govedototalno Archive

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1	is anyone else who is attending college afraid because of all the rape cases going on?… I worked as a Resident Assistant at a major party school and I coached freshmen residents for years on staying safe. I'll give you 2 approaches. This is the best approach. You should avoid going to parties. College is about training for your future and the lifestyle that comes with partying is ultimately harmful. Excess drinking is bad for your health. Drugs are bad for your health. Your grades will be damaged by it. Plus, there's a good chance that, if you ever look for a future relationship, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 03:45 PM
2	Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach In that case, you should stop being a 'nice guy', whatever it is that that phrase entails. There are tons of comments here by women about various rules you should follow; those are mostly garbage. If you've ever observed the world around you, most women PREFER men who break those rules. That's just the truth. Every woman I've dated was trapped in a massive shroud of cognitive dissonance where I was absolutely not doing any of the things she said and she had no idea. On the other hand, they'd rid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 02:43 PM
1	Is cheating and infidelity inevitable? Well, the reality is that women are cheating at higher rates than ever before. There are articles indicating this and my suspicion is that these don't capture the extent of the problem. My ex girlfriend was a serial cheater and her friends were cheating, too. My guy friends have each been cheated on and, almost without fail, the women I knew (as friends or acquaintances) were cheating. Obviously, this is anecdotal evidence, but my own life experience hasn't given me much faith here. To be clear,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 09:14 PM
6	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. These days, I see very few such men in my age cohort (I'm 28). On the rare occasion that I see one, he's usually wealthy, successful, or famous in some capacity. Obviously, that's good for him, but it isn't the case that most men (or even people) will become rich or famous. On the flip side, I see far more men that look good but have terrible personalities. I doubt I need to give examples. Appearances do matter and my impression is that, these days, they matter more to women then they did in pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 01:23 PM
50	No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material" I'm going to try and parse out the relevant issues here. I suspect that most men (myself included) aren't inherently insulted by the term "husband material." In fact, they would usually have perceived this as a compliment. The problem is that modern hookup culture and the sexual revolution has resulted in a time when many women freely and openly enjoy hookups. Here's the problem: those hookup partners didn't have to offer anything in order to have sex with that woman. They didn't need to offer c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 01:19 PM
1	Do men want career focused women? I have no issue with it if she has a career. My type of women tends to be fairly smart and likes talking about intellectual topics. The conversations that I find most interesting are about science, math. philosophy, history, and social issues. The types of women who share one (or, on rare occasions, all) of these interests are also more likely to be career-oriented. Do I personally have a problem with it if she earns more? No, I don't, but I am aware that statistics show that relationships where…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 02:00 PM
1	How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman? I'm not a woman, so I can't say. I can tell you that I'm less likely to date or consider a 30 year old woman for a serious relationship and I suspect there's a decent number of men who feel the same. My guess is that you'll still get plenty of matches on a dating site, but the number of matches you'll get from the more desirable men (based on their looks, charm, success, and intelligence) will decrease. Hopefully, you find the right guy. I'd like to ask: why are you unexpectedly single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 05:19 AM
3	If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change? No. I'd have to know what traits have convinced these women to give up on trying to find a partner. Are we talking about violent tendencies and aggression? These are horrible traits, I agree. That being said, the men who possess these traits aren't inclined to change. The men who don't possess these traits can't change the men who do possess them. The onus is on women to choose better partners. Women need to have filters in place that weed out abusive and/or violent men. Unfortunately, women see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 05:09 AM
3	How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? Personally, I'm not bothered by fantasies. I have them all the time. I really don't care if she does, either. My cares are that she actually finds me attractive and that she never acts on any such desire with another man. For example, flirting with another guy or letting him give her attention would be dealbreakers (let alone anything physical happening). Obviously, everyone has their own boundaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 01:18 AM
2	How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men? Loyalty isn't about thoughtcrime in my book. I would never set such a standard for a girlfriend when I couldn't meet it myself. How can I expect that she doesn't find other men attractive? One of my exes thought that Henry Cavill was a beefcake, unsurprisingly. For me, there will never be a moment where I won't look at Salma Hayek from the 90s and think "damn, what a piece of art." That's life. Men and women find other men and women attractive. My policy has always been one of look, but don't to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/22 01:07 AM
1	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL You can't know for sure. I think there are traits she can have that make it more likely that she'll have been consistent with this policy throughout her life, but there's no guarantee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 07:06 PM
1	After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better? My college girlfriend was a serial cheater. She was physical with double digits men while we were together. According to texts I found, she wanted to have a "Sex and the City" type life. Her best friend convinced her to pursue a guy that was hotter than me. I found out by going through texts on her phone. There wasn't a single female friend of hers that said what she was doing was wrong. That was the shocker. There were none! They were all encouraging her or going along with it. I wish I'd seen …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:44 PM
1	Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOAL This is only true if she's had one night stands and hookups before. If she's the type to reserve sex until a relationship starts (and she's been consistent with that approach), then it's different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:04 PM
2	If standards are 'on the floor' for men, how high is the floor? The bar is on the floor when it comes to relationship qualities. These include traits such as honesty, compassion, loyalty, and respectability, among others. These traits are absolutely essential for a strong partnership between a man and a woman. It is these traits that are totally devalued right now. There are plenty of men who have these traits that can't find a partner. On the flip side, the bar for attraction qualities is through the roof. Women are clearly attracted (physically) to an unbe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 06:02 PM
100	Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of men Right. If a woman found out that a man was planning special dates for his previous girlfriend, while he was only willing to do low-key and low investment dates with her, then how would she feel? She'd think that her boyfriend was more interested in his ex-gf than her. That's what men feel when it comes to sex. It's not misogyny. Men and women are made to feel special in different ways and if a man discovers that his girlfriend was super promiscuous and adventurous in the past, but isn't with him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 01:56 PM
2	Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? Why is this even being asked? Of course attractive men will be able to "push" boundaries more than unattractive men. That's just how human social interactions work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:13 PM
1	Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond? It's because women are more PC than men and don't want to loudly utter an unpopular opinion. That's because conscientiousness, as a trait, is more prevalent in women than men. Many women will say that it's not a turnoff and some men will (foolishly) believe this until they discover the truth. Why do women keep saying it, then? Well, there are some that truly believe it and aren't aware that it's not true. Others know it's true, but still keep lying so as to avoid controversy from being political…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 07:09 PM
1	Where do we as a species go from here? Facial restructuring. Why not? That's really the difference. Hair transplants are close to being there. There is this pervasive idea that men struggle to date ONLY because they're terrible people. Obviously, those types of men exist; the type who would disrespect, objectify, and sexually harass (or even assault women). Those men are terrible scum and deserve condemnation, but they're not the only men fitting this bill. There are a LOT of men that simply struggle because they're not handsome enou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 08:24 PM