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W. Anton - "What do women want" is a good book. After reading this, you won't need to pretend.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:24 PM
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You're good at rationalizing, you know that? I can't really pinpoint what it is as I don't have the full picture, but something tells me that you have something you need to work on. You think that you're emotionally mature, honest and straight-forward. Why are you posting on r/seduction? Why do you want to prove your point of view so hard?
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:16 AM
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People who catch on to their attachment issues and work on it eventually do get to a point where burn out is very real and prospects become far and few without phasing them because they are happy alone and will only allow other secure ppl to get close to them. I understand what you mean. I'm at this point of my life where I trade number of prospects for my mental health. Maybe I misjudged you, kind of projected my frustration with insecure women. htraight up asked me over text if by date 4 i wan…
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:16 AM
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1) If I approach a girl then 9/10 times it's because I do think that she's "gorgeous/pretty". That's what I noticed and liked about her. If she doesn't believe me or thinks that I say that to every other girl then it's her insecurity. I don't want to be with someone who questions my motives. 2) Agree. Most of the rules like that are for those who tend to overdo things. 3) Again if she's not comfortable to go on a date then she should say so. If she says no and expect me to try harder without exp…
/r/seduction04/08/21 05:37 AM
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This is such bullshit. If a girl is not even a little bit nervous around you she doesn't really like you.
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:54 AM
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I like your no bullshit approach. I think the girls is feeling a little insecure and tries to test his intentions and this approach might scare her off. Not a bad thing though, if he doesn't want a girl who behaves like that.
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:15 AM
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Can we see your photo?
/r/seduction09/04/21 05:30 AM
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Why overthinking? She was either not interested or playing games, no point in wasting time imo.
/r/seduction09/04/21 04:18 AM
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Short answer is yes. Long answer is maybe. For a woman to be straightforward with you takes a lot of maturity. If you seek someone who will be as straightforward with you as you are then it's yes, but since you are still in highschool I would say that such approach might scare her, so it's better to ask her to hangout and show her that you like her with your actions. The third way is being "nice guy" by not conveying your desire, definitely don't do that.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:20 PM
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Because she thinks you just want to fuck her. She has put you so high above her she assumes there's nothing else you'd want with her.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:20 AM
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Don't assume that she plays or games or "tests" you either. It'll make you want to outplay her, which is unnecessary.
/r/seduction19/03/21 12:06 AM
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It's not about looks it's about your attitude. You behave in a way that tells them you're not really attracted to them. Women are surrounded by needy men and they learn to read them easily, but when they meet a man that doesn't seek their approval they can't understand him, they don't know what to do. They don't want to fuck it up, but since they never needed any game to get a man, they never learned how to behave around such men, so they end up ignoring you as the best strategy. To them you're …
/r/seduction18/03/21 04:59 PM
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It's painful, I understand. Pain is good, it means you do something out of your comfort zone, it means you're improving yourself. Keep going.
/r/seduction17/03/21 02:30 AM
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I think it's ok tbh. Don't overthink it, just chill and wait. Better yet, talk to some other girls.
/r/seduction15/03/21 07:56 AM
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Can't judge myself objectively, but since I get tinder likes mostly from women who I don't find attractive, I guess it's true. I dated really beautiful women in the past, yeah. But I'm more attracted to the combination of confidence, feminine behavior and good looks, so I'm really picky and alone most of the time. Another confirmation is that a lot of women act all awkward and cute when they interact with me. And they do it from the first meeting, like I would go to coffee shop and female barist…
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:28 AM
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What do you feel when you see a guy like that? What kind of attraction it is, just physical? Do you try to get his attention or try to play it cool?
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:16 AM
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I believe so. I think it's my best asset, the presence. I don't have much success in online dating apps, because they're mostly based on looks, but in real life I get a lot of IOI's everywhere I go. I don't really know how it works, but women can see something in me instantly. Funny thing, I was wondering about it recently. I want to experiment with Tinder, I'll add a video of me doing something and then see how much more success I'll get.
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:13 AM
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I think she was sick for real tbh.
/r/seduction13/03/21 05:19 AM
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Related post with real life example /r/seduction/comments/m37ouc/i_personally_dont_think_anyone_should_study_old/gqnunw3
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:08 PM
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Who knows, maybe there are a lot of people here who think that there's something wrong with them, instead of thinking that they are attractive and polarizing.
/r/seduction12/03/21 09:28 AM
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I agree. But it's not a beginner book, it introduces you to the very complex ideas that you can't really understand at first, like in my case. I mean I did understand that I'll be rejected anyways, but I thought less not more, since I was working to improve myself. It's frustrating and sometimes you really want to say "it doesn't work". Or the idea that your beliefs shape your behavior so that they become self-fulfilling prophecy. For me it sounded like magic, when I read the book, so I just did…
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:33 AM
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I read Models, it had changed me. I am getting rejected a lot, even more than before reading it. For a long time I thought there's something wrong with me, until I met this girl, who is single and beautiful. I asked her out, she rejected me, I moved on and she started to do manipulative shit. So I got curious why she does this. I've found out that she was in a toxic relationship, that she's now a single mother, that she gets drunk at parties and acts like a slut to get as much attention from all…
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:44 AM
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Sorry to disappoint you, but do you really think that you'll be less rejected cold approaching? And I don't say this like it's about you specifically, it's the same for everyone. Get used to rejection, there's no way without it.
/r/seduction12/03/21 05:17 AM
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I see that you didn't. I do believe in natural selection. The flaw in your argument is that you believe that looks is the only or the most important trait that defines fitness of a man. Well, it's not. Men are visual, women are not.
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:55 AM
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You didn't read Models, did you?
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:55 AM
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They are everywhere. I wanted to write a long rant but then I thought it's not worth it.
/r/seduction12/03/21 03:51 AM
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Why, though? I mean there are no point in this life except the one you define for yourself. Why can't someone spend his life in hedonism if he wants to? What you probably wanted to say is that it's not good to spend you life seeking validation trough sex instead of building deep emotional relationships. That doesn't mean you have to be in a LTR, it means to be vulnerable and honest in every relationship you have.
/r/seduction12/03/21 02:56 AM
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I was thinking about it. Porn is really bad because from the evolutionary standpoint men could never have so many new partners, it fucks your brain up completely. Fap on the other hand is not that bad, unless you use external stimulant like porn. I try to quit porn by just fapping as much as I want and it works good. After couple of weeks you stop doing it too much. I managed to abstain from porn for a couple of months, several times actually. But I do return to it from time to time.
/r/seduction12/03/21 02:44 AM
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Probably, you have a doomed combination of being physically attractive and emotionally cold at the same time. People want your attention but afraid you will reject them.
/r/seduction11/03/21 09:49 AM
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Whatever he defines for himself. Jeez, man, you can't go the toilet without advice from reddit.
/r/seduction11/03/21 07:23 AM
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What kind of an answer do you expect then? That you should use "magic line #412" to make them reply sooner? Think of like this, you can't control other people, but you can control your expectations. You are not a priority in her life and that's ok, there are tons of other women. Do you ever wonder why you try to "maximize"? The root cause?
/r/seduction10/03/21 09:46 AM
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Prioritizing a girl you don't know is needy. Date someone else while waiting.
/r/seduction10/03/21 09:19 AM
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Thanks, you gave an answer even broader than my post. Good job.
/r/seduction09/03/21 12:35 PM
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How can you ask yourself honestly? I mean there's all kinds of biases, how can I be sure that I'm not fooling myself.
/r/seduction09/03/21 12:21 PM
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The right girl at the right time. She was attracted to you from the start. Happens rarely to be honest.
/r/seduction09/03/21 07:17 AM
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I would recommend another book: The Manual by W. Anton. It's simply amazing. But it has a major flaw, it gives you the sense that you can seduce any woman you want. I would say, read Models first, internalize it, then read The Manual. If you come to the conflict of ideas, stick with Models.
/r/seduction09/03/21 07:10 AM
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Yes. Read A BOOK, not lots of books. Try everything, see what works, and what's not. I read Models couple years ago and thought that I understood it, but the more I expose myself to the real world, the more I return and reread some chapters. The perspective changes, some concepts you believe you understood, you really didn't. The concept of polarization for example. I knew I'll be rejected, I just didn't expect it to happen so much. Though I'm an attractive dude, it's around 90% or more. Now I r…
/r/seduction09/03/21 07:06 AM
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And the fear is not irrational, because stepping out of your comfort zone is painful. Every time. People are not going to give you everything you want, rejection is everywhere. Sometimes people accuse you of all kinds of things, sometimes they project their insecurities. It fucks up your mind, because you do think that maybe it's you who's wrong not them. I mean you can't completely disregard opinions of other people, as it leads to arrogance.
/r/seduction09/03/21 05:59 AM
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Means they are intimidated by the other person. It might be they are not interested completely or really like you. The difference in the details. Try complementing them and see how they react.
/r/seduction28/02/21 08:04 AM
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Dominate them with you eye contact until they submit and look down, problem solved.
/r/seduction27/02/21 07:52 PM
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Jeez. Another guy selling a dream of being able to attract lots of women and getting rejected less. In my opinion if you don't get rejected a lot it means you're not polarizing enough. Rejection is inevitable.
/r/seduction26/02/21 03:16 AM
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Did you ask her what she felt? Why she was intimidated?
/r/seduction25/02/21 10:26 AM
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I can see that it easily turns to arrogance. Balance is key.
/r/seduction25/02/21 02:59 AM
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I see, maybe you're afraid to fail, afraid to "come off desperate". And you might use this as an excuse not to do anything when you'll see a woman you like. Realize this, it's ok to fail, it's the only way to get something in life.
/r/seduction23/02/21 11:34 PM
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He likes women with little extra down there, I guess.
/r/seduction23/02/21 10:44 PM
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I agree, but it doesn't mean you don't have to approach anymore. Women expect you to do it, most of the time they rather reject themselves than approach you.
/r/seduction23/02/21 10:39 PM
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Thank you for your reply. The problem is, I did try to do something and got rejected a couple of times already. In both instances I was sure they wanted me, that's why I'm confused. It's not going to make me insecure or not wanting to be forward again, I'll continue asking women out. It's just the matter of understanding, simple curiosity (not really, I'm just naturally analytical of everything). I was wondering if being attractive means a lot of false positives and a lot of rejections as a resu…
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:31 AM
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I’m wondering if your intimidation is coming from your body language I think it's the body language, because it happens instantly. Like I would go to coffee shop and female barista I never met before would serve everyone normally with a smile and eye contact except me, lol. She wouldn't smile and avoid looking me in the eyes, no matter if I'm neutral or actually try to be nice and smile too. what would your game look like Let's say it's a new girl, I would try to be relaxed and charming, ask per…
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:49 AM
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I can't control this intimidation factor tbh. Sometimes I can't even talk to a girl properly as she tries to finish the conversation and literally runs away. Some of them just ignore me from the start, which is ok, they aren't obliged to talk to me. But why the hell they act all jealous when I talk to other women. I'm confused how to treat women who act like this. At first I assumed they're not interested, but the way the behave made me question this. So I assumed they're interested, I asked the…
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:20 AM
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Your post is quite long, but I assume by game you mean to be polarizing. I understand the concept but I guess I don't understand the consequences fully. I'm polarizing, maybe a bit too much, that's my question. Should I keep it up and be naturally cocky, like I usually am, and get rejected a lot, because that's the idea behind it, to filter the people who are not compatible, or be more, I don't know, comforting.
/r/seduction10/02/21 03:02 AM
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And what is solid game? Approach 20 girls, go on a date with 1? Is it just numbers game?
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:40 PM
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That's what I plan to do. But I need to understand why they act the way they act. What if I'm an arrogant douche and don't even realize this, lol.
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:24 PM
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True. Google rationalization in psychology. You're making excuses to not do anything. In reallity you just put too much pressure on yourself by thinking that you need to do something special to seduce her, while in reality all you need to do is approach and talk to her. Maybe you read too much about seduction, and have a list of things that you think you need to do, but you never tried that before. Realise this, there are a lot of women, don't be afraid to loose them. Try new things, be awkward,…
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:07 PM
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