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got_my_bell_rung/r/askMRP26/10/19 10:37 PM
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I lift six days per week. I'm a 6 handicap. I play twice per week (usually 9 holes once and 18 once), and hit balls/short game practice two or three times per week. When you get further down the road of lifting (a few months in), you won't be nearly as sore, except after a really hard workout, where you push way beyond your usual volume. Until then, Advil and stretching are your friends. Edit to add - I'm 56 years old...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/19 08:27 AM
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I think that the dose you are taking is totally reasonable. Injecting more often won't give a higher peak level. Actually, it will smooth out the peak and the tough levels i.e. less fluctuation of your levels through the week. I don't know that there is much benefit breaking up your weekly dose into EOD rather than twice a week, but if you feel better, keep going and see how it feels long term. There is no real downside except sticking yourself more frequently.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 04:37 PM
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You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 08:00 AM
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I know, but I can't hold this off as for as long as it will take to get divorced. I'll lose the opportunity. I'll just have to bite the bullet.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/19 01:24 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. Fortunately, the woman I'm seeing is available daytime, so the golf story has been working so far. I've got a two referrals - one for a mediator, and one for a lawyer. We'll see which way it goes. And you're right, I need to legitimately get out more in the evenings, to give me more flexibility.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 01:22 AM
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I know I need to do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 10:03 PM
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OYS #2 - The unexpected reaction OYS #1 was posted this in MRP a few days ago, and got some very helpful feedback, so I’m continuing here. Mission: To continue to help the sick the best way I can. To provide my children with a positive role model. To be a source of strength, for myself, and for others. Physical: Age 56 (birthday was Sunday). Height 6’0”. Weight 175 lbs. Lifts: BP 225x8, DL (Hex bar) 345x2, Squat 270x5 (up 5 lbs from last squat session). Soon to be ex-wife 57 years old 5’0” 100 l…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 06:24 PM
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Yes, I understand that, when you put it that way. It's a lifelong mindset, that I am working to change. The fact that I'm embracing divorce, even though I know it will be a hard road, it a huge change for me, mentally. Like many others here, I used to be terrified of losing her. With the help of the sidebar materials and the sub, I've come to realize that she's benefitted from the marriage FAR more than I have, and she should be terrified of losing me. Even though she get big bucks in a divorce,…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 05:18 PM
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My therapist uses the same term to describe her mindset as I've seen used here - solipsism. She's in her own bubble, and only sees things to the extent they impact her personally. See grew up well off, in a low pressure environment (easy going parents with no real demands or expectations of her). I was so passive when I was young that I that accepted that aspect of her personality by marrying her, and enabled it after we were married. It's definitely a case of I wish I knew then what I know now.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 05:13 PM
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She's had a great deal, courtesy of the blue pill/beta bux me. I gave her anything she wanted, with virtually no exceptions, and she lived her life exactly how she wanted. I wish I had that ability... I'm working on developing it.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:24 AM
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She is a big follower of Yolanda Foster, and her history with Lyme, and bought the book you referenced. Social media is not a problem, since I don't use it. I have an Instagram account, so I can see what my daughters post. I have Twitter to follow news sources. No Facebook. I never post. Only here (lol).
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:18 AM
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Since her case was handled poorly by her regular doctor, and the infectious disease specialist she saw early on, she's lost faith in all "Western medicine". She only seeks out alternative therapies. That's fine, but to ignore everything else isn't helpful, and I can't convince her otherwise.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 12:15 AM
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Yes. I meant that when we were first married, I was in residency, making a resident's crappy salary. She chose not to work at that time, even though her income would have been extremely helpful. There was no reason for her not to work, except she didn't feel like it. When I finished my training, my income shot up, and it didn't matter whether or not she worked at that time. Her choice to not work during the limited time that we needed extra money shows her to be a princess. That's the red flag I…
/r/askMRP28/10/19 06:19 AM
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Everything you say here resonates with me. In the early years, when she was totally debilitated, I did laundry, grocery shopping, drove the kids to school and activities and birthday parties. I took her to doctor appointments. Sex has been off the table for years. Unlike your wife, mine can't or won't understand why I would go outside the marriage for sex. She backed off her rhetoric today, and is hedging about wanting a divorce now. She still suspects cheating. I told her I'm moving forward wit…
/r/askMRP28/10/19 04:51 AM
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I wanted to add that my wife has gone this route, with a "Lyme literate" doctor. She was tested, and did come up positive for a co-infection (Babesiosis). Unfortunately, the treatments she has tried haven't worked at all.
/r/askMRP28/10/19 04:44 AM
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My wife would never go for open marriage. Frankly I'd rather not have to deal with her that way. If you were to ask me how she adds value, well, she does my laundry, does some of the grocery shopping, and cooks meals. She has been cleaning the house herself for the last 1.5 years. We had a housekeeper and)or nanny the previous 25 years. So, I'd say that in terms of added value, there's very little there.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 06:39 AM
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What I want, is a relationship with a woman who desires me, and shows it in the way she fucks me. I know for certain that my wife will never do that. Therefore, I want a divorce. A year ago, when I started screwing other women, I was too afraid of the concept of divorce. In my current situation, I'll have no choice, so I'll go ahead and do it needs to be done. TRT dose is relatively small. I'm on 40 mg every three days of test Cyp. That puts my total testosterone and free testosterone in the nor…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 06:36 AM
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You are right in pointing out that I should have consulted a lawyer before fucking other women. I did recently get a name of a family lawyer from my golf partner (he's a semi-retired lawyer, but not family law), but I put off calling. I'll be contacting her office Monday for an appointment. I also understand that my wife not only doesn't feel bad about denying me sex. Quite the opposite. She thinks I'm not supportive of her and her illness because I think married people should have sex. The fibr…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 06:22 AM
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For me, I would say the second applies. I didn't have the guts to leave.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 06:00 AM
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I figured this would be the case. I plan on telling her that by avoiding lawyers, it will preserve assets, which will benefit her in the end.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:49 AM
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I haven't admitted anything to her, and I don't plan to. I see no benefit to admitting it. It will only hurt her, and make her fight harder in a divorce. I'm talking to a friend tomorrow who I believe used a mediator for his divorce. I'm looking forward to hearing about his experience. I knew I was low T for years, and made the huge mistake of not getting treated. I'll never forget the feeling after the first few doses (I started with transdermal, and eventually moved to injections). The change …
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:48 AM
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Thanks for all the advice. I'm in a state that will require me to pay lifetime alimony. And I'll lose half if everything. Thankfully I find my work meaningful, and I'm ok with working longer than I originally planned. Also, I'll still be in pretty good shape overall, just obviously, half as good as before. You're absolutely right that I must have been insane to allow things to go on so long. If I can DEER a little, I was diagnosed with low testosterone (190) in my early 40's, but declined to tre…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:41 AM
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I think this is the more likely scenario here.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:31 AM
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My kids/young adults are aware that there are serious issues in my marriage, and we may not stay together. I would prefer to stay together, but only if there is a sex life that includes genuine desire from both of us. That's a big ask right now. I'm not particularly attracted to her after all this time of being rejected. I can't see her ever being enthusiastic about fucking me, given our lackluster sexual history since the beginning of our relationship. Having been with other women over the last…
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:30 AM
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Will do.
/r/askMRP27/10/19 05:24 AM
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OYS#1 - Looks like I’m getting divorced Mission: To continue to help the sick the best way I can. To provide my children with a positive role model. To be a source of strength, for myself, and for others. Age 56. Height 6’0”. Weight 175 lbs. Lifts: BP 225x8, DL (Hex bar) 345x2, Squat 265x5. Soon to be ex-wife 57 years old 5’0” 100 lbs. Married 29 years. Family: Two young adult daughters, both are finished with college and are doing well in good careers. I am very close with both, as is my STBX. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/19 08:19 PM
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