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| 1 | I'm going on a second date next weekend and have no idea how to escalate without coming on too strong.The best analogy I can give to escalating is like the physical interaction you have with the boys in a sport. When you see guys hug, chest bump and pat each other on the back when they make a play, it comes off natural. Why? because it's a spur of the moment type thing. The biggest hindrance to escalating touch is thinking about it. I used to think about it and keep an eagle's eye on signs, it was super draining and broke your flow and focus. Just enjoy the experience or conversation you have wi… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 12:15 PM |
| 2 | The way I view girls is holding me back so much, and no matter how much I read about pick up, I'm not getting much farther past approach anxietyI totally understand where you're coming from bro. I thought I met this amazing girl, who was pretty, had a great personality and had amazing life ambitions. I thought she was perfect. Then things didn't go well between me and her. But you know what. I looked through my facebook friends in the last 6 months. And there were 20-30 amazing girls that I became friends with over the last couple of months, just from going to conventions, parties and events. Many of them realistically were equally amaz… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 12:07 PM |
| 7 | Just went to a bar alone, feel retarded as fuck, please helpThe best learning tool that I had when I first started off in bars is just a packet of cigarettes. So go up to some people in the smoking area and ask for a light. Thank them for it and just kind of keep talking. Ask them something simple like how's their night been or what are they drinking. Just make sure you're chill and just enjoying the vibe and you can sound cool taking about anything. Also, don't worry if they don't seem super into you or not. After a couple of weeks of night game, I bump… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Any beginner tips on meeting girls in college?I have to say college was some of the funnest times of my life. I think the best way to think about it isn't so much how you meet girls but more about getting out and doing stuff. I got involved in a ton of "nerdy" clubs while I was in college. Stuff like video games club and Anime club, you'd be surprised that there are actually plenty of girls at these things. Super easy way to meet people and start conversations. Also, start getting involved with club management. Girls love seeing guys with s… | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 11:46 AM |
| 8 | When they say they have a boyfreindI stumbled onto my favorite response early on in my trials. "Yeh that's cool". If they are fun and good conversation it doesn't matter. Sometimes they might like you, sometimes they are just talking shit and sometimes they might introduce you to their single friends. Enjoy the process and don't worry about the goal. At the very least your mind and confidence will thank you for it. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 06:23 AM |
| 3 | How do you get a girl to leave?Just get up and start playing Xbox, she'll start feeling like a third wheel and just kind of leave. | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Explain Pick Up like I'm 5.The simplest and non-jargon answer to your question is this. The basic idea of pick up is to learn how to act, how to feel and to a certain extent what to say to women in order to present yourself as not a hopeless loser or freak. If all you learn is how to be confident and comfortable with yourself and not reliant on the other person's response to feel good, you're already miles ahead of the average Joe. Everything else like learning to escalate or kino or logistics are really just mechanical e… | /r/seduction | 14/12/15 12:43 AM |
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