graamatvede Archive

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–	Gratitude: What are you thankful for? Really wanted to share my positive experience with gratitudes. My friend and I have been exchanging gratitude lists every night no matter what for the past 5.5 months. It has absolutely changed my thinking into attitude of gratitude. Already during the day I see things that will be on the list. It was also witty to find out that "ritual" is embedded into "spi-ritual-ity" meaning it takes greater effect when repeated for longer periods. That evening list is one of the positive stable things in my…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/05/20 06:20 AM
5	30 is approaching and I still feel childish. Hi! Thank you for your amazing post and the way you describe yourself instantly made me want to get to know you as a gal pal. But I'll share a bit of my own experience regarding joking and not able to grow up. I'm 33 now, and grew up in a disfunctional family. Jokes were my way to avoid confronting my issues. I would laugh my way through all and be very childish because due to a broken home, I really missed having a childhood which I dragged into adulthood and tried to hide it under all the joke…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/20 06:31 AM
1	Does sending pictures (to one guy) lower a womans value? Value - no. Her self respect - definitely. Every person is valuable, sending it means she doesn't realize her value. We are valuable even when we make mistakes.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/20 04:48 PM
3	Worked on my femininity and I have NEVER felt better! Thank you for sharing! That was very inspiring to read!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/20 02:25 AM
7	What are the best books you've found for weeding out your own victim mentality and codependency from the root up? "Codependent no more" by Melody Beatty	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/20 03:18 PM
2	How to learn as someone raised by divorced parents? Hi, What really helped me was readong on Codependents, because turns out I was one and it influenced how unhealthy I was towards men. You can just take a glimpse over the list of characteristics and you will know instantly if that is something that talks to you as well. Ever since I started working on my traits, I have been able to create really healthy relationships and for the right reasons. Best of luck to you and wishing you to find happiness. http://coda.org/index.cfm/meeting-materials1/pat…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/19 10:49 AM
11	Thank you It is so inspiring to read your message, thank you so much for sharing. It sounds like you put down patience, dedicated work and treated your body and mind with reposnsibility and love, and this is what I really want to learn to do more as well. Thanks again, I am very very happy for your personal success and that the work you put into yourself has brought such fruit.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/19 10:51 AM
6	How do I attract the man I need, You already attract the men that you are subconsciously ready for. Work on yourself - mentally, physically, spiritually - and you will change, your confidence and self value will grow, and you will start attract a different type of men.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/19 11:47 AM
4	Good books on boundaries? http://coda.org/index.cfm/meeting-materials1/patterns-and-characteristics-2011/ "Codependent no more" by Melody Beatty	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/19 05:32 PM
2	What women inspire you? What traits in women do you find yourself admiring? Great thread!! :) Brene Brown. Maybe she is not so known, but she is a huge inspiration to me. Check out her 2 minute video "Empathy vs Sympathy".	/r/RedPillWomen	13/04/19 06:00 AM
2	Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types? It is actually funny - I thought I am never an angry person, until I started working with myself to discover I was not only driven by anger, but that I directed all the anger towards myself in order to show the world the picture perfect. But thanks to this and some other things, finally some anger management in place. Awareness is half the victory already hehe.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/19 12:23 PM
2	Ladies, what are your enneagrams and Myer/Briggs types? Type 1 on Enneagram, also very accurate.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/19 10:38 AM
2	What I did to become more feminine I realized I wanted to be more boyish to desperately ear my fathers affection, to be his son, since we only spent time together when I showed interest in boy stuff (he is a mechanic). I became more feminine when my gained knowledge was just one part of my life and I accepted that I am a woman and I am a daughter (even if my father still doesn't know how to handle that). I automatically stopped wanting to be boyish, but also didn't deny that part of me. But I sort of.. let it go.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/03/19 09:43 AM
6	Cursing. How much is okay? Sometimes there is nothing like that juicy on the spot word coming in the right time. Just from my experience - I'm a simultaneous interpreter, which most of the time means I only listen to the speaker and my mouth does the job automatically. Thus whatever is on my mind - is out there. Thus I really had to work on my language on a daily basis so I automatically would not curse or be vulgar. However, I don't miss cursing as such, instead I found wonderful, intelligent ways of expressing what i re…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/19 06:31 PM
18	Help! I'm so skinny! 😢 Maybe you are very very beautiful the way you are, and two people have been very tacky with their comments (one of which is a creepy uncle and the other maybe is jealous and striving to look like you). Maybe you are still a teenager, growing and developing, and there is no need to forcully break your health to fit someone elses standards. As long as you are healthy - eating right and doing some sports, and feeling good, don't worry. The right person will love you just the way you are :) And don'…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/03/19 01:02 PM
52	How did / do you “Glow Up”? Awesome question, looking forward to reading all other answers. As embarassing as it might sound, I have a small routine list in the bathroom that includes what I need to do to myself in the morning, in the evening (removal of make up, etc) and in the weekends (then it is manicure, pedicure, scrubs, masks). It also helped me that it is ok to want "cliche" things such as a long bath, candles, a pink fluffy cake, pop music, silky eye mask for goodnight sleep, which I thought I was "too mature" to …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/19 01:46 PM