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OP, you missed an important part in your post: most movements for men are led by women. In 2020, black women were the ones giving speeches and were the most aggressive when it came to demanding change. Lesbians were the ones organizing awareness groups and teaching white gay men to how to fight back during the AIDS epidemic. Harlan County, USA is a movie about a group of coal miners fighting to build a union and guess which population were the ones consistently organizing the meetings and were t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:57 PM
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You know what's the craziest thing about this. He never considered asking Alice for writing tips or who she reads. This is an amazing opportunity to deepen the friendship or even improve his writing ability so he could one day publish. This is what good friends do. Hell, I think even strangers would still ask just out of interest. However, like the post above states, he doesn't see the "friends" in friends with benefits. He just uses the promise of a casual relationship to get easy sex and now h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:07 PM
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Dude outed himself. I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating on his wife and his inability to perform well in bed is because he's getting it from someone else. I don't think the wife is the problem because laughing during a sensual massage is a sign that someone is really comfortable with you. I think if the sex is within reason and you feel safe around your partner she wouldn't have a reason to say no. I really get the vibe that he's comparing her with someone else and he's trying to make do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 10:03 PM
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Someone needs to shine a light in her eyes so we can check if she's in the sunken place. Giving up everything you have worked for, isolating yourself from your friends and family, and having your family disown you (financially) only for that guy to fuck you over is trauma x 100. Obviously she's in arrested development and in her mind she and her boyfriend are living their fairy tail life in London. She's just finding the guy to fill that role. I think the real tragedy here is that a lot of women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:40 PM
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Abusers stick up for other abusers otherwise the people around them might get the wrong idea to leave them. I read a lot of stories on Reddit where someone tries to stop an obviously abusive situation and the abused came from an abusive family where they're trying to reproduce the dynamic for future generations. I wouldn't be surprise if OP's ex-husband got the idea from one of her relatives who has a bone to pick with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:19 PM
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Abuse is also a relevant word in the situation. Abusers love violating boundaries as a way of asserting dominance over their partner. They get extra points for gaslighting their SO when they finally get exposed because they can never be wrong. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:48 PM
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🤢 I have seen way too many videos on Tiktok of men stalking women or taking their photos. They're all scruffy and gross, and either cower in shame when exposed (like this guy) or get really aggressive and entitled. It's great that more women are recording these men and calling them out, it really documents the reality women have to deal with on a day to day basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:00 AM
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Oh wow, look at this, something I have some knowledge about. You will hear a lot of people saying that anime back in the 80s and 90s, while still flawed, are leagues better than the garbage being pandered today and they're right in saying this. Back in the day, people like Hayao Miyazaki and other well known directors/writers at the time (think of 20th century boys) didn't make anime their full-time job. They had other passions, other jobs, and other lives. Anime/manga was simply something they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:20 PM
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She wasn't crying because she "offended" at their jokes. She was crying because his friends openly stated their intentions and she felt her life was at risk. The reality is that most men hide their degeneracy under humor because it is easier to gaslight people when they caught on to your bullshit. From it sounds like, the wife was trying to be a cool girl and took on a lot more bullshit than she should have. Due to her error, the creeps thought they could get away with openly threatening rape (a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:34 AM
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I was about to say this. He goes out 2-3 times a week including weekends and working at his job, how much time does he spend with the daughter and help around the house? He talks about coming from a shitty household, what message is sending to his daughter by being this negligent and dismissive of his wife's concerns? She needs to do what that woman did in some other story posted here: lock herself in her room, play video games all day; see how he likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:57 AM
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Oof. I remember when I first started watching Grey's Anatomy and I saw Derek. I instantly hated him and I didn't know why. Now, I know. Meredith went from being an interesting, driven intern who was challenging who doctors approach their patients to someone who had to beg to get equal recognition on a groundbreaking research paper. Guess who tried to screw her over 😒?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:26 AM
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The good news is that their movement is having the opposite effect: it is alienating women altogether. Women can now read these online manosphere forums and see their ugly, disgusting thoughts about women. Dating tips that teach men how to emotionally manipulate women into sunmitting to unwanted sex on the first date (so, basically rape), how to be the "captain" in the relationship, how to get away with contributing nothing except abuse while the woman cooks, cleans, puts out, and financially pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:43 PM
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I see this all the time; the minute women start to speak up about their issues and you'll see an ocean of men crying about why their needs aren't being tended towards first. They see any attempt by women to assert their value in the world as alienation because 1) our plans don't require men to be successful and 2) their opinions shouldn't sway the outcome, our liberation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:08 AM
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Yet people claim you can't judge people because who they vote for in an election. This woman could literally replace her husband with Trump in this post and there would be NO difference. She needs to run the hell away from this freak before he starts abusing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:47 PM
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Even if we assume that it is work, it is the worst form of work that advocates rape. One person is actively trying to get more for less and the sex worker is trying to do less for more. Unless the sex worker is in a position to walk away from precarious situations like this (the vast majority can't afford to), the sex worker is forced to violate their boundaries and submit to rape in order to survive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:57 PM
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It's funny that the same men who can't cook for themselves and have to play games to get their laundry done are also the same people who think they'll magically become competent during collapse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:07 AM
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This is why I love FDS; you can show up with zero expectations and come out with some hard truths. We really are not full-bodied human beings in the eyes of men, just a reflection of their wants and desires at the time. They have no idea how to do the inner work or weren't raise with the same level of insecurity that women have so they have to project it externally. I can see a lot weird behavior I dealt with men in the past can explain with this explaination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:45 PM
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I love how she believes that rejecting a guy who gave you a Rolls-Royce is the thing that's going to piss everyone off. She's right but reveals the type of people she values; LVM men who believe wealth can justify personality flaws and disrespect. Unfortunately she represents a good chunk of women who believe that using a man for money and sex is a sign of being "an self-empowered woman". The truth is that people like her can only value themselves through men, regardless of their value, instead …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:40 PM
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To prevent being lonely I try to list all things I want to do with a partner and work to do them myself and/or with my friends. You are a grown adult and I think women need to remember that. A lot of women are treated like children, even as adults, and subconsciously believe that a man, the perceived adult, is going to give them permission to do all the things they really want to do. A man is not going to suddenly show up in your life and give you access to the cookie jar, in fact they might fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:17 AM
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This is it. I can see a lot of men hating this in the same vein they hated George Carlin for doing the exact same thing. Men love using feminism as a means to get closer to women, to earn their trust. Yet, these are the same men who can't be bothered to call out other men, to challenge the paradigm they so despise. It is opposite of the reason why women talking to other women is important. If men sat in a room and honestly deconstructed by they do the things that they do, they would do everythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:39 PM
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Him: 😤"I accept less than 10. I think that is a perfect number. I don't want to be talking to whores. 15 MAX." Her: Okay, dick is abundant, delete my number. Him: wAIT! I can accept 16!! LVM. Every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:23 PM
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We're already seeing the effects: MGTOW, TRP, incels, etc. Women have access to all the things they would need to beg through men, now men are expected to step up and re-think what they bring to the table. Of course, they hate having their power challenged. Now men are grouping together and harassing women who they feel they're entitled to have sex with. They're creating communities that teach men techniques to neg women, instill fear in them, and enforce gender roles. This is why it is importan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:22 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@mellowmommua/video/6880627817910963461?utm_source=tt_4&source=h5_t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:47 PM
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🤢🤢🤢 Why?! This dude has the personality of stale bread. He's super lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:22 PM
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She blames this on COVID but honestly if this is his response to stress then you definitely shouldn't be raising a child with him. Husband went "muh dreams, me me me". Wife doesn't want to go, rightfully calls him crazy for doing this right before they have a child. She tries to leave the house and her husband blocks the door. She's staying with someone else. Her husband calls her. His response: "yOu CaN gIvE bIRtH iN tHe VaN." She responds that they can travel without living in a van. He yells …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:50 PM
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The worst one is the Princess and the Frog: "You need to choose between being with a guy you just met a couple of hours ago or achieving your lifelong dream that you worked incredibly hard for ... but like the choose the former because THAT will make you feel fulfilled." Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:18 AM
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That's the double-edged sword of being a pick-me. Their value is that they accept the bare minimum, therefore men can date them no problem. On the other hand, you really can't parade around someone who treats you like trash. Therefore, pick-mes have to fight for quantity rather than quality. "Stealing your man" is their way of asserting dominance among women (I'm so attractive I can destroy relationships!), but women with an ounce of respect in themselves will see this as a favor and will to fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:47 PM
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Honestly, on this website, I could see a scrote trying to argue how objectively that's okay, especially if they're a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:51 PM
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It really says a lot about you when you think sitting in a car for two hours is "a good date". Yikes. Look at those awards. Men really want women to think that this was a lot better than it actually is. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:03 PM
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"wHy DoN't YoU cOMmUnIcAtE?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:57 PM
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Three words: twin flame relationships. Whenever I hear people talking about their twin flame it's always the most toxic, narcissistic people they're fawning over. It doesn't help that many of the signs for recognizing your twin flame require you feeling incredibly triggered and pissed off. Then they describe this relationship of constantly separating and getting back together, and they claim this is normal for twin flames. I think that speaks for itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:18 AM
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I used to hate Ellen Pao when I was younger because "freeze peach" and the rest of that nonsense. Then I learned that Reddit was always going to make those controversial decisions they just hired Ellen so the hate can be directed at her. Note: if anyone can find the article where one of the admins claimed "we tried to let you moderate yourselves and it didn't work" it would support my point. Fast forward to today and Reddit is massive shitshow. Years of bad management and refusal to align to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:23 PM
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Did you know that on the actual post there are people claiming this is fake? They're saying the boyfriend would never react that way to the rape or that most people would have broken up after the mutual cheating (okay I agree with this but she was 23 with limited life experience dating a man who was definitely abusing her naivety in relationships). So what if it is fake? Are you seriously telling me that you would still defend a rapist in a fake story?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:44 PM
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Same story, different people; unless you attract someone who meets you at your level then all they're doing is holding you back. Women, especially young women, need to reject this idea that marriage is the end goal and just focus on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:22 PM
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I saw that post too. The cope is real. They claim that all we do is sit around and do nothing while demanding the undeserved attention of HVM which is far from the truth. FDS teaches to women to: Drop men who do not respect you or your time enough to give you a proper commitment. We live in a society where failure in picking the right man will always falls on the female; women take take all the failures and men take the rewards. Even if you believe in 50/50 dates and other pickme behavior, FDS i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:38 PM
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I was also into MBTI for a long time. The community is an absolute mess, filled with people who are replacing therapy with personality tests. When I was done listening to the "INTJ" men and their stupid, often sexist theories about personality I went to study Carl Jung, the inspiration of MBTI. He's sexist as well (Women are more likely to be Ne and Fe because it's how they choose mates or some bullshit). However, he makes it very clear that his theories are never meant be turn into personality …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:32 AM
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Based on her edit I can assume that others told her the same thing we would have told her here. Being honest is a virtue but are you honestly telling me that he thought his penis is more important his wife's comfort? He couldn't keep it together until the baby is born so he forced all this emotional labor on his pregnant wife? I know we had a thread earlier about this but how do men live like this? How do they get labeled the rational sex when they can't even look at their wife's emotional suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:22 AM
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This. I was an anti-feminist for years because I found libfem to be contradictory and most libfems tended to focus on the most inane issues. I got into a whole hassle on the internet when I said that feminism should be the social, political, economical emancipation of women and it wouldn't make sense to include men, a group that is supposedly privileged. Then I started reading radfem literature and learned the real history of feminism. All the "radical" women in the first and second wave wanted …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:50 PM
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This. Men believe they age like wine when in reality they age like milk. Also, note that I'm not saying this to insult men. There is a large amount of men out there who believe good skincare is too "feminine" and allow their skin to turn into leather. Women, on the other hand, are conditioned to care about their skin and body well into their 50s and therefore look a lot better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:00 PM
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I used to watch Joji's persona back in the day. He always seemed be chill in the few interviews he had with people but his fans were unable to differentiate between the two. There was this one instance when Joji revealed that he has neurological issues that causes seizures and that his persona was aggravating it. He wanted to post vlogs and show his fans the more normal side of him. Instead, like the clowns that they are, they started trolling him and making fun of his seizures, so he shut it do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:30 PM
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No, guys, I swear, the sexual revolution is totally going to get me laid- I mean emancipate women across the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:54 PM
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I cringed watching her with Magnus Yeah, that's why I chose this show. Magnus is the type of guy who seemed alright on the surface but early on gave very clear signs that he was a narcissist (lovebombing, future faking, etc.) Then she does the work to find out why she attracted that sort of guy in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:58 PM
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Love Life - this main lead starts from the bottom but levels up as the show progresses, has a very realistic portrayal of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:06 AM
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I read her autobiography. If memory serves me, she and her husband dated when they were teenagers and he was supportive her ambitions until her success eclipsed his own. Most women would had compromised and taken less hours because they confuse love with patriarchal norms. Instead, Sonia understood her worth and dropped his insecure ass. Then she talks about how her dedication to her work and the quality her arguments during her time as a public defender in New York led to be a judge and then a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:54 PM
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It's a mixed bag. I find the secret chats on FLO to be one the best communities for women to have conversations anonymously and without men shoving their bullshit. It's refreshing to see women talking about their trauma and supporting one another without some dude going "not all men, women do it too!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:40 PM
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Let us assume that this person is correct and men being rejected is the reason why millions of women across the globe face abuse, why would coddling them work? In "Why Does He Do That" by Lundy Bancroft, he explain that when abusers enter counseling or therapy to receive the so-called "affirmation" he reports that they only use it to justify their abuse. The only way the abuse ends is when someone denounces what they do and makes it clear that this behavior will not be accepted under any circums…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:16 AM
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"Male Tears R Us" - the largest compendium of male tears, regrets, and general butthurt on this side of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:20 PM
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Vomit. This is your brain on coomer; men expecting women to be pornstars and justify this disgusting behavior. It doesn't help that there is a disturbing amount of porn that tries to fulfill sibling sexual fantasies, so there is a high chance that he was jacking off to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:32 PM
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The Case of Chris Watts - Part 1 The Case of Chris Watts - Part 2 - The Polygraph The Case of Chris Watts - Part 3 - The Confession This is a great series that deconstructs how the interrogators got Chris to admit to his crimes. It's hard (but sort of hilarious) to watch at some parts, it's so obvious he doesn't give a shit about his family and he hides it so horribly. There are also techniques they use to expose liars people can adopt in their daily lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:53 PM
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English Japanese speakers are a mixed bag. You either get learners who respect the language and culture (Japanese is really hard, you have to love the culture to learn it and, therefore, you get a lot of dedicated, respectful people), or you get weaboos who don't wash after themselves and think Japanese people are like their anime characters. This guy was definitely the latter. Probably learned most of his Japanese from anime and definitely got that patriarchal bullshit from anime as well. Every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:18 AM
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