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Feminismgraffitol/r/MensRights18/08/20 05:21 PM
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Feminismgraffitol/r/MensRights26/09/20 01:20 PM
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From an atheist perspective it’s no more annoying than hearing that SpongeBob is non binary.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 02:58 PM
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I do believe that there are patriarchal systems that harm both men and women. Where I think I might differ from the mainstream narrative is that I believe women are equally responsible for the perpetuation of those systems as men and in some cases more so. Even in our current era where the same women who convincingly argue for equality are happy for men to fight in war while they flee (e.g. Ukraine), and are content with men doing the dangerous and most physically tough jobs. Both my wife and te…
/r/MensRights13/01/23 07:45 PM
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The same kind of issue is also evident in the number of male rape jokes that exist, particularly in movies and tv. The main one being about being raped in prison, but also just general comic references to men being raped, within dialogue. It’s disgusting really.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:49 PM
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My son was nervous about it when he reached that age. I basically told him that a girl has made her mind up about him before he’s actually said anything. So just approach politely and say just about anything friendly or silly. It doesn’t really matter what it is. If you make a joke, any joke, even a duff one, about something and she’s not keen on you she’ll not be amused, so discreetly move on. If you make the same joke but she likes the look of you, she’ll think it’s the funniest thing ever and…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 08:08 PM
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My son was nervous about it when he reached that age. I basically told him that a girl has made her mind up about him before he’s actually said anything. So just approach politely and say just about anything friendly or silly. It doesn’t really matter what it is. If you make a joke, any joke, even a duff one, about something and she’s not keen on you she’ll not be amused, so discreetly move on. If you make the same joke but she likes the look of you, she’ll think it’s the funniest thing ever and…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 08:03 PM
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That’s like not eating your favourite pasta dishes because you don’t like Italians. It’s absurd. Do you want absurd friends?
/r/MensRights30/07/22 03:45 PM
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There are many other parts of the body that can become dirty without washing but we don’t consider chopping them off. Circumcised men are probably not aware of how much sensitivity they have lost. How does one compare such a thing? Taking away someone’s sexual pleasure for a pointless medical or religious procedure is no joke.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 06:05 AM
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When were in the process to adopt a child we had so many meetings with social workers (all female) where they only spoke with and looked at my wife. I often thought I might as well not have been there. I felt like an appendage. Sometimes I’d try and get their attention by leaning over towards them or my wife to try and show that I was there but to no avail. Interrupting or trying to wedge my thoughts into a meeting just made me look like an overbearing mansplainer. There was one meeting in the c…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:55 AM
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The sex strike is based on the sexist assumption reinforced in our culture that men are more reliant on sex than women, that they are like sex hungry beasts roaming the streets in search of willing females. It’s not true and such a sex strike would affect men no more than women. Many of the men I’ve known aren’t having regular sex and haven’t been any more than mildly disappointed about it. I‘ve been celibate by choice for decades and am even very happy about it. My feelings are ‘been there done…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 07:56 AM
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I think there might be something in the idea that it’s not somehow realistic to say you identify as a man or a woman if you have no experience of what it’s actually like to be one of those things. Isn’t it your experience of being something that creates and builds your identity? Not the other way round. All of the pro’s and cons of being a male determine my sense of self. It doesn’t happen in isolation. If someone identifies as the opposite sex without any experience of it they can only be ident…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 08:30 AM
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I think it’s a minority of frmales who are contributing to this counter productive atmosphere. I think most females wouldn’t want males to feel too fearful of recriminations to approach them in a polite and respectful way. The rational women do need to stand up a bit more though and tell the aggressive/paranoid minority to calm down a bit, and the rational men also need to berate the minority of male peers who harass women.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 06:37 AM
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To apply this properly you’d have to remove perhaps 30% of art from galleries.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:22 PM
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Listening to him doesn’t mean you agree with everything he says. Some of what he says is completely inoffensive to anyone.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 11:20 AM
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I suppose you could say that the patriarchy negatively affects men too. Males being drafted to fight in wars is an example. So that her hate is for a system not a biological gender and therefore shouldn’t hate men. She might say that men created the patriarchy. In reply you could say that those were primarily men of previous generations and eras. We are living in a system created by our predecessors and we are all to some extent winners and losers depending on the specifics. Another example is t…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 10:31 AM
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And yet in times of war it’s precisely this so called toxic masculinity that is called upon to protect women and children from enemies.
/r/MensRights20/01/22 09:57 AM
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Feminists are curiously quiet about their lack of opportunity to fight on the front line alongside men in the event of a war. My other issue is that men are expected to suppress their supposed toxic masculinity. But in the event of a war we would be expected by all including women to bring it back into play because it’s useful now.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 07:57 AM
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This reminds me of when I was in my friends 7 year old daughters bedroom. They were showing us around the house. She had topless pictures of men in their twenties all around her bed. Boyband stars with rippling muscles posing. Nobody else seemed to be aware that there was anything wrong with it. Had it been a 6 year old boy with pictures of women in bikinis all over his wall it would have been considered toxic and problematic.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 07:59 AM
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The enjoyment issue is completely irrelevant. There are many things that an individual might enjoy that are detrimental to their psychological well-being which is why in most cases they choose not to do them. The keyword is choice or consent to be precise. Adolescents don’t yet have the capacity to give informed consent. A child might consent but it isn’t legitimate, which is why they have parents to make their choices for them. If an adult gains consent from a child they’ve bypassed the protect…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 07:54 AM
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The phrase ‘be careful what you wish for, you might just get it’ springs to mind.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 08:23 AM
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To me gender roles are just roles. There’s no reason why a couple practicing a traditional family/work setup need to have particular genders in either role. I’m a fan of the traditional arrangement with a homemaker and a career person but each role can have any gender in my view. I’m always impressed with women who fulfill the traditional wife role because I’ve done it and it’s very challenging. I’m male by the way.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 08:36 AM
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I watched the newly released film ‘hustlers’ on Netflix last night. Based on a true story it is about a group of women who drug and steal from male strip club clients. There are constant justifications for their actions and the male victims are represented as sleazy and despicable, they are objects of ridicule. Either evil or weak while the female criminals are presented as heroic and virtuous.
/r/MensRights17/11/21 08:31 AM
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Sorry to see you down voted for simply stating recognised facts. There’s plenty of research that can be seen online that confirms what is being said here.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 09:59 AM
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When in talking proximity with a 16 year old it’s quite easy to detect from their face that they may be younger than 18 even with makeup. The way a 16 year old acts and interacts is also noticeably different from an adult. I don’t think there are any excuses except in very rare cases.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 12:42 PM
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That’s the bloody patriarchy for you!
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:58 AM
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My kids are almost grown up now and during the earlier days of parenting my marriage definitely became a struggle. Our issues weren’t the same but there are similarities. It turned out that on top of it all I was suffering from serious depression but it took a long time to find out because it was almost 20 years ago and people weren’t so clued up about it. I’m wondering if you are suffering from depression that might not actually be caused by your relationship issues. When I was in that fog I mi…
/r/MensRights20/09/21 08:03 AM
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I think men need to call it out more. Men have a habit of letting minor sexist attitudes by women go unchallenged. For example, occasionally I notice that women I’m with will make comments about men that wouldn’t be tolerated if they were said by men about a woman. I make a habit of pointing that out. I think that sometimes women forget that the equality they have rightly fought so hard to acquire applies to both sexes.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 07:48 AM
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As long as you aren’t anti women then it’s just a political viewpoint and not hate. Obviously people would say that being anti feminist is anti women but I disagree
/r/MensRights06/09/21 11:03 AM
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Great things happen in our lives but often not when we want them to happen. You seem to be forgetting that you are a father and have a child. Being a parent can be a joyous and wonderful thing if you let it. Why not change your outlook on the situation and think about the good things that can come from being a parent. Your son or daughter could be the best thing that ever happened to you. I’d say forget about the mum issues and think about how you want to go forward as a father. Ask yourself how…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 09:24 AM
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Based on personal experience I’m afraid I don’t agree at all
/r/MensRights25/06/21 09:19 AM
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My father was hit on the back of the head with a large vase by his then girlfriend because he had said something that upset her. Spent time in hospital and his recovery took months. She was initially arrested but he decided not to press charges because she expressed her regret and he loved her. My wife doesn’t like my dad and to be honest I’m not that keen on him either. She said his girlfriend was probably driven to it. This is the attitude of women to violence against men now. We had an argume…
/r/MensRights08/06/21 09:25 AM
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Also according to the media it’s ‘sex with’ not rape because the perpetrator is a woman.
/r/MensRights29/05/21 08:47 AM
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Feminists talk about how the patriarchy is bad for men as well as women and that we must end patriarchal attitudes. Well it strikes me that the idea that domestic violence is only a problem for women is obviously a patriarchal view. And yet here is an example of feminists arguing to retain a part of the patriarchy that suits their needs.
/r/MensRights15/05/21 12:46 PM
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And yet if you go to any building site, oil rig, mine, garage or battlefield, you won’t see many or even any women. They’ll tell you that it’s because they aren’t welcome but that’s just not true anymore. The truth is that women by and large don’t want the dirty and dangerous jobs. So do women need men? Yep!
/r/MensRights01/05/21 02:40 PM
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It’s all well and good until everything goes to shit. Civil war is a good example. As soon as there are enemies at the door women will be saying to men “put down that knitting and stop ballet dancing, get a gun and find your inner toxic masculinity, our survival depends on it!” The war in Yugoslavia is a recent example.
/r/MensRights17/04/21 12:06 PM
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I don’t hate women at all. In fact for most of my long life I reckon I’ve been more pro feminist than my wife. However in recent years I believe the tables have turned too far in some respects e.g. parental rights. I would also like to see women start to live up to the demands they have rightly been making for a hundred years. Women can now enter all professions but I still rarely see them doing the dangerous and dirty jobs that are still mostly done by men. Women need to step up. Nobody is stop…
/r/MensRights13/11/20 09:57 PM
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It’s time for males to start being proud of their important and essential existence. I for one am glad younger generations are showing some immunity to extreme feminist ideologies.
/r/MensRights13/11/20 09:42 PM
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I’m going to keep on doing it. If someone misreads my politeness then it’s their problem, not mine.
/r/MensRights03/10/20 08:38 PM
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It’s like saying superman, Batman, Thor and Zeus were remarkable men.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 01:26 PM
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My son who is far smarter than me and breezed through this stuff told me that a school essay should just be a list of backed up facts written in essay form, to get the best grade. He told me that your own opinion is irrelevant and will only lose you marks. The education system doesn’t praise thinking basically. It’s about creating efficient tax paying desk monkeys not creative idealists.
/r/MensRights21/09/20 09:12 AM
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I don’t think she appreciates that most women would also find it offensive.
/r/MensRights22/08/20 09:43 AM
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She’s contradicting herself. The statement is nonsensical. You can’t hate all men but not apply it to your nice boyfriend and father? She actually doesn’t hate all men. I think what she’s saying is that she hates all men that she doesn’t know personally, and if she does become acquainted them she will hate them until they can demonstrate that they are nice like her husband and boyfriend. I’m short, she is a twonk.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 03:50 PM
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Actually she’s a wonderful woman and I’m very happy. I also have my own faults which I’m in no doubt outweigh hers.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 07:44 PM
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When my son was young He wanted me to explain how to approach girls. I told him that chat up lines are a red herring. That if a girl doesn’t like the look of you there’s not much you are going to able say that will suddenly convince her otherwise. But if she likes you you can literally say anything (that isn’t an insult) and she’ll think it’s the funniest cutest thing ever. Therefore just say a thing and wait for the yey or ney. The op just confirms my theory.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 09:28 AM
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I understand your point. Men get a raw deal when they are the victims of domestic abuse. That’s true. And it does sound so far that heard is the main physical abuser, possibly because she knows that it’s easier for her to get away with it. I was just describing how I’ve seen these kind of couples before, in my family. I’m just glad they don’t have kids. Or do they? I don’t follow celebrity lives much.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 10:16 AM
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They were both occasionally violent to each other and us kids. I’m just saying sometimes it’s not just one or the other.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 10:08 AM
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My mum once stabbed my dad in the back of the hand with a fork. We all just froze and looked at it sticking out. Then he threw her into a door. My point is both parties in the case are probably guilty of all sorts, so we probably shouldn’t take sides.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 08:41 AM
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We are asked to show our feelings, but in a feminine way. If it’s a masculine way it’s apparently toxic masculinity. We are naturally inclined to be more aggressive like any other male animal. But as part of the social contract we suppress that inherent urge or end up incarcerated or alone. We had millions of years of fighting and hunting. For that last few hundred years we have had to suppress more and more of our inner selves. It’s possible and most men manage to do it just fine but I think th…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 08:28 AM
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I got rid of my son’s PlayStation when he was 13. Now he’s 21 he says that he’s glad I did. I didn’t like the violence. Not because I thought it would make him into a violent adult, I just didn’t think it was a good way for a boy to be spending hours and hours. In the same way that thwacking a tree with a plank of wood for hours and hours is isn’t a good use of time. I told him to get a more worthwhile hobby and I’d pay for it. He did and it’s why he’s now a professional motion designer.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 01:36 PM
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I think a man who shows his feminine side is usually pretty confident in his skin/gender/sexuality, whether he’s straight or gay. It’s the guys who walk like gorillas and do the macho thing who are most fragile.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 09:31 AM
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I didn’t really agree with this antiquated attitude but having said that if there’s a noise downstairs in the middle of the night it’s me that has to creep downstairs with nothing more to protect myself that my wife’s hairbrush.
/r/MensRights03/06/20 02:21 PM
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I think the natural world probably thinks that all humans are pretty parasitic, even the little cute ones
/r/MensRights03/06/20 02:16 PM
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Some business owners seem to think that they are operating their own fiefdom instead of a profit orientated enterprise, where they can blithely enforce their own laws without considering the consequences. I don’t think they ever last that long.
/r/MensRights22/05/20 05:25 PM
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I totally understand the need to represent genders and races adequately in our media but what does bother me is when I’m innocently watching something supposedly light and suddenly realise that I’m on the receiving end of a patronising lecture about a particular identity politics issue. The BBC do it a lot and it grates.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 09:57 AM
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It was clever in the way that it met bbc balance targets whilst leaving the viewer mistakenly thinking that men’s rights campaigners are mostly weirdos. There is clearly some institutionalised misandry in our society e.g. bias towards mothers in parental rights struggles, but it made no attempt to actually look at those things.
/r/MensRights22/04/20 10:33 AM
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