57 AM
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My first girlfriend was a good friend originally. She had a big crush on me whole time though. I think that's the only way it works. Some women will genuinely just sit there and wait forever for you to confess. For most women you'd be dating way before you ever became besties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:48 AM
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It's definitely standard, can't really say it's ethical. I'm talking to 3 women at the moment, and I don't necessarily feel good about it. But with how fragile dating is and the insane amount of ghosting, this feels like the "meta".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:44 AM
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I was speaking only from the context of a cold approach. She already assumes you're interested because you're a man trying to strike up a random conversation with her. She'll either appreciate the subtlety or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:21 AM
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Yes, because 100% are...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:12 AM
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Hmm I don't think starting out in a non flirty way is necessarily a terrible idea. The lady is going to know what you're doing anyway. She will either like that approach or not. The nice thing about is it gives you plausible deniability (two can play at this game bucko). At some point you have to get flirty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:08 AM
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It's only a "slippery slope" if you don't give good reasons as to why that might happen. People just mindlessly call the "fallacy" out nowadays when they are debate bro'ing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:20 PM
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This is genuinely one of the fastest ways to get laid lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:57 AM
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I'd be completely fine with that and try to give her a good first time. I'd be a little worried that she has a super low libido though. But you'd find that out pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:27 AM
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They usually live near the metro or everything is walking distance. But idk the whole dating experience was just smooth every time. Cute dates into hot sex, into more cute dates. It's a small sample size, but they were just fun gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:08 AM
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Not gonna lie though some of my best dating experiences were women with no cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:00 AM
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A lot of women over 27 with no cars too 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:48 AM
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Yeah but the first comment gets updooted while bald man gets downdooted for saying the same thing 😔 Underprivileged male oppression...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:44 AM
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That guy is bad but not as nearly as bad as her. At least he kinda tries to give arguments...kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:03 AM
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I kinda want to try this. I think between my size and how insanely ugly I'd be as a woman, no man would dare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:51 AM
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He never claimed it was objectively the worst thing that could happen in his OP. Strawmanning is bad debate, not basic debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:11 AM
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His OP was a general "that's insane if you think women get rejected the same as men on average." You replied making it about yourself in an attempt to shift the argument to "well women still have it worse, I'm an example." That's like textbook playing the victim in an argument. Not trying to shit on you, but that's literally what you did lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:04 AM
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Going after someone who isn't single, isn't her niche, someone who isn't looking for anything at the moment, etc. It would happen a lot less on dating apps, but even terrible text game can cause a fumble despite being that hot. A guy like that doesn't have to care about being rejected here and there though, because his success rate is probably so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:12 AM
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I think a 10/10 chad is still getting rejected more tbh. I'm sure average women would get rejected more if they initiated as much, but they don't. The best UFC fighters have lost more fights than the average man, but that's only because the average man doesn't get into fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:03 AM
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The idea that some ex prostitute uses her old email to survey her past clients is so funny to me. This sounds so made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:46 PM
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I feel like you can apply this logic to so many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:39 PM
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"The internet isn't affecting anything at all" - Boomer, as they wipe the drool from their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:06 PM
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Taking 100g of testosterone a week over a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 10:55 PM
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Who would give a gal like me a chance? I'd be like 6'1. https://preview.redd.it/mpa65ww7ymae1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=984753dbb9949f6956434c7f7c59d55b8a084d86
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:53 PM
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2nd one is HUGE gotta do that one more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:48 PM
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Cute tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:37 PM
1

Well it's probably easy to be a prostitute. But being a highly paid one or being able to make a living off of cam stuff is the part that needs genetics. Men probably don't realize how much they'd hate being a street walker too. Although I'd still say there's less of a chance of being a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:18 PM
1

You're mogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:01 PM
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It's impossible to say. A lot of celebrities will juice to get to their natty max faster for a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:01 PM
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It's because you see sex as this special thing. The McDonald's cashier also doesn't want to take your order. There's nothing wrong with seeing sex as a special act btw, it just objectively isn't to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:50 PM
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Apparently the mods don't care. They said they don't want to make any rules that could possibly censor good discussion. I personally don't mind the woman's perspective on a question for men. It's why I always hated the way the "questions for whoever" threads were set up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:15 AM
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Meanwhile on askMen half of the upvoted comments are women answering lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:06 AM
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TikTok thinks I'm a tradcon woman. I just want to go back to funny monke vids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:17 AM
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He's gotta lock in. He will be back and less mentally ill, just watch (or more mentally ill).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:13 AM
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It could just be that your algorithm knows you're horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:41 AM
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I might have confused you with someone else regarding the statistics thing. This was the interaction I was remembering. <image> I mean I see men and women say a lot of dumb shit on the debate side, so I don't doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:26 AM
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Didn't you mention crime statistics to justify being afraid of men a few days ago? Not saying your intention was to paint all men as potential predators, but that's typically why people do that. But yeah, I think taking credit for what other people are doing is dumb. But that thread was asking "how do men protect and provide" so people gave the OP general answers. People even gave anecdotals that she wouldn't accept shrug. I personally think women helped build society so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:31 AM
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Uhhh booba.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:25 AM
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Engineering, data entry, bombing people, gun fights, getting blown up, sitting around base all day, cleaning the base, cheating on their fiancé's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:22 AM
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Yeah all I'm asking for is consistency. If it's assumed I'm violent because of the actions of violent men, then I should also be able to take credit for good things men have done historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:15 AM
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The OP didn't really make an argument. Just asked why this isn't talked about. All the responses are strawmans basically that didn't answer his question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:01 AM
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Lily is a great shitposter and needs more credit. But yes, there's probably one person controlling all of these intricate LARP accounts. Maybe even sperm donor and BMI guy 😳.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:29 AM
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I was just joking. I think it's cute that she likes her husband that much (assuming it's not a LARP account).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:26 AM
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She was actually saying that raw physical attraction was a myth. As in, the same woman won't act differently to Jason Momoa vs a normal dude that is a "maybe".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:17 AM
2

You've never wanted to suck off a short guy who was shooting clay frisbees?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:09 AM
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She also said that bf% isn't an accurate indicator of how fat someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:59 PM
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Most of the reasons given can be done outside of a marriage. This thread is a flop for marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:56 PM
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Not to glaze you (but I am), you're a good debater in a sub full of people with double-digit braincells. I'm not surprised you're getting frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:50 PM
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I actually dated really hot radfem for a bit. She genuinely hated men as a concept. But would be like "not you obviously". Which is funny because I argued with her all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:04 PM
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Uhh having a bunch of negative racial prejudices against a group would make you kinda racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:49 PM
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You could also bring up the fact that there aren't really any reasonable feminists spaces on reddit. They're all very "man bad women good" on basically every topic. Now it's been my experience that irl feminists are 1000x more chill than the ones I'll see online. But the women I know irl also aren't going to marches or aren't very political in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:41 PM
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The fluoride stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:25 PM
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Are we still hanging out at each other's places and getting intimate, just not full on sex? If so I'm fine with that. 6 months of formal dating with no intimacy at all? Nah. I'm ngl, any time I've ever been put on standby like this, she was dating other dudes and I was the 2nd-3rd choice. Usually these end up in a ghost after 2-3 months of dating. A waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:25 PM
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Not attractive to me, but I'd rate her a 6 as far as studs go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:04 PM
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Although I agree with the premise of OPs' argument, it will be interesting to see if the mods do anything about half of the top comments being a circlejerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:58 PM
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It's over...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:56 AM
1

Does she have promiscuous in her flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:20 AM
1

Do you go after IG models? I honestly never see them irl so I couldn't if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:12 AM
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Ma'am you dropped your wallet!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:45 PM
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Can women actually get shadowbanned on Tinder? Weird. Bumble/Hinge might be better if you're looking for a bf honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:41 PM
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If I used the whole sub as an example I'd assume they're not approaching anyone lol. The only poster who talks about approaching women consistently is that "black Casanova" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:39 PM
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Do you have an example? Most of the virgins here seem to be terrified of approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:25 PM
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People mostly do it here as a slimy debate tactic I've noticed. No matter what source you give them, it's a bad one for whatever reason. "Haha you gave a bad source, you lost the argument!".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:06 PM
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To respond to your last sentence, it could be that you have super high standards on what you find "cute average".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:45 PM
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You could make the argument that it will make him a pizza face, but I don't think showers dry your skin long enough to really cure bad genetic acne. And apparently washing your face too much can cause acne. So who knows anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:08 PM
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Blue Pill is definitely not beating the poor reading comprehension allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:50 PM
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I think he's implying that ancoms are the only real lefties.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:59 PM
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Yeah more women are subbing to apps due to the paid filters and being able to scroll through your likes. Saves a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:54 PM
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I hope you researched it. Protect your hair and make sure your estrogen isn't sitting at 200 for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:35 PM
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Most dudes need to pay for Tinder to make it functional tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:10 PM
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To be fair, I'd also have this opinion if I only read what women on reddit say (and here too). It's parroted constantly here that only a very small minority of women want casual sex or want to be approached. It's just one of those things where reddit isn't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:59 PM
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Yeah, whoever programmed him didn't write a very expansive dialogue tree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:37 PM
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I don't really agree with what a lot redpill/blackpill stuff, but I definitely need to try what you're smoking if you think the bluepillers here are crushing these debates lol. Strawmanning someone then calling them a virgin is like 90% of their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:16 PM
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Your weight is fine baby boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:41 AM
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Go to a bar in your area that is a known hangout for college kids. Otherwise you're just hanging out at a bar full of people over 40 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:14 AM
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The funny thing is a lot of dudes can do this. You don't even need to play the part, it has diminishing returns after 25 anyway. Get a sleeve tattoo, buy a crotch rocket, be confused why women are hitting on you in public now (it's mostly the bike). Although people with oofy doofy faces should probably avoid doing this, may backfire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:08 AM
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Expecting full on sex on the first date is kinda crazy. I genuinely don't think most women are in the right mental space to have sex that quickly. Not saying they haven't done it before, but they may have really hated it when they did. I can understand dipping if nothing sexual has happened by the 5th date and she keeps rejecting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:00 AM
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Damn Ms Strongjaw of the strong jaw clan. But yeah she mogs him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:44 AM
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You don't really need to be an actual bad boy, just play the part. My uncle played the part when he was in school, bad mouthed authority, had a bike, wore edgy clothes, etc. He was a giant pussy who got a lot of pussy (according to my dad).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:39 AM
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I do think features being rare can add attractive points, but it has to be actually rare. Like I'm 6'5", blonde hair and blue eyes. That's technically a rare combo, but Americans have seen my exact clone a thousand times. But if I go to Central/South America? I'm basically a zoo animal on display. Which also increases your romantic interest x20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:41 AM
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Hard to say because it's side profile only in black and white, but I'd give her an 8 too based on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:28 AM
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The biggest danger to women is poor diet and obesity, which are the number 1 causes of heart disease 😎.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:51 AM
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I've been pumped and dumped a few times, only one time really hurt because it was kind of a whirlwind of feelings early on. I think most men aren't going to care because we decide if she's girlfriend material a little later on. Typically 2+ months in. If you kinda liked her, you have sex a couple of times and she ghosts, you're gonna be like "okay, well at least I hit" then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:38 AM
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To be fair it's impossible to "beat" that guy because he only argues to get the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:55 PM
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I'm going to guess it was Fart_Engineer. She always goes super hard in any thread that suggests men should approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:44 PM
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Did they lose this argument so bad that their account got nuked or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:41 PM
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Yogurt, protein bar, 800 calories worth of chicken breasts, 2 cups of milk, protein shake. That's about 210g of protein and 1800 calories total.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:48 PM
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I mog him quite a bit. But he didn't struggle with women or anything. He was known in the area as an assbeater, 6'1, athelete, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:32 PM
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I've heard of it happening once in high school, but yeah it's mostly something you'd see in a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:25 PM
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True. I've never had pleasure from casual sex. All those women just used me to get a nut!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:03 PM
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Okay that confirms it then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:58 PM
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It's a more reasonable take than "casual sex makes only men bad because women don't gain much from it".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:38 PM
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This is just one of those things where people don't really have a frame of reference and the person listening is taking it a bit too literally. I like natural = they like light makeup I don't like surgery = they don't like the insanely obvious ones that look terrible It's similar to when women say "I don't like muscles" when what they really mean is they don't like body builders absolutely juiced to the gills. Most men can never look like that regardless so it doesn't matter. But men hear "I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:02 PM
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I'm going to save you some time regarding your last sentence: she doesn't like men very much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 PM
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Probably. That's why I agree with your premise because you said most women. In my experience, most women need to "test the waters" first, even if they liked your pics and text game. See how you move, talk, if you are as witty irl, etc. But sometimes they are just extremely horny, and I'd need to recite one of Hitler's speeches to fumble it at that point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:46 PM
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I'm not really a chad, but I've matched --> hookup with very little interaction. Like a 3 sentence exchange and she's ready to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:30 PM
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Dream physique tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:13 PM
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You did say "most women" so I'll agree. But I don't think it's the overwhelming majority or anything. There's a good chunk of women who will tear your clothes off with barely any interaction if you're physically hot enough to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:22 PM
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I'd be interested to see your physique because it probably looks great. Men can be overly harsh about physiques, especially online. But yeah I asked about boobs because, like you said, it's the only one you can't really develop naturally. But I don't think women with small boobs are struggling to get boyfriends. I assume most surgeries women get are more for their self-esteem or to feel more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:48 AM
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Are you referring to small boobs? I feel like any woman can have a nice physique if they bulk/cut properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:23 AM
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Can dudes rock any harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 AM
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I could have sworn it was a chinese cartoon 🤔.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:45 AM
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Women who have sex with me absolutely rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah true. I know a lot of women who are having healthy babies up to 45. It's all very exaggerated. And thank you 😊.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:32 AM
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Bro wrote a thesis on why mfs ain't getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:31 AM
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ED is more of a 40+ thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:07 AM
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Tfw I'm the most attractive and successful 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:00 AM
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Guys, both genders can be attractive in their 30s (and older). Let's all calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:49 AM
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The OP edited it so now everyone responding to you looks crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:43 AM
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It's just one of those weird pieces of advice people give. Most women don't want to date men younger than them. Maybe by 1-3 years at most. Like with anything, the chances increase irl since you don't have a number over your head, but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:23 AM
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RIP Bill Clinton 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:50 AM
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Have you ever seen the hit cartoon show Naruto? Basically the OP has an occular power that allows him to see BMI. Something to do with fatter people having more Chakra. It's quite a powerful technique in the hands of a master.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:49 AM
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Yeah I remember now, I thought at the time that this dude must do well on Tinder lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:29 AM
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I think that guy has a nice face, unless I'm confusing him with someone else. Tinder also works for me but I'm tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:23 AM
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To better understand the enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:17 AM
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I don't think being short is a dating death sentence (well before 5'5" anyway). But yeah, what's in the image is horseshit. I'm 6'5". I'd say almost all of the hookups I've had were short women with a height fetish. Every single women I've dated mentioned how hot my height was. This dude is either trolling or doesn't use dating apps. Women don't swipe on me because of my face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah when it originally came out it was just hookup city. People cared way way less. The gender ratios were probably more equal too. It sucks that younger zoomers will never experience what Tinder was like when it first came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:55 PM
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Humans desire romantic connection. This also happens to women if they are not desired by anyone they find attractive. Plenty of subreddits full of them. This is just more likely to happen to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:26 PM
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The top comment is almost always "make sure you are taking showers!!" You're an actual masochist if you ask reddit for dating/relationship advice as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:52 PM
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Pick an alignment: Short man bad / fat woman bad Short man good / fat woman good Short man good / fat woman bad Short man bad / fat woman good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:31 PM
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They're also terrible at debating and never engage the more deranged female posters. Just something I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:19 PM
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The last mass shooter was a femcel, so this is customary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:00 PM
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I've never had any complaints about mine. They usually compliment it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:57 PM
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He definitely has a decent foundation of muscle. You can see it in the shoulders, traps, and chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:47 PM
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Similar experience. If you're not naked in bed by the 3rd-5th date she's seeing if the attraction grows. It won't. You're going to get ghosted soon. Honestly if she's rejecting requests to hang out at each other's places by the 3rd date, it's probably over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:33 PM
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True. It's fucked up but if they make me wait too long I start to assume they aren't actually attracted to me and I start dating others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:21 PM
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Lillith doesn't respect consent apparently 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:06 PM
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Jesus christ lmao. Have a nice day dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:45 PM
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Yes good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:04 AM
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I changed it to drill rap which is more empowering. Hopefully own a house, a job I don't hate, sleeve tattoo, and in love with a funny meme queen who loves me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:03 AM
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Hopefully I'll be dead by then (sorry I'm listening to Midwestern emo).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:47 AM
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Maybe that new schizo poster that screenshots comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:22 AM
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Idc what anyone says I think you're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:21 AM
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Sorry that's me with a wig. I'm Staceyfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:02 AM
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Some ideas from the pills are becoming mainstream. I see a lot of younger kids parrot the black pill/lookism memes. Mewing, "just talk to them bro!", etc. I was at a bowling rink last week on a date (funny enough), and the teenagers next to us were talking loudly about how ugly/fat women all think they are 10s. One of them called himself a Chad. Honestly red pill is just repackaged shit from what sexist boomer men used to say about "female nature", the ideas have always been mainstream. We just …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:39 AM
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Very cool place to put a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:51 AM
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Yes and they are the most oppressed group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:44 AM
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They're probably only referring to men at least. Not sure if that makes it any better though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:45 AM
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I love women (and men platonically).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:23 AM
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I was being ironic lmao. I thought the "teehee" would give it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:03 AM
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Yeah I know. I don't think I've ever seen anyone claim that in my life until now (that bf% isn't an accurate measurement of health). I honestly think it's a LARPer account trying to bait people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:56 AM
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She also thinks BF% is a bad test, so idk lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:52 AM
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Agreed. I know I have a high looks and personality threshold for a relationship. If I never find an LTR again, it's on me. I tell my female friends who complain about dating to lower their physical standards all the time. But most people don't see themselves as shallow, so shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:09 AM
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I'm surprised she didn't call you a "sexless scrooge".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:01 AM
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I envy the super nice dudes at the gym who just started. The body dysmorphia has not taken hold yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:00 AM
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I gotta try the cybussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:56 AM
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It isn't very accurate when regarding really short women or really tall men. It's accurate enough for 5'4". It's not a "you're objectively unhealthy" measurement because of muscle mass. But most women aren't carrying around bb levels of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:20 AM
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Ooooh okay, they don't usually have sex with their clients right? If that's the case then sure. It would at the very least be funny to ask her how the cock and ball torture went after she got back from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:36 PM
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Yeah this should always be pinned over the n count thread, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:32 PM
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It can be a turn on sometimes, but all the time would be lame. If she's reasonable about it and respects my boundaries, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:30 PM
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If you asked me what my favorite food was, and I said pizza, that would be an objective data point in the study. It wouldn't prove pizza is objectively the best food, obviously. There you go! Humans studying other people's faces for similarities can never be completely objective. That's what your first argument should have been. I would out the AI argument though, it's not quite there yet. Another argument you could make is that attraction changes depending on what society pushes. So if the majo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:51 PM
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He already explained it in the post. You survey people on who they think is attractive. If 90% of people pick the same 30 people, you would then study their faces for similarities. If there are a lot of similarities, then we can conclude that these facial features make someone objectively attractive to the majority of people. If there's no pattern or similarities at all, we can conclude that it is a lot more subjective. All of these are data points that would be quantifiable. In this situation, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:33 PM
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I'm surprised you're letting him get away with the fact that he didn't actually refute why your theory would be objective. He just told you that you have to apply it first, which is stupid as fuck in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:15 PM
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It's not that we don't care at all, just not as much. I don't need her to have a high paying job to go on dates. If anything, a chill job where she has more time to see me is good. She doesn't even need a job as long as she's not expecting me to unrealistically fit the bill for everything. My first gf was unemployed for a year, and it didn't really matter because we stayed inside most of the time. With that said, if you tell me you are a doctor, I'll be impressed. I just warn them upfront that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:47 PM
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It was probably because your confidence went up, women love fat men! Especially if they are morbidly obese, like a big wholesome chungus for them to cuddle teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:18 PM
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Don't take this the wrong way, but an incel will eventually lose their virginity to a woman like you. They just haven't found her yet. And they honestly may never find her. If I had to approach 100 women for the chance of 1 being interested, I'd probably call it quits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:56 PM
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Either can not read well, is being dumb ironically, or making a trans joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:21 PM
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It would be funny if that guy is some inceltear LARPing account.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:14 PM
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They could just leave the subreddit if they don't want to debate. A part of being on a sub like this is that the other gender is going to invalidate your feelings/experiences a lot. Comes with the territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:55 PM
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Bro your entire account has to be bait. You dated one person in high school lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:25 PM
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Other than the stereotype of lesbians getting into serious relationships too quicky. The real answer is that it's double the neurosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:41 AM
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Go to the highest bridge near me. Look over it to see if there's any single women. Oh no I just slipped and fell, aaaaahhhh!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:51 AM
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Hmm if she's actually single and looking for a bf, I'd try to feel out if she's just memeing here. A lot of app dating stays casual anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:43 PM
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No. It implies she wants to be a hoe with me and cheat on her boyfriend. I'd be happy to oblige 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:37 PM
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Natalie Wood https://preview.redd.it/ekkv1h7pzg9e1.jpeg?width=2000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=101fa3d74858d0a7098a5fba6306d94b75ebeef3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:47 PM
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Don't listen to the people responding to you they don't respect the bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:42 PM
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If we're leaving out face: Butt > Hips > Boobs > Legs > waist/stomach > everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:58 PM
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Yeah I agree. That's why I ask people what they mean when they use words like "good" or "nice" in these contexts. It's usually a very narrow definition that the other gender isn't going to get horny for just because you have those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:20 PM
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Yeah I noticed that a while ago. He brings up Tate more than anyone else in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:16 PM
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"Toxic" in this context probably means someone who strings you along, doesn't marry you, abandons you when you pop a baby out. These dudes are saying they wouldn't have done that, that's why they are "good" in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:01 PM
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Probably because he was asking if that societal preference would be justified, not if you would personally date these men. It's a hypothetical to create discussion about dating preferences at a macro level. Why we see some preferences as okay and others toxic, yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:10 PM
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Never seen such a big nose on a face that it doesn't belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:58 PM
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Okay you are a little too easy to rob.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:04 PM
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As a general rule: first time you're somewhat alone. If it's the 1st date, I typically try to feel it out before going for it. Butterflies in your stomach, she's trying to touch your hands/arms, you're saying flirty stuff to each other instead of interview questions. If you can't read body language at all, the 2nd date when you are somewhat alone is a safe option. She probably is expecting you to kiss her at this point. And yes, as a man you will be the one that has to start it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:49 PM
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I think my favorite is: "Some people have this opinion" "Who? Please give me a link" posts social media video of someone having this opinion with 500k likes "That's not real, get off social media" Like bro...I literally gave you what you asked for. At least argue that it's fringe or a minority of people with this opinion. "it's not real!!" - as they are drooling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:42 PM
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I see it similar to going clothes shoping when you really don't want to, but you know it will make your partner happy. Making them happy is the main motivation, even if you don't want to do the act. I think for whatever reason people put sex on a pedestal in this regard. There's times when my ex was super horny but I was too tired or not in the mood, so I'd give her foreplay/head. She didn't like cooking that much, but she would still do it when I got home late from work, etc. It's give and get …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:33 PM
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I'm confused, is she telling this to women or men? Also is she saying princess treatment = being loved and respected by your partner? I thought it meant treating your girlfriend like she's disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:21 PM
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Origins basically. Although 2 is a guilty pleasure of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:09 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:07 PM
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You either bend down or pick them up, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:45 PM
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Yes this has also been my experience. 70% of the women I've dated were below 5'2". The one I'm currently dating is 5ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:45 PM
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It doesn't help that really short women are the most feral about tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:53 AM
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People on reddit could at least be consistent about this. No one is telling a fat woman that it's her personality when her skinny friend gets all the attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:36 AM
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Hmm the guy did get a warning for overating. And there was only 2 posts. I remember when I'd lurk there a year ago they would never give anyone more than a 6.5. Now I want to see your face tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:33 PM
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Don't they just ignore men who post? I feel like it's Average - 3-5 Really attractive - 6 That's it. No one ever gets more than a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:21 PM
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I don't even care about n count, but 200 is crazy work. Was she trying to catch em all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:48 PM
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Usually yeah. They can get low body fat and have definition while natty, but they won't have the "muscle" look without some anavar at least. Leanbeefpatty is a good example of what that looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:33 PM
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Basically a Lillith banger where she said that if you start dating someone and they later balloon in size, you should help them lose weight/get fit. Both men and women were saying it's a lot of work to micro manage someone else's health, some were saying they'd break up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:29 PM
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Dude that's literally what I was talking about. Slowly going in for the kiss and seeing how they react. If they react positively, you keep going for it. Doing that is way better than asking for permission 99% of the time. You said that you need to read their body language, observe they want to kiss, then ask them confidently after confirming they want to kiss (?). My advice in the original post was that it's preferable to go for it, as in, don't ask. My original post never mentioned abandoning b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:35 PM
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True, it's heavily implied and there is 0 risk you turn her off with being vulgar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:34 PM
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If you know the answer is going to be yes, why would you even ask permission. You'd be better off going in for the kiss. Do you understand how strange your logic is here? "Just ask confidently by perfectly reading her body language since you already know it would be a yes" This is such bizarre advice to give anyone. No one can perfectly read your body language or act confident in exactly the way you want. I see why you guys get annoyed when men tell you what it's like to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:09 PM
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I feel like you're moving the goal post super hard here. We were talking about asking them directly. Which is always going to come off a bit awkward, it's also completely subjective to the women receiving the request. I've asked women on the first date if I can kiss them because they were not making it obvious enough if they wanted to. Sometimes they thought it was cute, sometimes it was a turn off. In those situations, it's better to slowly go in for it and she how she reacts. Obviously when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:30 PM
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I was referring to asking for permission to have a kiss, give head, that kind of thing. Not talking sexy to them lol. Asking for permission instead of being assertive can be a turn off to some women, that's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:10 PM
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Yeah I thought she was either a troll or on the spectrum (with respect) the first couple of times I saw her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:03 PM
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Some women really do not like if you ask, some are okay with it. You're typically better off just going for it in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:01 PM
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I will never understand how letting your partner know that they are getting too fat or leaving them for it has become taboo. People point out/leave due to the bad habits of their partners all the time. With that said I agree, you should try to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:57 PM
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It's two dudes shit talking each other through vagueposting I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:45 PM
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Every single thread in that subreddit frames all social issue as "men bad women good". I remember one thread a long time ago was about teenage girls bullying other teenaged girls to death and they somehow blamed it on men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:06 PM
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People really underestimate how much more we will glaze someone if they are attractive. If Trumps first assassin was hot, lefties would have collectively been sucking him off instead of saying "grr that ugly idiot missed!".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:00 PM
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Most men can't protect their girlfriends if shit hit the fan anyway, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Your friends are going to get dogwalked in front of their girlfriends one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:58 AM
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I feel like this all comes down to how enthusiastic consent is defined. Not everyone defines it as reasonable as you, for example. I think that's where the confusion comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:32 AM
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It's pretty normal for both men and women to do that at the office, women can be a bit more open about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 10:23 PM
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We must protect our precious sperm donors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:49 PM
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Women getting upset at AWALT: 😡 😒 Women practicing AMALT on reddit for the past 15 years: 🤭 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:04 PM
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I was joking please don't throw the dishes at me miss 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:53 PM
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You've been groomed sweetie...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:41 PM
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It's just a funny video from Dragonball Z regarding androids lol. Most here would probably call me a chad-lite, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:32 PM
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https://youtu.be/njW71IXOToI?feature=shared I honestly use apps because I know they're single/looking for someone (being tall makes it easy too). The main issue with approaching women irl is that half of them are already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:28 PM
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I'm going to agree with you and say these people have never left their house lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:19 PM
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This is news to me. I guess all the random women I've met from the apps the last 8 months were Tesla androids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:17 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:58 PM
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Yeah idk what to tell them. There's been like 7 separate times I've given women head after the 1st-3rd date and they didn't even reach for my dick at all. Some people are just selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:22 PM
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If you're referring to me then put your duke's up! (this may be the first time we've interacted).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:11 PM
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Yes women are pretty pilled about their own dating. If you wrote down on paper what the "blue pill" is for straight women, it would sound very similar to black/red pill. The "it's all personality" shit is just for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:01 PM
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People who have sex are being discriminated against in that sub, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:31 PM
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One of the main red pill tenants: hypergrippy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:56 AM
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Paper abortions don't need to be a body autonomy issue to make equitable laws based on it. We make equitable laws that have nothing to do with body autonomy all the time. In fact, we don't respect body autonomy much at all with a lot of our laws in the West. So you're right that it's not ethically analogous to abortions, it just doesn't matter for the argument to legalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:45 AM
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To be fair it's not her fault a lot of the time. I've given head to stinky coochies before because she was out all day and hadn't had the chance to take a shower yet. Like yeah it's kinda nasty, but I started the foreplay and it's rude as shit to tell her to go take a shower lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:27 AM
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This has been my experience too. Bad at hand jobs, blow jobs, riding etc. A lot of the worse ones just resort to starfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:21 AM
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She's single handedly pushing more men to the red pill than any grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:09 AM
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Yes it's called an analogy, they're used to show how silly the original argument sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:56 AM
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Hmm I'm going to keep grilling you over and over because a pillow princess can't exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:53 AM
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This is a pointless discussion then. "Attractive men don't rape because I would never find a rapist attractive". You're literally the apex fallacy with legs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:41 AM
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Because attractive people can be aggressive assholes? I'm going to assume you're trolling at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:27 AM
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I'd care more about how many objectively attractive men catcall, your anecdotal experience doesn't mean much when making such a general claim. You could find .005% of men attractive for all I know. I'm going to go ahead and guess that conventionally attractive men have catcalled before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:12 AM
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This is an insane claim lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:06 AM
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Which is fine, it's just not a good argument for paper abortions. I don't want to pay taxes at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:01 AM
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You could make this argument for literally anything regarding taxes. We already pay for single moms making bad decisions lol. You can give your kid up to the state with no legal repercussions and they foot the entire bill, no questions asked (in the west). Paper abortions would be decided when it's a zygote, yes. If she decides to keep it, she should pay for it. I'd rather pay for kids out of wedlock than bombing random brown children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:32 AM
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There really isn't good arguments against anyway. Mostly muh biology and "think about the children" shit that right wingers use for arguments against abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:12 AM
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This is true. Any slutty man will tell you, jerking off by yourself is better than bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:16 PM
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I mean as long as you're saying you want to improve so you are her best, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I don't know why people are calling you a weirdo/freak and shit. It's just that most women will find the obsession strange, and it will turn them off. This kind of thing will only hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:06 AM
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I straight up have never seen a young obese man out with a girlfriend in like 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:59 AM
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Inject 100mg of test of week then tough guy, let's see how you handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:52 AM
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As long as they got feminine hips and some ass they can be flat for all I care. Boobs are just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:19 AM
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None of the top comments are actually debating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:15 AM
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A couple times when being rejected (even if we had sex). I think that is just the go-to word for a lot of women when they are rejecting a man. I mostly get "sweet", "warm", and "you make me feel safe" kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:59 AM
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Honestly you can have really terrible takes, but if I think you're funny then I'll like you. Her doom & shitposting were pretty entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:34 AM
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Your first two sentences are very true. Reddit is basically an alternate universe of what the world "should be like" (at least to neoliberals).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:14 AM
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RIP to a real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:52 PM
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It probably was an anti Muslim dog whistle, but yeah the idea that you're nazi simply for being anti immigration is why no one takes these words seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:42 PM
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Oof brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:25 PM
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Taco bell chicken nuggies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:46 PM
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I feel like people are going harder on you for this than the threads where the person admits they're a criminal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:18 PM
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How can you not give him credit? He shot and hit the only two people in the crowd who were about to gravely injure him. He was smurfing in pisslow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:02 PM
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Yeah he is lol. He's randomly hostile to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:54 PM
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I made a joke saying the same thing and got modded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:55 PM
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I've dated quite a bit in the last 8 months, and I didn't find any connection between attractiveness and them wanting to split the bill. In fact, the two most attractive women I went out with not only split, but they fully paid for some of the dates. Them being liberal/feminist isn't really a guarantee either, I'd say 50% of the women I dated wanted me to pay for the first date, and they were all liberals. Truth is the only way to know is to ask before the first date, which is usually a bad idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:55 PM
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Yeah you can tell so many of these takes are from people who don't date in America lol. Or don't date straight women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:25 PM
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The virgin section (sci-fi & fantasy).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:20 AM
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I don't trust this shit unless you had a huge glow up since her rejecting you tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 07:02 PM
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I have a hard time believing he's not out there getting attention from normal women, he's decent looking. I'm guessing he wants a celebrity girlfriend for clout and is just going about it like a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:58 PM
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He's also a gay man from the middle east projection his experiences with virgins unto straight male virgins in the west. It genuinely makes no fucking sense. He is quite the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:11 AM
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Based and beerpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:36 AM
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There's online pedophile rings passing kids around to a lot more people. Finding 100 people online out of 30 million that want to do something fucked up isn't really that crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:28 AM
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Redpill has a pretty low opinion of men though, they just also have a really low opinion of woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:43 AM
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I got a 5ft Latina from bumble who likes me right now, but I'm burnt out. Getting her number and deleting the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:27 AM
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That guy is a troll lol. He posts hot celebrities and calls them mid. Most of the time you guys are just getting baited by shitposters on here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:35 PM
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I think this would be weird behavior for anyone to do in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:24 PM
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You're just arguing with LARPers all day my man lol. Like this place is infested with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:21 PM
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Most young people call anyone over 30 a dinosaur lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:06 PM
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She's also like 8 years old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:11 PM
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*if you are a man (just what I've noticed)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:00 PM
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Not really, this is pretty normal in certain workplaces. I'm 34 and hang out with my coworkers who are 23 and 55 all the time. Online spaces also make this a bigger possibility nowadays. This whole "you should have nothing in common with them" is such a chronically online reddit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:31 PM
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Well I'm not going to comment on dudes who are hanging out at college parties to find a girlfriend. But all I can say is, the women going for older men on the apps know exactly what they are doing. And yes the power imbalance thing is horseshit. It's just icky to people, that's all. Typically if the older person is young looking/attractive, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:28 PM
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I've honestly never seen anyone give a shit about older woman/younger man. Does she look much older than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:25 PM
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Left leaning people only have an issue with straight porn, I have never seen any criticism toward any other kind. Their issues with it are typically: Causing men to be "porn sick", ED, death grip Makes men objectify women more Women are exploited, trafficked, etc. Some of these are true, but a lot of it is just pearl clutching "men bad" shit. I never see any of these criticisms applied to gay porn or women who watch porn. Right-wing people are typically religious prudes and hate all porn (while …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:07 PM
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This is actually kinda true since people tend to only have an issue with man on woman porn, at least on the lefty side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:57 AM
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This one was kinda good ngl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:49 AM
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It's not talked about a lot, but it's 100% worse to be a fat man in dating than a fat woman (especially when young). Women just swipe left and aren't mean about it, probably because it's something that affects women too. It's why they are a lot more vocal about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:44 AM
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Fat men are pretty invisible for the most part. Dating apps are basically useless for them. Have to depend on a big social circle or warm approaches, which can be difficult after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:36 AM
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This is why IOIs are a meme. What one man or woman sees as an IOI is completely different to someone else. You're risking it anytime you initiate something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:27 AM
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You sorta just answered your own question? Guys have to initiate because apparently we are all unworthy (as you said), and women won't do it. If men sat by and waited for only women to initiate, we'd go extinct. I also would be a virgin and never had an LTR. Btw I'm not saying women never initiate, just that the majority of the time it is the man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:32 PM
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Any tall guy can tell you, yes, they really do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:06 AM
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People are shitting on you, but you're right. Men who don't really consider boundaries tend to do a lot better. Approach that hot lady at the bar, go for that kiss on the first date, initiate foreplay when you are alone with her, etc. Men who don't think twice about this kind of stuff do way better in dating. As long as you're respectful when she says no, there's nothing inherently wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:12 AM
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I think I know who you talm bout
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:58 AM
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No one really calls it out in progressive spaces when it happens though, so it doesn't really need to be the exact same people. Also a lot of people get around it by doing the "calling someone an incel isn't virgin shaming" hamstering. But honestly, there's people in the n count thread every week that do exactly that the OP is talking about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:51 AM
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I feel like if you're over 6ft you can truly dumpster dive for a hookup, especially on Bumble/Hinge where they pay for the height filters. Although it would test how low his standards truly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:34 AM
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I'd say in person is better if you want something more organic/romantic (for most people). The issue with in person is that it can be very luck based. But your chances are higher of getting a bite than it would be if you don't reach the barrier of entry for apps. If you get a lot of options on apps, you can play the numbers game in the comfort of your own home. But I don't think most men are ever getting that many options. So for the average guy, in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:29 AM
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I genuinely think he would have gotten laid if he took 1 good pic and used a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:17 AM
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BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:13 AM
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I feel like he did the opposite of terrorize. He made everyone horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:24 PM
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Colored hair on hot woman is liked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:09 PM
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I mean, if it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:03 PM
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I've noticed on reddit that it's used for both dating and relationships. Basically, you wash your ass and take a shower, treat her like a human. I think this is just some made-up reddit thing. These people don't go outside or they met at a furry convention. When I hear it irl it's typically meant like "if he just rizzed me like he did when we were dating". Be romantic, gifts, dinner dates, etc. I agree you should put in effort, but this isn't really bar on the floor. So either way it's all kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:36 PM
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I'd just call out the people who I know are LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:28 PM
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I got modded for a "direct insult" when I said women on the debate side are pretty mean. So I get why everyone is afraid to be too specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:27 PM
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Both men and women prefer brunettes I believe (could be wrong but that's what I read).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:20 PM
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Oh damn, if you thought he was funny then I'll take your word for it. All of your comments are knee slappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:14 PM
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I went on a date on Sunday, got coffee + crepes. We doodled stuff on a piece of cardboard like we were teenagers. Then I took her to a movie and we kissed. One of my cutest dates in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:53 PM
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Well yeah. Think about any time you've met a woman's boyfriend and she said "I fell in love with him because he's so funny". Has that guy ever been funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:41 PM
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I guess 6'5" with a nice physique is timeless 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:23 PM
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Hmm, I wanted a gf when I first started but not 100% sure anymore. I'm sort of just seeing how things go. Almost all of the women who wanted to just hookup with me were young, if that matters. Women in the 28-32 range wanted to date with purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:03 PM
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US, east coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:52 PM
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I'm 34 and a good chunk of the women I've dated in the last 8 months were in the 23-25 range (maybe like 40%). I'm actually going on a date tomorrow with a 24 year old. I don't go out of my way or anything, these are just the women I match with, and there's nothing on my profile that suggests I'm wealthy. I'm probably an outlier, but younger women are interested in my friends too. So idk how rare or common it is. The stats tend to only focus on marriage and not casual dating/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:04 PM
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Not sure I agree with that, unless you have a very specific definition of what consequences mean lol. I've gotten into a fist fight for cold approaching before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah but the video wouldn't have been as interesting if it wasn't some crazy anecdotal. I took it as "this guy did this crazy thing and is getting laid, you can at least go talk to women at the bar". But maybe I'm being too charitable idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:14 PM
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Did you actually watch it? He said you shouldn't do this exact thing, but you need to take more risks and stop overthinking lol. He's right. Neurosis is probably one of the biggest detriments to getting laid as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:37 PM
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Interesting, my OG comment got modded for a "direct insult" when I was not insulting anyone directly, and it was in the auto mod. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:32 PM
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I'm not necessarily talking about paying, I've had plenty of women split. Yes some women will make it easy for you, but those women will also ghost you just as fast as the ones who make it difficult. It's a grind as a man on these apps, even with options. You're a "maybe" to most of these women. Which is fine, that's the point of dating, it's just up to the man to push everything along and risk getting rejected: Most of the dates, asking for a number, asking to come over, first kiss, sexual adva…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:25 AM
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