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Purgegothiccbitch/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:08 AM
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yes i appreciate every finsub who helped me enjoy some luxuries while i was in college. not only do men make up the majority of finsubs, i think way more men are submissive than ppl like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:51 PM
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if it works for you and your relationship then have at it. me and my man don’t have kids as we’re recent college grads but we currently go about 60/40. when he begins to make more and after we get married it’ll be 70/30, as we both agreed upon. i never grew up seeing 50/50 in my parents or any of the married ppl in my family but they were all very active parents. we were lucky in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:44 PM
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nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:15 AM
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“gift” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:16 AM
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Meanwhile he unintentionally had the same message come across about women. OP made women’s “advantages” traits that men value in women they’re attracted to. She was saying that men’s natural response to an attractive woman isn’t an inherent advantage. While men’s advantages are attributes nearly all of them posses (absence of period, more physical strength). You’re literally complaining about the same thing the comment is and missed her intentional irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:54 PM
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It’s been imagined and it exists through the lens of whoever sees/recreates those attributes and prescribes the positive connotation to them based on their experience and not the experience of the “cute and alluring” sex. Honestly kinda like how male comic book artists often draw humanoid inanimate objects like “girl-car with an hour glass figure” or the “sexy” green m&m 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:08 PM
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i think personal goals and self-esteem are the answers to those questions, honestly. perhaps if you’ve never had external affirmation, this will be hard to muster. many people think like this though and also many don’t. i think the ones that don’t probably have underlying socioeconomic conditions or mental health problems. i also don’t think this is an unwavering state of being, but i can’t imagine comparing myself to others daily. it sounds miserable because their will always be someone better.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:00 PM
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after calculating and averaging my romantic partners over the years my league is about 5’8-6’2 men with at least some college education, makes a decent living and travels, gift-giver, has a big nose, above average penis size, probably beige in skin-tone but likely to have mommy issues and does at least 1 non-hard drug occasionally… not sure what that is as a number for them or me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:53 PM
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ever heard of comparison being the thief of joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:40 PM
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It was worded that way to do exactly what OP just did switching the object of bias and adding yet another biological disposition. There’s no inherent advantage of not having a period, having the ability to get pregnant or the ability to make a dick hard. They are biologically different attributes awarded to the sexes with an entire culture surrounding them that are mostly seen as advantageous to the sex without them. Yes men are people too, I don’t think she was trying to deny that. But women be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:33 PM
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We would more so like you to understand that while you may think you’re being objective and understanding you’re still completely framing our “advantages” as things heterosexual men see as positive about women because they’re attracted to them. And because you didn’t start this post out claiming to be in reference to heterosexual dating but instead inherent values attributed to each of the sexes, the advantages you listed have reduced us to our value to men. Whereas the male advantages are actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:18 PM
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like pretty much everyone has pointed out, you can’t look at a small subset of mentally ill women and question the logic behind symptoms of their mental illness…their is none. this isn’t representative of women as a whole, nor some women, this is simply anorexia. refuting facts is pretty much the basis behind most eating disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:20 PM
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Every single woman on My 600lb Life was sexually abused as a child. Many of the men too..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:17 PM
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i’ve spent my entire life not being “agreeable” and found that i attract men who like feistiness and slight attitude as long as i know when to concede and submit and i continue to remain attractive enough to get away with it. i think she believes her unwavering grift is attractive to a certain subset of men. but while they might agree with her, they do not want to date her. because she is argumentative and DISagreeable to the extreme, lacking of vibrant personality, not very feminine in looks or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:47 PM
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they are being incredibly generous to a woman who looks like a founding father in the face. hell, there are more attractive curvy women and it’s not even like she’s slim, she’s pudgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:33 PM
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exactly why i sit this convo out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:44 AM
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if you’re literally saying “most people don’t like ___ but some people like ___” like no shit, that’s also not an argument. that doesn’t change the fact that most people don’t because cultural conditioning, biology, whatever. we all should realize attraction is subjective but their are clearly trends of what is deemed unattractive. a completely secure person cannot be hurt by descriptors but most humans are not completely secure and it is socially inept to point out physical traits anyways, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:37 AM
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Andrew Tate is in jail for sex trafficking those hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:31 AM
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me too lol and now I definitely don’t drink as much as I used to while out at parties. These friends are lifesavers, sometimes literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:14 PM
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I think this may be what some guys tell themselves is happening to ease the blow of rejection, but this isn’t what’s happening 90% of the time. if you’ve ever had an (ex)friend be jealous of you, and you’ve also been flirted with or approached, while intoxicated and out with your real friends, it’s very easy to spot the difference. there have been a handful of nights where I have been thankful my friends intervened from a potentially embarrassing or dangerous situation with a guy that I’d never …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:13 PM
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i’ve never been with anyone who didn’t see me as a win from their own words. we don’t view sex in the same black and white, demoralizing way you do primarily being due to the fact that he sees me as an attractive human being that he loves that comes with nuance and baggage like all other humans do and i view him the same. we make each others lives easier and more fulfilling. we are in love. we both wanted a relationship and are happy in ours. feel free to have your own ideas for your relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:37 PM
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there’s other single people your age though why just substantially younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:03 AM
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A vagina gets wet from arousal, soaking even. Cumming does add wetness and kegal muscles tighten but you can also tighten kegal muscles on command. So feeling these things doesn’t mean a woman came. I’ve been told you can feel it but I’ve also been told they could feel me cum and I didn’t. Because many women do unfortunately lie about orgasming well into adulthood, it’s not real just because she tells you it is. Some dudes just finish and because they’re done, they assume she is too. I think it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:31 AM
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I’m assuming she was/is pretty slender. In my completely anecdotal experience, slender/athletic women seem to orgasm easier and it could be the libido from athleticism and their body composition effecting the location of their g-spots. I sure wish there were more studies on the female orgasm alongside different factors. I’m curvy with a large butt and require an above average penis size to make cumming from only PIV (no clitoral stimulation) most likely. Luckily having both the ideal size and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:06 AM
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While I do think more studies revolving female orgasms need to be done, I think we all have experienced lying about cumming at least once because our partners didn’t actually do much other than hammer our cervixes. This is when I was inexperienced though, now I never lie and almost always cum because my partner does things that get me fully there. This is why I think we need to specify when the orgasm happens and the acts that have been done during the session. If you’re rubbing the clit or perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:34 AM
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I greatly doubt the 30 being an accurate number… and this is coming from someone who’s cum 9 times in one night and it felt like it nearly killed me, and my partner came like 7 times and by the 5th time he was shooting blanks 💀 Plus it was certainly not just PIV sex if that’s what you mean by regular. I’m not gonna say it’s impossible but that sounds like an exaggeration meant for an ego boost. I will take your word for it but with the understanding that I used to be the girl that lied about cum…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:24 AM
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We have been told by men that they were sure we had cum already or we’ve dealt with bad sex where we didn’t cum…It takes more effort and often more than PIV sex. A compatible and capable partner understands that. It’s not a self fulfilling prophecy it’s quite literally many of our bodies. I’m not thinking about the fact that it probably won’t make me cum I just am feeling great but not quite getting there and knowing what’s missing— clitoral stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:06 AM
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To be fair, many women also fake orgasms often. It could be that the one telling you how to move was actually trying to help you make her achieve a real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:58 AM
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this place is like the worst psych ward ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:56 AM
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i’m saying that I’m in the south and this is what I see. there’s 2 white guys in my friend circle now dating black girls. women aren’t a monolith and though people still at large, date members of their own race and that goes for any race, attitudes towards interracial pairing have long shifted for the most part in the younger gen. i hear more people open to dating outside their race than ever before tbh. maybe it’s the area you’re in. me and my fiancé are each others first black partner actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:28 AM
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white men are not getting cut out of the dating market in droves. like at all. most people still date within their race but i see interracial couples consisting of white men and black or latina women all the time and i’m in the south. until my fiancé my entire dating history was white men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:17 AM
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You just don’t know how a vagina works dude…💀 The PH balance in vaginal discharge can literally “bleach” underwear. And vaginal discharge is normal, if we had none there would be a medical issue. One is a healthy bodily function that’ll happen regardless of cleanliness…and the other is crusty shit stains from not cleaning your ass. This is the hill you wanna die on? The right to have shit stained underwear?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:11 AM
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I quite literally smell men that stink often in public grocery lines, elevators, etc. At my old job as an escape room attendant there would be funk clouds in the air if a group of all men came in and we literally kept odor spray on standby only for large male groups. Y’all be nose blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:05 AM
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But so was literally every prolific female serial killer. Crazy exists in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:29 AM
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I feel like a lot of women may go through phases of having casual sex typically after a long term relationship. Never just constantly sleeping around and then boom💥husband, like the red pill implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:54 AM
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aren’t you the same one who said you had never heard of guys opening the door or pulling out a chair for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 07:09 AM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:34 AM
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i’ll let you try it. i just am kind, cooperative, and pray for the best. the best in this scenario was getting off alive and only with a speeding ticket despite having a blunt in my ashtray.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:27 PM
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it’s a combination of luck, the area, and white skin. “the finesse” hasn’t helped even the most cooperative of black men many times. i’ll never forget about philando castille…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:23 PM
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this part. hell, every single white girl i know has gotten pulled over and was only given a warning for their first traffic violation. i got pulled over for the first time recently and immediately got a ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:46 PM
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porn magazines from the 70s and 80s featured models with armpit hair and large bushes and that was considered attractive because it was natural and womanly. “teens” as a category being 18-19 and the youngest they are legally allowed to do porn only proves what i said about the p*dophillic motivations. “barely legal” is the appeal. that’s complete bullshit lol the first thing these men do is parade their young partners around even if they have no intention of having kids and “trophy wife” is a ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:54 PM
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the lines get blurred when you hear so many legality arguments, huge gap preferences, and hatred towards women of their own age. women weren’t always shaving our bodies bald until shaving was promoted by capitalism decades ago and we became conditioned to see it as the norm for women. for us to be as hairless as many of us were as children. and that doesn’t make “teen” porn being the most popular category any less disturbing and akin to pedophillia. i believe it is more preferred due to the stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:33 PM
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sure but as a young girl i wasn’t thinking about the technical term for it, i was creeped out that so many men wanted to know when i was turning 18… i already agreed that it isn’t “most” and i would even argue that many of these dudes wished they were young again and had access to some younger models with riches which helps feed that attraction. still imo the hairless bodies, super petite with pig-tails loving “teen” porn watchers are wanting women to appear as childlike as possible. and that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:26 PM
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i think a lot of female beauty standards are rooted in p*dophilia and with the most popular porn category being “teen” i honestly can’t disagree with you. in my heart i hope it’s not most but i feel like it’s wayyyy more than people want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:28 PM
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that is your opinion. it’s a polarizing one lacking nuance or logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:19 AM
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i actually agree in terms of discussion/debate/cmv posts. i think the bitter people hang out in the daily chat thread because that place is a hellscape i do not check often because when i do, goddamn mfs are miserable. it was way worse like a year or two ago when i first joined. it was overtly racist and overrun by self-proclaimed incels. there was genuinely 0 productive conversation. i think they’ve decided to leave the this sub for the quarantined ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:53 AM
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it’s not dismissive dismisses it’s a fact states an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:46 AM
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i’m 23 and there have been so many instances where an older man has tried to approach me since i was 14… i see posts like these online and i get as uncomfortable now as i did then. and yeah they were more aggressive when i was a minor...ugh. that’s why i recognize most of this discourse as pdo dog whistling. the age of consent is the rule they follow *publicly but the lower they argue is an ok age and the further the gaps get, i just remember being that teenager unable to walk around in the mall…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:28 AM
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cool, i wouldn’t know. i’m not petite, i’m thicc with a small waist and always get the men that i want. you can like what you like, i’m sure there’s petite women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:33 PM
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editing a comment just to post an equally dumb one is so lame 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:05 AM
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i answered your question. you’re just being purposefully obtuse. you surround yourself with unsuccessful relationships and projected your reality onto mine. there was no relevance to that piece of info that i didn’t ask about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:04 AM
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source: i’m projecting my life story onto you so trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:55 AM
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are you familiar with how an engagement works?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:51 AM
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engaged to be married this October 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:26 AM
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source: trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:22 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever known anyone to assume they’re bald. As a woman I got the chance to see many muslim peers in school fixing their hijabs in the bathroom and they typically had the longest hair outta any girl. I don’t think the response to oppression should be more oppression. There’s nothing wrong with covering up or dressing sexy. Many cultures as a whole haven’t been strict about dressing modestly for many decades now so it’s simply a culture clash when met with a culture that is strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:51 AM
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how is physical abuse the equivalent to getting irritable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:22 AM
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both? what’s the point of a wedding without pictures to remember it by? what’s the point of remembering it if it was solely for the optics and not because you deeply love your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:00 PM
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so this problem is much less about women on their periods than you intentionally made it out to be…if other ppl find a behavior odd then this isn’t a “women” problem this is a your GF problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:58 PM
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you become irritable when hormones are fluctuating through your body in ways that cause you constant pain or are causing life to be formed for 9 months. this is why it’s imperative to find a good partner before deciding to have kids who can be empathetic and understanding. shit i get irritable if my blood sugar gets too low or i haven’t eaten all day and may be short with my BF and vice versa. i eat something and apologize for being hangry or PMSing. he understands this now and can recognize it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:50 PM
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it’s literally either you don’t hardly get out. you mentioned your job but i wouldn’t rely on your job to be the only potential place you’re meeting people. or you need to looksmaxx. maybe you aren’t dressing well for your body type or are don’t do your makeup well or if you don’t wear makeup maybe something else could make you stand out but it isn’t. also online dating isn’t really a boogeyman, there’s ways to vet good guys. but if you don’t wanna get into that at all, you’re gonna have to comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:47 PM
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i listen to literally everything from goth to emo, country, and drill rap. in high school i was big into the cure, siouxsie and the banshees, marilyn manson and my chemical romance. i dressed like a romantic goth throughout most of high school and mfs would call me the grim reaper until like 11th grade when the “big tiddy goth gf” became a social media trend. suddenly i was getting attention from those same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:22 PM
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based on what? your instincts? like 5’9 and 6’ look vastly different…because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:50 PM
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oh no baby i do not know a single woman that finds that man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:49 PM
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well obviously statistically not, but to think that means “chicks” can’t tell the difference is wishful thinking on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:44 PM
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and historically that flack was because curvy girls weren’t popular in the (white dominated american) media. look at a chunk of comedy movie/shows from the mid 2000s and before and you’ll see “does this dress make my butt look fat? 😰” or “ew she has such a huge butt” jokes… and then curvy women became popular because rap/hip-hop went mainstream and plastic surgery because accessible to the common stripper, then the everyday working woman, as shown all over the (social)media. suddenly everyone lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:42 PM
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bloop
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:22 PM
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i’m 5’11 lmao so i will definitely be able to tell. on multiple occasions i’ve been around 5’9-5’11 dudes and listened to them tell people they’re 6’ until i stand beside them and suddenly it’s “noo your shoes are padded!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:21 PM
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he gives sickly victorian child to me personally lmao but some people swear up and down he’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 08:08 PM
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i was just about to type out this example! before hiphop video vixens and later the BBL epidemic lol, dudes would say that a big ass looked gross! now they’re all shouting “gyat! 🍑” at these big booty models. manic pixie dream girls or “goth gfs” became a popular thing because of (social)media too. before, dudes would clown me for being goth in early high school. guys are MORE guilty of this tbh. i can’t think of relevant examples for straight women. jacob elordi is just visually a handsome whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:50 PM
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Just you and the man pretending to be a woman posting this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:35 PM
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Why would someone empathize with this line of thinking? You probably manipulate women into thinking you want a relationship just to give them a false sense of security in order to sleep with them. No woman would hear the words “I’ll get bored after sleeping with you 3 times” and still decide to sleep with you. Your need for instant gratification and “variety” makes you see women as conquests and makes you cold. And YOU and this belief isn’t indicative of ALL men, only your lack of self-control. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:26 AM
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My BF’s dick gets hard from my voice, me brushing past him, me making him dinner, me making him laugh, to us planing our wedding ending up in a steamy sex session everytime and plethora of other small things that contribute to him fulfilling our shared high libido and him being totally aroused and entertained solely by me. This is complete bullshit. I doubt you’re even a woman and I doubt you’re in a relationship. You’ve posted this weird sociopathic take multiple times now and have attracted pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:19 AM
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this thread made me feel like i was in the fucking twilight zone. i’ve never seen a single soul who didn’t know what chivalry is as if opening doors for a woman stopped in the 1500s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:46 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:23 PM
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i’d argue that knitting makes someone interesting because you can knit a present for someone and that’s a highly personalized gift that you’d never forget. but i’m also currently learning to crochet for that reason 😂 but if most people are average then most people aren’t expecting something wild and interesting to talk about. an engaging conversation is different from having a “unique thing” to talk about. but one would hope you could think of more to do with someone aside playing video games an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:04 PM
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i don’t meet as many people who SAY this, but some of their dating habits and high bullshit threshold surely imply it. but i imagine if choices are limited, you truly would take anything. it could be positive in the sense that you may get outside your comfort zone and meet someone who you hit it off with or you could set yourself up for failure by not being fully attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:52 PM
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being artists and attending art expos, being into gaming but not just sitting at home and gaming; going out to barcades, dance/yoga classes, hiking, making cosplays for me and my BF to attend conventions in, playing guitar and making music; collaborating with friends on making music— these are pretty much my hobbies. i find it strange when someone has ZERO hobbies and it greatly decreases your opportunity to socialize i’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:49 PM
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i cannot imagine telling my BF “actually i find your chivalry insulting! what are you insinuating that because i’m a WOMAN, i can’t open my own door or pump my own gas?!?” i just accept my man showing me a little bit of princess treatment and he feels in his element by willingly doing these things. to think that this is offensive to some of you women and men is wild to me. i guess it’s benevolent sexism if you feel it oppresses you. this doesn’t oppress me and him though, this empowers our relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:30 PM
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i associate that with just being a gentlemen but today i learned that some women don’t want or expect these things. this is always something i’ve expected and gotten from my BF and past partners. i would’ve not entered a relationship if a man didn’t do these things and i agree that the rules are skewed in that regard. but i have also never met a man who didn’t do these things already, nor have they had an issue with it. and aside from the complete financial providing because we both work and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:23 PM
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i 100% expect this but my BF also expects this and willingly does it so i never had to ask for it. most of my friends in relationships also get this type of treatment. it’s gotta be one of the oldest form of chivalry to open a door , pump your GF’s gas, or pull a chair out at a restaurant. my BF just naturally has always done those things. so interesting that you see this as rare. if it’s not something you care about then that’s fine but i think it’s one early sign of a gentleman when dating. or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:17 PM
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I know a girl who isn’t shallow at all, she just has very low self esteem and keeps attracting men who emotionally abuse her. I was the same way for a while. I don’t think we “had it coming” because that implies deserving it and I didn’t deserve to feel scared everyday of a man’s reaction and worthless. But when I took a year to be alone, I realized that’s what I was afraid of. My friend hasn’t done that yet and I don’t know if she will. There’s reasons why some women may never be victims to DV …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:23 PM
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i can smell this post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:59 AM
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You asked this question to a presumably non-black woman as a gotcha but there’s no cognitive dissonance in MY thinking. As a black woman I can acknowledge that there’s a history of over-policing in lower-income communities that typically house a majority of black people which has led to a skewing of the statistics. I can point out the history of the U.S. police beginning as literal slave patrol and that stop and frisk based on racial profiling was legal in my lifetime. I can point out the legali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:52 AM
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…like imagine being a mormon… there are far worse fates than a body count. a forced life commitment to a cultish nut who will probably never make you nut. i’m so thankful my value is lowered to them 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:11 AM
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to a dude who values virginity and is a strictly religious person? maybe. to my fiancé? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:07 AM
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body count comes up in conversation once maybe at the beginning of a relationship and it’s never brought up again. i have a higher count than my fiancé and i’m neither proud nor ashamed of it. it just is what it was. life happens. secure dudes with their own past understand this. which is why i think this is only valuable to incels, other virgins, insecure, or chronically online men who see these type of discussions often. this isn’t something that has ever been seen as valuable in my experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:05 AM
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because they’re typically from strict religions that actively discourage divorce and will shun you if you even mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:37 AM
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…this is literally just something you’re gonna have to get over if you want to get laid. i refuse to further explain how dumb this sounds because i’m like 95% percent sure talking about your small dick is your kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:23 AM
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No. You can do this for yourself tho and hope you find someone with values that align with your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:08 AM
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i like an alternative fashion style. my BF calls one of my makeup looks my “fairy look” and another my “anime girl look” but he also compliments me when i’m natural. i just love the terms he comes up with when i wear makeup. i have slight genetic under eye bags that i’m insecure about and until i have a good job that can pay for my consistent under eye filler, i’ll wear concealer. i like enhancing my natural beauty; i have naturally high cheekbones and long eyelashes and i like accentuating this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:05 PM
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Shitty people attract shitty people. Shallow attracts shallow. Those podcasters attract tons of shitty IG models who want to use the dudes money or platform and have 0 genuine feelings for them. They assume their role as arm candy. I saw somewhere a while back that a Fresh&Fit dude was literally exposed for tryna pay an IG model to have sex with him and saying that she should love the attention his podcast would give her but she was pretty, not shallow and had enough smarts and conscious to decl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:41 PM
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i feel kind there’s a difference between kind and nice. you can be kind but also be a no BS type of person. niceness seems more fake and for show while kindness feels more genuine. i don’t think there’s many ways you can describe it online without them tonally coming across as the same thing though so i get your point. and yeah men have probably caught on to the fact that the NiceGuy™️ trope is frowned upon so they are probably still that guy but looking for ways to rebrand it. i also agree that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:29 PM
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you can’t talk about my man’s dick without his or my consent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:35 AM
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Nah he’s getting ready to go to the gym with me and packing our bags but your fanfiction about my fiancés dick is cute albeit weird plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:31 AM
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You really are just good old fashion retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:24 AM
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Yet you must be talking to an imaginary girl because I’m getting married in October to the man of my dreams so not sure who got pumped and dumped. pumped and proposed to definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:23 AM
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If your lunatic rant is indicative of you finding a joke funny I pity the girl who had to see you at your most depressed and angry. That will no longer be me tho. Get blocked weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:16 AM
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I know that reading comprehension isn’t your strong suit and being a hypocrite is your kryptonite so this will be the last time I spell out something for you I’ve already said. You deserve to have the days you’ve been having. Whatever that means for you. I care just as little about your problems as you do about mine. I just don’t project unnecessary assumptions in the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:14 AM
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I sincerely wonder if either or you will apologize for being so utterly assumptive, cruel, and wrong at every level but you’ll probably dirty delete or say some more undeserved weird, foul, shit. Oh look just as I typed this out you edited it to say “women get scholarships and men don’t” LOL so you read my comment and realized I wasn’t a privileged nepo baby and decided to switch course like I wouldn’t notice. Madness. Like I told him. I hope you continue to have the depressing days you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:11 AM
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Lol. I wouldn’t date or fuck anyone I’m not attracted to and she isn’t attracted to his personality because he severely lacks one. She’s attracted to the idea of being high school sweethearts. She already admits that she knows she could do better, she’s just afraid to leave what she’s known for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:05 AM
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I do not have a dad lmao my father died when I was 15. You just projected onto me because you’re delusional and bitter. I went to school on an academic and needs based scholarship as well as fundraising from my church and my OWN money I saved from working 2 fucking jobs since the age of 15. You just assumed my entire life and were wrong at every turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:03 AM
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You can't just say "he doesn't fucking clean the bathroom, he leaves food laying around, he sometimes doesn't shower for days, he doesn't do his laundry, he doesn't change the cat litter" I literally said all of those things. You reacted emotionally to the next part because I guess it hit home. You have to say "Oh yeah, he didn't go to college. Did I mention he's a fucking retard?" To add the context that he has free time that she doesn’t while she is working to provide for both of them. He’s be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:00 AM
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You seem to be projecting your own bitterness onto me and this situation. My mom and dad didn’t pay for shit lol so you completely projected “privilege” onto me. I expect nothing less from someone who forms their beliefs on an entire gender from googling discussion posts online. In the real world women ALSO have to work to get through school and in my example have to work inside their homes with no help from their BF, who could contribute more but doesn’t. I wasted time commenting thinking you’d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:43 PM
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He’s a retarded lazy slob because when he gets off work he doesn’t do anything to help around the house while my friend is at school and gets a few hours in between school and her night shift. He does less than the bare minimum… On top of school and work my friend does everything around the house and can’t even get some damn head?? Defending this loser is the hill you wanna die on fr?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:39 PM
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Also in my only defense of him that isn’t why I think he’s a retard, it’s like, the boatload of other shit. My BF is working towards his associates degree but only has a diploma but thank God he’s nothing like this man and helps out a TON.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:36 PM
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He’s lazy and has no interest in furthering his education? He also doesn’t help out around the house while she attends school and a job every single day and all he has is a part-time job. So he could obviously do more if he’s not gonna go the high-paying job route. You’re seriously not seeing an issue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:34 PM
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Interesting that TRP argues the opposite that (undesirable) women want a relationship from “Chad” but he just uses her for sex until he gets a better option. It makes you wonder if these shitty humans exist regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:33 PM
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He doesn’t break up with her, he just beats his dick to oblivion to big titty porn and gives himself a porn-induced ED and leaves his GF wondering why he doesn’t show her as much affection anymore… There are worse fates than a “shallow” breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:30 PM
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Look at my comment. This is literally my biggest fear for my friend and her “high school sweetheart” who’s on top of being a shitty partner— he’s also severely over punching with her. He looks like a billy goat and she resembles a shorter Zendaya. They’ve been engaged for 2 years and but thank GOD she has an IUD. I pray she sees him as disposable soon and finds what she deserves before I become an auntie…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:27 PM
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Sounds like confirmation bias and chronically online behavior but I’ll bite. You seriously underestimate the reasons someone might deem someone replaceable. Is it bad sex because he’s a porn addict who can’t stay hard without jerking it? I’ll give you an example. My friend is dating a dude she’s been with since high school who has never once eaten her out despite her wanting it. She gives him oral tho. His shallow reasoning is that he doesn’t like how her vag looks. He also watches a ton of porn…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:23 PM
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typically the sponsor is buying things for the escort not the other way around. i’m sure you found a silly gift in the hotel lobby and decided to take a pic of it. if delulu is the solulu then i’m glad it’s working for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:56 PM
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you’re definitely using escort services if you moved to the country just over a month ago and now have her as a “live in gf”. i don’t know why y’all won’t just be honest and say that you moved to third world countries to rent cheap hookers. you don’t have to pretend she bought you a gift or that she loves you. maybe it helps you believe it but you’re the only one that does 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:48 PM
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everything about that story and his comments on his account don’t add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:49 PM
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and when you woke up what was reality like?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:56 AM
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because she settled for you and desirable women don’t have to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:40 AM
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Similar situation with my fiancé. I cut the FWB loose after our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:17 AM
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When I was single and on tinder, some guys were hookup material and some were relationship material and some were both. Because there was no commitment involved initially I had sex with my FWB (good sex, meh personality, would never have seriously committed to him) within a few weeks of me going out with another guy I was also talking to on tinder who is now my fiancé (great sex and great personality, do see myself happily committing to him). After our date, I cut my FWB loose easily. I had a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:10 AM
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i’ve always wondered what the general consensus of a high count was. seeing so many ppl agree on it being 10 by 25 is eye opening. oh well. i’ll be a saint in the next life to see what it’s like. being a slut in this one has had its ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:22 AM
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you completely ignoring my opinion due to an irrelevant piece of info isn’t helping y’all beat the allegations that your insecurities prevent you from getting your own opinions challenged 💀 i respect myself enough to not get involved with an insecure man or argue with a man who uses baseless ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:30 AM
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the examples are either senior citizen or revenge of the nerds coded like…give it a rest Unc 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:19 AM
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that’s more important than the club bit tbh. i’m not friends with anyone that has actively made it known that they want to fuck me. i go to the club but i don’t get drunk around dudes who make advances towards me. you should emphasize that and not “controlling her going to the club” because the creepy male friends part is actually disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:15 AM
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this situation is completely outside of me being a content creator tho. my friends aren’t SWers and their bfs don’t mind them clubbing. there’s men who wouldn’t be okay with SW that are okay with clubbing. you just wanted to mention my side hustle to try and invalidate my relationship experience when it actually doesn’t even matter to this type of scenario…i’m not at the club selling content. i’m dancing with friends. tf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:13 AM
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i go to the club with my friends occasionally and we’re all in relationships and none of our bf’s/fiancés mind. half the time he goes with me because he likes to feel me dancing on him. the other times like for special themed nights that me and my girl friends like more, we go together. i’m more of an extrovert than him so the club isn’t always his scene. i make up for it in nights in binging a series together. i think because we’re secure in our relationship and deeply trust each other than thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:02 AM
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my Gen Z bf thinks the idea of strip clubs are so dumb and has no desire to go to one even for his bachelor’s party lmao. he has no problem with me going to dance clubs or raves with my girl friends. because he’s not insecure and knows i’m in love with him and would never cheat. edit: also i’m not there to gawk at men. the concept of needing the opposite sex to gawk at is different from dancing with friends to unwind. i’m guessing they see the word “club” and falsely equate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:56 AM
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not sure what my kinks have to do with this conversation. i’ll continue to do what i do without you so i assume it’s the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:36 PM
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okay chris watts. you realize this is the type of comment that deserves to be IP tracked and placed on a watchlist, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:05 AM
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i’m one (1) woman. it’s crazy to believe that respectfully declining and moving on is always an option? that’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:00 AM
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i thought you were supposed to lead? can you not lead a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:54 AM
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if you’re genuinely trying to not be depressed (which is what this sounds like is pure depression) perhaps just discounting the advice is a symptom of your depression. while it’s obvious your comment resonates with a lot of men in here, it seems obvious to me as an outsider that you are speaking with the veil of depression covering the fact that the advice isn’t bad advice. it’s just hard to start to effectively practice when you 1. still are surrounding yourself with spaces that fuel your depre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:29 AM
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damn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:00 AM
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you don’t actually have to express everything that’s on your mind tho. it’s called reading the room and having empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:58 AM
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they have every right to be pissed off and call you insecure though. just like you have every right for someone’s past actions to be your determining factor on your present/future with them. if the common denominator is women being pissed off with you about your focus on their past then maybe find someone with your preference before entering a relationship or rethink your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:55 AM
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this exactly. it’s interesting how it is in their nature to immediately suggest the person who is not their preference could change those aspects of themselves and there in lies the problem. they never just /have/their preferences. they must make sure to tell their non preferences to change themselves, or that they went wrong somewhere in lives because they happen to have traits that are subjectively unwanted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:43 AM
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it’s really not that difficult and brands have started to do it. literally just make the options accessible to bigger sizes. fat ppl know they’re fat and will have rolls and cellulite showing. a lot of them are okay with that. they just don’t want grandma looking florals and picnic table prints.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:37 AM
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did you miss the comma between those two identities? unattractive is unattractive. inability to find a mate based on what society deems unattractive can be a shared experience across those identities. it also could not effect you at all from what i see when i look outside at everyday couples. no difference is needed to be explained to me. but i love how like i said y’all have selective outrage when your internal bias is triggered. either all unattractive ppl deserve hatred or none do. not only t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:01 PM
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i have had more experience than most of my male sexual partners. i have more experience than my fiancé. he’s still the best sex i’ve ever had and the things i can do to him alongside my other qualities are what got me my ring 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:40 AM
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No i’m not in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:41 AM
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as soon as we mention that the “halo effect” applies to both unattractive men and women their ears shut. they loudly proclaim their disdain for fat women, single mothers, etc, but they treat “unattractive” women well? selective outrage meet internal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:40 AM
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the way they’re tryna qualify shit with statistics and endless questions when it’s literally this simple. i had casual sex because i was horny, attracted to a dude, and wanted to. sometimes it became more involved, sometimes it was just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:23 AM
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yes. there is a guy that regularly sends me money for my accomplishments or sometimes just randomly, we don’t even talk much, i think he has a paypig kink. i flirt with the employees of my local car service shop and get work done for free. i’ve gotten free meals from restaurant owners, free gas, and free vapes, gifts here and there. i assume a man is interested every time something like this happens and i’m appreciative and naturally flirty but i don’t intend to take it further as i’m in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:13 AM
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you thinking the only southern state is alabama and not knowing that successful clubs like this exist makes sense lmao. just willfully ignorant like most men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:30 AM
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then not being as popular as straight clubs means nothing it’s purely a reflection of the population. saying they aren’t popular at all or just purely lesbian is false though. tons of straight women go there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:31 AM
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there’s 2 clubs like this in my city and 3 straight clubs, they all have equally packed events. hundreds of people at a time. we’re in the south but in bigger cities in the north and west coast i’m sure there’s tons of spaces like these. i think you all think because you don’t know of them, they aren’t relevant. but critically think about why you don’t hear of them and that is 100% by design. they are definitely a viable alternative for women looking for safer places with less men to drink and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:30 AM
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“nobody knows” you as a presumably straight man don’t because they aren’t for you. i also have no clue where you live so you wouldn’t get them advertised to you anyways. most clubs have events thursday through sunday, so do these. they are often sold out with hundreds of ppl. also way to completely skip over my last few sentences. ofc they aren’t as popular as straight clubs because there are more straight people but they are popular enough to attract hundreds and remain open and packed with a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:25 AM
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this is my go-to clubbing equipment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:17 AM
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y’all aren’t in the target audience for underground queer femme spaces. they do well in my city because the algorithm tailors their ads to ppl like me and my queer femme friends who frequent ig and tiktok. they have sold out events every weekend and do well for a big city in the south. the disconnect i’m feeling from reading comments saying these places don’t exist is wild rn. y’all wouldn’t know if they did, you aren’t the target. ofc they won’t be on the same level as straight clubs but they’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:16 AM
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no just no lol. we literally do it to have cute pictures and have the connection with each other while listening to music and getting ready. my female friends are either in relationships or not looking and we enjoy our nights out after dolling up just fine without male validation. validation comes from when other women tell me they like my hair or makeup. we spend way less time thinking about men in these moments than you think. this how i was when single too, as i never put too much interest in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:11 AM
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i detailed in a previous comment how wrong you are lol the queer femmes only club in my city does great and has for years. as a engaged woman who loves to drink and dance the night away, i only go to this club when i’m not with my fiancé. i don’t feel safe at straight clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:05 AM
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you can pay as little as $5 or as much as $25 to get in. if you have the means you’re encouraged to give more. the place encourages mutual aid and empowerment of the underprivileged women and queers looking for a safe and fun escape through dancing and drinking the night away without fear of being preyed upon. it’s a aesthetically pleasing club with good security and plenty on the drinking menu, so i’m sure they make a lot of their money there. when i was a poorer college student, me and my frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:55 AM
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i have initiative once pursued as i’m not a submissive woman lol but i don’t approach men first and my greatest relationships have been when the man is a bit more healthily obsessed. i don’t like the nonchalant types. i like men that show their affection off rip and that works for me. some dudes prefer to be approached. i’ll show interest but i won’t initiate the approach because i agree. men will go after who they want and the shy types aren’t my types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:14 AM
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i won’t turn it down but i come fully prepared to buy my own drinks. i’ve also had just as many women buy me drinks as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:01 AM
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Lol i feel so bad for you lot who haven’t experienced queer femme dance clubs. they do phenomenal around my city and i’m in the south. they charge a sliding scale from $5-25. something’s working because they have had sold out events every weekend for the past few years now. i can only imagine these places would do better in bigger cities. we drink and dance and feel much more comfortable. every once in a while a creepy person slips through the cracks but it’s still nowhere near as unsafe feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:59 AM
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we’re all forced to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:14 PM
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this is the greatest part of my day ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:20 AM
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he’s basically an imbecile 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:19 AM
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No. I get comments that I’m interesting all the time because of my unconventional fashion sense and openness towards connecting with strangers. I can spark up a conversation with anyone. Even people who look “boring”. And I don’t allow for uncomfortable pauses in conversation and speak with a natural lively tone. I’m more extroverted but also can befriend introverts. I like to go clubbing but also spend time alone at the library and strike up convos with my librarian. I have many hobbies such as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:10 AM
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please seek psychological help.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:52 AM
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are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:25 AM
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“if she no like me talk about poo poo pee pee she no get big rock” unserious, caveman ass post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:09 AM
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makeup has been around for centuries dude. who tf cares if people wear it? y’all are so neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:43 AM
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so both are an issue and neither explained why Africa was mentioned initially
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:57 PM
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nope it was the religious prudes that would say i dressed like a slut or faggot and that i probably slept around with girls and guys. i mean they were right but i was more promiscuous and a total nerdy sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:02 PM
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so why did you do the invalidating of another’s suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:59 PM
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as someone who makes content as a side hustle, my fiancé helps film and isn’t interested in subscribing to other OFs nor watching porn on his own. he is 100% satisfied with cumming 2x and day and us going on vacations paid for in part with the money i made from filming him fuck me. i recognize not everyone wants this but it works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:57 PM
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care to answer my questions to further my understanding of your point in bringing up my motherland with 0 context to the discussion? because so far i get that you’re a non-black person painting Africa with a broad brush to deflect from someone’s personal trauma related to OP’s question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:51 PM
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female genital mutilation is huge there for similar misogynistic reasons. were those the female children you were referring to? what tribes of what countries specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:34 PM
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i mean ppl were rapping “i like big butts and i cannot lie” at the same time skinny chicks in movies were saying “i hope this dress doesn’t make my butt look fat”. taste has always been subjective. you seem more concerned with weight than the average person. me and my overweight friends work out 3x a week at least but most of us aren’t doing the whole calculating % and BMI thing just not being gluttons, upping our weights, steadily watching clothes fit looser. it may come across as excessive in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:57 PM
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i’m 23 and engaged and think i found an amazing man. but i’m also about to graduate and possibly move outta state for a job opportunity. i wouldn’t trade our relationship for the world but my single friends are hopping across the country without a care in the world. my parents taught me to prioritize my future so i won’t be giving up this opportunity but i love him and the distance will be hard because i’m a very physical person. we’re still discussing our options but this is all to say i get bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:41 PM
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anyone who didn’t like me dressing slutty and throwing ass on him in the club is unfit for me and my love of dancing and making my man hard in places he shouldn’t be. most of those red flags are why i’m his big tiddy goth gf…i have 5 tats and he has none ffs 💀 he’s not pilled tho and the rock on my hand suggests we are fit for the long term so idk…live and let live, i say. but i’m not surprised that conservatives wanna control others bodies and assign negative traits to self expression. that’s l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:21 PM
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yet you never called out his use of “women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:01 PM
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you made it very clear that what you see isn’t a reality for most people living today, no need to double down on the absurdity of that initial comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:08 PM
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some women hold deep insecurities about their looks and having a man willing to fuck you doesn’t remedy those issues. despite men claiming that it would help them. they’ve heard y’all say you’d fuck anyone. but also— a lot of men don’t say that. many men genuinely need a romantic connection to be sexual. they can’t perform well otherwise or aren’t as into it. casual sex for everyone. but when having casual sex women make it known when they just want sex and don’t catch feelings unless they are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:07 PM
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is this sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:34 PM
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how did basically saying “maybe after i die women i don’t find attractive will care about what i think of them and men will rise again” not feel so incredibly pathetic enough to deter you from hitting that reply button?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:30 PM
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this seems like such a non-issue. skinny women still exist and if you are fit yourself i don’t see how you would have problems attracting them. beauty is subjective obviously so even if more men are beginning to like thicc girls…how does that effect you? also bmi is mostly bullshit. you cannot tell someone’s bmi by looking at them nor is it an indicator of health if you have an hourglass and genetic curves (not fat but wide hips) at my skinniest (5’10, 190) i was “overweight” by the bmi chart be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:20 PM
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i definitely agree with a lot of this. other women made me feel awful about opening up about my sex life and slut shamed me. come to find out one of them is in a relationship with a man who hasn’t given her head in 6 years…she wants it but doesn’t ask anymore… i would slam my pussy lips in a car door before i ever stayed with a man who didn’t eat me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:56 AM
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because RP men advocate for pairing with virgins (who they also expect to simultaneously be slutty in bed) but then complain when they end up with starfishes who don’t know how to communicate their wants and needs or fake orgasms. they’re likely the type that doesn’t really care deep down if their woman orgasms or not cuz they prefer the type that doesn’t know better sex exists. i haven’t faked an orgasm since i was a teenager. i am with a man who gives a fuck…and great head. it’s very easy to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:43 AM
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that doesn’t change the meaning of the word, a lot of people choose to be hypocrites in an attempt to place themself on a higher pedestal than others. people like that suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:14 PM
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They’ve been greatly influenced by their dad’s misogyny. How unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:06 PM
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if you are a man with a high # and seek a woman with a low # and you talk down on women with a high # like you, you are the definition of a hypocrite. any justification of why it’s okay for a man but wrong for a woman is hypocritical and misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:09 AM
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The grown man upset about little girls seeing non-sexualized female superhero movies as if he was the target audience… of course believes he can speak on a woman’s intelligence. The jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:52 AM
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But we see men like that in relationships as long as overly nice doesn’t mean doormat, emotional vulnerable and emotionally intelligent as well, an as for 5’5 a handsome face can get you far but the average male is not under 5’5. I’ve dated a man that was 5’5 and I’m 5’10. Cultural conditioning determines the height example the most. But still people subvert cultural conditioning all the time. Y’all act like you never see short, fat, or conventionally ugly people in relationships. I think what h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:23 PM
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It’s cultural conditioning to think a lesbo threesome is any less serious than a woman with two men. Sure you can’t control your lack of consistency in logic. But it’s also extremely predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:04 PM
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They’re for children. Are you a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:02 PM
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I’m 23 and haven’t used high school as an example of anything in my adult life since I graduated at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:00 PM
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if all you talk about is being a virgin, i’m not gonna assume virginity is the character defect but a symptom of a social ineptitude, lack of self esteem, and potential other character defects. i have a friend that lost her virginity last year but she was also funny and intelligent and her virginity wasn’t a hinderance to her life. nobody cared and only her closest friends knew. the guy she lost it too didn’t even know. incels just bring it up constantly. that already exists. career programs exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:37 AM
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men don’t give af about other men any more than they claim women don’t, a thread:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:28 AM
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daily household chores vs killer lawn work, fighting off bad guys, and daily car negotiations? what dimension do you live in???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:22 AM
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We’re talking about women and you brought up high school girls… How old are you? People grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:12 AM
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Yes because you shouldn’t be a grown man emulating a fictional character to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:10 AM
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So you shouldn’t ever talk down on women for “poor vetting” because by your own admission she trusted you to lay with because you lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:03 AM
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Till they crack a smile…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:31 AM
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that’s the exact opposite of what intersectional feminism is in fact it was initially made to call out the disparity amongst WOC in feminist spaces. you don’t have a good understanding of the activism you oppose. you’re calling the literal definition “BS”. okay and the majority were made by men including the sexualization of women and catered to young boys. i went to a comic book store as a little girl and i was asked if i was looking for a comic for my little brother…you know full well they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:24 AM
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cite anything you have claimed. When did Mary Koss say those words exactly? She’s done a lot of good for the overwhelming majority of rape and DV victims, women. as a feminist (not an intersectional one) she fought for women first and foremost. feminist also fought for men to be included in the definition of rape to include men: https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/feminism-rape/ DV shelters are cut ALL the time. if fewer men reach out for help then ofc there won’t be as many services for them. MO…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:19 AM
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The people of Sweden would highly disagree, as they lobbied for it and got it for a reason. They expected benefits and reap them now. And the statistics of parents in poverty would disagree too. Most people date/marry within their social class. Women get money now too lmao. Still lots of families live paycheck to paycheck. It isn’t rocket science to determine why childless couples don’t want that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:10 AM
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bruh… i’m a black woman. i’m an intersectional feminist because of the whitewashed history of feminism. no intersectional feminist is supporting classism or racism… every intersectional feminist says that women can uphold it to. we aren’t as clueless as you believe us to be. that isn’t a “morphing it into” convenience…that’s nuance. male AND female superheroes were made by men and catered to young boys only. literally look at the Avenger’s movie release poster. they attempted to show off Black W…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:06 AM
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Dude what both men and women looksmaxx. Insecure women don’t get suddenly cured of insecurity when men want to fuck them. Because according to y’all, you’d fuck anything. Which is gross and dehumanizing to men tbh. But yeah why wouldn’t you wanna better yourself to improve your chances of finding a mate? You could also just find someone who doesn’t give asf about some of those things. Y’all seem to want to attract shallow women. Just having a pussy doesn’t get women good partners. And people don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:38 AM
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then where are your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:30 AM
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So instead maybe you all should just want not need each other, right? Why must men be socially and politically or systemically needed? Why do women need to be at a systemic disadvantage for these men to feel they have a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:27 AM
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Bruh people are still people. Heterosexuals still like the opposite sex. People simply still want to. At large most people aren’t single and alone forever. This is such hopeless, insecure, and catostrophic thinking. Why does it bother you that obese people are in relationships? Or prostitutes? Or people you consider ugly? So what if they would be “considered undesirable in olden days”? Not being attractive to you doesn’t mean they’re unworthy of love or at least basic human decency. No one is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:22 AM
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feminists aren’t against parental testing lmao individual women are, because it is shitty to mention only after you have children and never beforehand. but hey, petition a court and they’ll likely grant it to you. paper abortion? surrender your rights to the child and courts will likely grant it to you. yes it makes you a “deadbeat” in the eyes of many. that isn’t a feminist’s fault. parents who abandon their children are considered deadbeats. aborting a clump of cells akin to parasite in your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:55 AM
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no one is fighting to shut down male DV centers. they usually close due to lack of men reaching out leading to lack of funding. they must reach a quota of dependents in order to maintain funding, as with female DV centers. men don’t reach out due to shame and embarrassment instilled in them by patriarchal concepts or women being too weak to abuse, crying and being vulnerable is weakness, needing help is weakness, etc any argument against shared custody is typically in response to DV. no one is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:40 AM
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i think it goes without saying a woman in her 20s will typically date a man in his 20s. within a 2-5 year gap at most on average. even dating early 30s is a stretch. it’s not the age difference it’s the stage difference. i remember being 20 (23 now) and sought after by 30+ yr olds who imo…looked it. they weren’t ugly but looked older. and it felt like they were always trying to mentor me. i fucked a few. i did not consider bringing them home to my parents who would’ve been alarmed as to what he …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:19 AM
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you’ve pointed out issues of classism and racism in which intersectional feminists also fight against. patriarchy is the people who uphold its fault. mostly men but many women too. no one’s saying men are worth less than women, policies haven’t ever reflected that belief unlike in the past with women. you can mention the military draft but y’all said men are stronger. so strong that you don’t need to feel emotions or be open about them. so many of y’all hold these beliefs that they’re causing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:05 AM
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So feminists fight for reproductive rights, maternity/paternity leave, an end to gender based violence, funding for domestic violence shelters, an end to patriarchal concepts that conditions men to ignore their mental health problems and lack emotional intelligence and MRAs fight…feminists? Guarantee that all of the solutions to these problems they don’t believe to be directly caused by the patriarchy were derived from feminist texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:02 AM
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What do MRAs even fight for? Most of their real issues are a symptom of the patriarchy that impacts men negatively too. Male feminists realize this and seek to dismantle the patriarchy. Last thread I saw in a MRA sub they were complaining about how comics should’ve been allowed to be catered to men because “woke female superhero movies suck”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:25 PM
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i don’t think it’s a biological predisposition. it’s the cultural conditioning. that makes the ways both sexes operate in the world so different and seem so foreign from one another. but realistically many straight women and men have experimented or thought of experimenting. it’s just more socially acceptable to be a woman who does it because men like to sexualize lesbians and the female body. whereas bi women/lesbians have profound connections outside of the social conditioning of the patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:21 PM
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i just think it’s wayyyy fewer than they try to portray like seriously slim to none of especially women in their 20s, who they typically speak of going after. maybe women in their 30s are more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:48 PM
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yet they still work because we all must work to survive. just like single women. we pay taxes for things that don’t benefit us all the time. if these single men are broke they have access to some assistance thanks to taxes. if our country wants to address this decline in childbearing we have to do in ways that have worked for other countries like Sweden. if not, having a child in this economy is proven to be a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:07 PM
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you didn’t need to further breakdown the point i already made as it was very obvious and at 23 i still have enough life experience to recognize hypocritical men like you and y’all’s m.o.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:03 PM
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it’s probably easier to manipulate and impress lower body count women so having a high body count as a man and seeking lower probably means your sex game is weak and you don’t have many return visitors so the next poor lower count gal who doesn’t know what to expect won’t be as disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:29 PM
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I had a guy propose to me after sex too LMAO like the second date. Absolutely bonkers that this trope gets pushed on women cause me and my friends have some stories 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:24 PM
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nah dude most people don’t give af about body counts because they too have had sex and aren’t hypocrites. if you have a low body count and want low it’s understandable. otherwise it’s hypocritical and delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:03 AM
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I like the way you think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:01 AM
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Lmao predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:59 AM
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every other developed country seems to disagree. the US is the only developed country where paid maternity/paternity leave isn’t mandated. also btw, men are parents too and in many countries can take this leave to spend time with their children as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:38 AM
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i have seen it since i’ve been on the internet at 12 and i’m 23…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:34 AM
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the whole point is to not call it roast beef 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:32 AM
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Yet the majority of fat, average height, middle class or poor america isn’t single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 AM
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It’s not a purely woman thing at all. More guys I hooked up with wanted a relationship than vice versa but the ones that I did get emotionally attached too I did so because they lead me to believe they wanted a relationship and it took a couple times of that happening to learn that it was BS and some dudes lie to get in your pants. I didn’t do that to the men that wanted me to be their GF after we fucked in fact I made it very clear it was just sex and that we could be friendly but I still wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 AM
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I think it’s a risky way to to discover what you like/dislike and learn the hard way how some men and women operate. It killed my naivety but at times made me jaded. It was fun and thrilling and allowed me to discover sensations I liked to feel vs ones I didn’t. I learned how to communicate what I needed and to not allow my (male) partner to be the only one who came. I think I put up with less BS now because I was put through some bs then. I can see through the lovebombing because I got love-bom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:16 AM
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And yet we hear daily about shitty things celebs have done and they still get exposed because at the end of the day they are still people and some people are shitty and money/fame heightens their entitlement to be that way, causing their guards to lower and thus the public finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:29 AM
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same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:28 AM
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nah i’m saying the fat poor ppl he complains about are typically in relationships, meanwhile he specifically, isn’t. the non-fat “decent” women are not scare they just don’t seem to want him and opt for other dudes for other very obvious reasons. yeah america is fatter. but america is also at large (no pun intended), not making claims such as his and not struggling to partner up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:25 AM
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that won’t exist unless you are abusive and your partner fears you. or you are a pedo dating a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:19 AM
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most of america is fat and in relationships. they just don’t give nearly as many fucks as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:14 AM
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Based on their words I responded, that’s how debate works. It’s a pretty reasonable conclusion to come to when someone is claiming to be nice that if they say what I quoted, they aren’t nice or empathetic at all. I didn’t feel judged I felt annoyed for engaging a conversation based on your projections. You should get those in check before attempting to judge anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:25 PM
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The upvotes and other replies spoke for themselves. You still refuted nothing just made a bunch of baseless claims after derailing the conversation in an attempt to attack my intelligence for no reason other then what I presume to be insecurity. No secure person arguing in good faith comes into the thread role playing a teacher and making attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:22 PM
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You came in the conversation with “status” and “grade” and insults to my intelligence for your own failure to read the entire discussion and see what OP said. Your role-play has done nothing to further any conversation. The only one confused here is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:18 PM
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Everyone else understood it except for you. Ask questions if you must to further your understanding instead of projecting your confusion onto my intelligence and role playing as a teacher. Contribute something in good faith or get blocked. My patience for your whining is thinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:14 PM
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You claim to be the arbiter of meaningful discussions while contributing nothing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:09 PM
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Read slower and project less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:07 PM
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It doesn’t serve anyone to be a doormat. I was a doormat when I lacked confidence and ended up accepting negative treatment from romantic and platonic partners. Women were conditioned to be more polite and there has been decades of pushback by feminists for that reason. Nobody likes a doormat except people who wish to take advantage of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:07 PM
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Everyone can afford to have some standards and self esteem within reason and realism. It does not service anyone to be a doormat. It doesn’t attract people and makes you grow bitter which further repels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:04 PM
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OP commented that though and that is objectively the opposite of empathy and kindness. Engaging in bad faith and insulting my intelligence with no basis and lack of context of my comment, grade: A
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:02 PM
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And my assertion is most people’s definition isn’t cartoonish. You’re giving “hints” and saying a lot of nothing at this point. Explain your point or stop half-ass engaging in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:00 PM
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you said “most people have a cartoonish idea of kindness in practice”. i argued we do not and you’re conflating kindness with doormat personalities. caught up now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:45 PM
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No I read what you said and determined your definition of “actually kind” is actually a doormat. Judging by the fact you called it cartoonish and no normal interaction I have with a kind person has ever been characterized as such. It’s seems you’re the only one with preconceived notions about how this conversation was supposed to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:36 PM
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I’m glad you can acknowledge it and wish to do better. There’s nothing wrong with standards and good self esteem but entitlement disguised as “niceness” is icky and people will pick up in it. Look into the difference between “nice” and kind. They are mistaken as synonymous but kindness is genuine with firmness and niceness is more ingenious politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:31 PM
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Yeah but a small penis is unlikely to satisfy anyone with penetrative sex alone because girth and length play a role in reaching the G-Spot. No matter the size of a vaginal canal, that is virtually in the same place in every woman. I’m sure you’re aware one is more commonly an issue than the other. Vaginas loosen after stimulation, base tightness varies as well as size. Still a small penis cannot physically reach stimulation areas. No fault of his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:21 PM
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Sure man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:00 PM
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Well if someone has a below average penis in length and girth it’s gonna be hard to satisfy the majority of vaginas with just penetrative sex alone. It’s not their “fault” as they can’t control their size. I’m sure the average vagina won’t satisfy them either if they’re terribly small because it won’t have the tightness necessary to grip a small penis. But penetrative sex isn’t the end all be all of satisfaction. And sex can go wrong for a number of reasons, most common being lack of appropriate…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:57 PM
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No we likely call that a doormat personality which is unattractive. I’ve seen real kindness in practice. I’ve also seen “nice guys” being doormats to anyone and lacking the confidence to stand up for themselves, making their “niceness” futile in attracting people. I also been the doormat before I developed better self esteem. And lastly I’ve seen people who feign “nice” to reel you in but you come to find out it’s just a shield for their entitlement. And I find it very difficult to imagine someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:53 PM
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Where was fault being assigned?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:41 PM
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A genuinely kind, empathetic person, would never see abuse victims and think “see women love abuse! they stayed because they love it!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:27 PM
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in professional porn they push a certain type mainly and even you admitted that in another comment, you just wrongly attributed it to “natural preference”. your excessive porn use doesn’t trump having an actual vagina and experiencing bigotry nor does it trump my work in advocating for young women who’ve undergone female genital mutilation due to misinformation of large labias because undesirable and dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:53 AM
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considering you called my argument a “lecture”, didn’t acknowledge any point, and cited your excessive porn use as a better source than my entire life spent having a vagina and my experience aligning with OPs along with reasoning— you never attempted to hear me out and have demonstrated nothing but bad faith yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:41 AM
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culture and conditioning as well as lack of education of anatomy . the ideal body type is different for different cultures but labia size is so stigmatized and taboo that some cultures literally mutilate young women and girls in order to maintain a “pure” look . FGM is a huge issue in many african and asian continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:37 AM
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no one made you engage with me just to argue in bad faith. you could’ve just kept quiet and do what you do best— jerk off. but your porn addiction doesn’t make you an expert on the harm porn has on young women and unrealistic body expectations. nor feminine insecurity since you do not have a vagina and do not even realize that porn stars have gotten labiaplasty because a certain “look” is popularized as “perfect”. it’s nicknamed the Barbie pussy plastic surgery for a reason. it’s one that most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:32 AM
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no there’s really not. there’s a very obvious “porn pussy” that is considered desirable and the norm and it’s exactly what I and OP address. porn and excess porn use of previous shitty partners is the usual cause of these type of insecurities many women have. you may feel that way because you don’t actually have a vagina and haven’t been exposed to the expectations porn places on normal women with big labias. most popular porn stars have gotten plastic surgery to reduce their labia size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:02 AM
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do you pay the escorts extra to be subjected to shitty jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:58 AM
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In the black community, college educated women outnumber college educated men. This is true in my relationship but he works hard and provides in many ways including financially as I finish out my degree. He doesn’t come from as much money as I do and is working to get different certifications at least and may eventually go to a 4-year. He is well spoken and reads a lot so I don’t notice any intellectual differences and I get to flex my English minor whenever he needs me to define an uncommon wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:54 AM
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It’s a very obvious sign of a man who watches too much porn and has little if any real world experience with vaginas. I have a fat ma with big labia and I remember hearing the “roast beef” jokes as a teen and being very insecure but IRL i’ve never struggled with getting my pussy eaten and the one time I ended up with a man that doesn’t, I kicked him to the curb quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:44 AM
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lol and is what you’re doing right now not considered a meltdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:17 AM
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so what what your point of arguing? you made it a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:49 AM
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this post was made by a man to turn into a circle-jerking sesh. OPs comment history proves they are not a woman so idk why admins have allowed this post to remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:07 AM
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I slept with my simps if they were attractive lol women love attractive simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:18 PM
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men tend to be simple minded and diminish issues as petty when they in fact are dealbreakers for a lot if women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:02 PM
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he referred to his gf as “pussy” said he’d be completely fine without her because that’s all he requires and doesn’t understand the value of friendships. sociopathy isn’t normal and is a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:06 PM
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you come across like a sociopath and i pray your girlfriend goes through your phone or you slip up and your mask of decency falls and she runs away before it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:10 PM
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it’s hard to empathize with men who willingly participate in a subculture that has to be qualified with the things you’re attempting to qualify it with such as “not all being misogynistic” and “not all like that due to rejection” because that’s the overwhelming representation ppl come across in these PP, and RP spaces. the subculture has also had members go on to kill after being in so deep in their teachings. if you’re a genuine guy who just can’t find a GF or have bad experience with women, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:04 PM
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this is so unrealistic lmao. she’s white and emo looking and has huge breasts. she would never have struggled and women who look like her don’t struggle to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:27 PM
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there’s not one instance of women mass killing men they deem ugly. more than a handful of incels killing women for being rejected. i don’t call it vile because predation is worse than rejection and that’s what she experienced to bring her to this point. i’ll call it dumb and generalizations for her not articulation those feelings well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:18 PM
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Tell that to the commenters who completely ignored that but instead of debating them, you’re agreeing with them and coming at me. Also source for the countdown, since you and many others claim its BS and that predation is “praising”: https://medium.com/@lostinthepagesofhistory/their-was-also-a-countdown-for-billie-eilishs-18th-birthday-b0f560cce8ac
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:11 PM
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also how is it made up? all you have to do is google “billie ellish countdown til 18” one older commenter said me. did the same thing with the olsen twins. source: https://medium.com/@lostinthepagesofhistory/their-was-also-a-countdown-for-billie-eilishs-18th-birthday-b0f560cce8ac
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:10 PM
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that stereotype of attractive women dating ugly dudes who end up going on a power trip and being assholes after dating a hot woman has existed way before billie ellish said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:08 PM
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Look it up, it was all over this site and others. I’m not gonna hold your hand and guide you to soeces when you’re probably arguing in bad faith anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:06 PM
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I’m too young to remember that but that’s even wilder to me cuz people literally saw them since they were infants. Shit like that makes me hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:05 PM
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I said y’all are jaded for LESS. y’all were not preyed upon and picked apart at a mass public scale. most of y’all were simply rejected or looked over and are still jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:04 PM
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nice circle-jerking. read the rules. and don’t @ me weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:03 PM
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Where did I blame teenage boys? Those were grown men making that countdown. Tens of thousands of them. She’s a victim of mass scale predation, so of course she’s gonna be jaded towards men. But she’s also young and dumb and didn’t fully articulate her feelings and came across as generalizing. But if men had treated me like they treated her on a MASS PUBLIC scale, shit, I would’ve said worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:02 PM
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Nah they might’ve not seen it honestly. They haven’t approached me in bad faith and when I pointed it out or said I was taken they were either apologetic or said my fiancés lucky. I consider that decent in comparison to some men who approached me when I was single and got angry after I rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:00 PM
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It’s completely understandable why she would feel this way when she’s been sexualized since being a child. There was a countdown clock on this very site as well as many others that tens of thousands of men participated in that was the day she turned 17 until she was 18. A dude in here just said that objectification and predation was “praising” her. They’re disconnected because in their minds “at least she’s getting laid.” Most attractive women literally just wanna be left alone lmao. She boiled …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:59 AM
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They really didn’t at large at all not like with her. You think objectification of a barely legal teenager is “praising”? That’s still judgment. She literally said how disgusted it made her feel and rightfully so. And hurt people hurt people, it’s not right, but it’s true. A young adult traumatized by older men is justifiably hurt and jaded. Men here are jaded for less. You’re so jaded that one celebrities dumb statement becomes the blueprint for what all women believe. The cycle continues and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:49 AM
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Men literally made a countdown clock for the day she turned 18. And proceeded to judge her body harshly the second she stopped wearing baggy clothes. She has a reason to be slightly jaded towards men. That was disgusting. She’s also still just young and dumb and a sheltered rich kid so she’s echoing what she knows. I wouldn’t judge unless she was 30+ still saying shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:11 AM
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I feel like the biggest “danger” for any well adapted, charismatic dude who decides to cold approach is the fact that the girl may be in a relationship. I’ve been cold approached by dudes that were actually charming and didn’t creep me out. Dudes who I wouldn’t normally have been attracted to who said sweet compliments or asked for my number but I’m in a relationship so I politely declined. A lot of cold approaches are unsuccessful because there’s no way of knowing. Even with my engagement ring …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:46 AM
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And so as long as that’s not something you want, you’re good. You’re gonna have to be the standard you hope to attract though. If you don’t want a more traditional woman then fine. But don’t expect to get one if you’re not fulfilling your role at all. Cuz some women hold traditional beliefs. I do when it comes to dating and so does my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah if I told my BF how I got called entitled in this thread for him offering to pay for my gas and pumping it all the time he’d deadass be like “But I like doing that.” They’re acting like I forced these dudes to pay. they could’ve gone out with a 50/50 girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:47 PM
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I don’t know how their ratings and sexual encounters translates to her knowing he’s a POS. perhaps because he slept with her, she assumed he shared the attraction. I fell for bad guys as a late teen because they were charming and expressed interest only to later realize they were POS and that you could never make a man commit to you if he doesn’t want to. So I stopped letting them waste my time. Most mature, stable, humans learn from past mistakes. Not keep making them cuz the other person is ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:45 PM
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I made fetish porn for fetishes the general public doesn’t have. Moreso as an outlet for my own fetish that I realized I could get paid for, not my main job anymore. I think moderation is key and it’s a slippery slope for sure but that’s up to the individual. I may have taken part but I don’t know for sure if that’s true because I’m not making the ultra-hot, supermodel, unrealistic moans, highly produced and fantasy based unrealistic scenario porn. I made a lot of scenes with my BF and sexual en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:39 PM
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I have a car now but when I didn’t I’d walk or buy my own ubers. Or one of my many friends would pick me up. I feel like that’s a very obvious answer. Do you think I’d only go outside when dating? I have a social life and I have to eat… I just don’t expect to pay for anything on first dates so I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:26 PM
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With you specifically? Idk. Self pity, self deprecation, whining about women, lack of confidence, it’s all very unattractive and i’m sure it seeps into your personality irl and turns some off. With others, yes. My widowed mom is dating at 57 and having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:19 PM
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I’m not your therapist. This is not a conversation I will engage in because you clearly have made up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:06 PM
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You are the one fucking yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:05 PM
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I wouldn’t have gone on a date that wasn’t paid for. He could pick me up without sending a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:04 PM
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And I’m telling you from experience, yes. Yes they will be as damaged by it. Relationships are ruined by it. Sex is impossible with a gummy worm. It’s unattractive to need to put on a video to get it up. THAT is what little experience leading to excessive porn use does. If it does that to men who ARE attractive. It’ll do worse to men who aren’t. All men do not watch porn. My BF who battled with this addiction before we were official got help and can now go multiple rounds and doesn’t need meds. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:39 AM
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this will get downvoted off because y’all hate exceptions to “rules” but i’ve had sexual partners who when we began to talk more and their personalities were so lacking it killed the attraction and i cut it off. i matched with dudes on tinder who said blatantly objectifying shit so i unmatched them. i also had a bf who my friends believed (and told me after we broke up) that he was ugly asf. fat dude, tall but still big gut, bowl cut, hook nose, conventionally unattractive. i knew he wasn’t hot …
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:32 AM
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there’s a 6’3 dude in my old friend group who idk if he’s autistic or what but he’s off putting and is 26 and yet to have a LTR nor over 4 sexual partners . one girl i know who slept with him said he couldn’t keep it up which i expect is a porn-addiction. it’s just weird cuz he’s attractive physically but can’t hold down a stable job and his personality is lacking so he’s definitely an example of this.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 09:22 AM
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LOL. You don’t understand how porn addiction works. Nor relationships. It is always eventually found out either in bed or in the constant sneaking around. I dated a man with a huge dick who was attractive and had PIED: porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Which eventually happens to all porn addicts. You can’t get it up unless you watch the porn you’ve trained your dopamine receptors to respond to. He was literally a waste of a hot body and dick. If it can happen to him it’ll definitely happen to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:09 AM
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Reasoning isn’t justification. I know why it happens. Addiction and unhealthy eating aren’t good things you should seek to justify. And one is even more controllable in the short term. Practice self control and delayed gratification for your mental and physical health’s sake. You can’t immediate change your finances. You can decide to not death grip your dick to fantasies nonstop. You can put that energy into maximizing your potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:04 AM
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There was never an argument because none of this influences the average normal individual in any way. This is your straw-man attempt to use percentages to fit your narrative when they matter so little in the grand scheme of things that I cannot continue to engage further. Commit crimes as you please if being a “nice computer nerd” isn’t getting you laid. Come back when you’re released and give your results. 👍🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:53 AM
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doesn’t justify it becoming an addiction that ruins their future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:48 AM
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Yet you completely skipped over the actual statistics on virgins. There just aren’t that many of y’all and frankly of the few that there are, you don’t seem to be as “nice” as you believe yourself to be. Nor do you put in any effort. It’s easier to blame women for “wanting criminal traits” then to admit that these beliefs you hold manifest themselves in your personality and it is off-putting to women and not “nice” at all. If you want the crazy women who want criminals, if that is the hill you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:42 AM
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he had us in the first half
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:37 AM
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My 83 year old grandmother retired in 2000 after working as a research scientist for NIEHS. She has a masters in Chemistry and Mathematics. You are spewing complete and utter BS about women over 40 not expecting an education.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:29 AM
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we were 15 so like $0?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:20 AM
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ohh bless your heart. if you like it i love it! i’m sure there are many more men on this sub specifically who would want to be in his shoes rather than my boyfriends shoes because i expect wayyy more than that lmao. more proof that there is someone for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:17 AM
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The average guy who can move around his state freely and physically fuck a woman if he puts in some effort will be not be less successful than the guy behind bars surrounded by other men… Y’all aren’t even bringing up any “sad nice guy” statistics because they don’t exist and you’re just using this statistic to strawman and say “women like bad boys not nice guys wahhh” . The average man isn’t even a virgin only like 15% of men between the ages of 19-24 are and less than 6% above the age 25. I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:08 AM
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I put tons of effort into getting approached for dates. I looked good, approached men for conversations. The men who did the approaching for actual dates put more effort as they should’ve. I didn’t have a car and they either did and/or had more money than me. I dated dudes from my college who I’d meet up with and we’d take an uber together that he paid for. The person who asks, pays. I’m also in college and was living in a dorm at the time so they would just pick me up at the quad lawn, not a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:53 AM
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This may be unfair to say but men with mommy issues are much more dangerous than men with daddy issues. Neither can control it initially but the ways they let it effect them differ. Men with mommy issues tend to dislike women more and have a general anger towards all women. They were never around feminine energy and won’t make an effort to understand your feelings because they don’t see them as important. Dudes with daddy issues who grew up loving their mom for what how hard she worked tend to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:47 AM
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You don’t have to assume I’m a woman, my flair says I am. That is factual unlike your made up fat ugly slob data that was written to support your claim in a way that doesn’t align with reality. In reality there is a documented phenomenon called the halo effect in which attractive people are seen as good people automatically. It’s fucked up but it happens with normal attractive people. This may apply here if it weren’t so rare and looked down upon to find a serial killer attractive due to the rec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:22 AM
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how does he express his gratitude? do you never receive gifts and he doesn’t take you out on dates? do any gender norms exist in your relationship? you don’t meet many happy sane women who are fine with paying for a man indefinitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:00 AM
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I’m 23F and did this for my 21M BF but I was unhappy because he didn’t lose his job, he quit without a plan in place. Granted his former place of employment sucked, so I got wanting to leave. I still had enough money to go out and he didn’t. So dates were few, he couldn’t keep up his appearance as much because he was stressed out by a situation he caused. I felt like it was unfair of him to change my expectations that he set me up to have and I told him if he didn’t find a job in 2-3 months time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:58 AM
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I definitely agree especially post-COVID because I was more socially awkward than I was before and it’s taken some time and making myself uncomfortable by going out even when I dread it to yield positive results and establish connections with people. I didn’t realize a lot of it is fear based. Most I’ve come across is the bitterness and anger and blaming of mainly women and jealousy of other men. Fear, I can empathize with. It’s the venom they spew that makes me feel like some of them deserve to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:34 AM
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I hate when they bring up dating app statistics because yes dating apps are inherently shallow. Duh? An image is all you have. And you can be attracted to someone as hate their personality once you meet which has happened. I did and yes I met my life partner with a shallow foundation but I did also swipe right on men who had interesting bios even if they were not my physical ideal. He luckily had both. Dating apps aren’t even how most couples meet, right? Most meet through friends. TRP and incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:24 AM
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To who?? A minuscule amount of batshit crazy women?? That’s who you want to appeal to?? And y’all tell women to pick better… Normal women do not claim these weirdos. I enjoy true crime to be informed and to stay alert. The majority of us have never once thought “man that real life serial killer sure is hot. I’d sure wanna date him over a normal upstanding citizen!” You are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:58 AM
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These type of posts are so dumb. No normal, mature, mentally sane woman is attracted to a serial killer. That is a highly judged, minuscule group of women who don’t at all represent the majority of women. When faced with an average upstanding citizen and a physically attractive criminal, no woman in her right mind would choose the latter. Don’t believe that? Alright, become a serial killer and report back on the amount of pussy you get. So confused on what response you want from this asinine ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:52 AM
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Do you think that a majority of women did that? A minority of mentally deranged women liked a mentally deranged man? Meanwhile me and literally everyone woman I’ve known my entire life would never want to interact with a serial killer. Plus there are men who seek out women in prison and vice versa. They don’t represent a majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:47 AM
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They offer to pick me up and I accept. Either ride with them or they pay to uber with me. Mind you this is before I had my own car. I drive everywhere now and my BF pays for and pumps my gas. He likes to provide. Many men do!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:42 AM
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If a woman have ever said either of those things to you I can only imagine what you did to make her feel that way. Those phrases aren’t common… Karens calling the cops on innocent people are entitled and often racist and obviously manipulative of narratives but “uncomfortable” isn’t even therapeutic language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:41 AM
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Guess you missed the first part of my response where this isn’t typically something you have to ask of a man if that’s your standard. I never had to and it wasn’t even my standard, I just didn’t have a car and wasn’t gonna spend on a date I was asked on. You can’t pick her up with your car? Even dudes without cars themselves were doing this for me and it wasn’t even something I asked for. If it’s an American thing it may be because we can’t walk/take the train everywhere. Passport bros can’t fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:37 AM
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Yeah its much less acceptable with age even for religious reasons. At that point meet your mate in your church. The general public is not that strictly religious in their mid 20s and up are not virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:15 AM
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Yeah it gives you an idea of who your partner is compatible with and what type of issues could arise in your relationship. I would be more put off if a man said “I don’t wanna talk about my ex” it makes me seem like there’s baggage there they haven’t worked through. If you have 0 exs I wonder, why am I your first relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:13 AM
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Men who make more than the woman will typically do these things without being asked. If you are pursuing her and asking her out I don’t see how that’s unreasonable? For most of my dating life I didn’t have a car and even when I dated a dude without a car he got in the uber, paid for it to pick me up/drop me off and would ride with me. Why’s that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:02 AM
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I agree in OPs original statement. Men in their 20s with little to no experience are typically porn addicts. If I could do it all over again I’d never give one of them a chance. Dating them is one of the absolute worse dating mistakes that a woman can make that will negatively impact her self esteem and ruin other men for you. It’ll take months-years of therapy to recover. I strongly urge single men to find other ways to occupy their time before it’s too late. PIED is very real and it’s a damn s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:49 AM
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Some yes, but nope, definitely not most. My fat friend would say at her heaviest complete strangers, all men, treated her like she wasn’t human. Women will at least be friends with fat women and smile at them. Men wouldn’t even hold the door open for her while walking in a store after looking at her right behind them and scowling, catcall insults at her, would laugh at her in public. I imagine a lot of fat dudes feel similarly about how women ignore them but at least for the most part they’re no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:27 PM
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Well this seems oddly specific. Sounds like you went on a date with someone who didn’t show a lot of interest in you and you probably dodged a bullet. Maybe she dodged a bullet in her eyes because a date revolving around drinking and watching Netflix and hooking up isn’t necessarily a relationship starter nor it is revolutionary. It can be if you’re extremely sexually and romantically compatible but you weren’t. I’ve been on excursions like this with fuck buddies... It’s okay to feel hurt by not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:10 PM
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I think a lot of women find those women ridiculous but not as predatory as they are which is a double standard. Men doing the same thing often immediately get labeled as predatory. I do think more men should truly support each other with these things but instead of calling out grooming they call out the fact that he’s with an older woman which is either “gross” or she’s a “milf” so it’s hot. And instead of calling the teachers pedo rapists they immediately question why the boy was complaining if…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:18 PM
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Do you say this about the unpicked lonely men or is that somehow all women’s fault for not giving them a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:07 PM
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When over 85% of murder and domestic violence is perpetrated by men it seems that violence is an inherently male issue. When the many mass shooters are 99% male and many express a gripe about women in their manifestos it seems like mass shooters are likely incels and incels are dangerous. I don’t see how women could safely benefit from giving these men the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:04 PM
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Other men uphold this too. You see stories of an attractive teacher assaulting a young male student and all the male commenters going “I wish she was my teacher” “He’s lucky”. I don’t think men take the sexual assault of other men serious. Women fought for “spousal “ rape to be defined and criminalized, men should fight to change the criminal definition of rape as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:57 PM
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Do you ever go outside and live or do you let statistics dictate your life? You literally tried to gaslight me and my experience because it didn’t fit your statistics. I shared my experience because it’s relevant. And suddenly when I say I can relate to you on the other side of it you “have it worse”. Do you realize how insufferable you begin to sound? So you don’t want empathy, you don’t want hope, what do you want? Cuz I see short men in relationships all the time. Dating app statistics aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:11 PM
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I don’t even have to see you to be turned off by the idea of a older man “immersed in youth culture” that comes across as…creepy… 💀 so it’s not simply aesthetics. Older men who date younger women aren’t exactly attractive either, they’re rich or in a position in power that she can benefit from. Sure the older dude I slept with was attractive but a LTR was off the table even then because we had so little in common in our day-to-day lives. It became more of a mentorship with benefits. I just feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:20 PM
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But I was in relationships with these men as well not just fucking. And here you go denying it’s real, god you short dudes and your lack of confidence and constant denial of women who literally find y’all attractive is what makes you unattractive. That’s the complex. Btw not denying a beauty standard exists, I suffered from it too as a tall woman. Men taller than me would pursuer girls shorter than me. So for a while I dated/fucked shorter men because of the mutual understanding we had being on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:12 PM
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Actually no because I had a fat ex that was pretty much to all my friends objectively ugly. He had a hook nose, stringy hair, and a big stomach and moobs. He was really tall though like 6’4 so he carried it like a football player despite being a huge nerd and we were into all the same hobbies so we vibed. He started off very nice and funny but turned out to just be too insecure in himself for our relationship to continue. It made him whiny and untrusting and unable to satisfy me anymore. That’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:06 PM
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to you it seems more likely that they made a deliberate effort to settle rather than being average and also finding average attractive? i just don’t buy that. women aren’t all delusional. i’m not even ugly but when i was single i knew that there were men who would never find me attractive enough for a LTR based solely on me being dark skin and tall for a woman. these men would often approach me sexually. i could acknowledge they look attractive in the same way i could a celebrity. without any wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:59 PM
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Ive explained countless times on this sub how I as a 5’10 woman have dated and fucked men ranging from 5’4-5’7 but I eventually get downvoted because my current partner is 6’3. Never mind years of history of dating and fucking men shorter than me. I truly think on this sub it’s less about the height and more of the complex y’all tend to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:49 PM
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I mean personally, I find my bf very attractive but as of late he’s put on more weight and that isn’t my preference. I like skinny dudes. But he’s so kind and caring and such a good man that I would never consider leaving him based off of his looks no longer being my preference. He’s attractive for the way he treats me. I’ll stay and encourage us both to be healthier and help by cooking for him whenever we’re together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:46 PM
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I think the cultural divide between older guys and younger women is way too much to consider them for a LTR unless it came with some extreme benefits such as the older guy being a sugar daddy type. Most girls my age (23) would rather date someone around our age who understands our humor, mannerisms, cultural relics. I would however consider a sugar daddy and have had an older man be my mentor before. I didn’t emotionally connect with him as much as guys my age because I felt I had to maintain be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:39 PM
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No I don’t fear rejection, that hasn’t really happened to me since I was a teenager. I’m also engaged. When I asked my bf in jest what he’d do if I proposed to him he laughed and said hell nah, that’s emasculating. I think it shows a lack of confidence and initiative which I find unattractive and would never wanna commit too. I have approached men when I was single but didn’t expect it to be anything serious, mainly sexual. In this economy we both will have to work and want to. And we aren’t pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:55 PM
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Don’t you feel like a loser when you say things like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:08 PM
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I wouldn’t be with a man with such low confidence in himself and our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:06 PM
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I would rather chew glass than propose to a man or ask him on a date but I don’t have a problem with the rest of those things. I believe a lot of women set themselves up for failure by taking a man’s initiative away by doing a lot of the traditionally male roles. Unless they like providing for a man, idk I just couldn’t see myself doing it and the men I have dated didn’t see it happening for us either. I have approached men I was interested in for just sex but I feel like relationships work bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:59 PM
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Isolating your partner is a textbook abusive tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:39 PM
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It wouldn’t serve me any good to be with a man with your political views. I wouldn’t want a relationship involving constant debates on our fundamental beliefs. Clearly some women agree with them and some don’t. Did you just discover compatibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:13 AM
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that does not happen lol as someone who reported sexual harassment they do not fire the dude no questions asked. i had to quit for my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:53 AM
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Me and my man initiate sex with each other 40/60. Although we both have a high libido, I like feeling “taken” and don’t initiate as often in the bedroom but I start messing with him in public and on the ride home knowing that when we get home he’ll be ready to take me after me teasing him all night. I’d initiate more if he was less easy lol. But I wouldn’t trade him for a lower libido man. Been there done that, completely incompatible. He stays hard for me so it doesn’t leave me room to have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:12 AM
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I was bullied severely as a child/pre-teen so I can empathize with people rejecting you. For a while I thought that’s all I would experience too. I severely had to better myself thru skin care, going to the gym, and changing my attitude or I honestly would’ve ended up being a femcel. I do feel like some men could seriously up their charisma, style, communication skills, and mental health either thru therapy or physical activity and yield better results because I’ve seen my male friends at their …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:42 AM
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“many” not all. reading comprehension is key
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:32 AM
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Did I say that or is that your bitter self-pity party projecting onto me? Cuz I quite literally said the opposite. Except for that, no, I don’t empathize with you bitter types.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:32 AM
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I know what it’s like to be sought after by men, creeped out by men, treated well by men, and terrified by men. I also have experience with different heights, sizes, and race of men. I also know what it’s like to have a successful relationship. Y’all bring nothing to the convo or the table except bitterness and internet access. Many men on here interact very little with women but I’ve interacted with many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:30 AM
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my thing is… do you ppl have NO friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:26 AM
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I am friends with people that are very communicative and honest. I am self aware and have analyzed my experiences with boys/men in the 23yrs I’ve been a girl/woman. Most smart women eventually do or the end up making the same mistakes. There’s value in actually learned experience because you cannot live online. Also it isn’t dishonest that women give fake numbers and make excuses because some men handle rejection so poorly they become violent. I’ve been cursed out for ignoring a man who was cat …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:37 PM
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I learn from the real world and my experiences with men but it’s not surprising you get most of your interactions with women from an online forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:20 PM
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I don’t deny that trauma might play a part in our kinks. But still with therapy and medication I can’t help what turns me on. I give consent to it. My partner enjoys pleasing me and our love and sex life is healthy, communicative, and fun. You can starfish on the bed if that’s all it takes to get you there but some people need more. Sexually compatible ppl find each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:17 PM
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You just wrote anti-feminist fanfiction that pertains to nothing I said and nothing feminist is about. “feminist standards of looks”?? Like if you’re ugly it’s not due to feminism. It’s actually no one’s fault and it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things. Not sure what this rant was supposed to contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:14 PM
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What’s a female-made thing you consume daily? The irony is you displayed 0 empathy or understanding of my comment. You didn’t offer anything of substance to disagree with me with. Just “nuh-uh that’s not true it’s actually women! 😠” Form an original thought and debate. I have empathy for dudes who feel depressed based on factors they can’t control and societal expectations. I don’t have empathy for lonely dudes that become bitter and project their insecurities into everyone. They are annoying. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:02 AM
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You triggered yourself 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:53 AM
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there’s no hate involved at all. nothing says i love you more than when husband treats you with the utmost love and care in the dining room then when wife asks, he can ravage me in the bedroom. more so than consent it’s about who introduces this dynamic to the bedroom. am i abusive of myself because i like when my man spanks/slaps me? can i not consent to what happens to my body?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:52 AM
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Literally exactly what you did. But you can check the viewership and comments and see I at least had anecdotal evidence: Your source was “trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:44 AM
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Yet the comments are all like “I’d love someone to do this to my wife” 💀 I don’t find incest fantasies normal, that’s more disturbing than anything. Yeah and even on extreme uncomfortable looking rough porn, women aren’t the ones commenting or viewing it most. CNC, like cucking is very taboo but one is obviously more popular. Millions on views definitely means something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:19 AM
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With the same “certainty” you have about mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:40 AM
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Yes it is. You all have this revenge fantasy against abuse victims and it’s so weird. People learn from their past and grow all the time. I for one will never be in a situation like I was again. I was naive and I know better now. Our fault for trusting what dudes say…but if we assume they’re all lying we’d be bitter like the dudes on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:21 AM
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Why would I accept something that isn’t my truth? I’ve been with short dudes mainly until my current partner. I’ve been tall since I was 14 and I’m 23. My best sexual partner outside of my man was a 5’4 dude with an average sized dick and excellent tongue. I was with the 5’5 guy for over a year. Things didn’t end because they were short lmao🙃you just wanna feel slighted so bad. Their height had nothing to do with it. You are wayyy too bitter. I already disproved your generalizations. Only thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:16 AM
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men take an ounce of accountability: deadbeat dad edition
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:07 AM
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They combined unbroken homes and single father homes lmao this sham ass statistic. Of course if you combine the two the real takeaway is two-parent homes are more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 08:00 AM
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CNC is not a majority women’s fetish lmao at all. I’ve mentioned it to a few women who were horrified by the thought. I’d argue the majority of straight women are pretty vanilla. I have this kink to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:46 AM
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Source? Porn viewership would show the opposite. Cuckold videos get millions of views. Rape fantasies don’t get as many and the majority of viewers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:41 AM
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The law shouldn’t be involved in two consenting adults bedrooms. Kinky couples don’t hate each other we just like really rough sex lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:41 AM
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My current bf is 6’3. But in my date night heels so am I almost lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:28 AM
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Those same women learned better and learned how to recognize the signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:42 AM
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Bro confusing power with mere compatibility. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:28 AM
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The majority of men I have slept with have been shorter than me (I’m 5’10) The last dude I slept with before my bf was 5’5. My last bf was 5’6. The shortest man i’ve slept with was 5’3.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:19 AM
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well 1 in 5 women are sexually assaulted so yeah it isn’t like we’re exactly happy to hold this sexual power while many men have a ego-fueled power trip
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:10 AM
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If you look physically fine then maybe your approach is aggressive, or desperate. Passport bros have an energy of desperation. You gotta be to feel that you can’t learn to compromise and find someone in your entire country full of millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:55 AM
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As a woman who was dating to find a partner I had to put effort into my appearance, defining my boundaries, and willingness for reasonable compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:51 AM
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What the hell even is a “western woman”? What are these expectations you have of women that are so high that you can’t find anyone on the entire western hemisphere of the earth? Most men aren’t fleeing the country and marrying young foreigners. Most men are ending up with women in their area, around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:41 AM
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This sentiment is true and part of the reason I’m a purple pill. There is nothing attractive about a lack of confidence and constant complaining. Tho sexually I may enjoy most of the control, in my life I don’t wanna feel like the dominant force while a man acts like a whiny baby who life is just happening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:37 AM
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I think part of the reason is that honestly, in varying intensity of the sentiment: many men don’t view women as people. They view women as a rating 1-10, solely superficial values which deny a person’s personhood. They are allowed preferences obviously but it teeters towards unrealistic standards due to objectification. They view women through the lens of (social)media standards, and theirs algorithms show them men only sharing their opinions and commentating on women. They hardly consume conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:31 AM
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One of them has been my best male friend for 9 years. We’ve literally cried in each others arms. He had insecurities following his bad breakup and worked through them and now has no problem with dating. You all have all these rules regarding men and women and actually project things onto complete strangers. I’m not friends with incels lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:33 PM
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My irl male friends don’t have these issues. They’ve all approached women in various scenarios and have either been successful or not. But never have they been accused of harassment. If you can’t even get to the point of approaching I can’t imagine how you might handle possible rejection. It literally just boils down to social cues and reading a room, complimenting innocently. I’ve had a man say he liked my anime shirt and how it matched my head wrap while I was in the grocery store and he gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:19 PM
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Its a good place if you’re a social person and have friends with you. My friend met her man at the bar and my other friend works security at a bar and he met a girl who he briefly dated there. Maybe it isn’t good for you. I’m not sure what would be because it seems you’re complaining because nothing has worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:55 PM
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You’re asking a bunch of bitter single dudes what constitutes as romance and of course they can only imagine the things they’d do for their imaginary gf, but not anything the other way around. They already have written all women off as self centered, They have 0 actual experience in romance. I also heavily doubt that most modern romance novels/movies are written by men as the genre has had a huge resurgence in the past decade by women writers. In my actual relationship cook meals that my bf like…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:43 PM
1

I love Mitski. You seem like a woman’s worse nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:22 AM
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Me and my BF compliment each other very well, he is like the male me in a lot of ways. Our family always says we both have similar weird quirks like attending comic conventions and bug festivals and knowing random facts. He also is my sexual counterpart. But I have BPD so in a lot of ways he’s more stable than me. I’ve dated other ppl with BPD and narcissists and I always needed someone more stable than me who can calm me down. The unhinged gf, calm bf trope is us to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:00 AM
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Red flags are the opposite of attractive traits my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:50 PM
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So have those better options worked for you? If so, great! Not sure what you’re whining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:48 PM
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Read slower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:39 PM
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Okay I’ll bite- how is anything I said abusive? Or are you just projecting male victimhood onto me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:30 PM
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I’m at multifaceted individual. I’ve been in a healthy relationship for 4 years. You can boil me down to a just a sex worker all you want but me and my bf still have something many of you claim is unattainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:29 PM
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I had an amazing partner with a smaller penis who gave the best oral ever. My current partner has an above average penis and gives pretty good oral too but there’s something about dudes with little dicks that know they don’t have much to offer down there so they will perfect their eating-out skills. I respect them more then men with little dïcks who think that’s all it’s gonna take to satisfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:37 AM
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huh? in what world would a woman be attracted to a dude with nothing going for him? is personal improvement a “beta” trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:14 AM
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Geez you really hate women huh? She said she enjoys sex with her good partner and you just came in here projecting 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:06 AM
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So you’re admitting your preferences don’t want you and you aren’t getting laid because women aren’t bringing their presence to you? Sounds like a you problem. Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:00 AM
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A 60 yr old man is likely to find a 60 year old woman attractive. My mom is 57 and widowed and very pretty and gets hit on very often when we go out together and is in the process of dating a few nice men. They’re always shocked to find out her age. The wall doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:46 AM
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I’m 23 and with my bf of 3yrs and we party all the time. Or I go out with my girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:39 AM
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that’s what’s readily available to most Americans. that still doesn’t negate the fact that said issues make significant weight loss much harder to achieve. the goal isn’t to be skinny but healthy and able to do things with as much ease as possible. body neutrality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:15 AM
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Thyroid issues are most common in African American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:28 AM
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That didn’t answer any of my questions. Presentation is everything. I think a kind-hearted 300lb women will find someone who accepts them and they don’t deserve you to feel “settled” for by a self proclaimed ugly hypocrite who doesn’t see he’s also being settled for. I can’t understand why you think women should feel bad for not settling for you despite your fweelings🥺 when you just did the same to a hypothetical unattractive woman. They can lose the weight but you seem to be so absorbed in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:04 AM
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Sure he’s an option to someone but not me because I don’t seem him as such. Have you fucked every woman you want to? I’d assume no. Then you aren’t that woman’s option. Sorry to burst that bubble but his willingness doesn’t trump mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:56 AM
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Good sex isn’t a chore. But if my man is lazy and not taking care of things around the house or initiating foreplay I don’t want it. I was getting upset about having to ask for things to be done and left without our usual morning sex because although he was hard and I’m attracted to him— lack of emotional support made sex at that time unappealing. I came home to my bf having folded my laundry and vacuumed my floor after a stressful day. We had great sex afterwards because he showed he listened a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:54 AM
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You know a man telling a woman that he’s an option to her despite her being completely uninterested is the definition of a delusional loser right? If I fucked every man that wanted to fuck me, I’d be barfing in my mouth constantly. I also will gladly accept a free drink at the bar and show gratitude verbally, doesn’t mean he’s a option either. A homeless dude sitting outside the grocery store this morning said I had a nice rack— he is not an option either. You saying wrong because you want to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:42 AM
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so you’re ugly and unrealistic? or women are mean because they don’t find you attractive? are you physically a monster, or do you just take bad pictures, not have a great sense of style, and wreak insecurity that is off-putting? do you have 0 friends that could introduce you to someone? i’m trying to see what brings men to the conclusion that they only care about looks but women should settle as well. you realize those women felt like they’d be settling for you. perhaps your think you deserve po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:33 AM
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I’m so genuinely curious, why do you believe you’ve been alone your entire adult life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:30 AM
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i quite literally see the exact opposite in my daily life. it’s usually fat dudes bullying fat women or lusting after pornstars and expecting them to reciprocate or see then as more than a wallet. i think it’s obvious men are more prone to be unattractive and shooting above their means with how much OF girls make monthly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:21 AM
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lack of personal hygiene. skin care routine, hair and beard maintenance. dirty home complaining for the sake of complaining. lacking initiative to change their situation. emotionally unintelligent and over-reactionary. lack of self-control social awkwardness and inability to read a room. contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:01 AM
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All men talk about is what they prefer but never about what they are actually getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:56 AM
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As a college senior and online SWer most of my SWer friends are in college currently or just using sex work to make extra cash. None of the ones I personally know are addicts. They aren’t using this profession to buy meth lmao they’re using it to buy cute clothes and pay their rent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:49 AM
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No one is saying the profession is empowering. The ability to make money off of a pretty body is a man-made phenomenon. It’s a fact that it can be life-changing for many women. Dudes shame OF girls all the time. They are typically the same ones who subscribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:46 AM
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I had lots of casual sex and I’m engaged to a great dude that provides for me. I had fun in college. He however, was attractive and charming enough to never need to pay for pussy. It would be unattractive to think that a man couldn’t be charming enough to make women want to sleep with him without him paying for it. That isn’t a suitable partner, it gives me the ick. He did indulge in porn but never physical meetups. If he paid for porn that would be different because I rather that than exploitat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:44 AM
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This may come as a shock- but for the average woman, wanting to be fucked by a man doesn’t make him an option. Yeah most guys want to have access to our bodies. So in order to get it you’re gonna have to bring more to the table than “hard and willing”. When women say we lack options we never mean men who are willing to fuck us. We mean men who view us as more than sexual object…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:31 AM
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do you not feel like a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:28 PM
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These incels really think men in relationships don’t ruin their lives all the time because of porn. I have a traumatic experience associated with a partner who had a porn addiction as well. They could literally look these things up and see countless horror stories of women who unfortunately end up with men like them but they rather deny the fact that it can become a serious issue which ironically is typically what a porn addict does in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:27 PM
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Lol have you seen my profile? I DO. I literally love kinky sex and have a high sex drive. That means nothing when you’re with a man with a crippling porn addiction. It’s grotesque how a man could watch porn of women who looked like me and prefer to jack off to it then fuck me. He knew he was fucked up when he had a gf into freaky sex and still needed porn. I can only imagine the hell that more vanilla women go through. Yet again, you men love to shift the blame back on women but you should just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:23 PM
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why don’t you just date unattractive women who have significantly less options such as yourself. i know unattractive women who are just fiending to be in a relationship but can’t find a man who will give them the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:02 PM
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I just said they were mid. They just dress well and care about their hair and skin and are charismatic. One girl I know has said she doesn’t find her man that visually attractive but he is so funny and charming he got her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:58 PM
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That’s on you. I met my fiancé on there because he was looking for a relationship and so was I. He read my bio throughly and put tons of effort into his own. If you have an unhealthy attachment style, the dating app didn’t make it worse, it’s how you used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:01 AM
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It’s not a minority when porn is the leading cause of ED. They literally advertise ED pills on national TV because that many men experience it. I also dated a normal attractive dude who was insufferable due to his porn addiction. He could have had irl sex whenever he wanted. It wasn’t extreme enough for him because you can’t get that highly personalized instant dopamine fix even with a real woman. Tons of women in relationships have had similar issues. Watching an attractive dude ruin a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:55 AM
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I’ve lied and said I was a virgin a few times just to see if a dude would call me out of my bs or actually fall for it and nearly all of them fell for it. Lol. You’ll never know a woman’s body count unless they choose to tell you. But i’m sure the high libido sex maniac was a virgin, bro 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:37 AM
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They way these men describe their unfortunate lack of dating/sex lives and encounters with women you’d think they look like actual inhuman monsters. I feel like 9/10 times they just need to get a better sense of style, embrace balding or have a good barber, develop a skincare routine, hit the gym and for the love of god limit their screen time especially porn. They aren’t realistic and lusting over the women that make them hate themselves is counterproductive. it’s not nearly as bad as they make…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:21 AM
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Or don’t. She’ll find dozens that will. We always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:03 PM
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Reading comprehension is key and no situation is black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:44 PM
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I have no problem with ALL men, just you predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:39 PM
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Her choice is influenced by her lack of life experience and naivety towards healthy balanced relationships and his is after living years past her, and experiences many aspects of life she hasn’t yet. There is a clear predator in this situation and just because she may consent doesn’t mean the pursuit wasn’t predatory in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:38 PM
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And there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:33 PM
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No but I bet you are, probably have the age of consent memorized .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:32 PM
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Is that the sentence you repeat to yourself while beating off in your car in your local high school parking lot as you countdown the days until your favorite eye candy turns 18? You owe women my age the moral obligation of leaving us the fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:28 PM
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I feel like you use this logic often to justify the despicable shit you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:23 PM
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I have no problem with old men in general, there are many people who I look up to that are respectable older men who have never attempted to pursue me or made me uncomfortable. I have a problem with old men that are predators that have preyed on me since I was 14 based off of similar principles you RP men follow. This isn’t age based discrimination, this is the reprimanding of perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:19 PM
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Yeah because I’m sure as they’re 30+ advocating for dating women 18-24 they’re thinking “No you’ve got it all wrong I’m just seeking the girls 15+ years younger than me who aren’t naive”. Don’t be a dunce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:15 PM
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For these RP men, probably. I’m a old woman in their eyes already lmao they like em freshly 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:12 PM
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So first it all was bs and now it’s “does advocate for younger but not that young” get your story straight. The problem is that the average emotional intelligence, financial stability, mentality and stage of life of that of a younger woman is drastically different from that of an older man and naturally can lead to an unhealthy power imbalance especially if the man was actively seeking someone younger in the first place. Huge red flag. She may choose and it may be fine but there’s something wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:11 PM
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Lol won’t be free forever, you’ll soon be past your prime as well and can join the the thousands of pathetic old men who lust after young women until they die alone. What a sad future your attraction yields you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:43 AM
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Yeah you’re so strong and alpha you have to prey on naive younger women to appear so. What a catch. Go ahead and make a Seeking Arrangement account now. All you predatory old men are good for is putting money into our pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:36 AM
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They’re the most attractive to you because you are as close to a pedophile as it gets while is legally acceptable yet morally grey. Your manipulative ways will catch up to you when you’re old and grey and and having to pay for the fake affection of younger women. And I will be in a healthy relationship with a normal emotionally intelligent man that acts his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:43 AM
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I’m literally 19. I’ve been preyed on by older men my entire life. You all make me sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:31 AM
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Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:30 AM
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Have you searched the word “prime” on The Red Pill sub? I’m not making this up, you are just denying it despite there being a plethora of evidence. You are a sheep who has succumbed to groupthink and lacks the ability critique yourself and the group you associate yourself with. You are beneath debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:58 AM
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If you feel it defames you to point out the truth then that is a reflection of your own character and the people you associate with. Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:51 AM
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There was literally no part of this that was trolling, I’m guessing you just use that word when someone disagrees with you. I’m having a completely serious conversation with you and you seem to lack the range and intelligence to provide any discourse of value. Moving past this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:49 AM
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Reading comprehension is a valuable skill everyone in this thread seems to lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:46 AM
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It isn’t bullshit and you cannot just call it that because you believe doing so negates my points. There is a very large amount of RP men that advocate for seeking out younger women, it is literally all over if you just simply search the words “age” or “prime”. That isn’t trolling. Those are the real beliefs of the predatory men that you associate yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:41 AM
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Why not? It’s a service like any other. You subscribe for music, why not porn? You guys attach such meaning to the most trivial things. If you want to see that specific woman naked, then buy her nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:30 AM
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I already mentioned that age gaps can be happenstance but that’s not at all what I’m addressing right now. I’m addressing the red-pill male advocacy of having a woman while she’s in her “prime” while being significantly older than her. You cannot tell me it doesn’t exist because they advocate for it in threads all the time, literally search the words “age” or “prime” on the sub. So know what you’re arguing against before you attempt to correct me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:26 AM
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Plenty of disgusting things have once been legal. Legally secure doesn’t mean morally right. I’m not a lesbian, bisexual actually and 19 and in a relationship with a normal man unlike you creeps. I can assure you, no sane girl my age wants to seriously marry and have children with a weird old man. You all are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:23 AM
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Actively seeking out extremely younger women who are in completely different stages of their lives emotionally, mentally, and financially from that of a middle aged man in order to turn them into co-dependent baby making machines while they’re in their “prime” is predatory as hell. Any man advocating for huge age gaps is suspect. There’s a reason why women your age don’t want you and you may think that the younger women may be too naive to figure that out but I promise you we aren’t. I’m a 19yr …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:19 AM
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It really isn’t new, it’s documented discrimination against an individual due to their age alone. And if it’s feminist bullshit to think that young women should not be preyed on by older men looking to turn them into co-dependent baby making machines, then I’m with it. Y’all are weird and there’s a reason why you’re all mostly single anyways. Young and old women alike see right through you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:13 AM
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Yeah you could’ve just typed out “I’m a predator” and saved you and me both some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:10 AM
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Predatory and ageist as fuck. Both you and OP are weirdos and so are the majority of you red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:32 AM
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Your relationship and age gap is just happenstance. These men are advocating for actively seeking out younger women. It’s predatory as hell whether they admit it or not, your example is not at all what they’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:07 AM
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Im bisexual and I’ve had threesomes with my 2 of my female friends and their boyfriends. (One of which her boyfriend was also one of my close friends) The first couple (my two friends L&C) and I have all fucked twice and it had mixed results. In their relationship, L the BF is more reserved and C the GF is more of the outgoing and flirty type. She’s also bisexual and has talked about thoughts of non-monogamy in their relationship. The threesomes while initially were fun and brought us all closer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:40 AM
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Lol you don’t know me. I promise you I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:00 AM
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I don’t have anything to prove to you reddit user BumblingBeta, I seriously do not care if you believe that I am not actually a woman lmao. Imagine putting in the time an effort to make an account with multiple posts and comment about my experiences just to be lying and for what? Literally what would I gain out of lying onto this subreddit about my identity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:16 PM
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I mean that’s much longer than I can really go into in a reddit comment but the short of it is: I developed early for my age, always had older men lusting after me. Developed a thing for strong older men. I have been sexually assaulted and raped and while it was obviously traumatic and still hurts to think about, somewhere deep in my psyche I sexualized it (to cope maybe? idk) and in turn that led to me developing a thing for being dominated and controlled and raped, often gravitating towards da…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:02 PM
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Literally what reason is there to lie? I’m not gonna sit here and argue with you about the dick size of a man that I fucked and you’ve never even met. I’m just gonna go fuck him and know I’m right lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:55 PM
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Lol now you just look jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:26 PM
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Lol yes? What is so unbelievable about that? They exist. Someone was bound to find one of them and I did. You look bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:40 PM
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I know what a 7 inch penis looks and feels like. He was NOT 7 inches lmao. I don’t know why you men think you know more about a penis that has been inside of me than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:33 PM
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That means that they exist and this man happens to be part of the small percent of the population that has a 10 inch penis. I’ll give it no smaller than 9 inches at least. Those of you insisting that he’s actually 7 inches and I’m apparently too stupid to know the size of a penis going inside of my vagina just look jealous at this point lmao. I have no reason to lie about his dick size like??? It was fucking massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:28 PM
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You guys are hilarious I promise you I am not posing as a 19 year old black girl lmao I just am. And yep I have made money selling content, and? Sorry that this demographic is so odd to you all that you believe I just must be fake but what would I have to gain from creating an entire account to lie about who I am and my experiences? Not sure what my post history had to do with this post but alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:24 PM
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If it makes you feel better I would give someone your height a chance as well. They all just happened to have big penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 04:21 PM
2

Haha possibly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:29 AM
1

It has to be at least 9 inches like we’re talking 2 hands and then more dick. Oh it’s absolutely killing me LMAO. I’m used to average so it’s definitely an adjustment but he’s been going easy on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:07 AM
5

This made me smile :) I’m glad that I’m starting to see more and more white men approaching black women and especially tall women like myself, definitely a good sign. Also yes, unfortunately I’ve heard so many wrong stereotypes about every possible factors when it comes to penis size. And from my personal and my colleagues experiences, many of these stereotypes have been proven false. I.e I know of plenty black men with below average penises and all of these short men were hung lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:44 AM
5

All your insults are coming from the wrongful assumption that I currently want anything more than amazing casual sex lmao. I’m 19, in college. We’re pretty much all fucking and dipping. And my sexual partners and I are equally satisfied with the status of our relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:38 AM
2

They don’t mind ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:32 AM
1

They were shorter than me which is a big thing in dating in America even from the female perspective. And they might be “average height” but honestly any guy 5’7 or shorter is lumped into the “short guys” category or at least not seen as being a tall person. Attractiveness was the base. I never said any of these men were unattractive in the face, the only factor that would be seen as “unattractive” in society was their height. Lol I don’t consider it some giant sacrifice or anything really in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 08:31 AM
6

I’m a woman into femdom myself (ass-eating, pegging, you name it) I don’t think it’s this gross or fucked up thing and I’m fairly attractive and only....moderately... mentally ill. I know a lot of women who are completely open to it as well. So I promise you we’re out here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:34 AM
7

Hey I never said I was rational lmao. Truth is I hit this height at an early age and got bullied a bit because of it and I guess it’s always just stuck in my mind that I’m too tall for a woman and I didn’t want to be with short men because they made my height stick out to me and those that saw us. I tried to make it clear in my post that me not dating or fucking them had nothing to do with them at all, just my own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:28 AM
-1

THIS. Especially the 10 inch guy. Shit looks like half his body lmao it’s delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:19 AM
3

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:17 AM
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I meant their dick sizes are unrelated to their height. There’s a wrong idea that I’ve heard from some people at least that short men have smaller dicks than taller men, and so far I have found that not to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:10 AM
2

It won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:02 AM
6

Who cares that you stopped? You cared enough to comment about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:00 AM
3

Hahah like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:36 AM
1

I shit you not I didn’t even know the average everyday man could have a penis that big lmao. It’s fucking huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:35 AM
6

Well yeah, obviously their height won’t really change much about them, their lives are pretty set in stone. But I did feel bad for rejecting even the attractive confident ones solely for their height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:34 AM
-2

You realize the chick at work and the club can be the same girl right? It can be appreciated and appropriate in one setting and not in the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:21 AM
10

I’ve always known I’ve liked to be dominated lmao. Also no not currently looking but sharing my findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:17 AM
2

I’m a 19yr old female college student and I get extra cash on the side through “e thottery” or whatever you may call it lol. I’m not gonna pretend like it’s insanely hard but it’s actually not as easy as someone would think either. It definitely isn’t anything I plan on doing for a while and it definitely couldn’t be my main source of income but it’s nice to have a pretty good amount of money to put into my savings and never even have to leave my room!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:08 AM
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