gr00 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is AdultFriendFinder still the move in 2025? Was a good site 2001-2012 but not worth your time now	/r/seduction	18/10/25 11:52 PM
14	Left on seen. Am I too gamey? You already made contact and dangled drinks - the texting should have just been light to check in and then schedule a date/time/place or to ask if she’s free for a call and do it that way. Keep it simple!	/r/seduction	10/04/25 09:12 PM
5	Talking to multiple girls is the best way. Never understood the appeal of a septum piercing.	/r/seduction	23/03/25 05:02 PM
5	Keep getting ghosted after messaging girls I met at a club/bar Don’t say youd like to hang out again - present her with a date/time/place to do something with you and see if she says yes. You want someone to hop aboard your ride — you’re young and will have lots of opportunities in the next few years so don’t sweat this	/r/seduction	17/03/25 06:00 PM
2	I get lots of girls, but never make it past the 3rd date If it’s still lukewarm by the end of the 2nd date you should rarely bother for a 3rd - especially if you feel you’re more into her than she is into you. Give them the opportunity to potentially chase after you for the 3rd date - don’t rush into it.	/r/seduction	15/03/25 09:15 PM
2	I Slept with 40 Women Last Year From Real Life Approaches - Here are 7 Lessons I learned That’s a lot of women and dates! You must have a big excel spreadsheet with notes on each so you can remember everything and not mix them all up on future dates.	/r/seduction	09/03/25 04:49 PM
5	Assessing the Damage online Dating did to men The key difference being in night clubs you see what you get and you’re not hiding behind a phone, contemplating optimal texts and photos/etc. Apps can be great but also foster the idea that the next swipe might be somewhat better so flakiness/ghosting becomes even more difficult to tackle. It’s easy to get jaded if you have a bad run on the apps but even if your profile / looks are great you’re still at the mercy of timing/location for who actually gets to see it.	/r/seduction	09/03/25 07:04 AM
20	“Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stop I think one hurdle in seduction communities is the whole “the one who cares less has more control” and I have female friends who have messed things up with good guys because they thought she wasn’t interested …so they faded. We have access to more “knowledge” but it’s led to more ppl following focused strategies as some magic formula.	/r/seduction	07/03/25 07:26 PM
3	Money, status and lifting is outdated advice in 2025 Offset hair loss with muscle - not freakish huge but visibly fit. No problem.	/r/seduction	23/12/24 12:59 AM
1	Can someone explain why women always overshare with me? Covert narcissists also love to overshare as a means to accelerate intimacy… love bombing by another name. Not saying this is the case here, but since you say it always happens to you, be wary of those types.	/r/seduction	13/12/24 06:04 PM
2	How to get out of the friendzone? You’re young with a lot of time - focus on yourself, your goals, and other women. She’ll only possibly come around years down the line… and guess what, by then you might not even want her. Don’t be like a buddy of mine, who pined for a gal for 20+ years, took her on trips, got nothing but friendzoned and disrespected. She ended up marrying a guy she could walk all over. It took him years to stop bitching about her. Waste of time	/r/seduction	11/12/24 11:42 PM
1	How to handle girls who “just want to be friends first” Lots of great advice in here but I just want to add to allow her to initiate the “dates” and save Fri/Sat evenings for other women and proper dates. She may be avoidant and fearing a relationship and says that line as a defense mechanism and/or she’s not into you. Either way, let her put in work and take your foot off the gas.	/r/seduction	27/11/24 11:06 PM