gothfather3 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject them I have made 'that gives me the ick' comments and have been amused by reading other women's. But I agree, it wouldn't ACTUALLY put me off someone I genuinely liked. When I say ick, I am referring to petty things like the above i.e. uses an umbrella, runs for the bus 😂. Obviously, actual turn offs like being rude, not listening etc, are different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 06:37 AM
0	Men typically have an external locus of control mindset when it comes to dating and generally underestimate the effectiveness of working on themselves Amen! I don't understand why the concept of working on yourself and being genuinely happy and confident is so underestimated. I know it's not about that - but you are more likely to attract a partner who is in that same mindset/on that grind. Like anything, look inwards FIRST. Do you love and respect yourself, do you show up for yourself? Do you like your own company? Someone sat there whining that they can't get a woman (and often expecting a 'high value woman') whilst being a miserable sod, ne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/25 08:46 AM
1	You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately I've been with my partner for 7 years and he is a rampant rabbit 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 08:23 AM
1	You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly Immediately Not true. I have not found some men attractive in any capacity, then as they have revealed their personality to me, and we have bonded through conversation, I have found myself falling for them and wanting to be with them physically. The two often go hand in hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 06:54 PM
6	Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner " I get the crux of what you're saying, but you seem to be implying that women tend to have it better in terms of fairness in relationships. I suppose we form our opinions based on what we witness in real life, and can largely vary depending on a multitude of factors. From my own personal experience (28F), the issue isn’t just about going 50/50 financially (assuming both partners earn similarly, as you mentioned). It’s when a woman is expected to split expenses and take on the bulk of the cooking,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 08:46 PM
0	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? Yeah, for sure. I think a lot of women can smell any desperation a mile off and you tend to think 'does he just want a relationship, or does he want me?'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 10:11 AM
6	Why do men crave romantic interest so much? I agree. I am 28F and always been content when single. But I realise that's because it was my choice. I could have had a boyfriend if I wanted to. I guess being single and lacking any autonomy isn't as fun. But at the same time, being down about it and desperate for love isn't attractive to women either!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/24 12:26 AM
1	Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain? Honestly option A, I hoed around in my late teens/early 20s because I wanted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 08:43 AM