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This. If someone has a body count of 30 and they are under 30, it would definitely make me wonder what’s wrong with them. A. It was intentional and this person is clearly trying to prove something. They likely are immature or a narcissist or both. Or they are comfortable with having sex with women who they aren’t attracted to. B. It wasn’t intentional. Women don’t want to continue having sex with them because they are bad at it or they don’t have a good personality/ aren’t attractive enough to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 03:36 PM
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How many breakup after reading it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:17 AM
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Not conventionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:06 AM
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My ex, who was unemployed at the time, managed to have sex with three different very attractive women that lived at our apartment complex in the two weeks between us breaking up and me finding a new place, so I’d say it’s possible!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:27 AM
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I’d disagree. The majority of men do not care in my experience. The only time I have ever been asked was in high school. It’s juvenile and dated to be concerned with a woman’s number.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:48 PM
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Women who lie about their sexual history and men who care about women’s sexual history are both insecure. Like, by definition. But your title reads like all women lie, which is so far from the truth. Sex positivity? That’s pretty much the norm IRL unless you are a boomer or religious or in a conservative wasteland.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:37 PM
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I’m personally not a fan. I’m not going to not date someone with tattoos, but like 99% of the time they are super lame and I am going to be a little judgmental about it when I see them. It’s a turn-off, unless they are very good and interesting and the person isn’t super serious about it, which is rare. Also, people who have tattoos like to say they have deep meanings and it comes off as pretentious and annoying. It’s way cooler if they don’t have a meaning. And it should be said that I fit more…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:57 PM
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I said “very short.” What more do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:27 PM
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There are many reasons why women are more hesitant to use online dating. Obviously, safety and things like that. But mostly, because it is embarrassing. It's much easier for women to find a date in person than it is for a man, so if we have to download an app and make a profile and find/take photos, it can really drive home the point that we are unsuccessful in our love life and start to feel a little desperate. And if we manage to actually meet someone we like and have an LTR with, it's usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:16 PM
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As I have stated, if she says to take things slow it just means she is pumping the breaks on having sex with you in that very moment. That's what it means. Simple. It doesn't always mean that she isn't attracted to you or that there's a waiting period that she only extends for ugly guys or that she is on her period. It could mean a number of things, but on the surface taking things slow means - no right now. That's what it MEANS and that's what she is SAYING. No, right now. Now, below the surfac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:27 PM
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You asked if women would shame men for this. And now, you keep saying shaming tactics. You asked for it! But, whatever. Btw, indifference? You think women want to hear that you are indifferent to them or the idea of dating them. Come on..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:33 PM
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I'm saying the best of a relationship is both parties having feelings for each other. That makes a relationship. Otherwise, you can just pay for sex, which is what you are doing. So why are you even offended? You asked if women try to shame men for paying for sex. Absolutely and exactly for the reasons that you have revealed of yourself as core beliefs. Women see men who use prostitutes as not being able to form an intimate connection through sex and unable to value relationships and seeing wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:23 PM
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WHAT? Lol. You are really grasping at straws. Yes, says and means take things slow, obviously. Taking things slow only certainly means that she doesn't want to have sex at that very moment. That is surface level. We are arguing about what does she mean when she says it. Not the definition of taking things slow, which as stated is simply defined as her not wanting to have sex at that very moment and could or could not indicate attraction. We are discussing what is motivating her to want to take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:09 PM
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"inundate you with their emotions and I don't tolerate that codependent bullshit" Exactly. I think having emotions is like bar none of a relationship. My point still stands. Sugarbabies? Sure, if you consider that a relationship, whatever. But I'd hardly define someone who has one as not single. That's hardly a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:42 PM
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What a strawman argument. A little recap: According to you, your argument is "My argument still works: If a woman had casual sex with people before you but wouldn't with you after a first date because she wants to take it slow, she isn't attracted to you." Your argument isn't is is "absolutely impossible." Your argument was until just not definite. You said: Take things slow = Not attracted I said: Take things slow = ∞ So, yeah. It's absolutely possible, and my argument has always been that it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:37 PM
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You are trying to monetize relationships. Do you think that is appealing to women? Your prostitutes are cheaper mentality is not going to attract a single woman on the planet. You claim that you are rejecting them, but who would want to put up with your attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:17 PM
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It takes a lot for a woman to download an app. There are more men on the apps because some women are still unsure about online dating and aren’t comfortable with the stigma that comes with all of that. And more importantly, women tend to have more success finding dates in person than men. So I’d say that the women who do choose to try OLD are more serious about finding a partner than women you meet at a bar. It’s sort of a last resort thing for women. It’s definitely not entertaining for the vas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:06 PM
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I can see why you’re single, and it’s definitely not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:12 PM
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Your entire argument is based on your assumption that when a woman says “take things slow” she means you’re not that attractive based on what you have observed through your very limited experience with women. You don’t see an issue with that? All I am saying is that there are dozens of other reasons why she doesn’t want to have sex at that very moment. I am only providing you insight on the actual reasons why women do say that based on my extensive personal experience. I know this because I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:48 PM
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Lol. Good luck out there. Thanks for your little debate on what women think with an actual woman. Expecting a woman to tell you exactly why she doesn’t want to have sex with you is ridiculous. She doesn’t owe you an explanation of why she doesn’t want to get naked with you especially if she barely knows you. But if you act anything like you are now, I’d be surprised if you get any sex at all. Your way of thinking is entitled, judgmental, hypocritical, and creepy. It really doesn’t matter how you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:06 PM
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No, you are missing the point. Unless she says that she doesn’t want to have sex with you because she isn’t attracted to you. How could you possibly know that is the case? And just because she expressed she wants to “take things slow” doesn’t mean that any of those scenarios I said are not the case. In fact, all of them are absolutely reasons why a woman would use the “slow” line. Do you really think a woman is going to say, “don’t wanna fuck cause I’m on my period?” Or how about “the last guy I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:37 PM
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I can’t speak for all women, but I can assure you that it does happen more often than not especially if you have been drinking and you are less in control of your emotions. It’s not “Wow, you are super hot. Let’s bone. Don’t care if I never hear from again.” Seriously, does that sound like any woman you know? I can count on one hand out of hundreds of women I know who think like that. Nope! It’s more like. “Wow, he’s super cute/hot and interesting. I’d like to get to know him more and could real…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:33 PM
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By your definition, you just proved my point. Emotional attachment. Who’s to say she didn’t form an attachment with a friend or a complete stranger or at the end of the first date? Human emotions and connections have no timeline and are not defined by relationship status, ESPECIALLY for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:20 PM
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The label is almost always used for women. Therefore, it’s sexist. But yeah, if you just have an issue with casual sex regardless of gender, that’s fair. Women don’t care about that. You are entitled to your opinions, but if they are sexist, then we care. If you are judgmental of all genders and a prude, go ahead and call anyone and everyone a hoe. We do not care. It’s lame of you, it’s not going to make you a lot of friends, and it’s definitely not going to win women over unless they are deeply…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:03 PM
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Casual sex is about intent. It doesn’t fall neatly into those categories. Casual sex is having sex with absolutely no strings attached. You don’t like the person enough to form an ongoing relationship and have no interest in them as anything other than a sexual partner. It’s just sex. Casual. No expectations. It’s get off and get off type of sex. If a woman has sex on the first date or even just goes home with a stranger, that necessarily doesn’t mean that it’s casual. She could just really like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:53 PM
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Women aren’t offended by your personal preferences or opinions. Women are offended when you exclusively label women as “hoes” while not holding men to the same standards. The issue is that a woman’s self worth is tied to the number of partners she has had while a man’s is not. If you stop seeing a woman because you aren’t okay with her past, that’s completely valid. Do you. There are plenty of men who don’t feel that way to go around for the rest of us. Y’all are just shortening your list of alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:01 PM
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As I said in another comment, very very few women are having casual sex for fun with no strings attached. Like <1%. Nearly every woman is going to be super pissed if you have sex and don’t call her the next day. It’s almost always with the intent of forming a relationship. Whether she wants something serious right away or wants to take time to build a connection varies, but she definitely doesn’t want to never hear from the guy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:43 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:43 AM
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That’s not true. Very very few women I know are having casual sex just for fun. It’s usually because a woman likes a guy and assumes that having sex with him will build a connection. And before you judge her for that.. It’s important to note every person and relationship is different. It’s very hard for a woman to determine a timeline for sex with the goal of a LTR. Some men will lose interest if you don’t have sex right away and others will stop viewing you as a potential GF if you have sex too…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:42 AM
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Only insecure men are concerned with a woman’s sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:29 AM
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No. The difference is (if you want to make generalizations, which I guess is this whole sub, so yeah) Women are more relationship oriented and men are more sex orientated. Of course men would have found their partners attractive enough for casual sex. That’s because men have lower standards for sexual partners than they do for a LTR. Most men will sleep with women who are less attractive than themselves. Sex orientated, as stated. On the other hand, women are more interested in relationships. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:26 AM
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I guess a woman can’t win! She’s wrong for having casual sex AND she’s ALSO wrong for not having sex on the first night. And if she wants to take it slow, she’s also wrong for that. Oh, and she’s at fault if the guy only used her sex and breaks off a many months long relationship. Cool. When is she right? Because, I’m pretty sure you covered any and all scenarios of women, relationships, and sex with all being the woman is the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:03 AM
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Literally all of those statements apply to men..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:45 AM
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That’s why I said seem. But yeah, lovebombing and possessive tendencies can absolutely be misinterpreted as romance in a new relationship, especially when you have self esteem issues and a history of dating men who are distant or noncommittal. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:51 PM
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It’s much more likely that she is choosing the wrong type of men. Unfortunately, a lot of qualities that women find attractive are also qualities that are more common in men that make bad partners. Players are usually confident, friendly, and attractive. Abusers often seem passionate early in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:23 AM
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Deeper issues? What’s with the harsh judgment of older women. Participating in casual sex has nothing to do with maturity. Some people just like sex and aren’t as concerned with the dated idea that the number of partners you have determines your sex worth. And as a woman, my number has never ever been an issue in the slightest. It’s not crazy high, but it’s definitely higher than the average woman according to statistics. The only place that people seem to care is on Reddit. Honestly, most don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:54 AM
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It’s not always that complicated. Sure, there are some women who still believe it. There’s even a saying “don’t sleep with him on the first date if you really like him.” Or there’s the third date rule or whatever. But, this is really dated and not reflective of most modern women. Women are more comfortable with casual sex. Therefore, it’s not always I want him to not think I am easy, so I’m going to change my behavior for him. Honestly, most women don’t want to be in a relationship with the type…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:16 PM
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Men and women are more selective than ever due to online dating. I’m guilty of this as well. Whenever you have dozens, if not hundreds of options, why settle for someone who is less than ideal? And when you decide to spend some time with a person, get to know them, and things are going well, one thing that is a slight turnoff is enough to see who else is on the app. People just throw away partners that are probably right for them because they found someone more attractive or wealthier, or some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:17 PM
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