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| 0 | Girlfriend's past showed up a hell of a hoe phase among other red flags. Advice on how to proceed with keeping her as a plate?Just dump her ass. She moved cities and that sucks but you said you've been dating only 2 months? That's on her... You feel guilty about shit so you don't want to 'hard dump' -- well, nut up and do it. Longer you wait, the harder it will be. Don't be gutless and leave used condoms around to "Do the dirty work for you" or some other juvenile scheme. As for keeping her around for "convenient ass" -- well -- that might happen, it might not. I've certainly done with at least 2 exes, but it happened … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/23 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Had 8 year long redpill relationship with highschool sweetheart. Maintained frame like a boss until I didn't. Would like to know your thoughts.http://www.fastseduction.com/archives-2/ This is real old shlt. Waay back in the day, but the shit works. I remember when Cocky Funny was big ha. And it still works. Anyway I haven't even re-read this shit but some of these guys were very good. Lifeguard was one particular macho personality that I recommend. BradP had lots of good stuff on 'sexy male archetypes.' How much was bullshit/ exaggerated/ true is up to you to distill, but the concepts are generally solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Had 8 year long redpill relationship with highschool sweetheart. Maintained frame like a boss until I didn't. Would like to know your thoughts.You don’t know what frame is. It’s more of a construct of a social situation. It’s not about pretending to be machismo or acting like some unflappable stoic cartoon character representation of a man. Almost none of the younger generation does. Start reading some old school stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/23 01:00 PM |
| 21 | SMV Reigns All [Leonardo DiCaprio edition]Hedonism is generally empty. At least that’s what Russell Brand warns. And many others. But still, it’s an interesting case study in status. On the women subreddits they all claim they love dad bod men who are feminists and doormats. And of course they know, they’re the women!! This story is a counter point (even though Leo has a dad bod anyway, his looks fame money status are off the charts). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 17 | Are you even your types type?Fact is, easy for a (thin) woman to get ass, tougher for the average man. So actually as a man you need to be WELL ABOVE the same level woman, but once you break through to top 5-10%, you'll get mucho ass. And no, it's not like attracts like. A UFC manly man might want to fuck the shit outta an actress type woman. In fact life is more interesting if you're not the same subculture. Women want a man who: Has edge, is tough, bustling social life, hobbies, career, personality, mission, all that shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Shows signs of investment, then double-ghosts me? After 4 great datesI’ve dragged out situations before in my younger days. But I’ve banged girls after 5-6 dates. I doubt that’s the issue. It’s definitely AN issue. And he invited her to his place in the future so she knew it was coming. I think another guy popped up. Grass is greener. That’s why she delayed the next date for a while. Gives her a chance to date guy B, and if it fizzles, she can still go on. Of course it didn’t fizzle. Probably got gorilla pounded. Ghosting is really rude, but what can she say? I w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 0 | "just move on" is NOT good adviceIt's a nice soundbyte, but it's wrong. The original quote was meant to apply to YOU saying Fuck Yes or No. Which is a good life credo. Somewhat. There are exceptions. The dentist isn't a fuck yes, is it? Real Talk. Women are green (auto-yes), yellow (maybes) and red (no chance). You are ignoring the fact that there are Yellows. They can be seduced, convinced to fuck you. That's the whole point. You're not even "seducing" the greens, they are free wins. Does that mean they find you less attractiv… | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 02:12 PM |
| 5 | "just move on" is NOT good adviceI think the seduction = salesman is actually spot on. However, in sales ... you don't only target the "fuck yes" people. You would be a crappy salesman if that were the case. Keep it simple -- women, prospects are Green (will buy if you find them), yellow (maybes) and red (no chance in hell). You want to Qualify and really weed out the Reds quickly. However, you need "game" and persistence to get the Yellows. Persistence is tricky though. I've worked over girls who were lukewarm and then they re… | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 7 | Is all success based in sex? Is there even such a thing as non-sexual success?Pursuing sex is likely an empty pursuit; just like pursuing money or fame. But those who have never tried them think 'all their problems, their sense of meaninglessness, their low self esteem' -- will be solved with a huge pile of money and a harem of girls. Now, those probably would help you. Because once you have them, you'll at least realize this, and tell the other people... who of course won't believe you. More pragmatically though -- there is a low-level baseline of wealth and women (findi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/23 05:12 PM |
| 6 | How to fully put myself into myself?You found two shit women (or at least one broke after a common occurrence). That doesn’t mean all hope is lost. You need to find another one. A good one. Strong enough to cope with death. And not a literal coke fiend. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/23 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyIt’s called arbitrage but not for everyone. Many ppl move to America for better jobs, for instance | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyNot sure, give it a try. Dress with some edge and go over looking fit/ jacked . Stack the deck in your favor. Play up the American angle if you’re American. | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 01:51 AM |
| 16 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyThis is spot on in my view. The average young Russian woman in a major city is very fuckable. The average American chick is sadly an obese warpig - who in this country is exposed to a full tome of man hating bullshit on the daily. If you’re a woman and merely 5 pounds overweight in the US, you will have a legion of thirsty men sniffing around. Sad state of affairs. | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyI know pieces of Russian, but not really. If they didn’t speak English, it didn’t work out. But plenty young ppl in the cities did | /r/seduction | 20/09/23 01:34 AM |
| 21 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyYour worldview is also incorrect here. Fitting the cultural archetypes might help in politics or executive ladder climbing, maybe. For sex, it’s very good to be different and exotic. American men give huge bonus to French and English chicks. Many foreign countries they will give bonus points for being a foreigner. You’re mysterious, adventure, and they haven’t fucked one before. It’s probably evo biology. Generic diversity. But you generally get bonus points from women for being foreign. Now, ev… | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 03:01 PM |
| 69 | Eastern Europe is so much better for dating than the west it’s crazyWrong. I’m an American male, 6 feet, fit enough, make a pile of money. Kind of a dork so let’s say I’m a 7 at worst. Have fucked a few super hot chicks before so. Western dating is a slog. In Russia, i had literally 500 matches a day from hot chicks. No green card, no gold digging, they knew I was on vacation and fucked me for fun. If I was staying long term, even a higher % of chicks would have fucked me. Western dating culture (primarily the women in my view) are fucked. Either that, or the nu… | /r/seduction | 19/09/23 02:56 PM |
| 79 | Social NPCYou sperg out because you feel pressure to say something witty or interesting. Don’t. Say something stupid, or real, or whatever. Ask her if she knows where the nearest library is. With no follow up. No reason. … or just say anything. Are you not curious about people? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 06:37 PM |
| 3 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:The women aren't supposed to 'come' -- when you become attractive you still need to be the man and engage. This time they'll actually smile though and spread their legs. At that point hopefully they do 'come.' If you're still the male version of a Fat Chick -- back to work. | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:I do plenty of nerd shit and understand finance pretty well. And math and computers and game theory and on. Point is, people on Reddit have an overload of that crap usually. And it’s not sexy to women. Balance is key. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 08:27 PM |
| 6 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:First of all, nothing of what you said is unusual. In college there is a huge group not getting laid (especially in this day & age) -- and another huge group is only fucking fat chicks and uggos. I look back at college and until senior year, and even senior year, I was an utter juvenile & completely clueless (with social skills/ women). College is a maturation process - cut yourself some slack. With the women-folk, I'm not a guru -- but you're onto something. Generally, women are just as superfi… | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 03:16 PM |
| 53 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Although this is somewhat true; it is crap advice. First of all -- not every guy is fine wine at 30 (lmao) which is not even that old. Many are obese losers whose social skills have only plummeted further. Secondly, obviously, a ton of young bucks get laid with ease in their 20s. Not to mention, even though it's possible to fuck 19 year olds when you're 35, if you're into that, it's much harder than when you're in college. I think your advise -- focus on the self rather than chasing girls -- is … | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.Not to downplay it but most ppl had shit childhoods and different traumas. You're not broken or totally unique. Victim Complex society is all too alluring. Nothing is your fault and take these pills and in fact you should be outraged and emotionally self-indulgent! Yeah maybe some uncle molested you, you lost a limb, or some other crazy shit. Your parents weren't super rich and didn't buy you a car. That's horrible. Dust yourself off and start kicking some ass. No more feeling sorry for yourself… | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 07:39 PM |
| 15 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.That’s true. However I’m well above average at math and thus suck at teaching it. Especially little tricks or techniques or to ppl who struggle with the basics. It comes naturally to me so I can’t even relate or understand what the barriers are. So the quarterback is that with women. We are in the remedial class learning the basics and some training wheel shit lmao | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 05:52 PM |
| 8 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.Nah I had a super hot girlfriend briefly. Like by conventional standards. They’re all hot but you know superficially. Twig waist, massive boobs, guys necks swiveling. Very little emotional connection though sadly. Not exactly sure what she saw in me. You definitely can be socially awkward. I am, more or less. I think if you’re an introverted intellectual geek type, you always will be a little off talking to the normies/ stupids. Ha but in all seriousness. Thinking dicking hot bitches is a merito… | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 05:45 PM |
| 29 | Unleashing Your Inner Alpha: When Power is Rooted in Self-UnderstandingIt's the classic outer game vs inner game debate, but -- the obvious answer is that it's an interactive combination of both. You can be an ugly poor schmuck without social skills --- but be supremely confident somehow -- but in reality -- that's hard mode, when faced with an avalanche of pre-rejection and judgments. If you look good, feel good, are actually positive emotionally -- girls will smile at you. Enough smile at you, you will believe you are an attractive man. Because you are one. Simil… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/23 03:24 PM |
| 19 | Probably the most genuine advice you will ever hear from anyone: Young guys, listen, LEARN to validate your own masculinity cause at the end of the day the only person who can help you retain self-respect is not the women or even other men validating you, IS YOUYou’ll get there dude. But the point is. Especially in modern western society - men and women are extremely superficial. Mostly for arbitrary evolutionary stimuli that are no longer relevant. Like the McDonald’s mcgriddle was designed to REALLY tickle the evolutionary stimuli. It ain’t all that impressive though, is it? A handsome man with feminine features who gets ass thrown at him — well, not exactly impressive either. He just ticked the right boxes genetically. The point of Op’s post was tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?Ha not exactly bro. Oh yeah "go outside" is the answer. Why didn't I think of that. Look. It's easier for men to understand this shit in woman terms. If you can't "get ass" -- you're the male version of a Fat Chick, which can be an ego deflater. How would you tell a Fat Chick to actually date fuckable, cool dudes? Would you tell her to go outside and "shake your money maker honey!" ? Would you tell her just to be confident and stop worrying about "bullshit" ? Of course not. You'd tell her to los… | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?Ha. I see the idiots on here are back onto "be yourself, bro!" Brilliant advice. Absolutely useless, but brilliant. Studying game, is like studying baseball stats like that nerd in Moneyball. Did anybody do it for 100 years prior to that nerd? No. Did the nerd make a shitload of money due to his autistic studying? Yes. Yes he did. Look. Most PRIMATES have been smashing pissers for millenia. It's natural. "Game" comes in two ways. You're not satisfied with your current crop of women. If you START… | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.Are the photos recent? Are you really sure the 3-4 girls became immediately deflated after seeing you? I mean… why would that happen unless you have a hidden physical deformity revealed upon meeting? Or are you just imagining it out of misplaced anxiety? I’ve only done this myself once or twice but the girls catfished me a little and we 20 pounds heavier. Otherwise even the girls who don’t like me —- we have a pleasant date and then they say hey there’s no spark later. Get a socially savvy guy f… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/23 07:00 PM |
| 2 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itOof you got me. I'm a fairly wealthy man, but even I don't pay for porn. Pro tip -- if you're trying to insult some random on the internet, it helps if you're good at cold reading + pick at blanket insecurities. For instance -- I take it you're ugly, chubby, and poor, and lead an unremarkable life. Now, that was pulled out of my ass, but you get the idea? | /r/seduction | 30/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itI have a girlfriend dude. Gen Z, I take it? | /r/seduction | 30/08/23 02:58 PM |
| 0 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itI run 10 miles a day, don't worry about me touching grass ha. But you are right - the women on that sub are particularly nuts. Still, I travel to Europe and Asian frequently. American women's attitudes are just going downhill. Not everyone, but enough to take notice. | /r/seduction | 29/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 4 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itSomething in the water in America fucked the women's heads here. Seriously. "I did not give ocular consent for you to look at me" Shit like that basically. Like in Europe, there is no everyone "gaslighting" everyone and "boundaries this, boundaries that" or "holding the door open? You assumed my gender and are infantalizing me!!" -- like there's 100 ways for women to make up "crimes" in your head that you did in America. And to pre-empt the bullshit, I'm actually progressive politically and am n… | /r/seduction | 29/08/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerI'm not. What are you a Crowder fan? Deepthroat his schlong? Why so are you obsessed with me? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/23 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerI’m not. Both micro dramas were blasted over social media. Chill | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Fucking FemCells in The GoblinPussyThere’s some useful threads in here but a lot of intentionally vague mysticism to sound Socratic. … are these DnD/ cosplay type girls with colored hair and hairy snatches? Is that the goon cave? I mean I’ll go spelunking if she’s thin and hot but I thought ideally you do for a chick who already jogs in sunlight and has an ass built for Lulu joggers. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The first rule about power is you do not talk about powerCrowder -- you don't really learn anything from that. Man was completely unhinged from Day 1, and we're just watching the nuclear fallout of an ugly divorce from a sociopath. The dude was so homophobic while wearing extra tight tees -- yeah I wouldn't be surprised if he batted for the other team. "Boundaries" -- lmao -- between this guy and Jonah Hill, and current generation trends --- the over-therapizing of everything is an absurdity. Everything is boundaries and gaslighting --- that's called … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushShe was also of a different culture - not American - so that may have factored in --- but we didn't really connect. I don't think that's based on age though. We smashed a few times though and she bounced to go find a husband or some shit. | /r/seduction | 22/08/23 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Accidentally Hit on My CrushHe said almost twice her age so he's probably -- 37-39 -- vs. 20 --- mm that's a big gap but ... feelings are feelings. As long as no manipulation was going on. --- There can be definitely be foul play, but there can also be perfectly fine interaction. I don't know. I'm 34 and a girl was 25 -- that's about the biggest gap I've done. Honestly sure, I've grown since I was age 25 --- but it wasn't like I was drooling moron at 25 ... when you're grown, you're grown. Let's be real, 95% of the time, t… | /r/seduction | 21/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 13 | How to close efficiently in Bucharest, RomaniaYou got a few crap responses so far, so I'll say. Women are not the same in Shanghai and NYC by a country mile haha. Other than in that case, both are materialistic and ultra urban -- but cultural values and socialized attraction traits can vary dramatically. For instance intelligence is considered attractive in Shanghai - in NYC it ain't worth shit to women. So -- Eastern Europe -- I have no experience in Hungary, only Poland and Russia and they may not be related to Hungary at all. Typically, … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Time to man up and get your life together.Ok beta. God doesn't exist. We rot in the ground when we die. No family is waiting. That sucks but that's life. I mean -- go on daydreaming that it's all a Disney movie. Whatever helps you cope. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 06:04 PM |
| 55 | Nuclear shit test exampleExactly. Like … why would you chase — for one second — some slut who wants to drink — I don’t know, a bit of $200 Dom or $40 grey goose marked up 10,000% - and disrespect you to — bang or bask some minor celebrity? —— like have fun with being a fleshlight, I’m out. I’ll be finding other girls and enjoying my night | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Time to man up and get your life together.Believing religion is for betas. Primitive betas. Christianity, Islam, Scientology, Mormonism, Zeus. Religion was actually invented by clever betas. They couldn’t get ass —- they weren’t huge in the Bronze Age — so they took natural events like Earthquakes and cancer — said God did it. Pay them $50 and they’ll give you God’s Grace in War and money. And they told women — don’t sleep with Chad thundercock — you have to be married first! And don’t cheat! Or the sky overlord will burn you in hell! A… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from a former incel.Real advice. If you’re not into the fly to Bangkok and fucking a gaggle of women… Hit the gym hard for a year. Do it right with research. Does the gym really matter that much? Well, a little bit, it’s mostly to give yourself something concrete to give yourself confidence over. Inflated confidence is your friend. Then take massive action. Hit on 20 women a month. How you do it is up to you. In fact Start that 3 months into the gym. Clearly, all else you tried has failed you. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Lessons from a former incel.A big part of it is knowing you could fuck women if you wanted. It’s the emotional validation and machismo of knowing you could conquer a bitch. Even if you choose not to. Not saying such a gaping ego masculine hole is good to begin with, but it’s very common among incel types and hard up guys. If the main point of sex was the physical pleasure — we’d all just be banging whores all day. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/23 08:22 PM |
| 18 | Body count is a strong predictor of infidelity and divorceI think causation is hard to prove here. Most are going the simplest route. She fucked a lot of men, so she cannot pair bond , nor orgasm without a couple 8 inch cocks penetrating her. She was broken from sex. Eh maybe. I think more likely is — a woman with a high body count CANNOT KEEP A MAN from day one. If she fucked a decent guy, why not keep fucking him? The answer is that she is probably already unstable and batshit and uses sex for emotional validation and self esteem. Her body count is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/23 08:18 PM |
| 13 | Unreasonable Disney-like Expectations of a 40 year old Single Mother in 'The Case for Marrying Mr. Good Enough'I don't know. Thing is, a 40-something man -- if he's in-shape, wealthy, life in order, has his own business, fashionable --- can actually mate just fine. Provided he's not a bald fat loser working a dead end job. I think that American women of today are screwed. Their standards are sky-high, but that is not necessarily their fault. Social media, tik tok, instagram, and even television/ movies --- has brainwashed everyone -- men and women -- into thinking they deserve a mate who is "at least a 9… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | There's the redpill and then there's you.Thing is, changing your personality, while possible, can be as much a struggle as going from fat/ skinny to jacked in the gym. It takes years of practice, focus, learning, discipline. Most of the guys that struggle are the neurotic/ introverted/ analytical types. Too much in their head. Of course some gregarious guy who loves to bullshit people is going to have an easier time getting women, if he applies himself. The analytical guy can alter his instincts and personality to an extent, but it's l… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedI don't know how much of OP's story to believe. As I am neither jacked, nor extravagantly wealthy (well, I thought I was doing ok at about 150k in the midwest, apparently that's a janitor's salary ha). But it sounds plausible to me. Not certain, but plausible. However some of your facts don't add up. Smart guys --- especially in business, academia, "technically" smart guys -- aren't always smart in all areas. Not to get political, but look at Trump. Or even someone like Zuckerberg, Gates -- they… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s?Just out of curiosity, what was this niche? Was it a hobby you were into? And was this online or in-person mostly? Just curious. I'm recently out of a relationship and doing Online. My pics suck, and I get laid once in a while with a hot chick, but it's a slog. Moreso than usual ha. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 09:08 PM |
| 28 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniableKinda sux for divorced midlife women, esp if they are fat and frumpy. They need to downgrade, fast, and take any man with a job, working dick, and basic manners. Anyway ... for us younger guys that are still in the game -- Even this woman 'in her prime' would have impossible standards for the so-called 'good-man' - he could be a sensitive adonis, who is handy, masculine, but a feminist, and makes 7 figures, and -- STILL come up short because his job is 'boring' or he 'drinks' or whatever. Some A… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveI have a job that has a degree of autonomy and is decently paid --- however -- well it's tech/ software, there's huge messes, technical debt, you still gotta dance for dollars and show up to stupid as hell meetings repeatedly. I'd love to have my own business of myself or a few employees. I just care about freedom more than money. We'll see though. I need to start making things happen. I thought the money would correct a lot of ills, but -- I find I would much rather have less dollars and live m… | /r/seduction | 27/07/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveI agree with that. Still - not that it matters much -- how old are you? And do you enjoy your job for the most part? Compartmentantilzing --- it only goes so far -- I'm aware probably 90% of people don't exactly have the luxury of 'choosing' how to earn their keep, but -- gotta aspire to soemthing -- your mission. And it's REAL hard to be a true alpha man -- and then dance for fuckin' dollars at an office. I mean I make real good money, and ... yeah it's my 'explanation' for acting a bltch essen… | /r/seduction | 07/07/23 02:59 AM |
| 3 | A Man Who Knows Himself Very Well Is Naturally Very SeductiveI think a big problem is working in a typical corporation type job. I mean -- I do, and many people do, it can be a safe and lucrative option if you have a couple brain cells to rub together. But you constantly have to receive humiliations. Probably even at the executive level. Kowtow and do a little dance for whoever is above you in the Almighty "org chart." I mean if you're a freelance consultant, which is the same work but you answer to pretty much nobody (you can tell a client to fuck off ev… | /r/seduction | 06/07/23 11:01 PM |
| 3 | New Study Reveals: 1 in 5 Men on Dating Apps Utilize Artificial Intelligence - Thoughts?Dating apps are a waste of time. End of the day, everyone brings XYZ to the table - looks, lifestyle, money, personality. It's a competition, with lots of strategies. Let's say -- generously -- 50% of the men on dating apps are unfuckable losers. The dating apps are designed to waste this guy's time and give them hope and entice them to buy upgrades. "Profit." What this guy SHOULD be doing is bettering himself, by any means necessary. All an efficient, intelligent AI is going to do on an App is … | /r/seduction | 30/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 3 | After date everything changedMight be the reality that it was a summer fling (or rather, you didn’t even bang?) Long distance relationships SUUUUUCK. She’s doing you both a favor by killing it. Don’t be desperate enough for puss that you’re chasing a girl who lives a few states away. It’s one thing if this was a long term gf. But just for a whiff of pussy? Move on. Personally I’ve done distance twice (one was during pandemic so better excuse). And it suuuuuucks. Never again. Not unless there are firm plans of you two elimin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experienceOnly Gen Z nitwits, frankly. Rape - the word - has never been offensive until very, very recently in human history. Like last 10 years. If someone is triggered by various bullshit, that's THEIR mental health defect. I mean shit, maybe a woman sadly got raped, and now she FREAKS OUT every time she hears the word "sex". Is that a society problem, or a "her" problem? Yeah saying "that restaurant over there ? ... Yeesh .. with their prices they really fuck you up the ass!!!" --- Actually that's even… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”The car salesman who sells the most cars is pissing off the most customers. Get the people who will never react positively to you out the way quickly. Get the maybes the big show. A man who tries to offend no one will please no one and be first pick to no one. Play aggressive. Risk being seen as creepy. RDJ and Russell Brand I’m sure “creeped” out a number of women who were simply uninterested in their schtick. And no one cares. There is a guy who never creeps out women. He’s an asexual pussy wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Talking with Girls isn’t “Making Progress”Dating apps are simpler. Exchange 3-5 messages each -- then ask for a date. The girl in her head -- largely before you even send 1 message -- is about 90% sure whether she wants to go on a date with you. So she already knows, you're just "finding out" -- and yes, there are some who love talking with ZERO intention of ever meeting you (minority though). So pitch it quick. Messages are for logistics. You can only fuck it up by saying a dumb opinion. .... Real life? Like coworkers, social circle? O… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”What this guy is getting at is that you have to RISK being creepy. The goal is not to come off as creepy. However, bold action can, on occasion, be labeled as creepy -- depending on the weather, what room you're in, etc. You need to err on the side of action, not 'managing societal reactions.' Because with the latter, even if you're a jacked A list celebrity with millions (yeah right bud) -- you'll be called all sorts of shit simply for existing. Whatever. You gotta risk the creepy. Not in any s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?For women, seduction matters, but as always, throw everything at your looks and being not-overweight. A sufficiently attractive women can say "hi fuckface" and seduce a man. Actually that shows confidence. Real talk for women, esp. if you are attractive. ABSOLUTELY approach cute/ interesting guys and flirt with them. Even if a hot guy who is taken will likely be flattered. Most MEN are too pussy/ scared shitless to approach. Women? HA! Rare amongst rare. You have all the power. Vast majority of … | /r/seduction | 14/06/23 02:48 PM |
| -2 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersThat’s gen z cultural relativism bullshit. All opinions are valid, Muslim beekeeper suits and Scientology are not ridiculous bullshit. If all opinions are valid and nobody is wrong, you’ll never learn anything. It’s only like 20% of men tops that have a huge problem with female purity. It’s a psychological problem. Might as well only date Aries women. That’s your choice but it’s a meaningless distinction that really only limits your options. My opinion. But go for it. More “sluts” and normies fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 01:58 PM |
| -4 | I Hit It First: Why A Girl’s Sexual Past MattersThere’s some truths here somewhat. Pair bonding, sure. Std risk - well yeah - but not if she gets tested. I think it’s mostly some dudes just really REALLY have a mental problem with “dishonored” women. To the point where even non virgins disgust them. I think it’s just compulsive, irrational thinking. Constantly picturing the girl getting utterly pounded by an ex cock (why you would obsess over this is beyond me). It might have had evolutionary merit at some point - like if a girl was freshly p… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Ditch Western WomenThey're not wrong. The only reason to stay in the west is -- well there are myriad reasons but the women aren't one of them. I do enjoy the creature comforts of the west. And entrepreneurship. --- women though -- even if you slam hot ones, it's too much effort. Only the recent immigrants aren't a pain in the ass | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 02:57 AM |
| 9 | I Broke a Crucial Rule of TRPThis is a seduction forum (I think) - not an ethics lesson. You have to follow your own values. You have to live with your own choices, no matter what some posing "alpha dog" says here. Is this girl legit wife material? If so, see if she can come with you. Are you just too much a wuss to break up? .... Don't cheat, don't come up with "ploys" for her to dump you --- honestly, chicks do that ... and nutless men ... you're 18 and young and breakups are VERY hard to initiate. But honestly, it's good… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/23 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Experience with girls and friends who are chads redpilled me more than any content creatorYou're young. Focus on building an awesome life and being an awesome person that YOU are proud of. Other men, your parents, what hot women think, be damned. Ultimately that will lead you to success in all areas. Focus on being fit for its own sake (physical and mental health). Focus on building communities/ social circles to maximize fun & entertainment, instead of women. That's my view. I think the dating apps are a trap. Even MORE if you do get laid from them once in a while; it's a crutch and… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/23 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Modern dating is ruined for menI see both sides. The US sexual marketplace is not terribly hospitable to men in 2023. The answer is "well if you're here, might as well ultra-maximize yourself and compete.' That's true but -- the same can be said if you were in the housing market and trying to buy on the hottest block in San Francisco or Manhattan. You COULD study a shitload and make a billion dollars by working your ass off, sacrificing life limb and sanity, and finally get to the top of the mountain (maybe) --- or just go to… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating is ruined for menLook I have no intention of moving out of the US -- at least not in the short term -- but in the US it really is hard mode for men. I traveled to Europe, Russia, Asia ... some other countries DEFINITELY have their problems and Western Europe isn't too far off -- but it's easier to slay bimbos there. US is hard mode. The sexual marketplace is tilted out of your favor. A lot is social media and capitalism/ television telling the "consumer" they are special and deserve the best. Like imagine if you… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 9 | Modern dating is ruined for menWell someone else mentioned it. Social media, especially TikTok and Instagram (Facebook and Youtube not as much) -- are fairly recent events that give girls a ton of attention. Then you have the modern dating apps. Oof. Then you have the rise of fast food since the 80s. That one took a while. Because in the 80s, the "parents" were still normal and made a home cooked meal 6 nights out of 7. Fast food was considered a salt bomb "treat". Now? Fast food is the NORM 6 nights out of 7. Result? Well in… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Case Study: Billy BrownBetaAt least 3 other people did. You wouldn't understand it anyway. Fuck God, Jesus and Muhammad and whatever other nonsense you believe in. I'm God. I fuck those other Gods up their assholes. When you die, you rot as worm food. Sorry bro! :) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/23 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Single moms are the bestCould be either. The 'biological clock' is no longer ticking EXTREMELY LOUDLY. Meanwhile a 'normal chick' -- well most are still under the Disney illusion that you need to be married first then pop out kids so often their biological clock if 29 or over is SCREAMING for HUSBAND HUSBAND NO HOOKUPS!!!!!111 So the single mom has no time pressure. Of course she still wants a long-term man, at some point. So -- it can go either way. She might see you as a quick disposable fuck. Meh. | /r/seduction | 17/05/23 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Case Study: Billy BrownBetaNah I didn't provide argument against the existence of God, merely musing on the destructive nature of religion -- whether God exists or not --- and obviously I don't believe he does, but I didn't provide any argument for that. I don't really need to feel smart. I'm like a supermodel hot chick. She knows she's hot, I know I'm smart, and get complimented as such 100x a day lol. My insecurities lie elsewhere. But isn't that the whole point of his point? The Pakistani dude is so brainwashed by reli… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/23 02:11 PM |
| -4 | Case Study: Billy BrownBetaQuite the marketing pitch but the only thing I heard though the noise was “All religion bar none is extremely fucking juvenile and stupid.” Yes it is. There’s no afterlife, cosmic justice, reunification with loved ones. That sucks but no — Allah or Jesus or Buddha or Santa Claus don’t exist, nor care if you’re getting a Hummer. Religion was created by the smart apes to dupe the stronger ones into giving up their riches and women. Didn’t hear anything else insightful. Yes many men also have madon… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/23 12:00 AM |
| 17 | A reminder to stay confident even if the date starts off awkwardSome women are just weird/ awkward. Actually I found, despite the repeated "Playuh Guides Nyuk Nyuk" -- I hate hugging a woman when she arrives. It's fake as fuck I don't know you ... why am I hugging you? Seems like I'm desperate for physical attention I'd rather be aloof and like a real man's man ... not some bitch boy "come hug me!" - but that's just my personality. But I can see some bubbly gregarious guy pulling it off. But yeah some women have social anxiety/ introverted. They barely say t… | /r/seduction | 12/05/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | 11 Panty-dropping Date IdeasCome to think of it, my default date idea is "drinks" at night. Because the chances of getting laid are far better than coffee, lol. But admittedly, the date is pretty generic. You need to get by on your wit and charm. My better dates have been while traveling - because you already have that travel adventure energy with you. Living in the present moment, there is no tomorrow. I had one abroad that started with coffee off the town square at 5pm, then going to a Brazilian outdoor public dance part… | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | A simple strategy I stole from the Art of War.In college. I would cram the night before and in one case literally got the highest mark on the test (presidential history). That’s because I had natural intelligence and memory. I agree though that even more preparation in most cases is better. —- In dating, I’m not a male model or big athlete — I don’t have a natural aptitude. So I guess I gotta put in the work. | /r/seduction | 04/05/23 06:47 PM |
| 5 | The #MeToo movement is a beta trap - no more threads about itObviously it's gone too far. But yeah just as bad as the Extreme MeTooers is the Extreme "nothing to see here" people. Not everything is black ans white. It's common fucking sense. Aziz really did nothing wrong. Weinstein though? Meh. If you're naked with a hard-on chasing a hispanic hotel maid around the room as she shrieks 'rape' in terror, yeah you probably went too far. I'm not going to condone Weinstein just because a lot of people went overboard/ witch hunting to a bunch of innocent men af… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Anyone used Tinder as a way to ease into this whole thing? Would love to hear from some people.Hey Tinder (or other online apps) are perfectly fine. Yeah, online game is different than in-person game. There's a lot that's front-loaded (your looks/ pics) in the attraction equation and it's even more numbers based than in-person game (swipe on hundreds of womens in an hour vs. maybe a dozen). Frankly, you can learn game in online. Once you're actually getting dates. Arguably the 'game' / strategy is actually different on a first date than some rando at a bar. To be honest, as I get older, I… | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Advice to ugly guysLooks matter, but they're not the only thing. It's like people in the NBA or WR/ RB in the NFL who are under 6 feet tall. Rare, and definitely is a handicap, make no mistake, but they can compensate in other areas. So much so that they slay pussy. So yeah, for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Study: Women prefer muscular, dominant, wealthy menThat would be as useful as arguing amongst males why they like the shit they do, from crazy anime porn to some slut getting gangbanged by the football team to whatever. No one exactly 'knows' why they have a certain type. They just do. Why do they like McDonald's Big Mac hamburgers and fries? Who the fuck knows why, they just do! Of course the real reason is evolutionary biology of course. Through millenia it's honed instincts to attempt to make you mate with a worthwhile partner. Of course, man… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 07:01 PM |
| 3 | I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me.Just saw this. It's 95% chance the cancels are due to "the hike". Not because they think you're a murderer, but because it's a lot of fucking work. And then what shoes do they wear? Hiking shoes? On a date? In a freezing ass winter? NEXT! Axe the hike. If you want to walk along a nearby river or scenery after the coffee date or drinks, just do that spontaneously. A short improvised walk. It's not the 4 days thing at all like everyone else here is saying. All my dates are like 4 days away, someti… | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me.How old are you? 4 days is NOT long. At all. Trust me. In fact I can see 'next day' coming off as desperate. (although I know many guys who do same-day or next-day dates to fuck right away, not my game in particular). The culprit is not "4 days" later date. Although yeah, the longer away, the more that can go wrong in the interim. What is the date? A bar? Or some "event" like rock climbing that sounds like it's a lot of fucking work and oops I'm busy now? How much are you talking before pitching… | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 04:15 PM |
| 56 | How to handle rejection at a house party?It's awkward when a girl turns down a kiss. To be honest, my favorite ones seldom have, unless it was a very public place, then it's potentially awkward and makes sense. It depends -- is she rejecting it for now because you just met, but she might want to bone later? Or is she just rejecting you overall, because she finds you repulsive? Some cases are clear; others a mystery. If it seems like there's a snowball's chance in hell at bone-age later, play it cool. Say "Sorry I thought you needed CPR… | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 06:37 PM |
| 2 | The importance on having a large network socially.well how did you personally expand your social circle? Post college I'm a little stuck in expanding it. Met a few new dudes over the months but it seems like it doesn't stick sometimes, esp if they a girlfriend and are homebodies. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Don’t be afraid to get up and WALK OUT ON A DATE five minutes in if she oversteps your boundaries in any wayLOL This can't be real, can it? Catfished by whale. Whale chooses venue with 90 minute wait. Said whale doesn't even understand sobriety. Encourages 'X years sober' person to start drinking again b/c social retard. Whale then goes on tirade about manners. I mean jesus, the worst date of all time. Might be partially or fully made up though. The part where you said "are you fucking kidding me?" sounds definitely made up, people say that in writing all the time but not so much in real life. Phrase … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I am 27 never had a girlfriendMy advice? Step 1: go on a pickup website/ community somewhere you feel comfortable (this one is a little large) - and post your dating pictures/ current pictures and ask for advice. Hence why it's better to go to a smaller/ more private forum. Odds are you overall style is a bit behind the times. Step 2. Get social hobbies to 'get out the fuckin house'. To train your social skills better and meet more people. Try rec leagues, improv, meetups, whatever. Yeah sucks for an introvert but suck it up… | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 10:47 PM |
| 1 | When Beautiful Women are NOT Beautiful (Calling Out All Simps)Article holds water but the advice "stop giving do-nothing bitches attention" is simply not going to happen. Even if 10% of males followed it (a small miracle) -- the rest would simply exploit the slightly less competitive market for DNBs. You can't change an entire society or incentives just by pointing it out. You have to change the system or move elsewhere or play differently, but there will always be legions in the foreseeable future in America pumping up the ego of DNBs. | /r/seduction | 02/05/17 10:42 PM |
| 6 | The Poor man's guide to being fitFor $100 you can buy a power-tower on Amazon. I did. Took me a year to finally get off my ass and assemble it. Box said 30 minutes, it took me 90 minutes (not very handy). It's great now. Pullups, dips, elevated pushups. Bought a set of rings for it to, just for more interesting pullups. I guess you can buy a door push up bar, but my doors aren't that solid and it seems annoying. I'll probably get a weighted belt/ vest next. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Let Her Chase You.I came in skeptical, but this is good advice. Only a small piece of the puzzle, but solid no-bullshit tactics. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 10:06 PM |
| 2 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeI was never into the "bros before hos" mantra. That's because it shouldn't be a rule you "have to follow" - it should be a rule you willingly choose to follow. I would never chase a girl that a good friend, brother, cousin -- well I guess we're talking "inner circle" here ... was into. Ever. If for some reason I REALLY had the urge to (never have) - I would feel it out and see what they really felt about it, then respect it. This dude ... is not your friend. Or he's a "friend of convenience" -- … | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 07:46 PM |
| 2 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "My googling doesn't seem to turn up anything. It's difficult because most scholarly articles on television and crime have to do with "violence in television causing monkey see monkey do like effects" - a completely different topic. It was something I read back in university years ago. Without recalling the source, it very well may be conjecture by the original author. The reasoning seems plausible to me though. A related psychological phenomenon that is easy to find on Youtube --- give a monkey … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardEven if unintentional, your post encourages inaction. Not really, but it definitely reads that way. Stand in the center of a bar like the sun, meditating, accepting all emotion, and waiting. Yes girls give approach invitations. Some don't, and are quite approachable. Some girl might want to fuck you - but she's on the other side of the bar! Or a bar across the street! She will not be pulled to you like gravity. Women take action, but many are passive. As a man, you cannot be passive. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Can we get some success stories from people who shouldn't be successful with women by conventional standards?Sure, those videos seem more credible/ believably real. Having real videos doesn't mean you don't have fake videos though. At the end of the day, we'll really never know with most of these videos. Hell, even the rejection ones might be faked (though seems real enough and probably more effort to fake those, esp since it isn't hard to get rejections, but eh). We just will never truly be certain. If it's a PUA Youtube video though? Trying to sell memberships? With a promo code right in the descript… | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardLol ... this post is a crock of shit, sorry. For anyone who knows anything about women. Yes, ego and expectations and all that shit can get in your way when it comes to pickup. But uh ... the "stand in the middle of the room like a Buddhist and do nothing and the hotties will come to you?" --- yeah bullshit. Choosing who you approach is your one power as a man in the sexual marketplace. What if fatties flock to you? But it won't happen. Not unless you're a very good looking man. And even if you … | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Can we get some success stories from people who shouldn't be successful with women by conventional standards?Mainly, it's my instincts and the overall vibe of the video. And my instincts are very good. To break it down into more detail though. There have been many "campus pickup videos" - exactly like this - that have been verified fake. GoodLookingLoser faked one, for instance (some guy actually put together all the evidence - found out that every girl he approached was an amateur struggling-actress). It was shot exactly like this one - if anything, seemed more realistic. Now yeah, that doesn't prove … | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 04:09 PM |
| 5 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "If anything, that's the conclusion your idea supports. "There will be a massive market shift making everything easy and better for us men in the near future." I don't think so homey. This shit you see around us? That's the current reality. And I don't see it changing much in the future, at least not in a predictable way. It may get worse just as well a chance as it may get better. Might as well try to claw your way to being a top 10% male now, or move to a better market (arbitrage). The Golden E… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/17 03:36 PM |
| 15 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "There is no institutional memory among the collective "female" sex population. Therefore some will miss out Yes, but they won't realize this until they are aged 35 and already fucked. Then they become bitter, and tell the young bimbos with perky tits "settle honey! you'll be fucked later if you don't!!" (like older women have already been braying for decades now) Ms. Bimbo PerkyTits will just consider her a lovelorn bitter old hag, who doesn't know shit, especially since there are legions of dic… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 11:28 PM |
| 22 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "I don't see the bubble bursting. People don't understand the impact of Television as well. Sounds silly, but it's absolutely true, and the average person watches a shit-load of television. On the advent of mass-televisions in the 1960s ... there was a huge spike in crime. That's because people became aware of the "other half" and how they live. In ghettos, pre-TV ... yeah you lived in a shit-hole, but it was your own self-contained shit-hole with its own rules and hierarchy. You worked real hard… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 11:01 PM |
| 9 | Can we get some success stories from people who shouldn't be successful with women by conventional standards?I know fat guys who can pick up IRL. That said, that fat suit video is 95% fake. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 10:12 PM |
| 9 | It seems that men with many options (because of looks/game, whatever) stay single more, and settle less.Meh. A lot of it is baseline physical attractiveness. A more physically attractive guy has plenty of options. He can fuck girl A, girl B, girl C, whatever, he'll settle down when it benefits him to do so. A guy who doesn't have so many options - when he finds a hot girl who is willing to fuck him, he wants to keep her around for a while. This in turn leads to more, um, "compromise." We may be disagreeing here on whether physical attractiveness and success with women begets confidence, or confide… | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 09:09 PM |
| 13 | RM: "...women’s sense of self-worth has been grossly overblown.." "An abundance of male attention contributes to a sense of security for women’s SMV. "I consider myself a very intelligent man yet I had difficulty trying to understand that - frankly - rather dense article. Too much abstraction on top of abstraction. Do Western woman have inflated ideas of their own sexual market value? Probably in some regard, but that depends. There are separate markets for "worthy of a fuck" and "worthy of marriage" of course - why would these be considered the same market? Also - yes, as OKCupid has proved, the typical woman sees the "average" man --- on loo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 08:32 PM |
| 25 | Never Feel Bad About Using Women for SexWhat you call prototypical, I call TV sitcom bullshit. The idea that 90% of men are pump-and-dumpers, and 90% of women are trying to "ensnare" a man into marriage or a long-term relationship, and that is the primary motivation of women in having sex, is just plain wrong. That is simply what I'm pointing out. But if anything, it supports your conclusion. You should not feel bad about using a woman for sex. Well, I wouldn't blatantly lie or mislead a woman - I personally have limits but that's you… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 04:33 AM |
| 42 | Never Feel Bad About Using Women for SexWomen use men for sex as well. I think you missed that vital point. Not every girl is a TV Sitcom stereotype. Many women have used me for sex. I'm not saying I made them orgasm in every encounter here but they wanted a release and never to see me again really. Happy to oblige most of the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 04:00 AM |
| 36 | New study shows women prefer men who use metaphorical language when paying compliments in a romantic context.Whoa, they didn't say anything about similes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%I'm sad to say I haven't banged many 9s and probably never a 10. Or ... well, it's a subjective scale anyway, right? I guess the idea is whether a chick looks like a model and everyone wants to bang her, generally. I'm not hyper-focused on "the models" right now -- frankly if I can get regular sex from an 8ish girl each month I'd be quite satisfied. That said, my best opportunities came from when I was a prominent actor on stage at my university. God damn that was being a pussy magnet, girls see… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%Yeah poor choice of words. We don't have sex but they rub their ass on my dick through my jeans, etc. Ultimately not that satisfying. Some girls have given me handjobs on the dancefloor before, discreetly (attempted). Personally I'm not one for exhibitionism so I'm usually just worried the whole time. Freaks. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 04:08 PM |
| 2 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%I live in Chicago - also the public transit in Chicago is only 2nd to NYC in the USA (making it complete crap but usable without a car) - in Europe, I was in medium size cities mostly, not the A-list tourist spots. The A-list spots are worse, more other Americans there lessen your own novelty. The foreigner effect is real and lasts indefinitely (with new girls at least). I've hosted Europeans in America quite a few times. Maybe they were good-looking but they seemed to get laid quite easily. NYC… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 08:20 PM |
| 3 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%This. As an American in Europe about once a year, far less hangups there. Sex isn't a 'big deal' in Europe. It's a brief bit of fun. In America, girls will think about the 'implications' and 'what her friends think' or her parents ... for hours ... when you would have already shot your load 3 times with a sensible European girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:47 PM |
| 3 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%Bullshit. American guy who's been to Europe several times. American = puritanical (and hen-pecking feminist at times) Germany/ France = fucking is pretty much a handshake. Okay not really, but you know. Then again, we are both experiencing "the foreigner effect" in our respective travels. American girls want to fuck you because you are French. French girls want to fuck me because I'm American (not that we have a smooth reputation but its true). Hell in Germany, there are coed nudity-required sau… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:44 PM |
| 2 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%When you go to a bar/ club, you're looking at a subset of the population. Go to Walmart. Then you'll see. Also, lay count is not exactly an indication of what "%" you are in. I can fuck 100 fatties this year if I wanted to, so what. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%I think real-life interaction has ultimately gone down. Everyone is on their phone/ facebook. The 10-2 am hours on Friday and Saturday night are not exactly quality interaction time, either. Also, everyone's standards have gone way up. The i-me-narcissist generation, everyone's special. Everyone is holding out for a top-tier mate, or just slightly above their league. At least, seemingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:39 PM |
| 8 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%It's actually not linear. Hitting on girls is the highest at the 6-7-8 level. Once you get to 9 or 10, guys get intimidated, or have very low confidence, or think they need some kind of 'big show magic trick' - and they rarely get hit on. It's true. I'm talking like 'hottest girl in the club' - not just a big-titted college girl who gets you sprung. I can usually easily dance with these girls at clubs (9s, 10s, hottest girls) - just because they're bored and rarely get hit on. No, I don't pull t… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%Makeouts are extremely common, but ultimately meaningless. I can make out with several very hot girls when I go out (okay some nights/ venues, it doesn't happen if it's an off night) ... but most of them have no intention of boning me in the slightest. It's brief meaningless validation, and the girls don't really care. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:35 PM |
| 6 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%When people count numbers they mean sexual prowess. Otherwise a girl would be bragging how she fucked 100 dudes in college. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | If you bang 1 or 2 new girls a year, you're in the top 10%Lifetime numbers are misleading though. I know some put-together dudes that found a hot piece in college and married her. They probably have very low lifetime numbers, especially if they only really got their shit together in college. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | My personal journey from blue to red and back again.I don't need to see your photoshops. If the story were real, you wouldn't be super defensive and angered by me calling it out. You'd laugh and move on. Poor fiction writing. Cept for the child support part, that sounds real. Good luck with life dude, jesus lol. Society and the education system failed you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | My personal journey from blue to red and back again.Bro knighting? The hell? Take a break from the computer forums dude, you're in too deep. I'm just saying, I don't take financial advice from someone who declared bankrupty 50 times and still has a net worth of -$50k. I guess you think differently. good luck with that You're also reported. From your report history looks like you report everyone. I have 50 accounts anyway buddy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 08:34 PM |
| -1 | My personal journey from blue to red and back again.Sounds half made up, what with the 'model McSugar tits mcZero waist' (don't start a writing career, dude) ... actually reading Return of the King, repeatedly. Sounds a lot more likely to be made up by some nerdy dude than 'stranger than fiction' reality. Also: where is the advice? I saw a diatribe of a man making one shitty, dumbass decision after the next, and is now paying child support to "bitchy McBitchTits". Yes, women have tits. You sound like a bitter, confused young man. No wonder you an… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsAbundance and scarcity is partly a mindset, and partly reality. As you stated, you can't "mindfuck" yourself into simply believing something, like Santa Claus, or that you're a male model when you're not, or whatever else. The brain looks at evidence and history and routine. Although the brain is very fickle and a cognitive miser - riddled with bias and delusion and warped views of reality --- even views that are far more negative than reality, many times. But yeah I get what you're saying. You … | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And Relationshipslol ... go fuck off, ignored. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsTitle was about why women have the upper hand. Because of selectivity differences. Period. I was making a correction. Meh. If you don't like it, read and move on. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsI'm not saying pursue someone who clearly rejected you. I'm saying if a girl doesn't reply to a message once, you can send message #2. Egad! By Zeus's beard! Isn't that needy and sad? No, not really. Life happens sometimes. And women are fickle. Who cares. IRL persistence also matters. Sometimes a girl 'play rejects' you, or needs plausible deniability. Some do it to see how much you really like them. --- and no I'm not talking about the extremely hostile or uncomfortable ones, it's called calib… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsI was just explaining the macro-social situation. As an individual, there are definitely qualities (like being a top 10% male say) - that can change your interactions. BUT - even so, you are still expected to lead interactions, suggest dates, pay for half or more of the dates you go on, and still the women ultimately 'decides' when she's going to fuck you. This isn't due to your individual qualities so much as the society we live in - 1000s of thirsty males licking her feet every day and 1000 mo… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsYour reply is a pretty off-topic non-sequitur. I was explaining why women in general in the 21st Century have the upper hand in the dating game (well, seemingly, the paradox is that most mates that chase them, are unwanted by them). It's because males are less selective than women (on aggregate, we're not talking specific unique cases). You're getting too wound up in 'buying' and 'selling' --- those were examples. Just consider a transaction or trade - both parties are benefiting in some manner.… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsYes you are asserting that women are attracted to myriad different things, and some are sluttier than others. True. Bottom line, give every straight woman on Earth a sample size of 1,000 random men, and ask what % they want to fuck. Do the same for straight men with 1,000 perfectly random selected women. The % of females on Earth the average man of Earth wants to fuck will be significantly higher. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 10:50 PM |
| 11 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsWomen as a whole have higher standards than men - that's what I'm saying. Hell, even at the top levels. Even a top 1% male will go slumming through some easy 7's because it's low effort sex. Meanwhile a top 1% women doesn't feel the need. Then you get to the more common individuals. 9s, 8s, 7s ... hit on repeatedly all day by a bevvy of males, including the slumming hard-body males who want easy pump-n-dump ass. Even OkCupid proved this -- male attractiveness rating of women followed a bell curv… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 07:19 PM |
| 31 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsMeh. The REAL reason: Women are more selective/ have higher standards than men. This alone creates a power imbalance, period. The very same concept can apply to home-buying, buyer's markets, seller's markets, any industry with a power imbalance. Car salesman. You can bet you have higher standards for a car transaction that the salesman does. How many times did you have to beg a car salesman to please sell you a car please? Yeah the very idea is ridiculous. That is why women have the power in the… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Tips from my tinder success. Most can be attributed to the same principles people preach here.Only some guys can pull off that line. I give off a massive serial killer vibe, so the odds would be very low that line would be taken in a jovial manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/17 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Ten seduction facts men wish they knew earlier...Well for the drink part, that's a good rule as 'training wheels' If a strange girl at a bar asks you for a drink, tell her fuck off, or some other reparte. If your Tinder date doesn't whip out her credit card at the end of the date, so be it (most of them do). She wasn't specifically hunting for a guy to cuckold. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | It's my final semester of college and I'm a virgin. How do I get laid?LOL - I never admitted I was a virgin when I started college (and even after I lost it in college) for this very reason --- fuck that. Anyway, use the Tinder/ online bullshit as a BACKUP right now. It's easier to get laid in person, generally, unless you are COMPLETELY nutless. Okay, you're in college: Hit the gym hard as you're doing. Try to look swole/ tight as possible. You probably need a fashion overhaul to seem like a cool guy. Do that as well. If you look in the mirror and DON'T think "Do… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me.I heard a good rule of thumb is to match the energy of the room, or maybe be a slight hair higher energy than the rest of the room. What this means: if the room/ place is chill, relaxed, vibing, don't start wiling out and going crazy and doing the "running man" on the dance floor. You'll look like a spaztastic retard who is trying way too hard. Same goes for women who do this. If the venue is going insane, popping, rocking, than join in the fun, or you look like a stiff generally. | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 05:12 PM |
| 8 | If you are young and just getting started your Health and Attractiveness should be your prioritySome bosses like ambition, some hate it. Type I boss: rooting for your success, wants to enhance your skills, mentor, wants the best possible worker (to make him look good as well), is secure in himself and his position, wants best results for the company generally Type II boss: overweight woman typically (or beta male) who is SCARED SHITLESS of getting fired --- is threatened by anyone with a modicum of talent or intelligence ... takes credit whenever possible, gives none .... assigns blame whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 04:53 PM |
| 19 | If you are young and just getting started your Health and Attractiveness should be your priorityJesus dude, what the hell are you talking about? Are you in college? How many corporations have you actually worked at? Very few people are jealous of you or anyone looking like a mini-hulk or bodybuilder, which will take years or more to accomplish. If you simply look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club, you will look COMPLETELY normal with a shirt on. If you're a jacked bodybuilder, you might be considered a bit vain at worst. The wealthy CEO with the hot little wife is NOT jealous of you. I fucking … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 10 | [Part 1 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass ThemI've got the "do you have a girlfriend" a few times. Pretty much do a spinoff of your answers: "Not in this town" / "Not in France" / "Not in Vegas" (wherever you are). Yeah I hate that question. It telegraphs extreme interest, yet if you say no you seem kinda lame and eager. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 04:35 PM |
| 35 | Why Complimenting Girls Gets Me Laid, A Lot...It depends on the context. Also note to you and OP: Girls get 10 bajillion "you're hot/ you're sexy/ you're pretty/ nice tits" ... on Instagam/ Facebook/ Tinder by 10 bajillion thirsty dudes PER DAY. Argue what you will; you simply become part of the scenery and faceless masses. In person, the situation may be different, because it shows confidence. BUT - many guys complement women because they WANT to, not as some sort of pickup strategy. It's an instinct that probably should be suppressed, at … | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do I care so much about my non-existent sex life?Video games are not bad, but they are not good either. You're not a 'loser' for playing them, but neither are you moving forward with life in any capacity while playing them. Which is fine. No one needs to be or wants to be productive 100% of the day. Problem is when 'senseless rec time' outnumbers productivity time, or that's all you're doing outside of work, so to speak. As for the rest, who knows. Girls are fickle. Hit the gym hard, reset the wardrobe, copy models' looks, try to stand out. | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstI think you're knighting the shemale fag. I wouldn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstWhite knight? No, the SJWs are in love with gorillas with mops on their head. I think it's a laughable joke. I doubt the woman in the ring was a SJW, nor did she sign up for fighting a monster with a dick who claimed to be Queen of the Fairy Lillies. Some fag ape who likes to beat women does piss me off, consider it natural male instincts. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstFor sure the first fight, pretty sure the next one too ... maybe someone in the crowd could just tell it was a man ... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 04:27 AM |
| 9 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstThat did happen. Some biological man dressed as a woman - and get this - didn't tell anyone he was a trannie. He ragdolled them. Dude is obviously fucked in the head, but eh. Couldn't hack it so went this pussy route. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 11:59 PM |
| 20 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstShe and most people know she really got first. A biological man who prefers to be called 'she' with a mop on his head did beat her, yes, as did many men with innate biological advantages. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 11:58 PM |
| 11 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstThe big gorilla didn't tell anyone he was a trannie until after he rag-dolled a number of women. I don't think he/ she/ it has fought since. So yeah, not stupid, they just need to test whether a dude with a mop on his head is entering the women's contests better. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 11:56 PM |
| 8 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstThe main difference in my opinion is inherent biology. For many decades 'gay' was thought to be some kind of strange 'choice' made, by some, or some character failing. It's obvious at this point it's pretty much genetic or in-utero, either way, when you're gay you're gay, end of story, nothing to be done about. And really, fucking the same gender doesn't really hurt anybody. It may seem 'icky' to some, but I think fucking fat women is 'icky', so what. Transgender stakes the claim that it's just … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Give them what they want... Biological male dominates women’s cycling event in historic firstMeh, is that supposed to be impressive? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 11:44 PM |
| 6 | 3 BIG lesson's I've learned the last 12 years in the seduction communityFinally, some decent advice here that's actually somewhat original. | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | To the guys in college or going into college, join something.I joined a ton of shit. If you want to meet women specifically (unlike a 100% male frat house which sure, has its peripheral benefits): Orientation week advisor (to meet other gregarious advisors, not prey on freshmen necessarily) Theater (stage) --- unless you go to a theater school specifically, as a male it will be somewhat easy to get parts - yeah if you have no experience take an acting class, it's pretty entertaining. Why do something everyone in high school thought was relatively "gay" - … | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Complete dating guideQuestion for you: Most of my high quality pics are group photos. I'm not sure why, just is. When I'm out or at events, it's rare for me to demand a solo shot, just seems vain. Now there are plenty of pics where I'm front in center, full body, high res, high quality, but if I crop it tight, you can still tell there's a girls/ guys directly to my left or right or both, just out of frame. Is that bad? | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How I quit porn (my own xpost)Yeah I got to give it a go. It kills my sex drive to masturbate too frequently ... but at the same time, the first 5 days I quit, I feel like I'm constantly horny at work. Probably best to cut back though. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 05:46 PM |
| 10 | How I quit porn (my own xpost)five days isn't that much really. I think porn and masturbation are two different things really - I guess giving up the latter automatically gives up the former, but eh. I can see porn killing sex drive, creating unrealistic ideas about reality, etc ... masturbation, yeah it's probably good to cut back, but ... I don't know, can't be good to give up completely long term ... once a week probably reduces cancer risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from Fucking My ONEitis.Meh, oneitis happens more with younger/ more inexperienced guys. Because everyone has the same epiphany you do (hopefully, I guess if you're a hard case, may take a while). Yeah there's more to life than fucking a hot chick or measuring your worth by that. Meh. But many guys are driven by ego. After a while you look for more than just looks - this is obvious to pretty much anyone who beds a beauty queen who is annoying (or dumb) as fuck. I'd rather be dating a cool chick who makes my dick hard t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill and a Blue Pill walk into a bar...Clean some latrines, private. DIIII-smissed! | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 04:14 AM |
| 140 | A Red Pill and a Blue Pill walk into a bar...Sounds fairly fake but eh. Owner giving you free drinks, guy getting perfectly esmasculated. Why did you invite this girl over 4 months later? You asked for her number after fucking her but forgot about her for 4 months? I mean this story could be true, it's not that remarkable, but sounds like bullcrap. Also, if true, who cares if the "blue" guy is fucking her after you tag-teamed her. I doubt you were the first 2 who tagged her at once, that didn't stop you. You know that girl you were oneitis… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 08:42 PM |
| 7 | THE SECRET TRUTH ABOUT LEARNING GAMENot sure I agree with all the commentary, but The Game is definitely a bit dated - in came out 11-12 years ago by my watch, and I read it when it came out. I think you greatly misunderstand peacocking. Which is a terrible name by the way, I think, but regardless. First of all, forget the bird. Men 'peacock' to simply stand out and get attention, and it works. But, a couple things: It need not be outlandish, embarrassing, or looking like a fashion victim ala 'The Game.' This book was set during t… | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 08:33 PM |
| 1 | On my first date with this HB8 chickIronically you are falling into a SJW trap here: Assuming that there are no gender differences and that man and women are equal in all ways. Of course not. She didn't want you to beg on your knees. She just wanted you to make a counterpoint to her objection so you can start fucking. Why? She doesn't want to seem like an easy slut to you. Which is fair. Esp since many men on Reddit think a woman who has slept with 3 men in her life is a massive slut and are quite harsh about it. Other culturally … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | On my first date with this HB8 chickSee my other comment but bad read of the situation. There are girls who legitimately don't want to go home with you - and girls who put up 'fake token excuses' - which they are WELL AWARE are fake. OP's girl was definitely using a "fake excuse" which was obvious, especially given she said she wanted to have sex a number of times. She was serving OP a softball, who was too (inexperienced maybe?) to see it. You need to couch "going back to your place" - in terms of plausible deniability. Not much,… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 03:13 PM |
| 4 | On my first date with this HB8 chickI'll be the voice of reason in a sea of socially retarded children, sadly. Dude -- you actually fucked up here. Let's review the facts that apparently you were blind to: She wanted to have sex with you the whole time. Even said so, and you didn't take it at face value. Like many, if not most, girls do ... she put up some 'token excuse' bullshit ... which was MEANT for you to EASILY get around. It's called 'plausible deniability.' Damn dude. Most girls on dates I invite back say "I don't know, I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Tonight fucking sucks, but pain = gain.There is genuine 'seduction' of course - I'm guessing by seduction, you mean game, which is essentially persuasion/ salesmanship to an extent. I personally do not have a handsome face, but one can still improve yourself and your physical appearance and vibe you give off dramatically. Yes you can become a master salesman as well, but that's more difficult, in my opinion. Would you rather be selling someone the latest iPhone, or a 5 year old Nokia beater? The latter can be done with the right effo… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Tonight fucking sucks, but pain = gain.I've been at rock-bottom before when I was a virgin, but don't take this shit too seriously. Also, be sure you're focusing on the right efforts. I mean, imagine a guy selling lemonade on the middle of the highway in the dead of winter. He isn't getting any business. So he pumps himself up and says - I will spend HOURS, MONTHS perfecting this lemonade recipe! Then I'll have a successful business here! No, the problem is your location and the fact people think you're crazy (in this example). In yo… | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Fuck Your Cuddle Partyoh no, a tepid virgin pussy called me a cuck. what ever will I do | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Fuck Your Cuddle PartyI don't see how your position on food stamps or immigration is relevant to seducing women; trust me - it isn't. There are plenty of seduction websites without the political commentary, so if TRP becomes another political sub then I'm out, but eh. EDIT: Oh I guess you mean that you came up with that stuff prior to the Donald. Well I guess that's fair. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Your Cuddle PartyIs /theDonald leaking? Look nothing against you, but what's with the "cuck" and "tendies" which are artifacts of the alt-right/ Trump board? What does politics have to do with seduction or women? Nothing, that's what. Keep the conservative ideology (or liberal ideology, or whatever politics) the fuck out of the conversation, thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 05:35 PM |
| -1 | It is happening: Virtual Assistant/Girlfriend Sold to men living aloneWhen does it ask for your credit card number? Oh up front, I see. I see nothing wrong with these 'girlfriend bots' There will always be a crop of loser men. Your options are: A. Beta males left to their own devices. See: the Middle East. Derka derka muhammad KAAAABOOOOOOM!!! Roving, sexually frustrated males who snap are commonplace. And a nuissance. B. Give them these sex robots, weed, and an XBox. They will be placated until in their coffins. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFNo I realize fighting is extremely dumb in 99.9% of cases. I work out at a BJJ gym. Not exactly as bloodthirsty as MMA, but yeah not every black belt in there looks like a badass, or jacked. But I'd also argue that most of those guys have some self control and assuming your opponent is a trained fighter is the exception to the rule, unless you recognize his fighting stance and relaxed body. It's not even the fighters you have to worry bout though. It's the losers with nothing to lose. I knew a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFFor what? A mild bar fight? Posturing like this happens 1,000 times every weekend, police won't give a shit. What's best case scenario? They find out you slugged the guy as well and now you gotta hire a lawyer? Forget it as a lesson learned. Source < been victim of muggings and violent crimes plenty of times, also dealt with police a fair amount, I know when they give a shit and when they don't. This case, they definitely don't. Save your breath. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFIt's more a time sink (only so much free time) that will hurt you more than the ton of cardio. Many boxers I know don't do that much cardio relatively speaking. Maybe 15-20 miles a week. When I was training marathons I got up to 60 miles a week which is considered low by many standards, and I still had a fair amount of muscle. Yeah powerlifting and marathons are antagonistic. But as a boxer you don't need hours-long endurance. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFI doubt it. Esp since OP said the boyfriend looked like a noodle-armed pussy of sorts. The girl probably loved the attention, whether she was bored with the current relationship or not is unknown. I've made out with plenty of girls who later told me they were married, sadly. Felt bad after but eh, they didn't tell me up front. Shows that monogamy is usually worth two shits in reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFThe guy was bullshitting, trust me. This bar brawl shit happens all the time, typically cops won't do shit unless they or a bouncer saw it go down. Don't waste the effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFDon't beat yourself up. Drunk guys 'beating on each other' in their 20s is stupid, but common. Since he threw a punch at you first, I would not feel bad, or surprised, that you slugged him back. He probably learned a lesson that day as well. However, life is not like the movies. Typically, I would not 'slug' every guy who deserved it, or you would end up slugging dozens of losers every year, with nothing really to gain for it, and no fewer assholes in the universe, trust me. Plus some guys truly… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 12:58 AM |
| 1 | She loses respect for you when you treat her like she's perfect.I guess my compliments - even while not in bed -- are essentially sex talk. Like saying I want to fuck her tight pussy. I guess I do use 'sexy girl' a lot. Meh. They seem to like it. It's from a place of fun, not goofy or sniveling adoration. If that's wrong, well, I don't care. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 01:11 AM |
| 6 | She loses respect for you when you treat her like she's perfect.Yeah human relationships are complex. Someone thinks they did someone wrong every time there is a breakup. The advice here is unclear from male OP. Don't treat a woman like she's perfect? Well yes, don't bow at her feet and be a human fucking doormat and desperate for affection, that applies to all humans. It's okay to complement a girl you're fucking though, tell her she's really hot. In fact I've done that for months, girls love that shit. They get wet for it. Now no, don't say that to a woman… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How I Pushed Past Massive LMRWell, it only happened to me a couple times in college. The girls might have been virgins, I don't know. One would get naked but wouldn't let me take off her underwear, only her bra. One would give me pretty terrible handjobs as well, so I probably went to her place 6-7 times hoping she would finally 'cave' at some point. Even tried freezeouts and a bunch of other shit, but I was also in college and an idiot when it came to girls in many respects. Protip to younger self or other guys: Don't wast… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Best friend is a NaturalEither don't go out with him, or hope that there are more than two women at the bar; one for him and the rest for you. Of course if he's constantly causing trouble with various women while you're out with him, specifically going after your targets, cut him loose for a while, or just go out with him on nights you feel like chilling. | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 11:06 PM |
| 32 | [FR] How I Pushed Past Massive LMRTo be honest, I've never had ASD since college, ever. That might strictly be the foray of college-aged girls who don't know what the fuck they're doing. Sure, I'd like to bang <22 year olds, but I'm usually trolling the bars and it tends to be 23-32 year olds. When they agree to go to my apartment, they know what's coming. I'm no prince charming. Sure you need to take the pressure off, put the responsibility on yourself, come up with the plausible deniability excuses, but once you're both in you… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Saw my ex's new boyfriend walking their dog on the way home from work before. Triggered a hectic spiral of obsessive thoughts.I've been there. I've never looked back and thought 'yeah ruminating about that woman who was clearly long gone for years was a good idea, glad I did it' You need to preoccupy yourself with new women. ASAP. I take it these ruminations are largely due to not having been with anyone (at least serious) since that time period. Also you built this girl up into some sort of perfect-lover-princess in your head, which isn't reality. Once you're with a new chick, a hotter chick potentially, and plowing h… | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 05:30 PM |
| 3 | At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationshipReverse for me. I'm the bomb dot com. Once a girl gets to know me, she becomes in love with me. Only problem is I look slightly homely, so it takes a while for a girl to be persuaded to fall into bed with me. Once that happens though, all bets are off. She'll be crying many tears at some point when we have to part ways. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationshipYou're simply dead inside, that's all. No cure. Sounds like you're not connecting with people. Figure that part out. Maybe you lost that. Even if a person isn't that intelligent, you can connect with them. Months of treating girls like another hole to stuff has deadened this muscle in you. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 09:43 PM |
| 20 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidYeah this is pretty much what it is most of the time. Girls give token excuses all the time - they think it that it will make them seem less potentially slutty in some kind of chick logic way. Or like they are not responsible for it. I personally don't care how fast a girl has sex but whatev, some guys do I guess. It probably is a good idea to make a guy feel like he worked for it, if you're into that shit, lol. But usually it's like: "Hey do you want to come back to my place for tea?" (sex time… | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 04:10 PM |
| 7 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidI usually say that line and I'm a guy. We usually have sex later that night | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Should i stop caring about girls until i improve myselflol ... touche, completely missed that. Yes that is definitely a LOL reference. I humbly admit that I was wrong. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 11:47 PM |
| 0 | Should i stop caring about girls until i improve myselflol that's definitely racial profiling haha. I'm white and used to play 4-5 years ago, but that's because the game was insanely popular. Damn tho that profiling lol You're right though, quitting LOL will only improve your results with women | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How to Transform Your Apartment Into a Panty-Dropping Bachelor PadI thought crushing was more of a concern than warmth, but yeah it's more of a net hours issue. Or get the tin but that's a bit of a pain if you're a minimalist. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Develop Social Proof and see your SMV riseIt's actually the reverse, we heard of his fun but not his results (the ring). In a results oriented board - results being actual sex - it's important. I've often "held court" or killed a room or was a social God, and it didn't end up in lays. Thought this was a guide not about entertaining yourself but eh. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/16 01:11 AM |
| 6 | How to Transform Your Apartment Into a Panty-Dropping Bachelor PadIf you keep a condom in your wallet for any length of time, it can damage the condom and you risk babby. I know because I used to do it all the time; it's the most convenient location of course. They used to make hardshell condom cases but they got rid of them, maybe because they didn't work at protecting them. ONE brand condoms come in a tin that is portable enough, though somewhat bulky. (like the size of a case of mints I'd say). I personally just stick a regular brand condom in my jeans back… | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 08:25 PM |
| 4 | How to Transform Your Apartment Into a Panty-Dropping Bachelor PadPeople love Tito's everywhere. It's good. Don Julio is good. As is Casa Noble. Of course these are for sipping rather than mixing. Probably good to have somewhat cheap swill for mixing. Shiner and its varieties are also nationwide though obviously you're from Texas. | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 08:21 PM |
| -1 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.lol, it's not spooky ghetto stories. It's about the following in any major city: Public transportation, walking outside pretty much anywhere, anywhere where there are no other people around. That girl, saying she didn't believe he had a penis, was basically priming herself to have a man show her his dick, that's all I'm saying. Dangerous words. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:56 PM |
| 3 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.In my experience, all violence has come from virtual strangers, about 4 times probably total. I guess I got into one physical fight with a friend, but it was just rough-housing, not intent to actually do serious harm. Why would a coworker take a swing at me? The people I know are relatively normal. It's the rock-bottom desperate criminals out there that you got to be careful of. Your brother might have scrapped with you as a kid but he's not going to shank you with a knife. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:21 PM |
| -4 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.Most men are not, but even if 5% or 2% are massive loose cannons, a girl is not going to "mouth off" to some random stranger, just like I wouldn't either. I can handle myself physically, but do not intend to start fisticuffs with random idiots every day, not much to gain. Many girls fear men. Obviously. Hell, I fear other men, when I'm walking through the ghetto. And I'm seen plenty of nutjobs in this city, I just told you that. Again do you live in Pussyville or Mormontown? Because that would e… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Develop Social Proof and see your SMV riseOkay I'm hearing a lot of "I could have my pick of the girls" in this post but not a lot of "and then I took her off the dance floor and fucked her." Yeah you can definitely "hold court" and be King of the Room, but did you actually fuck any of these girls? How often has your dance floor antics gotten you laid since you've gotten good? Just curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What 12 Months of TRP Can DoUnless you're a large man, will take longer than 2-3 months to bench 2 plates, but yeah I hear ya. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:07 PM |
| 0 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.This is not necessarily true. Your actual likelihood of violence goes up at you become perceived as more of a 'threat' to a certain point. Well, it depends on your opponent but yeah. Some drunk buffoons actually feel threatened and emasculated when some jacked guy bumps into them vs. some average scrub. So it's not really the case unless you literally become a Mountain of a man, even then, your buds will just ask you to 'get their back' in every fight. Smart move is to simply not engage in bar b… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:00 PM |
| -6 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.when you know for a fact that you can't be punched under any circumstances. What the fuck are you talking about? Where do you live, Pussyville, Utah? I live in Chicago and everyone knows a few crackheads and loonie tunes on the El train, let alone gropists and rapists and all manner of creepy crawlers. Trust me, no girl believes she's incapable of being punched or raped, and that goes the same for men as well. Well, less on the rape part, but you can be punched, stabbed, shot ... I personally ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 04:53 PM |
| 2 | A brief list of things I would have told myself at the beginning of this journey.True, that's what it is, I hate that term though. Nothing against The Game but picking up women is normal. It's not some goofy mPUA neg this then set merge that. Some of the terms just make me cringe lol. Yes, you're trying to get attention. I prefer the term 'shiny shit.' Like a girl with her tits out. Watch does the same job though, not as gaudy. Makes you appear marginally more interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | A brief list of things I would have told myself at the beginning of this journey.I agree with the watch part actually. It's silly, but so are a lot of things that make you attractive. Hell, on the advice of someone I know, I once wore a cheap $5 smiley face necklace around places. I thought it was tacky garbage, but what the hell. Girls probably commented more on that necklace than anything else I've ever worn, and I wear a lot of cool shit. Some big-titted bartender offered to buy it of me (I said how much and she said, a shot -- yeah right lol). We're all just dogs chasing… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 07:57 PM |
| 2 | A brief list of things I would have told myself at the beginning of this journey.I like video games, a lot. But I seldom play them anymore. To me, they're essentially like jerking off. It's fun during, but a waste, and hell most of the 'memories' of it kinda blur together anyway. Yes, video games are designed to punch your reward centers in your brain and give you the illusion of achievement and progress, only in a meaningless fictional world where minute hand-motor skills are the only skill really. Hey, if you want to play games, fine, no reason not to enjoy yourself while … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/16 07:54 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidMy strategy right now is poor time investment. But there are a few other components as well, it's a journey. My internal confidence is not high with women, either, as it is with a great number of other skills. It's certainly not logistics, as I mentioned. Again, that's nonsensical. It might make sense in some sort of "confucious say" type new age bullshit, but that generally needs to be avoided in these discussions, if people can read it a hundred different ways. | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 09:09 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidI don't get laid very frequently, though numbers do add up. My game/ effort just started heating up the last couple years, and I probably average a new girl every 2-3 months for the duration. Which might not be great Idk yeah, but eh, working on it. I haven't got LMR for a long time. (aka a girl is topless in your bed making out with you, but sex isn't going to happen). I feel like this mostly happens with very young & inexperienced chicks. Either that or I'm just getting the sluts, LOL. Nah, th… | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOUWell the thing is, if you really go nuts with the lifting, girls will touch you more too, you will no longer be average in all facets. Same with the fashion arguably, although he doesn't mean button down and cardigan, he means SEXY clothes that are somewhat flashy, show confidence, are not soft, and show off your body. I've ebbed and flowed with the gym (currently ebbing, haven't been in a while). But in 3-4 months of hard effort you can have nice enough arms where some girls will try to feel yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOUbut this crap will only happen if you are naturally attractive. Not true. Trust me, I'm average at best. I'm certainly not good looking and have lots of life experience to prove that. Now in most cases, if I'm average looking, average dressed, average social status, average everything ... nothing particularly special will happen. But you can find yourself in several advantageous settings. Higher social status in some contexts (you were in a rock band or on stage or are bartending or are the man … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 05:38 PM |
| 8 | IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOUDepends on the country too. America seems like the most entitled country, though maybe that's "grass is greener" thinking (I spend most of my time in the US). I don't get laid that often, but I've had a number of girls -- usually Russian, French, or Polish -- who are very nice to me after sex. One girl even cooked me breakfast in the morning, which maybe that's common, but for me I was pretty impressed with that. Ladies if you want a guy to stick around, cook him breakfast after a ONS, jesus, pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 05:26 PM |
| 5 | IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOUIt's worse when you are 6'0 and a girl rejects you. Then you realize it must be either your face or personality (well if you assume the worst ha). | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 04:17 PM |
| 3 | IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOUDude I mean this with love, but do you have any idea how insane you sound? You are apparently yolked as shit, make $150k a year, easily walk up to women -- but no one is biting because "weird eyebrows"? Dude first off if what you said is true, you should be smashing online dating anyway - look great in pics etc. If you really have some kind of Tourette's level facial expression tics ... well shit, seriously take a goddamned acting class, and practice your lines and facial expressions in front of… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidYou don't need 3 hour interactions, no. Look I personally have never lost a girl who has agreed to leave a bar with me. Okay maybe LMR once or twice at my place but that's also not logistics. For most guys who live within 10-15 minutes of a bar, there is no logistics problem. Especially if you live in a city with tons of public transit options like NYC or Chicago. Then there's also her place, though that's a less common preference in my experience, but hey, if the only concern is logistics. For … | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidIf the girl thinks you're too fat for her for instance, and thus won't physically follow you to a fuck location, that's not a logistics problem. That's a fat problem. Just calling out bullshit advice, nothing personal. | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidNo, target selection is vital. Many girls have boyfriends or are not looking for same night sex, or just don't like you for whatever reason. Logistics 90% is silly nonsense. Take that Sun Tzu shit elsewhere | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 04:23 AM |
| 3 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidI don't think so. You can stake a chump right next store to a bar, he ain't going to be pulling much more. And then you factor in if he's going out more. Hell, half the time you can just lie that you're right around the block. By the time you walked 6 blocks or caught an uber, she's already made up her mind. Logistics is a prereq, but no. A girl doesn't go to a bar and ask "jesus are there any men here that have a convenient fuck location? So hard to find!" | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Bought 'Models: Attract Women Through Honesty' and this page changed my whole perception on women, and maybe it will for you.Right a book is a book, but I've read other alpha male type manifestos or the original guide to cocky funny, Gunwitch, bunch of stuff. I found Models to be good, but it wasn't super practical or has much emotional core. The main point I remember is not being needy, truly, not just as an act. Makes sense. Good book but don't expect miracles. Also it's the only book talked about this much on this sub. It's one book of hundreds on the subject. | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Bought 'Models: Attract Women Through Honesty' and this page changed my whole perception on women, and maybe it will for you.Meh. This book is listed so often here I wonder if it's by shills. I read the book. It's interesting, logical, and has insights, but I can't say it noticeably changed my behavior or results with women. | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Is it okay to cry?First, watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b7bgtu2O4E Next. Realize that the universe is an absurdity. One giant absurdity. It's a miracle us space monkeys on a rock are alive at all. The universe doesn't owe you jack shit. Period. It won't bend to your will, but you can stand up and make shit happen yourself. Keep going. You thought you made the necessary changes to get the dating lifestyle you wanted. You either didn't or your concept or what works is off. Re-assess. Realize that your… | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?May have missed the point of your question. Generally you should fuck a girl as soon as possible. Once you fuck her 2-3 times, she's generally "locked in" and isn't off looking for some other dick. Unless it's a casual relationship. Until then, she's usually playing the field. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 03:40 AM |
| 5 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?Idk, I'm an insecure dude, but ... well women are mighty insecure. If I told pretty much any girl she sucked in bed, it would probably be devastating. She might dump me but she'd be on Wikipedia or some shit the very next day. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 03:35 AM |
| 3 | How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you?The correct answers have already been mentioned, but I'll repeat for your benefit. The truth is, the technical quality of first time sex is NOT necessary in getting a girl to like you a LOT, become extremely emotionally invested, or to feel deep emotions with you, and about you. I mean this should be obvious (except for maybe the guys who believe they always give great sex and have never drank 7 shots of whiskey before fucking). I have had terrible sex with women then have become extremely attac… | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 03:32 AM |
| 4 | You didn't win, Trump didexactly what I'm saying. She was unelectable trash. She certainly tried harder though. Hell you're proving my point | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 02:35 AM |
| 1 | You didn't win, Trump didWhy do you even care how much he worked? You're taking this way too personally. Hillary would have literally killed 10 men to be President. Trump had a natural charisma and more appealing policy. So what. If you get all your news from the alt-right, you may have a different perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 01:33 AM |
| -7 | You didn't win, Trump didShe cheated but she also worked harder. In the debates and just about everything else. That's not exactly a compliment, Hitler worked pretty hard too. It's just reality. You are clearly a Trump fan and thus biased, though I'm not sure why working harder matters. Trump worked very hard, just didn't work his knuckles to the bone like Hillary, whose life goal for decades was the Presidency. I personally think they're both dogshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 12:01 AM |
| -5 | You didn't win, Trump didCompletely disagree, but whatever. If your explanation for this election's results are "Trump simply worked harder" - well then you haven't been paying attention to jack shit this election season. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 09:40 PM |
| 7 | You didn't win, Trump didCruz was hated by both bases, so I'm not even sure why he was in contention. Honestly. True blue conservatives liked him maybe. Rubio is hard to say, I feel like he's mostly a blank slate vs. Hillary. As a liberal it's hard to assess the Republican candidates - I watched all their debates. They all DID seem like a gang of stiff losers and wimps vs. Trump, with the exception of Christie maybe, who never went after Trump. I think Jeb Bush ... by any other name ... would have had a landslide vs. Hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 08:10 PM |
| 30 | You didn't win, Trump didhe won, he achieved, he worked harder than the other candidate and he managed a much more intelligent campaign. It's doubtful he worked harder than Hillary. You can even argue he didn't even campaign smarter. I mean, you can say his stance on key policy issues, and his charisma/ personality/ celebrity, won him the day. You also can't discount the fact that his opponent, Hillary, has a past of complete corruption and ZERO charisma. And I'm a liberal. No doubt he worked hard, but his positioning a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)Maybe biologically speaking yes, but no way I want to get some random woman pregnant. They can come after you legally, unless you're already a deadbeat in/ out of jail and don't give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)Well, for me, first of all I can get to know someone 100x faster and more accurately in person than whatever bullshit they're spewing at me over the phone, a list of hobbies, or their favorite Pokemon. Just doesn't work that way. Women are usually pretty low effort on their side, because why bother, but I can tell you that probably a good portion of the men you're talking to are putting on 'the Big Show' they think you want to hear, to convince you to meet with them. Even if part of that is seem… | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)Yeah being pushy is one thing. My theory is that the longer 'you've been texting' - the more it seems you know each other. So 4 messages over a week is a lot more meaningful than a day, even though, rationally, not really. Well, maybe it proves more investment. you aren't coming across as creepy Every guy worth a damn comes across as creepy at least 10% of the time to some women. It's part of the territory. It's like that old poker adage: If you never get caught bluffing, you're not bluffing nea… | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 7 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)Meh. I had a really conservative girl meet me after 5-6 messages. They were spaced out over the course of a week. She waited like 5-6 dates before we did the no pants dance, too. Your logic is kind of ... odd. If the guy is aggressive or creepy, are 5-6 messages really going to be different than 20 messages talking about Pokemon or some bullshit? Meet the guy in a public space and you'll be fine. Us guys really need to weed out the time wasters on Tinder (like the girl who is just pissed at her … | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 08:50 PM |
| 6 | An HB9 next to me laughs at this youtube skit, and then says " I wish more guys were like that "Not assholish enough. See this video for how to pickup girls: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tgsHV9FEJdU | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 05:00 PM |
| 16 | How does the typical tinder hookup process look like and what do I have to keep in mind?Have you been chatting with these girls at least 3-4 messages back and forth? Just wondering how warm the leads are here. A girl who wants to meet you has not necessarily decided yet whether she wants to fuck you (unless she explicitly mentioned this in your messages). Whether she fucks on the first date depends on the girl, her profile, how fast it looks like she goes, how much she likes you/ is horny. It's probably more reasonable to expect you may have sex with a girl you're meeting after 2-4… | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | A female seddit lurker gives actual advice for men on kino, buried in another threadFair enough, probably just a common enough sentiment among women | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | A female seddit lurker gives actual advice for men on kino, buried in another threadOh sure. I mean it's great for a date. Personally I don't think it comes off as incidental, like at the office. | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 01:01 AM |
| 13 | A female seddit lurker gives actual advice for men on kino, buried in another threadInteresting. Odd but the two paragraphs about the lower back are very familiar, like I feel like they may have been plagiarized. Hmm, maybe just my imagination. | /r/seduction | 31/10/16 12:25 AM |
| 22 | 15 Glaring Signs Of Social Incompetence You Want To Avoid At All CostThat's true, but not always. If the story is really cool, but involves strangers, that's alright. Like if you saw your uncle wrestle an alligator once | /r/seduction | 28/10/16 10:10 PM |
| 1 | FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriendI've struggled with this and not sure the right answer. I definitely am not going to make up my mind by the usual bullshit, so don't try, but yeah it's an interesting question. I mean, sex has obvious social consequences, so self control should probably be exhibited with certain people. At the same time, most women have probably rejected more men then you'll ever sleep with women in your life, if you know what I mean. They get offered sex at least 10 times a week, probably. And like, who's to sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriendNot necessarily. The 6 guys could have been pretty attractive. Or not. Who knows. Let's be honest, when you're with a girl, a typical, average girl - if you're anything like me, or most males, you're trying to pressure sex to happen relatively fast. Say, within 3 dates, but let's be honest, you'd take it earlier if possible. Does that mean you're going to marry the girl? Obviously not. Life happens. And mostly, it's an ego thing. You want to imagine yourself as some magical unicorn; you in a cit… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Good redpill posters don't crab in bucket or get jealousOh yeah, I've done it, and I'm average looking at best. I have to put on what I like to call the 'dog and pony show' though and usually a fair number of rejections. Unless of course I'm in Asia or am a foreigner in Europe, where the foreign novelty factor pushes me high enough to make scoring a hot girl go from hard to ... well a hell of a lot easier. Looks are important to woman, facial looks I'm talking about. Still, they are not quite as looks-focused as men, wouldn't go that extreme. I know … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Good redpill posters don't crab in bucket or get jealousCongrats on having the dating life easy. You definitely have a lot more options than I do, and maybe you're a good guy. But it's not all about looks. Well, maybe for sex. The hottest woman I dated though, after a while I realized we just didn't connect very well, and dumped her. I was shocked myself that I had criteria more than looks (well, for long-term stuff). So yeah. Great tits though. Also, homely guys are seen as more competent in acting parts, because it's thought they proved themselves … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Good redpill posters don't crab in bucket or get jealousI didn't look at the original post, but listen. Do you need to be a male model to fuck people off Tinder? Of course not. If you ARE a male model, can you say pretty much fucking anything on Tinder and get laid, making your advice completely worthless for non-model males? Yes. Also I've been laid off Tinder with a decent woman, and I've average looking, at best. My game was just 'acting normal.' HOWEVER, for an average guy with average photos, Tinder in particular (moreso than any other dating si… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 01:41 AM |
| -1 | FR: Took the plunge, broke up with BPD girlfriendYou seem young enough so I'll give you a pro tip. If for some reason you didn't feel like being in a relationship any more with this girl, that's fine. That's your choice. Maybe you don't want to be tied down, or some other reason. Whatever. Don't live your life based on the advice of an internet forum. Any internet forum. That includes this one. For the love of fuck, try to work some shit out for yourself. I realize the irony of me saying not to trust internet advice whilst giving you internet … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 01:33 AM |
| 23 | 2 Years of Pickup, but No Results!The problem is your model and conception of how to get from A (where you are) to B (sleeping with tons of girls) is probably largely wrong. For instance, maybe someone convinced you that merely putting in reps (approaching 1000s of girls each year) will get you from A to B. Nope. Approach machine is ... bah. You actually need to focus on one thing at a time. You need to at least learn something, and change something up, after say 20-30 approaches where you get zero results. What's going wrong? R… | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 03:28 PM |
| 9 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.I'm not the expert but I do have a worthless psychology degree. Dopamine >IS< pleasure. Now different activities can directly punch that dopamine sack in different ways. The more direct the link (like coke or heroine) the more addictive, especially how immediately the reward comes, and goes away (weed is so gradual that it's actually not nearly as addictive, if at all). With exercise, sure, there's a runner's high at the end of running -- weight lifting -- from personal experience it seems even … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.Do you have a hard time following conversation? No just pointing out that you apologize too much. You're just wrong, and studies show that. Yeah and studies show that the Earth is flat. Oh wait, saying studies show means dingus dong. People who play video games for 4-5+ hours a day are VERY defensive about their habit, as you have demonstrated. They will come after anyone, viciously, who dare say they 'game too much.' If they were truly secure in their opinion, they wouldn't be quite as defensiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.Nope, sorry. Why are you apologizing again? Sadly, yes. Whatever. Like I said, nothing wrong with hedonism. Then again, even if you're a hedonist, you could arguably trade in short-term pleasures for longer term ones (like wealth) that would free up more time and advanced pleasures. Gaming has huge benefits, by the way. No. Not unless you're trying to become relatively inactive or asocial. Who released those studies, the gaming companies? Yeah Coca Cola has massive benefits, too, lol ... You mad… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 06:15 PM |
| 0 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.Gaming is like masturbation ... it's fun but a complete waste of time. Counterpoint: what's wrong with hedonism for hedonism sake? Nothing. By all means, game and masturbate away. The trade-off with prioritizing pure hedonism is that it makes you progress less on your other life goals, obviously. I mean the only 'con' is the hours not devoted to other things. Video games do not improve cognitive skills, I can tell you that. They may carry over to other skills (like typing, at first, or navigatin… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 04:37 PM |
| 6 | What's killing your game? Dopamine abuse.I have to agree with this. Where are OP's sources to this shit? By the way, he argues one minute that excessive masturbation is bad because of the dopamine it dumps in your brain on a recurring basis, but then the next minute, says that exercise dumping dopamine in your brain is a good thing that increases motivation. So which is it? Not to mention, sex itself releases dopamine in your brain. Seems like OP came up with the conclusions first, then either invented or ignored any data or supporting… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 04:31 PM |
| 2 | I can hold conversation with a girl but dont know when to "pull the trigger"Problem might be the setting. Kissing only really feels natural (to me) if the party has dimmed lights, or we're both relatively alone, like on the back porch. So you may have to isolate. If it's some house party where the lights are turned up really high, then yeah, it would be awkward to go for a kiss for someone in the middle of 40 people. You don't need a kiss necessarily though to ask someone to check out your goldfish/ ipod/ pokemon/ stamp collection back at your apartment. (hint there is … | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Duke opens one of the first male Re-Education and Feminization Camps in the USI'm not a redpill diehard here ... serious question ... what is the point of this? The only males who will voluntarily attend this are: Already male feminists who don't need to be "converted" as far as they're concerned anyway .... Some guy pretending to be a feminist champion so he can pork some hot piece of ass .... also won't be changing any of his viewpoints. Like ... do they expect a hyper-masculine frat-bro asswipe or football player to just plunk in to this shit? It's not going to happen.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?Hmm, these days once every 2-3 months, but I don't hit the bars as often these days. I'm not a top expert but I probably cold approach more than most in my social circle. | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 04:20 AM |
| 2 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?I probably should ask for numbers when it's clear things aren't proceeding, but usually I push for ONS. I stick to online dating when I want to do the dates thing, not really the bars or clubs. I probably wasted a few opportunities though. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?hmm, well I never ask for numbers I just find nonverbal is better than verbal when asking her to dance. What you do after that point is up to you. My theory is one comes across as more timid or unsure when one asks. But hey, whatever works for you. Try both and see what works better. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?I've tried both. I don't have an agenda. To me, asking just gets less of a success rate. Note, you can physically ask instead of verbally ask, it's called holding your hand out. They don't have to take it. Also, reread my post. I specifically said NOT to "sidle up" to someone. You come up head on, slowly, deliberately. This isn't an ethics lesson or SJW logic -- this is just the greatest success rate, perhaps because it shows balls, and doesn't seem as creepy or sneaky. Though admittedly, some g… | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to approach women on the dancefloor?Hmm, dearth of comments here. This is actually my preferred game at night and I've done it hundreds and hundreds of times. Best way: Make sure she sees you first, directly or in her peripheral, or whatever. This is not absolutely necessary, but it makes the approach less creepy, also can give you an early signal if you she's receptive or not. There's a few different ways to approach. Usually the best ways are as follows: You somehow lock eye contact before you approach, and she maintains eye con… | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.I wouldn't be surprised. That's the easiest place to be dominant. A woman has agreed to fuck you and submitted to you. And most guys do believe that constant, very hard pumping, in one position = great sex. the idea that harder = better. This is doubly true if they have a small penis. They want to assert their mandhood, desperately. Take a sad sack office drone who's pissed at his boss. He probably will fuck the shit outta some girl on the rare occasion he gets some vag, whatever quality. Of cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.Your final statement is absolutely true. Many people here are missing that. If in her mind you are a God and she's dreamt about fucking you for months, you can give an average performance and she'll be cumming repeatedly. A lot of girls sexuality and desire is mental. Sounds sappy, but it's absolutely true. For males it's more a biological process --- so many guys here can't fathom that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.Sure you can. Just because it doesn't fit your worldview doesn't mean it's not possible. A beta male in life, work, relationships can easily give a world-class sexual performance, if he knows how. He might even be dominant in bed, because he read that in a magazine, or on here, even though he's a pussy in relationship matters. To answer the original question, who you are is more important than your actual technical proficiency at sex (provided you have baseline competence and don't have a micro-… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.many do care about their count. Even if they have 200+ partners, the idea that 'you're already counted' makes it much easier to go and fuck you between boyfriends or whatever. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.I disagree with the assessment here. If a girl thinks you're a living God, you can have a whiskey dick performance and she'll still be blowing up your phone the next day. There's also a difference of being capable of giving an Olympic fucking, and feeling the need to do it every time, because you desperately need to be liked, and have a scarcity mentality. A guy who is King and doesn't give a fuck, is generally only concerned with his own pleasure, to be honest. As long as he blows his load, it'… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one.Meh. Most guys probably believe they are good in the sack, just like everyone believes they are an above-average driver. Meh. Also, focusing too much on her pleasure is a turn-off for her, to be honest. How many beta males will lick her pussy for an hour in an attempt to make her 'like him'? Also I don't think good sex is 'intellectually stimulating' - poor choice of words perhaps. Emotional connection, sure - but I hope you're not having an academic debate. Also I agree with the other guy --- y… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraTo be honest it's extremely common. Can't say this is fake for sure, but nor can you say it's real. I've literally seen videos, of guys I trusted, hitting on random women in the park. They even got rejected half the time. Seemed believable as hell. Later, someone came by verifying they were fake (using super nerdy techniques) and then the creator admitted it and took them down. He just hired actresses. Meh. It's not that uncommon. This could be real, but eh. You don't really need a video -- you … | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 06:32 PM |
| 1 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraSounds kinda like Pauly Shore or something, lol... I don't mind it, but you'd definitely stand out in the Midwest | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 06:29 PM |
| 1 | PUA Meets Girlfriend On CameraI've seen so many of these that are fake (I can link them) - that there's no way to verify this is real. I'm not saying it is, or it isn't, but I'm seen soooo many just like this, confirmed fake, so bah. | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Be Above AverageThat's news to me. That's sad. I personally date up. Why would I date down when I can bamboozle hot chicks. If I were dating down -- aka warpigs ... I might as well put a gun in my mouth and pull the trigger. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/16 04:40 AM |
| -2 | Be Above AverageWell yes, there are notable exceptions. Such as being on a desert island. Then yes, if you're the only dude (or girl) in an island of the opposite sex, you are now the only option, and will fuck who you want. I assume that military guy had limited options, so he fucked a porker the entire time. After being in a submarine for 6 months with no women in sight, he'd probably fuck just about anything. Married guy is different. He married a 9 and possibly pair bonded, she got fat as fuck, society obli… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 09:48 PM |
| 181 | A simple test for her = epic failYeah the best advice on dates is to actually let the woman do as much talking as possible. Yeah you need to nudge and lead here and there and give back, but the more she's talking, the more she'll like you by the end of the night. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Be Above AverageYeah if you're talking trans-atlantic, most people won't make that trip for simply sex, unless it was amazing sex and they have some cash to burn. Yeah if you're targeting some cultural elite professional women who go to the theater every weekend, that's a different market. I personally just need a hot bimbo to dump loads into, and I'm also about 28. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Be Above AverageYeah I guess it depends if you're talking relationship or quickly blowing a load. In the prior case, a woman never fucks up. In the latter case ... a quick sloppy drunken fuck, NSA, just suck a guy's dick for him ... well yes, even an alpha male will empty a load into a 6 or 7 if he can't find anything else that night. I don't exactly think that's the prime directive of women, though. They realize there is no sport in it. They try to compete to see who can 'boyfriend' so and so. In that case, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 06:36 PM |
| 13 | Be Above AverageYou seem below average when it comes to confidence, jealousy, and bitterness. You're focusing on the wrong things. I graduated valedictorian of my 3k high school and went to an elite private university: and even I don't give a shit about the postulates of Euclid. At all. Let alone will some bar bimbo. Girls don't give a fuck about intellectualism; in fact it's a turn-off. General intelligence is maybe a minor positive; that's more to do with how it can power you socially and financially. Girls a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 04:01 PM |
| 8 | Be Above Average3 months if they have an iron will and know what they are doing, and even that would be remarkable. Realistically, would take a 8-12 months to go from those skinny-fat bloated pics to a shredded ripped look. That's because you do need a strength phase and a cut phase no matter how you slice it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 03:49 PM |
| -7 | Be Above AverageWait, what? Women fuck up, men fuck down? Not sure I agree with that. I'd say I've mostly fucked on my level, but occasionally I've fucked above my paygrade. That's a lot easier with men; maybe you find some weird model who likes your look, or you got lucky, she was horny, you were the only one there. Women can't really "fuck up" unless a man has a BAC of 0.250 or higher. I mean yeah I see a fat manatee bringing home a Brad Pitt character all the time ... right ... What Louie was grasping at is … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Actually no. In Western American society in the 21st Century, this enrages a shit load of women. You will not be sticking your pecker in anything after that. Now if this were Poland or some country where women are more submissive, it would work fine. The only scenario where what you are describing works is when you already have a girlfriend/ are fucking her, and then she just bears your 'jokes' out of fear of losing you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to know a girl likes you and how stupid I am.The only thing you kiss is your right hand, it sounds like. Nuance is lost on ass-burgers kids like you, ricky retardo. rofl. blocked, I'm done with this guy | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How to know a girl likes you and how stupid I am.Yeah I said whatever works. Wasn't clear if you chose that option, or thought you had to do this complicated ruse because you were too nervous to do otherwise. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 0 | How to know a girl likes you and how stupid I am.Have you ever kissed a girl before? No, really? Unless you intentionally are trying to be rapey, it's like shaking someone's hand. It requires two parties. Well, if you're a normal human being. Technically you could grab their hand and shake it. But that's intentionally rapey. What's next, me showing you how to wipe your ass? By all means, 'bet' someone with a fake bet every time you want to kiss them. Jesus, nerdsley. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How to know a girl likes you and how stupid I am.I meant attempt to kiss her, sorry if you have asperger's and thought I was talking about something forcible. I sometimes assume redditors have common sense. | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 05:36 AM |
| 29 | How to know a girl likes you and how stupid I am.A simpler, less cringey way to do this would be simply lean in and kiss her, but whatever works. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy ReturnsSo 1% of the population? | /r/seduction | 13/09/16 01:17 AM |
| 4 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy ReturnsI don't know. I'm not religious and I'm not a big believe in bullshitting myself. I get what you're saying. Confidence is awesome, so you might as well believe you can just go up and fuck a super model like it's nothing. But I mean ... shit. You simply can't, well the average man can't, and that's not defeatism, that has legitimate practical considerations. Plus, blind confidence -- while important -- it limits honest feedback. I think improving the elements necessary to fuck the girls you want … | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 08:56 PM |
| 4 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy ReturnsTo be honest I'm pretty lean and somewhat muscular (not yolked but prob more than most Americans). My honest opinion is that the gym, while containing a wealth of health and life benefits, is not really the magic pill that makes girls drool over you. I mean I've had people squeeze my bicep and chest and shit, but they already liked me. In other contexts I'm just as invisible as ever. I also have a friend who -- well I assume he is good looking, because he is not outgoing, or pleasant, or buff, y… | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 08:39 PM |
| 52 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s — Part II: The Controversy ReturnsI'm not seeing a ton of actionable advice, TBH. And some of the problems mentioned in your first post (not every super hot girl is a dumb whore, and your bitter RedPill attitude isn't helping shit) -- whilst true, only applies to a small percentage of men. It's more than "bitter attitudes" that explain why not 100% of men can/ do fuck 9's and 10's. I mean, I think we need to work back from basic logical principles and assumptions here, or at least explain why we toss out the obvious ones. Here's… | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 04:27 PM |
| 0 | I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you.OP, please realize that despite you taking about her being an escort, breaking the wall, and getting meta, 90% of her clients do this, and you're just another John/ mark. Yeah if you have the money do it every weekend. Personally, I'm not into hookers. One, it does nothing for my ego or validation, no matter how hard they and you try to convince yourself they are not repulsed by the idea of unpaid sex with you. Two, I don't like fucking girls who aren't enjoying it | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 09:21 PM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.U mad? Can't hear you with my big veiny dick pumping your little nigger bitch mouth. Sluuuuurp gargle gag -- Come again? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 07:41 PM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.No, it's the lowliest nigger on earth. Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Being Indian is like being the lowliest nigger on earth. ROFL. Even the pansy British easily subjugated your smelly kind. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 06:44 AM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Aw, are you from India, my little bitch? Fuck you sand nigger, lol. Bow down before your betters. Can't hear you with my big fat hairy American cock stuffed down your throat. All I hear is gobble glurg gluuuuurp. Aw yeah, I'm coming now. Take it. Slurp down my hot cum, Indian nigger. Good boy. Aw yeah. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 06:38 AM |
| 7 | Womans perspective - Why Beta Guys are Actually Scary AF When You're Use To Dating Bad GuysI'm not an asshole to ugly chicks. I treat them like I would a dude. Actually probably better because they usually aren't as obnoxious with personal space. I prefer a low drama lifestyle. The dudes with the chests puffed out all the time? 'Alpha dogging' bro fucks? Well I let them beat the shit outta each other for trivial bullshit and work minimum wage jobs (or some middle management crap). The natural end to that game is basically what's happening in Syria right now: nobody wins and the asshol… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Lol first American then euro. Jesus you're quite the little racist. Well my life is awesome. You? Emotional trauma, it seems. Good luck with working that out. Maybe you should move to Murica or Europe instead of the undeveloped, uneducated shithole you hail from. Free advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 11:03 PM |
| 2 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Lol Jesus. Who pissed in your cereal. What an angry young man. I'm actually quite ripped, but your insults don't remotely get to me, if that was your intention. I've been battle hardened by years of moba games in my youth, lol. They just reveal you have severe emotional problems. Not all white people are the boogeyman or the cause of all your problems, even though many are raging assholes. Good luck to you bud | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 0 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedHmm maybe. Haven't thought about it too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 07:30 PM |
| 4 | 2 Years of RP: Lessons LearnedMy opinion is that you don't need to 'think' about texting too much, once you are the man you want to become. If you text her, it's because you want to. Although, I guess even I will consciously either not text, or do text, based on how long it's been. I usually text a girl once a week if we're casual, once every two weeks if it's a bit less than that (sometimes an FB who is playing the field or something) ... and however much I want if it's a full-bore relationship. More than once a week for ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.I can freely travel to India, tardo. I don't care what anyone wears in America or India, because I'm not a religious zealot and respect freedom. I'm wearing 2 inch cutoff jeans in India as a man. And no one can stop me. America, fuck yeah! Suck my big hairy mother fucking dick yeah! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 01:45 PM |
| 1 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Ah sorry rapeugee came from Europe, the fact that a high % of rapists are hiding among refugees and can rape with impunity, because it would be racist to charge a brown rapist with rape in Europe. Why not follow Indian cultural dress customs? Because I'm American. I can wear whatever the fuck I want. If I want to wear the swimsuit from Borat, I will. Of course if it's against the law in a certain country, that country blows ass, and should be avoided. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 06:32 PM |
| 0 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Obviously you should wear pink bandoliers as a cute accessory to your miniskirt. Make sure you're in a taxi/ bike/ out of the area by the time you're out of ammo. In fact once you mow down 20-30 rapists, the others may be held off with threat of death alone as you carry your modified-full-auto rifles out of the shithole. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 06:29 PM |
| 5 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.Bah. That statement is lame. I'm willing to buy an AK-47 and blow away terry-rists as well, but we don't need 100% of males to do that job. It's called division of labor. And I prefer to do what I like, and get highly paid, not clean latrines and shoot at sand n**** for no reason other than oil money. And yeah, my tax dollars pay their salary, so they better do the job of security. Or I'll hire private contractors and/ or do the job myself with my rifle in my house. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | India's Tourist Minister suggests that female tourists should not wear skirts in small, rural villages-- Feminists go ape-shit.I wouldn't go to India alone if I were a woman, but I do think a woman has the right to wear a skirt and walk down the street without getting raped. Frankly I wouldn't venture to any known rape-den-hotbeds (just like I avoid the ghetto) --- but if you want to wear a skirt, wear a skirt and carry a .44. Then you can dispatch the rapeugee with ease, hopefully. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Unbelievable arrogance in todays 20year old girlsI was comparing to America, not Eastern Europe, which is as man's paradise. A German girl finds nothing wrong with nudity and fucking is a natural life process. In America, you need to take her on 4 paid dates or "she might be a slut." And even then, she's worried about what her friends/ the neighbors might think. Also, a donkey-faced 7 thinks shes's a 10. In Germany, there are uggos for sure, like every country. However girls are taller, thinner, blonder. Nowhere as near as many fatties. Plus t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever get rejected for physical escalation by a girl even though she's into you? Why does it happen?If it's in public, like ... REALLY in public, some girls are funny about that. Exceptions: Bars/ nightclubs that are dark, then there's no excuse. If it wasn't in public, or even if it sort of was, usually it's a bad sign. If they like you, they'll risk a public makeout even if it's against their better judgement, just to keep you interested - IF they like you. Some are genuinely not "ready" for sex, or ... well sex. In general. Or with you. Who knows. They may LIKE you, but sex with you is .. a… | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Unbelievable arrogance in todays 20year old girlsDude, seriously, you need to get to a place where you don't give a flying fuck whether a girl texts you back or not, especially one you've dicked 0-5 times range. This is especially true if you're fucking at least one, preferably 2+ girls and have a busy social life and business. Instead of 'waiting by the phone.' I'm never had a woman I've fucked tell me to get away (though many have ended it or ghosted me, obviously). Maybe you're texting to much. If you fuck a girl, text her the next day (may… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Unbelievable arrogance in todays 20year old girlsTinder sucks, saturated market. However out and about, stuff is fine. I'm American but in Germany, the women are 10x better than the states. Both in average physical appearance, sexual openness, and general hostility. But then again, the foreigner affect is real most places. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Got fired after 3 years because ex refused to work in same building. Pro- feminist society in all its glory.I hope you're trolling. The company will issue a memo saying he was a sexually harassing rapist, with testimony from the chick and HR and "documented evidence." OP was a moron and got fired for it. They'll claim it was performance related. You are the weakest link goodbye. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Got fired after 3 years because ex refused to work in same building. Pro- feminist society in all its glory.How is it relevant to a company what happens in your private life? It isn't. Until you start fucking coworkers/ managers. Then you literally thrust your penis into the business and made it "business-relevant" like an insufferable fool. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Got fired after 3 years because ex refused to work in same building. Pro- feminist society in all its glory.This is hilarious. You thought with your dick (probably still do) and dipped your wick in company ink. You do that, you don't give a shit about the job, nor care if you lose it. Or, you're a fool. I just picture you reading a few redpill posts than "punishing bad behavior" -- and no wonder the relationship exploded. Instead of responding with social skills, you probably demanded she suck your dick on demand, and when refused, you called her a fucking whore and didn't respond to texts for 5 days … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How terrible of an idea is it to just simply state you want to fuck?Different strokes for different folks. I, a man, have personally been never asked by a woman if they can do anything. (can I grab your dick now, kiss you, etcetera). Ironically gay guys often do (I'm a straight male) - because -- well, males are given different focuses in sex ed. There are many ways you can nonverbally communicate, IMO. My 'asking' about the kiss is either touching foreheads for a few seconds during an intimate moment (a pretty much 100% indicator of whether a girl wants to kiss… | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How terrible of an idea is it to just simply state you want to fuck?Hmm, personally I wouldn't do a 'huge buildup' moment when asking out for a date. That's usually the exact thing I tend to avoid. You want to make it casual/ low pressure, not like youre popping a marriage proposal. You're in college and sound like you don't give a fuck anyway, I'd show up in bright red or pink pants (or insert clearly flamboyant fashion item) --- then build up like you're going to ask her something super serious and important, thane ask "Do these pants make me look gay?" delive… | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How terrible of an idea is it to just simply state you want to fuck?Terrible idea, even if you are good looking. In fact this exact experiment has been tried many times. By all means, try it and report back, but there's so many reasons it can backfire. It's just too profane and vulgar. Even simply admitting you want to have sex (wanna go back to my place for fun?) indicates the same thing in a less vulgar fashion. She feels like a slut. Even if she's attracted to you, she wouldn't want YOU to think she's easy/ a slut. Not saying a girl won't go home with you in … | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder dying?No one reads the bios anyway. Not until match time. I think they are crazy and actually want friends. If they are 'super super embarassed' to be on Tinder when they are, in fact, single and looking ... then I'm embarassed for them ... about how low their self esteem is and how little they are self assured. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder dying?What? Then why do only 2-5% of female Tinder profiles say 'looking for friends only' ? If what you said was true, 60-90% of profiles would be saying this, since all women experience that social pressure. I actually believe that these are legit in asking for friends. There are a LOT more girls, especially hot girls, looking for friends - PLATONIC FRIENDS -- than a boyfriend or some dick, which they already have. Either that or they are cheating, and this is their --- pretty shitty --- cover story… | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Is tinder dying?I'm tired of Tinder. I got a couple hot girls off there for brief flings. They were hot, but for once (this is my first foray into online dating) ... being hot wasn't quite good enough long term, we didn't connect in the slightest even after sex. As far as looks, I'd rate myself a 7-8 as a dude (though I guess most men would). I also have an edge in that I don't type "want some fuk" or "show me dem titties" which probably adds a point. Aaaanyway ... takes forever to actually get a decent-looking… | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I have a stronger 'frame'?Part of the 'frame' is you own internal belief. However it takes more than that. You need to basically impose your frame on the other person. Part of this is who has the stronger frame. That's partly confidence, the exact situation, what you are saying/ have said, how you react to the situation. In a way, you have the stronger frame by just experience, confidence, and simply not capitulating. Other contextual factors may or may not be on your side. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Pump and dump rule #1: Always send text after.Article said they swapped 1000+ WhatsApp messages. Holy shit. I've been sleeping with a girl over a year, and we probably have just about as much, half of them pictures. Yeah, that's got to be an orgy of evidence. There goes your text theory too, if he Whatsapped her a million times. I've had ONS (I wouldn't say pump and dump, sounds like the woman doesn't enjoy it). The women didn't care. Maybe a twinge, who knows. Sounds this guy built up some Disney Princess Fantasy to get her vag, spanning t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on tinder game?Depends on the girl. Many are not weird about it, in fact they will tell you they want to have sex, or go back to yours. Then you can say anything. Others have this weird mental thing where either they don't want to feel like a slut, or want some plausible deniability (no matter how ridiculous). I can't say for certain why. In these cases, the goal is to get her back to your place whilst hinting at "having sex" as little as possible. That's why "want to see my goldfish?" is better than "mine for… | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 02:58 PM |
| 24 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)I used to look up to 'bathroom pull' guys and have dreamt of doing it. However as I approach 30 -- just seems disgusting to be honest. I would have be soused drunk and double bagging my dick. | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Being called a "baby" at a clubjust bs your age and try to age yourself up, if you really look pretty young. 23 doesn't seem that bad TBH unless you're frequenting a place with late 20s women. | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 02:53 PM |
| 6 | How my life changed since becoming a bartenderYeah everyone behind a bar are on stage is 50% better looking. Even when I did stage acting in college, was so much easier to fuck girls back at the dorms. They would literally open me about 'this show they saw me in' and 'sorry if that sounds creepy.' | /r/seduction | 01/08/16 06:02 PM |
| 40 | Any advice on tinder game?It's a sex app any girl pretending otherwise is full of shit I'm a dude but no. Obviously guys what that sweet sweet vag. That's true of any dating site ever invented. That may have been the original intention but there are most definitely girls on there looking for serious relationships, or at least casual dating. To proclaim otherwise is simply obtuse. Thing is, even the ones looking for something serious will certainly put out after 3-5 dates if they like you. So your advice of not saying "he… | /r/seduction | 01/08/16 03:37 PM |
| -2 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldMake me. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Would asking a girl to grab coffee on the last day of a class I'm taking be a bitch move?I say prepare to ask her out the next class. If she says no, who gives a fuck for the remaining < 1 week it might be somewhat awkward, if it even is. First, you might wuss out, she might get sick, who knows. You might need one or two attempts as well. If you haven't said two words to her the whole class, then realize it will be a longshot. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:56 PM |
| -8 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldMeh, this isn't very good advice because A. it's so narrow in scope and B. it's a list of what not to dos. It's like me saying this: Mario Andretti's guide to winning the Indy 500: Don't swerve onto oncoming trafffic. Don't text while driving the Formula 1 racecar. You can now drive like Mario Andretti! While the advice is true ... I hope most people understand that. Don't be a supplicating pussy who dotes over girls you just met/ haven't fucked. That's just not how attraction works. It's like a… | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:54 PM |
| -1 | "My Girlfriend just discovered what Cuckolding is"Firstly you definition of cuckold is wrong. It's not "deriving pleasure from watching your wife/ gf fuck another man." Nope. It's simply "a man who's wife/ gf is being gorilla fucked by another man, usually while he doesn't fuck her at all, and whether he likes it or not, usually not." Also the man doesn't have to be present during the sex acts at all, that's simply done in porn so you "Get the message." For instance that racist Clippers Owner was a cuckold when his whore black gf was fucking al… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 04:45 PM |
| 5 | What does a girl mean when she says she wants things to be 'exciting'?First of all, you just make your life exciting for YOU, not for the whims of another person. That said, keep thinking. Not much excitement, or the greatest moments of your life, comes from empty consumerism (buy tickets to blah blah blah). It's just about emotions. Novel social situations. Romance. Anxiety. Fear. Excitement. Energy. something. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 06:35 AM |
| -5 | Would you date a giant femaleYour last sentence sounds logical, and may be true, but the last girl I hooked up with was the shortest thing ever, and she, sadly, was hella loose. I could barely cum raw-dogging it. I didn't say anything, but shit, what happened? She had no kids. It fizzled out but that could definitely end a relationship by itself ... | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 06:24 AM |
| -2 | Would you date a giant femaleI sadly have never hooked up with a girl over 6', not for lack of trying. I don't get what would be weird about it. You think they are a man or something? Eh, not if they're pretty skinny and feminine. I'd consider it like bagging a prize deer. Yes I know I sound like a pig right now. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Sexual Dynamics Are Like a Motorcycle RideNo, the thrust of it sounds like bull, not the details. Yes, women want you to lead, but your details are bull. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 06:05 AM |
| 1 | TRINITYI know this is space-age moon-crystal nonsense, but it's ironic that you listed "the son" part of the trinity (Jesus, the body form of God) as the mind. I mean honestly. God is the mind and Jesus is the body, in the biblical sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.Perhaps. But even Mystery often said in his material that it was not intended for high school or college. Post-education, you can go to a bar, make a huge ass of yourself, and likely never see those women again. Especially in high school, you can develop some random reputation. High school is shit anyway and I didn't retain many close friends from that time period ... so maybe you can be of the philosophy to "burn it to the ground" -- but still, if you have a few years to go there ... eh. By all… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I am going on a date with a hottest girl on my school and why you should just do it.Disagree. I'm 28. I'm well out of high school. That said, in high school, you LIVE in the high school universe. You can't fucking escape it. In college you have vast independence. Beyond college, total independence. If some bully or dipshit or gossipy bitch is giving you guff, well, you simply say go Fuck Yourself, you have law enforcement on your side for anything serious, and then no longer deal with that person ever again. Unless you work with them. In which case, you can leave that job as we… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it easy to get laid on a cruise ship?Having been on one cruise (very cheap spring break booze cruise) --- I say, um... no. Not really. Not compared to a spring break beach. The main problem is that there's nothing to do but drink. Sounds good but a girl is going to really close to her girlfriends the entire time, and you really close with your mates. Just out of boredom/ there's nothing else to do. And usually you'll have 2-3 guys staying in a cabin, depending. Getting a fuck location may be pretty tough as well. Would I go on a cr… | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 05:18 AM |
| -2 | Sexual Dynamics Are Like a Motorcycle RideOverly simplified bull. I thought we moved past the "90s sitcom/ Tim Taylor" explanation of male/ female dynamics. Women also want sex. Men certainly want more than sex. At bare minimum I can say fidelity, usually. But many men, especially if sex with attractive women is easily attained, want more than sex. In fact they become bored with sex ... or women who only offer sex ... after the first encounter. Men also want the confidence boost and validation (and some an emotional connection). I've ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Sydney man who "degraded" female Tinder user on Facebook faces three years behind bars, WTF???It's one thing to say fuck you anonymously on Reddit. It's another to doxx someone and spread their personal information over Facebook while making threats and harassing them. Would you want a hacker to doxx all your real personal info all over Reddit and Facebook, a person who never met or interacted with your real identity ever, but just wants to fuck you over for yuks? Yeah didn't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 05:08 AM |
| 11 | sitting in a coffee shop waiting for my date to arrive. first one in a long time. I'm shittin bricks. wish me luck.Lol .... you act like you're shipping off to war. You're meeting with a girl. To talk to. She's probably more terrified that you might be a serial killer. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Creating sexual tension and attraction during the day vs. at nightMy personal experience and talking to other people: lunch dates suck compared to evening/ night dates. There is inherently less sexual tension. The solution is to simply avoid lunch/ day dates as a first date at least. Probably should avoid for a second date as well. Believe me, day or night, I usually debate sitting right next to my date, vs. across .... but try as I might, it usually IS a bit weird to sit directly next to someone while eating (unless there's a chair on each of the 4 sides of t… | /r/seduction | 27/05/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger TheoryI disagree; you always want to seem like a cool, sexy guy with some edge to him, no matter what the target. You should usually talk/ reveal as little as possible once you get the initial ball rolling; this lets you cast a wider net and fuck more chicks who might rule you out for X reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 01:56 PM |
| 30 | Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger TheoryNothing you said is surprising to an outsider, or even secret knowledge, to be honest. the nightclub business, like literally every business, optimizes for profit. IE; all concerns are subservient to the almighty dollar. Color me shocked. I guess the $20 paint-thinner vodka shot wasn't enough of a clue to this philosophy. clubs let in hot ass for free so that guys will actually show up and spend money. Because why else would you got a typical nightclub without the 'chance' of hot pussy? The shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 03:27 PM |
| 43 | Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger TheoryI never expected 18 year old girls to come onto me [as as college instructor of any kind] And you want us to trust your instincts on girls? You guys flew way off the handle. Stereotypes are useful but you went too far in the other direction. Not every girl is a massive, massive slut who wants to be pounded by the football team, which is what you're (sorta cynically) saying. She has tattoos and looks rought Dude, total slut! She's a sweet doe-eyed shy nerd girl with glasses? TOTALLY wants to be s… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 03:18 PM |
| 18 | Stories From The Nightclub: The Tiger TheoryAnd how would working in a nightclub give you much more of a different viewpoint of the crowd that being a patron? Seriously. Sure, you see a lot of back-bar shit that no one else does, but eh. You are probably THERE more often. You are usually sober. This can be accomplished without a night job. I've seen poonhounds. And I have my own experience. Meh. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/16 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Pull Any Girl! The 5 Psychological Triggers To Close The Deal Every NightDoes anyone actually believe this shit? I mean, saying you can pull ANY girl alone already indicates it's craptacular. Justin Timberlake can't pull ANY GIRL and he's fucking JT. Some girls have boyfriends, are married, or insert whatever the fuck else. The 'Are you adventurous?' is sort of transparent --- and alone will not convince a girl to leave the bar with you ... hell if she's willing to leave the bar with you ... unless it's to go to another bar that's across the street or very close by .… | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 11:06 PM |
| 79 | I royally fucked myself over. Learn from my mistake.Lol ... you said all the advice but the correct one. Wrap up your dick if you don't want to pay child support for your ugly brood spawn. Yeah she's on "the pill." Maybe she wants to marry you and will "forget" a few doses. I get it; you hate condoms. We all do. Well, enjoy the gamble though. I will have no sympathy when your cum dumpster gets preggers. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 08:37 PM |
| 47 | "10s"I don't agree with all of this. Firstly hot chicks are just as insecure as anybody else. They usually know they are hot, but also struggle to be taken seriously and are always questioning whether men are friends/ or even dating them strictly for their nice bod/ ass/ face, or something more. They also get the weirdest reactions from men, bar none, because many men are always nervous or "trying to make something happen" with her all the time, so say ridiculously stupid shit, try and bust on her a … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]To be honest, I think Models is Phase 2. You need to be somewhat normal and together to make decent use of Models. And it can get guys on the right track who are constantly trying to impress women. Phase 1 should be the old player guide on alt.seduction. I'll try to find a link. This is the starting point for guys who currently suck with women, possibly virgins, and have no idea where to start. The guide goes through some pretty important info in a way that is persuasive and digestible. Stuff th… | /r/seduction | 29/04/16 06:38 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]I don't read too much shit anymore either, except when I'm bored. It's more for entertainment value at this point. I'm no Don Juan but I'm 'good enough' for now, and I think the simplest model of the basic steps you need to do to get from A to B is good looking loser's site, which I definitely discovered late in my journey here. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 07:17 PM |
| 2 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]Everything that can be said has already been said--there is nothing new to add. I think 'the game' in general, actually being written down instead of just known instinctively, is a new phenomenon. One that largely started with 'the game.' There is no text from 1000 years ago that touches remotely upon most of the heaps of bullshit, half truths, and genuine insight found these days. Sure, men has always written about dicking women, but hell, times have changed in the last few millennia. Women are… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Porn star Bree Olson hits the wall, cries that nobody respects her or wants her anymore.I agree. I watch a fair amount of porn (nyuk nyuk nyuk) -- and would maybe recognize her name vaguely. I wouldn't recognize her by appearance --- doesn't seem THAT famous for a porn star. If she dyed her hair, nobody would recognize her. I wouldn't recognize her as is. Even then, there are plenty of jobs that wouldn't care about her past. But she wants to make money doing SJW speeches or something, IDK. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]You're right, absolutely everything about men-women dynamics has been said. /s What a laugh. I disagree with this 100%. Hell social psychology isn't even that old a field, let alone the shit we're doing here. Look at the top 'all time' posts in this subreddit. They are pretty garbagey, to be honest. Especially the 'cheat sheet' which is focused on all the wrong things. 'Say anything' 'You're enough' 'Focus on largely imaginary shit tests.' I guess the local neckbeard is now Don Juan! There are m… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 06:25 PM |
| 5 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]This sub is shit, agreed. I've been to a few decent websites too over the years so I can tell the difference. Most advice is comically obvious, like ... fellas, in the bedroom, go down on your women sometimes, and act like an animal, sexually! It's like a recently deflowered virgin is giving sex advice. And it gets 1000 upvotes like it's earth-shattering news. I did read that 'Models' book that seems to be parroted here x1000 times. I forget exactly what it said. The writer seemed intelligent. T… | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think girls don't like good guysWomen are largely ambivalent to nice-asshole spectrum, but probably slightly prefer the nice side. Of course, that depends on what you mean by nice. If you mean positive and friendly, of course they prefer that to 'brooding asshat' most of the time. If you mean people-pleasing, polite, khaki-pants wearing PUSSY who is nice to big-titted women because he becomes mushy in their presence, and defaults to beta "politeness" to everyone because they wish to appear non-threatening and fear life itself,… | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 11 | 30 years old, just got laid for the first time. There is hope after allI lost my virginity at 21. I dated the chick for a year after, we broke up after college ended. She didn't know I was a virgin when we met until a few months after we broke up. It wasn't "porn" that has trained you. Porn is a joke and doesn't represent real sex. The reason you weren't horrifically awkward is because Man has been fucking Woman for thousands and thousands of years (as have all half-brained animals in the animal kingdom) without a field manual or guide book. It's actually not that … | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 09:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm a fucking pussy.Don't beat yourself up, most people feel these hesitations and fear looking like a creep. You have to risk looking like a creep until you find that line. And even when you do, you have to risk creepy. Avoid the negative self talk, it ain't productive usually. | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?Then say "I'm going to kiss you now." Nothing against you personally, just an observation. I think shit like this has arisen due to decades of abuse and hearing shit from SRS and SJW and feminists who, while they mean well and make some valid points, take some things too far. The only reason you're doing that is because of some latent fear that you will be, as the SJW say, "face-raping her" by "lunging" at her face without notarized consent documents. So you feel that this warning at least is an… | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 03:03 PM |
| 1 | how do I get guys to know I'm 'down' without neccesarily dressing what could be deemed as skanky?To be honest, many men can get 'beat over the head' with hints and STILL doubt whether you like them. Happened to me a lot as well, particularly in my younger days. Some guys just really don't like rejection and it's worse if you know the guy (versus a stranger where a guy can hit on you and have far less social consequences). So you need to hit him with all the guns. All of them. Smile at him. Laugh at his shit jokes. A lot. Laugh and smile at him, constantly. This is your bread and butter. Pay… | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 11:03 PM |
| 4 | 100 Days of Seduction Day 4 Bubbles under the surfaceFirstly, inspiring post - love it. Great info and I look forward to seeing you progress down the line. The challenge where I, Tag Poin, approach a different woman each day in an attempt to score a number or a date. I feel like you should change the wording of this. Well, it depends on your goals. But I don't think your goal is to amass a bunch of phone numbers and go on 100 dates. It's to get laid. Isn't it? That's sure as hell why I approach women. It should be an attempt to get laid. Maybe not… | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 10:41 PM |
| 4 | 'Do You Just Come Here To Pick Up Girls?!' How To Deal With Shit TestsFirst off, foreigner in a different country pickup is usually shooting fish in a barrel. But yes this guy does the great move of agreeing and taking further either an accusation or insult. Not bad. That said, you shouldn't really be embarrassed about your sexual desires for women or your attempts to get laid. Yes, you are a man. Yes, you like fucking women. Most men are usually there for the chicks anyway. Make no apologies for your desires as a man. But I guess this woman didn't want to feel li… | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 07:07 PM |
| 3 | 4 ways you can be better at sex right away...These are all repeated all the time and obvious if you have done anything but Mormon missionary in the bedroom. Of course women want to hear men's pleasure and especially their cumming. They can't feel the ejaculation so how else would they know? Men love hearing women orgasm, don't they? Any experience around women reveals they love hearing/ seeing their lovers cum. The whole experience of sex for women is largely about being an object of desire and having power with their sex appeal. That a ma… | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 02:14 PM |
| 11 | 4 ways you can be better at sex right away...They make sense but they should be obvious if you've fucked a handful of times. My opinion. Unless you were being sarcastic. whoosh | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 01:56 AM |
| -15 | From dumped niceguy (4 year relationship) to a confident man: My takeaways and a thank you.Like every sad sack guy who gets married. They are tired of game and chasing and just want some pussy on tap. Then the woman gets bitchy and bored after about 3-4 years. | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Calling out a flake - "How to" without seeming like a needy jerk.If you don't give a shit about her, none! | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Some advice and insight for a guy that broke up with a gf of almost 6 years?From your minimal description it sounds like she was kind of a huge bitch who didn't really care about you, but you ignored that because she had a sweet ass. At least that's how it sounds. Luckily you were both still relatively young and dumb. Their will be more ass around the corner. Some that may actually give a damn about you. Time will heal this. Hit the gym and start hitting on ass, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | I'm going to post a set of 10 missions to help those of us who have trouble with approach anxiety get over it.not a shill, but good looking loser has an approach anxiety challenge too, it's either 30 days or 90 days. I never actually did it, so can't comment. Towards the end it definitely gets crazy, maybe I'll do it one of these days. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 04:36 PM |
| 146 | “Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” Or "A word of advice from a woman"Meh. Of course. But that's like telling a salesman to "cut the bullshit" and act normal. That doesn't make as many sales. And no the much heralded 'slime ball' technique hasn't worked since the 70s. Shit works that works. Many guys get laid. Many guys do not. The guys that don't, well, they have to make some changes. That's all. Women are blessed with --- since most men will fuck anything -- a greater supply of on-demand sex. Unfortunately, since it's so easy to attain (albeit not with the guy y… | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to this sub, I went from being a virgin to girls asking to have threesomes with me in one month. Here's what changed and what I learned.It's not super hard. Bi girls are not uncommon. You will eventually stumble upon one who you sleep with. Then the two of you can go cruising for ass. I've never done it with two friends or something like that. Sounds harder. | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | 7 days left of my 30 day challengeNot sure what your situation is or if you're still a virgin. I was also a virgin until age 21 (I'd say about 21.5). That was about 7 years ago and I was much different. It's not a huge deal. If I can go back and give myself advice, in terms of losing my virginity faster, or just losing it at all, it would be: Never date a chick who won't put it out, past a week. If you're looking for sex, that's your right. She has wants; you have wants. Continue the fucking hunt, always. Along with #1. I was al… | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Feeling regret after sexMmm, I don't know. As the person above you references, having sex with someone you're not that attracted to != someone you have no connection with. Apples and oranges. If you're banging someone a bit chubby and you sober up and are disgusted, then yes. But if you're banging some supermodel but she's dumb as a post and mean, well, personally, I don't care. A connection is better but banging a vapid model is juuuust fine. As far as Kareem? Well, obviously I haven't walked in his shoes. But that's … | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't make girls stick around after the first dateI disagree on 4. I've rarely found the quality of the sex or number of orgasms has a significant factor on repeat business. I've been a lousy drunk lay sometimes and the girls send me vids of them masturbating to me. I'm pretty average looking, too. Just my personal experience. I only do oral sex on the first date if the girl is ridiculously hot, or I really like her, or she seems relatively hygenic (rare for some bar floozies), or she blows me first/ offers to blow me. There are times when none… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl said no to date, now what?It's a simple no. Happens. Move on. It's possible you picked the wrong time/ way of doing it, but even if that was true, and she was a 'maybe' for a while, you definitely fucked up future chances now. (Also possible she just was never interested) Good thing there are hundreds of thousands of other women in your town. I wouldn't ever directly 'ask on a date' or 'blurt out you like' someone in your social circle unless you've been heavily flirting for a while, and even then, throw in some plausibl… | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Something I learned from a gay guy hitting on meNo they're not certain THEIR TARGETS are gay. There are a handful of straight dudes at the gay clubs. Even barring that, they still fear rejection like everybody else. GREATLY. Hell I've winged for gay men countless times. They're just as timid as straight men approaching women at a bar. If not moreso, because a guy slapping you is probably far worse. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Something I learned from a gay guy hitting on meI disagree. Gay men are just as afraid of rejection as straight men. I'm straight but know numerous gay men and have been to many gay clubs. Most are actually quite timid at approaching a stranger (maybe b/c they're not 100% sure they're gay, either, perhaps) --- just like straight dudes and women (most at the bar are terrified of going up to a girl and hitting on her). | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Something I learned from a gay guy hitting on meI agree with this, I've been around many gay guys in gay clubs as well (straight dude). There are only a handful of creepy ones. That said, the lines are sometimes blurred. No, don't get pushy/ rapey/ push through disinterest. That's a crazy idea that many people have to learn. If someone indicates they don't like you, that's the end of it. You're very very very seldom going to "convince" them to be attracted to you. At the same time, being straight, ALL men I have zero interest in. And guess wh… | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesThought I mentioned Australia. I spent 6 months there, though admittedly I was still college age (7 years ago) and not super experienced. American culture and media and students have saturated the country. There is a mild novelty factor at best. The reverse case, an Australian in America, is much much better. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesYes, well after talking in depth with many French people, it's a renowned joke that French people are pissed that English is the world language, and not French. The irony was lost on this dude. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesHah well I think your experience rather supports my original post. And remember, I said France was easier, not 'fish in a barrel' like in Asia, at least for generic white guys. Germany and Italy were the same way. I'm not Don Juan, I'm not getting laid every time I go out remotely, but there is a significant advantage over the USA. Both in the attraction of women and the league of women who show interest. Part of it is just that European attitudes towards sex are that 'it's not a huge deal', the… | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesHmm, to be completely honest I fucked a French woman my first night there and ended up sleeping with her for the duration of my stay. Will probably hit her up the next time I've over there. But that first night, there was her, and an unrelated woman who kept throwing her body/ breasts in my face and giving me the fuck me eyes. I'm not saying she was definitely down to fuck, but I would wager a very likely yes. I can probably count on one hand the # of nights in my life where two very attractive … | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 10:10 PM |
| 0 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesI didn't struggle in France. Maybe I got lucky. And I'm not "good-looking" - I typically do 'meh' in America (I get laid but not nearly as often as I like). One girl did say I was "smoother than most Americans" (hint: I'm not) - but maybe there are some negative stereotypes until they actually meet one. Needless to say in most of Europe (I haven't been to Spain or Greece to comment on those) --- the local populace, oddly enough, can't dance worth a shit. Neither can I, but the typical American h… | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How to beat the "competition"?To be honest, most guys suck so bad, that if you're an alpha dog top 10% male, you'll already have plenty of pussy. Step 1 is stop obsessing about 'this one hot girl' --- play the field, fuck the field. If this girl wants to fuck other dudes, or fuck the entire hall/ dorm, there's not much you can do about it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:43 PM |
| 2 | I've been totally surprised at how much women fish for compliments on their bodyI say thumbs up, unless it's Tinder. Every guy with his "mobile phone" confidence says 'nice ass, lemme feel dem titties' , etc a hundred times a day. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:42 PM |
| 5 | How to Meet and Attract Women in Foreign CountriesLet's not overcomplicate things. When in a foreign country, you have a huge leg up as an American (or foreigner). The more exotic you are/ less Americans/ less white people, the better. England/ Ireland/ Australia you only have a very modest 'foreigner' boost because America is so similar. There's no gain in Canada. France/ Germany/ Western Europe: HUGE edge. Girls are SIGNIFICANTLY easier to open, interest, attract, lay here. Poland/ Prague/ Hungary/ Eastern Europe: EVEN BIGGER advantage. Not o… | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:31 PM |
| 15 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?What I see here is just a girl teasing you because she already liked you either previously or while meeting you that night, and you not fucking it up really. She was trying to provoke conversation/ flirting from you and it worked. The teasing vibe does that. Nothing she said was remotely bitchy, and TBH, I'm not a feminist but the "losing to a girl" does seem douchey anyway, any girl, even ones without interest in you would have been miffed at your statement and responded in a predictable manner… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 03:53 AM |
| 39 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?Had to look up shit test again just in case. Still think it's nonsense and harmful to game. from the first google results on shit tests: I have a boyfriend!” – Translation: I have Schrödinger’s boyfriend, demonstrate to me you’re high value and I’ll fuck you regardless. It is hilarious when they say this. “What boyfriend, your imaginary one?” – Then laugh in her face. – “Sounds like you’re shit out of luck, I’m going to have to fuck your friend instead, feel free to watch.” Always be prepared to… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 03:32 AM |
| 5 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?I used to be more aware of them when I first encountered a "seduction" website years ago. What I >DO< remember was that the "answer" to a shit test was to ignore it. In a way, not even be aware of its existence (if you don't respond to it) is the best outcome. Unless you're repeatedly getting sucked in by to arguments/ bitching by "slights" - perceived or otherwise -- you think a woman made to you. I went out to a dance club last night and had a wild hell of a time. I don't remember any shit tes… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 03:12 AM |
| 7 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?Are you talking about a girlfriend who lost interest? Or someone you "flirt with" but have never dated/ came close to fucking? If it's the first --- well, do you have a life outside her? Step 1. Are you extremely needy? Hopefully not. That's step 2. Do you actually DO shit outside of video games/ Reddit/ Netflix? IE go out on interesting dates? Step 3. If you have all those, well, relationships die sometimes. If you're talking about a girl you "flirt with" but nothing ever happened --- I'll let … | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:42 AM |
| -11 | How to make a girl invest? Without being a terrible person?Meh. Your frame seems a bit misguided here. Some partial truth in your statements so it can sound plausible, but ... first off all, remove "shit test" from your vocabulary. The only men who "have them" or the ones who constantly think about them. That 'Models' book that people talk up around here says the exact same thing, and I agreed on that point before I even read it. ALL people say/ do goofy, bitchy, irrational, occasionally passive aggressive, or just random shit at times. Men and women. T… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Why most video game characters are maleThis is completely wrong. You'll find that the vast majority of video game characters (or comic book characters even) are male, even before the current PC era. Why? Simple. Most comic book writers/ video game makers are male. But it's even more complex than that. People are just more male-focused in general. Most of our leaders and human history involves males. Most of our villains and warriors and soldiers. They did a study once where male dreams ... their nightime dreams ... contain about 70-9… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for girls to put guys into "hookup" and "would date" boxes, and not hook up with the latter, while hooking up with the former? Story inside.You probably have a problem, besides insecurity which everyone gets, that you try to play everything "cool" or "too cool for school" or "Mr. Chill" because you're afraid of putting yourself out there. The only thing I see in your wall of text of you taking charge or taking the lead or showing any sexual interest whatsoever is kissing her -- and who even knows how that happened, maybe she planted herself right in front of you at midnight. Girls want to feel wanted. They want to be chased a little… | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 12:35 AM |
| 2 | My go-to pickup linethe one millionth direct vs indirect debate in history, adding nothing new Yeah, there are merits to both approaches (direct vs. indirect). Both can work JUUUST fine. The important thing is to actually do something during the day. Also girls don't get straight up direct hit on too often during the day. Catcalling doesn't count remotely. In fact simply not being a weirdo is as huge leg up. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 05:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about going down on a girl you're hooking up with for the first time? How many of you do it?I do if she's really hot and doesn't appear disgusting and tells me she's completely clean. Usually get blown enthusiastically soon after. Never a single std so far. I always use condoms though | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | In Brazilian jiu-jitsu, there is a saying: “In practice, there is no losing. There is only winning and learning. The only way to lose is to not practice.”This is incomplete. This encourages the "I should do 1000 cold approaches" mentality. NO. You have to LEARN with every approach or practice you do. You do not AUTOMATICALLY learn, especially if you do the exact same fucking thing every time for months. Then you definitely lose and waste your own time. Also sometimes the answer isn't more approaches but fixing your own damn life and making >YOU< as a male, a better person ... a better person by achieving and doing and becoming things other than a… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.Na you're not understanding me. I'm not saying don't study or learn pickup tactics and a game plan. Of course you should. The idea that you need to 'game harder' or act any different around a super hot chick than a more common girl just sets you up for being affected and nervous though. No one said anything about complements or buying drinks. Also a minority of really hot girls don't even think they look that special, so it goes to show. To each their own. Negging is a very very small part of ga… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.I don't hate any player, I think the vast majority of guys become nervous weirdos in front of very hot girls, and thinking you need to change your game at all for them is mostly why. Act normal, the same game and not giving a fuck and being relaxed work. You have some real fucked up ideas. First of all cat calling isn't a legitimate pickup attempt remotely, and happens to all attractive girls. Also I wonder if you ever befriended or have been with some model girl. Some can be bitchy to strangers… | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 02:29 PM |
| 2 | I got a message on Tinder from a girl who seems like she's looking for a hook up. Unfortunately, flirting over text is not my forte. Advice?Definitely seems like a bot. I've never called these but seen them often enough to know they are bots. For me, girls respond all the time, but seldom send the first message (happens on occassion). Sayin you're hot and giving them number immediately? Yeah, even if it isn't a bot, it's insanely desperate, but there's a 99% chance this is a bot. Call them, and your phone # will be added to the Spam-Caller 9000 for the next 50 years. | /r/seduction | 07/12/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | For guys what is your go-to cologne that gets lots of compliments, or for girls what cologne do you really like on a guy?true. maybe I'll get back into cologne. Only thing is, there seems to be little opportunity to use it, outside of going out to the bars/ clubs at night. It seems to broadcast 'Im on the prowl for ass' -- which is perfectly fine, but might seem try-hard in certain contexts. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Fuck your "she's a tease next girl up" mentality. I just called a HB9 out for leading me on and she fell for me like a flimsy Jenga set.actually 'gaming hard' or becoming an extreme weirdo in the face of an extremely attractive girl is shit. and kind of holds the belief that you need to do a special song and dance to be 'good enough' for her. nah, just act normal. everyone's too chicken shit to hit on some of the super attractive chicks anyway ... so finding some balls and walking up will separate you enough. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 11:35 PM |
| 3 | For guys what is your go-to cologne that gets lots of compliments, or for girls what cologne do you really like on a guy?This might be the most upvoted because it's one of the most common. That's fine if it smells pretty good - but not exactly unique, lots of guys wearing it. But back to the point of all this -- does cologne help seal the deal with a girl? Hmmm. I don't know. I strongly doubt it matters. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 11:28 PM |
| 9 | How is everyone doing this year ( thus far ) ?lol. Firstly, the male average, and female average, for heterosexual sex, is identical. It's a mathematical certainty. Every time a woman has been penetrated by a man, a man has penetrated her. The MEDIAN may be different, if you agree with the theory that a few men fuck a lot of the share of women. Then the woman median would be higher but still not the average. Also he meant number of times having sex, not partners. 40 new partners a year is high for fucking anybody, even the guy from KISS. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Advice from Steve Jobs' 2005 Commencement Address at Stanford UniversityThere are a ton of similar inspirational quotes to this one through the history of man, particularly Marcus Aurelius - that are more eloquent. Jobs is a piece of shit though. Didn't even listen to his own advice, really, as he bought his way frantically to a new liver (a wasted liver) after ignoring doctors, desperate to live, and now he's worm food. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over my ex. Probably a unique situation.Fucking move. If this is college (certainly sounds like it) -- well, still move dorms, there's always a way. That or get some new pair of tits in your life ASAP. That'll help, obviously. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 06:23 PM |
| 7 | It's not talking to the girl that scares me, it's for when they see what I got in my pants.the average vagina is 3-4 inches long. obviously it can stretch to fit more than that. 4 inches is enough. It's obviously on the small end, but it's not a fucking pinky finger or a micropenis. if the guy is really self conscious about it, just buy a bathmate or one of those products and pray it'll add half an inch. or find a really petite girl to give a good pounding. though i'm not sure if that correlates with vagina size. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | 18, College Student. I'm tired of being scared. I'm going out this weekend and talking to every beautiful girl I see.You're really young, trust me. Let me tell you --- approach hard, make mistakes. But uh .. at least every week (or approach) --- actually try to learn from it. Mindlessly approaching 1000 hot girls, again and again, same shit over and over ... you're not necessarily learning anything if you don't change tactics or figure stuff out by doing it. In reality half the battle is having the nuts to do something, combined with social freedom (you do whatever at parties and don't care) --- so there's tha… | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 09:16 PM |
| 7 | My new Netflix opener that is working wonders.Sounds stupid. Yeah it gets people talking. In SPITE of the line. The groups you 'opened' with this were bored and liked your look, so they'll listen to you talk about netflix passwords. It's busted as a pickup line because, in all honesty, no one in the history of ever has given two flying fucks about netflix passwords, let alone been so befuddled by it, they were compelled to ask a group of hot girls at a bar on a Friday night. No, in reality, you came over because you want to crush some puss.… | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 09:10 PM |
| 31 | AFTER WEEKS, I FINALLY GATHERED THE COURAGE AND ASKED CUTE GIRL FROM GYM OUT.She may legit have a boyfriend, but I agree with the others. Never blurt out "date now?" to a girl as the first thing you say to her. You need to bullshit for a little while before she consciously "agrees" to take this all important "step" with you. It's a girl thing where they want to feel/ want you to feel like you 'earned' it + will not a be a horrible time. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 08:50 PM |
| 2 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?I'd say be open/ casual/ don't give a fuck ... but I disagree on no filter. You can be "too open" on a first date. DON'T treat it like you're already fucking her + can say anything. Don't dump your problems, talk about your mother, exes, how lonely you are, your dead cat ... I mean goddamn. Leave that for after your fucking. In fact, most of the better dates I've been on -- as the man ... shut the fuck up! Let her talk as much as possible -- she'll feel it was a better date after. Sure don't let… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 03:43 PM |
| 4 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?Meh. A date is just like talking with anyone -- except you're "on" -- is there any difference between talking to a girl at a bar, or holding court at a party? Not really, there's added pressure and the girl is more invested in you, that's it. Let's not act like it's some date-only super power to be funny/ interesting/ flirty. My advice. Don't think too hard. Be open, but not open (tempting to do). Leave some mystery. Be pretty casual but maintain an air of aloofness. Many people like to open the… | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Why are girls naturally attracted to my friend?Lol. Probably not. Those guys probably look really good, facially speaking. This allows them crush lots of puss with ease. Just like some girls who look really good without ever setting foot in a gym. Truth hurts. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you taken the MBTI?I was a psyc major in college, graduated 5 years ago. Never heard about myers brigg much in a scientific setting. Have often heard that your "type" will repeatedly change and has very little consistency upon multiple tests, other than perhaps the 'introversion-extroversion' scale. Seems mostly bunk. I would stick to science backed personality traits, and even those take with a grain of salt. The Big 5 are the most commonly taught in psychology. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_… | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 08:18 PM |
| 42 | Smiling makes men more attractive as husbands -- but not as hook upsonly data that was drawn from was from Japanese women. Yeah, pretty inconclusive if that translates to white American women. Go to Japan and 'tee hee you have humongo penis' ... don't think smiling will be a huge problem. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Practical Guide To Dressing For Meeting Women And SeductionI'll throw in some more shit here. Pick up your boring but necessary staples at department stores. Pick up your unique "showpieces" -- really crazy artsy unique shit that blow a chick the fuck away and/ or looks like some model chick picked it out for you -- at the smaller boutiques or maybe resale shops, whatever. Not saying break the bank, but ... experiment here. If something pushes your comfort zone to wear, you SHOULD try it on. Not only does it make you stand out, it shows balls. Should yo… | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I have had 5 different women in the past year say "if we're both still single at 30, lets get married.Most d1 quarterbacks will never play in the NFL and thus willl not be wealthy. Tons of social status though, like a local celebrity. | /r/seduction | 22/10/15 11:04 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Out With a GirlI think he's trying to say this, albeit in an angry way -- When you get "too into" kissing at the bar, club ... aka you're so horny that you just make out for long stretches, wanton, who cares, she's hot ... it hurts your chances at sex because you've already given her a lot of validation and sexual energy and pleasure that she's "good" for the night. You've also to some extent killed the sexual tension. Counter-intuitively, you may want to limit the 'make out' sessions before she's back at your… | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 09:50 PM |
| 11 | I have had 5 different women in the past year say "if we're both still single at 30, lets get married.Yeah if you are top 1% of all 30 year old men, of course you are usually wealthier and have more interesting shit going on in your life than a college kid. But the t1 QB is pretty much effortlessly swimming in young pussy, doesn't get much easier than that. They all live 2 minutes away in a dorm and it's not considered creepy by anyone's standards. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 08:08 PM |
| 6 | I have had 5 different women in the past year say "if we're both still single at 30, lets get married.Lol, don't kid yourself. A quarterback of football team at a decent T1 school is swimming through limitless college pussy, because he's top of the fake social status pyramid in that bubble. Some young 30s white collar number cruncher doesn't really compete by virtue of "looking a bit more aged now." lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsWherever I assume a girl will 'buy' obvious pandering like this, true or not, it always backfires. You're not giving them enough credit in terms of intelligence and awareness. For instance, I'm a man, but if someone tried many of the lines in your speech, I'd roll my eyes, hard. At least on the inside. It's just too on the nose, pandering, and sounds stilted. Also 'no more I'm not that kind of girl' ... sometimes girls are reserved not just because of your judgment or social expectations, but fo… | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 12:12 AM |
| -1 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsInteresting concept, but it can't be fake. You have to not judge. And let's be honest, there are many hangups like this on Reddit. Hell, the Red Pill heavily judges. Also, I thought the 'on the nose' speech about the rule book a bit laughable and lacking all subtelty. Actions speak louder than words. That might work on dumb girls though. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls thanking me for approaching them.read a little more carefully. not really. someone, man or woman, saying 'thank you' to a complement is completely expected and unremarkable. he means when girls say 'thanks anyway' or 'thanks for asking' when you're hitting on them or asking them out. I can tell you don't really agree so agree to disagree. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Girls thanking me for approaching them.I think he means thanking for the approach or hitting on her, not necessarily in response to a compliment. That's pretty much the default response to a complement. | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How often should you be texting the girl youve been seeing for a while?If you want to keep things "fuck buddies" -- well not every girl is the same. And usually ALL will eventually want "more" or dump your ass, typically. That said good rule of thumb for maintaining is keep it to once a week. Every time you text essentially lead to 'wanna fuck?' and not ... "whatcha thinking? ... what are your hopes and dreams?" type shit. Maybe twice a week if you want to get your wick wet that much, but that's crossing into 'i wuv you' territory as far as girls are concerned. Tex… | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Girls thanking me for approaching them.Largely meaningless and happens with girls who reject me, typically. Maybe they're flattered and don't want to be a 'bitch' about it. Frankly, it's nice but not necessary. No need to thank me for 'following my dick.' | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon?No, but it's always on the table for them. Usually mostly guys that are average and don't do it for them | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon?Reassure her that you won't fall in love, but you want to clear the 'ole pipes just for fun, if you know what I mean. Obviously this was a major fuck-up on your part. Girls, who have sex on their doorstep every weekend, can't comprehend not having sex in 10 months, involuntarily. It's really not a big deal. But now she has crazy ideas in her head, like you'll "fall in love" with her. In reality (I believe with every guy in a dry spell) --- you just want some ass. Also, it does paint you in a neg… | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 10:45 PM |
| 10 | I'm over this.You don't feel nervous because you KNOW you are not going to approach, in your safe little bubble. Once you KNOW your dumb ass may very well up and approach, for real, you'll start getting a shot of adrenaline (at least in the first one or two completely cold approaches) before doing it. You won't get your ass kicked. Even if the girl has a boyfriend, as long as the dude isn't literally on top of her making out, it's understandable that you thought she was single. In the vast majority of cases, … | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 10:34 PM |
| 2 | My outlook on dating women is purely for sex. I have been very successful with it. I'm starting to think it might be wrong. I'd like your opinion.I don't see a problem. It seems like an empty, hollow existence, like a guy who says "He only wants to eat McDonalds for the rest of his life, fuck any flavor or meal that is more complex or complicated than that." You can't fault him for his subjective opinion and his desires. You can think he's crazy, but you can't fault him for his subjective opinions and desires. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest?That was Groucho Marx or Charlie Chaplin or something. Woody Allen was a hack. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | K-closed a Tinder girl on first date, then she never returned a text again and I can't get over it.maybe she felt some sense of obligation to make out with the guy, like he went through this trouble and I did agree to go on a date with him ... and plan on not seeing him again ... I guess I'll give him this, briefly | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you!I just find it funny. Any guy who 'loves your personality' over Tinder is bullshitting you. Hell, even in person, if a girl is hot enough -- like a super model -- guys would "humor" her blatant racism or abject stupidity just to boink her. Me personally? I'd rather get to know someone in person, than decipher who they are by texting each other banal bullshit and jokes. Actually I'd prefer to get to know someone AFTER we've had sex, when most of the walls and bullshit comes down. Not possible wit… | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you!Didn't say anything I didn't already know, but you're in effect asking a guy (pretty much all guys) to lie to you. Most guys DO want to go on a date with you based on looks alone (I'm inserting you for a typical attractive girl, who knows). This is especially true in online dating. Your personality, lifestyle, career, etc are all important to a long term relationship but not a romp in the sack. Most guys are not opposed to a romp in the sack. You're saying "please pretend like my personality, wh… | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 04:47 PM |
| -1 | The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you!Having a classy date and fake withdrawing like Dennis Reynolds and playing games is well on your way to making aa genuine connection with somebody. Actually it sounds like the playbook for every sad sack male out there. It's far easier to be genuine and connect with someone after having sex. Most males are like you and putting on an act before the dick show. That's why you don't make connections. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 02:30 PM |
| -2 | The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you!i've never fucked anyone who didn't end up becoming emotionally attached to me, if I wanted to (by which I mean I gave them my contact info and didn't break contact). That parts easy, at least for me. Just be very open, actually listen to what they're saying, gaze into their eyes during sex, and cuddle a lot and stroke their hands after sex. Notice I didn't even say "be a great lay." I've had many nights where I was drunk and dead tired and shitty lay, but the girl still 'fell in love with me' a… | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Men who have been able to drastically enhance the caliber of women they get with - how did you do it?True. The bars can get tiresome and be a pain in the ass. There may be better time and financial investments. It's kind of a default option on Friday and Saturday night, if you don't already have plans with some new girl. Yeah it stands to reason you may want to spend time on a more interesting life. Hmm. Eh. Also what if you're traveling? Then you have to play the field, in most cases. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men who have been able to drastically enhance the caliber of women they get with - how did you do it?To me a cold approach is seldom that different from a warm one/ new girl who knows a friend/ coworker of yours. You say hey and start talking. Only difference is the warm approach, the girl is less defensive, typically, because it's not immediately apparent you're necessarily flirting or want something from her (as is immediately apparent during cold approach). I'm an introvert, relatively shy, and dislike getting rejected and making an ass of myself when not necessary, so obviously I would neve… | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I discovered the Best Date idea by accident....that's cool but aren't those usually pricey? | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who have been able to drastically enhance the caliber of women they get with - how did you do it?Lol ... I'm not "good" at cold approach but I've gotten lays from it. It doesn't need to be a laser-targeted salesman "social engineering" thing exactly. Just go up to a woman and start dancing without saying shit, or say ... hey wanna dance? or hi .. you look cute. I'm not a sociopath - an introvert, and too empathetic if anything. I just gotta "work myself up" to cold approach like most other men need to. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 03:19 PM |
| 0 | The Portfolio: 6 Steps to getting her physically and emotionally invested in you!great date ideas, but let's not build this up into something complicated and get guys in their head. you only need one date, or one sweaty night on the dance floor, before taking a girl who is into you, to pound town. More succinct advice would be this: recognize interest, get her comfortable and talk to her casually for a few hours, and try to escalate and fuck her as soon as (she's comfortably) possible. Fucking = more of an emotional connection and intimacy than 6 dates at the Ding Dang Dong. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | "Nerdy" hobbies useful for meeting women: do they exist?find new hobbies. What are you limiting yourself to only 'stereotypical nerd hobbies' ? Broaden your horizons instead of being a conformist nerd. Plus it's like taking "a big fishing trip" out in the Sahara desert. Uh, no, go to where the fucking fish are. here's some great ones. Stage theater of any kind, women far outnumber the men, and are very horny. Improv, mostly dudes but about 40% women. Dance classes ... usually mostly women. Yoga/ pilates, needless to say. Painting or art stuff, music … | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?There's some true, some false, in this diatribe. There's some nuggets put a lot of biases here. I'll just comment on your last point for now. The ugly, sick, weak, unnatural, lazy, unfit are NOT being culled from the gene pool. No, the Walmart shopper uggos and fatties are just fucking each other, far faster, and with less birth control, than Bradgelina. Everyone can reproduce with some quasimodo fatty if they wanted to. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Meh. This has nothing to do with biology, it has to do with men generally groveling in the online dating world, thus maintaining most of the conversation and entertainment factor as the woman sits there and muses whether or not she will fuck him. I've had woman come up with, or proactively offer, date ideas, all the time. If Brad Pitt asked you on a date and said come up with the idea ... you'd come up with something. The fact that neither person came up with an idea one time --- well of course … | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?This just sounds dated. Yeah sometimes women want to punt on those decisions; sometimes I punt on them. Maybe I don't care what live theater we see. My 'dominance' is you fucking figure it out. My 'alpha male' philosophy is that I don't strategize and micro-manage every aspect of my conversations ... like ... oh shit, I don't care about the movie, but I better pick something in order to Alpha DogTM the woman into please liking me still. Sounds sappy. Who gives a shit. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Don't try too hard. Just say your honest unfiltered thoughts. It'll come naturally if you are really horny. Look even a guy who has fucked 300 women is not necessarily in a better position to be some bedroom poet than you are. If it doesn't really do anything for ya, or the girl, then forget it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Hitler got laid. Fuck bros. Yeah they get sucked off ... by each other. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Hair pulling and ass slapping is fairly vanilla, just saying. Almost every girl likes that. Actual BDSM, choking, punches, is a whole 'nother ball game and is a niche fetish. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?She was the NICEST girl, and very innocent, I see this a LOT with guys. Yes you are with a girl who you think is a sweet innocent porcelain china doll, when it turns out she wants to be dirty or has a dark side or is a selfish sociopath or a massive slut, and you're blinded by it because she's meek, quiet, has doe eyes, and plays her 'good girl' part well to get what she wants. She cheated on you twice yet was the "nicest" and "very innocent." Yeah, no she wasn't. That was part of the delusion s… | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?In the tourist centers. I was there 10 days, twice I got lost off the beaten path and nobody spoke a word of English. Even ex pats probably stick to the beaches and major urban areas. | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 07:13 PM |
| 0 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?happened to a guy who I was staying in a hostel with -- he told me it happened and I don't think he had any reason to lie. In fact if anything the story makes him look bad, at least, if he were to lie he'd lie about sleeping with a girl and NOT getting a bill the next morning. yeah I believe your story as well; unfortunately I personally have no interest in paying for sex so wouldn't take that gamble | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 07:55 PM |
| 1 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?if by old you mean circa 2009, then yes, maybe it's changed since then. I have my doubts. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 07:53 PM |
| -1 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?quite a lot, dummy :) go commit child sex crimes | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 07:52 PM |
| 0 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Youre welcome. I'm giving a tourist accurate advice; I don't need to hear "me toos" from a fucking expat with a chip on his shoulder. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 05:33 PM |
| -1 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Bangkok and chaing mai. I didn't literally mean IT, I was painting a picture. Dockers wearing, socially inept, loser office drone, being taken for a ride. Guess who I'm giving advice to? A TOURIST. Nobody even speaks English a mile or two away from the cities. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 02:40 PM |
| 3 | How old are you and what's the distribution of age in the girls you hook up with?27 -- Harder to find <22 years, but that's okay. I have no interest in discussing "your major." 23-30. Nothing surprising. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Anyone know what this means? Girl i've been talking to for 2 days wrote this to my timeline. I think this is the right subreddit..All of the above is my initial reaction. Why exactly did you 'like' the status? Eh, whatever. You bore her apparently. Instead of going try-hard, I'd turn it around and tell her that its her job to entertain you, and your job to stand there as eye candy. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | You are going to die.Lol ... nah I approach women like none other. When in doubt, ignore the pickup advice bullshit. I agree with that. This advice didn't come from a book; it came from personal experience. Asking for someone's name, as sentence one, unless it's a coworker or friend of friend you are being introduced to, is weird. Stopping a stranger on the street, or at a bar, and saying HI WHAT'S YOUR NAME? Is jarring, and socially weird. It's demanding and slightly invasive. This isn't my "playbook" of online res… | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 09:59 PM |
| -2 | You are going to die.Nice speech but "what's your name?" off the bat is meh. You're already demanding something. Don't ask her name until she's earned it. Asking it out of the blue means you're ALREADY invested in a stranger just by appearance alone. It means you want that pussay for looks' sake alone, chicks get turned off by that. Ipso facto, nix the name question. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 06:58 PM |
| -2 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Of course I came on holiday. It's one of the biggest tourist destinations in the world. Good job Sherlock Holmes. Living there permanently to have sex with and exploit dirt-poor 15 year olds enters a realm of creepy and sad I do not wish to enter. I'll leave that to the gray-haired old fucks and uber geeks. I came in early 2009 when the economy and tourism was way down. I was literally the only white guy walking down the street on several occasions. One wrong turn one day, and I was literally a … | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 04:05 PM |
| -2 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Glad you married some hooker but anyway ... yes the 'bill in the morning' does happen, sometimes. Either that or some white dudes are so dense they don't realize a hooker who hangs out at the club (and they are all over every club, even the non whore house ones) when they see one. Of course SOME prostitutes scam you there. Not 'directly' like the tuk tuk guys or the gem shops or suit shops or the ping pong shows. But I personally met a Canadian with a "girlfriend" who was a hooker if ANYBODY was… | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?I felt the American effect was almost non-existent in Australia, and I studied 6 months in Melbourne. American media and culture has saturated the country and Americans themselves are not that rare in Melbourne/ Sydney. I think they believe our accents sound hill-billyish. You did say 'outskirts' which is a huge difference. I spent a couple nights in Geelong --- no one there has even seen an American seemingly, but eh. They're still too culturally similar. Stark contrast to Italy (minor effect),… | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 10:22 PM |
| 0 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Nah, even in the touristy areas, a white person sticks out like a sore thumb. I was at the Grand Palace or whatever the huge castle is in Bangkok (this was 7 years ago). I was wearing a batman t-shirt, traveling alone --- these tour groups kept stop to taking photos of and with me. At the largest tourist site in Bangkok. | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 10:19 PM |
| 4 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?Be careful with Thailand. There are numerous, numerous, numerous prostitutes who will pretend to be "normal girls" until they give you the bill the next morning. They will also try to say "I love you" and pretend to be your girlfriend or make you play "captain save-a-ho" --- they will frequently fuck you for cash. If you don't care about fucking hookers (and paying cheap sums) then go for it. But if you are worried about that, I'd tread carefully and possibly ask (not sure how). Now, don't get m… | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 10:17 PM |
| 3 | European girls I've met are much much friendlier than the American girls, and its throwing me off-balance. Ideas?American here. French girls, German girls, Polish girls .... they all love the American "foreigner." I'm not sure why I came back to America. Family I guess. But yeah. It's ridiculous. Models would be vying to fuck me in clubs there ... I'd literally have to "choose" who I'm going home with ... which has never happened to me before. Ever. In America a girl wants to come home with me maybe one night out of 25 nights out. Warpigs would scoff at me. After fucking French models, a chubby American 6 … | /r/seduction | 21/09/15 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Casual ways to flirt with a bartenderYeah, they all have big knockers in major cities, don't they? Move on. There are hundreds of other bimbos in the venue who won't flirt with you for tips. Although the smiling, friendly, tight-dress, big-knocker bartenders are certainly distracting. By the time you can get one, you wouldn't need to ask on this forum. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU?It's a fine idea, but with that strategy, you need to bolster your chances of a girl opening you (or at least putting in warm approaches). Get lots of hobbies that involve girls. Theater and dance are decent ones that I know of. Build a huge social circle and run social circle game. It's a lot easier than cold approaches. If you follow your steps, because awesome, ripped, have an awesome life, etc ... and play video games in your house all day outside of work, you ain't going to get very far. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Eye contact is literally everything.Disagree. This is "weirdo PUA" training. Some men get pissed or threatened or alarmed if you make strong eye contact them walking down the street (I live in Chicago, plenty of thugs and murderers). My question is WHY do you want to assert your dominance, or "alpha dog it" when walking down the street to strange men? With attractive women, sure, but a loser fucktard minimum wage worker, who's pissed at the world? He's WAITING to get into fisticuffs with everyone and anyone. And you're going to "a… | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to properly present my self if I literally just want to get laid?Go to a bar and look for sluts. For me, online is a waste of time b/c my pics suck. YMMV. Trust me, if you're pulling someone back from the bar at 2-4 am, they sort of KNOW it's not exactly going to be a "relationship" -- like maybe but there's zero expectation. DON'T say 'wanna fuck' or 'I don't care your name' ... some lies have to be maintained. Hit a place with a dancefloor and eyefuck/ grind some chick until she makes out with you, bullshit her (say literally anything, stop trying to 'game'… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me.I'm not saying netflix is great, but .... Hulu sucks. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is overdressing when going out good or bad?Overdressed can easily be bad. Say, suit at a barbecue. You look, obviously, socially retarded but also arrogant. That said, it's nearly impossible to be overdressed at a nightclub with a doorman. Strike that, in the United States. (Some bohemian European clubs loathe ANYONE in even a button down, sometimes, that's an exception). Eh, I lost my train of thought. Actually, you can certainly overdo the dressing up part, like if you wore a tuxedo to some place -- you'd just look like a stiff. But yo… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 10:34 PM |
| 6 | If any ex-girlfriend wants to "catch up" what does that mean?Not necessarily true. I've had exes want to catch up. Turns out they literally wanted to catch up (I was caught with my dick in my hand). They will usually avoid mentioning whatever dude they're banging until AFTER you've agreed to meet them somewhere. Because they know you're a horn-dog, but wanted to dupe you into a "friend" catch-up session. My advice? Just ask her if she's single. Yeah a bit transparent, but eh. If she's actually single, and you've presumably banged her before, then sure, sh… | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 09:28 PM |
| 0 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsThe game is far more dangerous with the 'armor' as you call it. Look up spearing. And second point, no. You're thinking of the NBA post Jordan era. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 02:33 PM |
| 1 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsYa thought wrong, ya dateless pussy. Now spread your butthurt cheeks for my fat hairy dong. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 05:37 AM |
| -3 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsI'm not sure what the bragging is about. You had a clear height advantage, let alone by virtue of your chromosomes, likely stronger and faster. And D2 isn't that shitty, c'mon. So ... like what exactly is the bragging for? You had a clear genetic potential advantage since birth that was not earned by any right. You might as well tell us you beat a kid who was born with cerebral palsy. No one is really impressed, you just sound like an anus. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 02:55 AM |
| -4 | USA's Women's Olympic Hockey team loses to Boy's high school hockey teamsTwo things. 1, why is this sports bullshit on a seduction subreddit? Yes, elite women cannot run as fast, nor are as strong, as elite men. Is this fucking news to anybody? What, do you expect women to not play sports? Or to play with men? (you just mentioned they'd be outmatched) If you played in the NFL, you'd similarly get killed, because you are not the size of a roided out gorilla. I mean you would literally be snapped like a twig and literally killed. 2, Soccer, or "pussy football" as we Am… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 02:47 AM |
| -1 | That one girl that really makes you nervousjust fuck her already ... all you need is some 'plausible deniability' to ask her out somewhere + get you two alone. mix in some alcohol and her clothes will come flying off | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Got this message from a female friend. I fucking love you guysYeah, just don't join The Red Pill. Still a lot of "hate" there ... just a bunch of embittered men who think they have to be 'alpha dog' 24-7 and 'all women are lying bitches and hos constantly shit-testing' | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 07:48 PM |
| -2 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!Agreed. Snowboarding club has better ROI on your time and personality, lol | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 02:28 PM |
| -3 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!Work? Yeah you get hazed for a week. Then 'work' consists of curling beers, dragging kegs, and pretending and failing to clean the shit sty house. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 01:40 PM |
| -6 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!I didn't say they were without merit. Just that it's mostly a social club and party house. You used it to network in college, but you don't realise, having nothing to compare it to, that many people easily achieve the same networks outside of fraternities. I was involved in much college leadership, many groups including women and being far more diverse than the average fraternity that has a culling process and assimilation of values. It's a social club to get some strange, lol. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.Nah. The man who does what he wants without fear of reprisal is supreme. Politicking in public is another matter, but that's different than man's home and castle. I do what I want in my house because I am a god. Restraining myself out of fear of loss or societal expectations is laughably weak. I will cry when the urge may come to me in life, and then I expect a blowjob from my girl, lest she might lose me, and suffer to find a lesser man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 04:54 AM |
| -20 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!Not sure why you're ashamed that a frat is a party center to fuck bitches. That's a complement. Embrace it. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 10:11 PM |
| 2 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!Hate to burst your bubble --- but yeah, it was because Poland. I'm an American and traveled there a few months back. The girls are extremely hot and ... well they are a tad more reserved on the dancefloor but love foreigners and aren't very "feminist" bitchy. So uh... just saying. It MAY have been some of your game, but ... in my case, I had wild success in Poland (and also the rest of Europe to an extent) --- in the US, things are more difficult for me -- a lot. I'm just an average looking whit… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!LOL ... I got to be honest. In college everyone asks "what's your major" for fuck know's why, they want to label you. Even though in most cases, your major is pointless to who you are. Not at the bars (I'm late twenties) -- it's RARE but sometimes a girl will ask me "what er... WAS your major in college?" ... you know what that means? College girl. lol.... No one outside of college asks that question. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 10:07 PM |
| 2 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!I agree with your statement that it's creepy. That said, why would ANY non-brother enter a frat party? It's set up to benefit the brothers and cockblock all other dudes, no matter who you are. BOH-RING. Anyway, after I graduated for a couple years, I did help someone move-in and stay at the frat house for 1 night during move-in day before the long, long drive back. They all knew who I was. Being older than any 'senior' on campus, let alone a frat of mostly sophomores and juniors .... let's just … | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 10:03 PM |
| -4 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!It's okay, looks like someone had to enroll at Rho Omnicron Omnicron Rho (POOP) house. And there's nothing funny about that. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:58 PM |
| -31 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!Despite the downvotes this guy is absolutely correct. Now of course the chodey guys pathetic enough to join "r/frat" once college has been out for years, instead of moving on like the 90% of frat bros who have outgrown the BRAA phase of pre-adulthood ---- will valiantly defend it to the death as more than a social "party center" to make friends and fuck bitches, which is absolutely all it is (and also maybe a vain attempt to pad your resume and 'network'). I highly endorse joining one of the coo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:50 PM |
| -18 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!You coulda done that without the fraternity. You just need a house and a bunch of drunkos. EDIT: Also this 'brotherhood' feeling occurs between any group of guys that spend a large amount of time together, like, if you were ever involved in any high school or college sports team outside of 'frisbee' or some nancy shit lol. Not knocking frats, just that ... well you don't need Greek letters for that kind of bond, especially if you're trying to "force it" to happen. Also their primary purpose is a… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:46 PM |
| 7 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!You work there; that's your out. For the typical guy --- it'd be fairly creepy, especially on a small campus/ private school, to be 27 (I'm 27 and felt weird as an alumnus at 23/24) ... to be walking the grounds hunting for ass. I mean ... okay, it's not ... if you have a reason for being there. I had to go to a wedding nearby one, so that's my "excuse." If there's no "excuse" ... shit ... a girl's going to eventually ask what you're doing on campus ... when you inevitably say 'prowling for ass'… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Seddit a tip on how to not give a fuck!An apple won't humiliate your or have some giant goon gorilla boyfriend come out and beat you silly. Okay, I'm joking, these are overblown fears and I do approach women (although it takes me a few tries a night to get over the fear still) --- point is, apple eating is not approaching in terms of producing any anxiety. Realizing that anxiety is "in your head" does not suddenly mean you have the balls to jump into a box of defanged, venomless snakes because Buddha. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.Some people really need some self esteem, yes, and not be a doormat. Just ask yourself - would I do this for a guy friend? If the answer is still yes, go for it. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 01:19 PM |
| 11 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.Lol. It's beta to not express the ups and downs of life cuz "i'm an alpha man-dog with a dated paleolithic idea of hyper-masculinity, and can't even wear pink without feeling homosexual." Give it a rest. You don't need to hold your tears in cuz an internet message board told you too. I'll let you on a secret -- I haven't cried much in my life ... not for a while ... but when I feel the urge, I do, and I still fuck left and right. So yeah, I do what I want. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 03:05 AM |
| -1 | Girl slaps boy in class multiple times, calls him a bitch, boy hits back. Lets see how fast the hampsters can spinI think she said a no rules fight so when he's doing his 'technical' moves you could break his twig legs or take a broken wooden leg to his eye socket. I don't know. Many men could probably send lil' weather flying across the room with one hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.Why would a 'nice' person carry a woman's handbags? Did both her arms get broken? Again, there's a distinction here. Would you ever carry your male friend's personal items around like a maid, and pay for their shit? Likely not, at least not to when it's clearly exploitative or thrust upon you. So why with a woman? Cuz you're slobbering over her tatta's and degrading yourself. Being nice != being a pussy. Big difference. NEVER carry a woman's handbags unless she's in a wheelchair or worse. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 08:55 PM |
| -2 | Girl slaps boy in class multiple times, calls him a bitch, boy hits back. Lets see how fast the hampsters can spinI don't know, he's a tiny little man pushing 40, and frankly looks like a pussy. I don't think he has any grappling/ MMA training either. And don't even get me started on the Pacquio fight. That was a dick sword fight, not a boxing match. Both of those nancies were performaing a ballet and laughing during the fight, to the tune of $100 million or thereabouts. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Girl slaps boy in class multiple times, calls him a bitch, boy hits back. Lets see how fast the hampsters can spinYeah but that dude is 6'1 and 185 pounds .... Floyd is 5'8'' and 155 lbs. And that guy looks like he has extensive MMA training. His dominance surprises no one. That guy would be able to rag-doll Floyd as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.I don't think being 'nice' turns off women. It neither turns them on, nor turns them off, but obviously everyone prefers a person who is kind and empathetic once the attraction is there. It's just --- it's like if some hairy fat girl was really nice to you. You could like, her a lot, as a friend ... but it doesn't help your sexual attraction really. That's just a fact. Same with women. Being nice, kind, empathetic ... is not the same as being insecure, a pussy, approval-seeking ... or desperate … | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 03:28 AM |
| -10 | Girl slaps boy in class multiple times, calls him a bitch, boy hits back. Lets see how fast the hampsters can spinWell, she said a street fight and Floyd's not a huge dude. Ronda's not exactly the average woman - I believe she could kick his ass in a UFC-style match - Floyd has almost no training in that area. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Finally unsubbing from /r/seduction - thank you for everything.The narrative you're talking about doesn't make sense. First of all these "nice guys" are not the guys going on dates with women. We're really talking about 'friendzoned' guys here --- 'courtship' or putting your interest in the open does NOT happen and that's what allows this "relationship" to happen. The nice guy is doing nice things, favors, paying for shit, listening, whatever ... because boobs. Sex. If this wasn't the case? It would be a REGULAR friendship. You both do nice things and like … | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsYeah I'll have to look it up. I've only had blue balls when dancing/ humping girls for 3-4 hours (clearly they were DTF but wanted to keep 'being out' for a while) or when I've been too drunk to cum ---- not sure if it's 'edging' duration or just hard-on duration ... hmm. I do know that 'edging' does seem to build up a lot of cum in your balls, seemingly. Maybe that's why the orgasm feels better. Problem is, when I do this throughout the week I explode in the woman in about 2 minutes. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I Did ItI can't imagine any grown man or woman ever saying "Go away" to a person --- at least not in a whiney fashion, maybe if a major line was crossed and violence was on the table, even then it still sounds childish. It's one thing to reject a guy harshly, another to say childish shit lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsSerious question although I should probably look online elsewhere instead of here. Does 'edging' cause blue balls, or is that just maintaining an erection for a long time? My blue balls I mean that intense pain in your balls, usually happens when I know I've having sex with a girl but takes us 4 hours to get down to it for some goddamn logistical reason. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I kindly reject? Guys 15-20 please give your opinionIf not interested, come up with the classic "I have a boyfriend" -- you'll both deep down know it's bullshit, but it shows somewhat a degree of politeness vs. 'I'm not interested and you're disgusting.' If you're just unsure ... just say you like to take things slow or something. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 08:52 PM |
| -8 | 1st Date TipsDon't take this the wrong way but 'grab a bite' sounds so dated and geriatric. I'd guess you're late 30s, but I could be wrong. The rest seems fine except for reading too much into 'two drinks' -- in my town, everyone drinks like a fish and it don't mean much. Assume DTF from the moment she walks in anyway, but yeah. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm lost. I have to share this to someone and I think you guys are the best choice.This may be obvious but ... you're already going to the same college ... in a different country ... yikes. ROOMMATES? You must be out of your mind. Unless you seriously are contemplating marriage as a reality at this point, do NOT do the roommates thing. Give yourselves some space. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What is the word for when a guy is obsessive about a girl who's not in a relationship with him?I guess oneitis is the word, 'obsessed' 'infatuated' -- however you can have oneitis even if you are IN a relationship with a woman and/ or fucking her, it's just considered less of a problem (but it can still fuck you up and your behavior). If you're talking about the ring of dudes sniffing around her pussy (but were long ago LBJF'd by her) --- those are usually referred to as 'orbiters' in this community. Constantly vying for her attention, blowing up her ego, trying to cockblock you, 'white k… | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?I feel the pics are more important than the text. Everything sounds more interesting and funnier when the pics do most if the talking. I can say funny and witty shit with the best of them. The whole frame from the get go sucks though. It's like 'amuse me, dancing monkey, for I am a boring chick sifting through dudes.' It's all about the pics on tinder. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 11:57 PM |
| 2 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?Hobbies is an interesting idea. Personally I'm the reverse --- bar scene is far easier than Tinder. Two-fold reasons --- one, my pics suck ass, so there's that. Two, tinder has a legion of literally a million+ horny, ball-less, chode dudes in my city swiping right on everything. Good luck getting through that noise. In a bar I can use my personality and balls of steel (and ability to approach a girl without her saying yes first) ... to my advantage. Both of these are negated in Tinder where I'm … | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 11:04 PM |
| 2 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)EUROPE IS BETTER THAN NORTH AMERICA Lol ... here is the answer. Not just Europe. Asia, Australia --- pretty much ANY fucking continent is better for fucking than North America (maybe minus Africa if you don't like AIDS). I've done a couple tours of Europe as an American and goddamn it was fish in a barrel. One thing I'll say ... although Europe is notorious for being more liberal sexually ... the dance clubs and bars have almost NO grinding whatsoever, which I found a bit ironic. In fact most da… | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 10:58 PM |
| 1 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.alright sounds good -- yeah i get grumpy sometimes, keep on trucking. | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Simple? How insulting. I don't mind an experienced woman, I just don't want to deal with anyone else. Dealing with one person at a time is enough effort for me. I'm happy your tolerance for bullshit is so high. I personally grow tired of shallow relationships where the woman is hot but dumb, annoying, etc. I'm over that, I could just as well use a flesh light. Good that you know what you're looking for I guess. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 11:28 PM |
| 0 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.I meant past partners vs. current partners ---- some diseases take a few days to show up. You'd have a lot of down time, sitting on your balls so to speak, waiting for test results. Who needs the headache when I can find a hot, tight, snapper pussy that is only a 1 BR apartment, not a McDonald's drive thru. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Who's gives a shit, you'll get there. You're really looking at the most attractive women in society and complaining about fucking them. I mean, if you wanted, you could get laid by tubbos and uggos tonight, I guarantee it, but there's not sport in it. Yeah life isn't fair, assuredly, in myriad ways. Do what you can. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?I got high standards, I just pay my maid and bitches to clean my room. Looks like you're a plebeian shitstain with too much time on his hands. Get busy dying making that bed, boy. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:19 PM |
| 2 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.lol. Alright let me try. "Game" here everyone, by Kate Upton. Okay boys, listen up, this is for a guaranteed fuck! Step 1. Go to the bar. Or library. Or DMV. Or cemetary. OR funeral home. Step 2. Make sure your awesome chest/ ass are visible. Step 3. When multitudes of people come to you wanting NSA sex, agree, and get to it! Hope this helps you boys in getting laid! This was "getting laid" by Kate Upton. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:17 PM |
| 3 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Alright devil's advocate. I'd find it much harder to believe that they'd find any one person (i.e. me) as special or unique or "above the rest" in any fashion, even if they said so, and continued fucking the 5-6-?? other people. I'd just be another 'good fuck' that they apparently are getting from a wide variety, and there would be much less stability/ longevity in the relationship, in my view (they might become closer or more 'lovey-dovey' with one of their dickmates). With that amount of partn… | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.I've dates a few bisexual women. To be honest, many of them were into both people, and didn't judge based on gender, and didn't want to "choose" between them --- but all of them (that I knew) leaned towards men and were more serious about men. IOW, some that aren't far enough along on the Kinsey scale would be hard pressed to go a length of time without fucking a man. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:09 PM |
| 5 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.It's far easier for women to get laid. Meh. The sexual market is imbalanced in favor of women (For casual sex, at least. For marriage it may very well be the opposite). Just like some market are buyer's vs seller's markets, or landlord's vs renter's markets, or what have you. I can be a landlord in an area with far more renters than units (say San Fran) ... and then brag about the 100 applications I got on my property, and how I can make insane demands and tell the renter who really wants it to … | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Two very obvious reasons. -1. Evolutionary biology. Not conjecture, the most basic facts. A woman can only have 1 baby every 9 months. A man can have 1 baby every 9 minutes. Ipso facto, a woman has to be FAR more selective in mates. Ah, but this is selectivity, not necessarily length, in relationship. Well, it's also related. A woman has more investment in any given baby (took 9 months to make) than a man (took 9 minutes to make). So she wants to ENSURE that the man will "stick around" to provid… | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 06:59 PM |
| 10 | I've been reading this subreddit as a bisexual girl [F/23] with around 60 sexual partners...and y'all totally changed the game for me. Thank you.Alright due to the moderator issuing a warning I'll try to keep this as dispassionate and respectful as possible. Good for you that this subreddit somehow helped you. However a female picking up ANYONE, man or woman, is lightyears away from a man picking up a woman. Sounds like it wasn't specific techniques here but mainly putting yourself out there + having confidence that is really all you needed. This is true of many girls. Their sexual value in front-loaded in their looks, at least for casua… | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?You're right but it's more of for yourself. And she would prefer it but it's no deal breaker. And a decent mattress is a different matter than a tidy room -- to be honest your clean level is a matter of personality more than anything, I believe, though it's better to clean up for yourself once in a while. Honestly, most women I've been with, even ONS, have lived in quite the messy places themselves. Maybe I'm drawn to a certain personality. And by messy I meant laundry and stuff was everywhere -… | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?at the end of the day, nobody cares about a made bed, or sees it with any degree of 'i give a shit' --- other than you, and possibly a live-in girlfriend or wife. barring a wife, that's just you. So, do YOU give a shit about coming home to a made bed? Knowing that society and women and the king of england don't give a single solitary shit? If YOU like it, go ahead, spend 5 minutes of your morning doing it every day. Maybe you spend a lot of time in your room each day before hopping back into bed… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Best way to learn how to kiss?lots of practice and experience generally, she doesn't run away, she smiles at you, she touches you, she stares at you. try holding her upper back while dancing. is she repulsed by your touch? no? good sign | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Best way to learn how to kiss?I'm no expert, especially in online. Mostly the bars, clubs, and by clubs I mean regular old wild places, nothing super posh with a bouncer judging how cool you are type shit. Start dancing, if she likes you, start kissing. That or just find a girlfriend or fuckbuddy. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?Hmm looked at another reddit thread to see if I'm not crazy. Turns out tucking your bed is actually less hygenic, as there is less air flow, more trapped moisture, and it promotes dust mites. So yeah ... fuck that. OCD bed makers take heed! | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?Exactly. Pointless to seduction, but if you're a neat guy with plenty of spare time who cares about a neat bed you'll be messing up every day, go for it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:59 PM |
| -2 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?it shows a LOT about your standards of cleanliness if you don't bother making your bed in the morning. Personally I think a guy who makes his bed every morning is a boring, vanilla sex guy, in a 9-5 cubicle, plays by the rules, not a lot going on in his life, and is a politically correct pussy who listened to mom a lot growing up. How's that for honesty. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?kids & teenagers don't make the bed, adults with their shit together (you) do empty platitude. No basis in actual female psychology, only your personal psychology. Are you trying to impress her, or is she trying to impress you? Hmm? I'm a busy man, I don't have time to make my damn bed when I'll be fucking in it 12 hours later. I'm certainly not making it for some chick. Maybe Beta dudes tidy up the bed and make it really neat, alpha dudes hey you know what, I'm the main attraction, not my bedro… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:33 PM |
| -1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?guys love to obsess about this shit, but it's pointless masturbation to have that "Tv-inspired" bachelor seduction lair. In my situation, when a girl is coming over alone and/ or in my bedroom, we're fucking even if my room looks like a gas station bathroom, I spend 10 minutes looking for a condom, or some god-awful Taylor swift music is playing. All of which have pretty much happened. In the rare, never before happened case where she does get up and say 'fuck this' --- I guess she didn't want m… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Tips on making my room look mature/seduction friendly?Who cares, at that point you're fucking anyway. Her place. Yeah if it's REALLY creepy kid stuff, I'm talking teddy bears and elmo dolls and cabbage patch shit ... toss it all in a box and light on fire. Just kidding, stuff it in your closet. My boner personally goes from thunder rod to zero instantly if the girl I'm with is dressed in child pajamas or anything 'childlike' at all is around. It's sorta repulsive to me. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Best way to learn how to kiss?First off, how old are you? Secondly, don't overthink it. You think Don Juan or Cassanova or Gene Simmons were practicing kissing at any point in time? Well maybe but not really. Just make out with chicks at often as possible and focus on your pleasure sometimes (only yours) and focus on theirs sometimes. Try variety, shallow kisses, deep kisses, tongue sucking, no tongue, being aggressive, playing coy, pulling away first. Just give it time. A girlfriend usually helps because you simply get laid… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First date in yearsNah, asking is pussified shit. My opinion, I don't care. If clothes are flying off in the bedroom and for some reason you still want to be cautious and verify 'do you want to do this' in a way that won't make her feel bad ... oh christ. Look, I never have a problem understanding consent in the bedroom ...I don't fuck around with drunk girls either ... to me and any non-rapey male with half a brain, it's somewhat obvious. Rapists just pretend they don't know/ or don't care what the girl is feelin… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.I have zero doubt there are offshore investment accounts. I mean honestly, what the fuck do you think Mitt Romney is doing? I'm not dumb enough to get married, so I don't personally have to worry about it. and re-read my post. You're illegally 'hiding' it from the government and taxes. So yes the IRS "says" to put it down. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.The ironclad way is to literally hide money in some offshore account far away from government (or spousal) knowledge whatsoever. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Maybe he wants to handle his own case lol. Just kidding no one is doing that shit fresh outta law school. He'll be raped by the courts and lawyers like everyone else. Talk about trial by fire. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:13 PM |
| -7 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.blame society? Sounds like he married a whore and paid for her shit left and right because he was thinking with the wrong head (his penis). That's society's fault? Also got married (idiot) due to religion (bigger idiot) and letting his life be run by his bitching mother (biggest idiot). he was engineer Makes perfect sense now he's an asshole At what point do you stop reacting to life and fucking gain a modicum of self awareness? For most chimps on this planet, never it seems. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Introverted dudes, old virgins, hope I can say something helpfulI disagree on your "snipe the girls who look like easy sluts" approach. Possibly in some bars or clubs it may be an indicator of who may not have a boyfriend or is sexually available, but it's an awfully big assumption to make. Some girls just like dressing like that. Some VERY HORNY girls are very shy and modest. I feel like every dude in America ALREADY half believes that statement, and it's a crock of shit. Sometimes the scantily clad girls are the most defensive because every single other gu… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives YouI personally don't get asked that question, but if was living a real playboy lifestyle and a girl asked me that, you have a couple options. Obvious goof. "What? Nah, baby I've never had sex in my life, I'm a virgin. I thought you were putting the moves on me!" Similar reversal, calling her a player -- "Takes one to know one ... yeah I know you got game ... I know your plans ... I got my eye on you" ... or "you better not use and abuse me" Who gives a shit. "Yeah I'm the biggest player in town. B… | /r/seduction | 29/07/15 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Going on my first date ever, how to keep it from being a boring quiz show?I'll give you actual advice. If you want to avoid interviews, make these statements. "I am" "you are" "we are" "I feel" .. "you look" .. "I think" Fill in the blank. Accidentally ask a question? First of all, who gives a shit, there will be questions in a first date, it happens. But an improv technique ... add "because ...." at the end of it. "Where are you from originally? ...... because, you definitely look like a country chick. Miley Cyrus fan, am I right?" (goofy shit like this works even be… | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Better Sales vs. Better ProductI agree with this, product vs. sales, and that product should be a priority OVER sales (at least, in seduction). You're trying to sell a 1980 shitbox Mitsubishi to a $30k woman, you better be one hell of a salesman. You're trying to sell a Lamborghini to a $30k woman, you won't have to do much of shit. Now not all of us are Ryan-Gosling millionaire movie star doctors, but yeah. I wouldn't necessarily say it's inner game vs outer game though - I never cared for those distinctions. Product = every… | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 04:51 PM |
| 30 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives YouI never felt shit tests were real. And your post doesn't help matters a ton. Oh, you say you go surfing (not that fucking far fetched) -- natural human behavior, man or woman, is to take your statement at face value unless something indicates otherwise. The way your post reads is that women are constantly trying to catch you in a lie, or prove you aren't a two-face, lying, bullshitting cheater. Fuck. Maybe some women who got burned in the past. But fuck. What a way to live. Constantly trying to … | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 04:28 PM |
| 0 | PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate)A lot of the women you mentioned don't interest me. But to each their own. I'm not hard up enough where I have to fuck people I detest as people, but then I'm a cynic and a bit of a romantic, lol | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 12:19 AM |
| 1 | PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate)This is so lame and transparent. Guys, I'm not arguing ethics, I'm arguing simplicity. Forget the boyfriend destroyers - which is largely a PU marketing term because There's This One Special Girl You Want to Fuck Who Has a Boyfriend TM. How about go after the 1 million horny, single, sexually available young women in a city near you. Not for ethics, because it's much fucking easier. Otherwise, you're essentially banking on the fact that the girl in question is actually somewhat dissatisfied and … | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 06:44 PM |
| 4 | PSA: The BEST BF destroyer (tested with 100% success rate)Lol ... so you alpha dogged what sounds like a harmless pussy, who wasn't a threat from the start. Good for you? Lol ... next up, teach us how to verbally spar against a kid with down syndrome. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Skinny Fat Success with Girlsmeh, not every prefers big 'ol DDs .... shape and nips > size, IMO. Too big (like fat lady tits, even if on an average chick) -- doesn't do much for me. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is seducing at work acceptable? If so, what's the best way?You're likely worried more about the fear of rejection than the fear of NOT getting rejected. Two separate issues. The latter means you know you can have sex, but it's a very bad idea, because you work together, so things may go south, or blow up, and then work becomes unpalatable. You'll probably do it anyway, because ... the dick wants what it wants. If I know anything about the history of man. C'est la vie. | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Is seducing at work acceptable? If so, what's the best way?The problem with these posts is this. Everyone will tell you not to, having done it themselves (Thinking with their dicks). But, ya know, the truth is, sometimes drama happens, sometimes you get your dick wet, sometimes both ... and forbidden sex is the hottest sex. Worst case scenario, you get fired and life moves on. Nevertheless, even granting that it's a horrible idea, anyone who even ASKS this question, which is often, has already made up their mind to "go for it" anyway and just wants just… | /r/seduction | 27/07/15 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Just fucking kiss her!Hey, do whatever works for you, I personally just don't do that. Usually I do a few more steps to test the waters. If we're dancing close, or talking intimately, and she's giving lots of eye contact, you sort of know. Unless I'm getting a STRONG vibe from the girl ... usually we're alone together, late night, we're not saying much anymore ... there's an awkward silence. There's a moment where you just KNOW the girl is begging for you to friggin do something already. It's like she stopped talking… | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Just fucking kiss her!You can try baby steps. I mean there are only certain social situations where you can kiss someone for the first time, usually when you're alone or dancing close together at some late-night venue. Either way, one step before going for the kiss, if you need more reassurance (and generally the girl will seem into you, talking or dancing with you, maybe dancing close, staring into your eyes, smiling) --- you can try an intermediary step, put your forehead against her forehead. It's no guarantee, bu… | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 05:27 AM |
| 4 | Just fucking kiss her!No one's suggesting to kiss a woman who is not into you. As a man, it's obvious when a woman wants to be kissed --- well, let's say, 70-80% certainty. When you're laughing and hanging out and drinking ... and staring into each other's eyes ... not everything has to be verbalized. You have one preference. Me personally -- and many women I know --- have another. For me, verbalizing such a thing (if I did, or if a woman did it --- and yes woman have kissed me without saying anything either) ---- wo… | /r/seduction | 24/07/15 05:15 AM |
| 8 | Just fucking kiss her!Exactly ... girls are usually savvy enough when in close proximity to a guy who they are talking to, especially 1 on 1, at night, or in a bar, to feel some sexual tension .... or at least undertones, even if she is not attracted to you. If she doesn't feel that, or that threat from you, remotely ... yeesh you need to work on some balls. Anyway, point is, she'll gladly turn her head away if she doesn't like you -- you won't catch her off-guard or something, and usually you shouldn't be trying to.… | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 18 | Last night I got the truth handed to me, that I have little to no game"have you ever fucked a stranger before?" No one ever succeeds this direct. Even the top guys say an outright proposition involving the word "fuck" never works. At least not where English is the native language. (foreigners don't have the same visceral 'slut' reaction to the words "wanna fuck" - in my experience - that's a fringe case). You can easily be just as a direct "with a wink" so to speak. "Hey, I think you're really cute ... man .... just couldn't help coming up to you ... I'd REALLY li… | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 10:22 PM |
| 6 | I fucked up, lots of girls im dating all in the same placelol ... yeah this happens but not by inviting two FB's you've been laying pipe to for a while to your birthday party. If OP believes this is a likely possibility, he's in for a rude awakening. I foresee jealousy, cattiness, and throwing shit in his future. Best advice? These girls may or may not know you're fucking other women --- maybe you haven't said anything, nor promised exclusivity. Best course of action is just keep them apart. I'm all for honesty and saying (indirectly) or implying that … | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Go out aloneI've gone out alone repeatedly, sometimes out of necessity in foreign countries, sometimes out of necessity at home because no one wants to go out, and I do. Some of my best nights ever were out alone -- well, started alone ;) To be honest, many people thinks it takes a lot of guts, to go out alone, if you start chatting someone up in the line or what-not. At least abroad. I mean, I'm introverted, but I definitely become more extroverted out alone, out of necessity. When it comes down to it, who… | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 03:27 PM |
| 7 | How do I overcome this feeling I have when I see beautiful women?Yeah it's a catch 22, but as you get older you give less and less of a shit. about most social rules in life. Just hit the gym, wear some decent threads, and act like you're cooler than her, she's hot but kind of a lame dork. Go with that vibe, might help. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What to answer when asked "Are you a virgin?" during question game on the first dateJust say yes, and that you're hoping to kiss your first girl as well. Aka play it off as a joke, but if she half believes you, who gives a shit. Or just say yes, please don't corrupt/ seduce me. I was warned in church about girls like you (make it as playful/ faceitious as possible). Play the "she's trying to seduce me" frame/ game. A little role reversal. Some women are probably turned on by it. If they aren't, they're lame vanilla fucks anyway. Part of being a man is rolling with the punches a… | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 07:17 PM |
| 8 | How do I overcome this feeling I have when I see beautiful women?Not very helpful, but this will go away once you have sex with one ... at least at a level you thought unattainable. Turns out they're just horny beings too, and well ... you don't need to be Brad Pitt exactly ... just the right combination of your best self, and seizing many opportunities, and it will happen. Once you bag one, you feel ... hmm, I got it before, what the hell, I deserve this ... lol | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 07:15 PM |
| 19 | So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar?This will prove needlessly challenging if you are doing night game. Most everyone is drinking to some extent. A girl who is going to make up a rape story after one beer or two would do the same sober. But use your own judgment. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 05:04 AM |
| 23 | ADVICE ON GOING OUT ALONE?I've been out alone 100 times. Stop giving a shit. Why are you out alone? Because you're new in town, or you're alone, and you want to have some fun /get some ass. Nothing wrong with that. Yeah it's awkward towards the beginning of the night, just play the 'new in town' card, even mention that to people ... hey any more cool bars around here? I'm new in town. type shit. If the place is small and well-lit, I'll usually post up to the bar and get a drink and see who I can talk to/ bullshit. I usua… | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 02:44 AM |
| 79 | So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar?The idea of a spectrum rather than a binary scale is crazy, isn't it? But it turns out a few beers won't impair you enough to 'take away your consent' -- a certain BAC level and level of intoxication certainly will, and it's usually plainly obvious. If she's slurring her speech, has difficulty standing and walking, etc ... then you are in the danger zone. I feel like pretty much all guys are aware of this, without having to physically do a BAC test. Girls are generally aware how they drunk they … | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 02:39 AM |
| 19 | I've read so much I forgot what to even do, anyone else?Something I"m reminded of constantly, whether it be improvisation, or pickup, it's said many times: avoid questions when possible. If you must use them, use them sparingly. The why is unimportant, but if you must know: Statements are more interesting, and almost any question can be turned into a statement. If confused start with cold reads, "You look", "you are", "I am", "I feel" .. "we are" ... etc. An improv trick if you accidentally ask a question, is to say "because" after. "Where are you fr… | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Confusing confident men with douchebagsI have never heard of this mark manson guy but he hit a homerun on his answer. I'll have to read a lot of his shit. This guy gets it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Simple exercise to boost your voice everydayListen, I'm a guy with a very deep, resonant voice. I get complimented on it a dozen times a day, in the US and all around the world. Yet, despite that and being in good shape, women are not exactly falling over me. So uh ... I'd like to see any studies indicating that vocal qualities, particularly deep masculine voices, actually make women want to jump into bed with somebody. I feel its overblown bullshit, and that only men believe that their voice needs to be 'super alpha male' or some bullshi… | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 06:21 PM |
| 7 | How can I look better without changing how I look? (I know it doesn't make sense, but stay with me)I think you need to ask yourself WHY your religion doesn't allow you to cut your hair, and if your religion has any interest in you getting your dick wet whatsoever (in most major religions, it doesn't). Then ask yourself --- is some nebulous idea in your head you call religion really the thing that 'isn't allowing you' to trim your beard if you feel like it, or is it yourself? Or it some old dead fuck from hundreds of years ago who wanted to keep everyone under his thumb? Yeah, might be off top… | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 06:14 PM |
| 12 | Raging boners during kino. How do I stop it?!I get hard all the time. If the girl is mildly interested in you, she won't really care either way, may even slightly prefer it. If the girl is very interested in you, she'll like your erection a lot. Kind of natural. | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 12:32 AM |
| 1 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/Tinder100 Tinder dates and 30+ lays from that? I don't know what you're talking about in relation to OP, you sound pretty damn successful. I guess you are 39, so in a slightly different place in life than me (28) ... but do you have any general advice on the initial attraction part --- the pictures and first messages? Just curious --- I do fine at the bars, but absolutely suck at Tinder. Absolutely suck. I'm guessing it's because my pics suck, or my messages, or both. | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl explicitly tells me she won't have sex with me, 5 minutes later I'm fucking her brains out. A story of my first red pill momentWell, when I did it, it was. It was me transparently acting pissed, cold, and pouty because I wanted sex and wasn't getting it, so wanted to make her feel bad as a means of blackmail. Never worked. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Girl explicitly tells me she won't have sex with me, 5 minutes later I'm fucking her brains out. A story of my first red pill momentDidn't seem that unbelievable to me. That said, it was back in my college days when I "pouted" and told girls to leave when they wouldn't put out. I can't say it ever worked. That's just my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 02:03 AM |
| 10 | Girl explicitly tells me she won't have sex with me, 5 minutes later I'm fucking her brains out. A story of my first red pill momentIt's just plausible deniability to not seem like a whore (to you, and possibly any hidden onlookers in her crazy brain). She's well aware she wants to sleep with you. It's just basically the worst, most transparent "hard to get" ruse that they use. I wouldn't even remotely call it a shit-test. Hell, as a dude, I use the same line (credit: some PUA fuck from years ago, possibly that guy Tyler). I often the play the one who acts like he's getting seduced/ "convinced." The last time I used the line… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | On the front page: "Girls of Reddit, what are common mannerisms for a guy that screams low self confidence?"Mystery introduced everything in that book. Still written by Neil though. Trust me, it was a semi subtle insult, said innocently but genuinely. Most mainstream people assume begging means saying 'you got a fat ass you cum dumpster!' because they think neg means negative. It does but not like that. It's certainly not teasing or ball busting. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 01:05 AM |
| 12 | On the front page: "Girls of Reddit, what are common mannerisms for a guy that screams low self confidence?"That's not "negging" though. Almost no one who hasn't read the initial source of 'negging' which was "The Game" by Neil Strauss which is pretty much an ancient text by now --- knows what the fuck it is. It's a back-handed COMPLIMENT. In that the compliment is secretly insulting, thus making the person feel insecure (or that's the intention). The classic example was "nice hair! ... is it real?" implying that it looks like hair extensions. A blatant insult, what you are describing, is not negging.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Debtors prisons are an essential tool of our new public policy (1 in 8 men in jail for child support arrears)Leaving America permanently? Living in Russia or China for the rest of your years? That's a pretty big step just to avoid child support. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Debtors prisons are an essential tool of our new public policy (1 in 8 men in jail for child support arrears)Not to play devil's advocate put your proposed system also lacks sense. From I can see, it involves "pay child support" --- and when it's not paid, the government says "pretty please?". | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Military BootcampYou're arguing the naturalistic fallacy. That because something occurs in nature, it must be right. Rape and murder are the order of nature. Chimps do it, we did it for millenia until we agreed to form government. So uh, try again. Politically all individuals are equal because we decided we give a damn about minority rights, even when WE are the ones with the pants down. A 'biggest, baddest, meanest fucker takes all he can' society is simply the state of nature. Caveman day type shit. It's a reg… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I know this idiocy is common place, and this is low hanging fruit, but this just got to me...I usually think this sub goes overboard on calling people a whore but in this case I fully agree. She pulled a Casey Anthony but dumped the kids on some dope to resume partying or any responsibility instead of commit murder. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 12:55 AM |
| 8 | You are the buyer.Who is the seller and who is the buyer is irrelevant. It's an exchange of goods. One is not more liquid than another in the context of the sexual marketplace. The question is whether it's a fair or unbalanced market, and if unbalanced, unbalanced towards who? People talk about a "buyer's market" or "sellers market" in housing. A buyers market means that are a ton of houses on the market, not a lot of capable buyers. This drives the prices of the houses down and gives the buyers bargaining power.… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 10:11 PM |
| 11 | You are the buyer.The addendum to your analogy is that it's a seller's market. The amount of dicks in the market and will buy anything is much higher than reputable sellers. This artificially drives up the price. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Frustrated and Pissed off. I'm tired of being burned by women.Just hit the gym hard. It's not necessary for pussy but like a cheat code so you don't have to chase so hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenI suppose, although I did have a ONS in college that lasted into a long-term relationship. Crazy stuff does happen --- depends on the exact context, too --- if it's some trashy late night bar, then ... well it's possible you found a diamond in the rough, but not likely. But I think there's more to it then simply how long you waited until sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 04:20 AM |
| 0 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenWell, studies can show and do show just about anything. But I don't know ---- again, I don't turn down one night stands with healthy, attractive women. It would make me a complete hypocrite. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.probably, but let's be honest. It wasn't to teach his friend a valuable life lesson. It was about getting his wick wet from a hot, albeit dumb and slutty (who cares about that) bimbo, then rationalizing it after the fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.I agree with you, I happen to be a millenial. I wouldn't say I'm an alpha, as I want to be, currently, but I'm on the road there. It's definitely an uphill battle though --- we were raised by Baby Boomer women in the 90s --- and there was a lot of societal programming pretty much targeted at the "pussification of the American male" that still prevails to this day. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.Let me paint a picture for you. Instead of discussing your work results, revenue generated, efficiencies gained, areas of opportunity and improvement, objective feedback, numeric KPIs, etc ... in a dispassionate business sense, you instead will have meetings that are reminiscent of old arguments with a girlfriend where emotional bullshit was unloaded on you out of nowhere. You'll be giving questions like "do you care? do you care about the work here?" after putting in 8 consecutive 60 hour weeks… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.yeah there used to be a famous messageboard, probably still is, about just how bleak the prospect of law school is. I personally know people who both succeeded and failed when it came to being a lawyer; the successful one went to a top 10 undergrad, then got into a top 40 law school (obviously better to go to the elite 12) .... but happened to graduate valedictorian and was chief editor of the law review at his school. Some law schools ... say they're not even in the top 100 --- there's pretty m… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.eh, a little harsh to start banging your friend's girlfriend, or whatever that was. unless it wasn't a close friend. even if it was somehow deserved, the point of being a friend is that you like the guy, right? I mean shit. But I guess that friendship wasn't particularly important. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Don't expect people to be on your side as you walk the road to success.Totally agree with the female bosses. I wish it weren't true, and God forbid you ever mention it in front of the PC crowd, but it's definitely true. Every female boss I've had (luckily not now) has been a complete ogre. Your mere existence as a young white male in some cases simply makes the women bosses automatically see you as vying for power, a threat, or a chauvanistic pig who thinks he's better than her, a de-facto bigot, etc. I've had a black woman boss and a fat cow white woman boss, race… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Signs of the EndI'm already an athlete but don't find the need to ship off to the desert to shoot at random brown people because a superior man in the chain of command told me so, and that's that. Most of the ways I make money don't involve my physical labor or body much, no. Theres lots of meat bodies to do that and they typically don't pay that well. Whatever I'll leave the details of the military to the military, I just find the chest beating and fear of a woman nuts enough to attempt ranger school or the ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Signs of the EndAlbeit rarer, I'm sure there are women out who can outlift you, out-sprint you, and out-distance you. In fact this is a certainty. Now, whether they were dumb enough to ship off to the desert to shoot at brown people for shale gas, and hoping their squadmates "break" -- is a another matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 08:12 AM |
| -1 | Signs of the EndOh please. The army and the marines were psychologically designed to SEEM difficult to pass, while not actually being so. Their distance and strength standards are a joke, and I wasn't any type of athlete beyond high school whatsoever. These branches have no interest in actually culling the herd when it comes to grunts on the ground. They just want obedient man-power. Sure, they may cut the people that are grossly overweight or mentally handicapped but that's about it. Sounds like a bunch of cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 08:04 AM |
| -5 | 'Like a Girl,' or how biological differences between the sexes ought to be ignored.I'm a man, but you guys fussing over a non-event like this commercial is the most beta thing I've seen in weeks. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 06:56 AM |
| 29 | How to become Outcome Independent using a Stoic trickSome worrying is an evolutionary response to make sure you don't get yourself killed. If you're worried that building looks fishy and possibly filled with C4, and command wants you to go in there, you better be worried enough to raise your concerns. Pain and worrying and fear are all evolutionary responses that often go awry, but when they work correctly, they are necessary for survival. But yes the idea of outcome independence --- aka only worrying about things under your control vs. not under … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | FR: Mate's girlfriend tries to shame me, I expose her. AKA be the best wingman you can!I actually feel the reverse, unless I misunderstand you. Well, I agree that most, not all, women have bisexual tendencies to a degree, which ranges widely. I believe that men actually think all women have some bisexual tendencies, that they attempt to conceal. In reality, some women lie about or play up how into women they are because they know it attracts men. Even the mainstream media and porn does this. But maybe we're saying the same thing. Lesbians definitely are not attracted to men. There… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Plates and Non-Exclusivity - "Are you sleeping with other people?"She probably did. Well, possibly, who knows. When you purposely leave a relationship in the 'gray zone' -- a girl if she really wants to be exclusive, might do that, if you haven't had the 'conversation.' Anyway, all girls eventually want exclusive relationships to some degree. If you don't give them that, they will all eventually move on at some point. Which is fine, as long as you know what you're getting into. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 07:00 AM |
| 22 | FR: Mate's girlfriend tries to shame me, I expose her. AKA be the best wingman you can!Bingo. I mean, that's how I pictured the convo going down. I would never tell tell a friend's girlfriend, even in some kind of joke set up --- "picture yourself getting rammed by a 10 inch cock." Yeah, you aren't being sexually liberated and edgy, you're just acting socially retarded. Like a line cook talking about his cock ring, only in a white-collar office environment. As an aside, it's an amateur theory to assume that all girls are somewhat bisexual. There is a spectrum of sexuality in women… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The fewer partners a woman has, the better she tends to view her marriage.Not sure what you mean. Why do women not care if a man has "been around" ? Some do, I think. Many women I've been with "didn't want to know" how many partners I've had previously. I think they were afraid it would be high which they wouldn't like. When I told the first women I've been with that I was a virgin when we met, she was pretty delighted. I can only speculate why some men and women care about previous # of partners, from an evolutionary standpoint. I think it's just the same as jealousy… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 02:19 AM |
| -1 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable Offensesand considering who that dude is to you: if he's a business partner, important benefactor, etc. then self-preservation and financial health is a consideration to be had. If all your human relationships are based on their utility, and you view human beings as merely tools and objects to accomplish your ends --- that indicates that you are a sociopath. I believe it's a genetic condition, so you can't be blamed for it, but there it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:54 AM |
| 7 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesOther men are not my brothers. They are not of my tribe. Yes but you are living in a tribal species, and likely living in a city of millions of men and women. Strangers reciprocate kind deeds and are merciless towards offenses. You say you give "zero fucks" about everyone who's not friends or family. This indicates to me you are probably extremely obnoxious in public, at movie theaters, to customer service and waitresses, and are a general asshole who doesn't hold doors open or give up seats for… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:49 AM |
| 4 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesMeh - it's one thing to establish this subreddit as a tool, or guide, and one that the user is free to use based on their morality --- and moral topics being off-topic and not welcome in the forum. It's another thing to simply assert one's own subjective opinion/ moral views as absolute gospel on high, period. I happen to agree that the person doing the cheating is the one responsible. But still, that's simply a moral opinion, and I can see other people feel that knowing the person is cheating (… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:40 AM |
| 1 | The fewer partners a woman has, the better she tends to view her marriage.Doesn't make sense. You can have the ego boost of a bunch of guys trying to fuck you, without it actually happening. If this study were true (didn't take a look at methodology) ---- I would speculate that it's probably because they've pair-bonded more times, and had more intimate relationships, and thus there are more 'comparisons.' It's like someone driving 10 cars, and driving 1, or someone only driving 2, and driving 1. Even if you picked the best of the lot, the person who has driven 10 will… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 01:29 AM |
| -2 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenYes we can sum it down to your last line. No, I get that logic. It's just, that's the outdated logic. That's the logic they believe in the Middle East, India, the Catholic Church, and Disney Movies. All girls have sex drives, to various levels. You ideally want a girl with a sex drive that matches yours --- so if you have a high sex drive, you want a girl with a high sex drive. And low if you have a low sex drive. But anyway, who cares if a girl acts on her sex drive because she wants to, or if … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 03:38 AM |
| 0 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenThe parable is tortured in my opinion just because it's so unrealistic. Mark was infatuated, not in love, 30 times, presumably. Emotionally invested is a better term, because love exists outside of heterosexual relationships. In reality a man who is loose and generous with his love to family, friends, and strangers is considered a saint. Or Jesus. He seemed more immature, naive, socially inexperienced ... to allow himself to become infatuated that easily and that quickly. And, doing humiliating … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The Parable of Mark and LaurenOkay I'm brand new to the red pill (have been studying "pickup" for about 8 years though, so I'm pretty sure I've been 'unplugged' for quite a while). I honestly cannot understand this parable. It's obviously a reversal of sex and love (and a tortured one, because it sounded like Mark was loving one-sided-ly, not exactly possible with physical intercourse). Also, the red pill legitimately believes women shouldn't give away sex easily? That's a confusing statement, since supposedly this subreddit… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/14 10:19 PM |
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