grapejuice__ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	22F starts seeing 56M. Advice?	ADVICE	grapejuice__	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 08:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A Vetting Guide This is such a good post that I keep coming back to it all the time. Thank you for sharing.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/03/26 08:28 PM
0	22F starts seeing 56M. Advice? I've come a long way after being SA'd and me posting for advice doesn’t justify being misjudged by a random like you.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 09:48 PM
1	22F starts seeing 56M. Advice? She told me he wants to build family and open to children	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 09:16 PM
0	22F starts seeing 56M. Advice? Wdym?	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 08:56 PM
0	22F starts seeing 56M. Advice? Yes, we both dates guys who are older. For context, we live in big metropolitan area and guys have lots of options here -- thus, I think guys here actually start looking for a wife in their late 20s/early 30s. I'm 20F and I usually dates guy who are 8-10 years older but she just told me about this guy so I'm surprised when I heard his age. He's very accomplished career wise and is dependable (her words) but I questions their age gap. I've seen people in age gap relationship make it works so I'm …	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 08:51 PM
1	How to respond when a man asks ‘ what do you bring to the table?’ Super great way to put it	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/26 06:36 PM
1	Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned Post nut clarity or they’re not attracted to you enough. As in, smashable but not likeable	/r/seduction	07/02/26 09:06 AM
1	Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned I’m a woman but hey if it works it works I don’t get the hate you’re getting at all. Everything’s to each their own	/r/seduction	07/02/26 09:03 AM
1	should I give him a chance? Did you accept his offer? How long and how many dates since the breakup? There are not much info here to give a concrete advice. Just let both men pursue you. If you’ve been on at least 2 romantic dates with the 22M, let him actively pursue you and it’s been more than 1 months yet you don’t feel anything for him, then let him go. The 19M is only back in the game if and only if he moves closer to you and ask you on a proper date again (make his intentions known). Good luck	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 05:49 PM
27	Am I (19F) overthinking over (28M) choice of words? Weird dude. If he was actually interested he would act proper and court you in a respectful way. He’s hitting on you. Better make firm boundaries (esp physically) before he cross the line again. Some dudes like this turn out to be stalkers and get obsessed. Hope that you be careful and protect yourself ❤️	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 08:58 AM
1	should I give him a chance? You broke up with your ex, unless he decides to step it up then he’s out of the picture. Also he’s pursuing you, the chase is supposed to convince/make you develop feelings for him, eventually allowing him to be your boyfriend. Proceed what with him? Has he asked you to be his girlfriend yet? Let him pursue you BUT most importantly focus on your own life.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 04:08 AM
1	Should I continue to wait for marriage? Yes that is what I’m talking about. There are women with different circumstances (eg. sexual assault) and men with unholy pasts so I want to avoid making generalizations.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 04:02 AM
1	Should I continue to wait for marriage? Then you already have your answer	/r/RedPillWomen	15/07/24 03:55 AM
2	Should I continue to wait for marriage? I would simply put, don’t wait for marriage, wait for the right man that embodies Christ’s qualities. Certainly the men you mentioned are not the right ones. Someone who isn’t a virgin and high value would NOT even do that with those guys. I would say hold off as long as you can (until marriage is preferred), but remember marriage is when the journey actually starts, the work doesn’t stop there it will get harder. Also evaluate the pros and cons of having sex before marriage as it is subjective.…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/24 04:53 AM
2	How to go about bills when bf wants to pay all of them but struggles? He does not ask you to pay rent; then why should you? He's a capable man who's capable of figuring it out for himself. He should know his budget and skimp back on unnecessary expenses if needed. Did he tell you he is stressed, or was it just your observation? Tell him you already have many clothes/makeup, and he doesn't need to buy more. Instead of buying him some things he might not need, I think you need a cool down from traveling so you guys can save up. Buy him a practical gift if it's near …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/07/24 05:22 PM
1	Do you care if there's an age gap in dating? I don't care about age gaps but the difference in life experience is a double edged sword. When I was 19 I dated multiple 30-40 year olds and most of the time I just smile and nod since I couldn't care less despite having similar experiences (moving across multiple countries). Most expat guys just yap about their travels. At the end of the day I'd say comes down to whether the guy is attractive or not and whether there are compatibilities. I'm currently 21 and still haven't been on any dates wit…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 07:32 AM
7	I regret losing my virginity. Feelings come and go, time will make you feel better looking back at the situation (I myself also regret losing the way it did). But I think that it was a big turning point and learning experience that helped me develop my character and who I am today. Refrain from interacting with those guys and spend time on yourself. You're not dirty nor perfect. You can still be a godly wife, it was a once in a lifetime experience and you recognized it was wrong. You can bounce back from this, don't let it c…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/24 07:12 AM
1	What do you think is the cause for this to happen? Maybe he has a small peepee /jk	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 08:10 AM