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Purge Discussion!goskies/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:10 AM
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1

Fair enough! I assume you mostly find women boring then and that's a big part of your MGTOW stance. Not too many women reading philosophy. I also assume you've read Nietzsche's genealogy of Morality. I read that in my mid-20s and it totally changed my life. I'm not sure if I have ever agreed with anything more besides the Stoics view of determinism. I was a determinist at 12 and couldn't understand how anyone believed differently lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:14 AM
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How much philosophy do you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:30 AM
1

alright bro I don't know why but I want to fix you. I got some reading for you to do if you're actually interested. otherwise good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:14 AM
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holy shit. this was definitely not something I remembered until I watched it. god TV was so fucking weird in the 2000s. also not totally unlike how pegging goes for a novice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:51 AM
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mhm. dude has to make a scene about people talking about dudes butts. dude calls it "fruity" (homophobic) guy uses puke emoji and calls bi dude gay (bi-erasure) I got you. you aint' gotta lie bruv. this shits anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:49 AM
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nah bruh I can just tell. you guys are easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:03 AM
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yeah prison rape and butt sex is funny haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:02 AM
0

I'm not gay bruh. I'm bi. I fuck everyone. It's just super apparent that dudes who freak about butt stuff are either homophobic or afraid they're gonna like it. it's rich reading someones submissions, seeing them complain about racism, and then turn around and be homophobic. I know your type
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:45 AM
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Yeah but if the woman enjoyed it, it wouldn't be a thing they didn't want to do again. This is about whiny dudes thinking someone else got something they didn't even if the girl hated it. fair I wouldn't mind if a guy asked me to peg him. if you ever want some tips, let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:39 AM
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lmao. "mens butts aren't made to be penetrated. womens are tho because it's right next to the fucking hole, so we might as well fuck that hole too" some of you don't realize how dumb you sound. mouths aren't made to touch genitals either but it still feels fucking great
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:25 AM
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Plenty of women do enjoy anal. Some have clit nerves that extend back there and can be stimulated and they can orgasm from anal penetration. Also some dudes do not feel their prostate at all so it's not guaranteed to feel good. But I would tell any dude that hasn't tried to give it a shot. I think a lot of guys are just afraid they'll like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:08 AM
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Why you so afraid of some ass play dude? Afraid someone gonna call you gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:05 AM
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they don't know what they're missing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:01 AM
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lol it sounds like one of my first girlfriends minus the pegging. I probably would have liked the pegging. I did not enjoy her sadistic streak.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:55 AM
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There are lots of us. You usually don't meet them because they're quiet about it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:52 AM
2

based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:59 PM
2

I don't think we "all" suffer under monogamy, but there are many men and women that do. I do not believe that all individuals are wired for monogamy. I believe that a not-so-insignificant percentage of the population is better wired for some form of ethical non-monogamy and that many monogamous relationships fail because people are living in a way that is counter to their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:46 PM
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he was out of work for a while and then his wife wanted a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:12 PM
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there was a guy in the town over from me that tried to burn down his house while his whole family was inside and sleeping
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:08 PM
4

Do you ask for exclusivity before or after you sleep with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:09 PM
8

Women will scream in support for LGBT rights Women are generally kind and altruistic I'm not sure where you are getting either of these views. There are many, many women who are definitely not pro-LGBT. I wouldn't even say they are more likely to support LGBT people. In terms of kindness and altruism, I think men and women are exactly the same - it depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:44 PM
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I will get in trouble if I answer honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:31 PM
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Yeah I think it works for both genders. Hot just means tons of sex appeal. But it definitely doesn't make some beautiful. I think to be beautiful there needs to be an aura - you can't tell beauty from a picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:25 PM
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I think hot means every feature is just about perfect. You can be handsome while still having some exaggerated features, or a kinder face, maybe some minor asymmetry. But really, it's mostly a "know it when you see it" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 06:05 PM
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Nah you can have very loving and fulfilling long-term relationships that are some form of ethically non-monogamous. It's not for everyone, but it happens. And not all women think like you do, either. I know just almost as many ENM women as I do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:45 PM
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There are many people like you. They gravitate towards ENM relationships structures. We are out there. It's only cheating if it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:42 PM
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I'm sure you'd enjoy the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:28 AM
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Nah dude that's not the same shit as watching two consenting adults fight each other. What you did is straight up psycho shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:31 AM
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Gonna go ahead and armchair psych you. I straight up think you're a narcissist or some other dark triad. Intentionally putting a date in an embarrassing and potentially conflict inducing situation for you own amusement simply because she wouldn't have sex with you is disturbing. Couple that with the rate of narcissism amongst professions like lawyers and I'd be pretty confident thinking you maybe have something going on upstairs. If you're not a lawyer and it isn't some reference I'm missing, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:05 AM
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Are you actually a lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:01 AM
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I went out on a date with her and she tried to play the "I don't want to rush into things I want to take my time with you " schtick, so when she was leaving I tried to arrange for my fuck-buddy at the time to meet her at the door this is some psychopathic narcissist shit. not wanting to have sex on the first date is totally reasonable. she dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:35 AM
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Oh for sure. If a girl wants me to go down on her I'm going down. As long as she's clean and I'm not sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:08 AM
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idk personally I don't find it weird. If I'm dating a guy and he's horny and I'm not, I still don't have a problem jerking him off or giving him a bj. Same thing if I'm not in the mood to fuck a girlfriend. I'll still kiss her and finger her, or use a toy on her and go down on her if she just wants an orgasm it's not that I'm not happy to do it. I just don't care enough to get off at that particular moment. It's rare that it happens but I'm always down to please my partner unless I'm sick or hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:55 AM
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three months is so early. that's barely a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:46 AM
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I think this is mostly what guys mean when they refer to other guys as assholes and it's something we pick up on within the first 30 seconds of meeting. Women are bad at picking up on this so they get together with these narcissists and only consider asshole behavior to be all of the other narcissistic abuse. tell me what FDS is without actually telling me what FDS is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:32 PM
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He treated her well enough so she had no problem with it. this is what I've never been able to wrap my head around. It's so amoral. all of these women married to horrible men (dictators/gang members/mafia bosses/corrupt politicians/etc) and they don't care because he treats them fine or because he gives them money. It's so morally bankrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:25 PM
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I don't think that's what's happening there. I think it's familiarity. People are more attracted to things that are familiar. That's why cliques always date within the clique. They're spending all of their time together, so they end up dating the people they're spending time with. This isn't just a "popular" high school kid thing. It happens with band geeks too. And it's not just a high school thing. It happens in sororitys and fraternitys in college, too. And class mates. And at large companies…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:57 PM
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Go see a sex and relationship therapist so they can find your blind spots and help you spot red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:50 PM
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Oh wow people don't think this is real? It's pretty common knowledge amongst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:30 PM
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I'm counting being good at sex as game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:12 PM
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I think she's kind of plain. She's definitely attractive but I see women just as attractive when I go grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:40 AM
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No wonder you guys are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:32 AM
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You wish 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:27 AM
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No one can convince me this isn't 90% a circlejerk subreddit after reading posts like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:10 AM
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I don't know how you straight women deal with these dudes. apparently talking about things is too much of a burden because their little egos get hurt if you don't tell them they're a sex god and are a perfect boyfriend. the way some straight men react to communication is LOL funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:02 AM
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Men - can you or will you still sleep with a partner if you are still physically attracted to them but fading away emotionally? no. I was in an abusive relationship that kind of fucked me up, and I will literally not get hard unless I'm emotionally invested in someone. Otherwise my guard is totally up. this applies to male and female partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:58 AM
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lol ok man. I actually live it, but you apparently have it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:46 AM
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are you gay? I'm sure I know more gay men and bisexual men than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:40 AM
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nah I disagree. I think gay men are more forgiving with looks than women are. Game/personality is more important to gay men for a relationship. It's easier to get gay sex but for a lot of gay men, it's hard to find a relationship. I don't really have an issue with either, but if I'm honest about my sexuality I do have more trouble dating women. I don't have a problem if I don't mention it, but I'm tired of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:38 AM
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I think gay guys are definitely more into handsome rather than "hot" Gay and bi guys also do not care about height nearly as much. I think MSM are more universally into unconventionally attractive men than women are. I would consider myself attractive, but a bit unconventionally attractive (I have some strong features), and I get the most attention out of any of my gay and bi friends when we go out. You also have the whole bear scene which isn't my thing but I feel like more men are into it than…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:35 AM
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I find that gay and bisexual men don't always have the same taste in men as straight women do. I even find that a lot of bisexual women have different tastes than straight women. I also think straight women rate other women they're friends with higher than they are, and find a lot of female celebrities to be "beautiful" when they're pretty odd looking. From my own experience, I have been called hot to my face by gay men and a couple bisexual women, but i can't remember the last compliment I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:56 PM
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The lady doth protest too much, methinks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:21 PM
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"wHy CaNt I gEt A gIrLfRiEnD!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:38 PM
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They weren't even allowed to get loans
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:21 PM
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Ok, champ. Now finish your dinner and go do your homework
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:20 PM
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lol more homophobes! I'm surprised this place hasn't been banned yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:19 PM
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Incels and FDS types heads explode when they realize tons of normal people actively choose not to settle into a 2 car/2 kid/white picket fence/monogamous relationship. These people don't get out enough and aren't exposed to enough alternative perspectives of a successful life. They never question why they want the things they do and they don't care enough to think about it. Half of these people are complaining that they can't have things that, deep down, they probably don't even want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:17 PM
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I think she sounds pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:07 PM
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You're a psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:06 PM
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This is the real revisionist history. Where do you people come up with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:02 PM
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Nothing like glorifying the 50s. Hitting and abusing women used to be socially acceptable. It still happens today but it's not even close to what it used to be. Women are absolutely better off today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:57 PM
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Yes the crazy lady ranting about "the media" is super stable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:43 PM
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An interest like reading hints towards intelligence and education. Mentioning something like dancing hints that she likes to go out and have fun. if you like to go for walks/kayak/dog park then it hints that you're working on your appearance and health. Things like that. List an interest that you think represents a positive character trait that you possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:38 PM
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By what they have to offer I mean some sort of redeeming quality about themselves or a hint towards a positive character trait. Not "I just love to fold laundry!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:30 PM
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lol any time a guy disagrees with a woman here or calls them out on their shit, he's suddenly rapey and an incel 🤣 I wouldn't fuck you, ya crazy homophobe. You're mentally unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:28 PM
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The guy is clearly better looking and I'm sure he does just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:22 PM
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lol why are you homophobes so sure of yourselves until you get called out for it, and then deny it? Coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:20 PM
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"random hobby/interest/statement of what they have to offer/looking for a life partner to laugh and grow with" Still boring and generic but 100x better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:17 PM
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I love when people write things like this in their profile. It makes it so much easier to weed out the crazies. I get where people are coming from, though. I think it's just the total lack of self-awareness that sets people off. It's a "who do you think you are???" reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:51 PM
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If you're interested in reading about bi men, I recommend Zachary Zane's articles. He's written a bunch over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:32 PM
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Apparently these people still think calling things "gay" is the highest form of comedy. And they wonder why they have relationship issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:23 PM
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I learned that PPD is full of homophobic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:22 PM
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No one looks good if they're fat. If we're talking about carrying a bit of extra weight, it's not gender specific. It's body type dependent. Chubby women who have legs and ass are more attractive than chubby women who have no legs and no ass. Same with guys. The guys who are a beanpole with a tire in the middle aren't attractive. But a guy carrying 25-30 extra pounds with bigger legs and bigger arms can be attractive (the true dad bod - not the "dad bod" fat guys claim to have)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:56 PM
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Because the smart women don't need advice. Women's biggest problem when dating is that they're terrible at reading people. No advice is going to help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:58 PM
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Personal experiences, reading about other cultures throughout history and extrapolating current data. Theres a lot of hidden bisexuality in western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:42 PM
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Most of the accounts here are socks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:20 PM
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most bi guys end up being basically gay. This isn't true. There are just as many 90/10 bi guys in each direction. The straight leaning ones just don't tell people because of statements like this. I'm a 50/50 bi but I mostly date men as a conscious choice because they are better partners and I have never wanted to have kids. It just ends up being a better fit. And I don't deal with homophobia from gay and bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:27 PM
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From experience I'd say about 1 in 4 straight girls are open to dating bi guys. If I go on tinder and list my orientation as bisexual I'll get 4-5 matches/week and end up with about a date a month. If I don't list it I get around 10 matches a week and 3-4 dates/month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:25 PM
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You still are too dumb to know what bisexuality is. You think it means the guy is gay This is my favorite part about so many of you women here. Zero intellectual curiosity. Doesn't care that she's wrong and can learn why, just wants to keep going on with her feelings > facts because she's a lazy thinker
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:14 PM
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Doesn't excuse homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:10 PM
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Homophobe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:10 PM
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Nah but I do think ~30% of the population is bisexual to varying degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:09 PM
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This isn't a sexual preference. You can't tell a guy is bi by looking at him. Anyone is free to not date someone for any reason. If you don't want to date a bi guy, that's perfectly fine. But that doesn't absolve you of your homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:07 PM
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why is anyone desperate enough to lie about themselves just to get laid by someone that hates them deep down? low self-esteem, lack of other options, genuinely don't think they're bisexual for the aforementioned reasons Most of my friends are open bisexual men going to guess you're under 22/college aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:46 AM
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nah you're a homophobe and a coward. "purge week" doesn't make anyone homophobic. it just exposes it. if you went around being racist it wouldn't be excused. but this is coming from the dumbass that is so illiterate, she thinks people are "things"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:35 AM
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why do you cowards always walk back your homophobia. at least own it. you're doing exactly what you complain about incels doing. you're gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:25 AM
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another user who excuses homophobia because it's "purge week" y'all just showing your true colors. and you're gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:24 AM
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women are the reason for homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:21 AM
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i'm talking about explaining it to teenage boys, not teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:17 AM
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bigot love all the homophobic women on this subreddit! calling people "things" and bisexuality "confusion"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:16 AM
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How many were flat out lied to to get to that point? ah, see it's not quite that simple, and I'll explain why. Being bisexual, and a man, doesn't appear to be an option for most men. Male bisexuality is erased at an alarming rate, and it's mostly for one reason: homophobia. specifically, homophobia directed by women. essentially, male bisexuality is dismissed so frequently that many men who experience attraction to the same sex either repress it and don't act on it, or somehow rationalize away t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:14 AM
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barely anyone gets HIV anymore. and testing is a thing. not a very good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:48 AM
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that's not how bisexuality works... we like both...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:48 AM
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I'd guess that 80% of women on this subreddit (and in general) have dated a guy that's had sex with a guy before. they probably just didn't know it. I hooked up with dozens of guys in high school and college who were otherwise "straight." there are 8 married men on grindr within 10 miles of me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:36 AM
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I don’t date Bi men why, low self-esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:23 AM
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Because the types of women that remain virgins are highly religious and crazy in their own way. I certainly wouldn't want to marry one. They're the type of women that don't even know they're allowed to get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:21 AM
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nah marriage stats are literally bullshit. the sample is bad. people are irrational and marry people for tons of bad reasons. most people that are married, shouldn't be married. it's an archaic institution that sets people up to fail. it's only practiced because it doesn't get questioned enough and because there are legal ramifications for not doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:08 AM
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marriage and marriage stats are bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:05 AM
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I also think most people have children to avoid actually being productive with their life. people have kids for tons of reasons and literally none of them are selfless. they create a life form to fill some sort of hole in their own heart, save their marriage, trap an uwilling partner, or do it just because that's what they were told to do and never had the brainpower to consider whether or not they wanted to, nevermind if they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 AM
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i watched 7 minutes and labeled the arguments bad because they were bad. as soon as anyone talks about number of sex partners as a negative I have to roll my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:55 AM
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the current dating world is mostly online and online dating greatly favors women because the apps aren't designed to match people, they're designed to make money. women are also the #1 purveyor of gender norms and if you don't want to 100% conform to society's view of what a man is, you greatly lower your chances of finding a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:54 AM
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I hear straight women complaining that they give guys so many chances but they still fuck up. yes. they give chances to people they've already chosen because they get attached so quickly. they don't give second chances to guys they didn't splooge over after "hello" Women don't sense creeps in the first five minutes. women date creeps all the time and don't find out for years. just go look at FDS. their whole problem is they're bad judges of character. Also, a lot of these men will fuck anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:49 AM
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those are some really bad arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:43 AM
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They just don't know how to treat women. This isn't always true. There are some kind men who are incels (but they're probably not posting here). They'd treat women well if they got the opportunity to date them. The problem is that they usually have social anxiety or something else holding them back from forming social bonds. And women are quicker to write someone off if they don't get swept off their feet in the first 5 minutes compared to men who are fine with hanging out with anyone they find …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:37 AM
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The incels do have some legitimate grievances. I have a lot of gripes about dating women after also having a history of dating men. Men are better dates and it's not even close but that's a story for a different day. The problem is that 99% of them don't actually do anything about it or aren't self-aware enough to fix their problems. You also have to realize that a lot of these posts and comments are made by overly dramatic and hormonal teenagers. I don't think women quite understand the sex dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:28 AM
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I personally believe that most people regardless of gender would naturally be polyamorous or non-monogamous to some extent if monogamy wasn't forced down everyone's throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:21 AM
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Why do you care about how many people someone has had sex with when you can't even have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:18 AM
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Being a gay man would be a lot of effort nah gay dudes are cool and super low maintenance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:55 PM
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some vaginas taste better. some taste really bad. dicks usually taste fine as long as they're washed. which apparently isn't always the case with straight guys, but I've never run into a dirty dick with a gay or bi guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:10 PM
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also tons of those guys were virgins until they were like 30 and finally got arranged married to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:59 PM
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Yeah most of these dudes look fine and wouldn't have an issue getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:12 PM
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Boring is such a loaded word. People who get bored easily are the types to call other people boring. They don't realize that then being bored is a personal problem and not the other person's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:11 PM
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nah the accounts are literally teenagers. Not sure why you guys pretend it's mostly sexless 30 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:44 PM
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You need therapy. Maybe someone can save you before you doom yourself to inceldom forever. Your worldview is really screwed up if you're that upset about being a 19 year old virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:41 PM
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I'm acutely aware that many women are also homophobic. I'd argue I've personally faced more homophobia from women than men. That doesn't make you any less so, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:09 AM
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trying to convince me that 90% of you aren't teenagers. as you use the word fag, use gay as an insult, and claim to be making a tiktok. I'm not sure you could be any more transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:33 AM
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i don't know why you people care about body counts. I've dated people who've had sex with 50+ people. who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:22 AM
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That’s why no one feels bad for men here apparently there aren't many men here. which explains, well, a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:10 AM
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soulmates aren't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:07 AM
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you're still not helping your cause
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:06 AM
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it's more that the only people who still say things like OP is a fag are teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:55 AM
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like I said, 90% teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:39 AM
2

there are giant swinging, fetish, bdsm and kink communities where you can have new and exciting types of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:34 AM
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there are entire communities out there for things like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:32 AM
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i'm a man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:28 AM
2

ok you're weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:26 AM
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sex is better when you're older. don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:25 AM
7

You have made 5 posts in the last hour. i think it's just about past your bedtime
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:23 AM
1

these people are hopeless. they don't want help. they want their misery validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:13 AM
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everyone i date has girlfriends and/or boyfriends. sometimes we all fuck. it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:06 AM
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look, kid. you are too young to be worried about 99% of the shit thats talked about here. you don't have enough experience with adult women to have an opinion of them. get off reddit, hit the gym, and work on your personality. you'll be much happier in a year or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:58 AM
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sometimes they do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:52 AM
2

you need new friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:51 AM
2

i guess I'd have to be one hell of a literate 8 year old, then, huh? I am here to give my experiences dating both genders to hopefully knock a little sense into some of you that need it. And because it's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:50 AM
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ok yes you're like 15. get off these subreddits, they're bad for your personal development.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:43 AM
5

leave ghostbusters out of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:38 AM
3

are you like 15 years old? women want men that can communicate in a healthy manner. they don't want to deal with a baby throwing a tantrum and raging against the world. they just want a matter of fact answer and want you to open up a little. if you can relay your emotions the proper way, like an adult, it can make your bond stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:37 AM
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oh give me a break. you know what you're doing. i'm not going to fall for you playing dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:31 AM
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I don't even know what it's supposed to mean. is it just thinly veiled homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:24 AM
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normal men don't care about what FDS has to say about men because we can laugh it off. the only people getting mad at FDS are incels. The only thing FDS is good for is laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:20 AM
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your only emotion is blind rage against women? yeah no wonder they don't want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:16 AM
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you guys are so delusional. It's just misogynistic trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:04 AM
5

They both just realized that they don't share similar values. She shouldn't be threatening to withhold sex. she should be initiating the breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:07 PM
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these comics are terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:52 PM
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nah not always true. one of my friends is super hot and she's a shitposter. one of our friends showed her reddit a long time ago and she thought it was hilarious so she signed up. she's a little weird but the cute kind of weird/quirky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:44 PM
1

I'd take a 959 over a 718 any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:35 PM
6

you know what women hate more than broke dudes? wealthy dudes who don't spend "enough" money on them. a lot of women will overlook a broke dude splitting the check but they won't tolerate a wealthy guy trying to go dutch on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:14 PM
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There's little clues. A lot of them post in fashion subreddits and show off clothes they buy or things they're looking at and you can read the sizes on the tags lol. And then there was the vision board stuff where basically half of them admitted they were fighting drug addiction of some sort. You can be a pretty alcoholic at 20 but not at 35. I'm sure not all of them are ugly. A lot of them are probably attractive but not as attractive as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:44 PM
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You wouldn't be able to get any. It would take a while to get the hang of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:17 PM
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They're also not that attractive. the post also would have been on a vision board next to the graphic of a no smoking sign and another one with a crack pipe and bottle of liquor 🚫 🚭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:39 PM
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I'm wondering the same this as OP. I don't get why 99% of the posters here are here and complaining. I think bi men like myself have a pretty unique view of dating dynamics and can see a lot of pitfalls and traps that straight couples fall into, so I figured I would join in to offer some different perspectives. But some of these threads read like a circlejerk thread and I'm not totally sure if these people are serious? I'm not overly familiar with all the "pills" so maybe I'm missing something. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:08 PM
1

Maybe if you're talking about a 20 year old, sure. But I wouldn't make that assumption when you get to 25+
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:06 PM
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First of all, we don't know if that's the case. It was just an example. To answer your question, it's because most people aren't actually ready for relationships when they get into them. Most people are barely functioning adults. That's why dating is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:27 PM
7

I get pursued often by older men. It's the desperation that reeks. I've been offered money multiple times. And Im a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:23 PM
5

It definitely does offer the appearance. But it becomes very obvious very quickly when it's not the case. It's actually easier to spot a 40+ year old man who doesn't have his shit together than it is a 25 year old who doesn't. Partly because of expectations and partly because it's just a vibe they give off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:22 PM
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This is a take that only a young person could have. As you get older you realize that most people don't actually grow up. And if you don't realize that, it means you yourself havent grown up, either. Growing older also doesn't guarantee stability or wealth. There are plenty of 45 year old losers who can't keep a job
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:11 PM
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There isn't any. My question to these people is: what's the rush? Just find out on your own time if it's going to work out. That's what dating is. No need to take drastic actions or start worrying until someone gives you something to worry about. It's not like the relationship escalator is a race.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:54 PM
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No. You should always meet people where they're at and not where they were. There's a chance that she has personality traits that make her incompatible with a long term relationship, she could be a serial cheater, it could be shitty luck, or she could have been in a bad place before but isn't anymore. But you won't actually know that if the relationship is still new. It could be worth finding out for yourself. The red flag to me would be if she's on bad terms with all of them. Anyone who is on b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:35 PM
6

it doesn't have anything to do with good/bad. it's just a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:34 AM
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He’s very spiritual so he blamed it on the universe. ah ok yeah he's crazy. that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:24 AM
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i know plenty about the gays lmao I'm bisexual and have dated plenty of gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:23 AM
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I find this totally unbelievable. unless you're in a super rural conservative area. I don't know a single gay or bi man that hasn't had sex in the last month unless they didn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:11 AM
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Also I know a couple of gay men that can’t get laid or any matches. My best friend is gay and he couldn’t get matches on Grindr or a date at our local gay bar for 2 years! He tried everything. So don’t act like gays aren’t struggling and they somehow have it easier bc they don’t. that's ridiculous. I can go have sex right now if I want to and I'm not that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:03 AM
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But that doesn't make your logic any more sound. Gay men, bi men, and straight men are identical except for what gets their dicks hard. If it was the fault of technology, it would be affecting gay and bisexual men, too. But it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:01 AM
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lol what do you mean think like me? I'm bisexual. I have experience with men and women and just simply understand the differences. I've dated both, but mostly pursue men and bisexual women nowadays for a variety of reasons, but that's besides the point. the point is that your logic doesn't make sense. gay men also have videogame systems and technology that they use frequently or are addicted to. but that doesn't stop them from having sex. so many women are basically addicted to their phones and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:52 AM
9

then why do single gay men have tons of sex and why do gay couples have sex more frequently than heterosexual couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:40 AM
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Nah. Gay men put up with more faults than straight women and it's certainly not because they're worried about being otherwise sexless. Sex can be had in an hour as a gay man. Men are just more forgiving in general. A good example is male/male friendships and female/female friendships. Most women don't have lifelong friendships like men because one woman does something to piss the other off and they cut them out of their lives forever and talk nasty about them behind their back. Men get into a ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:20 AM
2

It's 100% true and when you date both men and women it becomes readily apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:36 PM
2

I'm surprised to hear that because most of the bi women and lesbians I know don't have a problem on the more gay focused apps. They do get uhaulers on tinder and such though. I also don't hear them lying about what they want. Sure it might be to move in tomorrow but they make it pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:55 AM
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Another wrong answer. The winners are gay and bisexual men and gay and bisexual women. Before apps it was much more difficult for gay and bisexual people to meet each other outside of going to a gay bar or moving to the gayborhood in a major city. The apps have made it possible to be a rural/suburban gay/queer person and still potentially find a partner. Their chances before were slim to none. It is also interesting to me how LGBT exclusive apps have remained hookup apps while all straight apps …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:27 AM
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