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Coming from a university background, being socially adept with hanging out with plenty of women (and making them aware of this), does add your SMV. I see this personally and with friends. Yeah your inner circle of people you'd really connect with are the boys, but girls, knowing that other girls find you at some level, desirable to socialize with is a plus. Some kind of pre-preselection. I understand this is a bit tougher to play this status game once you are out of university, in workplaces etc…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 09:22 PM
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Rigorous commitment to any sport, and gruelling training will undeniably solidify your frame and confidence. I can attest to point #3 with respect to triathlon, something I recommend if anyone wants to try. There's a good saying... "it doesn't get easier, you just get faster". Most non-pro, serious triathletes are working people and can't train 15+ hours like pros do. You have to fit in something like a 7-10hour training schedule, which means with less volume, you train with higher intensity. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 10:45 PM
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A good reminder that TRP allows a more conscious awareness of common AWALT behavior; over time, occurrences such as these becomes less of a surprise, and you gradually build amused mastery.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 09:37 PM
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didn't know this is the blue pill forum!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 11:39 PM
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go to south-east asia dude. Singapore. Low income tax of ~15%, highest for any bracket is 22% i believe, no capital gains tax. Travel weekends to Bali, Thailand, and have a high purchasing power. Growing populations that side of the world. I'm in the UK and im dying with 40% tax and it gets worse haha
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 06:08 AM
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Reading too much between the lines.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 05:54 AM
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Definitely try it out. Personally, it was day and night in terms of successful hit-rate with cold approach, vs online. Like some of the other comments, some girls aren't used to being approached and enjoy the surprise. It feels like practice and an exercise, or flexing a muscle. My experience: treat it as spontaneous fun, you have no downside, and all the upside. Once you realize that, it actually becomes easy and I think is a much bigger confidence boost. Best of luck
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 03:06 PM
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Presence, frame, charisma all are hard to infer from an online dating profile. Your masculinity is more readily available for a woman to experience IRL. Plus it's more fun and crafty to do a real life cold approach!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 10:53 PM
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I think it's best to build your alliances in the workplace, and be very careful with anything that might be perceived as non professional interaction with women. They have the leverage in most working environments in today's modern world, don't tempt it, err on the safer side of things. I have seen people being accused of offending women because of one ill-timed joke (even out of the workplace!!) and the likes.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:37 PM
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Last I checked, this was not the incel or black/pill forum. TRP provokes discussions and debates for self-improvement. Yes, there is a blue-pill idealistic reality that TRP seeks to dismantle, or at least try to disprove. Is physicality and genetics important? Yes. Is it the only thing that matters? Hell, no. Absolutely not. Can you improve looks? Yes. Groom yourself, dress with a style, carry yourself well and mesh that with the rest of your character you are working everyday to build. Not too …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:34 AM
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I understand what you are saying. What LordOftheReptiles is saying is that, don't overestimate the competition. People sometimes are overly critical of themselves, and to avoid that, requires a reality check sometimes. Similar to let's say a guy earning $200K a year which may think to himself, in his field, with his performance, should be earning twice as much. He gets a broader reality check by knowing that 200K globally is already very high. It's so that you're not stuck in a negative mindset …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 07:08 AM
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I agree with this post. The girl (as well as you, the man) can only maintain some persona that isn't natural for a timeframe that has an expiry date. Just vet well at the beginning when you want to upgrade a plate. Flip the selection process. Smoothen her edges but don't flat out get something pointy and plan to sandpaper it down !
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 04:41 PM
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Great post. People have abstract personality traits, bucketing them as archetypes I found is still quite useful as a starting point, for awareness of how to interact with X person as you pointed out. Too many people speak with the need to just speak back, rather than at times, needing to be results-oriented: understanding their framework of mind, first.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 12:16 PM
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Another example that illustrates just how much we underestimate the competitive, feminine nature. If we forget the fact that she was 18... correct me if I'm wrong: let's talk about a random photo of a male celebrity with a woman.. well I can't tell the last time I saw men as a horde commenting on how ugly the girl is for him etc. Just weh-mehn being weh-mehn!
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 09:10 AM
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Great post. I hope you are referring to university! I'm thankful to have attended a top one in the UK (Oxford/Cambridge/LSE etc), and I've seen too many that get far too distracted. I am an extroverted person, and have been victim to wanting to always spark a convo whenever I meet someone I know. Everything has a balance. I have a very good friend, aced high school studying 3 days only ahead of 4 quant-subject exams, aces them. Came from a very humble background. Kind of gets into this mentality…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 08:58 AM
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Economics. If there was a demand for that sort of service, so be it. Ingenious business idea if there are actual men that part with that sort of money for this. Don't get me wrong, the whole 'toxic masculinity' concept is well.. toxic. But if there are men (boys) out there that think they need to be healed for being a man then... well they are lost. I am curious whether these people perhaps with certain issues in life, bother going to trusted friends, and family prior to spending hard earned dou…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:20 PM
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I genuinely think that you are reading too much into this. Analysis paralysis is an achilles heel in any walk of life. Obtain necessary information, but not anything in excess. This is in excess. I've owned dogs. Great companions. So a few girls decide to write extensively about them. Who cares? I understand you may be in the 'rage' phase, and anger can be used to channel more positive actions for you, but I think these thoughts won't help you.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:09 PM
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We men have conquered, discovered and fought for the things we believed in. It is another question whether some things fought for are for good or for evil.. but we still have that innate, primal desire to chase, to harness an internal drive and fire to be better. I do believe all of us men have this inside of us, and once you have come into terms to what it feels like to have this 'fire'.. it is empowering. Society and culture may have downplayed the value of grit, and how valuable such a charac…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 12:28 PM
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This post resonates so much I'm sure to everyone who read this. I will say though: anger, resentment, and disappointment are very charged emotions that if channelled correctly, can be positive driving forces in your life. Once you have your value framework set in the right place, you'd be surprised that sometimes you understand that your anger is a reflection of how much something means to you. Sometimes it is unjustified, and you re-center yourself. The times it represents something greater, an…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 11:12 PM
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Think the 2/3 rule is very relevant here in terms of reciprocation to a girl's flirting, conversation, texting, any kind of investment in her etc. You would be very surprised what it is like when you view yourself as the prize, show & tell *just* enough to display your worth, frame, charisma, social standing etc, but operate on the mindset that *you* are the prize and you'd be very surprised the extra mile of pining girls will do to have a piece of it. Flip the selection process.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:38 AM
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