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Exactly I just need to stop reading the comments I’m losing brain cells
/r/seduction02/03/21 04:33 AM
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Thank god I just got invited to that. I will now be posting my field reports there.
/r/seduction02/03/21 04:27 AM
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I was with a group of 8-10 buddies but none of them wanted to approach with me.
/r/seduction02/03/21 01:54 AM
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Exactly, they were the only girls I approached that night but when I go out again I’m going to move on to the next one when I get rejected.
/r/seduction02/03/21 01:53 AM
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I don’t understand either. I made some small talk, talked to them for 5 mins max, and left when I realized they weren’t into it. I’ve been called creepy, told to not approach women in bars, and been told everyone in the bar probably laughed at me. I think it’s just dudes who are too scared to approach projecting their fears onto me.
/r/seduction02/03/21 01:52 AM
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Once again it doesn’t matter. You’re just looking for another reason not to approach. Its a loud bar with music playing and people focusing on their own shit. They don’t know if I’m friend, boyfriend, if I know them from school etc. They can’t hear our conversation.
/r/seduction01/03/21 06:21 PM
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I think it depends on the type of bar, I’m in a college town where the bar is filled with college chicks and it makes it easier with the hookup culture perpetuated on college campuses. I think it’d be harder to approach at a library or on campus where girls are focused on getting to class or studying.
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:17 PM
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People don’t pay attention to these things as much as you think. I mean think about it, when I go out I NEVER look over at a guy talking to a girl and think “haha look at that loser I bet she’s rejecting him right now” do you? Also there’s a 90% chance I’ll never see them again and there’s a 99% chance they’ll never think about me again past that night. I mean I have girls approach me at the bar and I reject them and I honestly don’t think anything about the interaction after about 45 mins.
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:08 PM
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I want to try this too haha but I have to convince my friends to approach with me. What I didn’t mention in the post was that I was with a big group of buddies but when I asked them if any of them wanted to approach this girls with me none of them would.
/r/seduction01/03/21 05:00 PM
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I definitely wasn’t being creepy I just walked up asked how they were doing, and we had a bit of small talk then I walked away. I also definitely think it depends on the region, yes in some places small talk can seem creepy but if your a person at a bar in the south 99% of people are going to be expected to be talked to by a stranger one way or another.
/r/seduction01/03/21 04:46 PM
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I’m in a midwestern college town
/r/seduction01/03/21 04:39 PM
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Yeah sometimes when I go out I have girls approach me but usually they’re not my type, or are kind of boring like you said. So from now on I’m going to approach girls I think are cute.
/r/seduction01/03/21 04:37 PM
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Yes haha, I’d say I have a pretty good sense of style. I was dressed very similarly to this guy
/r/seduction01/03/21 04:35 PM
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I don’t care what those girls think or who they are I will never see them again
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:54 PM
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Yeah I honestly just have to keep trying. I have girls approach me at the bar sometimes but this is the first time I’m doing it the other way around. I need to find a better opener than just “hi what’s your name” lol
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:30 PM
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This subs message boiled down should pretty much be: -exude confidence -work on yourself before you work on her -seize the day
/r/seduction31/07/20 04:52 AM
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The only “attempts” I’ve made are making a tinder. I haven’t actually approached anyone.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:32 AM
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She’s not the girl to talk to someone while we’re together, but I assume the new guy was someone who was an orbiter and he swooped in as soon as he heard we broke up.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:27 AM
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Thanks bro that helps. It also hurt to see how easy it was for her to find a new guy yet I’m still looking but I’ve got a good feeling once I go back to school I’ll find a new girl not long after.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:46 AM
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I’m there right now, I was with a girl who was (in my opinion) pretty far out of my league and we recently broke up. Since quarantine I haven’t really gotten anywhere with women and I’m starting to fear I’ll never do better.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:23 AM
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Yes I can see where you’re coming from. You already know this, but you should try to change some things about your game; it should be easy for a guy like you. I’m not sure how you’re dressing but keeping up with current trends and wearing clothes that fit is super important too. I’m also approaching on a college campus where pretty much everyone is looking for the same thing I am so it’s a little easier I guess.
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:53 AM
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If you’re serious about your “killer ripped body” and your “7/8” face you should have no problems. I’m assuming that your game is probably not the best, that or you’re like 5’1. My body is like 7/10 I’m a skinny/toned dude and my face is a 7.5/10 and Im about 5’10. I have way more success than that. Where are you approaching at?
/r/seduction13/07/20 10:12 PM
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I’d like to say I’m a witty guy so I’m usually quick to be able to make a joke or make an observation about them or their personality. I’d say I make references a lot to previous things we mentioned in the conversation and bring them up again. I’d say just try to keep asking them questions and usually they’ll respond well and if they start asking you questions back that’s a good sign. Sometimes though I have to catch myself because I can just keep talking and keep talking and keep talking.
/r/seduction30/06/20 05:32 AM
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I think it had to do with me having some good pictures and I really know how to carry a conversation. I’ve done it by swiping up on their snapchat/Instagram stories and just continuing to ask them questions. Once they start to get invested in the convo you know you’ve got them. From there escalate quickly to a real life date.
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:41 AM
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Don’t know why these comments are saying don’t do it lmao. I’ve done this a few times with a successful attempt. Go for it dude no harm in trying.
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:14 AM
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Yes they exist but 99.99% of the time it’s not because of looks. All of them have the same shitty attitudes towards women and they usually give up after a few rejections. They have a terrible “woe is me, I deserve pussy because I’m nice” outlooks on life and therefore they never get any coochie.
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:25 AM
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Yes it’s a huge problem no woman will ever love you man. Sorry it’s over for you pack it up and go home. Might as well become gay. Jesus Christ this sub is turning to shit.
/r/seduction14/06/20 09:30 PM
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Money for Nothing by Dire Straits makes me pretty much think I can do anything so probably that.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:31 AM
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women on dating sites are way more picky because they’re solely basing your value off of looks. When you approach a girl on the street, you come off as confident, depending on what you say you can come off as witty, and she can get a small sense of how you are as a person.
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:56 PM
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It could be your pictures but probably not. My past girlfriends and the last girls who were interested in me were solid 8s and maybe 9s. The girls I match with on tinder however are always 6s and maybe the occasional 7 it makes me feel good that I’m not the only one with the problem lol. It’s just been tough tho because with everything that’s going on I can’t meet women irl right now.
/r/seduction02/06/20 08:21 PM
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Number 1 is this a copypasta And number 2 that’s rape
/r/seduction02/06/20 10:33 AM
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Pretty much cut contact, we talked for maybe a month or two after that cause she genuinely did like me as a friend but I pretty much stopped talking to her after that.
/r/seduction28/05/20 12:04 AM
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Pretty much although she didn’t have a bf at the time she rejected me and didn’t date anyone in the year that passed between her rejecting me and her liking me again. I think she honestly may have just not wanted a man at that point in her life and when she did again she knew that I’d probably be down.
/r/seduction27/05/20 09:45 PM
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Guess im cool with being a Stan then because every time this has happened I’ve at least gotten head 👍🏻
/r/seduction27/05/20 09:39 PM
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Not sure what those mean it was pretty much her saying “no sorry I don’t have feelings for you” or something like that
/r/seduction27/05/20 09:38 PM
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It means you get pussy I didn’t say you had to marry her
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:35 PM
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Another overlooked benefit is that you’re now on her radar. Say that guy she’s talking to doesn’t workout she now sees you as a viable option. It’s happened to me a few times, I’ve asked a girl out and she denies me then comes back just a few months later.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:25 AM
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I’d look into Austin I live here great place for women
/r/seduction22/05/20 09:37 PM
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Well you need to start by talking to more than 10 girls
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:29 PM
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While I disagree that cold approaches are weird I think that most guys here don’t know how to make it not weird. Cold Approaching has been apart of American culture for generations and works for many I think it’s a great tool to build guys confidences and make them want to improve themselves. Though you are very correct worthwhile relationships mostly come from creating prior bonds through friends, work etc.
/r/seduction04/05/20 03:30 AM
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Exactly. Last semester I complained that I didn’t meet as many girls as I’d like to but, then I realized it was my own fault. I realized I would never go out of my way to talk to girls on my own. I would wait until they (very rarely) talked to me first, and when I look back on it I kept saying “oh I wasn’t around enough girls” but then I look back on it and I’m literally surrounded by hot girls 24/7 lol
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:15 PM
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Just found out Fall classes for my university are starting back up in the Fall and I cannot wait time get back out there Tinder has been pretty boring tbh.
/r/seduction01/05/20 09:12 PM
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It works but in my experience I’ve met WAYY prettier and nicer girls with better personalities in real life. (Not trying to brag) but irl I can usually pull an 8 and maybe a 9 but on tinder I usually match with a 7 or maybe a 6.
/r/seduction01/05/20 09:02 AM
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Man that’s some good advice. Next time I approach I’m definitely trying this out!
/r/seduction30/04/20 03:42 PM
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I didn’t really have an intention I guess. Just get some number was the main goal.
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:22 PM
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Thank you haha I don’t use it for every approach but when I pickup girls at football games I always use that and it works.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:10 PM
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I also hate it that’s why you should escalate a text meeting into a real life date or meetup within a week or sooner.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:07 PM
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There may be some tips or tricks I’m missing but I also had AA. What got me over it was first approaching girls I thought were below my league or girls in settings where there weren’t a lot of people around. But overall there is no secret or easy way to get over AA you just have to do it and it gets easier everytime you do it.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:06 PM
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Haha I will bro! (Once quarantine is over)
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:46 AM
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Yeah I’m working on the kinks right now but I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’ve kinda recently had a resurgence in my attitude and I’ve developed a “you only live once” mentality. I figured I only get to be in college once so I might as-well ask out cute girls while I’m here.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:32 AM
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I mean you can try tinder or bumble that seems about the only other option, but for me the flaking on there is even worse. Also I’m not trying to be rude but I hear people say the cold approach game is dead when it’s obviously not because it works for me and tons of other guys like me.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:19 AM
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To be honest. I’d just go ahead and still ask for her number if I was in your situation. Insta and FB aren’t really things I would ask a girl for when I approach her. However Instagram and FaceBook can be useful tools because I used to be too afraid to approach women in real life so I would just DM through Instagram and it helped me build my skills and confidence a little bit. Though this approach is hard because in my opinion it relies heavy on looks.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:02 AM
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Haha you know what’s crazy I’ve been thinking about that a lot too. While writing this post in my mind I was like “man I should probably not say that” but you’re right I probably will leave any negative connotations out of it from now on.
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:58 AM
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This is why I usually like to use Snapchat to talk to girls, it’s easy to swipe up on her story and comment on it and get the convo going from there, or to send her a picture of something and start a conversation. Texting is a bit harder because like you said you don’t know how to start a chat again after a few days. The way out is escalation. In my opinion, I’m not sure how other guys feel about this, you want to get out of the texting phase as soon as possible. Maybe after you’ve talked for a …
/r/seduction29/04/20 09:53 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s my age range but I’ve actually seen snapchat work better than numbers idk to me it seems to be less formal so maybe it comes off as less pushy. Also this is definitely not common sense for a lot of guys lol.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:39 AM
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That’s cool bro, this now is also an internet page about approaching.
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:18 AM
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That’s the reason most of us are here, most of us aren’t conventionally attractive and we need help to make up for it. We ALL know at least one guy whose fat, short, ugly, or all three who still pulls like crazy. I can guarantee you this guy has mastered all these tips above and he has confidence. You may not be the best looking guy in the world but if you walk into every room acting like you are the women will come.
/r/seduction28/04/20 05:26 AM
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What are some examples of indirect approach?
/r/seduction21/04/20 04:03 AM
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Is it saying that love isn’t all about looks and someone who’s an 8.5 on looks can be a perfect ten when you’re in love with them? Because if so this doesn’t belong in this sub and it’s not helpful.
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:03 AM
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Very true I believe the point of being able to talk to girls properly is to turn those “maybe” girls who would reject you if you couldn’t spit game properly into “yes” girls who you can win over.
/r/seduction18/04/20 02:37 PM
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Looks like you’ve got both people who agree and disagree with you in these comments but I agree. In a lot of situations if I see a cute girl I don’t have time to walk up and spit enough game indirectly to ask her on a date, so I pretty much just say “hey you’re cute let’s go out sometime” and give her my number/snapchat. If she texts me cool, if not so be it. Now I will play the long game if I actually have a friendship with this girl but even then I’ll escalate pretty quickly and let my intenti…
/r/seduction13/04/20 02:39 PM
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I’ve had 3 girlfriends in my life that were WAYYY outta my league according to myself and most people around me. They however, found me very attractive. It’s mostly about how you present yourself towards them. Even if they find you mildly attractive, if you spit some game, make them laugh, and seem like a good guy I found that they’ll give you a shot and find you even more attractive. A buddy of mine told me this once. “Walk into the room thinking, every girl wants me, and every guy wants to be …
/r/seduction10/04/20 09:24 AM
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