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She’s 18, it’s not like she’s a child anymore so I think that effect is gone unless she’s the type to end up a Disney adult
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:22 PM
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That relies on your task management skills. Work studies are anywhere from 10-25 hours a week, internships are typically 25-35 hours a week, rarely you find one that’s full time at 35+. Start small and move upwards as you learn how to manage the balancing act.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:21 PM
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Ok yeah if someone else is paying, why not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:40 PM
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What are her PLANS!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:39 PM
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I use the “good” books from resellers on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:39 PM
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The last line made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:37 PM
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Hey, look into work study. They work around your hours at college. Once you’re better adjusted to college and balancing priorities, focus on internships, specifically paid internships. If you can’t get those- focus on your university’s research opportunities because they typically come with stipends. Build your resume so as you go on each year through college- you become a more and more competitive applicant. By the time your graduate, you should be able to land a good job with solid pay relativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:36 PM
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Maybe he doesn’t like pregnant women and has too low of a EQ to communicate with her about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:33 PM
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I’m stupid so help me out, do you mean the wording he used? Or do you like clear skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:27 PM
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Do you have your drivers license?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 PM
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I disagree with this guy, Disney is expensive so save your money since you’re young a $20 means a lot when you’re in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 PM
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He doesn’t sound crushed, he sounds inconvenienced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:24 PM
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How far in the future are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:21 PM
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Why do you think most people on this subreddit will understand what is written in that substack
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:20 PM
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You are a lesser offender tho bc you’re only here during work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:42 PM
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You are not only bored with way too much time on your hands at work- you are also drawn to strange subreddits so you are not immune from this judgement imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:41 PM
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the parasite has latched its hooks into you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:25 PM
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Yeah region probably matters. My school day was 7 hours long not including commute. Practices were 2-3 hours long after school not including athletics class. We had advanced academic classes like AP and dual credit- but almost everyone was doing one of those a semester/year on top of extracurriculars. Band practice was mainly during summer but were 3 hours long. They maybe only stayed an hour or two after school went out. But at games, football players, cheerleaders, dance team, and band were al…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:21 PM
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Well considering most people don’t have corporate jobs- I think the numbers above would still work even if it counted hours at work. Blue collar and minimum wage laborers will offset the corporate hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:52 PM
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That’s crazy. You’re older than me by a year but not even half of my class was on TikTok by graduation. I had a far heavier online presence than my peers, so I had TikTok by beginning of senior year. The adjusted guys just played games after school or were in sports practice. And the girls were in sports practice or FaceTiming each other after. Almost everyone was at athlete or in a competitive extracurricular that took up time. We were on phones in school but it was not mainly tiktok. Speaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:49 PM
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I think we’re all on the island of broken toys. Retired so spending much time online isn’t abnormal- I think being drawn to these specific topics and subreddits is the biggest factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:31 PM
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For an hour or two sure. For 4+ hours? No. The normies with lives do not do this. The normies are busy with their lives off the internet. And they spend much time on instagram commenting under their friends/acquaintances posts “Love you!!!” “so gorg” “ilysm” “love” “miss you!” Then get on Facebook for a bit to reply to their families posts. Mentally healthy and socially adjusted people do not bedrot. It just so happens that most gen z are mentally unwell and socially inept due to circumstances a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:28 PM
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Yes I always find that a bit bizarre. Or random bragging/insistence of normalcy from both sexes. You’re here, we know you’re weird. It’s okay. The only normies don’t pop up frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:22 PM
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Is this considering work screen time as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:20 PM
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Normies frequent instagram or facebook. Any other sites, I would agree. Twitter and TikTok are unadjusted as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:19 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:18 PM
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yes, your flair confirms that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:18 PM
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I don’t think anybody who frequents the daily threads of PPD consistently is socially adjusted. Spending an hour a day or so ever so often might just be someone adjusted who’s bored. But every day, multiple hours, constantly coming back- I don’t think you’re socially adjusted. This includes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:02 PM
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Oh that makes sense. Goth fashion looks a wee bit different over there. I see I see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:01 AM
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Other men would still notice. Also, only women who wouldn’t notice are very very short women close to being 5’0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:55 AM
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May I ask your political orientation, race, broad geographical region (think state or country if European). Not to confirm anything, I’m just very curious. I’m trying to figure out what kinda guy likes such an eccentric style in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:55 AM
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I think it’s less offensive in the situation with someone who’s asexual. When the norm is not asexual- it’s very easy to question its legitimacy and feel sensitive about that. When the norm is to have the baby of your husband- it’s insulting to assume they are a fringe case and cheated on you and are trying to pass the kid off as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:53 AM
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OH! lmao I thought you meant equestrian activities. Haha yeah that’s funny for anybody to seriously do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:51 AM
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These people don’t have the ability to conceptualize how the cops’ decision to not follow the rules could actually be used negatively against them. Therefore- they call you bootlicker bc “why would he say that if he didn’t want these girls to get punished just because!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:47 PM
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There’s a status that comes with saying my husband or fiancé where saying “my bf” makes you seem unserious and teenage like. Because women attribute status to being taken in a serious context, they’ll prefer “my man” over “my bf” because the claim sounds more permanent. Because men don’t attribute different status amounts between the terms “my wife” and “my gf”, men are not likely to say anything but the straight forward, proper identifying term for their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:44 PM
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5’7 is considered the tall end of short
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:42 PM
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Those women must like submissive and passive men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:41 PM
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Is she a blonde sorority type. The golden goose shoes point me towards what he likes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:40 PM
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Cause there’s always the possibility to doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:37 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:36 PM
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What’s amusing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:36 PM
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I see why mods don’t let you label as red pill woman. You’re spouting pink pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:08 AM
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Leave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 07:02 PM
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<image> Honestly this comes down to the fact I don’t like sea food and almost every upper class choice had mussels, oysters, lobster or raw fish. My favorite meal is quail cooked in a paprika sauce with heirloom carrots and broccolini. I’ll fuck up a sloppy Joe any day of the week tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:53 PM
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that is fairly upsetting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:14 PM
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Girl he’s casually fucking is superficial, surprise surprise and so now he’s sworn off women entirely until he’s rich and can afford to spoil a very young beautiful women bc this one only values money. Your welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:13 PM
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For me yeah, idk about other people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:54 PM
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Playful chase in the hallway (if you’re dating, don’t do this to a stranger)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:14 PM
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Because they’re holding swords?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:14 PM
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I agree that cognitive dissonance is part of the human experience as well as that the logic presented in the comments is not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:11 PM
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It’s gross but I doubt real life is as easy regarding subduing women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:50 PM
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Go to a library and figure out how you feel about it- they have many copies of the same book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:48 PM
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this is mentally unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:33 PM
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Okay renovate one of the guest rooms then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:32 PM
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He has his bookshelf in his office, you have yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
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Fr, a lot of conservative people aren’t actually conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:19 PM
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It depends on the person. Some people will say things like “how to not give a fuck” but I think those books are cringe. I guess a good couple would be The Radium Girls: The Dark Story of America’s Shining Women by Kate Moore and Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers by Mary Roach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:18 PM
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Would not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:15 PM
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Oh my goodness I have never heard about such bad reactions! I’m glad that’s not happening anymore. It’s funny you mention vitamin D and the electrolytes because I was deficient in vitamin D according to bloodwork and I have a cardiac/blood pressure problem where I need lots of electrolytes and when my heart feels funny- I add MORE potassium via banana or electrolyte drinks. Humans are so similar but so different. I don’t quite like multivitamins or combo supplements for that reason. Btw what for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:29 AM
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Oh I’ve seen nothing but improvements for me. But mine aren’t eccentric I don’t think. I have anxiety + bad immune system so I feel like mine are pretty “normal”. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:14 AM
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I find the stack im on to be helpful- but im not sure if its all of them or just the shoden brand ashwaganda. If you get any of them, I’d say get that one cause I used to take that one by itself and it had affects after about 1-2 weeks. I’m specific about the brand because they do extensive lab testing. Anything with shoden ashwaganda in it is what I go for; I’m taking specifically Triquetra Ashwa-70 rn tho since they partner with shoden. I am very picky about my ashwaganda in specific because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:12 AM
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What’s everyone’s supplement/vitamin stack? I’m nosey and wanna know I take L-theanine, shoden ashwaganda, and magnesium glycinate for anxiety. Then zinc, vitamin D, vitamin C, and Florastor for general health. I have cod liver oil but I haven’t started taking it yet 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:22 AM
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chicken + chicken + more chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:20 AM
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Do you like audiobooks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:11 AM
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I don’t think they need to be aligned with a future career tbh. Most people who play spots don’t go pro, it’s because it’s fun. Also I can’t really think of any extracurriculars that line up with jobs outside of things like hack-a-thons or debate for future lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:57 AM
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So if you reread my post, you’ll notice the part where I say I hope extracurriculars help them find a passion that leads to development of self discipline. Ie fall in love with a sport so self initiate practice or fall in love with music and self initiate practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:56 AM
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True, let that fishy go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah it’s okay to explore- eventually they’ll find one they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:49 PM
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I didn’t say I would discipline them, I’m saying they need to form discipline. Ie the skill that makes you sit down and study for a test or suck it up and file your taxes by the deadline. Discipline as a personality trait, not as an action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:48 PM
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Might as well enjoy the food now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:04 PM
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My personal opinion is that I would be very hands on, pushing for extracurriculars because I believe they build self-discipline and passion. They help them become well rounded people with healthy lifestyles (my rule of thumb would be 1 physical extracurricular and 1 mental). If they want to do very many extracurriculars- I will support them best I can and if it’s too much, they will learn the importance of prioritizing what’s most important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:03 PM
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Would you be incredibly hands off as a parent and believe childhood is for playing and having fun or would you be very hands on, pushing extracurriculars and believe childhood is like a training ground for adulthood?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:00 PM
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what kinda bullshit is this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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ISTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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ISTJ and ISTP have wildly different cognitive functions despite the closeness in letters. I much prefer this test for MBTI typing: https://www.michaelcaloz.com/personality/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:58 PM
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Omakases are much more the speed for small dishes imo. I can’t get behind the lack of interaction that comes from fine dining at a table by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:55 PM
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I wouldn’t write that on my profile but I would say it in messages after matching. She might just be very forward. Do you value that in a woman? Or do you want things to be shrouded and hinted instead of told directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:53 PM
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Yes if you’re committed for life, I think you should try to make him happy with the amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:25 PM
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Can I get a HELL YEA?????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:24 PM
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Yes you are, hi mfer - Froot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
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R u spread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:41 AM
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Sir I need you to come back here and explain why you thought this. 22 is in my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:29 AM
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I second this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:26 AM
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I’ve been a commenter inconsistently on PPD for last 4 years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:20 AM
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Alt of 4 years? No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
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Omg that’s CRAZY, I could’ve never guessed it was this tbh. I was thinking like she planned a bank robbery or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:19 AM
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I will say, I don’t think I would find him hot if I hadn’t seen him in his 20s. It’s because I’ve seen his peak that I’m able to see the traces of hotness left from aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:07 AM
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Idk how rich he was when he started acting in his 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:06 AM
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Why would it become looked down upon. As it gets rarer- it will become a mark of status. Like how there’s more status from losing weight without ozempic compared with losing weight with ozempic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:57 AM
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I thought you were talking about eye glasses and I was confused on what the fuck eye glasses have to do with drinking liquids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:53 AM
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Why would they get closer to normal as she ages. I wouldn’t expect a 90 resting to get better with age in a 19 year old. She’s not like a little kid who grows out of tachycardias
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:49 AM
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That’s the stats I have and I have a heart condition so no that’s not good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:47 AM
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What’d she do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:46 AM
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If you have to be convinced to get into a relationship- you didn’t actually want one wholeheartedly in the first place. You should chase the things you really want, and a relationship doesn’t sound like that for you rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:45 AM
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Poor girl. Should’ve just let the streak continue and move on to the next. He’s not texted you in 4 days- let that man go 💀 And yes, you really don’t sound cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:44 AM
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Crop top and high waisted jeans. Leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:42 AM
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11
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:41 AM
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He was hot before the hairline- it’s not hot on just anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:38 AM
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She’s not trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:37 AM
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I mean hypothetically they can I guess, but the way that post is framed- that doesn’t seem to be what’s being asked. He didn’t necessarily call himself hot or anything so I didn’t take that into account. He probably just hangs around whores and obviously enjoys fucking them while homeboys don’t want whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:11 PM
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Yeaaaa I hate Austin as a Texan. I prefer Houston
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:15 AM
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I feel like a lot of people can’t pull off fitted maxi dresses but I have no perception of what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 AM
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If you have the body shape that’s flattered by that style- yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 AM
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Meh sometimes people don’t think about something incredibly obvious. I’m giving the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:52 AM
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Yes most marry either before med school or during med school before residency starts. About half of medical students are married entering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:51 AM
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You’re attracting different people who want different things. Simple as. What works for one woman doesn’t necessarily work for the next unless they are the same type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:57 AM
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I’ve never heard about any bad stereotypes regarding female doctors. Nurses, yes. Doctors? No. No one goes 250k into debt to get married. Must be a singular problem in his country specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:53 AM
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According to stats, doubt men will be “catching up” with anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:50 AM
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Oh I just parroted how you all speak about the men unviable in the dating market. Shame there’s such double standards :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:51 AM
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I can see how he would have a problem on his nose if he looked too long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:47 AM
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Unfortunately I’m only at 15k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:45 AM
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You’re happy that people unable to date due to economic need to support themselves will become more common? That’s upsetting. She displays obvious want and desire of a family, otherwise she wouldn’t feel behind. Unfortunate that her career has made it unviable for her to date- but alas women can’t just sit around all day with no job/career while single waiting for someone to scoop them up. I hope this doesn’t become more common, it would be a shame to see such good women fall from the dating mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:44 AM
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Cardigans, old women hobbies, and collecting old things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:57 PM
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I don’t talk to men nor would I let one talk to me without my guard up. No I would not even go on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:27 PM
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I found it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:24 PM
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I see, I see. My answer was universal healthcare so yea I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:19 PM
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Sorry you just sounded like a fetishist of short women so my shackles were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:18 PM
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Whenever you feel anxious like this, look at graphs of the stock market over a 20 year period. We’re better off than COVID crashes still, and nowhere near 2008. It’ll be okay even if it’s hard for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:15 PM
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Market has crashed, so money is going into bonds. Money into bonds means interest rates lower which means higher opportunity to buy homes and cars for young people. Give it some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:14 PM
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But what does carve out mean in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:13 PM
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That’s why I said she’s hopeless and selfish if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:12 PM
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Do that and then block and ignore ignore ignore- he’ll give up eventually but just keep ignoring. Any response from you is stimuli
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:12 PM
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Nvm thought I recognized your username from a different platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:11 PM
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Also, I think you’re incredibly weird for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 PM
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Short people and normal men get upset about preferences of men’s height which they can’t change. Which is normal to be touchy over things you literally cannot change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:02 PM
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Very dark triad but yes you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:01 PM
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Wdym carve out for certain medical things?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 PM
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Universal healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 PM
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My boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:58 PM
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That’s not losing baby fat, that’s concentration of collagen within the skin lowering and losing laxity. Not to the degree they get wrinkles- but is a natural result of the skin aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:57 PM
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Women were checking out and they were mad as hell then. I think this is reactionary
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:56 PM
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I agree with this. I understand logically if he walks away. But emotionally those children and him were all socialized as family. Must be incredibly hurtful to him and his sons. I hope they continue to have a healthy relationship with them, and if they don’t- that everyone comes to terms with the fact they are no longer family. All 3 should resent their mother for this action.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:55 PM
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What kind of games? I love monopoly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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This should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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character.AI or whatever is gonna replace all the men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:52 PM
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You’re still replying and not standing on business- so he prolly just thinks you’re shit testing him and playing games.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:51 PM
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Block him then if you don’t want him reaching out to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:50 PM
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Where’s that study that supports this? The graph went viral for a while- I think everyone’s seen it. Lowest age was 22 and most answers for what age they found most attractive was 22 whereas women chose men around their age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:50 PM
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Are you fist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:47 PM
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According to women like this- enjoying cooking or cleaning is demeaning and even if it’s your hobby, it shouldn’t be. It’d be a pleasant surprise I’m sure after being proposed to, but yes she’d be watering herself down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:46 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A white nose doesn’t necessarily mean nice nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:44 PM
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Yes. Matching sets or nightgowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:42 PM
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And have you ever actually had a bichon frise? What’s their temperaments like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:42 PM
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Happy birthday, how old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:41 PM
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Doesn’t mean she lacks instincts. I have strong maternal instincts but that also means I am incredibly protective and scared of crossing a strangers boundaries regarding their babies/children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:41 PM
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Ask her to join a “sperm donor conceived” Facebook group and ask the children how they feel about being sperm donor conceived. Hopefully she will care about how the children would feel. If she doesn’t, she’s hopeless and selfish. -someone who came from a sperm donor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:38 PM
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Can be, depending on type. My bf had a bunch of tech company swag stickers on his laptop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:35 PM
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Why are women suddenly discounted from the idea of releasing earthly desires in pursuit of clarity? It doesn’t take a mastermind to realize how deep the socialization of how sex and friendship is viewed goes and wanting to be released from the rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:22 PM
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I have health problems I guess, don’t want to get into specifics. It would be painful so yes it is a major dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:13 PM
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I have even stronger thoughts on girth. If it’s considered thick- keep it away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:45 AM
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Anything above the larger side of average is a dealbreaker for me. 8 inches sounds insane and I don’t believe most women actually think this, I just think size queens are very loud. Key thing to remember is that women tend to not have great visual-spatial awareness and what a woman thinks is 8 inches could be closer to 6.5-7, which is still very large- but worlds more common than 8 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:40 AM
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I value financial stability and freedom. He will never get that unless he has a massive inheritance coming his way….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:03 AM
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This isn’t about attraction, this is about logistically affording a family- which most people aim for eventually when dating. She didn’t specify that he would be the only one paying bills, so it’s not even red pill. It’s just as insane to expect a female to support a household on her own these days as it is a man- we do not have the economy our grandparents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:01 AM
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Never understood that. I don’t do make up sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:51 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:50 AM
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I think the explanation above is extreme- but people do change and it is best to prepare for the off chance something changes. If you don’t want kids, it’s best to prepare accordingly than just hope the egg doesn’t fertilize. If you buy a house, it’s best to have home insurance in case of a fire, rather than just hope a fire never happens. I think the treatment towards men in the paragraphs are spiteful and mean- but if you only look at the actions and not the words, it’s good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:50 AM
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Making fun of my boring hobbies and love for cardigans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:28 AM
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Why would you post something in the public eye if you did not want/were not expecting it to be discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:58 AM
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I’m more perplexed by your responses than anything due to what I said before about men typically disliking that makeup style. She’s not my ideal of beauty but I can understand how she could be someone else’s. My preference is towards women like Anne Hathaway and Kate Beckinsale pre-surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:57 AM
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Typically straight men get upset about heavy makeup changing features since they become unrecognizable without makeup, and the attraction lessens considerably. Are you straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:42 AM
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I hate to tell you, this is still a full face of makeup. BUT it would only hide things like terrible under eye or discoloration. She does look incredibly different than the other photos, particularly the nose- as I suspected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:40 AM
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More natural looking here, but still very far from without makeup. This is the average woman’s full face of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:33 AM
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What does she look like without any makeup/minimal makeup. I see very heavy eye makeup and contour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:32 AM
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Do you know what “fishing for compliments” is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:33 AM
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Had a great hibiscus, goji berry, green tea recently. It was very nice. As for my favorite regular tea- just a good quality sencha will do the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:32 AM
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Yes, whoever my dad is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:31 AM
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Ah yes, the rage baiting streamer- he is such a great representation of the average man. Just like how Instagram influencers are 1:1 the average woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:30 AM
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Lesbian women do not have a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:26 AM
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What makes me confident I have information you don’t is my youth. I’m speaking on my generation. That’s the point. Many of these young men in PPD are speaking of women in their own generation as that’s who they interact with the most and then middle age women tell them their perception is skewed. It’s not. There is a large gap of romantic awareness between generations. I’d say millennials were pretty realistic. Don’t have to be smoking hot to get 100k+ earning guy. Very true. What’s not realisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:45 AM
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Morality in actuality is hard to measure and I don’t see one gender as more moral than the other. One commonly uses manipulation to gain sex from the other, the other commonly uses manipulation to gain resources from the first. Sure women don’t commit as much violent crime, but morality is what you make it. To some, it doesn’t take violence to be considered evil or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:18 PM
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I’ve seen this happen a couple times. It’s not common, I understand why. Like everyone else said, it’s expensive and leaves them open to vulnerability. But I’ll go one step further as a donor conceived person- it’s not ethical. The sperm donor industry is incredibly unethical regarding limiting the amount of children allowed in a certain area to be related. If they’re not gonna know they’re related- they should be a large distance apart to avoid the genetic sexual attraction phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:12 PM
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I mean that was my tactic and it’s paying off. Just confirming for my own ego. Wasn’t trying to make it sound like the lesser option- I don’t view it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:06 PM
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I hate for this to be how you find out- but many young women don’t understand the concept of a league. Or the idea of one they have in their head is not realistic. 80% of young women think they can pull the top 20% of young men just because they’re a woman. Maybe it was different in other generations, but female zoomers are delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:04 PM
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So are you suggesting they just get with someone who’s average looks and has degree in something that will pay well while still young? Trying to determine your idea of what the male version is of investing into ETFs while young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah, I think there’s a certain rush that comes from the first couple days of being on a dating app as a young woman. I’m not one for rushes or highs so it wasn’t something I cared about after 3 days- but some women and men (the ones who turn it into a game, try different presentations of themselves and set a goal of talking to/banging as many women as possible) never get over it. Gluttony towards sex and sexual attraction will ruin you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:59 PM
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I do agree with you. I’ve been on dating apps a maximum of 3 weeks my entire life. It was bizarre to me to see other women show me their matches of men who clearly lived a player lifestyle and were above them lookswise. People end up looksmatched in long relationships, yes. But women will get bamboozled for quite some time until they wisen up- either consciously or subconsciously about what rank of man will actually commit to them. Most people do not shoot for looks match out the gate. It’s almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:54 AM
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Aspirin has a rich history so I was wondering if that had to do with it. Honestly the wonder drug of its time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:28 PM
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I’m not physically attractive so I have no confidence in there even being a possible yes and I stutter/use weird sentence structure when nervous (sounds like I’m having a stroke sometimes). I have approached in the past when I was more confident. If I know someone already, I can be quite aggressive with pursuing them if I like them. The problem is- I don’t know strangers, so I can’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:29 PM
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Off topic, but what makes you aspirin pilled? Just a joke about pills or is there something special you like about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:25 PM
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Thank you sir 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:47 AM
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hi Sarai. you think about me 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:17 AM
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Someone aged 30-50, - what is your age? - what sex/gender are you? - what is your sexuality? - what are 5 physical attractive traits you look for in a partner? - 5 personality traits you look for in a partner? - what are 5 physically unattractive traits? - 5 unattractive personality traits you avoid in a partner? Oh yeah, give me a fake name to refer to you as please. I have been member of PPD for a long time, this isn’t like a research paper or anything, just a simple poll of one person from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 AM
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If a low self esteem woman is going for someone obviously attractive, I would make a couple assumptions- 1. She isn’t aware of the attraction difference 2. She is chasing an attractive man for the ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:07 PM
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I’m rural, chubby, and autistic. We’ll see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah it’s not like a proper hypothesis at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:09 PM
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It probably has gone to your head. Even the ones whose maturity isn’t linear- there’s still 5 years of life where they’ve encountered problems and situations. That’ll typically mean something. I’d only say it’s not relevant if the 21 year old has been independent since 16 or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:03 PM
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Broke up 3 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:59 PM
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It depends on the 26 year old. Maturity isn’t guaranteed to increase with age, but in the people it does- the gap is large.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:59 PM
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My sister is the manager and I needed a job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:22 PM
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Problem is- they’re what I’m attracted to. I just feel like a baby in comparison cause I’m not out of college yet. Like they’re not gonna take me seriously. That’s likely, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:21 PM
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I’m a 22 year old in college, should I be nervous to date men 26-31 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:19 PM
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Social and behavioral research isn’t a hard science anyway. It took being involved with it for me to understand just how baseless most of it is. Extremely hard to control for variables in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:17 PM
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Put a baby through your asshole and see how your mood is during healing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:07 PM
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I think I’m the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:01 PM
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We have ratios and guides/recipes to follow, and only adjust if the customer asks. I’ve tasted michelada/bloody mary base which has a small amount of vodka because that needs a little finesse to get right- but I’ve never tasted anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:58 PM
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That doesn’t mean they don’t like your physical attributes, that just means they like your personality attributes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:53 PM
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Idk I’m a bartender and I’ve never been drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:50 PM
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Perhaps being from the Bible Belt changes things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:19 PM
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Theres this concept in language, where once you string more than one word together into a phrase or sentence- it may have a definition differing from the Oxford definition of a singled out word in the sentence or phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:18 PM
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What striving for marriage looks like has such vague and broad possible definitions that I don’t want to even bother with this. I’m not gonna argue over subjective definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:06 PM
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I rarely say this- but you need to go outside. You’re not talking about reality. Stop looking at the celebrities and insta baddies who don’t care for marriage and go talk to a real Emily. They want marriage. I genuinely don’t know a single woman personally who doesn’t want marriage. I’m racking my brain and even the most independent, go getter women I know- either want marriage or are currently married. You’re very out of touch. I only see women who don’t want marriage online. I haven’t ever met…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:52 PM
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I’m sure it is. I hope you realize you’re implying the man they marry is either 1. Their first ever relationship or 2. Their first ever LTR. The assumption that the norm would be women who have no previous dating experience or the jump to women who do have experience but never had a LTR…..What kind of logic is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:29 PM
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My tastes have shifted every couple years since I had my first crush at the age of like 8. I think it’s natural for tastes to shift as you do as a person. However I think they’re pretty solidified by late 20s because that’s when you as a person are, for the most part, solidified in your persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:24 AM
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Women are conformist and always have been. You’re just exposing your inability to identify the methods through which women spread and share culture/habits amongst themselves. A great place for you to start studying such a topic- is the prevalence of consumerism amongst women and the compulsion to partake in trends. Enjoy your reading!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:57 PM
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So you…..want to move…..to a country with an even worse economy???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:46 PM
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The man, no one is gonna believe the bear sexually assaulted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:15 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:13 AM
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What is LO02?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:11 AM
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The other commenters got my brain juices flowing. Smoking: both kinds Recreational drugs Vaping Drinking more than once a month Getting wasted when they do rarely drink (unless like once a year basis like at weddings or major celebrations) A million tattoos Colorful tattoos regardless of number Being allergic to/not liking cats Being a dog person and not simply a dog enjoyer Beards/facial hair Visceral hate for women (critiques are welcome, but at end of the day I am also woman so have some tact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:58 AM
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That’s not making fun of Taylor Swift fans for being Taylor Swift fans, that’s making fun of a disgusting individual who happens to be a Taylor Swift individual. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:51 AM
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what’s grammatically wrong with this 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:42 AM
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That’s ethnically Jewish people not practicing Judaism. Jewish ethnicity ≠ Jewish religion. He wants to convert, so he’s referring to the religion. You cannot be religiously Jewish while also atheist, it’s one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 AM
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I say sportsball occasionally to make fun of how I know literally nothing about sports. But I also intentionally ask if they “made a goal” during games like football and baseball, so I think I don’t sound as snide. Weigh in on this please? I hadn’t considered I might be coming off in that manner before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:36 AM
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It depends on what kind of bumper stickers they are. Some people put like pretty things, anime characters, or funny/random slogans. I think the way misty is explaining it, it’s probably for decorative purposes and not political.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:26 AM
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It gets thrown around among toxic women quite frequently. Either they're implying you're not worth being loyal to so dissing your personality or looks OR they're making fun of how you stayed and calling you a "weak woman" or a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:57 PM
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I do not think that being a confident man disqualifies a man from being able to receive that line. I know/knew many men who are confident and had never fought before. However I have a preference for men who can handle things outside of violence, and that includes being able to mediate situations which lessens the likelihood of fighting. Therefore I may have an over exaggeration of how prevalent these types of men are, due to my preference and unequal distribution of attention towards them. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:59 AM
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Nor the overload of makeup. Middle girl has the least contour/blush/bronzer (the tools to change how your face looks) of them all. I also have a preference for pale people with dark hair 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:30 AM
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For me it’s 5’5 🫡 But I’m also incredibly short so I think it’s the same height difference for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:10 AM
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The middle one is the hottest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:08 AM
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I think a balance of two is what is necessary. I can tell myself all day that a comment made by a partner about another woman shouldn’t upset me and that my response is rooted in insecurity, but at the end of the day- it still made me upset and I shouldn’t pretend or try to repress my feelings but rather express them so they can be handled in tandem with my partner. I hope that makes sense. Repressing your emotions and trying to over rationalize yourself out of them could lead to unnecessary suf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:07 AM
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Aka, like chicken lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:05 AM
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You’re shocked that a beautiful man is able to have that big of an effect while also being looksmaxxed pilled? How does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:04 AM
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He’s beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:03 AM
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I’m so ugly I don’t even post photos of myself in my close friend’s story filled with only non-judgmental women. It’s embarrassing to even take photos 😐 But I guess thanks for the info that men still are okay with ugly pussy. I’ll relay that to the ugly women who are okay with casual sex. I’m not so I’m still fucked in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:48 AM
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Please don’t base your assumptions off that one woman. I would’ve never guessed my dad had bouts of violence when he was younger and was shocked, same with my Highschool sweetheart (who was literally, a sweetheart and I was shocked finding out he was a ruffian in middle school). Why would I make the assumption a nice guy hasn’t been in a fight? Also why does that make you beta cause you haven’t fought? Aren’t we supposed to condemn and look down on violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
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No, I mean even for them to pay for gas or pay for themselves with an ugly woman. Like…wouldn’t the presence of an ugly woman be unenjoyable and therefore a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:40 AM
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Yes but are they smart enough to identify that you’re nice and the others aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:35 AM
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I think this analogy pivots on the capability of the person to identify said red flags, and also having an easy way out of the toxic situation they end up in. If they can’t identify the red flags, you should be a bit more sympathetic, but that one truly changes from person to person. I genuinely believe some people are too stupid to notice. Then you should also increase sympathy depending on how hard it is to leave said toxic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:30 AM
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Probably because of the umami factor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:27 AM
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I come out of the wood works every couple months or so, but I don’t know of any femcel groups that have been taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:27 AM
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Why would men want to take an ugly girl on a date. Isn’t the ROI on the cost of a date for an ugly woman terrible regardless of how attractive the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:25 AM
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Why can’t men on the internet wrap their head around the concept of an ugly/socially inept woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 AM
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I think this is the highest likelihood for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:18 AM
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Making fun of how a lot of people on discord get shocked when they find out I’m 21 years old and not in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:55 AM
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Maybe I’m just fucking ugly or socially retarded but I would never be able to line up 5 dates in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:34 AM
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Hmmm, I choose the 20 year old cause I think we would be able to get along enough to where he wouldn’t hurt me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:24 AM
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No, we never knew each other’s passwords. Mine was my birthday but one of them could never remember it. I just didn’t ask for either of my ex’s passwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:18 AM
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Thin ice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:16 AM
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I saw it before you put the second link
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:08 AM
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Take the bass pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 AM
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Bass is better anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:07 AM
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This was very enlightening, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:54 AM
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It’s funny cause the word is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:50 AM
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But like I didn’t know that inserts on your chest could change the shape of it either so like…I’m just confused about the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:48 AM
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What would non-connecting pectoral inserts look like. I’ve never even heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:47 AM
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It also fails when you consider interracial couples, or couples from different backgrounds and locations. I have more in common with a 30 year old man from Houston than I do with a 21 year old female in Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:45 AM
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Bop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:44 AM
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Those aren’t femcels, more like FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:42 AM
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This just tells me you’re a whore. If a man told me he’s read The Bell Jar, I’m changing his contact name to Slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:40 AM
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Hmmm, I guess it’s beneficial when not in those specific contexts you say where it doesn’t matter. Like when she’s at work, school, in public- feminism may benefit her so it’s worth supporting even if she doesn’t follow it 100% through every aspect of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:53 PM
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Oh I agree with you, I’m currently single and don’t show my legs hardly ever- but I was asking your preference/tolerance on women, not about the actual realities of beauty standards and the two way street it is when it comes to imposing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:48 PM
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What if it was your partner. I should have clarified that I meant specifically women you’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:26 AM
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You’re darker skinned so you shouldn’t do what I did, but there’s at home lasers for ipl. They range in price depending on strength and type of laser. But again, you’re darker skinned and that requires specific lasers so as to not damage your skin since the lasers are targeting pigment. For you I think you need to get it professionally done or maybe look up some posts about other black women who have used machines at home and what their experiences were like/what their recommendations are. Don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:24 AM
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So you’re rocking with and encouraging the genital and armpit bushes as well as the forest on the legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:19 AM
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Question for men: Does body hair on women disgust you? What’s the most you could tolerate? A couple days without shaving, trimmed short, moderately trimmed, or unabashedly grown out? This applies to her whole body. If you have different tolerances for different body parts, make that known. I just finished lasering myself so I’m just thinking about body hair and the beauty standards revolving around them so I’m curious how PPD males think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:08 AM
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I like stories like this but idk if I could watch 10 years of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:06 AM
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I think you’re not accounting for how generalizations don’t always apply to specific scenarios like you mentioned. A woman can say “I would never submit to 95% of modern men” while submitting to her male partner without making the first statement false. Generalizations, and the exceptions to the rule, exist at the same time since generalizations are just that: generalizations and not a hard fact or truth applying to every single man or woman on this planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:26 AM
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I think there’s a lot of factors here at play that change things drastically. How old is the man Has he had previous girlfriends Does he know he can become a passport bro Is he even aware of a hypergamous nature in women I feel like these factors can really affect how heavily the concept can affect a man in that situation. I know it’s common to hear such words and ideologies on Reddit, but I don’t think the average person in my country even knows how to spell ‘hypergamous’, let alone what it mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:17 AM
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And I’m not talking about like Stacy vs Becky being preference, I’m talking about sorority girl vs gamer girl vs granola girl vs goth mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:13 PM
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I think men find most women attractive but I also think every man has a type, and if he could, would rather have a woman with those attributes over a woman of the same looks rating without them- if he had the option of pulling either of them. That’s why men tend to care less about type- they can’t always pull what type of woman they may prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:12 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:23 PM
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Didn’t you say you would drug them though? Wouldn’t that turn them into the damaged women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:11 PM
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This is only an attractive proposal if you genuinely find inflicting pain and suffering onto women, a turn on. Otherwise, wouldn’t it be better to at least just be a pimp and pay women in one way or another to have sex with you? In one scenario they’ll be screaming and entirely non-consensual, in the other you have the benefits of underworld activity freedom and the money that comes with it as well as women who will actually consent to the sex being had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:08 PM
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Nickelback is nostalgic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:01 PM
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I think they’re both the unlikely, but extremely bad situation of the scenario playing out. But people don’t like to be realistic about likelihoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:59 PM
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These numbers aren’t adding up. 71% say under 6 ft is a deal breaker, but only 50% say he has to be taller than her. How does that work, are they all Amazonian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:56 PM
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I’m a woman, so I choose the woman. I understand your distrust of a random stranger of the opposite sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:55 PM
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John Lennon. Sad depressing music makes me sad and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:54 PM
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I’m either commenting on every daily discussion reply, or I’m MIA for a month or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:48 PM
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I tend to have bursts of activity on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:47 PM
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I’m autistic. I’ll acknowledge that males at my level are far more socially adept than me, and they’ve become so out of necessity whereas I’ve skirted by on the fact I’m a woman and therefore don’t need as much mastery to get partners. But for average men vs average women, I think women are more socially adept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:44 PM
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Virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:40 PM
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It does for most. Be polite about it and don’t intentionally try to gas your partner with farts and you should be fine. And if your bathroom activities are especially stinky, please for the love of god use some poopourri
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:39 PM
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We’re bringing a little wagon, and he’s dragging me when my swollen pregnant feet start to hurt too much. Something like this: https://imgur.com/a/bb2TVav
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:38 PM
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Sounds like she just likes excel spreadsheets. I tend to make random trackers as well when bored, and if my body count was high- I’d probably do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:09 PM
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I am also jealous, and the idea of a partner being with someone much hotter than me (likelihood goes up with the number), brings me lots of turmoil. I understand your struggle. Women do tend to utilize insecurities, don’t let anybody try to talk you out of your very reasonable concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:07 PM
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Because it’s a core part of a relationship, and having similar fundamental thoughts and opinions over a core part of a relationship is kinda necessary for it to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:04 PM
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I think it has to do with memory capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:03 PM
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Do you remember what they considered counted and what didn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:02 PM
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If he knows too much about girls and girly things without having a sister. It means he’s a whore. Who taught you that using a peach toned concealer under the eye would help brighten dark circles??? Slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:00 PM
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Basically all social and behavioral research isn’t very valid if you look at methodology, measurements, and all the limitations they cannot account for. Signed, -Social and Behavioral Researcher
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:59 PM
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It’s a win in that it’s a common rebuttal made by young men when arguments get volatile between young men and women. If she gets triggered by the question and starts unabashedly attacking him, he has a rebuttal card up his sleeve of, “but I still hit tho.” Why are you grabbing at straws to insist sleeping with this man is a loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:53 PM
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To feel out if she’s dating material to them or not. I’m a woman and I’m going to be employing that question moving forward in dating men. I don’t want a man who engages in casual sex, that’s a core value so yeah, I’m gonna ask that pretty quickly to figure out if I’m wasting my time or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:50 PM
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I feel like this is a common opinion held by young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:48 PM
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My n count is 2. Going into my last relationship, I didn’t care for what my partner’s body count was. However, leaving it- I do care now. I would prefer their’s is very close to mine. My ex never had a real girlfriend before me but had a body count of 8 when meeting me, and I feel he wasn’t capable of pair bonding and having loving, intimate sex due to his previous experiences all lacking in emotional intimacy. Nothing felt tender or loving, it all felt like primal, monkey-brained, fucking. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:47 PM
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I’m overweight, living in a rural area, living with my parents and painfully scared of affection and socialization after leaving my most recent relationship. I think I’m going to reach that 6 month mark in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:33 PM
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I’m a woman, but I find the interest in feet hot because it’s degenerate, and a bit pathetic tbh. So like I don’t like feet, but I like when they like feet. Does that make sense? Also because it sounds like a plus to date someone who enjoys and appreciates things men don’t really like, such as pedicures, heels, pantyhose, and sandals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:03 AM
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You think that’d be beneficial? Imagine how frustration summer time is with all them toes out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:00 AM
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dolly parton is the country marilyn monroe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:58 PM
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It’s a pinned up hair style. Her hair is long and curly, just pinned up. Her hair cut is just fine, just styled for that decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:58 PM
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Idc if you’re the love of my life, why would I subject myself to die during the next winter? Do you realize what that’s asking of someone? What about kids, pets? Never having a functioning phone to ever talk to your own parents or family again? Never being warm? Fungal and bacterial infections of the genitals due to improper hygiene? Loss of teeth due to improper hygiene? Increased disease rate due to close contact with rodents? <—Which heavily exposes you to one of the worst ways to die, by han…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:31 AM
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Ok fine, she requires you to take a lie detector test (pretend it’s as accurate as a paternity test). Would you not feel offended your spouse accused you of something that you didn’t do? And this applies to anything, cheating, stealing, sexual assault. I don’t understand how some of the people in this thread are acting like they would just brush off their own spouse believing them to be liars or criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:49 PM
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Okay so question, I leave you alone with my niece for a couple hours and then a week later ask you if you sexually assaulted her. Men sexually assault children all the time, women care about it, so why wouldn’t you ask? Because without asking men in general have the option and power to sexually assault children. Do you understand how throwing a serious accusation at your spouse could cause marital problems, even if the accusation is baseless and did not happen? Don’t be dense. Any woman would fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:23 PM
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My dad gives me holiday money in strange packages. Last time he took a pill bottle, removed the label, put money in it, and covered it with my name, instructions on how to take, expected symptoms, amount, and who “prescribed” it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:12 PM
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I count physical labor in my day to day life as standard of living so yea lol. I can’t imagine doing anymore, and not constantly feeling overwhelmed and sad because my day would be overran by chores and child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:10 PM
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But I also acknowledge that not getting a paternity test if she cheats, is also bad. Just weigh your options veryyyy carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:07 PM
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I’ve never cheated and I don’t think I have it in me to ever cheat. If my future husband were to ask for a paternity test during a pregnancy or after I’ve given birth, I think I would have to divorce him. Those are serious accusations, and denote that the trust in the relationship is nonexistent. Just end it at that point since that’s an incredibly important foundation for relationships. Just be aware of that^ Accuse someone of being a cheater when they’re not, and it’ll likely come back to bite…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:06 PM
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How would you know whether or not she slept with other men on the 1st date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:00 PM
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You’d be more correct if you said x, y, z is used similarly to what the rich did during the bourgeoisie movement. She’s right, the bourgeoisie is actually just the middle class. The bourgeoisie is the good guys, but zoomers have completely defiled the meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:43 PM
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Idk why zoomers determined to redefine that word, but they did. When they say the bourgeoise, they’re referring to like the movement in its entirety, not the actual middle class. They took the message from it and slapped it onto that word, and I don’t think they actually understand what the word itself means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:40 PM
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Most often advice I hear from older corporate professionals, is regretting not making more of their life. Don’t let yourself come home and watch Netflix for five hours every day during the week. You can enjoy your time those nights as well. Get hobbies and attend classes, don’t even have to make more friends, just don’t let the days pass you in a blur so in a year you don’t even remember what you did, or nothing memorable sticks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:38 PM
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I had one, too ADHD for me. I got an autistic black cat boyfriend now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:23 PM
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Typically, it’s because they either don’t do what their population is known for. Surprising, I know. OR The controversial things they do are not as easy to be mad about anymore because they are now being perceived as a real life, complex, multi-faceted individual who has both bad and good things, so the good things may outweigh the bad habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:23 PM
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I haven’t had a male friend since high school but I just remember how painful it was to try and get this man to actually speak about himself. I find most men are like this around that age, and they kinda ruin it for women on how we view being friends with men. It’s like pulling teeth to get them to tell us anything that isn’t a material interest like games, hobbies, activities. Start asking them the “why” questions, and they clam up. I think it has to do largely with how men speak to each other.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:19 PM
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As long as you have gas money, yeah. I remember in high school, getting coffee then sitting in my car at parks playing Pokémon Go as my bestie and I talked and talked and talked for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:15 PM
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I mean, it kinda just makes sense to me. Your cousin you haven’t seen in years, if they haven’t done you dirty; do you still love them? What about your friend from high school you spent every day with, and made crucial memories with but haven’t talked to in four years; do you still love them? Even if the above people have done you dirty at one point or another; do you still think about them time to time and miss the good moments you had together? I refuse to believe people can spend years togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:12 PM
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I believe so. I’ve seen it before. My parents are divorced, they no longer view each other as romantic partners obviously, since both are remarried. But they still communicate very well and nothing is weird or vindictive between them. They’re family. Of course maybe if they didn’t have me, things will change. But as my mom has said, “He will never not be the father of my daughter.” That’s a familial bond, even after the love has faded. Problem is, I think a lot of men like to shrug their fatherl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:08 PM
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I have to agree that this does happen. But I don’t think they ever truly loved that person. I can’t imagine intentionally hurting or destroying the imagine of someone you love just so you can get over them. But then again, I have seen a Tiktok where a woman says, “You have to convince yourself you hate them to get over them.” So idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:00 PM
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I don’t think anybody ever forgets someone they fell in love with unless it’s a dissociative trauma response or they have memory issues. I am attracted to a very specific type of man, you could say my relationships and crushes have all been with the same genre of man. Dark hair, dark eyes, tech savvy, STEM nerd. They play similar games, watch similar medias, have similar humor, etc etc. I will never forget the men I have fallen in love with and I think if you actually love someone, you’ll always…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:57 PM
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It’s only exciting if you understand what the factors at play are. Things like slip streams and when’s the last time the tires were replaced affecting their grip and if they’re warmed up. Ask your girlfriend what a slip stream is. If she knows what it is, then you can be upset that she was bored. If she doesn’t, then you need to understand that she has no idea what’s happening
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:31 AM
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Rally is the only one worth watching tbh. Everything else is boring as all hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:03 AM
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Formula 1 is very boring to anyone who doesn’t care about cars. You’re kind of an idiot to expect someone who doesn’t care for cars to pretend to be interested in cars going in a circle for 50 laps. I’d get pissed if my boyfriend ever got mad at me for losing interest at an event like that. Even I’m okay with the topic of cars, and watch racing animes with him. But no way in hell am I going to be interested in watching 50+ laps. You need to be so fr right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:01 AM
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Adding on to my previous post: But if she belonged on r/torpedotits , that’d be a different story. But it doesn’t look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:26 AM
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I care more about shape than size so she’s not doing it for me :/ Past grade 1 ptosis and you’ve lost me entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:24 AM
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It varies a lot. Depends on how much of the population is white. We have lots of Hispanics and native Mexicans down here, so they drag the average down A LOT. I’d say maybe 5’3? Hard to find a Hispanic woman over 5’5, but very easy to find one under 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:15 AM
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The good thing here though, is that if a woman manages to notice you’re well off, you can trust she’s not an idiot and probably is smart enough to live by similar principles of not going into major debt for flashy items. Mention things like “starter home” (don’t know if you actually plan on upgrading one day if you have a family or not, but if you do) and a smart woman should be able to pick up that you’re financially smart
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:14 AM
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She’s 21? That’s so sad, she looks like she’s at least 30 years old. Being overweight really does age people :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:08 AM
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Hmmm, go to the southern states and this isn’t the case by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:05 AM
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Just remembered this post. Grannymaxxing is a joke playing off how I give off an older woman vibe if my age wasn’t in my flair. People for some reason always think I’m 30+ Btw, you’re the guy who has a toji santa claus pfp on discord right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:55 AM
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Nlogs are gonna keep nlogging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:14 AM
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Maybe you just don’t care for them then. Why would you miss someone if you don’t really like or love their presence? Not saying you don’t have ADHD but I question how valid that symptom is. Like for real, why would you miss them…if you don’t like them…Wouldn’t you NOT want someone you don’t like to be around you? I have ADHD. @ non-ADHD people, am I making sense or am I just validating this TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:30 AM
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Jesus Christ, I thought it was a position or something so I was in images and was just seeing a card from magic the gathering 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:39 PM
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No idea what this combination of words mean, I even googled it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:21 PM
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Mixture of the two. I say “I’m thirsty” and hold out my cup so there’s no confusion on what I want. He knows he can say no. We both do this to each other. Someone gets up, “Hey can you hold this?” or some other ploy, shove your cup into their hands and smile like a shithead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:19 PM
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Unironically, I have put a pillow over my bf’s face multiple times before because him looking at me makes me nervous sometimes. I totally understand why you don’t want to look at the women, even if they’re pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:14 PM
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“So what I’m hearing is, you don’t think I’m pretty” 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:05 PM
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Consistently the men I run into in these spaces think 1 blowjob = 1 n. They’ll argue amongst themselves about what handjobs count as, but are incredibly regular with their belief of a blowjob being considered a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:05 PM
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You’re not getting all that servitude and expect me to pay half the bills. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:02 PM
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It’s way more nuanced than this. Your body only does that if you eat below your BMR, eat above your BMR but below your TDEE and you’ll have consistent weight loss with the slowly of metabolism. It’s the “eat 800-1200 calories a day” diets that slow your metabolism by making you fatigued so you stop moving, aka stop burning calories. If someone somehow managed to force themselves to continue their normal daily activities on those incredibly low cal diets, the weight would still come off, but now …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:01 PM
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If that’s the first position you do, yes it’s cold and not intimate, and feels objectifying. I would be asking myself, “Why doesn’t he want to see my face?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:48 PM
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Idk I’m mid, maybe for hot girls it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:04 PM
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Yeah, she was the only one fired. Innocent victim of unfair treatment. The men who were involved with her don’t get penalized? She can’t give blowjobs to another cop during duty by herself, now can she? She’s a whore, and I’m not saying otherwise. I said they should’ve just punished the guys too and they would’ve been able to avoid this whole shebang. But nooo, you think I’m whining because I’m using logic and viewing it from a legal perspective :(((((
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:41 PM
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Explain orbiters then, or women who post in r/selfie or r/amiugly or r/looksmaxxingadvice. Or any woman who posts nudes online or sexts online with any stranger that passes her way. Women love attention and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:36 PM
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More like she got 500k for being fired unfairly and payment for what is almost revenge porn. She was the only one fired, not any of her coworkers, until she sued. As well as they spread a video of her among the ranks, and her Chief knew about it and made jokes when he was showed naked photos of her. She claims she was groomed, but ultimately that’s not why she got paid. Would have been fine and dandy if they all got in trouble for fucking around on the job and being gross at the beginning, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:32 PM
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Maybe you’re bad at conversation. Women love attention and validation, regardless of who it’s from unless she thinks you’re gonna rape or kill her. That’s the whole concept supporting orbiters. I can’t say for sure because I haven’t read any of your conversations. But that’s definitely weird that none of them play into and are receptive of the validation that comes from being desired. Insecure women are a dime a dozen. I find the likelihood that you’ve only had conversations with women who don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:23 PM
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What’s important is the immersion in a social hierarchy and learning to adapt as they shift and form as they get older. By the time they’re adults, they should be able to understand and move freely in it without snags. For example, seeing that for some groups, the measure of who’s on top has to do with money, for some it’s athletic success, or intellectual success, how many colleges accepted them, who’s done the most drugs, who parties the most, etc etc. Growing up in a home with your siblings w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:20 PM
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Tell him he’s an idiot. Kids need socialization and need to group up and watch and learn the social dos and don’ts from the naturally formed social hierarchies. If they don’t get that opportunity, you’re basically damning them to social awkwardness and ineptitude in their adult years. No, extracurriculars won’t cut it. That’s like 5 hours a week at best for most of elementary school. They need to be socially immersed. Sending them to private school will do the job if you’re concerned about educa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:09 PM
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Yeah we’re pretty friendly and social. Moving out of the south scares me cause it sounds like people everywhere else are assholes in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:02 PM
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That Bendayan woman is an idiot. Not a doctor but reading hormonal panels and studies she doesn’t have the education to understand. And the two birth controls she used, used the same active ingredient, so whoever decided that was a good idea is also an idiot. <—-Dislike her Can’t believe TikTok removed those birth control videos connecting them to mental health issues, because that’s well documented that it can make preexisting ones worse or bring them out of remission so of course the stats wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:20 PM
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First off, you’re the goat for doing this. Thank you king. Edit: too stupid to see you weren’t done, ignore what I had before about the article if you saw it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:51 PM
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You mean having a combination of intelligent, hot, and idiot? Dunno, can’t comprehend. Sorry brother 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:13 PM
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Uhhhh, I can’t comprehend a hot man not being meat headed, sorry. I would er on the side of them being a veiled idiot. If your face isn’t hot, and you just have abs, I’d think it’s a nerd game developer who works out. But I dislike most men, so don’t take my personal opinion to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:06 PM
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Also I somehow completely missed that you were implying it’s women’s fault for bringing the mental warfare upon themselves. I am going to cope and say it’s because I’m tired 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:38 AM
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I think you definitely brought some things forward for me to consider regarding individualism in the time of highest levels of peace and how that affects my little theory thing. In the morning I may or may not continue the discussion, but it just turned 3:30am and my brain lost all its juice at once. Have a good night stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:35 AM
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You know what, you might be right about that. It’s also racist men or ex nazis funnily enough who think this way. They get mad at the white women who do date outside their race and so they end up doing the same OR (and this is my own personal theory I have nothing to support it lol) they were so horny from poc women they turn extremely racist because they’re ashamed of how much they’re affected or become nazi (like incels hating women bc they’re mad how much influence they have) for a short peri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:01 AM
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Hmmm, I believe in the idea that women are the pillars supporting communities, and your description of your sister further fuels that idea. If it’s not women who are sensitive to the groups’ needs, who will be? And avoiding being honked at sounds like avoiding rocking the boat, which again, sounds like a method to try and retain group peace. It may be freeing to a women if she were to lose her shackles and suddenly stop caring about and interweaving herself into the opinions and lives of others,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:55 AM
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This would be an interesting take if it weren’t for the fact that the actresses found most desirable by men are white or white passing. It’s women pushing for wokeness and diversity that allowed for beautiful women of different races to become so successful in Hollywood. If it was driven on desirability according to men, there would be almost no non-white female actors as white women have been, and still are, largely viewed as markers of status. Again, huge difference between what chronically on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:43 AM
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Absolutely, but I do give us some kudos for being upfront about it. Although, it would be smarter for us to not do that and pretend to be more pleasant and ego stroking, similarly to how eastern european women from shithole countries act. I can understand why they are so successful in what they do, and I can’t even be mad about it because if I was in the men’s shoes, I’d be flattered into passivity as well! They just really know how to phrase things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:34 AM
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Wish I could read the fucking thing but no way am I subbing to them. Very relevant since I am removing my IUD next week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:15 AM
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Yeah that’s a key difference. Women typically want to be feel validated in their emotions, and not bounce solutions off each other like men do. Not necessarily because we don’t want or haven’t found one, but because that’s just not what we’re looking for in the moment. It’s useful for us since women, to this day, are still treated as insane and crazy in even the littlest situations, even from other women. Imagine being surrounded by women 24/7 and playing the mind games every hour of every day, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:13 AM
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You have bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:00 AM
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Ab photos impression: thoughtless meathead lift weight, make muscles, want fuck bitch Game development post impression: smart man with high ambitions posts about his specialized interest, establishing that he is capable of finding meaning in more than “want fuck bitch”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:59 AM
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People say this online, but irl this has not happened. White men may screw around with and find poc women fun to fuck, but at the end of the day, we’re still the ones they, as well as men of basically every other race, desire to marry and introduce to their families. Although as a white woman, I find us to be overhyped, our treatment irl has not changed in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:52 AM
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I’m upset about passport bros, but not because I’m missing out on them, but rather because they’re disillusioned. At least American women are upfront about our expectations and valuing men as wallets, and those that don’t are okay working while married. 3rd country women who are dating passport bros? The same could not be said. Go chase your “love” buddy. Just know that it’s only because she can sniff the green in his foreign pockets. She’ll sweet talk him just like gold diggers in America, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:44 AM
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Idk speak for yourself. Some men like bitches and this is a well known phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:34 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:33 AM
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Lmaoooo, those don’t go up to the pressure of a true espresso machine. Those are essentially just a slightly faster drip coffee machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:30 AM
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Keurigs are hard to clean + don’t produce good results, then espresso machines are expensive and difficult to master with how finicky they are. I have one myself, and I don’t judge a single person for not making their lattes at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:27 AM
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I’m from south Texas, she has the phenotype of every other half-white Latina i’ve met before so that might explain why I don’t think she’s anything special. As for her face being attractive, I have a different ideal of beauty, so no not really. She’s not ugly, she has a cuteish face, but not enough to where I would ever rate above a 6. Maybe if she was smaller like when she did cheer, and her features showed a bit more than they currently do. But as of now, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:31 PM
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What’s your budget? That limits a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:24 PM
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Who’s treating it like a flex? I see two teenagers who happen to be pregnant acting like teenagers on social media just being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:20 PM
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I’m a rather emo looking woman, sans piercings who was the token emo/pale cheerleader during highschool as well. I find her to be incredibly mid, maybe a 6 at best. It’s purely her style and aesthetics that is making you rank her so high. Again, this is (or was since I want a corporate job so I dropped the aesthetic recently) my own people. There is actually nothing special about her face or body, just her style.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:17 PM
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Okay, this is a difference in the sexes then. Women do not do this typically. The ones who do and pull the “don’t worry about him” thing, have never actually viewed him as a friend and are lying to their men so she can cheat with him as she pleases. If a woman says you’re a friend, and she’s not flirting or trying to romance you, she’s not into you. Again, if I was attracted to and actually desired a man, why the fuck would I tell him he’s a friend while also not trying to initiate courting? Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:28 PM
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Is this a joke? Since when do people make friends based off their relationship potential? Is this further extrapolation of what men actually do? I’ve had male friends in the past before I realized the dogs they are, and we were never compatible in a relationship sense. Compatible men I would’ve had crushes on, and therefore NOT BEEN FRIENDS WITH. I will continue to stone wall men in any social context irl, I can’t stand this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:36 PM
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Most of my female friends are not aware that men will also view them as a woman first, and a friend second. Because most women will view a male friend as a friend first, and a man second. They can’t comprehend that they will never be removed from their sexuality in a man’s eyes. Call it ignorance or naivety, they just aren’t aware. And honestly, I wish I could go back to the days before I was made aware of this. It’s ruined male companionship for me, fueled misandrist thinking, and overall has j…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:51 PM
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I would say you probably fall in line with black pill sympathizers if you really were as ugly as you say. That would’ve led you to definitely feel the weight of pretty privilege, and the importance of looks in day to day life. That’s where I think you fall into all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:49 AM
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Even if they had these discussions at the beginning, a mid 20s person would’ve started a 5 year long relationship around the age of 20. I wouldn’t say a 20 year old is guaranteed to want the same things in life 5 years later. Around my age, people are changing drastically each year as we gain more life experience. What I wanted in life at 19 is far different than what I currently want at 21, and I would bet good money that there would be something changed about what I want at 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:51 PM
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This is just expressions of love. I don’t think people are more likely to want to follow gender stereotypes just because they’re in love. I think they’re going to want to express their love in whatever gender expression they fit, because they’re in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:43 PM
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Why would TRT help your weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:41 PM
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annas archive and z library?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:40 PM
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They may want different things. They’re at the age where discussions about where they want to settle down, what lifestyle they want to live, kids or not, etc start to make themselves important. I would imagine an amicable breakup where they both love each other would be due to these differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:39 PM
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Looking like a criminal and actually being a criminal are two very different things. I actually don’t judge based on presentation in the status category since I do have a preference for alternative looking men so I guess to some- men who look like punks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:36 PM
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If they were to participate in white collar crime, it would definitely not be in anything with my name on it as I’m the type to want to see it. It would have to be in their own career. Regarding business owners, there’s a large difference between breaking a law and finding loopholes. And if it’s breaking the law, I would hope I’m not dating someone stupid enough to have it concern anything having to do with the IRS. do your family members in law enforcement ever get a case dismissed because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:33 PM
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That doesn’t sound too bad of an idea for the future!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:33 PM
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People online always think I’m about a decade older than I actually am due to tone and writing style, and I’ve been told I looked like a grandma based on a couple outfits which always included cardigans and a vintage purse. It’s just making fun of that ^
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:15 PM
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I would argue there’s also a psychological component as well, since most psychologists take the stance of “soft determinism” which is essentially, just that it’s a mixture of free will and determinism. Think how health outcomes are shaped by both genetics (represents determinism in the metaphor) and day to day habits (represents free will).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:00 AM
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By chance do you always feel hot no matter what? Sounds like you’re heat intolerant or dehydrated if it’s been 2 hours. How high was the UV rating of your sunscreen?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:01 AM
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honestly the hardest ones to hit with this is IQ of 110 and and being sympathetic to Putin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:58 AM
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that just sounds like you’re experiencing the heat from the UV, I know the sensation you mean. that’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:56 AM
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I love everybody ahhhhhhhhhhh fatphobia pilled hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:57 AM
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it was a real horse, not a drawing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:46 AM
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I am absolutely evaluating on an equation of looks, money, status (I am defining this as status of criminal vs upstanding citizen), and an extra variable I’d like to add- personality. Lots of one category can make me overlook less in other categories. Only exception is the status, since I do find it very important to me personally that my partner be a non-criminal or not participate in illegal activities (including recreational drugs and driving under the influence), since I am from a family of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:22 AM
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Instead of fixing your health and life holistically with life changes, just take this expensive shot which likely isn’t covered by your insurance if you have it! Totally not only treating the symptom and not the root cause!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:38 PM
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Scientifically false
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:37 PM
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Hmm, I wouldn’t trust these stats too much. Their source for the chart is the census, and young people are known for not taking part in the census, so there wouldn’t be accurate representation of their demographic and how they live. New York sounds pretty unique in that aspect. I’m from one of the 10 largest cities, but in the South, and I know very few 20 year olds who live with their parents. Either in their own apartment, or has a roommate. And when OP was talking about 20 year olds who “have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:34 PM
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I wouldn’t say most do, but we might run in different scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:25 PM
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Can you explain that in depth a little bit more? There’s a couple explanations coming to mind but I don’t know which one you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:23 PM
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Lots of 20 year olds move out of their parents homes into a shared living space. Or in my particular situation, I moved into a 1 bed 1 bath apartment when I moved for college and took my car with me. My current boyfriend also started living in his own 1 bed 1 bath at the age of 20, coming from a shared apartment that he moved to when he was 18. It’s actually far more common for 20 year olds to have cars and not live with their parents than you are making it out to be. Do you not live in America …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:20 PM
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It’s a joke. I’ve been told I have older woman vibes, and people tend to think I’m far older than 21 based on my writing style and tone. Also I love cardigans and I’ve been told it doesn’t help the overall granny vibes I give off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:42 PM
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Naw I’m just being realistic. I’m very overweight and struggle with styling myself while being this large. I’m cute when I’m not fat so my facial features aren’t shrouded and I’m able to dress myself in a more flattering manner. I’ve lost 20 lbs this year so it’s a work in progress, but as of right now in this moment, I am not very desirable or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:19 PM
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I’m not a very desirable or attractive woman, but even I’m not concerned about it. There will always be men who cannot gaslight themselves into believing that AI sex bots, automated kitchens, and artificial incubators are equal to their counterparts. Some will always wish to feel the natural, non-coded woman’s love and her touch, especially the men who are familiar with how AI actually works. As well as someone who cooks with the intention of pleasing or as a display of love. As well as the expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:01 PM
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It seems the US is also starting to move towards have more and more anti-kid establishments…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:54 PM
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Makes sense considering the man who told me that is a software dev. Seems there might be a correlation between men who need community more to not be lonely and men who have very little dating options. I hadn’t considered that before, even though it would make a lot of sense, because I tend to hang around men down on their luck with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:18 AM
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I intend on having children one day and witnessing these generations that are turning into adults currently combined with the overall attitude towards child rearing, fostering community, and even just kids being in public is looking quite scary to me. It seems we’ve made a terrible jump back in time where people treat children with the attitude, “kids should be seen, and not heard” again. Parents are shamed for bringing children anywhere. Pair that with the normalization of iPad babies, remote l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:19 AM
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It is sad to see such displays of apathy in some of these replies. I think you did a great job at explaining that there is far more than just “do something about it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:14 AM
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Oh look a woman with terrible reading comprehension skills, intent on not understanding or empathizing with men in any capacity, even as she bends backwards to make a fool of herself and indirectly attack every social group who fought using violence to change their surroundings in the process. He never said violence is the answer to get what they want, and you intentionally misconstrued it as such because of your preconceived intentions when writing this post. You’re doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:20 AM
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basically being stay at home dad…..paying for a nanny and maid….150k passive income….and the result you come up with is CHEAPSKATE??? This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:16 AM
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Just a preface, you didn’t give me any personality information, only financial, so this reply will only be financial reasoning. I, personally, as someone who is incredibly concerned about worst case scenarios financially after a house fire where everything was lost in my teens, would absolutely be open to dating someone like this. Here’s why: Someone who is receiving a passive income of 150k, on a fixed lifestyle, has the freedom and opportunity to basically get hit on the chin with almost any f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:08 AM
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This did not make the point you wanted it to. You basically just called any group that is struggling with an issue and resorted to violence to change their current situation pathetic. Do you understand how widely those implications are applied? And on top of that, you completely ignored his point about not doing it do as to not disrupt women’s current lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:45 AM
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Areas that were originally safe spaces to build community and friendship amongst men have become overtaken by women. There are essentially no male only spaces anymore due to it being seen as socially unacceptable. As a woman you might not know this, but a someone has told me that when a woman enters the room, any meaningful conversation ends. <— I find that to be incredibly true, and is why they need their own spaces, yet this is incredibly difficult since the current hive mentality is that male…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:37 AM
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women below average have 10 guys sending dick pics in their DMs sees no dick in my DMS What does that mean about me 😭 Its so joever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:25 AM
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I have nothing more to add besides that I’m glad you have set solid boundaries that will serve you well in the future :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:14 AM
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I’ve done some promiscuous things online with strangers when I was a teen, and unfortunately, when you are someone who is low self esteem and confidence, receiving just a little validation and desire that was thrown your way can feel like a drug. You want to keep it coming and you want to feel it stronger, and you can lose yourself in the rush. Yes, I may have received the initial validation when a flirty PM was sent my way, but a low self esteem and insecure woman with little self control will …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 AM
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I think the key problem here is that the compromising wasn’t reciprocated therefore you were left feeling like you were trying too hard. I’m sorry you went through that, it must’ve been difficult dating someone who wouldn’t bend on what they wanted or take your wants into consideration. But that feeling emphasizes the need for compromise, but from BOTH parties, and not just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:01 AM
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The post was targeting men who think if they don’t get the “perfect” girl in every aspect, it’s settling and not worth it. There’s a big difference between giving up on ever dating Megan Fox and dating the bottom of the barrel disabled-fat-ugly 2 they found at the dumpster. However some people treat it like it’s the same thing. And I say people, because both sexes do it, I would even say women do it more these days or are at least the ones who do are more open about it. Back to the point, just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:56 AM
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I have an opinion of what they should do instead, which kind of builds on your take. Instead of hunkering down into the niche they’re currently in, I think they should take note of the niche of women they are attracted to, and I mean, really get specific with it. Once you know, try to figure out the type of men those girls like. Boom, now you know your end goal. If you like normie women, with no specific niche regarding habits/dressing style/interests/personality traits, idk how to help you man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:35 AM
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that opinion goes both ways. women view men as one entity due to cognitive dissonance of gender differences, and men view women as one entity due to cognitive dissonance of gender differences. ^ when I say this, put it into a context where we would be discussing something like average dating habits. we wouldn’t be discussing zoomed in, individual cases would we? we would be discussing the general habits of each sex, which requires generalization and therefor unification of sex into one entity ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:30 AM
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mutual attraction is very important and since you specified that, im just going to go out on a limb and assume you are not the type of guy this post was targeting. your admittance of being able to compromise lets that be known.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:17 AM
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compromise and settling are synonyms. your opinion on settling tells me everything i need to know about your dating habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:15 AM
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may I ask the reasoning behind not shaving body hair? fetish or some sort of natural living thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:13 AM
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hoeflation or whatever it’s called. with marriage being of no value anymore, there’s no 1-1 pairings and no reason for a woman to be better since there’s always plenty who will take her as she is since they also are suffering from the declining marriage rates and non-existing 1-1 pairings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:10 AM
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not every woman wants children or even a husband #factsoverfeelings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:28 AM
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oh if the standards for high value are that high, yeah I’m choosing #4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:44 AM
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if that’s how you view raising a kid, then i digress. agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:08 AM
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I don’t think I would want half of everything, I would just want enough to maintain my children’s lifestyle as my career makes far less than his does and I wouldn’t be able to cover all the bills on my own. As long as I get to keep the house (assuming I have the kids) and we come to an agreement that he’ll pick up my slack financially whether that be child support, alimony, or directly paying for extracurriculars, etc. If the youngest isn’t in at least high school yet, I would try my damndest to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:07 AM
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even working parents themselves admit they wish they had the opportunity to spend more time with their children. Yes they’re still a parent, but not a very present one typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:59 AM
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Personally, I am not planning it fully, but my boyfriend has brought it up and I’m fine with the idea. Why? 1.) I would never do so without a pre-nup to our marriage (thus before we have kids because i believe in abortion) saying that half of everything is his is mine should we get divorced, including his retirement since I wouldn’t have the years of working to plan my own 2.) he makes enough money and is financially literate enough to do number one, 3.) I am not someone who can both work and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:32 AM
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a man shouldn’t have to wait until a woman is past her physical prime. she’s lesser value, but so is he so it’s equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:37 AM
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To have that type of love, you need to have intimacy, passion, and commitment. Reason why it’s so rare is because most relationships lack one or more of those qualities. Wife doesn’t put out or husband struggles to show affection, there goes intimacy. Either one of them stops, or simply doesn’t, work on themselves or their surroundings to be the best they can be for the other; welp there goes passion. And in a relationship without intimacy or passion, how can you expect someone to realistically …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:18 PM
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Example: I had an ex who struggled with “delayed ejaculation” (you’ll see why it’s in quotations momentarily) but this only started 2 years into our relationship which was 1 whole year of having sex already. He went from being able to go 2-3 rounds in a day to once a week if I powered through the pain of an hour or two of sex, and sometimes even then he couldn’t orgasm. The reason? Mf started watching porn all day and couldn’t keep his hand out of his pants once we both went off to college. Now …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:11 PM
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My viewpoint as a woman is that he’d be better off with the 30 year old woman. Why? Quite a few reasons actually, and the first two are completely non-sexual. 1. Like someone else said above, younger women who date older men usually are interested in the fact that they have lived more life than them. Whether that means well traveled, well studied, or just lots of general life experience. Those types of women (ahem, me) like to hear the stories their man tells them and like to receive help from h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:53 PM
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The only women I’ve ever met who regretted having kids are the ones who never stopped to ask themselves the important questions like will he be able to take care of the kids if they’re sick, will he ever pick up slack that I drop, will he change diapers, will he take care of the kid while i rest, can he make dinner if i’m having to work late, would he make dinner in that case, can he handle tantrums from a toddler, will he have the patience to take care of a baby, and finally, if i have a son/da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:20 AM
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eh, i basically just described a narcissist which is what most men tend to turn into if they’re mentally unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:11 AM
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he sets off my mentally unstable radar. he doesn’t just look like the “bad boy type”, he looks like he’d have a fun relationship at first, then become emotionally distant, gaslight and manipulate the chick, ruin her self esteem, but then threaten to kill himself if she ever left. i don’t think any mentally stable woman would swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:04 AM
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by most people’s standards we’re both average, but by our own standard’s we’re both 8s because we’re each other’s type. despite this i only matched with him because he favorited me and i was bored. his profile was vague, boring, and because he’s attractive i made the assumption he was stupid (he proved me wrong however).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:58 AM
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I think the description of “shabby house with good bones” is a metaphor about looks, not overall value. If you’re above average attractiveness, yea don’t let somebody gaslight you, but I think the assumption is that most of the men on this subreddit are not above average attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:22 AM
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