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| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Yeah you have a point for sure. My point was more so aimed at the fact that they won't try to aim as high as they normally would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Lol ummm... Who said anyone was talking about your vagina?? At least I'm not. You're a bit of a wierdo. Noone wants that used up cooter anyway lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 12 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Given that the current dating and marriage situation is pretty bad for guys (I would assume it has its own problems for women too but I can really only comment for guys) I think alot of guys will become disillusioned with the dating market and put in next to no effort to find someone or treat relationships as purely sexual and transactional. What happens next is up to speculation. It's possible that these men just won't find a mate and live their life in whatever way they see fit. Maybe some wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menDid I stutter?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menSteve Buscemi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menYou're probably right that alot more men get turned down by women. But it's the men who count that matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menI would argue that alot of women find it easier to attempt to shame men who don't want them for their poor choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Women prefer toxic menIf it goes without saying, then why is it so hard to believe that a man's aversion to being with someone with a long list of partners is simply something he values and not insecurity? On what basis do you have to conclude that it is insecurity? Not that it matters. Trying to shame men for their natural desires won't work in the long run. There is no reason for this shaming of men by certain women besides their own insecurity being projected onto the men because they don't like the insinuation th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerNo. You have misinterpreted my argument. My argument is that having a high paying, demanding job is exactly that. Demanding. To expect such a job to provide ample time off, opportunity to live where exactly you please and other benefits that you mentioned is very optimistic. Sure the jobs you mentioned (IT professionals, accountants) may provide some of these benefits, but didn't this thread explicit mention doctors and lawyers? Do you think that those professions are given great maneuverability… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menThe point is that there are different things that men and women value. Men value a women's past. Women value a man's financial status. And there is nothing inherently wrong with either. They are part of us. Can't change it. And it isn't society that decides it either. But if you don't like/won't answer that question then I'll ask another, is a women insecure if she doesn't want to be with a man who has a long sexual history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerFry cooks are exhausted but a person with a high paying job is not? Being a fry cook can be busy and make you tired but having a high paying job carries alot more responsibility with it. I think you have it backwards. Why do they have to be a fry cook anyway? They can have a multitude of jobs, or even no job if that is what is wanted in the relationship and it is feasible based upon a variety of factors. A relationship where a person works part-time from home having a small business can do all, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Women prefer toxic menOften guys do not speak their minds in front of women who they think will accuse them of slut shaming or being insecure. Make of that what you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menIf you were with a guy on a date and he told you that (a) he had very low income/was in extreme debt and lived in his mom's basement (b) he had a sexual fetish that you found repulsive or (c) he was generally a creepy guy and your body 'moved away' from him upon hearing that news, would that be your insecurity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Women prefer toxic menHardly anything in dating is a 'fact,' right? I think we can agree on that. Most people, myself included, form 'rules' based upon our personal experiences and what the data we observe tell us. Based upon my personal experience and talks with many other males there seems to be a common theme that men generally do not like a long previous dating history. This is especially true for men who have options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menI hope you find someone who complements you in that manner. All the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Women prefer toxic menComing from a guys perspective who has been told by many other men that they feel similarly I believe it goes beyond preference and into biological territory. In a sense you feel your body 'move away' from them upon hearing the news. It is an automatic reaction before your mind even processes it. However, I do have a friend who said he wouldn't mind being with a former pornstar 🤷 I do think he is the exception to the rule. I understand where you are coming from, but I think men and women often v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Women prefer toxic menThe chemistry is what they were looking to enhance. Same as myself. And it made it easier to enhance when we intimately knew eachother. Maybe I am not making sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menYou are welcome to feel that way. However, I feel it is a biological issue rather than an insecurity one. You immediately feel less connected with that person upon knowing of their history if said history is filled with many partners. And I think it is reasonable to care about someone's past. You would care about a man's past, no? Maybe not in a sexual sense but maybe in other ways. And that definitely does not sound like a good/fruitful relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Women prefer toxic menPerhaps my wording wasn't well formed. I did not consider my partners to be 'the same ' as one another I meant that their sexual performance was not much better based upon how many guys they've been with. What was a determinant in how our sex would be was the sexual relationship we formed with one another throughout time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menWe can agree to disagree to your first point. In my experience one night stands were mostly hollow experiences where we would essentially 'use' eachothers bodies solely for pleasure. Perhaps this is just a personal feeling but I know there are others who feel similarly to me. As to your second point, I don't believe that you are undeserving of love. I don't know you. I don't know what you do/don't deserve nor would I make that judgement anyhow. My first point only references that it is a turn of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Women prefer toxic menThat's good for you. I have enjoyed my sexual experiences with long term partners I've had because we learned to understand what eachother like and find unique and fun ways to keep it fresh. I felt very pleased sexually many times. But that was also connected to my emotional bond with that person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer toxic menNot every woman but I've definitely pleased some. Learning to have great sex with someone you love and care for as a person is a beautiful and loving experience. One night stands do not prepare you for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Women prefer toxic menMost of the women I've been with, whether they had been with multiple men before me or not, did not have much difference in sexual performance. Perhaps that is because I prefer to take charge and determine where things go. The best sex for me comes from a mutual love and trust of eachother. Of course, this is my personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Women prefer toxic menDramatic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Women prefer toxic menIt's simple really. Guys don't like girls who have slept around. It shows a lack of self control and decision making. Not good wife or mother material | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:38 PM |
| 2 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerWomen who are kind, gentle, feminine, and family oriented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What do successful and educated men (lawyers, doctors, men in finance) look for in a partnerMore time to take care of the kids. Less masculine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:12 PM |
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