| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 27 | Woman seem to be looking at me different | goonerguy101 | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 06:55 PM | |
| 9 | I had a confusing situation today. | goonerguy101 | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 06:39 PM | |
| 1 | Told a girl I’ve recently started talking too That I’m casually seeing someone another woman | goonerguy101 | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 07:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to stop finding excuses and being scared to go and talk to her girl?I find it’s always easier for me to approach if I’m with someone. Almost like I can’t chicken out and look like a punk. Slight bit of bragging from me but perfect example It’s my last day at work today and I’ve got 2 numbers because the boys were egging me on. Approached a 3rd but they didn’t go well lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Porn addictionBro I think your biggest problem is that you are desperate and have low self esteem. Saying stuff like I pray to find a woman in 2020 sounds a bit weird and I’m sure there are plenty of guys that don’t drink and can get woman. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!I’m gonna be that guy but 600 likes because a guy went for a kiss is a bit much guys. Well done though and I’m not being sarcastic. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | “Pressure” DHVYou called someone a punk for no reason. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The thought of std’s is always lingering and turns me off when pursuing girlsI feel like that is just an easy way cause you have hid behind for awhile. I say that in the most polite way | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:39 PM |
| -1 | [FR] better to die with failed attempts than failed regretsWhen your about to die I doubt you will be thinking of the woman you should have approached. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | “Pressure” DHVWhy are you being so rude to people bro? Your blatantly not like that in real life so don’t act up on the net. | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | If you don't have a lot of followers and no pictures on Instagram, is it a DLV?DLV? | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit, how often and when do you get horny? Does something cause you to get horny?Judging from my experience woman are just as horny as men but they aren’t as blatant. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | She just had a breakup but still wants to hang outShe definitely isn’t looking for a relationship and if she is that is a massive red flag. A girl that jumps from man to man and can’t handle being single. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.I 100% agree that this industry in nonsense and is just away to exploit men for money but i disagree about looks being everything you need. Maybe for short term relationships but not long term ones. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Subtle smile after eye contact.Yeah I work as a security guard and the fake smiles woman give actually annoys the hell out of me. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 07:58 PM |
| 13 | Guys you can do itDon’t get too happy just yet bro. All that freak talk might just be talk. I hope it isn’t though for your sake 👍 | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Lost the V card at 27Personally I think sex is overrated. I haven’t exactly had a shed load of sex but I’ve never had mind blowing sex before. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this?The eyes definitely do lie sometimes my friend. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this?I’m a 100% sure girls were giving you the eye but you obviously missed them or they weren’t your type so you ignored them. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Are you wanting Discreet casual sex meetup in the uk ?I’ll have a look when I get home. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Reddit is not RealityDefinitely and they regurgitate a lot of unrealistic PUA nonsense. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Truth be told I don’t deserve womenAre you trolling or not I really can’t tell. | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Going From Perceivably Cute to FineI’m quite a bit older than you but I get called cute a lot as well and like you it kinda annoys me but like others have said it isn’t a negative thing so just go with it. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I need to Bitch about RSD. They are Completely Done.Bro the whole point of business models like RSD is to make money of gullible young men who think they will get some magical information on how to pick up woman. I will never understand you guys that pay for dating advice and so on. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 07:24 PM |
| 8 | I feel shame after cold approach?Personally I wouldn’t approach in a situation like that but well done for being brave enough. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 4 | The Sexiest Thing a Guy Has Ever Said to MeLol smh | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Give me a reading listFair enough | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Never getting second dates300 approaches, how many of these woman did you actually find attractive? I don’t understand the point of approaching so many woman because it just leads to situations like this. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Give me a reading listBro are you really gonna read a book just to try and attract a particular woman? | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like both bad AND good reactions keep you from approaching more?Nope not really. Good approaches build my confidence and bad approaches I just tend to brush off because in the grand scheme of things it isn’t that big of a deal | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | I will go out today and approach at least one woman today, for the first time. Just putting this here to make myself accountable and therefore motivated. Will report back later today.Bro if you feel a woman is giving you the eye go straight in for the kill. Don’t hesitate or you will pshyce yourself out. Most woman will let you down politely so trust me there is nothing to be afraid off. | /r/seduction | 30/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there any bouncing back from a robbed youth?I’m confused as hell | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Emotional connection or will I look like a pu**y?In all honesty I think it all depends on the woman/girl you are taking to. | /r/seduction | 28/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | I asked a girl who I met earlier to come home for a drink. She asked if she can get her friends too, I think it was a shit test and I didn't expect it and so told ok. How do I deal with it next time? Or what can I do with this girl who is going to come with her friends later?I don’t think it was a shit test. I just don’t think she wanted to be alone with you. | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone's biggest fear their soft voice?I have a soft voice and I’m sure some of the girls I’ve tried to call probably didn’t hear me but no I deffo don’t think a fear or any hang up about it | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | ask my girfriend to intimate moreShe is probably thinking the same thing. You have been together for a while and see each other regularly. Get touchy feely when you are together, hug her, touch her breast, touch her bum basically get her aroused bro | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?Yeah go for it | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?Probably best not to do that bro, but feel free to give it a go and tell me what happens. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?So what are even worried about then? You both like each other so anything you do will be fine bro | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?Ahh ok it should be ok then. You get the chance to hold hands or just get close to her. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Movie dates?I had a movie date as the first date a few years back. I didn’t get a second date, I think the first date should be about getting to know each other and you can’t do that in the cinema. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | You have one date to show a girl how exciting you can be and to win her heart... but... Date is from 8AM -3PM and it’s 40° outside. What are you doing?Honestly I think you may be putting too much pressure on yourself bro. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullYup very true. I think the vast majority of people on here are teenagers so they are very gullible and believe most of the pretentious nonsense on here. Prior to joining the sub I never realised how popular some of these PUA are. Some people just do nothing but regurgitate what they hear. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:46 PM |
| 53 | Guys I fucked up so hard todaySmooth | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightYou and all your friends most likely all have this negative attitude, so it’s just a big circle jerk of complaining. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightBro don’t get me wrong I imagine short ugly guys have a hard time but a good personality can easily win a woman over. I noticed you referred to mostly online dating but online dating is all about looks so obviously they won’t be successful on there but in the real world I believe it’s completely different. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I just sent this to a girl who I have been chasing/texting for long but isn't reciprocating. I hope it wasn't too immatureHe will be the top post on ‘nice guy’ tomorrow | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How would you approach an attractive girl who’s kinda instafamous onlineHonestly I wouldn’t even bother your gonna be one of many but that’s just me | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 07:02 PM |
| 4 | If Not for the Sex Would Men Have Anything to do With Women?Yeah sometimes it’s just good to be around woman. It’s a different kind of energy. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I was rejected after 30 secondWhat a bitch your most likely not the first person she has done that too. Don’t let it get you down bro. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Plate confirms to me how fast women really decide on fucking you. Interesting.Ahh ok thx | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Putting in the effort vs hiring an escortNah I don’t think it’s common to go and see prostitutes especially where I’m from and who I used to hang around with. I’m from inner city London and we don’t really do that stuff too much around here, if you needed a woman one of the boys would normally hook you up or a girl would come around and service everyone. The last bit sounds crude but it’s the truth. I hope that answers your question | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Putting in the effort vs hiring an escortBecause they can’t be bothered to put the effort in or they can’t find a woman to have sex with. In my younger days I had sex with about 4 prostitutes. I was a hermit so obviously wasn’t around woman so that is why I did it. They were local so I thought why not lol. I highly doubt I would do it now unless I was abroad somewhere. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 13 | Plate confirms to me how fast women really decide on fucking you. Interesting.What the hell is a plate? I’m gonna assume it’s means side chick | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Too much comforting ex gf, possibly turn into plate?Who cares if it was beta or whatever just do what you feel comfortable doing. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Any advice if you don’t have the best looks?That’s the spirit buddy. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Just had a girl text me (a girl I daygame approached and got an instant date with)Any idea what this means: COME ON BRO REALLY!!! | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Girls bumping into meThe next time it happens strike up a convo and see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Same hot girl weekly walk by and doesn't break eye contact..That is actually a good one I’m gonna have to try that out. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I aleays reject myselfYeah go for it buddy. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | jobs interacting with the publicYeah most definitely it will bro. It will help you read body language a lot better as well | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 7 | End up being needy, girl don't want to see me anymoreWell you have your dignity too lose. It is clearly more than sex with you and isn’t for her. I would just move on unless you wanna get your feelings hurt. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Can’t get hardI never knew that | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Why does this girl want my approval on other guys?Maybe she likes you and Is giving you a shit test or she is really comfortable with you and values your opinion. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Woman seem to be looking at me differentI was actually hesitant about adding that bit but it’s true and she has, so I thought give credit where it’s due lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does this girl want my approval on other guys?Your her friend and she is asking you for advice. How would that make you a cuck bro? If you want more than a friendship with her, tell her and if she carries on asking you then she is just being disrespectful. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl sends paragraph apologizing after cancelling a date, attention whore or legitSpot on buddy. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 07:18 PM |
| 5 | I messed up first date, girl now wants to bring friend for second dateI had to reread that. Wow she is bringing some next guy on your date lol. That is all kinds of disrespectful!! | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | The 5 second ruleI have to agree I saw a cutie this afternoon who was smiling and clearly liked the look of me and I didn’t hesitate to make a move. Normally I would stall and psyche myself out. Unfortunately she had a bf. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 29 | "Cute" guys attract "cute" girls. True or false?Wrong. I see many good looking guys with not so good looking woman. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | How often do girls initiate first contact compared to guys?I think it depends on how the pretty the girl is. I’ve had a lot of not so attractive woman blatantly come on to me. | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Exposes me on IG for ghostingLol there are probably 2 other guys thinking she is talking about them. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Dick sizeNever measured it but I would say just above average but not big by any means. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Dick sizeI think it depends on the girl. Some like them big and others like them normal or just above normal. A girl I’m seeing at the moment literally loves my dick, she tells me all the time and she says it’s because it’s not too big that she can’t deep throat it but it isn’t small so that there isn’t anything to work with. Sorry if that was too much info | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever been on an online date and NOT been dissapointed by the girl?Yes a few times. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 6 | I'm an introverted, kissless virgin who's almost 20. Idk if this will ever change.Try and get a job where you have to face and talk to people. I’m also a very quiet, introverted guy but when I’m at work I’m like a different person. I have all kinds of people stop and have long conversations with me. It will build up your confidence even if you don’t get any woman immediately. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Didn't ask her out after showing some interest, now she acts cold, what doWell done for asking her out bro | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Ladies and gentlemen, I fucked up.You didn’t fuck up at all. She is clearly playing games with you and personally I would just leave her alone from now on. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Random compliments from womenI think it depends on the situation. A few months ago I was sitting down in a shopping centre when some woman randomly come up to me and said you are really good looking, I obviously tried to make a move on her but she said she was in a relationship. That whole situation was very odd but it did give me a big head for the day. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Do I just go gay at this point???You are only 18 mate at least give it another couple years lol | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I’m entering a fwb situation or leading someone on?It went well. I still think she likes me more than I like her but at least I’ve made it clear what I want and don’t want. I’m going round hers tonight after work so it’s all good. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I’m entering a fwb situation or leading someone on?If you want to make it clear to a woman your only interested in a fwb situation then I think you should initiate the conversation just for your sake of mind. I had a similar convo with a woman a couple days ago. I was getting worried that she was falling for me so I brought it up just to make sure we were both on the same page. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked for a dickpic. How do I approachYeah you are right tbh. I wouldn’t send that kind of pic nowadays unless I really trusted the woman. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked for a dickpic. How do I approachWhy is it a no go. I think it depends on the woman and how the conversation was flowing. A good few years ago I was taking to a older woman and she used to love exchanging pics. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 06:48 PM |
| 4 | I hanged out with a girl last Saturday and I just asked her to hangout again and she said "Yeah I had a lot of fun, but I think you’re way cool to just hang out with" How would you take this?????Sounds like she wants to do more than just hang out. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 06:40 PM |
| 4 | FUCK that feeling of regret. Small story inside.Yeah go for the study group, feel her out and see what she is saying. Good luck | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 8 | FUCK that feeling of regret. Small story inside.Well done but she might legit think you took her number for homework reasons lol. When you speak to her on the phone make it clear you want to be more than friends. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Question: What do you do when you find out a cute girl/boy likes you?True no obvious signs but maybe subtle signs. Punching above your weight means going for woman you really shouldn’t be. For example a guy who is a 5 going for a woman who is a clear 9.5. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I a fool for wanting the girl to text first?Calm down bro. You did ask for people to give you honest answers. I disagree with him saying a 3 hour convo means nothing but you may have ruined your chances by taking so long to get in touch with her. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Question: What do you do when you find out a cute girl/boy likes you?Bro I’m sure loads of woman like you but your not paying attention or your trying to punch above your weight. I had some 20 year old woman chat me up and get my number last night. I don’t remember ever seeing her but she has obviously seen me about and decided to make her move. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | SlumpBro I hear you, but I’m sure she realised you were behind her and noticed her. If you did approach it would have been very awkward so I really don’t think the guy was taking the piss. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Where did I go wrong?Why did you ask for a number/socials, wouldn’t you see them again at the class. I think you were a bit too eager but well done for trying. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What is the first thing you do when you meet your date?Just a hug is fine for a first date in my opinion | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | I had a confusing situation today.Nah I’m done. I’m not gonna ask her again | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | I had a confusing situation today.I also assumed she was married but she told me she isn’t married or in a relationship. I think she just wants some excitement before she goes back to Italy but is a little apprehensive | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:20 PM |
| 5 | I had a confusing situation today.Out of all the replies this seems the most logical but she really doesn’t seem like a shoplifter to me. She comes across as a pretty cultured woman but who knows. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I attempted to go for the kiss at the end of the date (5th date), she let me kiss her cheek insteadFirst date might be a bit much but by the 3rd date you should have at least kissed. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl I’ve recently started talking too That I’m casually seeing someone another womanNah the other woman doesn’t know I’m seeing anyone else but I’ve told her I don’t want anything serious but I think she is falling for me. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 07:14 PM |
| 25 | StartWell done bro | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Currently out have approach anxiety... againYeah I’m exactly the same. I have a new colleague who started last week and has already got a few numbers, if he sees a woman he likes he goes straight for the kill. That has kind of brought me out of my shell and I’ve approached a few woman that I’ve had my eye on for a while, Not all successful but at least I tried. Thx bro #COYG | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 06:52 PM |
| 31 | How the fuck do I text women?Bro all that not using emojis and having convos through text is pure nonsense | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Currently out have approach anxiety... againYou need to be around people that aren’t afraid to approach woman and Feed of there energy. | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 06:35 PM |
| 3 | How to get a girlfriend?Not trying to be rude bro but you actually come across as the wrong kind of nice guy. Try and not focus so badly on wanting a girlfriend. Your most likely giving of a vibe of desperation and little weirdness as well which is ok. Try and get one of your friends to hook you up. Bro. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How can I make him think it was his idea in regards to moving it to the next level?Just say it outright to him because he may miss your subtle clues and that could lead to you getting upset with him. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl doesn’t say anything when you try to open herWalk away. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants and open relationship, I need advice on flirting and overcoming jealouslyExactly what I was thinking. If she meets someone that she gels with sexually, she is obviously gonna want to keep going back and then that leads to catching feelings. It’s a slippery slope tbh. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What tips or activities would you recommend to ensure she has a good time when shes over at your place?Practice make perfect | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Friend broke up with her boyfriend and has shown interest. How do i escalate from the relationship we had withought pushing her away, or coming off as needy?It depends on how much you value your friendship. If you value your friendship just leave it alone but if your not fussed, start flirting back with her and just ask her straight out if she has always had a thing for you. Beware though she may just want attention and she knows you are more than willing to give it to her. | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Text game needs some workBro stop worrying about if you fucked up. You don’t even know this girl. Your reply was fine | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I Have Never Felt So HumiliatedThis is a problem nowadays you spend weeks or months getting to know someone, only to realise you are not compatible in the bedroom and then it ends badly like this. I know it’s easier said than done but it’s probably better to try and get sex out of way especially if she is really into you like you claim she was. | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 07:18 PM |
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