goose7167 Archive

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2	4 months in and frustrated You and I can relate in a way. Hopefully by me telling you about my experience, you'll gain insight on what you should be doing to change your mindset for the better. I've been on a dry spell for two years. My ex and I split about 3 years ago. We were together for 5 years and boy was I blue pill as ever. After finding TRP, I realized why she left. I finally understood what she meant by telling me she "did not have the same feelings for me as she did when we were first together." I realized how b…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/15 12:14 PM
2	[FR] BB to AF transition story. The dating life cycle of the girl who stuck around the longest so far No, I made a point to focus on myself. I spent way too much time in the past worrying about other people and lost sight of myself as a person. When my ex of 5 years broke up with me, everything went downhill. It took me 2 years to pick myself up. I got tired of not having what I wanted so I made a pact with myself to become a better man. I haven't been able to pinpoint what makes me relapse. I think it's the simple fact my brain wants that dopamine dump then go about its business.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/15 08:41 PM
3	[FR] BB to AF transition story. The dating life cycle of the girl who stuck around the longest so far It's taken me about five months to reboot. I have noticed I can have sex with women who would have been below my standards before. I've also noticed I find once unattractive women attractive. I feel as though that's because of the women on the computer screen were far more appealing, but it's all fake. I started lifting, eating better, and reconditioned my mind. I too had no libido, but once I started doing all of those things (including refraining from relieving myself), that all changed. My en…	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/15 08:16 PM
5	[FR] BB to AF transition story. The dating life cycle of the girl who stuck around the longest so far In a way. I just learned to recognize the feeling when it came up, accepted it, then change my course of thinking. Once I made myself preoccupied with something else, I'd quit thinking about it; however, depending on how strong the feeling was and the minute I'd quit doing what I was doing to preoccupy myself, the feeling would come back. What I would do then was meditate. I learned to "be in the now" and let the feeling run its course while keeping self control. There is no better feeling than …	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/15 07:29 PM
5	[FR] BB to AF transition story. The dating life cycle of the girl who stuck around the longest so far I've had that issue for some time. I finally realized what it was doing to my mental state and how I perceived things. My mind was appeased by something artificial so I took the initiative to rewire it. It took a lot of work and self control.	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/15 02:43 AM
16	Men, even TRP men, love women very much. I'm recently coming out of the anger phase and discovering this sense of clarity. I was one who lost sight of what I am truly suppose to care about which is the well-being of myself. I was more concerned about how other people felt rather than my own personal feelings. It wasn't until the girl I invested myself in walked out of my life that I realized how far gone I was. I realized how weak I was. I did not have a sense of who I was, what I was living for, and my purpose for it. I read the book …	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/15 12:05 PM
2	Tearing Down the Last Pedestal - What Oneitis Taught Me I was in a similar situation with a coworker. Everyone at work worships the ground she walks on because of her looks. She knew how to work the guys here and even told me she would use her looks to obtain attention (red flag I should have seen). Before finding TRP, I was just another beta orbiter to her. I would do things for her and go out of my way when she asked if I could do something for her. I cringe hard typing this out and thinking about the things I would do for her. I'm new to TRP and h…	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/15 04:57 AM
1	Conversation I Overheard I was raised in a home where my parents had problems starting when I was 8 (they eventually divorced when I was 17 after they had separated twice and my dad got caught cheating twice). I'm now 25 and, as sad as it sounds, don't really have anything to do with my mother. All simply because I was put through hell and back for absolutely no reason and she has been the cause for most of my shitty problems. It wasn't until I dated my now ex for a year or so that I figured out AWALT. When my ex would …	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/15 03:47 PM