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grabthecactus/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:18 AM
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grabthecactus/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:21 AM
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grabthecactus/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:25 PM
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Now that I think about it, it essentially is an LTR at this point
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:53 AM
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It doesn't matter how long you wait, the longer you wait the more mystery builds up. If you aren't pressed about getting with her then yeah put her on the shelf, focus on other girls, forget about her for some time and hit her up later when you feel like it
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:40 AM
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I'd just go no contact for a while work on yourself and casually hit her up over a break Remember to go for logistics before she puts you back in the orbiter category
/r/askTRP08/03/20 08:57 PM
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All these comments are just putting a band-aid on a bullet wound You clearly aren't the prize, nor are you living in your own frame, fix these things and vet better. Also-- why are you deactivating socials over a breakup, this isn't middle school. Just block her and move on.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:31 AM
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Just keep raising your value. Eventually these low interest girls will be few and far between.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:37 AM
5

Your frame sounds a bit shot right now. If girls see other girls interested in you this good. Just pick one you like at this point and ask her out. The only danger is rejection.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:30 AM
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What the hell is all this male hamstering, humble bragging, and spotlight effect for? Stop thinking. Talk to them. Fuck them. Grab yourself by the balls and move otherwise you'll sit there daydreaming about stupid shit like this.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:16 AM
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Are you in highschool? The pictures mainly depend on how you went about it to determine if it would boost or kill attraction, you have to be diligent about that but you made the decision to post it, so own it. You feeling like shit is your problem and you apologized out of a lack of abundance and male hamstering. If you had 3 other girls waiting to bang you would you have apologized? If she responded how you wanted to those pictures you wouldn't have apologized, not to mention posting pictures w…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:04 AM
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You posted pics with girls, her hamster ran crazy increasing her attraction to you then you held a gun up to the hamster and shot it dead with that niceguy apology. She may still be attracted to you if you're lucky but apologizing for posting pics with other girls to a girl you aren't even exclusive with? Stop apologizing for no reason easiest way to kill attraction.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:24 AM
1

Ice cream/frozen yogurt somewhere you can walk around preferably
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:52 AM
1

Stop listening to what they say dude
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:47 AM
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Sit next to one in class, so much plausible deniability it hurts. Join a fraternity, it's insane how much your social network will explode Join a club If there's nightclubs go there or house parties if not Be outside more, cute girl waiting for the bus, sitting on a bench, etc go for it just don't drop plausible deniability or do this too frequently as reputation is real in college, if you get labeled as that creepy guy that approaches every chick that's bad. Don't use this to hamster your way o…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:54 AM
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All valuable advice thank you for that. My only follow up question is, when you inevitably entertain 'the talk' to transition a girl from fwb status to OLTR status how do you go about it? Is there a better way to go about it than say hey you're exclusive to me and I'm gonna keep my options open?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:51 AM
1

How do you frame an OLTR to only be open on the male side? Or is it just implied?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:02 AM
4

He literally gets paid to share his ideas and meet famous people. I don't get your angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:37 AM
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The fact that he makes bank off doing it isn't though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:33 AM
2

Use thick condoms, it should help a fuck ton
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:48 AM
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Damn towards the end at around 8 min she started putting women on blast
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 10:10 PM
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There's a reason its been a day and nobody replied to this Stop hamstering, read the sidebar, and do what you want not reading that but giving birthday dick always does good
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:32 AM
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Failed shit test
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:37 AM
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Charisma
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:31 AM
3

You sound like you're just asking questions for the sake of asking questions To get laid you can't just ignore someone the entire time, you have to engage at some point If you want to game women by not giving attention then just game them for a bit then walk away and go re engage later. They tend to get more interested, walking away signals to them you aren't a thirsty beta creep
/r/askTRP08/05/19 05:31 AM
2

If you start fucking a girl there's no such thing as going back to being friends You either fuck her or next her
/r/askTRP06/05/19 03:04 AM
2

In general when women self report incidents of other guys hitting on them, particularly ones I'm vetting for LTR I'm not sure the best way to respond. As an example I had a fwb I was vetting for LTR in the past who told me in detail about her sexual history one day like what she did with who how far they went etc, it wasn't much but I had no idea how to handle it so I just gave an aloof response. She would also tell me about the guys who try to get with her and I would do the same.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:56 PM
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Just re-engage whenever you feel like having her come over Ignore shit tests over text
/r/askTRP27/04/19 09:58 PM
1

I can't answer questions I don't have the answers to but I can tell you don't settle, if you do you simply get what you settled for AWALT is a spectrum, sounds like your goal is an LTR which is fine but an LTR is something she has to earn
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:49 PM
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You either consciously or subconsciously invested too much into her and that's why you're angry Just drop her and move on at this point, you lost frame hard and it will be good for your mental
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:29 PM
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Just because you're vetting her for an LTR doesn't mean you inherently expect LTR behaviors from her, it's vetting you maintain her as a plate/fwb and watch her behaviors from there. If you find out she's not so great like you thought she was you may be disappointed but that's not important and you definitely shouldn't take it out on her just keep things running smoothly and maintain the plate Read into stoicism
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:25 PM
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I wear it like one
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:31 AM
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Essentially by trying everything, eventually you will meet some people who will invite you to parties then you can build it from there too You're in a uni, talk to people in class, join a fraternity, clubs, etc
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:02 AM
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Clubs, house parties, kickbacks. Build your social circle and you won't run into this issue.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 02:03 AM
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Do you still give plausible deniability to plates?
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:57 AM
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I think I understand it now, thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:35 PM
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Right but people seem to make a mission out to be this higher purpose greater than goals. Or are you suggesting mission's are simply long term goals?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:13 AM
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Anything constructive, I just don't believe the mission circlejerk is as grand as it's hyped up to be. It doesn't have to be this big deal just get involved and stay busy.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:07 AM
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Time to keep reading Ride the Tiger
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:29 AM
2

"You guys should make out" Look up uncle vas guide to 3somes
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:16 AM
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PPL is generally a 6 day program, you can look around for something else though
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:30 PM
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Lol go find out
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:28 AM
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No context but if I had to guess, lack of abundance creating scarcity mentality OR She's the hottest of your options
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:28 AM
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gainit subreddit info
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:25 AM
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Delete twitter too much noise
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:14 PM
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My go to for a second date is a movie night at either one of our places, easy escalation, you know why you're there, so does she.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 08:28 PM
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It isn't hard to know what a high value man is. It's similar to speaking to someone who has many interesting stories/life experiences compared to someone who plays video games all day. You will be able to tell the difference almost instantaneously. People know this is high value, just because someone wants to develop and interesting life does not make this an automatic emulation. When you say maximizing value you poses for a person are you saying to maximize your value in one individuals eyes? H…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:18 PM
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Fraternity, lift, clubs, friends in class, intramurals or club sports
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:42 PM
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If you glance at the sidebar here there is literally a post that says "Getting over a breakup"
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:38 PM
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Ok but is it not still fair to say that most women prefer something else? One anecdotal experience doesn't discredit the majority of experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:31 PM
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It's not an emulation, or quick, and people are made aware of this. It's a long process of becoming a high value man, not desperately working to emulate one. This is a common misconception. PUA is more for emulation. Is your argument just a misconception, with a humblebrag?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:26 PM
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Women act like betas when they're attracted and trying to win you over They see you as the prize Good sign
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:05 PM
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Go to the gainit subreddit
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:00 PM
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Looks like she's only being honest about her hypergamy The scorpion and the frog, you know her nature. Enjoy your turn. You handled it well, never let her get comfortable with her place which she clearly understood.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:50 PM
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It means she's attracted or potentially interested, assuming you can pass
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:38 AM
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"I saw a few midgets this morning"
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:20 PM
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No point in calling them out on it, it doesn't matter what plates do.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:49 AM
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It does though, for smaller ones even more so. If you go out shotgun approaching for daygame on campus too frequently people will remember you, in this day and age even more so as it's an incredibly uncommon thing to do. In uni, social circle game is most effective if implemented correctly, coupled with nightgame. You're literally surrounded with people in your age range there's so much potential to build a huge network.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 06:06 AM
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This is exactly why people need to be doing indirect approach on college campuses, in college rep still matters and go shotgun approach if you want to fuck it all up for yourself. You need that plausible deniability shield more than ever now.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:10 AM
1

Inappropriate was the wrong word. The jist is "not your problem" I see, I got caught up on the word forgot to look at the overall message. Much appreciated ​
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:58 PM
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Regarding point 3, is it only an inappropriate investment if its been previously stated that you were only looking for something casual?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 06:53 PM
1

Go out and approach, get 5-10 numbers Proceed to play the bachelor
/r/askTRP24/03/19 06:41 AM
3

This all depends on where you're at on the push/pull spectrum with her right now You could respond in a way that makes her feel comfort or not depending on that Or if you're unsure just A&A
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:15 PM
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Why the fuck are you asking us
/r/askTRP05/03/19 10:00 PM
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Why would you not upgrade a girl with orbiters to a fwb? I don't see issue with a fwb having orbiters, especially if they are treating me right cooking meals etc. I simply wouldn't upgrade them to a LTR.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:54 PM
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Gonna quote u/rad_dynamic Tell them you like to move slowly but nothing is off the table in the future. And leave it at that. Any more questions yield the same answer. This way she is constantly thinking how she can prove herself to you, not the other way around. If you feel bad for "leading women on" then you need to man the fuck up. Men control the relationship status, not women. "Leading a women on" is impossible. If the women was hot enough, stable enough and not a slut, you wouldn't lead he…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:00 PM
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You might want to post on the legaladvice subreddit, they could probably help more
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:46 PM
2

You should be vetting her for 6 months at a minimum before considering LTR, even then 6 months might be too short
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:55 AM
2

They're just going after the highest value male they have access to, it's their nature. Additional prescribed reading
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:00 AM
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Sounds like she's trying to display value with preselection which doesn't work on guys, just treat it as a shit test
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:44 AM
2

There's no right moment just say fuck it and escalate
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:59 PM
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