goosefrings Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	You made me realized I was so wrong! i think it's impossible to be 0% percent needy. EVERYONE is needy. EVERYONE. We just have to find enough passion in our own lives to reduce that neediness to 3-5%.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 06:25 PM
1	I stop everything with a girl once I get that date or make out session, for my validation. I cannot seem to have sex with a girl if it's not in a committed relationship. What is wrong with me? Then why the fuck do I have this feeling to want to fuck her, or this feeling to want to kiss her and go out on dates? Like, I have this feeling where I think: "You know what? she's cute, Also, it really makes me feel like if I can't get this girl, who's a 6-7 to really like me and be in a relationship with me, then how the fuck am i supposed to go out there and meet PRETTIER girls than her? If this one who's not that hot rejected me, how the fuck am I supposed to get girls better than her? Also…	/r/seduction	07/11/14 03:02 PM
1	I stop everything with a girl once I get that date or make out session, for my validation. I cannot seem to have sex with a girl if it's not in a committed relationship. What is wrong with me? I read your post. I think my situation qualifies as ego-based one itis, do you agree? At first, I thought this girl was cute, 6-7/10. Then , when i found out other dudes have been talking to her, my interest rose up a LOT. I got jealous, I wanted to lock her down. I couldn't believe some of the "douchebags" this girl had been seeing. I couldn't believe I was an "option". I forced it, she rejected me, my ego and self esteem went to the absolute shitter. I thought i wasn't good enough. Hell, that …	/r/seduction	07/11/14 02:33 AM
1	I stop everything with a girl once I get that date or make out session, for my validation. I cannot seem to have sex with a girl if it's not in a committed relationship. What is wrong with me? holy shit man. This is absolutely amazing. I never thought I'd be able to get such insight from a sedditor. I'm actually on my way to therapy right now, but would it be cool to keep talking after i get back? or if possible to keep in touch? I'm doing everything I can to improve, I got into 2 hobbies and I recently purchased Mark Manson's models. I would really like to understand what I Want and love myself before I go back to dating again. Anyway, I would love to keep in touch so you can too hel…	/r/seduction	06/11/14 04:22 PM
1	I stop everything with a girl once I get that date or make out session, for my validation. I cannot seem to have sex with a girl if it's not in a committed relationship. What is wrong with me? Please, don't be afraid to call me that man, I actually agree with you. I'm working with my therapist on that. With this girl, I would rate her a 6-7/10. When I met her, I acknowledged that she was cute, but I don't think I felt this spark of "whoa, she's cool". I kept dating her because I had nothing to do and I liked going on dates and making out with her, but when I found out she had been seeing someone else, I turned into a monster of jealousy and I was like "what the fuck dude, I'm the shit…	/r/seduction	06/11/14 03:59 PM
1	I stop everything with a girl once I get that date or make out session, for my validation. I cannot seem to have sex with a girl if it's not in a committed relationship. What is wrong with me? The thing is, at first, I didn't really think the girl was that cool/cute/attractive, but as soon as I found out other guys were in the picture, I was like: "what the fuck? I should be the only one she's seeing!" and i became really irrational and insecure. Almost to the point where now I think i may have had feelings for her, but I have no idea if these feelings are because I like her or maybe because I'm just jealous. Also, I became jealous that i may be second choice or an option to her. Whic…	/r/seduction	06/11/14 03:22 PM
1	Getting girls invested in you? EXACTLY. it's not about the "fucking", go do whatever the fuck you want. But her having sex with someone else definitely tells me that she's not THAT interested in me, do you really want to have a relationship with a girl who was considering someone else/fucking someone else while you were dating? While you were this kid who was trying to build a sand castle (relationship) she was the other kid who would give you a bucket of sand, but not really help you build it WITH you...you know what i mean?…	/r/seduction	06/08/14 04:10 PM
1	Getting girls invested in you? wait what do you mean?	/r/seduction	06/08/14 03:58 PM
2	Getting girls invested in you? let me tell you something: i dated a girl for 3 weeks (went on about 5 dates), and we were courting as you call it (no sex), but i was trying to make it into a relationship. I find out that she had been not only seeing some other guy but also fucking him back during our 2 and 3rd date, which made me really insecure and made me ask her for exclusivity right there and then. She said she wasn't ready to commit to me because she didn't know me that well...but isn't 5 dates enough to know? I'll tell …	/r/seduction	06/08/14 12:29 PM