goodmorningsunshines Archive

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3	Listen Up Scrotes! Here’s Why Women Think You’re Creepy (FDS PODCAST EP. 84) Thank you!! I’ve done like obsessive research about this issue and despite everything I’ve brought up (sources and actual dental airway specialist names who I’ve spoken with online included) I continue to get told it’s not a big deal because he can sleep and eat (barely until just recently at 2.5yo) and he’s gaining weight. I am working with his dentist to get this all fixed. He is also under observation by an ENT who is convinced he will “grow out of it,” (another man 🙃) which is why we have to…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/22 03:20 AM
2	Listen Up Scrotes! Here’s Why Women Think You’re Creepy (FDS PODCAST EP. 84) I mean I’m sure there are plenty other reasons too like deviated septum, cleft palate, cranial deformities, etc. The main culprit however is those I listed above. It’s actually estimated that close to 40% of people who are diagnosed with behavioural disorders like ADHD, ODD and other kinds of sensory sensitivities actually just suffer from sleep disordered breathing or episodes of apnea during sleep caused by a tongue tie or enlarged soft tissue. Poor sleep = inability to concentrate and regulat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/22 11:42 AM
53	Listen Up Scrotes! Here’s Why Women Think You’re Creepy (FDS PODCAST EP. 84) So the “medical reason” that people mouth breathe is due to either tethered oral tissue (tongue tie), enlarged tonsils/adenoids and a high palate. These are formed at 20 weeks gestation, and there is a lot of evidence to suggest that the introduction of folic acid (as opposed to methylated folate, a more bioavailable form of folate) in prenatals and breads and cereals is the cause of this deformity during pregnancy. The cure? A frenotomy (tongue tie revision), removing your tonsils and adenoids …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/22 01:14 PM
137	Tell Women The Truth About Butt Sex (FDS PATREON) I remember watching a Dr. Oz type of show about porn stars who do anal, and there were three women on there who said that doing anal sex all the time made them anally incontinent and they experienced leakage on a regular basis, one of them had to wear diapers all the time, one of them even had to have corrective surgery - it was just super sad and upsetting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/22 12:46 PM
2	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? It’s hard to make the switch from “mommy bangmaid” to seeing your partner as a capable and equal participant in family life after years of that being the dynamic. It’s not like oh, I can just do some chores and she’ll put out same day - there’s a lot that goes into it. I would also be willing to bet that these men aren’t sharing the mental load of what needs to be done and are conveniently leaving that out of their side of the story, and instead are expecting their wives to ask them or tell them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 01:36 PM
8	Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful? Here’s the thing, though: If a woman isn’t having sex with her husband, there’s usually a reason. The main one being kids. If you as the man are not sharing equal domestic duties and care tasks with your wife after you have children, she’s just going to see you as another child she has to take care of. The reason why no-fault divorce became so popular once it was introduced was so women could escape the life of being expected to “do it all” inside the house IN ADDITION TO offering up her body to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:26 AM
19	Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties. They also tend to conveniently leave out the fact that the vast majority of men who “peak” at 37 are married with children. Marriage and children are the two main factors that increase a man’s earning potential and net worth, specifically because the need to provide to his family provides him with a sense of urgency, which increases his work ethic and provides him with real incentive to demand raises when he otherwise would be perfectly content doing and earning less. When you’re responsible for…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/22 06:51 PM
2	Why do women want/need commitment? When I was multi-dating, I didn’t sleep with anyone until a relationship/commitment was established, and all of the women I know who are/were multi-dating do/did the same, so in my personal experience it’s very rare. Coupled with the statistics that exist that show men have much more casual sex than women, it lends credence to the assertion that women actually aren’t banging multiple dudes at once, and it may be just so that the women that (insert man who makes the claim that women are generally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 02:02 PM
2	Why do women want/need commitment? “Don’t assume things about people.” Funny you say that since your previous comment was a glaring assumption likely not rooted in any objectivity other than the fact that she is not exclusively seeing you, unless every woman you’ve ever dated is telling you outright that she is, in fact, sleeping with lots of other men in addition to you, in which case I’ll concede.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 01:04 PM
3	Why do women want/need commitment? This is a really common assumption and it’s completely wrong and I don’t know why it gets parroted around so much when the evidence shows the exact opposite. There are currently no studies anywhere for any country that support this notion that women have more casual sex than men do. Men make this assumption because THEY would be having more sex if their dating prospects were as plentiful as a woman’s. The majority of women are very selective when it comes to choosing a sexual partner. I think th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 12:25 PM
2	Why do women want/need commitment? Women don’t need men unless their goal is to have children, and not every woman wants that. Even just becoming pregnant reduces a woman’s earning potential for the sheer fact that she has to take off work in order to attend doctor’s appointments at least once a month for the first part of pregnancy, then in the middle it’s twice a month, then at the end it’s at least once a week. And that’s only if her pregnancy is uncomplicated, which you can’t predict, as every pregnancy is different even if i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:59 AM
30	Mental gymnastics example of my misogynistic home country’s subreddit: MiSaNdRy and beauty standards What’s even more hilarious and simultaneously enraging about that whole thing is that the “ideal male body type” is projected onto men by other men, not women. Men own the major media corporations. Men produce the films with the men who have ripped abs and 2% body fat. Men are the trainers of the superstars who starve and dehydrate themselves to get roles in these movies or modelling gigs. Men own the gossip magazines, the underwear companies, the fitness companies, etc. and men and women alike …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/22 11:37 AM
8	Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to say I had boyfriends before who, if I was introducing an idea or even something as inconsequential like a band that I liked, it’s like they dismissed it entirely. Then if their male friend had the same idea or introduced them to the same band, they’d come to me and be like, “omg so and so introduced me to this, isn’t that brilliant/awesome? It’s now my favourite thing!!” as if I didn’t just say that exact thing weeks ago. I’d always call them out and they’d make excuses about how the other person “e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 09:34 PM
2	Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men. I always see these sorts of questions as red flags in anyone, male or female. What knowledge about someone are you able to gain by asking these in the first place? Anyone can SAY anything, especially during a date. “I’m this, I’m that.” Okay, so prove it? Like…? What does that even mean to you? In what capacity do you exhibit these traits on a daily basis? Give me examples. Whenever someone says they’re kind or empathetic I run for the hills, because it screams unresolved trauma and I’m just not…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/22 03:42 AM
27	epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ring The only thing I would suggest in your case is to draw up a legal agreement that ensures you are his next of kin in the event of an emergency/death, otherwise you will have no access to any of his assets in the event of his death later in life. Also make sure you have notarized affidavits or documentation that prove his paternity over your shared child. The birth certificate is often not enough proof in situations where he may have to travel with your child alone/if there is a medical emergency …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 02:41 AM