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There's no TL;DR. If you can cut your story/question down to 3 sentences, then I promise to give you my honest and best answer. :) That's also important in the future. Being able to say what you want to say in a brief way. Girls are attracted to that.
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:51 AM
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If I can handle her, I can handle anyone who pulls this shit. Don't. There are better things you can spend your time on than handling that shit. It's not important enough. That was my point.
/r/seduction03/12/15 01:25 AM
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Quality. I like your outlook on life, especially the part about shit tests and: ...fuck breaking your back and stressing over something you don’t love. ...fuck practicing guitar, if it doesn’t make you happy to practice every day, don’t do it. Good points. However I'm not sure I agree with the fitness part. If you want to be attractive, if you want girls to be attracted to you (in general, not just the ones you're attracted to), then you should realize that girls' brains are wired by evolution t…
/r/seduction30/11/15 03:23 AM
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Alright OP, you haven't kissed any girls and you're unhappy with this and want to change. That's great. You know all those succesful men you see, walking down the street holding hands with a pretty girl? They used to be like you. But they did something and it changed. I promise you. I used to be in your situation but now I'm not. Start working on yourself. Take your school/education/job/whatever seriously. Find out how you enjoy spending your time. Personally, I found out I enjoy playing chess a…
/r/seduction25/11/15 03:09 AM
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The title says: The three red flags. Then there's a wall of text without any sub-headlines. I skimmed it for 5-7 seconds. I still don't know what the three red flags are, or what your point is. Maybe you should improve your written communication. How will you ever attract girls if you can't express your ideas in a short, sharp, and brief and simple way? Have a nice day, internet stranger. :)
/r/seduction24/11/15 03:19 PM
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Here is one piece of advice, that will be beneficial for you if you believe me and follow it: You just need to relax. If you relax and just have fun, you will attract more girls. If you overthink it and is constantly thinking about pickup and planning when you're talking to girls, then you will seem weird and scare them away. Just focus on living your life and doing what you want to do. Find out what your passions are, work out, be social. Make sure you're fun to talk to. And don't try to kiss a…
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:01 AM
1

The answer to that question is in my above comment. If she's acting like that, I would either stop replying or write something completely crazy that would make her think WTF. You know, just for fun and to get her attention. But the right answer is: Don't be a pawn in her attention game.
/r/seduction13/11/15 01:26 AM
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This is not a conversation. This is you begging for her attention and her denying you. She should be as interested as you in keeping the conversation going. If she isn't, drop it. Otherwise, you're just running after her like a dog. Don't waste your time on people like that. There are better things you could do with your time.
/r/seduction12/11/15 01:42 AM
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My post sound a little negative. To make it more positive, my advice is: Don't care too much. Like she shouldn't care if you go out and have fun. Focus on your own life, not on hers. Unless she becomes your girlfriend, that changes things a bit of course.
/r/seduction09/11/15 03:51 PM
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If you get angry because a girl is spending her free time in a way you don't like, then you have a problem. She doesn't have a problem. And to everyone else, it will look like you're just controlling and insecure. That will scare all girls away. If you and the girl agree that you want to be exclusive, then she shouldn't kiss/flirt with anyone else at the club, depending how the two of you feel. She's still allowed to go out, even if she's your fucking wife, of course.
/r/seduction08/11/15 03:33 PM
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Remember: For 95% of men, looking handsome is not something they're born with and being being unattractive is not something you're born with and can't change (you weren't an unattractive 2 year old when you were 2). It's something you do and maintain. Work out, get in shape, dress well, get a haircut, decide what kind of beard you want, brush your teeth, shower and use deo, and roll up your sleeves and show your forearms. That'll make 95% of men attractive.
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:54 PM
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I agree with you and I admire how well you explain it. However: Flirting/escalating with a girl before she shows positive response is okay. Kissing a girl before she has given you any posive response/signals/go ahead-signs is not cool. It's a little rapey to assume consent. I assume you agree, I just thought it was important to stress this.
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:46 PM
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You're welcome. If she's initiating your conversations and always answering your texts, that's a good thing of course. Personally, if there's a girl I like and don't see very often, I also like to text her a little bit. But don't text her every day, and don't always start the conversation. It'll make you look like you don't have anything else to do, regardless of whether that is true or not. My best is advice is like I said: Use texting primarily to plan your dates/meet-ups. Get to know her, and…
/r/seduction22/09/15 08:41 PM
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Yeah well, you shouldn't ignore her completely of course. But speaking to her in person is better. The more you text her, the less you have to talk about when you see her. Think about it. If you meet a cool girl that you like, you're not going to forget her just because she doesn't text you. On the contrary, you're probably going to be more attracted to her, if she seems like she doesn't have time to talk to you all the time. Text her about when and where you're going to see her next. Use textin…
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:50 PM
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When I read your description, one thing comes to mind: There's no point in getting a number, unless she actually wants to talk to you. She has to like you, and then you can text her. Attractive girls always have a number of desperate guys trying to talk to them. Don't be one of them.
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:20 AM
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Do you have any advice on how to keep texting her throughout the week to keep her interested and reduce doubts about going out with me? Yeah. Don't do that. She wants a cool guy. A cool guy doesn't spend all his time having a text conversation with a girl. He talks to her in person. If you don't text her, she'll think about you and your date. If you tell her everything about you, she'll get bored.
/r/seduction21/09/15 03:15 AM
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/r/sex is the place you're looking for, as this is not a seduction issue :) I've also had that problem. You could call it performance anxiety. The problem is that you're not relaxed/comfortable. Solution is probably getting to know her better. Responsible me, wearing a condom, has this problem more than irresponsible me.
/r/seduction05/06/15 11:06 PM
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I don't understand. I use Tinder and I like it. Yeah, you match with a girl and then you have to use your game/social skills to seduce her. It's not very different from meeting girls IRL in my opinion.
/r/seduction02/06/15 11:46 PM
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I see a lot of people take the advice to not be a nice a guy and take it too far in the other direction. Good point. So many dudes act like assholes because they think it's more attractive than being a 'nice guy'.
/r/seduction26/05/15 09:20 PM
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So you want to be both her boyfriend and her mentor/teacher/the one who will judge if she's reaching your goals? I see no way this could go wrong.
/r/seduction26/05/15 09:15 PM
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Well, there usually is a threshold. People usually want to hook up with the most attractive people they can. If two girls approached you and you felt you could probably hook up with either of them, one of them average and the other one more attractive, what would happen? The prettiest girls in the world can attract the most attractive guys, and if you don't match them, then she will choose them over you. This is just the economics of dating. However, your attractiveness is not just your appearan…
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:58 PM
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Maybe she should ask for help somewhere else. You asking for help on this sub doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
/r/seduction26/05/15 08:47 PM
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If you're short, the answer is accept it and be confident about it. No use in worrying about what you can't change. I also think that guys place too much importance on height. Girls care more about your confidence, humour, social skills, appearance (do you take care of yourself), and general personality than your height
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:11 PM
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Alright, that's life. The only thing you can do is just work on yourself and talk to the people you want to. Some girls will reject you, others won't. And if you find that every single attractive girl rejects you, there might be something you can work on.
/r/seduction26/05/15 04:06 PM
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Your rationale is that because one girl didn't want to fuck you, you hate all women. That makes complete sense. Like I once met an American who visited my country and he was an asshole, so now I hate all 300 million Americans. Oh, and by the way, I'm being sarcastic.
/r/seduction26/05/15 02:49 PM
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Think about it for a sec. The statement: 'she is so attractive that I better not talk to her' makes no sense. Sure, some girls are hotter than you are, and maybe they're going to reject you. That's no problem. If you want to you should still talk to them. What if a girl was interested in you, but thought you were out of her league (which many girls think all the time), what would you advice her? To give it a try. Don't respect the thought that she's too hot.
/r/seduction26/05/15 02:43 PM
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I too, use rimjobs as the primary way to avoid falling in the friendzone! Works every time.
/r/seduction21/05/15 02:10 PM
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What does it even mean to feel 'beta'? To feel like a guy who is not the most powerful? I don't think thinking in these terms helps anyone. Edit: Just so I don't come off as too negative, I appreciate the point of your post though.
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:54 PM
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for most unhealthy people; jerking off is the healthiest thing they do. Yes. It's also healthy for healthy people. I don't know about the reward thing. Watching porn and fapping like a mad man for the past 10 years has not made me less motivated to go out and meet girls. I think everybody agrees that getting laid is more satisfying than jerking off. If I can't do my favorite thing, I'm gonna do the next best thing. Doesn't mean I don't see the bigger reward out there. Disclaimer: Maybe I have a …
/r/seduction18/05/15 06:10 PM
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I don't think porn is bad and I think masturbating very often is just fine, as long as you only do it because you want to. Yes watching a lot of porn can get you desensitized to sexy/beautiful girls. That could actually help you relax more around girls and not put them on a pedestal. Whenever I'm going on a date/seeing a girl/meeting a girl and expecting to have sex, I always masturbate before. It helps keep you relaxed and last longer when you do get laid. What about couples who like to watch p…
/r/seduction18/05/15 06:01 PM
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I know. I mentioned masturbation because it's related and because it's healthy. A lot of redditors who buy the 'porn is bad' also buy the 'masturbation is bad'.
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:27 PM
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Are you asking how you can hook up with other girls and cheat on your girlfriend or I am missing something? When you're in a relationship, it's good to mention it, if you're talking to a girl and you think she might be interested. Because you know, don't cheat.
/r/seduction17/05/15 09:34 PM
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I agree with 1, 2, 3, and 5 a lot. I don't agree with 4, I watch a lot of porn and I love it. Been doing it for the past 10 years and I don't see the problems that the NoFap people are so concerned about. I haven't seen any actual science backing the NoFap people up. On the contrary, all scientists tell me that masturbation is healthy. However, while I agree with most of your list, this is not what confidence is. Confidence is believing in yourself, it is knowing that you're alright and you don'…
/r/seduction17/05/15 09:28 PM
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Have other stuff to do. Live an interesting life and text her when you're bored. From her point of view: If you text her all the time, it will seem like you don't have a life. It kills attraction. From your point of view: Texting girls shouldn't be your top priority. Do your own thing and talk to her sometimes.
/r/seduction14/05/15 02:05 PM
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That's not what feminists believe. Why are we looking for the most crazy claims someone has posted online to make fun of? It's also so stupid it looks like trolling. Is this what men's rights are about? Anyone who has actually ever talked to a girl knows that they don't think like this. There are plenty of real issues out there that need to be discussed. Another thing most of you probably don't believe: some feminists want equal rights and support men's rights. And yes other feminists want femal…
/r/MensRights07/05/15 11:03 AM
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I'm having trouble understanding exactly what your question is? Or what the mentality you speak of is. Can you sum in up in 1-3 sentences? Then I'll do my best to answer. I'm a loser Change that to: I'm a cool guy who still has a lot to improve. :)
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:41 AM
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Good points.
/r/seduction03/05/15 11:01 PM
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Yeah that's true with some exceptions. Some girls are very observant/self-aware and can probably give some decent advice, but a lot can't. It's probably just as true for men, not knowing what actually attracts us. I've been lurking around /r/askwomen for a while and there's a lot of: "I'm not attracted to bad boys/muscular men/men with power/womanizers etc. I just want a nice guy who can hold an interesting conversation." I'm sure many of these girls actually sleep with the bad boys etc. That be…
/r/seduction24/04/15 04:17 PM
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There's probably not a lot of girls here. Try posting it to /r/askwomen instead, you'll probably get more answers.
/r/seduction24/04/15 01:54 PM
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That's true. Whenever a case like this gets an unfair legal sentence, it should be criticised. Maybe I'm wrong in this case, I was just noticing a lot of people arguing against the comments in the picture. And that reminds me a lot of trying to argue with crazy, religious people for example.
/r/MensRights16/04/15 12:48 AM
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First of all, this looks like bait. Second, if it's real it's just the extreme. How many women don't you think would be disgusted with this? This is like searching for the most insane opinions and then criticising them. Of course she's a lunatic and we're right, but like 98% agree that it's not okay to fuck small boys so it's not the most important discussion. Let's adress the more common problems like teenage boys getting arrested for having sex with teenage girls.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 08:44 PM
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That is simply wrong. I have no idea where you get that from. All feminists don't hate men, get real.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:29 PM
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Why do you think it's a hate movement. There are plenty of feminists who want actual equal rights.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:26 PM
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No it doesn't. If we're talking about the Oxford Dictionary (not that it's the supreme source of truth), it says: "The legally or formally recognized union of a man and a woman (or, in some jurisdictions, two people of the same sex) as partners in a relationship." I was merely looking for definitions.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:24 PM
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The dictionary is where we write down the definition we agree on. Like I originally said, self-proclaimed feminists have different views on what feminism is. If I call myself a nazi and say nazism is about love and peace, it doesn't change the definition of nazism. Same thing with feminism.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 04:53 PM
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Okay, says who? I was going with the Oxford Dictionary definition. What is your source? Edit: downvote asking for source - wtf mensrights, get a grip.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:27 PM
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I think the reason it's called feminism instead of say, equalism, is that it was invented back when women really were oppressed. When they couldn't vote, make a career, be independent etc. The goal was still equality, not female privilege. I don't see how it's different from his sub named Men's Rights.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:03 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I only joined this sub a couple of months ago because I think there's a problem with female privilege in some places (and male privilege in others of course) and I support equal rights. However, this sub is a lot more misogynic than I was hoping for. Hopefully the majority still support equal rights.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:47 PM
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I think we need to define feminism whenever we discuss it. I know some girls who call themselves feminist who really want female privilege instead of equality. But I also know girls who call themselves feminists who want actual equal rights between genders. If we're bashing feminists, I feel it's important to define what we're bashing. Surely, /r/mensrights support equal rights? EDIT: Okay, I just looked up a couple of difinitions of feminism. The Oxford Dictionary says: "The advocacy of women’s…
/r/MensRights26/03/15 01:17 PM
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Don't do porn kids, it'll rot your dick. Wtf? No it won't. I don't get any of this. To me it's like the people who say that listening to hiphop or playing GTA makes you go out and kill people. In the periods of my life when I've been most succesful (both generally and with girls) I've watched a ton of porn. I really don't see the problem. "Porn corrupts your view of sex? Yeah like Spongebob corrupts your view of underwater life."
/r/seduction13/03/15 10:33 AM
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That's the beauty of it. If you call it a date and make it (somewhat) obvious that you're not looking for a platonic friendship, and she's still up for it, you know she's very likely interested. Good luck and have fun. If you haven't seen this post, I just wanted to drop it. It's from the 'Top Posts of Seddit of All Time' and it really inspired me when I first saw it. http://i.imgur.com/1cYyZ.jpg
/r/seduction06/03/15 05:49 PM
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Well I don't know if you blew it, from what you wrote she seems interested. "Hey, do you want to meet up and hang out/get lunch?" is something you would say, even if you only wanted friendship. She can't tell if you're interested or not from this. "Hey, nice meeting you the other day. You wanna go out on a date some time/let's go out on a date some time." is better. It's easier of course if you don't get to know her too well before saying something like that. And you're right, you shouldn't tell…
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:45 PM
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One thing - If you don't just want friendship but want to get with her, you need to make your intentions clear. If you treat her like a friend, you'll become her friend. When you ask someone out, make sure they know that it's a date and not just friendly hang-out. Call it a date so she knows what you want. You need her to perciece you as a potential partner from the beginning. It's actually a lot easier and a lot less awkward when it's obvious why you're meeting. That's why it's great that you s…
/r/seduction04/03/15 09:54 PM
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I think he meant: It's hard to believe how fast time flies and that 2007 is already 8 years ago.
/r/seduction20/02/15 10:52 AM
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"Hey sweetheart, I'm so excited about going shopping for that dress. Did you see my sister's baby, she's soooo cute and adorable! <3 I had such a wonderful time with my family this weekend." "Fuck PS3! I bet he wishes he hadn't sold that fucking Xbox. Let's watch some fucking football. Fucking government taking away my freedom with these fucking taxes, it's bullshit. Fucking shit." Anyway, what does this have to do with seduction? :)
/r/seduction20/02/15 10:41 AM
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That's good to hear. I know how large and diverse America is of course. There are two things wrong with this. Like you mentioned, the gender discrimination but also just the fact that this is treated like a crime when it's clearly not rape. For perspective, here's how we do it in Denmark: Age of consent is 15. If a 16yo and a 14yo have sex, it's technically illegal. But if it's consensual it wouldn't become a case, let alone result in a sentence. If two minors have sex, I'm pretty sure it wouldn…
/r/MensRights17/02/15 02:46 PM
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As a European, this simply doesn't make any sense. Why do they want to punish teenagers for having consensual sex? I understand that America is more puritan and conservative but what the fuck? How can they think that jail is a good idea because a young couple had sex? Can't the boy's family/attorney stop this?
/r/MensRights17/02/15 01:44 PM
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"I'm a cool guy, I'll just go talk to get. If she's not interested that's cool. I'll go talk to her to find out if I'm interested in her."
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:53 PM
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I don't get what the problem with jerking off is. I agree that porn addiction or excessive use of porn could be a problem but masturbation in itself? It could relieve stress and make you more relaxed which would help your game? Masturbation is healthy as far as I know. Also, whenever I think I'm getting laid, I make sure to jerk off before in order to take some of the pressure off. If anyone can explain why they disagree I'll be happy to hear it.
/r/seduction19/01/15 03:55 PM
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Watch out dude. So many people before you have taken drugs and felt on top of things only to get addicted. Your night game isn't worth becoming a drug addict for.
/r/seduction12/01/15 01:37 AM
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Show them that you're not a nerd or boring or whatever the problem is. Prove them wrong.
/r/seduction21/10/14 11:47 PM
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Some girls just aren't interested and some girls won't tell you so but will come up with a bullshit excuse instead. That's life. This happens to everybody once in a while. Sometimes it just takes time to get over someone. One or two months from now, you'll definitely feel better. Just try to get out and enjoy life as much as you can, meet new people etc. Noone is demanding that you feel on top of the world right now, right? Sometimes improvement comes on step at a time. One day at a time.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:47 PM
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If white people are the vast majority where you live, then a black guy will stand out a bit and will be noticed. A lot of white girls have a fantasy of being with a black man. However, it sounds like it has little to do with race and everything to do with their approach. If it seems to be working, you can do the same. I wouldn't be too aggressive with a stranger though, it's a turn off for many girls.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:52 PM
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Personally, I wouldn't use that opener. If you start by complimenting her looks, it's likely that she will see you as just another dude putting her on a pedestal. And the first impression is very important. Here is an interesting AskReddit thread. I'd say the top comment makes a good point.
/r/seduction29/07/14 02:16 PM
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Interesting to hear a "lesbian point of view". I've often wondered if lesbians and straight guys think the same way when it comes to girls and hookups. I would love to try having a lesbian wingwoman some day and hit the town, approaching girls together. Don't know any lesbians unfortunately.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:52 PM
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Yeah I know. The problem is that she's absolutely not in a hurry to make plans. I've pushed things a bit too much I think. Initially she said she wasn't interested which I accepted. A couple of months later we talked over facebook and had a funny conversation. Then she agreed to the date. But she's clearly not as interested as I am, that's the risky part of it. I think I'll give it some time and then call her, just to ask her what's up.
/r/seduction16/07/14 08:52 PM
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I'm not sure what I'll do. I'll probably call her next week if she hasn't called, just to ask her what's up. It should be possible to do that without being needy, right?
/r/seduction16/07/14 02:23 PM
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Oh man, I need this advice right now. I've met a pretty, funny, and smart girl (she's 19, I'm 24). I knew right away that it was risky because I'm really attracted to her and she's way more relaxed about it than I am. She's a stranger I met at a bar, we made out, got her number and then she flaked. After talking on Facebook/texting for a while, she changed her mind and we went out on a date and it went really well, we laughed a lot, drank a couple of beers, got to know each other, and made out f…
/r/seduction15/07/14 11:35 PM
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If it were me, I'd probably use it to ask her out. If she's texting you, you can be more direct (she's showing interest): If she asks you randon questions you can reply with: "I'd rather tell you in person. If you want to talk about ____ meet me tomorrow at ____." Would that work? I dunno. But it's better than texting.
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:45 PM
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Don't worry too much about it. If she seems like it would be OK, then kiss her when you're having a good time. If you want to know whether or not she wants to be kissed: is she making it possible? Sitting near you, looking at you, keeping eye contact? If yes, then kiss her. And don't worry too much :)
/r/seduction12/07/14 07:06 PM
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I generally have a lot of respect for the seduction community and this subreddit in particular. But the whole "HB08" thing is just stupid. I don't see the point in it. Last year I dated a girl all summer, who weren't the prettiest girl I could've dated. Psysically, she was less attractive than say, my ex for example. But I dated her anyway, because she was fun, cool, smart, good in bed. I don't regret it. Just do what you want :)
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:54 PM
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If I'm about to approach and I get AA, it often helps to ask myself: What's the worst that can happen? And what's the best?
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:43 PM
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Stop texting her. Here's what you need to talk about before the date: Where you're going, when you're meeting up, what's the plan (as in: are you going out for a cup of coffee or eating dinner?) and that's it. If you don't text her she will think about you, wonder what you're like etc. because she doesn't know. The more you text and the more information you give her, the less exciting you will seem. You know who sends her a lot of texts? Her friends. You're not her friend, you're guy she's going…
/r/seduction10/07/14 08:28 PM
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I've never been to a club in the US but this is how we do it in Europe and I expect that it's not that different. Some people like clubs and some don't. Some guys love dancing to pop music and these people have an easy time meeting girls in a club. Some people (including myself) feel ridiculous trying to dance in a club and are simply in the wrong place. If you happen to be the first type I described then good for you and enjoy it. If you're the other type, then don't feel bad about it, if you d…
/r/seduction15/04/14 09:52 PM
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I agree to some extent but there are some things that we can label right or wrong (or very likely good and very likely bad) if you're aiming at attracting girls. Good: Eye contact, smiling, saying hi, being confident and calm. Very basic of course but this is "the right things to do". But yeah, every situation is different as you say.
/r/seduction14/04/14 10:36 PM
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Yeah, I've been checking out bookstores, art galleries, and similar places but without any luck. And in my country it's hard to walk up to a stranger and talk, as this isn't very common (compared to the United States for example where small talking with strangers is a lot more common). The volunteer work is a good point. I might volunteer at a major rock festival in the summer and there'll be tons of girls, so that's actually a great idea. My experience is that it's always hard to meet girls if …
/r/seduction02/04/14 10:06 PM
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HotBabe10. The number is how attractive she is on a 1-10 scale. See GLOSSARY OF TERMS in the sidebar to the right. Also this term is kind of silly.
/r/seduction02/04/14 06:14 PM
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Thanks, nice to get the girls' perspective. As a guy who almost always wears headphones and doesn't wear cologne, it made me reconsider those things. Any thoughts on where to approach girls during daytime? For context: I'm a 24 year old guy, living in Copenhagen (which is a fairly large city filled with hot Scandinavian girls). I used to do alright with girls, have had a long term relationship and five other sex partners but for the past six months, I haven't met too many girls and haven't been …
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:08 PM
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Some people lose their virginity when they are 15-17. A lot of people don't. When you're 20+ and still a virgin, you start thinking "There must be something wrong, everybody else is having sex. Maybe I'm going to die a virgin because if I could've I would've." This is wrong. When I was 20, I was a virgin and starting to think like this - "maybe it's never going to happen because it should've happened by now." I live in Denmark where most people have sex at 16-17. Then I met a nice girl who becam…
/r/seduction28/03/14 01:19 PM
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Discovering this subreddit two weeks ago has really helped me. Some of the things I've read here has really improved my game. This weekend I was at parties and I remembered some of the points: seek eye contact with all the cute girls, if eye contact is established hold it a couple of seconds and give her a casual smile. Walk up to her and say 'Hi', even though you don't know what to say. I never knew this would work so well. Even when you get a polite rejection, you feel great because you know y…
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:03 PM
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One exception though: If she's giving you strong signals that she wants you to kiss her now, and there's no doubt that you're allowed to do it, you can say: "I'm going to kiss you now" and then immediately do it. But this should only be said if you're sure that you're going to do it and if you think she will find it funny/cool.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:45 AM
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jimmyayo said it. My experience is also that it's almost always a bad idea to even mention kissing etc before it has happened. It will very likely make it awkward. After the first kiss, everything is different because now it is clear that you are not just a friend or a stranger.
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:03 AM
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This sounds like a both fun and very useful game. But I don't have a random word generator, what do you use? I don't have a new smartphone.
/r/seduction22/02/14 12:55 AM
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I think it really just depends on whether you are able to connect with this specific girl. Some people just can't connect or have a hard time doing so. When you meet someone you have a lot in common with, it will be easier to maintain the right mood after you've got to know her. You should definitely be able to have a conversation with her before you think about "touching" her, as you say.
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