gornad96 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Social media presence	Fundamentals	gornad96	/r/seduction	14/10/22 01:29 AM

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1	What little things can men do to have more sex appeal? Style and demeanor	/r/seduction	08/10/23 01:59 AM
2	I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M) As someone with a similar experience, I realized a while ago that it doesn’t really matter how much you have in your bank account, only how much other people think you have and how you put it to use. There’s a reason why people buy cars they can’t afford and wear clothes/jewelry that cost more than their entire monthly salaries. It works. Showing off that you have wealth, status and style is exciting to others. In my experience, most women don’t really give a shit how much you actually have in y…	/r/seduction	11/09/23 08:52 PM
8	What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend. Trust me many are socially awkward. They are just confident. You can be confident and still have bad social skills. Hell some aren’t even confident but they met through sheer circumstance. Tbh most hot couples I see usually one of them is pretty fucked up. I’ve never seen a handsome gracious dude with a hot well-mannered girlfriend. The guy is either insufferable, or the girl has issues.	/r/seduction	05/09/23 08:24 PM
2	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? The most important thing is to be patient. A few years ago at your age I was extremely unconfident. I didn’t do anything specific to work on it. I did (and still do) therapy because it’s healthy. I try to do things that I enjoy. I try to get out more and maybe meet new people. With time and age, you will see your confidence rise. The more you put yourself in new situations, the more you learn about yourself and about life, the more comfortable you become. Take it easy and take it one step at a t…	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:10 PM
1	What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are? I’m decently attractive but I have no clue. Anywhere I go I always get looks from a lot of people, but mostly only once. I noticed that when they look at you twice, then that’s pretty indicative that they at least find you interesting	/r/seduction	23/05/23 07:27 PM
2	How to respond to: “You can’t like a photo without starting a conversation” What are you going to do about it (her name)	/r/seduction	29/10/22 11:38 PM
1	So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days? Drinks, dessert, happy hour	/r/seduction	27/10/22 08:53 PM
2	Play into your archetype is there a sub that helps people find their archetype? I’ve always struggled tremendously with that. I’m attractive but unconventional looking (at least in the states)	/r/seduction	27/10/22 08:45 PM
1	What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ? Just because the odds of something seem really low, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t at least try. You’ll realize that odds don’t mean a thing and that everything is situational and different.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 03:29 PM
1	Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating? yes	/r/seduction	19/10/22 12:54 AM
1	Quite a few girls have thought that I was gay when they first met me? I have the same experience. Last month I was hit on by two separate gay guys in one night and another night I approached two girls with my friend and they thought we were a couple…i try to take it as a good thing but damn. imo I think it’s mainly your appearance and then tonality. I have a baby face and while I’m buff i have a thin frame. I wear tight-fitting clothes. I just look more feminine than the average guy. I’m also a bit too friendly in my interactions which adds to the effect…I’m still…	/r/seduction	10/10/22 06:19 AM
11	Feels like time is running out i was exactly in your shoes at 22. As long as you keep working on it, it will get better. Trust me…things can change in an instant. One week you’re alone. The next you’re in bed with a dope girl. Relax.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 02:12 AM
1	(28M) Dozens of matches on apps. Couldn’t get a single girl to meet up. I really think it has to do with your text game. If you're getting that many matches, there's noway you couldn't meet up with one unless your text game is horrible. Are you being playful/flirty and interesting in your convos? How do you ask for a date? Are you being too formal/needy? Also, did you actually talk to all 40 matches or only 5 or 6 and then you went to reddit because you felt frustrated? It's a numbers game. Keep trying and learn what works/what doesn't and what your style is. When y…	/r/seduction	20/09/22 06:11 PM
8	It’s Not a Competition I feel like especially in recent times, the nature of relationships has drastically changed. Social media and all that bs has driven most young men to the road of self-improvement and most young women have very high expectations. A few decades ago, you could just be yourself and find someone. That is no longer the case for young people. You have to catch up. Most clubs/bars I go to men are in shape/good generics, groomed, with sharp haircuts and decent style. If you decide to follow the modern w…	/r/seduction	20/09/22 03:05 PM
1	Do women view a Guy who’s in great shape the same way we guys view women with a great body? Define great shape. Men and women don't like roided freaks of the opposite sex. I think both men and women prefer an athletic build over a non-athletic build.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 01:42 AM
2	How Do I Date Without a Car? I got my liscence at 24 as a guy. Everything became so much easier after I got it. It's crucial that you get one. Unless you live in a city or close to a station, forget about dating. It will cause more annoyance than fun if you have to uber everywhere and you can't go to places that are far/off road. In my case I had to borrow someone's car to practice and take the test. There was no other choice as my state required logging practice and schools didn't give out cars. Luckily I met a good friend…	/r/seduction	13/09/22 01:36 AM
1	Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like? I can only say that being a computer/software engineer is terrible for the apps. That's my experience and most of my friends. Replace it with consultant (software consultant) and you're doing better already.	/r/seduction	31/08/22 05:01 AM
79	You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things? Everyone saying escelate physically but most of my dates i'm sitting across from a person for coffee/happy hour. I'm guessing ask to go for a walk and escalate then? I don't see how else	/r/seduction	30/08/22 09:22 PM
1	What works romantically doesn’t always work socially, and vice versa. I agree with the general idea, not how you explained it. When dating, you need use a few extra tools from your arsenal to be romantic and flirty. But the social core remains the same. What works socially works when dating. You just have to be more flirty/romantic because of the context. A nice guy can do very well on a date if he's flirty and can joke around. Noone likes the nice guy stereotype but everyone likes a confident genuinely nice guy. Being polarizing also works in friend groups. Being…	/r/seduction	04/08/22 01:43 AM
1	After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction? This is why i hate the mentality of "just do it the worst she can say is no". Like some of us have deep insecurities/trauma. A very harsh rejection can spiral you into a hole of depression and anxiety. Believe it or not, some things in life you shouldn't partake in until you feel truly ready. "But you'll never feel ready" Bullshit...it took me a few years to work on myself but afterwards I felt confident and ready and started making riskier moves. Take your time, slowly condition yourself to rej…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 03:27 PM
1	How to get attractive girls at college Join a frat or be an athlete. Next best thing is having friends in frats or athlete friends. Last resort is joining clubs or orgs. Otherwise, it will be pretty difficult unless you're naturally charming and extroverted.	/r/seduction	23/06/22 05:04 AM
1	[23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth? First, seek therapy. Your goal is to properly understand your situation and to be at peace with it. Second, start working out. Working out will help you tremendously with your social/sexual drive. You'll start to feel comfortable and attractive in your body and you'll at least have something that most people perceive as valuable (fit and healthy body). Third, reside in an upbeat walkable vibrant environment. If you had a bar you can walk to in a couple of minutes, you'd be much more likely to vi…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 07:45 AM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? It's normal for your self-esteem to diminish after a rejection. Just make sure you have lots of it ;)	/r/seduction	11/11/21 05:54 AM
2	Remember this: she will give it up to somebody. Such a primal way of looking at things. I don't recommend it. Just relax and stop being so worked up about sex and relationships. Keep working on yourself and you'll be fine. We all learn differently and we all have different goals when it comes to relationships.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 04:13 PM
1	Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned. If you value your privacy, please never display nudity on omegle. Many people record and share these vids in groups. At the very least hide your face.	/r/seduction	09/05/21 11:52 PM
8	If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be? Everyone wants something different. Most of my friends look for friendly, cute, agreeable and fun women. Physical attraction is said to be important, but i'm surprised every time by how many people I know that get in a relationship with a partner that falls below their "physical" standards. Personally, ambition and courage are very important to me in a woman but that's me. I would say the most important common traits are agreeableness and sense of humor.	/r/seduction	24/04/21 10:15 PM
3	Ladies, don't be that woman I met (smiling)	/r/seduction	21/02/21 04:53 PM
33	How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test? Ill take that as a compliment	/r/seduction	01/01/21 06:29 AM
8	While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way. Just want to say to never intertwine social media and the real-world. Someone with 50 followers can be having the time of their life. They just don't flaunt it. And someone with a 1000 can be miserable. Please don't let social media presence define you (or someone else).	/r/seduction	14/12/20 06:01 AM
3	Update on the cashier who's number I got... interesting day. Why do i have a feeling that this is made up. Anyway, if its real then kudos to you.	/r/seduction	15/11/20 09:59 AM