goodtogo19 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be.		goodtogo19	/r/seduction	16/07/15 03:48 PM
3	[FR] Trying to show interest and confidence without crossing the line		goodtogo19	/r/seduction	27/06/15 04:35 PM

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1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Eh I don't know. Girls don't usually flake on a group hangout. If these girls are already part of your friend group, and they canceled on you, they must have had a good reason that they both couldn't come. Maybe wait a week and try reinitiating something, preferably with just the girl you're into. That way you can both gauge her interest (and hope she doesn't flake) and also set up an opportunity to progress things in one of two ways: 1. Escalate via kino, innuendo, etc. or 2. At the end of "han…	/r/seduction	20/07/15 01:19 PM
2	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. I get that. But I'll reiterate what I said earlier and add some thoughts based on what you said Asking out directly instead of hinting at something and taking it slowly shows confidence. Is it worth being friends with a girl you're interested in if you aren't making a move? Every time you see her and don't do something about your feelings, it's going to bother you. If she is inexperienced, there's no way she's going to fall into your lap, so to speak. Either you make a move by asking her out, or…	/r/seduction	19/07/15 11:55 PM
2	Girls from social circle. I actually just posted my experience with something like this the other day. Give the post and thread a read. Might help you out some.	/r/seduction	18/07/15 06:00 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Well first of all, there's no such thing as being in the friend zone with a girl you aren't interested in. That's just called being friends. Second, if you're goal is FWB, than this is a completely different situation. You should never ask a FWB on a date. That defeats the purpose. I'm saying, if you're looking for a relationship with a girl with whom you are already friends, you need to ask for a date at some point. Escalating a hang out is too difficult. Asking for a date is easy and accomplis…	/r/seduction	17/07/15 04:11 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Precisely. Do future you a favor and take the chance ASAP. Good luck, man!	/r/seduction	17/07/15 02:49 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. I didn't misread it. I just don't think I agree with you. I've been in the friend zone before, and it was purely because I waited too long. I thought easing into it was the right way, but it never really worked. On the other hand, I asked this girl on a date, and now, in the wake of casual flirting a slight sexual vibes, she knows I'm interested. In the past I would have asked her to "hang out" and the intentions would have been left up in the air. And yes, you can escalate during a hang out, bu…	/r/seduction	17/07/15 02:47 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Agreed.	/r/seduction	17/07/15 01:59 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Yeah man it's never gonna be easy. But you gotta decide what's more important. If you don't make your intentions clear, there's no window for you to make a move. She surely isn't going to be the one to express interest beyond friendship, so if you don't do it, it will never happen. Even if you try to initiate and it doesn't work, the worst that will happen is that she says "I don't feel that way about you." So, either you take action, and have a ~50% of success (with minimal fallout), or you don…	/r/seduction	17/07/15 01:59 PM
1	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Dude, definitely go for it. There's nothing worse than letting the thought of "what if?" eat at you indefinitely. The upside of taking the chance far outweighs the downside.	/r/seduction	17/07/15 01:55 PM
7	Asking out a girl you already know? Don't make it any more complicated than it has to be. Yeah haha I got a good outcome, but just making the call is what's important. But dude, if you want it to be a date, you gotta call it a date. Otherwise she doesn't know your intent. If you try to make a move, you risk making her uncomfortable if she thought you were just hanging out as friends. I've gone out with this particular girl for drinks, but I didn't use the word "date" and she legitimately asked one of our mutual friends if I was asking as a date or just as friends. She had no idea wha…	/r/seduction	16/07/15 04:01 PM
1	[FR] Trying to show interest and confidence without crossing the line Yeah I hear you on that. I've known her for a little less than a year. Been interested for maybe 4 months and have gotten to know her better since then.	/r/seduction	08/07/15 01:38 PM
1	[FR] Trying to show interest and confidence without crossing the line Oh without a doubt. And I understand that. She hit me like a ton of bricks tbh. I was friends with her for a few months and then one day I just thought "wow, I want her badly." And not sure purely in a sexual way. I like her for a lot of reasons. And while I'm clearly more invested than she is, I do get the sense that she's coming around. I'm fairly certain a month ago she didn't feel much of anything but friendship for me, but everything I've been told makes it clear she's now giving it thought…	/r/seduction	29/06/15 02:16 PM
1	[FR] Trying to show interest and confidence without crossing the line Well the whole "now is not a good time" kinda makes sense actually. She goes out with a lot people, but never really wants a relationship. The way I see it, she sees me as the kind of guy who she could be in a relationship with, but she's not ready for commitment while she figures out some personal stuff. It sucks, I know. But being that I heard it second-hand, as opposed to her telling me directly, I'm inclined to believe it. So basically she would date me, but I want more than just one date or…	/r/seduction	27/06/15 08:39 PM