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| 3 | less success leads to no success? | gordovondoom | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 09:43 AM |
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| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendwhich most men arent, no matter how hard they try and tell themselves they are… its funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 02:50 AM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereah yeah that is absolute ass behaviour! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:59 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereand that is not the same with men? im glad i have never been approached by anyone i found unattractive… and seriously, most people complaining about that just misjudge their own appearance… they think they are above anyones league, while they are in the same league, possibly below it… i know way too many men complaining about how “fat”/“old” women approach them, but the men in question are usually balding, got a dad bod, working shit jobs… so its not like they are a catch… women and men complain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:34 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereyou can always switch seats… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 5 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createthe russian women are as popular as the passport bros, though…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createjust dont tell them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.well, either complain about being settled for, or complain because you got noone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 09:05 AM |
| 8 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.if thay was even true, it just applies to men that nobody wants to date anyway, the same men that talk about standards they dont even meet themselves… should be happy that somebody wants to settle with them, or even better: the women shouldnt even let them know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?yeah what else should he do? thats the only chance hes got… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Men of PPD: Do you really find casual sex appealing?of course its appealing… why jerk off when you can bang pretty women? that is a no-brainer… wish it was as easy as it used to be, but cant complain…. would understand not liking it, when you have to put in effort, though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?thats all the things men do when they cant “spin the plates”… then all of a sudden its muh trad wyfe and every body count higher than theirs (probably 0) is considered bad to make them feel better about themselves… wonder why people cant just date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again?yeah i agree… it is that one party wants the other party to be trafitional, the woman wants a provider, but doesnt want to do all the chores, let alone raise a child, but you got just as many men who want the stay at home wife, but are not willing to provide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:52 AM |
| -1 | Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again?children? that would take time from hanging in cafes and going shopping… i dont even blame them… the couples i know who do get children usually get one after the other, probably to avoid entering the work force again (which is admittedly difficult of course)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again?if i had a dollar for every woman i met who wanted a traditional relationship just because she didnt want to work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:29 AM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the housei wasnt even thinking about any complaining… why should they complain about what they are doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:55 PM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the housebut they instantly think someone calls them out, or calls them lazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:55 PM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the houseyeah they feel offended for nothing… nobody complained about what they are doing, whatever they are doing… otherwise the husbands would probably not be okay with it… my mother was a stay at home mother and later even with two older kids she had plenty of time to watch tv, or whatever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:12 PM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the housethat is what i was trying to say… and usually everybody takes it as an offense, because they know that they dont do much and would have to work otherwise… also everybody acts like the sahw does everything, when it usually isnt like the husband doesnt do shit, im quite sure they at least clean whatever they use and dont just leave it as it is… there are people with hobbies, though… at least that is what i would do in that situation… trying to turn the hobby into something lucrative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:40 PM |
| – | In a house with no kids and where the man is at work from 7am - 5pm, what daily tasks do women do around the housenobody wants to give you answer, but everybody knows what they are doing: the chores (cleaning, laundry, cookin) and after that nothing, playing with their phones, going out, whatever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Apparently not even a $100,000 income is enough for these out of touch princesses.dont count on it… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/11/23 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Do men's options really go up with age and women's options drop ? I don't know if that's true.thats it… if you start early enough you become a natural, or at least get used to it… fortunately that happened to me and now when i see men over 30, talking like little kids to women, i can see why it doesnt work… and unfortunately that is the majority of men, either they act like kids, or try playing tough/experienced, because they think that works, like kids who saw that on tv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?all the average dudes i know dont score at all, most gave it up and do escorts (they might be above average incoke to afford that)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Question for passport bro'sexactly… i see that nearly every day and i love it^ its the denial that makes it awesome and that everybody knows the partner is not exactly first choice… or second… or third… probably for both, though… even better when you know they cant live up to the expectations and the wife/gf would rather move to passport bros place of origin… if you cant score at home, you wont do better anywhere else… that might have worked 20 years ago, but those times are long over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Question for passport bro'ssure, they all complain about only getting interest from women they think are undesireable, but end up with the same women anyway… like ten years older, not really fit, gold diggers (or maybe they call it passport hoes)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 7 | Question for passport bro'sthe question you got to ask is “how many passport bros end up with women they said they would never date”… because that is what it looks like in reality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | 40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a datethe kind of women the americans wouldnt date at home... if you take it like that,they do exist... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 06:56 AM |
| 3 | 40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a dateand dont forget that the times when japanese women liked foreign men are long over... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 01:30 AM |
| 2 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?based! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it?absolutely worse it while it lasted, especially because it was very easy... i probably would think different, if i had have to put in effort... wouldnt even mind having half the fun now, but that is over... m42, n way over 20... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Regarding age gap relationships, it’s meaningless for women to say they would never date youngercan tell by the animu profile... want to bet she looks nothing like the dude she likes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?and usually the ones who dont like it and call it degenerate are the ones that dont participate more than once every two years... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 4 | For those into BDSM yet you are here, what’s your story?that advanced vanilla stuff is what people believe to be bdsm... then they feel edgy... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 3 | We should raise the age of consent to 21if he cant have them, then nobody else should... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 8 | Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women?sad thing is, they often dont realise it... not saying that women dont do the same, though in my personal experience women stay more or less the same... if they were boring before, they will stay boring (what boring means, that is something everybody has to decide for themselves)... but men usually put in effort and then take everything for granted and get lazy... i usually dont see women leaving/cheating/whatever out of the blue... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 53 | Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women?i usually only see this when the man gets too comfortable and starts living on the couch doing nothing... then she is tempted... the men usually stay because they are afraid to end up single... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | What standards are TOO high?main problem with that is that most dudes who demand zero body hair on women got lots of body hair themselves... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 5 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowi never had any issue with height, but even without having any issues, you clearly see that and i never believe that height is no issue at all... its ridiculous^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowpure confidence is key! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 09:38 AM |
| 37 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowthought no woman has an issue with short guys, their bfs just somehow were all tall... was all about character, though, had nothing to do with height... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | People are underestimating the prevalence of the childfree movementi had a similar discussion and (besides not wanting kids ever) i would have to work until 66 now and then could start saving for retirement in case i would have one kid... possibly would even have to get pension paid out in advance, or go into debt... children are for the rich... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | How do you think the future of dating will be?matter of perspective^ the women arent that thin anymore anyway... at least not under 35... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 06:43 AM |
| 6 | How do you think the future of dating will be?it is most likely a matter of perspective, but usually the woman is about 8 years older, divorced/still married and/or not on the slim side... make of it what you want, but when you hear most dudes talk, it doesnt sound like that is what they would want to date... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 01:47 AM |
| 9 | How do you think the future of dating will be?that is still reality here... but im quite sure that dude also “forgot” to mention the quality of the women they get... essentially they get exactly the women they dont want to date in the west... yellow fever is strong, though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | In your opinion what is the perfect male height?unshoed and without 3 inch quiff on his head... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 02:55 AM |
| 3 | As much as feminists say that they’re against traditional gender roles, how much of that is true?it looks like that... you might be right about the reviews comparison, though... in my personal experience it also always has been fair more or less, at least i relationships... personally i am all for 50/50, but usually dont mind paying for two... what i do mind is expensive presents, if they are expected... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 12:01 PM |
| 7 | As much as feminists say that they’re against traditional gender roles, how much of that is true?thats the thing these days... feminism stops when the bill comes... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/21 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Do men actually like the Kardashian look?thought every dude here complains about fat women^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 04:06 AM |
| -1 | Question for women: if your man is no longer attracted to you and declares he will never have sex with but not break up with you, will you be upset?with questions like that (and a lot of questions some dudes ask here) i would like to know why they do that, because i always assume they are talking about themselves, or try to get women to admit to something like “cheats on the husband because he isnt 7'”... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?i go with hollywood/media... i dont want to marry at all, but my gf wants to... why? i dont know, just for the sake of it... we both are not religous, her country puts a bit more emphasis on women to get married than mine (i dont care anyway), thats it... she wouldnt even have any benefits (i would have benefits, though), nothing would change... i wouldnt pay more or less than i do now, mainly because i do everything that is possible already anyway... she doesnt have any more stability than she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical typecant play the tock star anyway if you got no idea about it... talking from experience: just the looks dont cut it... and that goes for every look... if i would start looking like someone into sports for example, nobody would believe me... key is you also need knowledge about what you are doing, knowledge and passion... i know nothing more lame than people pretending something they arent... as soon as i notice the woman in question (it is about men here, but i dont date men) doesnt listen to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessyeah i was, honestly... but i never saw why, because im neither rich, nor am i conventionally good looking... guess artist/musician vibe is what is going for me... not that i mind anymore... but yeah i had quite some good times when i was younger... lesson from that though: you can score women who look way better than you (if its worth it, i dont know... didnt click much with models and found them to be rather annoying)... and: that self improvement stuff does things for you, you just shouldnt d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenesscan confirm, i was (maybe still am) one of the people that most women liked... and you do notice... to me it was very strange, though and first when i was a teenager i really didnt understand, especially because im nowhere near you average hot dude looks... it does change you in a way, though... but it also doesnt hurt to know where you stand with women, wether its good, or bad... saves you time and money^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?i personally dont mind at all... didnt have that many relationships, but enough fwb and ons that you cant really shock me with anything... but having trauma because she has more experience? i dont know if dont find that ridiculous... same as dudes who are pissed that she doesnt do this and that with him, even though she did it with someone else... there is usually a good reason for it, i mean you and me also know what works for us, or what isnt that fun... no need to get triggered by everything.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?ah alright... i only ever hear dudes bringing it up... in 99% that can only go wrong^ if anyone just brings it up for self validation and to mock the other one, thats a bitch move... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 05:11 AM |
| 7 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?i honestly wonder who asks for somebodies sexual past? especially when i read something like “she is my forst/second gf” and dude is like mid 20s, or older... everybody has more sexual past then... also: it doesnt matter at all, if it bothers someone too much, they can still leave the relationship... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 01:08 AM |
| – | Nothing screams ''insecurity'' more than fake boobs, lip jobs, botox and other ''upgrades''.because they usually make their insecurities extemely noticeable and overdo it... same goes for a lot of men, though... they could just not care about it and would have a more comfortable life i think... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 08:41 AM |
| – | Nothing screams ''insecurity'' more than fake boobs, lip jobs, botox and other ''upgrades''.i laugh about both and about leg extension, or jaw fillers, fake titz and so on... but manlets are often extremely funny with their insecurities... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Did our Paarents tell us lies and then expect us to be succesful in relationships?sounds like his experiences are: 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall?i like women with shaved heads! but i dont like any of the bald dudes that are usually stated and think they look like unemployed hooligans at best and like a dick at worst... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall?second that, i used to shave my eyebrows for 25 years... if you dont tell anyone, nobody notices, they might notice something is off (as in something is different), but thats it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenworks probably also the same way... you wake up one morning thinking “damn, shouldnt have seen her without make up”, before you run while she is still asleep... and she is like “wtf??? a manlet? i got heightfished!”, before telling you she isnt one for the first night... only difference: you bang her bcause you dont know until later, she knows before its getting serious^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselveswhere is the issue? i di the same if it is someone i dont want to talk to... might not be “fuck you” the first time, but certainly if he/she tries it more than twice... that is just how it works... men in general might use different words, but they also refuse to talk to people they dont want to... women are often more harsh because they get that way more often than men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW won't work.wouldnt say that... there are always women who want to move abroad, or have studied abroad and want their english experience back^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenthat is right... though you see people who are dark triad sometimes and they are just like that, not cringe at all, because they arent douchy... everybody who tries is a joke... well you cant fake anything anyway, that never goes well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:45 AM |
| 10 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenfirst you need to be dark triad and not act dark triad, that always comes off cringe and everybody sees through it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Western women are the overwhelming object of interest of this subreddit, yet are a less significant demographic with each moment that passes, and will matter much less as time goes onand if, be sure to have the cash ready^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?shouldnt surprise you at all... most people who try to immigrate are on dating apps as soon as they set foot in the country, usually way before that... men do the same, just with way less success... most do that for a free translator/tour guide/possible apartment/visa... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | The Recent Victoria's Secret Brand Image Shift Is A Symptom Of Female Entitlement CMVfirst things first: vs models where never in the thin side... what happens to them? dating/marrying musicians/artists/actors... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Women don't care about fame and status. It's money and talent.dont know about money, but talent is a big one... couldnt for the life of me remember how often i got into trouble when someones date preferred talking to me instead of the dude... pro tip: only date wherever you are more or less alone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesthey most likely choose by bank account and reputation^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesyeah was no offense or anything... just clarification... its basically near impossible to marry someone from a different social class there... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Let’s talk about arranged marriagesyou wont know much about the regions because those arent regions, they are social classes... brahmin being the highest, vaishya the third lowest... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women make it hard for men to be themselvesfifa? gta? quite sure text adventures are a little out of style these days... btw we are talking reflex/hand-eye coordination, or muscle memory/getting used to it (dont bother answering that one)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Women make it hard for men to be themselveswell i even agree... we were talking about men here, though and while i agree that there are games that need cognitive thinking and some sort of skill, i still think that is not what the majority is actually playing... but yes, of course rom com and the rest of trash tv belongs into the same category... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 07:55 AM |
| 0 | Women make it hard for men to be themselveshiding in the basement apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Women make it hard for men to be themselvesyeah and blaming their less of success on so called niche hobbies (that arent niche at all) is mainstream now... questionable is also what you consider to be a hobby, anime and video games to me is essentially wasting time on the couch (as is watching sports)... i dont rrally view that as a hobby, but as killing time because there is a lack of hobbies... wouldnt be surprised when women also dont view rotting on the couch as a hobby... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 01:52 AM |
| 0 | what would happen to the male suicide rate if the 80/20 rule stopped existing?nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels vs 3 Ladies (Fresh&Fit Afterhours) discussion escalatesmen also mind double standards women have whennit comes to men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What is the future relationship between men and women?quite sure they wont be living in a shoe box with 4 people for the rest of their lifes... as someone who grew up in some kind of smaller town, i would even prefer the shoe box... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 3 | What is the future relationship between men and women?in that case i think the women just have been smarter... nobody wants to live in a town as small as that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The Party Scenewas awesome! i did that for years, since i had a ton of friends and was in a band (as stereotype as it sounds)... dont regret a thing, good parties, lots of women... i am honestly more sad that its all over now, since everyone is married, has kids and so on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How much does clothing influence your attraction to a man?i would like to chime in on that question... why do women often prefer casual clothes on men? casual clothes and even leisure clothes (at home though)? i heard that a lot from different women over the years... so often that i sometimes think they want the man to dress down... even have that discussion with my own gf quite a few times, when she tries me to get into casual wear (like you see on tv, lighter colors and whatever) and leisure wear at home, which is not going to happen, but i would lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Incel AMA 3: The Incelingi am actually defending your point about “just be white” and saying it isnt as easy as people put it... but whatever, you do you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Incel AMA 3: The Incelingim talking about japan... except for some bars/clubs where it is acceptable to hit on someone, women dont like it at all... its the opposite... if they want to get hit on, they know where to go... the bars are for socialising and since nearly everyone is usually a regular anyway,hitting on them is not going to work of course... talking to women and chatting them up isnt even the issue, as fat as im concerned... never had any issue with that here and i would say i get hit up by far more than i wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Incel AMA 3: The Incelingwomen dont like to get picked up in bars here anyway... except few places it is usually frowned upon... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Why not just go to places where you are the top 20% of men?that advantage ended years ago anyway^^ is probably even a disadvantage now... but yeah, as long as you arent good looking, or by accident got something else going on that the other party likes, its going to be tough... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Women overestimate men’s attraction to thin female fashion models, study findsthat has been prooven time and again... if i remember it right, a few years ago they did a test where they showed men a model and a porn star and let them choose which one of them is more attractive... like 90% chose the porn star, because she wasnt thin... wasnt fat either, just normal looking woman... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?becaus pedo isnt that attractive... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Kurt Vonnegut on marriage and divorceeveryone i know who had some huge wedding ended up with having not many friends left, not divorced, though... but i also believe that the more people think/say they got friends and try to be everywhere and either please everyone, or do it to feel better about themselves, the less friends they actually have... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 0 | For Those Who Think Women "Should Care About Men's Dating Struggles", What Would That Look Like?that didnt change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that the female sex drive is as high as the male sex drive on average?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that the female sex drive is as high as the male sex drive on average?i dont say its equally general, but id say its also not much different... main difference being men would bang nearly everything they can find and women wont, but that doesnt mean their sex drive is lower... sure there are women with a lower sex drive than their partners, but that can also happen to men... and less sex in a relationship has more often other reasons than less sex drive, or lets say the sex drive is getting lower, but not all of a sudden and for no reason at all... the barrier is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Do you believe that the female sex drive is as high as the male sex drive on average?its rather holding on to the idea it isnt equal, because that gives an excuse for the lack of sex other than not being attractive, not putting in effort, or anything else that people could change... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Being widowed in one's 20s increases suicide risk by ~17x for men, but only ~4x for womenin that case you did something wrong... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | What are some real ways men can feel they have greater success with women that doesn't involve women changing?people who need that kind of validation will never feel they have greater success... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 2 | If men want a woman to love them for who he is and not what he can provide, he should go for younger womenwhile i dont understand how people view 18yo as women, where i am its absolutely the opposite... the women in their early 20s til 30, maybe 32, care a lot about expensive dates and how much money the man makes and how much they get from the relationship... most over 35 dont expect much of that... in my own experience its usually splitting the bill, or one pays this time the other one pays the next time and it isnt even talked about... and that is most likely because both partners are working and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you ever actually been asked your N-count, and if so, was the relationship worth it?yeah thats what it sounds like... i didnt have any in over ten years, but my n count until 25 was ten times that... people dont go out anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Setting the pace for sex, attachment theory, seduction and a potential LTRdont even understand what this is all about... if you want more sex than she does and she isnt willing to give you more, or just cant, you figure out if its time to leave, if thats a deal breaker for you... in case there isnt any trauma, or in general low libido, the reasons are usually pretty simple: -dude is lame -dude isnt good in bed -she isnt as attracted as you might think she is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/20 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Sex strategy for young average menwhere i am living im not considered short^ avwrage womens height is 160cm max but yeah these days everything under 190 seems to be short... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Sex strategy for young average mengood for you... my hair is thinking a little. im 180cm, thin, cant get fat thx to genetics (never did sports or anything, except occasional skating and some posture training because of my back (birth defect))... dressing well, which is easy since im a creative in fashion busines... between like 17 and 25 i slayed left and right, had my long term relationships, after that, not a single date (or anything else) until now (age 40), despite going out three days a week, no issues with talking to women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do people here act as though sex workers are not an option when discussing opportunities for sex?stigma problem... i for example didnt have any sex in 15 years, not even anything close to a date... if i would go and see a sex worker, i would only admit what i already know: you pay for an illusion and thats all you ever get... so if i ever did that, i would loose all hope thats left and i would admit that i am a person noone wants to spend time with, let alone come closer than a meter... it is no option, it is lying to yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 05:35 AM |
| 3 | I don’t think it takes that long to get good at game/seductionnot so sure about it, or i dont have any game... im going out three times a week, various places and approach, or usually i even get approached (50/50)... absolutely no problem with talking to women, conversation goes naturally well, next time i see any of them they still come up to talk to me, so i cant do everything wrong... but: no date or anything in 15 years... | /r/seduction | 23/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Your life isn’t over if you can’t find someone to commit to you.i got a lot of friends and a lot of social life, to be honest... also got a lot of things to do, hobbies and so on... but yes. its not like i got something to look forward to... because i feel that being alone isnt that much fun and i cant see anything changing that anymore... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Your life isn’t over if you can’t find someone to commit to you.nonsense... i do all i can do to be happy for myself, i do a lot on my own and so on... but im single for 15 years, didnt even have remotely a date for 15 years and believe me, you dont want to do that... you loose perspective, you loose drive, you loose a lot of your views... you also got to think about whatever happens in the future... because you can be as happy as you want to, you can do as much as you want to, but eventually youre stuck without any support... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the average male Tinder experience really?average looking late 30s here, most people day i look cool, though (whatever thet means)... 9 years tinder, using nearly every dau, maybe 6 matches, zero replies... unless i dont see screenshots, i dont gelieve dudes get that many matches^ | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | less success leads to no success?yeah, i get the logic behind that, but i wonder if that is really true and to what extend it influences the womens decision... in case that is true, im royally fucked^ though i dont think im needy... i do what i can and if it works, it works, if not then not... what else can you do anyway... and in at a point where i came to peace with rejections and so on, i didnt give up, yet, but if i wont score anymore, it wouldnt surprise me, lets put it like that... thing is, whatever i read here, isnt tha… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | less success leads to no success?yeah exactly! i usually dont show any interest at all^ well if i really like someone, i do, but i think that is still a different situation, because that would be for long term and not just a fling, or whatever you might call it... no idea if i express confidence... i often dont talk much, that might be off putting... but gossip and food is not really of my interest^ | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | less success leads to no success?yeah thats what i tell myself every day^ sure there are women who want me... there nearly never goes a day by where i dont see one smiling at me... | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | less success leads to no success?yeah and thats exactly what i do... i mean who wants to be at home doing nothin all day? i dont have that much time, because of work, but i do go out whenever i can, daytime/night, got my hobbies, study to get better at whatever i want to and so on... so yeah, i dont need one, that much is true... do i want ine? depends, sometimes when i like a girl, yes... sure, when i meet someone attractive, i try... otherwise life is fine, i would even say many are jealous, though that is always a matter of … | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | less success leads to no success?yeah that is defineately true... though i do exactly that, always speak my mind and dont really give a damn about most things... otherweise you would limit yourself anyway and thats nothing anyone should do... to me it somehow feels like most people just ask any girl out until one says “yes”, thats also something id like to avaoid... mind you, i do ask of course, no issue with that... i meet a lot if people, got no problems talking to women, im usually popular, hell, i dont even have to approach… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | My dating life is slowly driving me to suicideusually i try to avoid it, but that post did it for me... that is complaining on a high level... one year single? few month no date? apparently you can even reject and refuse women? gf left you? guess what, happened to everybody... that takes trolling to a new level... must be a joke, honestly... you are 27, even 20yo act more mature than you... by the way i mean what ive written above, i can not take that seriously at all... constructive advise though (also serious): - forget your ex, that is o… | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder adviceas mentioned, all the time i also went out a lot... i still go out three evenings a week and do various things on my off day... the only thing i didnt/dont do is speed dating^ i do approach people and thats also usually easy since wherever i am going there are people with similar interests... of course maybe there is something i forgot to do... | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder advicei dont know if i learn anything except for reading here sometines, or some other articles... for going out, three times a week, on my off days i go to exhibitions, events, just for an extended walk and so on... | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder advicei dont have a real choice, do i? except for giving up and where would that lead me? | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder advicethat was just irony^ i got no success with women... not even a phone number... everything else is like i said it is... im working in fashion business and also make my own clothes, so thats an advantage... why immpopular, i dont know... im just myself and people like it, actually someone mentioned once that i am one of the most popular among the people i hang with and even in the area we usually go to... make of that what you want, i was really surprised^ but yeah maybe it is like that, i dont kn… | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder adviceno idea, honestly... of course that makes me think im either ugly, or a total idiot... but neither is true, i just think that sometimes because of my huge success... in reality im not even unpopular, quite the opposite and people also like my looks (im by no means a model, id say i look normal, but my clothes are probably what makes people think i look good/cool/interesting)... i honestly got no idea... for online, im probably just not most peoples preference, or pictures of me suck (which they … | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Zero to hero - my tinder adviceyeah, actually i used about ten apps and whatnot... with zero success... but you try whatever you can, so i also tried dating apps (besides going out a lot and so on... well everything except for speed dating)... zero dates in twelve years... | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:15 PM |
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