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goron24/r/seduction12/06/18 03:40 PM
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Translation: I want to fuck you
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:03 AM
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If youve known her for 3 years and that's all you know about her... Uh good luck pal 😂
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:10 AM
2

Who gives a shit. In this day and age if basically anyone hasn't replied in 6 hours you aren't on their priority list. Move tf on
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:29 AM
1

Wannabe gangster, yikes. Ditch the fucking persona
/r/seduction12/02/21 03:45 AM
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I mean its basically saying "I want guys that have more money". Being older really doesn't mean anything in terms of personality or any other meaningful characteristic. Its a shallow cop out.
/r/seduction29/01/21 11:46 PM
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I mean "I prefer older guys" is such a cop out though
/r/seduction29/01/21 03:37 PM
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"The subtle art of not giving a fuck" is great for self help and kind of his starter book imo
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:09 PM
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Snaps mean nothing, tons of women snap everyone when they are bored. If she doesn't apologize and reschedule the date then she isn't interested.
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:06 PM
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^ this
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:06 PM
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Yeah I do lol. If she was even remotely interested she wouldn't have given him just her instagram. Plus if he hasn't figured out anything to talk about with her then he's he's not got a chance. He worked on a project with her and never figured out what she likes or chit chatted enough for her to talk to him afterwards in a friendly context. Stars aren't going to magically align for this dude to date her.
/r/seduction28/01/21 06:58 PM
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She gave you her instagram for a project... Uhh sorry to say bro but you ain't got a snowball chance in hell.
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:39 AM
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Then don't text, call.
/r/seduction14/01/21 11:02 PM
3

Pretty much this.
/r/seduction28/11/20 02:04 AM
6

She sounds flaky and indecisive. I'd kick her to the curb man.
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:42 AM
2

Then get one, ffs it's not hard
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:14 PM
7

She prolly blocked you so her boyfriend didn't find out she wanted to swallow some other dudes dick
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:39 AM
2

Are you outdoorsy, work out or have outside the home hobbies? Are your tinder or dating site profiles in varied places with you smiling looking good? Honestly dating sites are a shit show and if you don't have hobbies outside the house, get some
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:33 AM
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Something you know she likes (candy, flours, chocolate) or something small she pointed out in a shop saying she wanted it. Tickets to something she wants to see. If you been dating 2 months and actually paying attention... You should have more than enough ideas
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:24 AM
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GET A FUCKING HOOKER. Jesus christ dude, back page or even Google you'll be able to find one in minutes. Even if it's illegal who tf cares if you get one that's reviewed you know you ain't gonna go to jail You need a therapist like hella bad. Sex really isn't all it's cracked up to be and it ain't going to solve your issues
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:22 AM
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No fucking wonder you get ghosted. I kind of want to ghost you and I'm a guy. Did you somehow travel here from the 1500s with that outdated world view? Like others have said if you want to get laid, shut the fuck up. Literally never ever tell another human being you believe that bullshit. What you wrote is literally the dumbest most incel shit. No one (man or woman) wants to be reduced to their basic instincts and told why they are attracted to someone. It's condescending and you sound like a hu…
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:14 AM
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No and no. Each relationship moves at its own pace
/r/seduction28/09/20 01:55 AM
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Next her man. She's either a lost cause or not interested. Show you have more self worth than that shit and show her the door
/r/seduction24/09/20 02:55 AM
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Are they social hobbies? Even if a girl doesn't care about it, the point is to be happy and content in it. Talking awkwardly about it because you don't think they'll like it won't help
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:00 PM
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Develop a personality and have hobbies. If you worry less about "seeming like a fun guy" and actually having a full life that shit comes naturally
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:54 PM
10

Fucking talk to her. Ask her what would make her comfortable. Be honest that you weren't experience and didn't mean to hurt her. Communicate, it's really not difficult
/r/seduction17/08/20 04:48 PM
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Have standards.
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:03 PM
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Might not be solely on the fact you're black. Honestly dating sites are shit and most people use them for a quick bang. Might be the area you moved to I'm not sure. In my area a slim, fit girl with a great job would have hundreds of messages and matches regardless of race
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:29 AM
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"am I done?" by your description sounds like you never started bro. She doesn't sound interested in more than a chat buddy
/r/seduction28/07/20 04:57 PM
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Naw, if she were interested she'd put more effort into talking. Birthday wish even at 1159 is nothin especially if shes a night owl
/r/seduction07/07/20 06:03 PM
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Dave Chappelle has this one covered https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Su7HpKOFTM0
/r/seduction05/07/20 09:00 PM
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Maybe don't tell her to fuck off but don't invest time or energy is she doesn't do the same. If you keep at her you've just told her you're a backup guy.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:02 AM
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If she's even semi popular on instagram she'll get these kinds of DMs literally every minute of every day. Shit's not gonna work.
/r/seduction01/07/20 01:46 AM
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You don't
/r/seduction29/06/20 11:57 PM
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Say less. No seriously the way you'll overdo it is by saying dumb shit. Just enjoy silently and relax. Enjoy being comfortable and don't ramp up your anxiety with thoughts of "what should I do or say"
/r/seduction22/06/20 03:22 PM
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This is also a good piece of advice
/r/seduction07/05/20 10:10 PM
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Oh 100% there's no reason to stop being intimate or overthink in the moment. I was more so going with address it well before that moment
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:36 PM
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I mean fair point but i'd rather be 100% honest instead of "haven't had a partner in a while" if they are dating she'll eventually ask then he has to lie and blah blah blah. If she likes him and he comes quick that just means more practice
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:47 PM
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Bad idea, if he gets to the sex part and busts his nut almost instantly (as most of us do our first time) then it could cause more issues.
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:19 PM
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If she loses attraction because you're a virgin then she's a loser. Honestly lots of women would like the blank slate to train you in what they like.
/r/seduction07/05/20 02:18 PM
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You're the emotional tampon and backup
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:21 PM
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First kiss is always awkward as fuck my man. If her response is to giggle and try again there's no need to worry
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:23 AM
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Just ask him. I mean other than that invite him over for chillin, sit close, cuddle up, put on a scary movie or something and then touch his wiener
/r/seduction23/01/20 05:08 PM
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Hey now! We have more pimples
/r/seduction04/12/19 11:11 PM
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Use an escort? Find one that's engaging and noob friendly?
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:53 PM
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I'm sure she wants to as well. Let's be real though she didn't spend any amount of time on your dick with that kind of flirting
/r/seduction17/11/19 06:43 PM
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Can I get the 0:14 of my life I wasted on that video back. Yeesh
/r/seduction17/11/19 06:01 PM
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Bruh not even close. But a 4 or a 5... Most people don't play video games lower than a 6 or watch movies rated less than a 6. Why stick your dick in a girl you seem less than a 6. That's friggin gross. If you're trying to fuck 4-6s that says a lot about where you place yourself. I'd rather not get laid than fuck a 4.
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:55 PM
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"most have been in 4-6 range" - Yikes. I mean a 6 isn't awful but anything below that... I'd be afraid of getting a disease
/r/seduction01/11/19 10:02 PM
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'I think it would have been on my breast had I not moved. When it first happened I didn't think much of it. I forgot about it because I had my exams and just thought it was weird behaviour.' What is this the fucking minority report? We are prosecuting people for conjecture?
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:41 PM
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Calm down shia
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:56 PM
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Poke her in the eye. Women love it
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:44 PM
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Mindsets like yours and you'll only ever get a one night stand.
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:34 AM
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Don't blame the gender for the actions of one idiot. Also sounds like you were the side bae
/r/seduction17/09/19 02:33 AM
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I think this is a decent outlook. Honestly women aren't something to be "gamed". At the end of the day you're not going to make her do something she doesn't want to do. Enjoying a woman's company even if you don't get laid is far better than being disappointed you didn't pull someone to bone.
/r/seduction16/09/19 03:33 PM
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Honestly her rejection seems like an easy out.
/r/seduction14/09/19 12:14 PM
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She said yes not to make a scene and rejected you by text. Pretty decent of her.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:50 PM
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I've had a few with girls I was dating at the time just for the novelty. I would tend to think most women aren't going to be picked up and fuck a guy at the mall
/r/seduction06/09/19 09:37 PM
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Smile dress nice take good photos be in social places Have a funny or witty, short bio there's 5, like its some friggin mystery how to get tinder matches
/r/seduction06/09/19 09:30 PM
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Pro tip: The OP is saying he couldn't read her signals hence why he posted on this forum asking what to do. Clearly she wasn't clear and expressed her anger as she was leaving which gave him no chance to respond or understand.
/r/seduction04/09/19 06:57 PM
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Can you think of a reason why a girl might find a guy's physical advances to be unwelcome and would get angry and leave? Other than immaturity? No its immaturity she can't address it like an adult Put aside all that PUA shit, "If she comes to your place, IT'S ON, she knows what's goin' down." Insisting on that and getting all hung up your supposed entitlement to sex is going to get you in a ton of trouble. Legitimately not giving PUA advice, you're entirely wrong in your assessment of what i've …
/r/seduction04/09/19 06:55 PM
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Its not something you can really "nip in the bud" its more of something you need to be conscious about and rewire your brain to think differently about. Thought records are a decent way of doing it.
/r/seduction04/09/19 06:09 PM
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Depends on the girl. If she's constantly on her phone and doesn't respond then you're done. If she thinks messaging is bothersome but replies to you then you're in.
/r/seduction04/09/19 06:01 PM
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Wait for a match. If you've only ever talked for 5 min she likely doesn't even remember who you are.
/r/seduction04/09/19 06:00 PM
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seemed "seemed" meaning he doesn't know. Also if he put his hand on her while they were making out she could have said "no" at ANY point. Even if she wasn't being coy she wasn't communicating clearly that the guy she was with understood. Your little bullshit about the date-o-matic is nonsense, instead of engaging in a productive conversation you just assumed I was an asshole. Good job.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:54 PM
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Leave the issue and if she doesn't respond to you in a few days leave her alone too. I mean if you WANT to address the issue text her in a couple days being like "hey I haven't heard from you in a few days is there something up?" if she doesn't respond she's too immature to have an adult conversation and just let her go
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:50 PM
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Tooooooons of chicks slap the hand out of the way the first time to be coy and see how much they can tease a guy. There's a reason language was invented.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:44 PM
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Just leave her alone. If she wants to address it she will. Sure, you made a mistake by being pushy but unless she's willing to address it with you she's doing neither of you any favors.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:42 PM
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How secure is your GF in your relationship? Cuz if she's insecure at all you fucking another woman even with her consent could get messy. Also make sure the other chick isn't trying to steal you by using the threeway as an in
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:17 PM
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Do you no longer play games at all? Do you take part in group sports or activities when you aren't at the club? Where do you do your most approaches?
/r/seduction04/09/19 12:17 AM
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Seems like you chose your venue properly. This approach won't really work outside of festivals. At festivals women (especially single ones) are more open to approaches and or casual sex. I know you said you really like her but I doubt even if you lived in the same city you should pursue.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:25 PM
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We all stick our dick in crazy. That's why we need protection
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:02 AM
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She's insecure af with low self esteem
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:27 PM
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She was interested 2 years ago bro, no girl is gonna wait 2 years for someone. Snaps =/= talking You want to find out when she's back, ask. Start a convo and get the dialogue going, this allows you to test the waters and gauge her interest too.
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:39 PM
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Why ask a girl out when she has no option but to put it off. If you want to take her out ask her when she's able to go and suggest a date, time and place. If she wants to go and can't go that day she'll reschedule. Being vague and non commital is not going to get her attention. Also asking her out when you haven't talked is a no no. If she wanted to go out with you she'd still be in contact
/r/seduction04/07/19 03:23 PM
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Bro, don't think anything of it. Just do your job and keep your head high. If they were laughing at you then it's them who have the issue. Maybe they were giggling because they thought you were cute. Either way there's no real reason to let it bother you. If something like that makes you feel you want someone kicked out, then you have a lot of self esteem work to do my brotha
/r/seduction27/06/19 12:40 AM
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So you cyber stalked a woman and it's her fault... Riiiight. Go to counseling bro you got some deep rooted issues
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:47 PM
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Wait what happened? That explanation is hard as fuck to read.
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:05 PM
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She's toying with you. Some chicks want you to go for it and be aggressive. However in the current political climate I do not recommend this
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:03 PM
1

Well, if you're showing the fat one attention the rest of the group should already be feeling jealous and want your attention. With the couple of glances you've shot the one you want she should be easy to transition. Direct a couple of comments her way asking for her input and once she's into the convo and you've got her attention ask her to get a drink with you and break away from the group. The logic is that if you approach the fat/least attractive one and get her attention she won't cockblock…
/r/seduction03/01/19 03:12 PM
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No worries then, they're usually pretty easy just show em attention
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:05 AM
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Suggesting a day while remaining high value.. The fuck that mean? If you suggested a day and acted disinterested then it's your damn fault. Just move on
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:04 PM
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Talk to them like they are bros and you want nothing from them other than a chat. There is no magical conversation path to sex. 6 billion people on the planet and not all of em will want to talk with you, and that's ok
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:02 PM
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Work on yourself and get your head straight before you use someone else for validation and self esteem again
/r/seduction30/12/18 10:01 PM
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The fuck?
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:57 PM
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Press this magic "girlfriend button".. How about treating her like a person and flirting with her, if she responds go with it. If not don't keep pressing it or you'll lose a friend too
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:56 PM
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He's right seduction doesn't stop now that you're dating. Correction this is where it truly begins
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:47 PM
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Talk to the fat one and make eye contact occasionally with the one you want and smile. She'll get jealous the fat one is getting attention.
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:45 PM
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Bro.. You're young, my advice is use this as an opportunity to understand and work through your emotions. Don't ghost her, if you value her as a person don't do this and it will only make you out to be an asshole to her. I understand rejection hurts but there are 8 billion people on the planet. You will find someone but you will also experience rejection again.
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:27 AM
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You liked her and didn't make any moves. The MVP certainly ain't you
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:34 AM
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Bro, why did you not pull the trigger if you liked her? Perhaps she liked you and got tired of waiting. Honestly you need to examine why you're hurt by this because its coming off as selfish to kind of expect her to be into you.
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:47 PM
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Masturbate... like a lot! Jk don't do that.
/r/seduction05/12/18 10:29 PM
3

Someone I talked to put it very simply. You need to realize you are NOT the main character, all eyes are not on you and people aren't going to even notice if you do something slightly (or majorly) wrong. Its somewhat freeing to understand that, as well as that everyone is likely thinking the same thing you are but about themselves.
/r/seduction03/10/18 09:54 PM
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As good as this is, note that this doesn't work on dating sites.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:34 PM
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Bruh, she aint leaving her boyfriend. She 'may' let you smash but she's staying right where he is and just playin' your ass
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:46 PM
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Holy fuck dude this was hard to read. Do you regularly text or speak like this? To respond to the actual post: Dude you're getting played. She's feeding you lines about her shitty boyfriend to hook you. $5 says there's nothing wrong with the guy she's dating and she's making herself seem like a victim so she seems like less a scumbag and so you'll give her the D.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:34 PM
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People love solving mysteries even for curiosity sake
/r/seduction23/08/18 05:29 PM
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Sounds like she isn't interested. Typically if she wanted to hang she'd have asked if you were free or suggested a good day. She's literally only replying with facts so you don't get pissed off.
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:57 PM
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fhritp
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:50 PM
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Should have picked a date and time, if she wasn't available she would have changed it. The open ended question you posed her probably put her off a bit. It sounds flaky and not confident, like you're expecting her to take charge.
/r/seduction23/08/18 02:49 PM
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This exactly. Its the old "You're a nice guy but I don't want your penis but don't want to tell you so" story.
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:09 PM
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You gotta be you man, don't let someone manipulate you into saying what they want and don't do the same to someone else. Be honest and sincere
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:55 PM
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I would avoid making hints, it looks weird after things went bad. It may come off as cocky or dismissive. I'd probably just talk to her directly about it. Some women value the ability to be vulnerable in a man.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:26 PM
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I mean there's a few things you can do. 1) Go for broke and just be honest about what happened and how you felt (IE anxious) or 2) Just keep talking to her normally, show her that her value to you isn't gone because of a mishap
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:03 PM
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Doesn't matter how long it takes. See you say you've regained your confidence but you're still agonizing over her losing interest and asking me how to fix your situation. That doesn't sound confident to me lol
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:51 PM
1

What do you want to do? If you want closure then get it
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:44 PM
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Start at D&B then coffee to talk about how much fun you had
/r/seduction11/07/18 07:32 PM
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You can save it, but it is going to take time and you won't be able to save if the way you think. You need to get yourself in a right state of mind. You need to sleep, work on your anxiety and confidence, etc. These things take time but don't cut her out completely, be authentic to her and no more trying to do what you think she wants. Do/say what you want and let her make up her own mind. If you show her you're not that anxious desperate horny guy over time her interest will return. But since y…
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:02 PM
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No, the confident one who wasn't manipulating her and who wasn't anxious and desperate
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:41 PM
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That is up to you to figure out
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:46 AM
1

Be the person you pretended you were.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:45 AM
1

Once again, this is less about her and more about you. If you want to show her you are still that cool guy that doesn't let anxiety define you then work to BE that guy and people (her included) will notice. Who cares what she thinks, Let your actions and behaviour speak louder than your words. If she thinks she's being manipulated (and in a way she has since you've tried to tailor your reactions to weave a path to getting laid) then the best way to show her she isn't is to have your actions show…
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:34 PM
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Yea man absolutely update me on how things go, helping is what the forum us for. A big part of seduction, true seduction isn't some game you run or some plan you have. Its inner confidence, the ability to be unapologetically you. People will be naturally drawn to someone who radiates self-assurance. I have dealt with a lot that lead me to this anxiety and way of thinking (one is an appearance matter that was my fault) Realizing its effect on you is a great step in working through the anxiety. Ou…
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:57 PM
1

retain or retrain? I would say evolve your self image to one that you are happy with man.
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:54 PM
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To get rid of apathy you need to be honest and genuine. Show her the person she was probably into in the first place.
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:53 PM
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I can't tell you how to act with this girl, it wouldn't be sincere. If you want to pursue this girl then the response has to come from what you think is the best course of action. I can advise that it should come from a place of sincerity and honesty. Don't play a game with her trying to garner a particular response, it won't work and if she feels she's being played with she'll shut you down pretty quick. Be yourself, and be honest, hell you could even just ask her straight out if you felt it ne…
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:34 PM
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Both her and yourself. Meh don't worry about your image so much, it shows desperation that you're this worried about how she views you. Unique opportunity or not if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen, there is really nothing riding on it in reality. If the date doesn't happen you've not "lost" anything. If she's interested she'll make another opportunity. You need to stop letting your image and someone's perception of you effect your behavior. Learn to be confident in yourself and understand th…
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:56 PM
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I mean would making things harder for her or us to meet up make her want me more? Doesn't matter and you shouldn't think like that. Don't seem less desperate BE less desperate. Quit doing things to get a certain desired reaction from her, its manipulative and in the end still comes off as needy. if you might not be able to make it be honest and let the chips fall where they may. The moment you stop trying to control interactions is a very freeing one. The only thing you need to put yourself in c…
/r/seduction05/07/18 03:16 PM
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Either or, if she's interested she'll likely ask for you to keep her updated
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:00 AM
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I'd say that sounds reasonable, it's not super needy but it shows care for her
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:43 AM
1

Does it matter, you're not doing things for her to respect you. You're doing things because you want to
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:42 AM
1

My advice is don't play games. You're still overthinking the interaction. If she flakes or bails don't let it bother you or allow negative thoughts into your head about your worth. If she flakes go out and do something because you enjoy it, not as revenge. If she flakes go "no problem, lets plan for another time". The basic concept is live your life without putting it on hold for her. If you make plans and she cancels or whatever it won't be the end of the world. The reason you are anxious over …
/r/seduction04/07/18 09:34 PM
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder. People get used to you being a constant and the moment you aren't there they realize the impact you have and desire that feeling
/r/seduction04/07/18 07:31 PM
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I don't care if its obvious. IT DOESN'T MATTER. If a girl is into you, she's willing to put up with a lot of dumb shit because she's interested. You do not need to impress her. You need to build yourself up. Women like confident men and confidence comes from within. Understand your worth, start putting more effort into dressing nice and keeping clean, exercise more, work towards a goal you've been neglecting. Focusing on your interaction with a woman, ANY woman will not bring you lasting confide…
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:13 PM
1

My advice still stands, chill the fuck out. You don't know what she's thinking and it's making you more anxious and desperate. Don't focus on "I fucked up things bad", because you don't know. Just enjoy her company and let the interaction flow naturally. Get out of your head, stop replaying it in your mind because you'll drive yourself insane and make poor decisions.
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:15 PM
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My advice, chill the fuck out. You're responding and doing things out of anxiety and worried about fucking things up only makes it worse. Just hang out and enjoy her company, if things happen let them happen, and if they don't just enjoy your time with her. If you shift your value/expectation you won't be disappointed.
/r/seduction04/07/18 01:45 PM
4

As an addition to this post there are MANY apps that teach meditation and perform guided meditation to help you get started.
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:20 PM
6

Don't expect every interaction to end in a pickup? Enjoy having a beautiful latina grind on you and let things happen and flow naturally?
/r/seduction03/07/18 02:57 PM
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Step one, stop describing yourself as an incel. Putting this kind of label on yourself eliminates the desire to figure out how you can improve yourself. Body language and social ques take practice and interaction. Physical issues? So you're short and balding, shave your head and start going to the gym. 99% of being sexual and getting women is how you act. Own what and who you are and learn to value yourself. Instead of being a depressed victim be a motivated problem solver. Your attitude speaks …
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:51 PM
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I'll pick em both up
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:38 PM
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ooooo i'll have to read that one, been looking for some more dating focused material. Currently reading "men are from mars"
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:10 AM
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Unfortunately not, its something I suffer with it as well. It just takes experience from my understanding.
/r/seduction03/07/18 03:10 AM
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In the end if you aren't the person you pretend to be you'll be left high and dry more often than not. I recently read "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" and it has fantastic implications on "game". Teaches you to work on whats important to you and how you view life. These principals have a significant impact on every aspect, especially with the opposite sex
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:23 PM
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That's fair, we don't want to promote a bandaid fix and rather people putting in the proper effort. It all comes down to if you don't think you're good enough, you aren't
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:50 PM
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That's fair, we don't want to promote a bandaid fix and rather people putting in the proper effort. It all comes down to if you don't think you're good enough, you aren't
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:50 PM
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Dude even if she's not talking to anyone her actions signal she wants to. Don't feel guilty for ghosting believe me, it feels rough but you standing up and believing you have value will keep you from getting into a situation you don't want to be in.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:48 PM
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Dude even if she's not talking to anyone her actions signal she wants to. Don't feel guilty for ghosting believe me, it feels rough but you standing up and believing you have value will keep you from getting into a situation you don't want to be in.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:48 PM
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Practice, go with the flow, and GET OUT OF YOUR OWN HEAD. Stop weaving a conversational path to attraction and just respond to her and how she is talking. Preplanning your conversation and being in your head shows in your body language and is a turn off.
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:42 PM
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Boundaries are a big one, and being able to stand by your beliefs. Women (and people in general) don't like mindless "yes" men. If you actually adopt this attitude, you’ll begin to give off positive and safe vibes, and your approach success rate will go up. This x1000. This is a lot of the reason you'll get randomly ghosted too, as they don't want to deal with being called a whore or a bitch for letting someone down nicely. If you do get let down nicely be kind. Focus on her emotions. Agreed. Me…
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:20 PM
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I'm not taking this as you putting me down. We are having a productive discussion imo. I don't disagree with you that attitude and confidence say a lot more about you than what you say to a woman in an approach. Being present and not buried in your head trying to work a mental path on how to say the right thing that leads to sex inevitably causes your failure. In my experience someone who would go with just "your perdy" is already anxious, lacking confidence, and buried in their head. If you loo…
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:17 PM
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Well typically if she's attracted to you then you can say pretty well anything and she'll respond positively. I'm not saying use a "line" but a sincere compliment or something other than "you're perdy" gives her something to work with. "tacos can fly" is playful, funny and creative, it also shows confidence to use such a line to begin with. Like you said the sub communication is EVERYTHING. I'm not suggesting anyone "game" someone, but something playful and intuitive opens up the possibility for…
/r/seduction02/07/18 09:04 PM
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Ebay?
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:45 PM
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Sometimes friends for now means "i'm not committing to you but lets see how we get along". When religion comes into it is a different story, she likely won't date a guy who doesn't practice her faith and that's why she wants to hang as friends.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:45 PM
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Agree
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:43 PM
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Dude please learn how to use a comma and a period. My goodness the run on sentence. Even if what she said while vomiting was the truth it wasn't something she wanted you to hear which is why she is acting different afterwords. Even if it was her just being too drunk or high to know what she was saying I wouldn't put too much stake in it otherwise. If wants to tell you she will, if not it means it either wasn't true or its feelings that cause her pain that she doesn't want to have and she is tryi…
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:43 PM
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That's fair. I would go with something a little out of the norm, that way you've got creativity on your side as well.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:35 PM
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Social media, text, anything but in person is probably a no no. You don't want a paper trail and a woman of 50 probably finds contact via social media to show your lack of confidence. Most women of 50 that are going to bone a 22 year old expect them to be inexperienced any find pleasure in training them into a stud. If you're going to go for it you need tact. Don't go all out but make subtle hints and comments when dad ISN'T around. She's experienced and intelligent enough to pick up on these hi…
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:30 PM
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This is pretty common actually. If one or more areas of your life are suffering (Ie. Financial, health, sexuality) the others are adversely effected.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:25 PM
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Run! If this is her go to response this isn't a good sign yo. She's likely either got issues, an attention seeker, or had more dudes in her than a military base. Let's put it this way, you aren't seducing her. She's playing you.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:20 PM
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Leave it and let things progress naturally. If you focus on the sexual tension and attraction she will perceive it as desperate. If she's interested she will put in the effort.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:18 PM
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Depends on the situation, a bartender or barista usually won't flirt as they are too busy. A waitress will typically flirt because they are paid to be attentive to you. Either way i'd explore it. Could play it a couple ways, make a cute comment and then turn the attention to her and say you'd like to get to know her or you make it a point to go back into the place a few times and see how the dynamic plays out a few times before making a move. Either way nothing really lost.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:16 PM
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"I have a lot to figure out but you have relationship potential" = "I want to sit on a bunch more dicks and have you as a backup when i'm used up and lonely."
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:12 PM
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Fucking run bruh
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:06 PM
1

Got $5 that you're a troll
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:05 PM
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You won't, 99% of women won't go for a guy based on looks alone unless he's an Adonis. Women are used to being bombarded by good looking dudes, unless you're funny or interesting you're just another random pretty boy
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:04 PM
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Be better at her game than she is, if she's ghosting you then ignore her. If she comes calling put her off for hours/days at a time. She is used to you being available and chasing her so she goes to use when she needs attention that she isn't getting from someone she's chasing. Eventually she'll crave your attention because she isn't getting it.
/r/seduction02/07/18 08:00 PM
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9's are use to hearing 1,000,000 a day they are pretty. It isn't the best opener even if she was going to reject you anyway.
/r/seduction02/07/18 07:58 PM
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win a girl heart to love you... Engrish is on point
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:44 PM
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His experiment isn't as lame as you'd think. Many people, including myself suffer from approach anxiety and his experiment is designed to get experience approaching and relay the consequences of getting rejected are nothing to be feared.
/r/seduction13/06/18 10:00 PM
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Maybe I read them differently than you did because I read unease at best and even then plenty of women do decline him. He's rather good at bouncing when a he senses a girl isn't interested. Maybe i'm missing something.
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:20 PM
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Woah champ, are you sure?
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:17 PM
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What the actual fuck Ross?
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:02 PM
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Well the alternative is that they could go on a date with him and realize he has 200 women's phone numbers in his phone and think he's a player?
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:02 PM
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I need to do this challenge. Step 1: Go outside....
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:01 PM
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Your dad RN https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xltG-pYmbLs
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:59 AM
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hahaha love it
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:59 PM
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A person who ghost's you like that has to sort themselves out before they can be with someone else. Fair assessment, it also shows incredibly poor communication skills and that at the first sign of a problem they bolt. I'm not about that life The interview type message was how I was going to approach it if I did send a message. Just feedback to refine a process. 1) No, not that I wouldn't have (especially the night we stayed up late) but I was physically about 800km away for work until the day a…
/r/seduction12/06/18 08:10 PM
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It means she needs to fart
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:58 PM
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I'm sure past experience with trying to explain probably got her described with some expletives. As much as it sucks she ghosted I have no hard feelings towards her, I enjoyed our time talking.
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:40 PM
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I was thinking of that, but this all went down a couple weeks ago and the last 2 texts I sent her were ignored (just good morning stuff)
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:03 PM
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how is this bullshitting the sub? Its a form of encouragement and help to those struggling with getting out of their own heads. The information and actions don't have to be new to be relevant. Do you read books that are more than a year old? Damn right you do!
/r/seduction12/06/18 03:58 PM
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Sounds like an interesting challenge, is there any tips to give if someone wants to start this? Did you have conversations prepared or just kind of did it?
/r/seduction04/06/18 08:42 PM
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Have a list of places to go/things to do after and pick one based on what you think she'd like. Your place isn't an option but her's might be if she's that into you but she need to ask
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:50 PM
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Mystery method is the precursor to magic bullets isn't it? So that first?
/r/seduction23/05/18 09:59 PM
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